bonjour,
actuellement au mexique, j'ai été victime d'une agression sexuelle dans un bus que j'ai (quelle idiote) pris le soir pour rentrer chez moi.
Sans aller jusqu'qu viol, le conducteur m'a dit qu'il voulait coucher avec moi et m'a plusieurs fois touché les seins, les fesses... et m'a menacé, m'a pris mon argent.
Dois-je porter plainte ou est-ce une perte de temps car ici je ne suis qu'une touriste et surtout, qu'une femme.
Mon employeur connait le chef de la police et va lui en parler, j'ai aussi rencontr'e 2 adorables personnes de la DIF mais je n'y crois plus.
je saurai juste reconnaitre le l'agresseur, et le trajet quíl a pris mais c'est tout
tout d abord je suis attristé de savoir ce que vous avez subi. des lors, je vous invite à etre très prudente par la suite. mais pour l heur je vous pris d aller porter plainte à la police. cella est une obligation afin que la loi du silence soit brisée et peut etre eviter que cet homme ne recommence et que la prochaine fois il detruise à jamais une femme.
j ai deja passé l equivalent de 8 mois au mexique, ma femme est mexicaine et donc je me rends regulierement là bas. il y a 4 mois je me suis fais attaqué au couteau dans un parc par trois drogués. j ai pu temporisé rapidement la situation et m esquiver sans probleme.
quand je suis allé porter plainte j ai été recu comme un ministre. on m a derouler le tapis rouge, on m a traité comme un roi, on ne m a pas fait attendre et les flics se sont donnés du mal pour choper les bandidos... vraiment il y a eu au moins 20 flics de mobilisé. alors qu un mexicain n aurait meme pas eu 1/10 de ce que j ai eu.
tout ca pour dire que nous sommes les touristes. nous sommes les blanc, nous sommes les européens, les riches, les tout ce que tu veux. je ne parle pas en néo colonisteur, ma femme est mexicaine et d ici deux ans j habiterai la bas, mais c est nous qui faisons tourner leur economie touristique.... c est une des trois premieres ressource du pays alors nous sommes bien traité la bas.
resultat; je vous conjure d aller porter plainte.... vous serez bien traité, ecouté et aidé...
ou etes vous au mexique? avez vous un ami ou une amie qui peu vous accompagner???
et surtout courage ne vous laissé pas abattre tout ce paye dans la vie... il payera... alors commencé par brisé cette putain de loi du silence.
Il faut absolument écouter Alex : PORTER PLAINTE de suite. Ainsi tu rendras un énorme service à la communauté touristique. Les mal-intentionnés réfléchiront à 2 fois avant d'agresser des touristes sachant que ceux-ci se plaindront aussitôt à la police.
Il faut savoir que même dans le cas (je ne le souhaite pas) où il n'y aurait pas un suivi correct de l'affaire, tu auras TOUJOURS UNE TRACE (déposition) qui pourrait te servir en cas de problèmes psychologiques ou autres rebondissements tardifs.
Je te souhaite beaucoup de courage.--
ayurveda
Voyager pour combattre la maladie de tous les siècles: L'IGNORANCE !
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si j ai bien compris, c est le conducteur du bus l auteur de l agression, donc tres facile a retrouver
numero de ligne, compagnie, heure, etc...
meme si c est une Combi, pas de probleme
bien sur qu il faut porter plainte
peut etre faire appel a un avocat prive (une fois le type apprehende) pour presente les faits, et s assurer que LA DEMANDA est etablie correctement
beaucoup de delinquants ne vont pas en taule pour vice de procedure
tu peut aussi demander un TRAITEMENT SPECIAL (quelques baffes) pour le gars si tu payes un peu les flics
c est courants, tout le monde le fait
Se réveiller ça ne rend pas hermétique à l'idée de justice.
Le principe de base est de ne pas se comporter en criminel envers un criminel ou un délinquant présumé ; avec ce genre de pratique, toute crédibilité est perdue.
Payer la police pour qu'elle torture un suspect est un crime ; tout simplement.
Ensuite, pour ce qui est de savoir si elle doit se plaindre, seule l'intéressée peut faire le point sur ce qui lui sera plus facile et vivable : oublier cette histoire ou y donner suite.
Et ça dépend aussi de la somme volée, de la présence ou non de témoins etc.
Bonjour, en bon connaisseur du Mexique je dirais oublie cela et passe a autre chose, tu n'as pas beaucoup de possibilités de le retrouver et de le faire
condamner.Tu vas t'engager dans un amas de paperasseries ou tout le monde va te réclamer de l'argent pour faire avancer les choses soi disant.
Et de toute facon la police et la justice étant impuissantes (et pour cause!) tu perds ton temps.J'ai un ami a qui on a volé en pleine rue et en plein
jour une grosse somme d'argent, il n'a meme pas été porté plainte c'est dire.
Méfie toi a l'avenir le soir, prends un taxi de station car meme les taxis vert la nuit sont a éviter.
Bon séjour
Bonjour a tous, merci pour vos messages de soutien. Mon patron en a parlé a son ami chef de la police a qui j'ai remis un rapport. Je saurai ce soir ce qu'il en est. Psychologiquement je suis passé a autre chose et profite du pays mais j'avoue que j'ai besoin de voir que la justice fait bien son travail. J'ai eu de la chance par rapport a d'autre.
Bonsoir, merci pour ton message, le Mexique est un pays formidable et joyeux, aussi si tu as fait une mauvaise expérience dis toi que meme en
Europe cela peut arriver a une femme. Crois moi je ne regrette pas d'etre un homme dans tous les pays ou je suis allé, je n'aurais pas fait certains
voyages accompagné par une femme.Il faut savoir que personne ne croit en l'efficacité de la police au Mexique, les policiers peuvent etre sympa
et compatir mais cela ne va guère plus loin, je connais des résidents permanents a Mexico qui évitent d'avoir a faire avec eux.En fait c'est pour
cela que des automobilistes sont armés, et que certaines de mes amies avaient un petit Smith et Wesson dans leur sac a main. Tu te protèges
toi meme.
Je me souviens de m'etre fait "engueuler" par un membre de l'Ambassade des USA, parce que j'étais tombé en panne d'essence en allant a
Acapulco, et que je n'étais pas armé.Il m'a pris en stop jusqu'a la station et m'a ramené a ma voiture pour etre sur que tout allait bien.Lui
avait un calibre 45 dans sa boite a gants.
J'ai aussi été attaqué dans la montagne, mais tout cela fait une vie bien remplie!!!
"La inseguridad" est un enjeu majeur au Mexique ces dernières années. Ca fait couler beaucoup d'encre dans les journaux la-bas. Il y a une grosse manifestation qui a été organisé a Mexico a ce sujet. L'insécurité est a la hausse et le peuple mexicain est vraiment ecoeure de vivre dans la peur et qu'il n'y ait pas d'efforts suffisants des autorités du pays a enrayé le fléau. L'insécurité des femmes et des enfants est particulierement alarmante. Je crois que les voyageurs doivent connaître la situation au Mexique avant d'y aller. Si vous lisez l'espagnol, documentez-vous sur internet. Vous allez voir que les mexicains sont très preocupes par le problème et que ce n'est pas de la parano.
Cuando en una conversación se habla de la violencia el silencio es absoluto. Este problema proviene de muchos fenómenos como el desempleo y las crisis entre otros. Se ha originado un círculo consecutivo que va de la negación de la existencia de los robos, secuestros y demás por parte de las autoridades y por parte de los ciudadanos de forma distinta que va hacia el miedo de ser víctima.
Las autoridades deben ser responsables de todo lo que les corresponde en nuestro país, pero a la vez los ciudadanos somos responsables de permitir lo que no queremos, nosotros debemos de exigir lo que necesitemos, pues para eso está "supuestamente" el gobierno. Si el gobierno no se encarga de sus asuntos entonces la culpa de alguna forma recae en el pueblo porque es el que no debe permitir la situación y es quien debe de poner un límite.
Uno de los pretextos del gobierno es el del presupuesto, que para poder tomar control de la situación se necesita dinero. Según la UNESCO, lo ideal es destinar 4% del PIB a políticas de prevención de delitos y seguridad, pero en México el presupuesto total en este rubro apenas llega a 1% a pesar de que para mejorar la situación de México se necesita más de lo normal.
El clima de inseguridad que vive México es algo impresionante: jueces que terminan acusados mientras el presunto delincuente confiesa su deseo de actuar en alguna telenovela; agentes y ex agentes policiacos que encubren o encabezan bandas criminales; secuestradores que huyen de su guarida cinco minutos antes de la llegada de la policía, luego de chantajear a las familias de sus víctimas con tácticas horrorosas.
¿Es una película de terror? No, desgraciadamente: es la historia diaria de millones de mexicanos que han perdido sus bienes y algunos hasta la vida por culpa de estos delincuentes. Ante todo, está también detrás un sentimiento que ha llegado a ser uno de los más costosos para la sociedad: el miedo."
pour l'instant rien de nouveau, j'étais partis en week end et quand je suis revenue, c'était mon patron qui était partit en réunion pendant une semaine et qui ne reviendra que demain donc j'en saurai plus demain mais franchement, je ne crois pas que ca va réellement aboutir a qqch.
hi there
I’m leaving on October 1st for Rio, which I’ll be exploring over 10 days while staying in Copacabana and Ipanema.
After that, I’m heading to Ilha Grande, Paraty, and finally a flight to Iguaçu.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Rio. Is it possible to walk around and explore without constantly worrying about getting my phone snatched?
I’m traveling alone and don’t speak Portuguese.
I need GPS to get around.
I love walking and don’t really like taking taxis, which is why I’ve booked two places to stay in Rio to experience different neighborhoods.
But is this doable given the security concerns there?!
In short, can you travel peacefully?
Thanks for your feedback if you’ve been to Rio!
Best,
Hi everyone,
I’m planning to travel solo to Oman in December 2025, renting a vehicle that allows me to camp in certain areas. For those who’ve already explored the country this way, could you share your experiences or tips?
I’d also like to visit the Wahiba Desert, but in that area, I’d prefer a guide for driving and, most importantly, not to sleep in those luxury desert-edge camps but rather have a "wild" escape under the stars. Any guide recommendations? Thanks in advance – Clem
Hi there, I’m Brigitte, 66 years old, fairly active and in great shape. I split my time between the Tarn region and Nantes, have a youthful spirit, and am very easy-going. I’m looking for a woman with a similar profile for a road trip in Southeast Asia—half humanitarian work and half free travel. The trip starts in October 2026 in the Philippines on the island of Panay, then moves on to Indonesia and Malaysia. The journey could last up to 4 or 5 months, as I have no fixed schedule. If you’re cool and friendly, feel free to message me. See you soon!
I’m traveling solo to Armenia in mid-September for three weeks, and I’ll be using public transport. I have a few questions:
- Does Yandex work everywhere, even in villages?
I’m looking for:
- Nice guesthouse addresses in the north (national park) and the south, including the village of Ararat,
and a simple but clean hotel in Yerevan that’s convenient for getting to the bus stations later.
- Any great tips or advice you can share.
Actually, I’m a bit worried I’ll be stuck only visiting tourist sites without a car. What do you think?
Thanks for your help
I’m arriving in Tana on 9/10/26 as a solo female traveler.
Which hotel in Tana is good for the first night since I’ll get in at 10 PM?
What’s worth seeing around Tana?
I’m planning 2 nights in Tana,
then 2 nights in Andasibe? After that, Lake Itasy.
Any suggestions? Thanks
I contacted several agencies in Madagascar to arrange this 4x4 trip along the coast.
Always the same answer: a tailor-made trip with at least 2 participants.
Since I don’t want to travel alone and a friend isn’t available, I’m looking for a woman to share this trip with the agency Mahay Mada, which offers a 12-day, 11-night tour of southern Madagascar. I’m available from August 23 to September 14.
Thanks for your direct response at 0784659791. See you soon, Mireille
I’d love to settle around Da Nang for about a month and explore the surrounding areas in Vietnam.
I’ve already been to this country and don’t feel like rushing around every day like I used to a few years ago.
I’d really like to find some company to stay for at least a month, and then maybe spend a month in Cambodia...
Given that I’m now 76, I don’t want to run around like I used to, trying to see everything...
I enjoy calm people... Those who love life and with whom I can share a beer... And meet people to create a great atmosphere—la dolce vita....
Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
Hi everyone, I’m really keen to visit Iran for three weeks in mid-March 2015.
What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
Thanks for your advice.
Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
Thanks in advance.
Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
Planned arrival on Sunday evening, November 16, 2025, in San José. Staying 3 nights, then taking a bus to Tortuguero for 2 nights. Looking for a shared shuttle to La Fortuna for 2 nights, then a van-boat-van combo to Santa Elena for 2 or 3 nights. Heading to Quepos for 4 nights for day trips using local buses—Jaco, San Antonio, Uvita. After that, a full-day bus ride to Cahuita. I’m booking hotels as I go, which gives me the flexibility to stay longer in places I like. I’m looking for accommodations in city centers near restaurants and not too far from the bus station. Budget: 50 € for a room with a private bathroom (if you’ve got any great tips!). For my finale, I’ll cross the land border to Panama City for 4 days. Thanks for your suggestions! 😉
As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
Battambang – 1 day
Kampong Chhnang – 3 days
Kampot – 2 days
Islands (WE’RE HESITATING WHICH ONE?) – 4 DAYS
Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks