Imagination or reality, fiction or true story.
Everything blends together, and if the characters really existed, if their story is partly true, I freely transcribed what Surya told me in her English as precarious as mine.
Have I already posted this on vf? I can't find it. Maybe on the small forum Wapiti created to continue our wild stories that went on for pages and pages and no longer pleased anyone on vf.
No matter.
I heard from Bavani—life is crazy, isn’t it?
That’s why I’m bringing her story back.
I’m settling into the -miscellaneous- section; I like being away from the noise.
When the house is overrun with running feet, laughter, arguments, and music, I go to the barn turned into a honey house. It’s cool, it smells of wax and honey, and among the disorder of hive frames, supers, and stacked jars, I refocus.
Here, in -miscellaneous-, no one rants. I can let my fingers glide over the keyboard in peace.
Alright, enough digressions.
At the end of the notebook, I’ll tell you what became of this little girl.
Bavani
“Bavani, stop daydreaming, work.”
I’m not daydreaming, I’m thinking.
My teacher is Surya, and she asked us to write a story.
She doesn’t like us—I heard her talking to the teacher in the little kids’ class.
She said: I stay here because the white people pay better than in government schools, but it’s a shame to teach gypsies. Filthy street urchins.
I’m not a gypsy, I’m a Narikuravar.
Grandmother told me: you’re going to this school, you’ll learn English well, and when you come back, you’ll be richer than the others because you’ll beg better from the tourists.
Grandmother makes necklaces and sells them, but often she sells nothing at all.
There are lots of tourists in my town, Tiruvannamalai.
Before, I lived behind the temple with dad and mom. We had our spot and were happy, especially when mom cooked rice on the brazier. Then we’d lie down, and I’d press my back against mom’s huge belly, and it would move inside. One day, mom told me: stay here, I’ll be back very soon. I waited a long time, and neither dad nor mom came back. After a long time, dad came, and we went to Salem to my grandmother, who’s dad’s mom.
I asked: where’s mom?
“Shut up, two was too many.”
“Two what? He didn’t say.”
So I went to Salem to grandmother’s hut, and there was no rice, and Muriga came to get me with his minibus.
Now I live here. We eat several times a day—yellow rice, then white rice to digest, and eggs and bananas.
And we have to study.
Papom *
.../...
Papom: in common language, it’s the equivalent of -see ya-
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Hi there,
I’m reaching out because I’ve recently returned to VoyageForum after several years away. Back then, the forum had switched to "read-only" mode, which paused my participation.
Now, I’d like to update my profile, especially by adding an avatar, but I can’t find the steps to do that. Could you point me to the instructions or guide me to a help page if one exists?
Thanks in advance for your help—I’m so happy to be back in the forum community!
Best regards, JULIE
Now, I’d like to update my profile, especially by adding an avatar, but I can’t find the steps to do that. Could you point me to the instructions or guide me to a help page if one exists?
Thanks in advance for your help—I’m so happy to be back in the forum community!
Best regards, JULIE
Hi everyone,
I used to use the Traveler Buddy app to manage my trips. In this app, you could forward your hotel, flight, event confirmations, etc. by email, and everything was automatically organized so you could easily keep track of your itinerary.
Unfortunately, the app doesn’t seem to be working anymore.
Would you have any suggestions for another app like this, please?
Thanks!
hi,
We’re planning to spend a few days in Brazil and would love some tips. What are the easiest transfer options between Rio airport and our hotel? Where’s the best area to stay in Rio for 3 days? Has anyone used the domestic air pass, and how does it work? How do you visit the waterfalls, and which hotel is best there? And what’s worth seeing around Salvador de Bahia? Thanks in advance for your replies. Best,
We’re planning to spend a few days in Brazil and would love some tips. What are the easiest transfer options between Rio airport and our hotel? Where’s the best area to stay in Rio for 3 days? Has anyone used the domestic air pass, and how does it work? How do you visit the waterfalls, and which hotel is best there? And what’s worth seeing around Salvador de Bahia? Thanks in advance for your replies. Best,
Hello,
We found an English-speaking guide, but do you happen to know a French-speaking one? He’s offering 6 days for $1,700/day per person. There’s just the two of us.
Thanks so much! Planned for July/August 2025 LesBretonsdu56
Thanks so much! Planned for July/August 2025 LesBretonsdu56
Hi everyone,
I just got back from a little cruise that took me to Oslo, among other places. Pure coincidence had it that on April 6th, the City Hall was open for visits, and I found myself surrounded by Norwegians—men, women, and even very young children—all dressed in traditional outfits. Clearly, there was some kind of special ceremony going on, because they all went upstairs for... something? A woman told me it wasn’t religious (which I suspected), but then what was that moment all about? Thanks—I don’t like being left in the dark! Have a great day, everyone!
I just got back from a little cruise that took me to Oslo, among other places. Pure coincidence had it that on April 6th, the City Hall was open for visits, and I found myself surrounded by Norwegians—men, women, and even very young children—all dressed in traditional outfits. Clearly, there was some kind of special ceremony going on, because they all went upstairs for... something? A woman told me it wasn’t religious (which I suspected), but then what was that moment all about? Thanks—I don’t like being left in the dark! Have a great day, everyone!
Hi, could you help me translate this or explain the conversation, please?
Wch nta mzawj ?
Gol
- la - kano Ygolo nta mzwj gawriya
-M telec -O3lch mab9itch m3aha -? -Walo -hadri -Goltlk 3lch Mb9itch mzawj -Mech Araf -ok -nji rtbek -Takhtabni Wsh 3jbtek -eyeh ena -rwah -char9 -chno -ch har9 nhowed hjebtek -wlh mafhamtek Goltli chher 9 nhawedz -eyeh -hhh sf Iwa -ki Bentlec -Zin -dork bin darkom yjiw f sif nta tglas rask frança -eyeh -3lch tgls rask -homa radiene jayene el hem Moilif -hta nta rwah Otwalf Ziin lmoghrib -bledna mliha -mkn hta ljew Zin Dik frança ma9nata -Bzef -waah Rdma dar au chta -walhilaa maktmchich thawes -o fsef y owdo ke tkbro ela inchallah -wah nichan - redi ntka bent ness Hta lrda tsaphi ela rir
- la - kano Ygolo nta mzwj gawriya
-M telec -O3lch mab9itch m3aha -? -Walo -hadri -Goltlk 3lch Mb9itch mzawj -Mech Araf -ok -nji rtbek -Takhtabni Wsh 3jbtek -eyeh ena -rwah -char9 -chno -ch har9 nhowed hjebtek -wlh mafhamtek Goltli chher 9 nhawedz -eyeh -hhh sf Iwa -ki Bentlec -Zin -dork bin darkom yjiw f sif nta tglas rask frança -eyeh -3lch tgls rask -homa radiene jayene el hem Moilif -hta nta rwah Otwalf Ziin lmoghrib -bledna mliha -mkn hta ljew Zin Dik frança ma9nata -Bzef -waah Rdma dar au chta -walhilaa maktmchich thawes -o fsef y owdo ke tkbro ela inchallah -wah nichan - redi ntka bent ness Hta lrda tsaphi ela rir
Hi fellow travelers... I'm going on a bike trip, and I'd like to know if I can exchange euros or Swiss francs in Norway... Can I withdraw cash from ATMs? Can I pay in cash at supermarkets or grocery stores?
Thanks, best regards, safe travels...
Thanks, best regards, safe travels...
Hi there,
I’m struggling to organize this move from my storage unit near Avignon in France to my future address in Essaouira, especially since I’ve already booked my flight with checked baggage. I’d like to ship the rest of my furniture and personal items as soon as I find an unfurnished rental.
Thanks for your advice!
hi there
same old question when you arrive in MOROCCO
where’s the best place to exchange euros for Moroccan dirhams at the best rate?
thanks.
Hello everyone,
Some of you may have noticed this morning that when you’re not logged in, advertising banners appear. We’re currently running tests, which is why they may show up in different formats.
A quick clarification: these ads will only be visible to users who aren’t logged in.
They’re necessary for the site’s survival. A website like VF incurs significant costs, whether for hosting or for the team working behind the scenes—we can’t keep it running on love and fresh air alone.
A member generously offered to help out after François’s departure, but we still need a new developer, and all work deserves fair compensation.
Hervé, from myAtlas, who took over VF, has no choice but to monetize the site to ensure it can continue to exist.
We sincerely thank you for your understanding and loyalty. Your support is essential to ensuring VF’s future.
Thanks to you, we can keep this site alive and continue sharing our shared passion.
Some of you may have noticed this morning that when you’re not logged in, advertising banners appear. We’re currently running tests, which is why they may show up in different formats.
A quick clarification: these ads will only be visible to users who aren’t logged in.
They’re necessary for the site’s survival. A website like VF incurs significant costs, whether for hosting or for the team working behind the scenes—we can’t keep it running on love and fresh air alone.
A member generously offered to help out after François’s departure, but we still need a new developer, and all work deserves fair compensation.
Hervé, from myAtlas, who took over VF, has no choice but to monetize the site to ensure it can continue to exist.
We sincerely thank you for your understanding and loyalty. Your support is essential to ensuring VF’s future.
Thanks to you, we can keep this site alive and continue sharing our shared passion.
Hi there,
Our trip is just around the corner—only 10 days to go!
Quick practical question: what’s the easiest and most budget-friendly way to use my phone while I’m there?
Thanks in advance!
Céline
Hi there!
Every year, I go on vacation with my family (there are a lot of us), and we used to use Splitwise. With their recent updates, we’re a bit frustrated because we’re limited in adding our expenses.
Do you have any other alternatives (preferably free ones)? My son suggested Tricount, but I’ve never heard of it before!
PS: If you have any tips for Mexico City this year, we’d love to hear them!
Thanks!
I seem to remember that the earthquake was located around there. Is the road from Marrakech to Taroudant via Tizi n'Test in good condition?
Hi there,
Back from Sri Lanka, we have some local currency left. This could be useful for you.
Here’s what I’m offering:
1 x 5000-rupee note
3 x 1000-rupee notes
2 x 500-rupee notes
3 x 100-rupee notes
2 x 50-rupee notes
6 x 20-rupee notes
That’s a total of 9520 Sri Lankan rupees, or 31 €.
This way, you can start your trip without having to withdraw money right away at the airport and without paying any fees.
For reference, here are some typical costs:
Bottle of water: 130–160 Rs, tuk-tuk ride: 100–500 Rs, bus trip: 50–200 Rs, meal with a drink: 1500–2500 Rs.
Possible to send in an envelope.
Hello,
As a tea enthusiast, I’m a bit frustrated that I can’t find anything on this topic in the forum.
I’m familiar with the concept of Chinese tea shops where you can stay a while and sample, but are there any travelers here who have experience or tips to share for finding, buying, and bringing back good tea at fair prices? Tourist traps to avoid, expected level of negotiation, good/bad spots (for tea and maybe even equipment), reasonable prices, visiting gardens independently, etc.
Just to clarify: my budget is limited. I usually spend between 10 and 15 € per 100g on Chinese websites.
For my part, I’d love a closer look at these areas:
Hangzhou and the entire West Lake area for Longjing and maybe Anji bai cha Huangshan and Tangkou for Huangshan mao feng and Qimen/Keemun. Wuyi for yan cha (oolong rock teas) and jin jun mei Xiamen and Anxi for Tie guan yin and white teas (Yin zhen, Bai mu dan, and Shou mei) Shanghai for… everything!
Thanks.
As a tea enthusiast, I’m a bit frustrated that I can’t find anything on this topic in the forum.
I’m familiar with the concept of Chinese tea shops where you can stay a while and sample, but are there any travelers here who have experience or tips to share for finding, buying, and bringing back good tea at fair prices? Tourist traps to avoid, expected level of negotiation, good/bad spots (for tea and maybe even equipment), reasonable prices, visiting gardens independently, etc.
Just to clarify: my budget is limited. I usually spend between 10 and 15 € per 100g on Chinese websites.
For my part, I’d love a closer look at these areas:
Hangzhou and the entire West Lake area for Longjing and maybe Anji bai cha Huangshan and Tangkou for Huangshan mao feng and Qimen/Keemun. Wuyi for yan cha (oolong rock teas) and jin jun mei Xiamen and Anxi for Tie guan yin and white teas (Yin zhen, Bai mu dan, and Shou mei) Shanghai for… everything!
Thanks.
We're planning a trip to Vietnam with La Palanche, a travel agency in Hanoi. If anyone here has used them, could you share your experience with this agency, please? Thanks
Huge disappointment. I’d seen that Friendly Shoe Shop was recommended by a blog. I went there with the intention of buying a small leather backpack. I visited once for a look around, then went online to compare prices with shops in Europe, like Marius, which specializes in leather. I realized that for the same price ($145 US), I could find the same thing in Paris. I went back to Friendly Shoe Shop and tried to see if it was possible to negotiate. The saleswoman immediately reacted. With a smile, she took the bag, put it back on display, and told me: "If you want to negotiate, go to the market!" Basically, she was telling me to get lost. You can easily apologize by saying prices are fixed and non-negotiable, but it’s unacceptable to react that way when the prices are excessive. It’s really taking tourists for a ride.
When you know the cost of living in Vietnam, this price is nothing short of a scam. I’m not questioning the quality of the product. If the workers were paid 3 or 5 times the normal rate, I wouldn’t mind. But there’s no indication that’s the case.
In summary, in Hoi An, you have the choice between: - Quality shops where you’ll pay the same price as in a European capital, which gives the owner a huge margin since they don’t pay import taxes, transportation costs, and manufacture directly, etc. - Counterfeit shops where you won’t pay much for mediocre quality.
Friendly Shoe Shop has nothing friendly or fair about it. It’ll suit people who travel for two or three weeks, have the means, and want to say when they get home that they bought a bag or shoes in Hoi An. For everyone else, there’s nothing fair about it…
When you know the cost of living in Vietnam, this price is nothing short of a scam. I’m not questioning the quality of the product. If the workers were paid 3 or 5 times the normal rate, I wouldn’t mind. But there’s no indication that’s the case.
In summary, in Hoi An, you have the choice between: - Quality shops where you’ll pay the same price as in a European capital, which gives the owner a huge margin since they don’t pay import taxes, transportation costs, and manufacture directly, etc. - Counterfeit shops where you won’t pay much for mediocre quality.
Friendly Shoe Shop has nothing friendly or fair about it. It’ll suit people who travel for two or three weeks, have the means, and want to say when they get home that they bought a bag or shoes in Hoi An. For everyone else, there’s nothing fair about it…
Hi everyone, I’m not sure if you can help us out. We’ll be in Venice from June 8th to 17th. We arrive at the airport on the 8th and planned to take the Alilaguna waterbus to St. Mark’s Square to get to our Airbnb. We’ve estimated arriving at St. Mark’s Square between 11 AM and 12 PM. We didn’t realize we’d be arriving on the day of the race.
Because of the Vogalonga race taking place on June 8th, is the Grand Canal still navigable? If not, from what time will it be accessible again?
Thanks, Jacques
Because of the Vogalonga race taking place on June 8th, is the Grand Canal still navigable? If not, from what time will it be accessible again?
Thanks, Jacques
Hi there,
Everything’s in the title. For those who’ve already been to South Africa, I was wondering if our French type C plugs work with the sockets you’ve encountered in your accommodations there. Apparently, South Africa uses types D, M, and N, and type C plugs are only compatible with type N sockets.
Do accommodations mostly have type N sockets? Or are they mostly D and M, which would mean buying an adapter?
Thanks for your replies!
Hi,
Disconnected from all browsers, on all devices (but of course logged back in to post this message), I still appear online and active.
What I mean is, when I refresh (while logged out) the "who's online" page, my profile doesn’t move down the list... it even regularly jumps back to the top as if I were active on the site.
I’ve checked several times...
Any explanation?
What I mean is, when I refresh (while logged out) the "who's online" page, my profile doesn’t move down the list... it even regularly jumps back to the top as if I were active on the site.
I’ve checked several times...
Any explanation?
What are your positive and negative experiences with dental implants in different countries around the world? Looking for something like 4-5 dental implants, good quality-to-price ratio.
Thanks.
Thanks.
Hi,
I’m thinking of using GPS on my phone for a trip from the Peloponnese to central and northern Greece, as well as Cephalonia and Paxos. Based on the local networks, does this seem doable, or should I get a pocket Wi-Fi or something else? Thanks for your help
Hello,
I got a traffic fine for an offense in the state of SP, but I don’t remember why…
The receipt says: EST.VEI.NOS ACOST
I have no idea what that means—anyone know?
Thanks
I got a traffic fine for an offense in the state of SP, but I don’t remember why…
The receipt says: EST.VEI.NOS ACOST
I have no idea what that means—anyone know?
Thanks
Hi there,
We’re heading to Salvador de Bahia (which we already know) for 15 days in February 2011. We’d like to spend 3 days either in Mangue Seco or on the Marau Peninsula.
We’re torn because we’ve only found pretty basic info in the guidebooks about these two spots. We’re worried Marau might be really touristy and overdeveloped, but on the other hand, getting to Mangue Seco seems super complicated.
What do you think?
Thanks!
Bernard
We’re heading to Salvador de Bahia (which we already know) for 15 days in February 2011. We’d like to spend 3 days either in Mangue Seco or on the Marau Peninsula.
We’re torn because we’ve only found pretty basic info in the guidebooks about these two spots. We’re worried Marau might be really touristy and overdeveloped, but on the other hand, getting to Mangue Seco seems super complicated.
What do you think?
Thanks!
Bernard
Hi everyone,
I’m spending 15 days in South Korea.
I’d like to know how I can get a guitar while I’m there.
Since I’m a guitarist, I’d love to keep playing while I travel around the country.
Thanks for your help!
Have a great day,
Titi
Hi
I’d like to know if anyone has used a Revolut Visa debit card to pay in Wyoming and Utah and whether it’s widely accepted.
Thanks
After more than 11 years, I’ll be returning to Vienna soon. I remember from my last visit a beautiful restaurant with columns and stunning vaulted ceilings near the "Am Hof" square, but unfortunately, I’ve forgotten its name. Does anyone have any idea which restaurant I’m talking about?
Hi, where can I find multicolored bougainvillea seeds in Chiang Mai or Bangkok, please? Thanks so much and have a great day!
Hi,
I just got back from Argentina and I have some cash left that I didn’t have time to exchange.
Get in touch if you're interested!
Thanks
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