N'ayant jamais vraiment voyagé seule et suite à mes deux derniers voyages en Inde et au Guatémala accompagnée d'une amie, nous avions eu l'opportunité de rencontrer des gens ( locaux et voyageurs confondus ) avec qui nous avions passées d'excellents moments. Quand je me baladais de mon côté en Inde, je sympathisais beaucoup avec les gens ( parmi eux, plus d'hommes que de femmes pour ne pas dire uniquement que des hommes ), qui m'invitaient souvent à déjeuner et me rendre chez eux.
J'ai toujours cogité sur le fait que l'on me disait de ne pas faire confiance aux hommes, étant seule ( quand j'avais besoin de solitude ) à cause de la fameuse réputation de personnes qui recherchaient un visa pour l'Europe, qui pouvaient abuser de la situation ( somnifère dans une boisson ou nourriture ) et je ne sais quoi d'autre 😕. Je ne crois pas qu'il faille négliger tous ces détails mais je me dis seulement que j'ai peut-être raté un formidable moment en refusant à chaque fois de dîner avec des locaux, tant la méfiance était grande et me contentait d'une belle conversation sur le pas d'une porte ou de leur magasin ou au restaurant...
Comment faîtes-vous, vous qui avez voyagé, voyagent et vont voyager seule pour envisager cette situation ? Est-ce que vous suivez votre instinct focalisé dans la magie du voyage et donc de la découverte pour accepter de vous rendre chez un habitant qui vous propose un repas ?
Est-ce que je passe à côté de quelque chose ?
Votre point de vue me rassurerait et me remettrait en question, merci... 🙂
Comme toi, quand j'ai voyagé seule, j'ai été plus souvent abordée par des hommes que par des femmes. Et je peux te dire que cà se passe aussi dans les pays plus développés. Il m'est arrivé une fois une petite mésaventure dans le bus entre Sydney et Brisbane. Rien de bien méchant, mais le gars en question aurait bien eu envie de me faire découvrir un peu plus que les kangourous et le désert rouge ...
En général, je n'accepte pas les invitations à déjeuner, ni d'aller leur rendre visite dans leur ville. Je me dis aussi que je rate peut-être quelque chose mais je préfère jouer la sécurité.
Pourtant, quelquefois, quand tu ne maitrises pas bien la langue du pays, tu te retrouves embarquée dans des situations que tu ne contrôles pas et tu es bien obligée de suivre. Après, à toi de voir, selon le contexte, jusqu'où peut aller la confiance. Le problème, c'est que notre méfiance est là, je me souviens dans les souks de Marrakech, nous étions pourtant 2 (un gars et une fille) et notre guide voulait nous emmener dans le "vrai" Marrakech, des rues étroites sans personne. Nous avons fait demi-tour.
Je ne suis pas sure que mon point de vue te fasse remettre en question, et j'attends impatiemment de lire d'autres posts qui me contredisent.
Je suis du même avis que toi en affirmant que ça peut se passer ainsi dans les pays développés 😉
Quand je parle de voyage avec les gens et qu'ils me racontent tout ce qu'ils ont fait, ça me donne tellement envie... A la différence que ces personnes qui vont chez l'habitant, se font inviter à dîner sont des mecs... C'est pour ça que cette pensée me trotte dans la tête lorsque je vois leurs visages exaltés mais je réalise bien qu'il y a des écarts entre les deux sexes... Je n'affirme pas qu'il n'arrive jamais rien aux hommes mais je pense qu'ils ont tout de même moins de chance d'être embêtés que les femmes d'autant plus qu'en Inde par exemple, les mains baladeuses j'en ai vu passé d'où ma méfiance et malgré de bonnes discussions avec les hommes locaux !
J'ai lu par exemple dans ce forum le carnet d'un type qui est parti en Russie et franchement, ça faisait rêver ! j'aimerais vivre de telles émotions mais je ne pense pas que j'aurais la même volonté car comme tu dis, la sécurité prime avant toute chose !
Je suis bien d'accord avec Voyageuse13, les invitations d'hommes sont rarement innocentes, mais ca arrive! Je me souviens de cet indien travaillant dans un bureau de la compagnie de train. Il m'a proposé de venir chez lui après son boulot, il me presenterait à sa femme et à ses trois enfants... Il m'avait déjà offert la moitié de son lunch, et je devais attendre encore qques heures. J'ai pas dit non, et je ne l'ai pas regretté! :) Ou alors cette Thailandaise à Bangkok, l'express boat n'arrivait pas, nous avons commencé à papoter, je lui raconte qu'avant de (re)venir en Thailande j'étais en Egype, et elle me repondit qu'elle aussi avait habité l'Egypte! Trois jours après, j'allais passé l'après midi chez elle, c'était génial! :) Ou Kim, et aussi Cesca, anglaises vivant à Sydney et rencontrées l'une à Bangkok, l'autre en Inde, qui m'ont superbement accueillie à Sydney des mois plus tard. Aussi un sympathique blabla des mains avec des villageoises indiennes, (sur le quai ou dans la salle d'attente réservée aux femmes et enfants) attendant le même train que moi et qui n'arrivait pas. Et j'en ai encore plein des histoires de rencontres avec des locaux. J'ai toujours fait confiance à mon sixième sens, et c'est vraiment rare les fois ou j'ai eu des problèmes, il m'en est arrivé autant en voyage, que chez moi dans "ma" ville!!!
Quand je rencontrais une grosse araignée, j'appelais les voisins; un serpent, j'appelais le mec du guest house (en hurlant ok j'avoue;)); le seul pays ou on m'a volé mon passeport, c'est chez moi en Belgique. Enfin, là je m'égare, mais des rencontres avec des locaux, ok faut se méfier, mais pas beaucoup plus qu'en voyage en Europe... Avis perso bien sur.
Il fallait que je réalise mon rêve, j'étais malade sinon! ;) Personne pour partir avec moi, tant pis. Le premier pas est pas évident, on s'inquiète, on a peur, on se pose plein de questions, puis le pas une fois franchi... Waouh... Depuis, j'essaie de ne plus m'arrêter!🙂
Allez y! Foncez! Bon voyages!!! 😎
Fainéanter dans un monde neuf est la plus absorbante des occupations... (N.Bouvier)
Ce qu'il y a de bien quand on vient sur ces forum, c'est que, d'une part, on s'aperçoit qu'on n'est pas seul à avoir les mêmes soucis (quels qu'ils soient), et que d'autre part, on a des témoignages d'autres personnes qui ont dépassé ces soucis.
Alors, on se sent plus en confiance pour foncer.
C'est une banalité, mais c'est bien de le dire de temps en temps. Merci.
Je t'avoue que je suis un peu perplexe... Des anecdotes avec des femmes, je m'en souviens comme si c'était hier, en particulier les enfants avec qui j'ai eu d'excellents rapports également... Devrais-je songer que l'habitude du voyage développe ce fameux sixième sens ? A méditer... En tout cas, merci pour ton post 🙂
tu n'as pas besoin de developper le 6eme sens, on l'a tous en nous, il s'agit juste du faít que l'on ne s'en sert pas tant que ca dans la vie courante lorsque l'on a nos reperes, et nos habitudes.
lorsque l'on est en territoire inconnu, on est plus alerte....de la on peut vraiment etre plus attentive et ecouter cette petite voix qui dit interieurement si ce qu'on est prete a faire est une bonne idee ou non.
tu peux en effet passe a cote de supers occas en refusant des invit de gars...mais le risque est toujours a prendre en compte....alors aller dejeuner ou meme au resto pourquoi pas..aller chez lui est une toute autre histoire.
par contre je comfirme meme dans notre propre civilisation c'est tres courant on y est toutes confrontees.....il suffit aussi de rester zen..une fois que tu te mets a observer les mecs qui font la meme chose dans ton entourage tu t'appercevras que c'Est la meme technique utilisee a chaque fois....apres tu pourras voir venir....
les irlandais sont tres faciles a observer......😛
life is like the ripple effect, change one thing in a place and it will change the whole course of the universe
Mdr tu m'étonnes !!! Toi qui vis aussi en Irlande, je peux te raconter une petite anecdote 😄 je ne sais pas si tu connais Clifden dans le Connemara, il y a une longue route d'où tu peux voir un paysage époustouflant au sommet et cette route porte d'ailleurs le nom révélateur de Sky Road. J'avais décidé de le faire à pied pour une belle balade et pas trop tard pour ne pas la redescendre à la tombée de la nuit. Certes, je pense que cela aurait été faisable si je n'avais pas vu en contrebas le château de Clifden et si je ne m'étais pas fait coursée par un chien !!!!!!! mdr le vieux propriétaire s'était excusé et m'avait proposée de boire un Irish Coffee... chez lui.
" La classe " me disais-je... Mouais, on discutait beaucoup et comme il était âgé, il me racontait des anecdotes de jeunesse qui me faisaient bien rire... Jusqu'à ce qu'il me tende ses lèvres et me demande de l'embrasser !!!! J'ai pris mes clics et mes claques sans me faire prier et j'ai couru hors de la maison !!! Pourtant mon 6ème sens me disait que c'était un gentil papy...😏 mais ce qui est bizarre, c'est que j'aurais plus cette tendance à faire confiance en Europe qu'ailleurs...
Hihi, faudrait que l'on se voit en Irlande pour discuter de ces fameuses techniques dont tu parles mais il est vrai que c'est très flagrant mdr. Merci pour ton avis Siam !!
mais je te rassure un copine a moi suisse a eu pratiquement le meme truc qui lui est arrive lorsqu'elle sortait avec un irlandais et vivait avec lui ds un petit village dans la region de west cork.....le meme type de papy......j'etais morte de rire qd elle me l'a racontee😄😄.
je connais clifden de nom mais sans jamais y avoir ete.
bon il ne faut pas generalise, les irish sont des gens tres gentils....il y en a des bien aussi, mais il est certain que les mecs ont des fois des tendances mal placees....
mais souvent on ne pense pas que les plus ages aurait un esprit tordu...on se mefie toujours plus des jeunes..mais un mec reste un mec......je te donne un truc que l'on a remarque avec mon boss et ami (je dis bien ami)
les mecs et les nanas c'est comme les chiens et les chats.....ils se comprotent exactement de la meme facon quand ils se rencontrent alors regarde un chien et un chat interagir...et tu sauras quels sont les signes.....qui indiquent ses intentions ou les tiennes!
au passage les chats sont feminin, les chiens masculins...sur le plan humain...c'est impressionnant ce qu'on peut apprendre des aminaux...et ca croie-moi les anciens irish gealics l'on bien compris😉😇.
mais ouai pk pas se voir.je vais aller en france bientot je passe par shannon...ou tu peux tjr descendre si tu ne connais pas le kerry
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life is like the ripple effect, change one thing in a place and it will change the whole course of the universe
au passage les chats sont feminin, les chiens masculins...sur le plan humain...c'est impressionnant ce qu'on peut apprendre des aminaux...et ca croie-moi les anciens irish gealics l'on bien compris
Ah je l'ignorais, faudrait que je leur demande à mon retour 😛
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Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
Hi everyone, I’m really keen to visit Iran for three weeks in mid-March 2015.
What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
Thanks for your advice.
Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
Thanks in advance.
Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
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As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
Battambang – 1 day
Kampong Chhnang – 3 days
Kampot – 2 days
Islands (WE’RE HESITATING WHICH ONE?) – 4 DAYS
Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks
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There are two of us (women).
We don’t know this country at all.
What cities or affordable spots would you recommend for visiting?
Cheap accommodation.
Looking for community-based options.
And being close to public transport.
Thanks for your tips and experiences!
Best regards.
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Hi again,
I’m adding more details to my info request. Here are two proposed itineraries. We’re hesitating:
Colombo - Unawatuna 2 days - Sinharaja 1 day - Bandarawela 2 days - Kandy 3 days - Dambulla 2 days - Wilpattu Park 1 day - Kalpitiya 3 days - Negombo 1 day
What should we change or add a day for to include Jaffna?
Or:
Negombo 1 day - Anuradhapura 2 days - Jaffna 2 days - Sigiriya 2 days - Dambulla 1 day - Kandy 2 days - Ella 1 day - Galle 3 days
For your advice.
Is it better to finish in Galle or Kalpitiya?
Thanks in advance!
Nicole
This is a warning message! I’d like to address it especially to young women traveling alone for the first time in India. Other travelers may react to my post based on their own experiences, but I think what I’m about to say shouldn’t be taken lightly—unless that’s what you’re looking for!
Last July, I traveled to Northern India. I stopped in Khajuraho to see the famous tantric temples. I stayed one night, and that was more than enough. Khajuraho is very touristy, but you should know that 80% of young Indian men there are "gigolos." Locals call these young men (aged 18 to 30) "playboys" or "Lapka" (which means "capture the woman" in Hindi)!!!
They approach tourists with kindness and politeness, offering tea or a motorcycle ride (which they’ve often gotten from generous Western female tourists) to waterfalls a few kilometers from Khajuraho or other tourist sites. After befriending you, they charm you—be careful, these are professionals who are very skilled at this; it’s all they do, and they do it well. They’ll offer you food, drinks, and even temple entry to confuse you. They’ll suggest spending the evening or even the night with them. **Refuse (unless you’re into local flings and that’s why you came)!!!!**
At first, you’ll be seduced by their generosity, let your guard down, and then they’ll make you believe in *true love*. They won’t leave you alone and will keep in touch via email or phone if you give them your details. The lines they use to soften you up and scam you include: *"I’m the only one taking care of my family, my brother is sick, I don’t know what to do..."* All of this is to manipulate you into offering them money. They’ll never ask for it outright (to avoid being exposed) but will wait for you to suggest it.
If you receive emails from them, they’ll never be signed, and their name won’t appear in the email address (to avoid leaving traces). They use fake names to avoid being reported. If you believe their sob stories and offer help, they’ll give you a bank account number to send money via Western Union. These young men make a living from this—selling their bodies and scamming people! They’re very skilled, charming, manipulative, and *big-time cheaters*!
(Especially one young man who goes by the alias *Tony*—apparently the most skilled. He lives in a hotel near the lake, *Krishna Cottage*, and is in regular contact via Skype with Western women he’s tricked into believing he loves them while shamelessly scamming them. He even opened an internet café on the roof of the hotel with money he stole from women who fell for his charm.)
So, young romantic women craving love, sensitive singles, or anyone emotionally vulnerable—**don’t let yourself be scammed!!!** This behavior is becoming more common in India and is still relatively unknown. Male prostitution is on the rise, and cases of romantic scams and financial fraud by gigolos are increasing.
hi everyone! I’d like to visit Montreal and the surrounding areas in August, and I’ve got 3 weeks of vacation. I’m traveling alone and will be visiting my daughter, who recently moved there. She’ll be working and only available in the evenings! So I’m torn between spending a week in Montreal, then taking a flight to Cuba, and returning to France from Havana—or staying in Montreal and exploring the nearby areas alone.
For my first idea—going to Cuba—is it feasible in terms of administrative formalities and legality? And for my second idea, is it possible to take buses? If so, is it too expensive? And are there many places served by them?
From FES, I’d like to spend a few days in:
MEKNES
CHEFCHAOUEN
TETOUAN
and then return to FES.
I’m planning this trip in November.
Thanks for your tips!
I just got back from an unforgettable road trip in Madagascar where I drove down the legendary RN7. It connects Tana (the capital) to Tulear.
Since we were traveling as a group of girls, we decided to go with a guide. I’d never done an “organized” trip before, but I have to say we loved this first tailor-made travel experience.
From the highlands of the Red Island
down to the west coast, by the Mozambique Channel.
Vast landscapes as far as the eye can see
Human encounters
Discovering ancestral artisanal know-how
Sunsets over the ochre mountains
Intense, precious moments with my friends
We loved the mountains, visits to artisans, and the parties too ;-)
We used local guides to show us specific spots (like Isalo National Park, where we were able to bivouac)
Hi there,
My friend and I are traveling together between October and November 2025—no exact dates yet.
We’d love to step away from the typical travel agency packages and are hoping to rent a car locally and stay with locals, living with them rather than in a vacation rental.
Does anyone know if this is possible?
Thanks in advance for your advice and tips!
Warm regards to all