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Montagnard74 · 2025-02-17 · Message 81 of 143

There we go! Well done! Sorry \nShall we talk about it again in a year or two?\n\nIf I understand your underlying message correctly, I should never have shared this great spot.\nIf travelers on the forum thought that way, I would sadly never have discovered this place 😛[;]\n\nA controversy over 2 rupees...

Fortunately, we can share our great tips with each other...\nFirst, because it can help the owner grow, which is still the foundation of a business, and it lets us discover magical places...\nAnd if the places are no longer magical because they’ve been developed haphazardly, we’ll find others! That gives us a reason to come back, right? [;]

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Solene40 · 2025-02-18 · Message 82 of 143

" Controversy for 2 rupees"

Totally agree with you, Bruno. It’s not like VF has the audience of TF1’s evening news 😄. And the casual readers won’t be many to dig up the "hidden gem" in the middle of this travel journal. So thanks for the gift, Kate and Richard 😊

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Chantal11 · 2025-02-18 · Message 83 of 143

And how did you find this gem, Kate 😄?

On the blog Mi-fugue, mi-raison 🙂

Hey Kate, I loved their blog but for Mexico. I also bought this powdered chai and meh 😅😅😅

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Aleph240758 · 2025-02-18 · Message 84 of 143

Totally agree with you. What’s the point of our travel journals if we don’t share our amazing discoveries—and here, it might even help a family by bringing them a few new customers.

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Pagaljavab · 2025-02-18 · Message 85 of 143

Hi Marie-Chantal from Villemoustaussou (I was from Montreal!)

I agree with you. I brought back this chai during my first trip to India, and I’d even go further than "meh" 😄

Kate, nothing beats making it yourself, and it’s not very complicated either!

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Kate · 2025-02-18 · Message 86 of 143

Hi Chantal and Pagal

So you’re (or were) neighbors 😉 I’ll try that tea, but for now, I’m savoring the flavor and memory of the real thing! !

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Marien33 · 2025-02-19 · Message 87 of 143

Totally agree with you. What would be the point of our travel journals if we didn’t share our amazing discoveries?

Down with the donkey! Thanks, Marie Jo. I never said we shouldn’t share great tips among travelers. I just advise being selective, and the best way to do that is to share good deals and addresses in private messages with those who are genuinely interested and in the spirit of the place. Besides, I’m not the only one who thinks this—it’s often been written here on VF over the years. Sorry, I was just hammering home the point about this advice. As I keep saying—incidentally—don’t get emotional and give money to beggars or candy to kids. One piece of advice is as good as another. There’s never been any controversy here. It’s just a different tip. No need to make a big deal out of it. You seem to forget that everything we write here can end up online in minutes, read by thousands of people via Google’s search function—and thus by anyone, including people who have nothing to do with VF. I wasn’t talking about individual travelers—thanks for not twisting my words. I was talking about all the professionals who, contrary to what you think, are on the lookout for the great tips we share out of friendship, only to claim them for themselves—not out of friendship, but for commercial purposes—just like our photos, by the way. And yes, a place or a good address can change completely within a few months from what we recommended.

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Marien33 · 2025-02-19 · Message 88 of 143

I’ve fallen for this kind of well-meaning advertising myself. Back in the 80s, I was running a table d’hôtes—kind of upscale—in a touristy area. One day, a group of campers signed up. They were so happy with their evening that they plastered the campsite with glowing reviews and posters. It brought me loads of customers. I was thrilled. But little by little, my "fame" started attracting all sorts of "Bidochons"—rude, poorly behaved folks who acted like pigs in my home. I eventually had to get all the reviews taken down from the campsite to stop that kind of crowd from showing up.

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Marien33 · 2025-02-19 · Message 89 of 143

What would be the point of our travel journals if we didn't share our wonderful discoveries

Thanks again, Marie Jo. That implies that all the beautiful travel journals we read here—where addresses for restaurants, hotels, drivers, etc., aren’t shared—are pointless...

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Chantal11 · 2025-02-19 · Message 90 of 143

Hi Kate, I’m from Aude and live 7 km from Carcassonne. I visited southern India in 2011 for 5 weeks and drank chai throughout the trip—I really enjoyed it! I just wanted to congratulate you on the quality of your lovely photos 🤗👍 Chantal

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Chantal11 · 2025-02-19 · Message 91 of 143

Hi there! Yep, we were neighbors, and Kate’s right—it’s best to keep the real flavor, especially when traveling 🤗. And you’re spot-on, it’s not just meh, it’s bleh 😂😂😂. Chantal

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RichardXI · 2025-02-20 · Message 92 of 143

Day 16. On the way to Kochi and the Red Lady

Five hours on the road heading north before reaching Cochin. But we were craving the beach, so we asked the taxi driver to stop halfway at Marari Beach. According to the guides, it’s one of Kerala’s beautiful beaches. Well, let’s just say it’s an Indian beach. Not unpleasant, but not very clean either. The place is pretty well set up, though, with a series of small wooden establishments lined up at the edge of the coconut trees. We pick one at random for lunch. The service is incredibly slow despite the few people around, and to keep us patient, the young waiter brings over a wooden board with holes on the sides and some tokens. It’s carrom, a very popular game in India that’s a bit like billiards but played with your fingers.









The drive to Cochin feels endless—we’re slowed down a lot by the massive construction of an elevated highway that’s supposed to run along the entire east coast up to Goa. We finally arrive in the mid-afternoon at Cherai on Vypin Island, about 20 km from central Cochin.

La Dame Rouge is the name of this lovely family-run guesthouse, all blue and nestled in the middle of a lush park, run by Marc, a Frenchman who’s been living in Kerala for 30 years. The welcome is very warm. He shows us around the beautiful house, built in traditional Kerala style and tastefully decorated. He also introduces us to the Tamil family who’s been living and working with him all these years—the father, mother, and their three sons... We’re charmed, but we still need to get our bearings so we can, as Marc put it so naturally, “feel at home.” A quick tuk-tuk ride to the beach, just 10 minutes away, before dinner. Kate and I decide to take a dip. It’s my first swim in the Indian Ocean…




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Kate · 2025-02-20 · Message 93 of 143

Ah, the Red Lady, such a beautiful house... Ah, Marco, such a wonderful person...

But you’ll talk about it better than I can ;)


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Rouquine38 · 2025-02-20 · Message 94 of 143

Ah, the Red Lady, such a beautiful house... Ah, Marco, such a wonderful person...

But you’ll talk about it better than I can ;)



This interior is gorgeous 👍 You’ve found some real gems for accommodations 🤩

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RichardXI · 2025-02-20 · Message 95 of 143

Day 17. First day in Kochi

Indians, Chinese, Portuguese, Dutch, English—merchants from all over the world wanted to take advantage of this remarkable site at some point, so precious for maritime trade. Cochin/Kochi was this opulent transit port on the spice and tea route during the first wave of globalization in the 15th and 16th centuries. I love maritime atmospheres, old trading cities. Is the city still steeped in the spirit of the high seas? Probably a romanticized vision from a history buff, but I’m pretty excited to explore the historic neighborhoods of Fort Cochin and Mattancherry.

In reality, we’re quite far from the center—an hour’s drive before a ferry finally drops us off on the peninsula. The long promenade along the port’s entrance channel presents a curious mix of traditional activities, like those of the fishermen, and tourist stalls. I’ve read on many blogs that people were disappointed by Cochin’s overly touristy vibe and the relentless pitches from vendors selling “anything and everything.” It’s a bit true. But nothing like what we endured last year in cities like Jaipur or Agra, for example. I sense my companions are a little let down by the overall atmosphere. That’s not quite how I feel. I enjoy the sight of the Chinese fishing nets—those large nets stretched along the shore—as well as the cargo ships entering the port like elephants, heavy and slow.







After the somewhat disappointing visit to St. Francis Church, billed as the first European church built in India, we decide to do a little shopping along the neat, colorful, and flower-lined streets of the “European” quarter. Marco, the guesthouse owner, had warned us with amused kindness about the formidable Kashmiri merchants, capable of “selling you anything that’s for sale.” Apparently, these immigrants from northern India have been softened by the languor of the South, because we found them less pushy than last year in Rajasthan. And we got some great deals... or at least, that’s what we *thought*...

A welcome break at the « Kashi Art Cafe », a trendy little eatery that also exhibits contemporary paintings. The place is really nice, stimulating. But I (we?) have a slight feeling that the India we love discovering—the one in Tamil Nadu, especially—is slipping away. Faced with this modernity, my feelings are mixed, though. After all, India isn’t just about cows wandering the streets, magnificent temples steeped in piety, or the chaos of dusty roads littered with trash. I imagine a traveler coming to France and forming an idea of the country based solely on Paris and the arrondissements of the Île de la Cité. Every trip should be an opportunity, I think, for necessary self-reflection and questioning our own representations of the world. All while keeping the precious joy of discovery, exchange, wonder, questioning—or even accepting disappointment or rejection.







The sun is beating down harder and harder in the early afternoon. We decide to hop in a tuk-tuk to visit the Mattancherry Palace, also known as the Dutch Palace. In the 16th century, the Portuguese cleverly offered this beautiful princely residence to the Raja of Cochin in exchange for lucrative trade concessions. Later, the Dutch, temporary masters of the place, renovated and embellished it. The visit is fairly quick, but the glimpse of the royal chamber and its 17th-century murals is captivating. Frescoes depicting scenes from the Ramayana, dominated by blue, which we don’t understand without the right cultural codes, of course. But what strikes me the most are the ever-present, deeply expressive smiles of the gods and goddesses. No inverted value judgment here, but I’m impressed by the Indian artists’ desire to always portray their gods with smiles, unlike ours, so often depicted in suffering.







We head back home. At the ferry dock, hardly anyone’s around. No tuk-tuks in sight. A little panic while we find a larger vehicle, a hybrid between a rickshaw and a taxi. “You know la Dame Rouge? Cherai Beach? Marco?” The magic word—Marco—he knows. Still, it’s 20 km away! A peaceful return to the guesthouse for a Franco-Indian dinner of prawns marinated in lemon and spices, prepared by Thanga. As of today, Nathalie, Bruno, and Kate can attest—these are the best we’ve ever had in our lives!!!

Tomorrow, back to Kochi, which still has more to show us...

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Kate · 2025-02-20 · Message 96 of 143

Love this interior! 👍 You found some real gems for accommodations! 🤩

My friend Nathalie and I spent *so* much time searching for our places to stay. For both of us, it’s really important—the comfort and price, of course, but especially the location because that can make a big difference. We had one little mishap in Chennai, though. That was the only one. I can recommend all the other places we stayed without hesitation. For the guys, it’s easy—anything works for them! Richard could sleep on a wooden plank and pee in the river across the street.

At La Dame Rouge, we met an exceptional host. Without him, the trip would’ve been totally different...

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Kate · 2025-02-20 · Message 97 of 143

No tuk-tuk. A little anxiety while finding a larger vehicle, a hybrid between a rickshaw and a taxi.

I think they called it a Tata...

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Ragamuffin · 2025-02-21 · Message 98 of 143

Good evening,

When will people stop confusing/comparing Thailand (Hey! But it's not like back home in France here – 1985... already ruined) with India?

In Thailand, it's packed with Western tourists, and you can see/hear it.

In India, it's (recently) packed with... Indian tourists, and you don’t really notice (well, maybe a little) since they’re at home... but you can definitely hear it.

tuk-tuk = Thailand

In India, they’re called rickshaws: cycle-rickshaws or auto-rickshaws, commonly just called "autos" ("auto" Sir? "auto?").





I think they called it a Tata...

Indians call it a tempo.



PS

Thanks to Pagaljabav for giving credit where it’s due...

Members like Marien, Marco, and Ragga (I think) encouraged me to keep exploring Chettinad

Check out their post: Upcoming trip to Tamil Nadu

Keep enjoying this travel journal—it’s almost a carbon copy of my very first trip to (South) India back in... 1986/1987 (Bombay, Madras, Mahabalipuram, Madurai, Kovalam, Backwaters, Cochin, Bombay).

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Pagaljavab · 2025-02-22 · Message 99 of 143

Hi Raga,

Doesn’t seem like I’ve run into you since VF reopened—great to see you back here!

I think they called it a Tata... Indians call it a tempo

Spot on, that’s exactly what I was going to say.

thanks to Pagaljabav for giving back to the Caesars...

You’re welcome! Those tips really helped me and continue to help others. I could’ve also mentioned Fabgreg and Yann55, who’ve probably put down roots elsewhere by now.

check out their post Imminent trip to Tamil Nadu

And the travel journal I kept live right after that.

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Kate · 2025-02-22 · Message 100 of 143

Hey folks

Thanks for stopping by! 🙂 Actually, Indians themselves often say tuk-tuk, which is probably where the confusion comes from. No doubt because of Western tourists who, like us, must mix up the names of these little modes of transport.

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