Since it’s Obon, the festival of the dead when Japanese people get four days off, the area is really packed. I actually had some trouble finding accommodations and had to make several bookings and cancellations to optimize my choice. In the end, we’ve got two different places for our two nights here—prices aren’t exactly cheap, but they’re not totally outrageous either. The catch is that both are outside the city center. No big deal, though—we’ve got a car.
For tonight, we’re staying at the Ryokan Murayama, where we’ve got a Japanese-style room waiting for us. This short stay at the ryokan lets us try out the o furo, the communal baths. Women on one side, men on the other. There *is* a private mixed-family bath, but after waiting a while, we give up. Off we go—my dear husband with our number two on his side, and me with our number one, who didn’t want to join in. We head down to the baths in yukata, which are always provided with the room. Once there, wicker baskets let you leave your things (you bathe naked). Then comes the washing part—because before you soak, you *have* to wash. The showers are lined up with plenty of free soap and shampoo bottles, plus little stools to sit on. The key is to wash thoroughly and discreetly, because in Japan, they take the washing part *very* seriously. Case in point: when I arrived, two women were already there washing, and by the time I’d soaped up THREE times (twice with extra care), they still weren’t done. Yep, afraid of looking like a “dirty foreigner” in front of my neighbors, I scrubbed myself from head to toe three times. By the third wash, I surrendered and slipped into the scalding bathwater. And hot? Oh, it was *hot*.
Meanwhile, the guys—well, mostly my dear husband—got cornered by a chatty Japanese man eager for a little conversation. The baths are also a social spot where people come to chat.
This is also where we discovered toilet slippers: when you enter the bathroom, you have to swap your regular slippers for the ones provided, which are *only* for the toilet. Of course, you switch back when you leave. It’s easy to mix them up at some point and commit a faux pas.

The non-toilet slippers provided for guests.
Alright, time to eat—back to the city center. It’s not even 8 PM, and almost everything is already closed. After driving around, we finally find a restaurant with later hours and more Western-style dishes than Japanese ones. Maybe that’s why it’s still open?