A few tips for a first family trip to Japan
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Hi everyone,

Let me introduce myself—I’m Christophe. I’m taking the plunge and planning my first trip to Japan for late February 2026. There’ll be five of us: my wife and I, and our three daughters, aged 12 and 15. Between the internet, travel agencies, and social media, there’s info coming from all directions, but it’s tough to find clear, objective, and relevant answers. I’d like this first trip to follow a classic route: 4/5 days in Tokyo 4 days in Kyoto (Nara) 2 days in Osaka (maybe Universal Studios) I’ve got a few questions—could you share your thoughts? 1. Is it better to return to Tokyo to catch our flight home, or is flying out directly from Osaka a better option? 2. For accommodation, would you recommend a hotel or an Airbnb? Since there are five of us, I think we’d like a small kitchen and a bit of space. 3. The famous JR Pass: is it worth it, or should we just buy tickets for each trip? I’ve read that the JR Pass has gotten more expensive and isn’t the ideal solution anymore, especially if you’re staying in the same cities for several days. 4. We’d like to have two phones—do you recommend eSIMs or a pocket Wi-Fi?

That’s it—I hope you can help shed some light on this. Thanks! Christophe
FA Fairytitania Regular ·
Hi there,

Your trip sounds quite similar to the one I took last year: arriving via KIX for a first week in Osaka (Osaka Castle, Universal Studios, Nara, Himeji, Kyoto), then heading to Tokyo and Disneyland.

We chose Emirates for a few reasons—more convenient flight times in our opinion, and since Japanese airlines don’t offer direct flights from Paris to Osaka, we figured if we had to make a stopover, it might as well be midway through the trip. Another plus for Emirates: the A380 😊 So, to answer your first question, it really depends on your airline. Air France was the only one offering round-trip direct flights to both cities.

We booked hotels for our entire stay, but it was just the two of us. Rooms can be pretty small in Japan.

For the JR Pass, it won’t be worth it given your itinerary.

Pocket Wi-Fi is handy, but if you have two phones, you’ll need to stay relatively close to each other.
Juillet 2010 : La Dolce Vita / Costa Concordia Février 2018 : Perle des Caraïbes / Costa Pacifica
JL Jlponty ·
Hi Christophe,

We took a very similar trip in April this year with our kids (younger, 6 and 7 years old). Overall: you’re going to love it! 🙂

We landed in Osaka and flew out of Tokyo, with no price difference compared to a round-trip to Osaka or Tokyo. This lets you skip a Shinkansen ride, saving both time and money. There’s no real advantage to flying out of the same airport you arrived at (unless it’s more convenient for your route). So in your case, if you can get a return flight directly from Osaka, that seems like the better option.

For accommodation, I recommend Airbnb—it gives you larger spaces with a kitchen (restaurants in Japan are amazing, but supermarkets are too, and it lets you try tons of little things!) for roughly the same price as a hotel. The exception is Tokyo, where Airbnbs were generally very expensive, so a hotel might be the better choice. It depends on your budget for lodging. We were able to book a few traditional Japanese houses, which was great for soaking up the atmosphere.

The JR Pass has actually gone up a lot (+70% or so, if I’m not mistaken) and isn’t worth it for your trip. Tickets can be booked pretty easily at train stations and/or online for Shinkansen rides. Just watch out for busy lines (like Tokyo/Kyoto)—there can be a bit of a wait at the ticket counters, so don’t plan to catch a train 10 minutes after arriving at the station! But since this line runs as frequently as an RER during rush hour, it’s not a big deal.

We got an eSIM and a physical SIM—no issues, everything worked perfectly. I haven’t tried pocket Wi-Fi, but I hear it works well too. If your phones support eSIMs, that seems like the easiest option.

Lastly, a small recommendation even though I know your itinerary is mostly set: don’t overlook mid-sized cities and the countryside. It’s nice to escape the city and crowds sometimes, and the sights are just as interesting. I don’t know what crowds are like in February, but in April, some places in Kyoto were impossible to enjoy because of the crowds... Even though you can avoid the "worst" of the tourists by picking the right times and spots (Kyoto’s density of historic sites is incredible), we really loved spending a few days in the Japanese Alps.

Enjoy your trip!
JA Jarbinks ·
Thanks for the info 😉
JA Jarbinks ·
Thanks for this info too 😉
NO Noémiecb24 ·
Hi Christophe,

What a wonderful family project! Japan is a magical destination, and your itinerary is already well thought out for a first visit. Here are some answers to your questions:

Return flight from Tokyo or Osaka? If you can find a direct return flight from Osaka (Kansai International Airport), it’s definitely more practical and saves time (and money) from having to go back to Tokyo just for the flight. Many airlines offer multi-city round trips (Tokyo on the way there, Osaka on the way back), so compare options when booking. Personally, I did the opposite in March—Osaka first and Tokyo last. 🙂 Accommodation: With five people, an Airbnb (or another type of rental like an apartment hotel) with a small kitchen and some space will likely be more comfortable and budget-friendly. Japanese hotels are often quite compact. Be sure to check recent reviews and the legal permissions for the rental, especially in Kyoto where Airbnb regulations have tightened. JR Pass: With the recent price increase, the JR Pass isn’t always worth it, especially if you’re spending several days in each city. For a Tokyo > Kyoto > Osaka route, it’s often better to buy individual tickets (Shinkansen + a few local trains). But it depends on your exact itinerary—you can simulate costs on sites like Japan Travel by Navitime or Hyperdia. Internet connection: eSIM or Pocket WiFi? For two phones, eSIMs are very convenient—no need to pick up anything at the airport.

Wishing you a fantastic trip!
BO Bobbits66 ·
Hi Christophe, What a great plan, and the itinerary is perfect for a first family trip to Japan! Here’s some feedback on the "connectivity" part (I just got back from a trip there, solo then with a friend):

Pocket wifi: handy if everyone wants to connect at the same time, but it means staying together, remembering to recharge the device, and if someone wanders off, no more wifi. It’s reliable, but a bit of a "hassle to carry" in my opinion.

eSIM: much simpler and more flexible, especially if two phones are compatible. Quick activation (no need to wait at the airport), everyone has their own access, better battery life, and fewer arguments over data! Coverage in Japan is excellent, so no worries, even outside big cities.

For accommodation:

Airbnb or apartment hotels are really the most practical for a family of five, especially for cooking or relaxing in the evening. Hotels are often small and less suited for a big family, especially in Tokyo. That said, make sure to check reviews and the legality of the rental, especially in Kyoto (strict regulations).

For transportation:

If possible, flying out of Osaka will save you time (and often money): no need to go back to Tokyo just to catch your flight.

The JR Pass isn’t necessarily worth it with this itinerary—it’s better to buy tickets as you go. It’s easy and can be done online. If you plan a spontaneous day trip, consider buying tickets a little in advance, especially for high-demand routes like Tokyo/Kyoto.

Finally, if you have time, don’t hesitate to venture outside the big cities and explore the countryside or a mid-sized town. The vibe is totally different and really authentic. Happy planning, and have an amazing trip with your family! Don’t hesitate to ask if you want more practical tips or app recommendations for your trip.
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