Depuis quelques mois, je réflechis à mon tour d'asie en 6 mois.
Aujourd'hui je suis vraiment en phase de réaliser ce rêve d'ado...
et certaines de mes connaissances me lance que je suis inconsciente de vouloir partir seule quand d'autres me disent que c'est super....mais avec ce regard dans les yeux qui veut tout dire!!!!!
Et pourquoi une femme ne pourrai-elle pas voyager seule?
Est-ce que dans votre entourage vous faite face au même réaction!
C'est agaçant car ça nous fait remettre en cause....
mais je tiens bon...je le ferais ce voyage en Asie!
Qui dit mieux? Avez-vous des histoires sur ceux qui ont tenté d'empecher d'accomplir un périple en soltaira (bien que on se retrouve rarement seul en voyage!!!)
bizou les girls
il y a ceux qui rêvent de partir et ceux qui partent!
Salut !
Je reviens d'un TDM en solitaire et en "routarde". J'ai 61 ans. C'est une expérience inoubliable.
Quand on est seule, on est une véritable "éponge": toutes les sensations sont vécues très intensément. Dès que l'on est avec une autre personne, on se met inconsciemment dans une "bulle" et pas mal de choses nous échappent. C'est du moins ce que j'ai ressenti car mon fils m'avait rejointe pour une partie de mon périple.
Et surtout, surtout, profitte de ta jeunesse pour vivre ton rève, car, plus tard, quand on a des enfants et petits-enfants, on arrive difficilement à se débarrasser d'une sourde inquiètude qu'il n'arrive qq chose à l'un d'eux...
J'ai rencontré pas mal de jeunes filles qui voyageaient seules et elles semblaient enchantées.
Vis ton rève !
Lydie
Tu te pose la question pourquoi ne pas faire le TDM seule? Quelle réponse donnerais-tu, toi-même, à ta question? Qu'est-ce qui pourrais t'arriver, crois-tu? Pas ce que les autres pensent, toi seule?
Une personne qui a fait ce TDM incluant l'Asie, l'Amérique du Sud, (j'imagine), a fait ce voyage. Je ne sais pas ton âge mais il me semble qu'il y a une différence entre une ado et une femme d'âge mûre. (je dis cela sans discrimination, bien entendu. Je suis aussi une femme).
Si je suis ado, je le ferais. Si je suis ta mère, je serai morte d'inquiétude. Cette inquiétude demeure donc mon problème et cela ne devrait pas t'empêcher de vivre ta vie.
Je voyage chaque année seule depuis déjà quelques années et nos antennes sont tj à «ON». Alors qu'à deux, on ne sait même pas, parfois, si nos antennes sont à «on» ou «off».
Tout dépend de ta motivation, de ta personnalité, ...
Si tu décides de faire ce TDM, comment le feras-tu, seule en camping-car, seule sur le pouce, en avion? Cette question est importante. Ce n'est pas la même réalité.
Si tu décides de réaliser ton projet, j'aimerais bien lire une ligne de ta part.
Have a good fun|
Merci pour vos petits conseils....
sinon, j'ai 24 ans et je souhaite d'abord faire un petit tour d'asie en 6 mois à la fin de mon cdd en février 2008...
pour l'instant je me renseigne et découvre des pays que j'aimerais voir...le budget quand à lui est presque réunie!
le tout est de se lancer c'est pour cela que je demande quelques temoignages sur les reactions dans l'entourage!
Car d'une part mes pârents sont marocains (ce qui ne m'empêche en rien de voyager à vrai dire....) et qu'il est difficile pour eux de concevoir que leur fille parte loin et seule! (ils auraient préféré me voir la bague au doigt en 200)
Mais comme ce n'est pas dans mes objectifs (de me marier) et que je fais un peu ce que je veux (heureusement que j'ai ce caractère) je ne m'attarde pas trop sur ces traditions et ces contraintes qui bouffe la vie (elle est déja si compliquée)... donc je compte, kamême, partir!
Le tout est de faire face à leur réaction à l'annonce de ce départ!
Mais j'y crois! je le vivrai ce rêve!
Puis le fait d'avoir des temoignage de femmes seule partant voyager me rassure et m'encourage d'autant plus!
Et puis il n'y a pas d'âge pour voyager....mais je suivrais les précieux conseils de eydil....partir maintenant, pendant ma jeunesse.....et réaliser ce rêve....
il y a ceux qui rêvent de partir et ceux qui partent!
Bonjour,
Il ne faut surtout pas hésiter. Personnellement j'ai souvent voyagé seule depuis l'âge de 15 ans. Et j'en ai 63.
Je ne regrette pas d'avoir beaucoup voyagé car maintenant je n'ai plus très envie de partir loin. Donc je préfère être remplie de souvenirs.
Quand tu es en voyage tu ne souffres jamais de solitude car tu rencontres beaucoup de gens locaux et beaucoup de touristes qui sont également seuls et tout heureux de partager des émotions.
En Asie les gens sont très sympathiques et accueillants, et si tu prends les précautions élémentaires qui sont logiques, il n'y a pas de problèmes. 😎
partir seule ne veut dire pas inconsciente, au contraire on part pour acceuillir de l'expérience, et avoir une vue large sur les choses de la vie.
Si nous prenons le cas de ceux qui sont obliger de quitter leur famille, les amis(es) pour aller étudier ou travailler à l'étranger toute seule, diront nous qu'ils sont inconscients? pas du tout
ceux qui n'ont jamais eu la chance d'avoir leur parents à côté d'eux(les orphelins par exemple), est-ce parce qu'ils sont inconscients?non plus
Donc tu es libre de faire ton voyage seule, pourvue que tu atteints ton objectif visé.
Je suis revenu d'un voyage de 3 semaines en inde accompagné et j'ai fais la connaissance de plusieurs routarde voyageant seule.
Cela m'a encouragé dans mon projet de partir plusieurs mois seule à l'autre bout du monde. C'est si facile, il suffit de se lancer.
Fatiha
il y a ceux qui rêvent de partir et ceux qui partent!
Fatihette, moi j'ai 57 ans et je ne travaille plus depuis 4 ans. J'ai toujours eu un besoin d'évasion immense alors c'était des escapades de quelques jours seulement.
J'ai été mariée, j'ai eu un fils, et avec le travail pas facile.
Maintenant que je suis libre comme l'air j'ai acheté un fourgon aménagé camping-car avec l'intention de visiter la France d'abord. Pour l'étranger on verra ...
Je suis comme toi, je me pose souvent la question de l'inconsciense. Je m'endors, dans le fourgon, sans aucune crainte. Suis-je inconsciente ?? il faut dire que j'ai deux chiennes, elles me rassurent bien mais quand même ....
Je n'ai pas fait le pas pour l'étranger mais j'en ai une envie folle et en même temps ça me fait peur car je n'ai pas une personnalité affirmée. Les pays qui m'attirent sont ceux de l'Asie Centrale, la mythique Route de la Soie. Même si je ne réalise jamais ce voyage j'aurais au moins rêvé.
Je suis presque prête (psychologiquement) pour l'Italie avant l'été 2008
Je te souhaite de réaliser ton rêve.
Tout à fait d'accord avec Emilie Biscuit!
Parce que pour parler clairement à quoi pense la famille et les autres (souvent des gens qui ne voyagent pas bcp) quand ils disent qu'ils trouvent dangereux pour une fille de partir seule? Au viol! Après tout c'est le seul risque supplémentaire que court une femme par rapport à un homme qui voyage seul! Mais on le risque dans notre pays aussi comme le dit Emilie alors aucune raison de se priver de parcourir le monde seule!
Perso j'ai 25 ans et pour l'instant j'ai fait le Maroc et la Thailande seule, je n'ai eu aucun problème mais chaque fois ma famille me dit que c'est dangereux et mes amies me disent "waou c courageux, moi je pourrais pas" Comme si j'allais escalader l'Everest ou traverser l'Atlantique à la rame!
Bref sous cette pression qd meme, et sachant que je voulais continuer à barouder seule j'ai fait un peu de karaté : faire un sport de combat c'est un bon moyen de se sentir plus en sécurité et de rassurer l'entourage. Ou alors effectivement prendre un chien!!!
Bon voyage en tout cas! Et montrons au monde que les femmes peuvent etre autre chose que des victimes!!
Noémie
Noémie
Quand tu arrives à l'étranger, ouvre tes yeux et tes oreilles mais ferme ta bouche!
Avant d'avoir mes enfants j'ai voyagé seule, il y deux ans j'ai fait Thailand et Laos seule et cette année je vais seule en Inde (j'ai 46 ans). C'est un plaisir de voyager seule à sa rythme, on ne passe pas le temps à parler ou à se faire les soucis si oui ou non l'autre est content, je pense que j'ai beaucoup plus observé et écouté du fait d'être seule. Maintenant que mes enfants sont grands je voyage pour me faire plaisir.
Il y a aussi un sentiment d'avoir accompli quelque chose - je me souviens à quelle point j'étais fier de moi d'avoir fait ma première longue voyage solo.
Et puis, on fait aussi des rencontres en voyagant alors on n'est pas toujours tous le temps dans le solitude. J'ai pu rencontrer des gens vraiment interessents. D'autres femmes seules, des couples, et personne ne trouvait que j'étais inconsciente.
bonne idée les cours de karaté!
ayé c décidé je pars d'ici fin mars debut avril!
un petit 4 mois en asie du sud est.
singapour-malaisie-thailande et laos voir cambodge...mais l'objectif n'est pas de se presser...il faut prendre sont temps...enjoy la life comme dirais les indiens!!!!!
Bons voyages les routardes!!!!!!
il y a ceux qui rêvent de partir et ceux qui partent!
I’d love to settle around Da Nang for about a month and explore the surrounding areas in Vietnam.
I’ve already been to this country and don’t feel like rushing around every day like I used to a few years ago.
I’d really like to find some company to stay for at least a month, and then maybe spend a month in Cambodia...
Given that I’m now 76, I don’t want to run around like I used to, trying to see everything...
I enjoy calm people... Those who love life and with whom I can share a beer... And meet people to create a great atmosphere—la dolce vita....
hi there
I’m leaving on October 1st for Rio, which I’ll be exploring over 10 days while staying in Copacabana and Ipanema.
After that, I’m heading to Ilha Grande, Paraty, and finally a flight to Iguaçu.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Rio. Is it possible to walk around and explore without constantly worrying about getting my phone snatched?
I’m traveling alone and don’t speak Portuguese.
I need GPS to get around.
I love walking and don’t really like taking taxis, which is why I’ve booked two places to stay in Rio to experience different neighborhoods.
But is this doable given the security concerns there?!
In short, can you travel peacefully?
Thanks for your feedback if you’ve been to Rio!
Best,
Hi everyone,
I’m planning to travel solo to Oman in December 2025, renting a vehicle that allows me to camp in certain areas. For those who’ve already explored the country this way, could you share your experiences or tips?
I’d also like to visit the Wahiba Desert, but in that area, I’d prefer a guide for driving and, most importantly, not to sleep in those luxury desert-edge camps but rather have a "wild" escape under the stars. Any guide recommendations? Thanks in advance – Clem
Hi there, I’m Brigitte, 66 years old, fairly active and in great shape. I split my time between the Tarn region and Nantes, have a youthful spirit, and am very easy-going. I’m looking for a woman with a similar profile for a road trip in Southeast Asia—half humanitarian work and half free travel. The trip starts in October 2026 in the Philippines on the island of Panay, then moves on to Indonesia and Malaysia. The journey could last up to 4 or 5 months, as I have no fixed schedule. If you’re cool and friendly, feel free to message me. See you soon!
I’m traveling solo to Armenia in mid-September for three weeks, and I’ll be using public transport. I have a few questions:
- Does Yandex work everywhere, even in villages?
I’m looking for:
- Nice guesthouse addresses in the north (national park) and the south, including the village of Ararat,
and a simple but clean hotel in Yerevan that’s convenient for getting to the bus stations later.
- Any great tips or advice you can share.
Actually, I’m a bit worried I’ll be stuck only visiting tourist sites without a car. What do you think?
Thanks for your help
I’m arriving in Tana on 9/10/26 as a solo female traveler.
Which hotel in Tana is good for the first night since I’ll get in at 10 PM?
What’s worth seeing around Tana?
I’m planning 2 nights in Tana,
then 2 nights in Andasibe? After that, Lake Itasy.
Any suggestions? Thanks
I contacted several agencies in Madagascar to arrange this 4x4 trip along the coast.
Always the same answer: a tailor-made trip with at least 2 participants.
Since I don’t want to travel alone and a friend isn’t available, I’m looking for a woman to share this trip with the agency Mahay Mada, which offers a 12-day, 11-night tour of southern Madagascar. I’m available from August 23 to September 14.
Thanks for your direct response at 0784659791. See you soon, Mireille
Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
Hi everyone, I’m really keen to visit Iran for three weeks in mid-March 2015.
What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
Thanks for your advice.
Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
Thanks in advance.
Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
Planned arrival on Sunday evening, November 16, 2025, in San José. Staying 3 nights, then taking a bus to Tortuguero for 2 nights. Looking for a shared shuttle to La Fortuna for 2 nights, then a van-boat-van combo to Santa Elena for 2 or 3 nights. Heading to Quepos for 4 nights for day trips using local buses—Jaco, San Antonio, Uvita. After that, a full-day bus ride to Cahuita. I’m booking hotels as I go, which gives me the flexibility to stay longer in places I like. I’m looking for accommodations in city centers near restaurants and not too far from the bus station. Budget: 50 € for a room with a private bathroom (if you’ve got any great tips!). For my finale, I’ll cross the land border to Panama City for 4 days. Thanks for your suggestions! 😉
As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
Battambang – 1 day
Kampong Chhnang – 3 days
Kampot – 2 days
Islands (WE’RE HESITATING WHICH ONE?) – 4 DAYS
Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks