Inde: étudiante en psychologie recherche témoignages
by Priss6938
This discussion is in French, the community’s main language.
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Bonjour à tous
Je ne sais pas si c'est le bon endroit pour mon appel à témoignages mais j'essaye quand même...
Je suis étudiante en psychologie à Lyon et je dois faire un dossier de recherche sur un theme de mon choix. J'ai choisi de parler des bouleversements "sous differentes formes" que peuvent rencontrer certains voyageurs à leur arrivée en Inde et /ou à leur retour en France. C'est anonyme. J'ai besoin de témoignages pour étayer mes propos et explorer de nouvelles pistes. Donc s'il ya des personnes interressées pour répondre à quelques questions dans les semaines qui suivent n'hésitez pas à me contacter.
Merci beaucoup.
Il existe un livre L'inde rend-t-il fou? d'un médecin du consulat à Bombay qui raconte celà très bien. SI tu ne l'as pas déjà lu procure toi le!
Je ne sais pas si tu es allé en Inde ou pas, mais je pense que chaque voyageur ressort d'inde différent, toutes les personnes qui en reviennent ont changé, moi ça a été un tournant dans ma vie et tous les voyageurs que j'ai pu rencontrer on vécut l'inde comme quelque chose de spéciale, soit ça vous repousse, soit ça vous aspire.Le mieux serait d'aller pour toi en Inde et d'y rencontrer les voyageurs au hasard dans un train et ou dans un bus local, voir avec eux, mais bon je ne sais pas vraiment où trouvaient les personnes que tu recherches exactement...
C'est sympa d'avoir choisi pour ta photo de profil le portrait de Lakshmi, l'éléphante du temple de Ganesh à Pondichéry! Avec un superbe Om sur le front en prime! 😎
A part ça, je crois que tu t'atèles à une lourde tâche, car les cinglés du livre de Régis Airault sont plutôt à errer en Inde qu'à traîner sur VoyageF orum. Et le livre explique bien qu'ils cessent d'être cinglés dès qu'ils reviennent en France. Peut-être n'ont-ils plus envie de repenser à leur période de folie. Il me semble d'ailleurs que leurs souvenirs sont assez troubles. 🤪
Si, par contre, tu recherches des inconditionnels qui ne peuvent se passer de retourner souvent en Inde, en éprouvant une passion irrépressible sans toutefois sombrer dans la démence, alors, il y a de nombreux spécimens sur ce forum, et je pourrai te glisser quelques pseudos discrètement à l'oreille en message privé. 😏
A part ça, je crois que tu t'atèles à une lourde tâche, car les cinglés du livre de Régis Airault sont plutôt à errer en Inde qu'à traîner sur VoyageF orum. Et le livre explique bien qu'ils cessent d'être cinglés dès qu'ils reviennent en France. Peut-être n'ont-ils plus envie de repenser à leur période de folie. Il me semble d'ailleurs que leurs souvenirs sont assez troubles. 🤪
Si, par contre, tu recherches des inconditionnels qui ne peuvent se passer de retourner souvent en Inde, en éprouvant une passion irrépressible sans toutefois sombrer dans la démence, alors, il y a de nombreux spécimens sur ce forum, et je pourrai te glisser quelques pseudos discrètement à l'oreille en message privé. 😏
Si tu ouvres tes yeux d'enfant, le voyage commence au seuil de ta maison
Et bien je suis déja alléeen Inde, à Katmandou. J'ai fais mon experience perso. Je suis d'origine indienne donc très attirée par ce pays et c'est pour cela que j'ai décidé de travailler sur ce sujet. Effectivement chacun voyage différement et je m'interresse à ces occidentaux qui partent et qui vivent le voyage differement des autres "touristes". C'est leur témoignage que je veux mais visiblement ce n'est pas ici que je les trouverais. Je m'en doutais mais j'aime assez ce forum et j'ai tout de même voulu tenter...
Qu'appelles-tu voyager "différemment des autres touristes"?
Si tu ouvres tes yeux d'enfant, le voyage commence au seuil de ta maison
Et bien je suis déja allée en Inde, à Katmandou.
C'est très au nord. 😛
C'est très au nord. 😛
"Et bien je suis déja allée en Inde, à Katmandou".
En passant par Lille, en Belgique ? Ou alors tu as oublié 1 ou 2 mots dans ta phrase... 😉 Sinon Pour ta demande de témoignages, le mieux serait de publier le questionnaire en question, ça pourrait donner envie d'y répondre. Me concernant, je ne suis pas sûr d'être différent des autres touristes et ne me suis jamais demandé pourquoi je revenais régulièrement en Inde...
En passant par Lille, en Belgique ? Ou alors tu as oublié 1 ou 2 mots dans ta phrase... 😉 Sinon Pour ta demande de témoignages, le mieux serait de publier le questionnaire en question, ça pourrait donner envie d'y répondre. Me concernant, je ne suis pas sûr d'être différent des autres touristes et ne me suis jamais demandé pourquoi je revenais régulièrement en Inde...
Bons voyages
Bernard
Alors Nalesnik, il y en a qui sont prêts à dénoncer leurs petits camarades hein ?😉
Bijoliane
Le but suprême du voyageur est de ne plus savoir ce qu'il contemple ; chaque être, chaque chose est occasion de voyage et de contemplation. Lie-Tseu
Bonjour,
je suis une passionnée de l'Inde; j'y repars ds 3 semaines et y suis allée la première fois il y a dix ans en groupe, au hasard...Y suis retournée, seule, plusieurs fois depuis.
Je pourrai vs faire partager mon expérience, mon ressenti...Voici mon mail perso, EESCLARMONDE@YAHOO.FR
irene
Bonjour,
si tu es intéressée par une rencontre sur Lyon, je suis dispo cette semaine, après... je repars en... Inde bien sûr ! mon mail : bijoliane@netcourrier.com et laisse moi un N° de tél si possible !
Bijoliane
Le but suprême du voyageur est de ne plus savoir ce qu'il contemple ; chaque être, chaque chose est occasion de voyage et de contemplation. Lie-Tseu
je pourrai te glisser quelques pseudos discrètement à l'oreille en message privé. 😏
Tu penses à qui ? 😉
Tu penses à qui ? 😉
"Nous ne sommes plus une communauté d'être humains qui se parlent mais un conglomérat de grappes de consommateurs en niches, séparés les uns des autres par des obsessions diverses et innombrables. Nous sommes de l'ère de la désintégration." Marc Moulin (1942-2008) in Humoeurs
Cher Nalesik
Je pense que tu as une idée bien réductrice du livre de Régis Airault car pour moi ce ne sont pas des "cinglés", juste des personnes fragiles pour lesquelles l'Inde a déclenché quelque chose de profond en eux. Et si tu avais bien lu ce livre tu aurais retenu que la plupart d'entre eux n'hésitent pas à y retourner un jour ou l'autre et réussissent à en parler avec un peu plus de recul.
Je pense que tu as une idée bien réductrice du livre de Régis Airault car pour moi ce ne sont pas des "cinglés", juste des personnes fragiles pour lesquelles l'Inde a déclenché quelque chose de profond en eux. Et si tu avais bien lu ce livre tu aurais retenu que la plupart d'entre eux n'hésitent pas à y retourner un jour ou l'autre et réussissent à en parler avec un peu plus de recul.
Des occidentaux qui deviennent sadhus, qui vivent dans une grotte ou dans un monastère bouddhiste, qui ont peur de sortir de leur hôtel, qui refusent de prendre un avion pour rentrer leur visa expiré etc... j'en ai rencontré en Inde : peut être est-ce là bas que tu trouveras des témoignages pertinents.
Toujours est-il que c'est un sujet passionnant !!! Bonne continuation !
Après l'Inde a ce pouvoir de bouleverser nos croyances occidentales pour peu qu'on accepte de se laisse aller et qu'on essaye d'oublier un peu notre éducation judéo-chrétienne.
Toujours est-il que c'est un sujet passionnant !!! Bonne continuation !
Après l'Inde a ce pouvoir de bouleverser nos croyances occidentales pour peu qu'on accepte de se laisse aller et qu'on essaye d'oublier un peu notre éducation judéo-chrétienne.
J'ai lu le livre il y a plus de 4 ans, et je n'en ai pas retenu tous les détails, car je n'ai pris aucune note et n'en ai pas fait de résumé. Après toutes ces années, mes souvenirs sont donc parcellaires. Dès que j'aurai le temps, je le feuillèterai un peu pour me raffraîchir la mémoire.
J'ai été surtout marqué par le cas des individus qui reviennent en Inde et retombent dans leur démence aussi sec. Un cas de ce type était bien connu à Pondichéry il y a quelques années, mais ce n'était pas Bombay, et il n'y avait aucun Régis Airault au consulat pour s'en occuper.
Si j'ai utilisé le terme de "cinglés", c'est justement pour voir la réaction de l'étudiante en psychologie à ce terme. Je vois que j'ai mis dans le mille. 😏
J'ai été surtout marqué par le cas des individus qui reviennent en Inde et retombent dans leur démence aussi sec. Un cas de ce type était bien connu à Pondichéry il y a quelques années, mais ce n'était pas Bombay, et il n'y avait aucun Régis Airault au consulat pour s'en occuper.
Si j'ai utilisé le terme de "cinglés", c'est justement pour voir la réaction de l'étudiante en psychologie à ce terme. Je vois que j'ai mis dans le mille. 😏
Si tu ouvres tes yeux d'enfant, le voyage commence au seuil de ta maison
Je ne savais pas qu'il fallait déposer un CV complet de ses voyages... Arrêtez de reprendre des mots ou des phrases et de chercher la petite bête sans arrêt.
Merci
C'était une boutade, une plaisanterie facile pour exploiter une formulation maladroite. Rien de plus.
Faut pas se prendre au sérieux comme ça et savoir rester relax.
C'était une boutade, une plaisanterie facile pour exploiter une formulation maladroite. Rien de plus.
Faut pas se prendre au sérieux comme ça et savoir rester relax.
je pense que l inde sert de révélateur, mais ne change pas les gens. il y a toutes sortes de personnes qui y vont et elles choisissent des formules bien différentes. l'hôtel de luxe, le taxi et parfois, elles ne voient que le côté féerique, le plaisir aussi de se faire servir. ou l'ashram, être à l'abri bien protégé. et puis, les routards, ou les demi-routards. là il y a un vaste choix.
sur ce forum, un jour, un jeune homme disait " j'y vais pour me donner des claques" j'aimerais bien avoir de ses nouvelles.
quand on parle des gens qui perdent la boule, je crois qu'on ne devrait pas oublier les méfaits de la drogue, surtout sur de très jeunes humains.
tartinnette
Salut,
Je suis partie 3 semaines en Inde il y a deux ans. Je ne sais pas si je peux correspondre à tes critères de recherche de témoignages vu que je n'ai pas vécu là bas... Malgré tout j'ai ressenti ce contraste saisissant a mon arrivée, pendant mon periple et également à mon retour. Aujourd'hui je pense avoir suffisament de recul pour en parler... Bref, je suis a ta disposition, si tu veux...
Je te laisse me contacter par MP...
P
Je suis partie 3 semaines en Inde il y a deux ans. Je ne sais pas si je peux correspondre à tes critères de recherche de témoignages vu que je n'ai pas vécu là bas... Malgré tout j'ai ressenti ce contraste saisissant a mon arrivée, pendant mon periple et également à mon retour. Aujourd'hui je pense avoir suffisament de recul pour en parler... Bref, je suis a ta disposition, si tu veux...
Je te laisse me contacter par MP...
P
Il y a eu un documentaire, pour la chaîne Voyages, diffusé il y a quelques années (2003, je crois), avec, entre autres, le psychiatre Régis Airault : "Le Syndrome de l'Inde".
Si tu ne l'as pas déjà vu, il a été mis en ligne ICI...
Si tu ne l'as pas déjà vu, il a été mis en ligne ICI...
Bonjour,
je suis allée pour la première fois en Inde en 2008 et y serai de nouveau dans 1 mois. J'ai vraiment eu le coup de foudre pour ce pays et je comprends maintenant pourquoi ma mère y retourne pour la 7è fois.
Tu peux m'envoyer un message privé et ce sera avec bneaucoup de plaisir que je te parlerai de tous les sentiements ressentis pendant eta près mon voyage.
Très bonne journée. Anne
je suis allée pour la première fois en Inde en 2008 et y serai de nouveau dans 1 mois. J'ai vraiment eu le coup de foudre pour ce pays et je comprends maintenant pourquoi ma mère y retourne pour la 7è fois.
Tu peux m'envoyer un message privé et ce sera avec bneaucoup de plaisir que je te parlerai de tous les sentiements ressentis pendant eta près mon voyage.
Très bonne journée. Anne
Dès que j'aurai le temps, je le feuillèterai un peu pour me raffraîchir la mémoire.
Pour t'aider ... un peu, une fois 😉
L'Inde méprise l'Occidental pressé qui n'accepte pas la règle du temps perdu. La relation à l'Inde est totalement ambivalente. Le sentiment d'amour laisse place du jour au lendemain à un sentiment de haine. L'Inde est un pays où les occidentaux s'énervent rapidement. Certains sombrent peu à peu dans une dépression "légitime", l'Inde devenant un "objet poubelle" opposé au "sujet occidental parfait" Tout semble fuir, s'interpénétrer, jusqu'aux idées, jusqu'à l'intime. Dans les contacts avec les Indiens, on se sent deviné, testé, palpé intérieurement et la seule façon d'obtenir le respect de l'autre consiste à faire le calme au plus profond de soi. Il est difficile à un Indien de comprendre qu'un être humain puisse se sentir bien en voyageant seul. L'Inde rend raison et harmonie aux fous et déséquilibre les personnes normales. L'Inde est toxicogène, elle agit comme une véritable drogue, entraînant dépendance psychique ey physique. L'Inde, c'est l'imprévu aux coins des rues, des flashes qui font crépiter l'inconscient. ... extrême tolérance ou indifférence ... Régis Airault - Fous de l'Inde
Amicalement 😎
Pour t'aider ... un peu, une fois 😉
L'Inde méprise l'Occidental pressé qui n'accepte pas la règle du temps perdu. La relation à l'Inde est totalement ambivalente. Le sentiment d'amour laisse place du jour au lendemain à un sentiment de haine. L'Inde est un pays où les occidentaux s'énervent rapidement. Certains sombrent peu à peu dans une dépression "légitime", l'Inde devenant un "objet poubelle" opposé au "sujet occidental parfait" Tout semble fuir, s'interpénétrer, jusqu'aux idées, jusqu'à l'intime. Dans les contacts avec les Indiens, on se sent deviné, testé, palpé intérieurement et la seule façon d'obtenir le respect de l'autre consiste à faire le calme au plus profond de soi. Il est difficile à un Indien de comprendre qu'un être humain puisse se sentir bien en voyageant seul. L'Inde rend raison et harmonie aux fous et déséquilibre les personnes normales. L'Inde est toxicogène, elle agit comme une véritable drogue, entraînant dépendance psychique ey physique. L'Inde, c'est l'imprévu aux coins des rues, des flashes qui font crépiter l'inconscient. ... extrême tolérance ou indifférence ... Régis Airault - Fous de l'Inde
Amicalement 😎
"Nous ne sommes plus une communauté d'être humains qui se parlent mais un conglomérat de grappes de consommateurs en niches, séparés les uns des autres par des obsessions diverses et innombrables. Nous sommes de l'ère de la désintégration." Marc Moulin (1942-2008) in Humoeurs
Sur le sujet, il y a un superbe reportage en 4 parties : voici le lien pour la première (tu trouveras les autres facilement)
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x53xr6_syndrome-de-linde-p1_travel
Pas de pb pour répondre a ton questionnaire.
Bonjour,
Je répondrai volontiers à tes questions :)
Bonne chance dans ta démarche!
Bonne journée.
Aurélie
Je répondrai volontiers à tes questions :)
Bonne chance dans ta démarche!
Bonne journée.
Aurélie
salut,
je rentre tout juste d'Inde et... waooo !! je crois que je vais faire partie des nouveaux accrocs. Je prévois d'ores et déjà mon prochain voyage pour avril 2010 avec une seule question "comment vais-je tenir jusque là?!". Les symptômes, je les ai au retour... totalement éteinte, je me sens sans vie. Je n'ai jamais eu un tel contre-coup. Voilà, c'est vraiment un pays comme je le lisais plus haut, qui vous aspire.
A ta dispo pour en parler!
je rentre tout juste d'Inde et... waooo !! je crois que je vais faire partie des nouveaux accrocs. Je prévois d'ores et déjà mon prochain voyage pour avril 2010 avec une seule question "comment vais-je tenir jusque là?!". Les symptômes, je les ai au retour... totalement éteinte, je me sens sans vie. Je n'ai jamais eu un tel contre-coup. Voilà, c'est vraiment un pays comme je le lisais plus haut, qui vous aspire.
A ta dispo pour en parler!
Bonjour,
Si tu as besoin d'autres témoignages "hors du commun", je peux répondre à tes questions également, mais je ne sais pas si je peux rentrer dans tes critères étant donné que je n'ai pas voyagé tout au long de mes 4 mois en Inde. J'y étais fille au pair et vivait dans une famille française et avais donc tout le confort dont disposent les expatriés par le travail.
Néanmoins, je partais souvent en excursion les week-ends, un peu partout mais en évitant les très grandes villes, seule, avec un minimum d'argent, donc de confort. Si tu souhaites en savoir plus sur mon expérience auparavant, tu peux toujours aller voir mon blog, en signature.
Bonne chance pour ton projet !
Sophie
Si tu as besoin d'autres témoignages "hors du commun", je peux répondre à tes questions également, mais je ne sais pas si je peux rentrer dans tes critères étant donné que je n'ai pas voyagé tout au long de mes 4 mois en Inde. J'y étais fille au pair et vivait dans une famille française et avais donc tout le confort dont disposent les expatriés par le travail.
Néanmoins, je partais souvent en excursion les week-ends, un peu partout mais en évitant les très grandes villes, seule, avec un minimum d'argent, donc de confort. Si tu souhaites en savoir plus sur mon expérience auparavant, tu peux toujours aller voir mon blog, en signature.
Bonne chance pour ton projet !
Sophie
Jeune franco-belge, installée à Munich et se nourrissant de voyages...
Retrouvez mon récit d'un mois en Birmanie, de 3 semaines au Cambodge, bons plans à Munich et autres péripéties sur mon blog -
http://sweetpieceofheart.com
Bonjour,
Je me souviens de quelques souvenir à ce sujet qui datent de quelque temps. Un garçon canadien qui se prenait pour le Messi ( mais oui...) et une jeune toulousaine qui a totalement flippé en arrivant à Delhi et qui est repartie pratiquement de suite. Pour ces deux cas l'histoire est assez intérressante car provenant de démarches totalement différentes : le garçon canadien fuyait la justice de son pays tandis que la jeune toulousaine ètait partie en Inde sur un coup de tete lors d'une discussion au cours d'une soirée.
Michel
Je me souviens de quelques souvenir à ce sujet qui datent de quelque temps. Un garçon canadien qui se prenait pour le Messi ( mais oui...) et une jeune toulousaine qui a totalement flippé en arrivant à Delhi et qui est repartie pratiquement de suite. Pour ces deux cas l'histoire est assez intérressante car provenant de démarches totalement différentes : le garçon canadien fuyait la justice de son pays tandis que la jeune toulousaine ètait partie en Inde sur un coup de tete lors d'une discussion au cours d'une soirée.
Michel
Carpe Diem
Moi je veux bien témoigner en privé, je suis allée en Inde 7 fois, depuis que j'ai 7 ans, et je prépare mon premier voyage seule en février...
Bonjour,
J'ai voyagé 1 an en 198 avec mon mari.
Les 3 premiers mois, je me sentais en vacances. Ensuite, ma famille a commencé à me manquer et puis, c'est passé ! Alors que je savais que je reviendrai, je me suis sentie comme "sans attache", sans "chez-moi". Je suis devenue plus nerveuse et plus sur la défensive. (est-ce du à cela ?). Revenue chez moi après 1 an, il m'a fallu du temps pour reprendre mes repères et le train train cotidien. D'autant que j'étais au chomâge à l'époque et, (Belgique), on devait "pointer" tout les jours. Dur, dur pour reprendre des reprères et un rythme qui a un sens...
Depuis, je suis repartie avec encore avec mon conjoint, avec mes enfants, seule. Je compte repartir encore seule et avec mon mari cette année. Mais, je ne me sens plus perdue ! Au contraire, j'ai plus l'esprit "aventure" , "liberté". Mais, je ne pars pas plus que 2 mois d'affilée, j'ai un boulot et j'ai mes filles et/ou mon mari ici selon le type de voyage ! N'empêche que, dans certaines situations, on perd ses valeurs et repères. Pour me contacter personnellement si cela t'interesses d'avoir plus de détails, laisse-moi ton adresse Email. A bientôt peut-être Cherkori.
Depuis, je suis repartie avec encore avec mon conjoint, avec mes enfants, seule. Je compte repartir encore seule et avec mon mari cette année. Mais, je ne me sens plus perdue ! Au contraire, j'ai plus l'esprit "aventure" , "liberté". Mais, je ne pars pas plus que 2 mois d'affilée, j'ai un boulot et j'ai mes filles et/ou mon mari ici selon le type de voyage ! N'empêche que, dans certaines situations, on perd ses valeurs et repères. Pour me contacter personnellement si cela t'interesses d'avoir plus de détails, laisse-moi ton adresse Email. A bientôt peut-être Cherkori.
Bonjour,
Je viens de lire ton message et ton experience m'intéresse. Pourrais tu me parler de ton premier voyage en Inde? Combien de temps avais tu prévu de partir? Pourquoi l'Inde est ce que tu peux l'exliquer ou pas du tout? Comment te sentais-tu avant de partir? A partir de quel moment t'es tu sentie nerveuse? Qu'évoque pour toi le fait d'être sans "attache" "sans chez moi".
Et qu'est ce qui fait que tu es prête à repartir, peux tu l'expliquer?
Merci de prendre le temps de répondre.
A bientot
Mon mail: priss502@yahoo.fr
Mon mail: priss502@yahoo.fr
je suis allée en inde lan dernier, mon voyage s'est mal passé. si tu veux des renseignement voila mon adresse : carole_dissection@hotmail.fr
Namaste ! il me semble que tout le monde oublie un truc important : nous vivons comme des enfants gatés, dans une société d'adultes gatés ! et certe le choc est tres grand et insupportable parfois ! on réalise alors que nous ne sommes pas le centre du monde : apres, la capacité de chacun a s'adapter ou a s'évader ...; si on n a jamais rien vecu de hard , on morfle plus je pense. Sinon après avoir vécu 3 ans en inde, je les adore et au bout de qqs tps m' enervent : travail de patience pour les speedés, et si vous n'etes pas d'un naturel souriant laissez tomber ! hi hi
Va passer un mois ou deux en Inde, interrroge chaque étranger que tu rencontres (Ashrams, bars, avions, bus, autres divers et variés...) tu vas revenir avec des kgs de témoignages passionants. Le plus dur sera de les trier et de les exploiter pour ta recherche. Si tu veux pas trop bouger tu te plante un mois à Auroville, Pune-Ashram Osho, Darhamsala...T'as du grain à moudre. Ici ce forum c'est pas la bonne place c'est pour des voyageurs qui échangent des trucs pratiques pour mieux voyager. Tu peux aussi faire parler en privé les gens des ambassades, des consulats, Cies de rapatriement et d'assistance. Ils en ont vu de toutes les couleurs. Après t'as les humanitaires, bénévoles et pas bénévoles. Moi je veux bien livrer mon témoignage de 5 ans en Inde mais en répondant seulement à tes questions structurées et en mail privé du forum. Bon travail.
Je suis allé en Inde ( 6 fois ) au Sri Lanka et j'ai eu la chance de rencontré des voyageurs, du babas au bon bourgeois.
L'Inde les a tous marqués. Du meilleur au pire.
Tout dépend de soi, de ce que chacun cherche et surtout trouve.
Notre éducation nous prépare pas à l'Inde et ceux qui sont perturbés le plus, sont ceux qui attendent beaucoup de ce pays.
L'Inde est très différentes de l'Europe en tout.
Bon courage dans ta recherche
Effectivement c'est en Inde que j'aurais le plus de témoignages intéressants et non sur un forum. Mais c'est pour mon dossier (que je dois rendre en décembre 😕) qui est une ébauche du sujet de recherche que je vais poursuivre en master et à ce moment là j'irais passer mon année en Inde dans un programme d'échange dans une université (si je suis accéptée!!).
Voilà alors en attendant vos témoignages sont les bienvenus et merci à tous ceux qui m'ont répondu.
en tant qu un indien ki a vecu 7 ans de sa vie en France pourrait te raconter l hhistoire et la connerie d Ouest vers les indiens. JE vis tjrs dans un etat de choc meme apres mon retour. Ils m ont fait un brain wash. Maintenant l ouest m a rendu dans une situation que meme j ai commencé voir mes propres indiens avec les yeux occidanteaux. le retour est impossible.
c est triste mais c est la verite. plus je rencontre les gens plus je me perds.
maintenant je me souviens de cette phrase de moyen age. Si un indien traverse la mer il perd sa religion : vraiment j ai perdu mon dharma et ma religion. 🏴☠️
Quand j'étais riche, tu devenais jaloux.
Quand je suis pauvre, tu me dénigre.
Deux sortes de voyageurs existent:
Le touriste qui se promène
L'expatrié qui lui est obligé se plier à la vie quotidiennes
Si le premier revient sans trop de problême le second doit se remettre en cause.
C'est pour lui un dechirement de sa personnalité.
Si sa famille le suit il peut garder chez lui son pays. Seul il doit faire un choix: rester comme chez lui dans un pays étranger ou s'intégrer.
Hélas! quel que soit son choix il se trouve " le cul entre deux chaises ".
A l'étranger sa première vie lui manque
A son retour sa deuxième vie la transformé.
Le touriste qui se promène
L'expatrié qui lui est obligé se plier à la vie quotidiennes
Si le premier revient sans trop de problême le second doit se remettre en cause.
C'est pour lui un dechirement de sa personnalité.
Si sa famille le suit il peut garder chez lui son pays. Seul il doit faire un choix: rester comme chez lui dans un pays étranger ou s'intégrer.
Hélas! quel que soit son choix il se trouve " le cul entre deux chaises ".
A l'étranger sa première vie lui manque
A son retour sa deuxième vie la transformé.
Et bien écoute, avec plaisir, même si le thème de ton étude n'est pas très explicite. Moi, ce qui me boulverse, c'est la gentillesse et le sens du partage que possèdent les gens qui n'ont rien, ou quasiment. Ce qui me boulverse aussi, ce sont les budgets colossaux que l'on dépense en occident pour les petits toutous et autres pets. Je trouve cela assez obsène. Je suis actuellement ds le Tamilnadu depuis un mois et en Inde du sud pour encore 4 mois. Je veux bien essayer de répondre à tes questions.
MUu
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Hi everyone!
I’m planning a short visit to Pokhara around mid-February 2027 (it’ll be my 4th time in Nepal 😊, over 40 years!). I’d like to book a room in advance rather than looking when I arrive. I’ve checked a bit on Bxxking.com and see lots of options. I’m used to scoping out the surroundings of places listed, just to avoid ending up in areas that are either unappealing or far from everything.
So, I see quite a few offers around the lake (Lakeside?), but every time I check what it looks like, the streets seem really uninviting. It’s kind of like a construction site with buildings everywhere… Nothing like Bhaktapur (for example) or even Thamel, where the streets seem way more pleasant.
Could anyone give me some advice?
Also, I don’t really get the impression that Pokhara is worth a visit of several days. The lake, sure, but once you’ve seen it—what else is there?
I’m planning a short visit to Pokhara around mid-February 2027 (it’ll be my 4th time in Nepal 😊, over 40 years!). I’d like to book a room in advance rather than looking when I arrive. I’ve checked a bit on Bxxking.com and see lots of options. I’m used to scoping out the surroundings of places listed, just to avoid ending up in areas that are either unappealing or far from everything.
So, I see quite a few offers around the lake (Lakeside?), but every time I check what it looks like, the streets seem really uninviting. It’s kind of like a construction site with buildings everywhere… Nothing like Bhaktapur (for example) or even Thamel, where the streets seem way more pleasant.
Could anyone give me some advice?
Also, I don’t really get the impression that Pokhara is worth a visit of several days. The lake, sure, but once you’ve seen it—what else is there?
Bonjour.
Habituée à voyager en Asie et particulièrement en Inde, j’ai envie de découvrir le Népal pour une quinzaine de jours en passant par Calcutta.
Voyage sac à dos, transports locaux.
Départ de Lyon.
Si vous vous sentez l’âme aventurière et sans se presser, contactez moi.
Je ne fais pas de treks mais je marche très bien.
À bientôt
Hi there,
After a false start in March 2026 due to my Qatar flights being canceled, I’m rescheduling a trip to Kerala for November. Back in March, I’d booked and paid for the 2-day/1-night trek: Tiger Trail in Periyar National Park. Then I read some terrible reviews about the park. On VF, the reviews are old and don’t mention the Tiger Trail. So, before I book again (I’ve got time), has anyone done it recently and can share their experience and impressions? I’m specifically talking about the Tiger Trail, not the park’s jeep/boat activities, which seem more like an amusement park. Thanks
After a false start in March 2026 due to my Qatar flights being canceled, I’m rescheduling a trip to Kerala for November. Back in March, I’d booked and paid for the 2-day/1-night trek: Tiger Trail in Periyar National Park. Then I read some terrible reviews about the park. On VF, the reviews are old and don’t mention the Tiger Trail. So, before I book again (I’ve got time), has anyone done it recently and can share their experience and impressions? I’m specifically talking about the Tiger Trail, not the park’s jeep/boat activities, which seem more like an amusement park. Thanks
Hi everyone,
I’m heading to Assam and I’d like to know what type of electrical adapter I need—is it M or D, or both?
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Hello,
I’m heading to Sri Lanka for 3 weeks in July with my two 11-year-old kids, and I’m wondering about how to organize the trip. We’re used to traveling on the go, staying 1 to 2 or 3 nights per place depending on how we feel.
Do you recommend planning the itinerary and booking accommodations in advance to save time once we’re there? Or is it pretty easy to organize everything as we go without any issues?
Same question for activities: Should we book safaris and tours ahead of time, or can we arrange them easily on the spot? Is there a risk of not getting a spot, for example, to visit a park since we’ll be there in July?
We’ll be using local transport (train, VTC via PickMe, tuk-tuk) to get from one place to another.
In short: Are there any must-book things we should reserve now? So far, I only have the flight tickets!
Thanks in advance for your help! 😊
I’m heading to Sri Lanka for 3 weeks in July with my two 11-year-old kids, and I’m wondering about how to organize the trip. We’re used to traveling on the go, staying 1 to 2 or 3 nights per place depending on how we feel.
Do you recommend planning the itinerary and booking accommodations in advance to save time once we’re there? Or is it pretty easy to organize everything as we go without any issues?
Same question for activities: Should we book safaris and tours ahead of time, or can we arrange them easily on the spot? Is there a risk of not getting a spot, for example, to visit a park since we’ll be there in July?
We’ll be using local transport (train, VTC via PickMe, tuk-tuk) to get from one place to another.
In short: Are there any must-book things we should reserve now? So far, I only have the flight tickets!
Thanks in advance for your help! 😊
Hi there, I think you're on the right track—you plan the itinerary and book the rooms in advance, and that’s it.
Not only do you save time, but you also know where you’ll be staying each night. Choosing well on Booking (or elsewhere) is actually a pleasure!
For safaris, given the number of jeeps with drivers available, it’s unlikely you’ll be turned away... the real issue is more about the concentration of jeeps around the animals.
I travel like you do—train, bus, tuk-tuk, and sometimes taxi. Ride-hailing apps like PickMe and other VTCs are mostly in big cities.
For the mountain train, due to severe flooding, service was interrupted on the line between Kandy and Ella. Check ahead, because reservations for this train are very complicated, if not impossible.
For the Colombo/Kandy train, you reserve your seats by buying the ticket before boarding. In the south, no need to book in advance for trains.
In Sri Lanka, there’s always a solution for getting around—just ask your hosts. They have trusted contacts at their fingertips. But still, compare prices—😏 smart move!
I stick to booking my nights and keep pre-planned activities to a minimum.
For reservations you can’t skip, it’s the beach stays you’ll want to secure.
Hi there,
I’m trying to find out if it’s still possible to travel from Mumbai to Goa by ferry or any other sea route. My search results aren’t very clear, and if it *is* possible, I can’t figure out where to book... If anyone has any info, I’d really appreciate it—thanks in advance!
Have a great day,
Virginie
I’m trying to find out if it’s still possible to travel from Mumbai to Goa by ferry or any other sea route. My search results aren’t very clear, and if it *is* possible, I can’t figure out where to book... If anyone has any info, I’d really appreciate it—thanks in advance!
Have a great day,
Virginie
It seems there’s a ferry from Nagapattinam to Jaffna in India. Has anyone here taken this ferry before? My main question is how to get to Nagapattinam—by train, bus? And from which town further south, of course.
Thanks, friends!
Gaston
Gaston
Hi there.
We’re spending a month in Sri Lanka in March, and we’ll have one week left after leaving Polonnaruwa.
We’re torn between spending it in the Jaffna region or on the east coast between Batticaloa and Trincomalee.
We’re divers, so the east coast appeals to us for snorkeling, beaches, and lagoons—but it seems like late March might not be the best time for that coast. What do you think?
As for Jaffna, the culture of the region, its more authentic feel since it’s less touristy, and the offshore islands all appeal to us too—but it seems far from the rest of the country and harder to access.
We have to choose because we won’t be able to visit both sides, and I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Thanks, Marie
Hi there,
We just got back from a 2-week trip to Sri Lanka as a couple, and while planning the trip, we found plenty of info on the itinerary, places to see, and transportation, but much fewer clear reports on the actual budget to expect once there. Yet, that was an important point for us because we like to plan ahead a little before traveling.
So, we took the time to break down our complete budget after the trip. In our case, we spent around **930 € per person** for 2 weeks, being careful without depriving ourselves, mixing guesthouses, more comfortable hotels, quite a few activities, and even a private driver for part of the stay.
What we found interesting when crunching the numbers is that in Sri Lanka, it’s not necessarily meals or short trips that blow the budget, but rather flights, certain accommodations, cultural activities, and all those little expenses we sometimes forget, like tips.
If this can help other travelers get a better idea, we’ve put everything together on our blog with our experience, a detailed breakdown of expenses, and practical info on money while there, withdrawals, and tipping:
https://aventures-sans-mesaventure.com/budget-sri-lanka-pour-un-voyage-de-2-semaines/
Happy travels and enjoy your adventure! !
Happy travels and enjoy your adventure! !
Hi everyone,
We’re a group of 5 heading to the Everest Base Camp trek in early April. We won’t have a porter or guide—we’re used to hiking independently and have already done the Langtang trek and the Annapurna Circuit (back in 2003!).
I’d love to know if it’s necessary to book lodges in advance or if we’ll easily find availability during this busy season. Also, will we find lodges all along the route between the main stopover villages, or only in those villages? I remember there were plenty everywhere on the Annapurna Circuit. We want to stay as flexible as possible.
Thanks for your feedback!
We’re a group of 5 heading to the Everest Base Camp trek in early April. We won’t have a porter or guide—we’re used to hiking independently and have already done the Langtang trek and the Annapurna Circuit (back in 2003!).
I’d love to know if it’s necessary to book lodges in advance or if we’ll easily find availability during this busy season. Also, will we find lodges all along the route between the main stopover villages, or only in those villages? I remember there were plenty everywhere on the Annapurna Circuit. We want to stay as flexible as possible.
Thanks for your feedback!
Hi there,
We’re heading to India in March 2026 and had planned to visit the parts of the Meenakshi Temple that are open to non-Hindus. However, the temple is currently undergoing major renovations—with all the towers covered in scaffolding—which might really take away from the experience and our stop in Madurai.
After some frustrating and vague online searches, and before we reshuffle our itinerary, I’d love to know—if possible—the most accurate expected completion date for the renovation work.
Thanks in advance.
We’re heading to India in March 2026 and had planned to visit the parts of the Meenakshi Temple that are open to non-Hindus. However, the temple is currently undergoing major renovations—with all the towers covered in scaffolding—which might really take away from the experience and our stop in Madurai.
After some frustrating and vague online searches, and before we reshuffle our itinerary, I’d love to know—if possible—the most accurate expected completion date for the renovation work.
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
We’re planning a trip to Nepal and would love to do a helicopter tour to Everest with Namche Heli Service. Has anyone here used this agency? I can’t seem to find any reviews online. Thanks in advance!
Kloki
We’re planning a trip to Nepal and would love to do a helicopter tour to Everest with Namche Heli Service. Has anyone here used this agency? I can’t seem to find any reviews online. Thanks in advance!
Kloki
Hey fellow travelers,
I’m spending two weeks studying Hindi in the mornings in Delhi, in the Hauz Khas neighborhood. What spots should I check out in this area? Any cafés to chill at? How do I get to other parts of Delhi? By rickshaw? Is it easy to negotiate the price upfront?
Thanks in advance. 😊 Marlène
I’m spending two weeks studying Hindi in the mornings in Delhi, in the Hauz Khas neighborhood. What spots should I check out in this area? Any cafés to chill at? How do I get to other parts of Delhi? By rickshaw? Is it easy to negotiate the price upfront?
Thanks in advance. 😊 Marlène
Hi,
I’m leaving this Saturday for Northern India from 15/02 to 27/02. I’m planning to visit New Delhi, Agra, Chand Baori, Jaipur, Ranthambore, Bundi, Udaipur, and Jodhpur.
What’s the best way to get around? I was thinking of doing everything by train. Maybe taking the bus for some stretches?
As for renting a car with a driver, it seems expensive, so I’ve pretty much ruled that out. Unless someone’s got space for the same dates?
Thanks for your insights!
What’s the best way to get around? I was thinking of doing everything by train. Maybe taking the bus for some stretches?
As for renting a car with a driver, it seems expensive, so I’ve pretty much ruled that out. Unless someone’s got space for the same dates?
Thanks for your insights!
Hi everyone,
We’re heading out in March for this trek. We’re used to hiking and long-distance treks, but this’ll be our first time in Nepal.
QUESTION: People from Nepal are telling us it’s MANDATORY to have guides! Is this true, or is it just agencies trying to get work for their staff?
The Lonely Planet says: "In April 2023, the government announced that every trekker would need to hire the services of a porter or a licensed guide to obtain the TIMS permit. The law isn’t enforced, and by 2025, there were no longer any obligations for teahouse treks."
What do you think? What’s your experience? Thanks for your feedback.
We’re heading out in March for this trek. We’re used to hiking and long-distance treks, but this’ll be our first time in Nepal.
QUESTION: People from Nepal are telling us it’s MANDATORY to have guides! Is this true, or is it just agencies trying to get work for their staff?
The Lonely Planet says: "In April 2023, the government announced that every trekker would need to hire the services of a porter or a licensed guide to obtain the TIMS permit. The law isn’t enforced, and by 2025, there were no longer any obligations for teahouse treks."
What do you think? What’s your experience? Thanks for your feedback.
Hi,
I’d like to arrive in India at New Delhi Airport with some cash. I was wondering if the exchange rates at the airport are any good or if it’s best to avoid them (and exchange in the city instead?).
Thanks for your help.
Thanks for your help.
NAMASTE NEPAL! PRACTICAL INFO AND EXPERIENCE FEEDBACK
Stay from March 25 to April 16, 2025
· Flight tickets Air India (via Delhi) (via Skyscanner) = 1130 € per person · Planned budget (and respected without too many restrictions and while buying a few small gifts) = 2000 € for the stay for two. Buses, taxis, and entrance fees to various sites represent a budget to consider. Meals are cheap. Drinks like beer/Coke, however, are not cheap and cost the equivalent of a meal. · Exchange rate of the rupee during our stay = 0.0064 € (the exchange rate is almost identical everywhere, including at the airport). · At the airport, purchase of two SIM cards (phone) = 1000 NPR x 2 for 28 days. · Kathmandu: we had booked the hotel upon arrival: Kathmandu Boutique Hotel (+977 015 357 446 – email: booking@kathmanduboutiquehotel.com), very well located in a quiet alley off the street, south of Thamel, a 10-minute walk from Durbar Square. A hotel like Nepal knows how to do, where tall people will have to duck. Night + breakfast = 18 € for two. Very warm welcome, great location, excellent value for money. · Bhaktapur: we had also booked a hotel for the end of our stay because the chance of the year 2025 made the Nepali New Year and Bisket Jatra particularly festive in Bhaktapur: Manju Baha Hotel School (+977 976 7234014 – email: manjubahahotel@gmail.com) located in an old monastery. "A social enterprise transforming an old monastery into a charming hotel, offering professional hospitality training to underprivileged Nepali youth." Night + breakfast = 32 € for two. Beautifully decorated room. Very warm welcome. Don’t miss the Changunarayan site (near Bhaktapur), it’s amazing. And if you’re lucky enough to be in Bhaktapur in mid-April for 3 days, there’s the Bisket Jatra festivities (Newari festival), joyful, noisy, fun, and wild… · Pokhara (hotel recommended by the Kathmandu hotel): Hotel Green Tara, Lakeside, 10th street, set back, quiet (Tel. +977 61 462698 – email: greentara_67@hotmail.com) · Trek permit (Lower Mustang, no need for an agency or guide, permits checked at Ghasa and Jomsom) = 2000 NPR per person (2 ID photos) · Bus Kathmandu/Pokhara and return = 2000 NPR per person · Bus Pokhara/Jomsom, 2 one-way tickets = 2800 NPR. · Taxi: negotiation with a driver we recommend, Vicky (+977 984 075 599). You explain what you want, negotiate the price, and he waits for you during the visit. Very charming, we used him several times. For example: departure from our hotel at 10 AM -> Boudhanath/Pashupatinath/Patan return at 5 PM to the hotel = 6500 NPR – Swayambhunath (round trip) = 1200 NPR · Site prices: https://ntb.gov.np/plan-your-trip/before-you-come/heritage-site-entry-fees o Visitor Pass for Kathmandu Durbar Square (for the duration of the stay, show your visa) = 1000 NPR per person (1 ID photo) o Bhaktapur Durbar Square (old town) = 1800 NPR per person o Patan = 1000 NPR per person o Swayambhu Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Boudha Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Pashupatinath Temple = 1000 NPR per person (interesting to take a guide) o Changunarayan Temple (6 km north of Bhaktapur) = 400 NPR per person o Mountain Museum in Pokhara = 750 NPR per person · E-cigarettes: e-cigarettes are banned in India and confiscated whether they’re in carry-on or checked luggage. On the way there, we had kept them in our carry-on, they were confiscated in Delhi. On the way back, learning from our previous experience, we put them in our checked luggage. Someone came to get us to take them out of our bags and confiscate them… You can find e-cigarettes and products in Kathmandu.
* * *
I’m 74 years old. I went to Nepal in 1982, 1983, and the last time in 1986. I wanted to introduce this beautiful and endearing country to my husband, and it was… now or never. So we decided it was now.
I knew the trek starting from Pokhara: Naudanda/Birethanti/Ghorepani/Tatopani/Kalopani. There was no way I was going to do that trek, especially the 1000-meter staircase to reach Ghorepani… You have to stay humble with age.
Back then, the road didn’t exist. I didn’t consider, with the construction of this road (NH48) along the western bank of the Kali Gandaki, doing a trek along a windy and dusty road. Was there an alternative hiking trail on the eastern bank? No one answered my question on VoyageForum, so I did my research online. And I found this site: "Andrées de Ruiter and Prem Rai - Trekking the Annapurna Circuit, including the new NATT trails that avoid the road - A guide to one of the most beautiful trekking regions in Nepal and the world (2011) - NATT = New Annapurna Trekking Trail".
Phew! A solution was emerging. This circuit from 2011 wasn’t fully marked. The idea was to go from Jomsom to Tatopani, so we needed to make sure the path was well-marked all the way, which we did, and the path exists, marked in red and white!
So, with the walking times information, we built our 8-day circuit:
· Jomsom/Thinigaon · Thinigaon/Chimang · Chimang/Saura · Saura/Kokhetanti · Rest day or, if in good shape: loop to Sekong Lake · Kokhetanti/Jhipra Deurali · Jhipra Deurali/Kopchepani · Kopchepani/Tatopani
It’s a senior trek, after all. So the walking times noted on the sites indicated 3 hours or even 4 hours for the two longest stages. That pace suited us fine.
On March 29, we left Kathmandu (1400m), after visiting the must-see sites, by bus to Pokhara: 200 km and 8.5 hours on a chaotic road under construction. I had a memory of Pokhara where it was the first city where you could see the Himalayan range, especially Machhapuchhare. But the pollution is such, the dust raised by traffic and construction, that no horizon is visible except the first hills around Pokhara.
We stayed 24 hours in Pokhara (820m), and on March 31, we left our luggage at the hotel and set off with our lightest backpacks: change of clothes, toiletries, first aid kit, anti-chafing cream, water bottle, sleeping bag liner, and light shoes for the stages.
We took the bus to Jomsom: 160 km/7.5 hours including stops for bathroom breaks, tea, and lunch. The road is nothing but a chaos of potholes, landslides, construction, dust, rebuilding, and mudslides. In Ghasa, the bus stops, and we’re told we’re at a checkpoint and that the two foreigners in the bus, my husband and I, need to have our permits checked, which takes a few minutes. The driving is rock-and-roll, surprising, and courteous. The drivers have their codes, and on these improbable roads, they’re virtuosos.
We could have chosen the plane, but several reasons dissuaded us: if there’s too much wind, the planes don’t take off; personally, I wasn’t reassured about landing in Jomsom, and this transport has a cost.
We arrived around 2 PM in Jomsom (2720m), and despite the early wake-up, the nearly 8 hours on the bus, and the altitude, we decided to head straight to Thinigaon (2840m). At the Jomsom checkpoint, they told us it was a 30-minute walk. Great! Except we took an hour and a half on an uphill road, bent over to fight a strong wind. But the Himalayan range is there! The Dhaulagiri, the Nilgiri, the Annapurnas as a reward.
In Thinigaon, we found a room at the "Nilgiri View Hotel" run by a didi (big sister in Nepali). From the lodge’s roof, she proudly showed us the different peaks surrounding the village and told us, worried, that it hadn’t snowed here for 3 years. She said there are very few tourists, that the season is rather in September/October/November. It seems there’s not a soul in this village, yet mules pass through the narrow street paved with large flat stones, their bells ringing. We dine at 6 PM and go to bed… Room = 1200 NPR and dinner, breakfast, and drinks = 2560 NPR.
On April 1, we set off at 9 AM, not for Chimang as planned but for Marpha! The didi from the Thinigaon lodge had said it was a 3-hour walk. The first part of this stage is attractive, the mountains are magnificent and imposing, the landscape is superb, there’s no one around, a feeling of being "alone in the world." We follow Dhumbra Tal, this small green lake. The path is a rocky track that climbs steeply. Then, around a hill, we start the big descent that joins the Kali Gandaki. We face the wind head-on, and the violent gusts take our breath away, throw us off balance, and envelop us in dust. We see the road on the other side of the Kali Gandaki. We arrive in the village of Chhairo at 2 PM, completely exhausted and with blistered feet, after 5 hours of walking instead of the planned 3.5 hours.
We’re welcomed by the village nurse, who tells us there’s a lodge in the village. Chhairo is a Tibetan village, a 20-minute walk from Marpha (according to the locals, multiply by 2 or even 3 for us…). We’re going to revise our trek plan and, first of all, spend the night in Chhairo.
The lodge is quite pleasant, and Karma, the hostess, is very friendly. She asks about our plans and suggests we stay in Chhairo the next day, from where we can visit Marpha and also Chimang, a 1-hour walk away, in light mode, meaning without backpacks. She invites us to participate in a village ceremony the next evening.
We immediately accept the proposal, as our feet need rest and the welcome is so warm… Dinner and bed!
We reworked our trek plan, which was too ambitious for our untrained bodies and, let’s face it… no longer in our first youth. In the initial plan, we thought there wouldn’t be too much elevation gain following the Kali Gandaki, but checking the map, we realize there might be significant elevation changes between Sauru and Sirkung. So we plan:
· Tomorrow: visit Marpha (2670m) and Chimang (2744m) · April 3: bus from Chhairo (2700m) to Kalopani (2530m) and continue on foot to Ghasa (2010m) · April 4: Ghasa/Pairataplo (1940m) · April 5: Pairatapla/Gadpar (1580m) · April 6: Gadpar/Narchyang (1510m) · April 7: Narchyang/Tatopani (1190m) · April 8: return to Pokhara.
Normally, it’s all downhill…
April 2, a rest day then… We set off in the morning to explore Marpha. We have to take a temporary bridge because the suspension bridge is closed due to road construction. We join the road and arrive in Marpha, a village famous for its apple orchards, brandy, cider, and apple juice production. This village is magnificent with its stone houses and monastery clinging to the hillside. The road construction spared it. There are people, but very few Western tourists.
We have lunch in Marpha and go back through Chhairo to take the path to Chimang. We cross a fragrant pine forest and find the rocky path; the landscape is splendid. We walk quietly, passing peaceful buffaloes and cows, and arrive at the foot of a stone staircase… 275 steps (which we counted on the way back) leading us to the village of Chimang. Chimang is an isolated Newari village that seems a bit desolate. Despite the slopes, there are crops on every little bit of land. Thankfully, we changed our initial program because there’s no lodge in this village, contrary to what we saw on a map… We wander through the village, which seems very deserted, have coffee in a house from another world, and then head back to Chhairo.
A rest day? = 5 hours of walking!!
Dinner and village ceremony. From what we understand, this ceremony is in honor of the Dalai Lama. Men, women, and children in traditional costumes gather twice a month; they dance, make, and offer small sweet cakes with Tibetan tea (made from tea, yak butter—often rancid—water, and salt). Surprising for first-timers…
Around 10 PM, we leave the ceremony; tomorrow morning, we need to be on the roadside by 7 AM to catch the bus to Kalopani…
This village of Chhairo is very pleasant and welcoming, no tourists, just two motorcyclists who arrived in the evening, one of whom participated in the ceremony and discreetly poured his Tibetan tea outside.
Lodge: "Norsang Tibetan Guesthouse and Restaurant". Total bill for 2 nights, 2 dinners, 2 breakfasts, and drinks = 8000 NPR.
April 3: bus from Chhairo to Kalopani, about 1.5 hours for the 20 km (200 NPR per person). We descend on the right bank of the Kali Gandaki. We find the red and white markings to resume the trek toward Ghasa. We’re in a fragrant pine forest, the Dhaulagiri on one side and the Annapurnas on the other, magnificent, and the path is pleasant and easy. We get a bit lost in this forest, always looking for the markings. Near Lete, two trekkers pass us, and we meet them again a little further on with two very young children, to whom we give the 2 hard-boiled eggs I didn’t eat this morning. They accepted them without hesitation.
We arrive in a village and ask for directions to Ghasa. The young girls point the way. But we come across a forest being logged, trees cut in all directions. We turn back and ask for confirmation. They confirm… But the two young girls catch up with us and clear the way. We have to step over, go around, and cross the felled trees, with no indication at all. Through this pick-up sticks of felled trees, the girls lead us to the top of a stone staircase, indicating that was the path. It’s the only place where we saw rhododendrons in bloom.
We descend the staircase. At the bottom, to the left, there’s a bridge to go toward Choyo, and to the right, a path to Ghasa. We take the right path and join the road. We should normally find the red and white markings, but we don’t… So we continue on the western bank road of the Kali Gandaki.
A little before the village of Misi, we see fumaroles on the opposite bank that seem to come from the ground. We don’t understand. We stopped to eat in the village of Misi (noodle soup = 600 NPR), but it’s hard to communicate with the elderly people running the guesthouse.
We continued on the road, not finding the marked path parallel to the road. Landslides, both on the left and right banks, seem to have taken over the marked routes. It’s a place where the Kali Gandaki gorge narrows, and on the opposite bank, the mountain smokes more and more, and we now hear the crackling of fire. Across from us, the mountain is burning… Our initial plan had us passing on that burning bank right now…
We arrive in Ghasa at 3:30 PM, a 6.5-hour stage but with a 1-hour stop at noon. We’re at the "Florida Guesthouse and Restaurant." From our room, we see the mountain smoking on the other side of the river, and at night, we see the flames. In this village, posters show Himalayan eagles and vultures that seem to be protected species. Indeed, we saw (and heard) 3 eagles circling today.
April 4 – Today, heading to Pairothapla or Kopchepani depending on our feet, accommodation options, and simply our desires.
No more smoke on the mountain this morning. It’s chilly, 7:45 AM, the sky is clear, just a smell of smoke outside.
Price of the lodge = 1000 NPR for the night + 3580 NPR for meals.
We cross Ghasa, which stretches over more than a kilometer. We have a drink at the last guesthouse in the village, and the didi, when she learns our destination, tells us to be careful because the villages we’re going to aren’t safe. Should we distribute our rupees in different pockets? Nah, we kept going.
At the exit of Ghasa, we find the red and white markings and take the suspension bridge to cross the boiling waters of the Kali Gandaki. The passage is impressive because the river is tumultuous. Lots of climbs and even more descents. We’re back on the eastern bank. It’s hot! On the narrow path, we meet a group of buffaloes. Who has the right of way? We decide to stick as close as possible to the rock wall and move forward calmly. The buffaloes look at us, chewing placidly, with no intention of jumping on us. Phew!
After a 5-hour stage (including stops), we arrive in Pairothapla, with hot feet and firm thighs, and decide we won’t go any further. It’s a good thing because there’s a lodge, the most basic so far, but with a great welcome. We have a meal and a short nap. The buffaloes we met on the way belong to this house. They come to drink at the fountain by the path.
Our host, very pleasant, doesn’t know what to do to please us and is very attentive. He wants to chat. He has two children, a 4-year-old girl and a 7-year-old boy. Where do they go to school? Do they go? He tells us that the fires in the mountain are caused by people, but for what reason? We won’t find out, but it’s illegal. From here, we can still see smoke rising in the distance. The wife is a bit less friendly. Corn kernels dry on a woven straw mat on the ground, and the mom sorts them.
From where we are, we overlook the valley and see the road under construction winding along the mountainside on the other bank.
Dinner on the terrace of the house overlooking the path, windbreaker and fleece on: dal bhat chicken for me and chicken curry for my husband: "organic" products, at least local production. There are small vegetable gardens everywhere with all sorts of vegetables.
April 5 – While we’re having breakfast on the terrace of our lodge, 5 porters, straps on their foreheads, heavily loaded, pass by on the path. A few minutes later, a group of 9 people appears. It must be said that since the beginning of our journey, we’ve met very few hikers. Two backpackers in Chhairo, the two hikers near Lete, two female hikers passed us before Pairothapla, a solo female hiker passed us…
The lodge in Pairothapla is called "Bimala Lodge & Thakali Kitchen" – Price for night + 4 meals + 2 breakfasts = 3000 NPR.
The descent toward the Kali Gandaki involves climbs whose steps we didn’t count. Clearly, the landslides on the mountain cause changes to the official ACAP trek marked in red and white, and the marking updates can’t keep up with the pace of these landslides. It’s almost always by chance that we find the markings. Fortunately, we can follow the power line that guides us somewhat.
Drink stop in Kopchepani, the legs are fine, but the feet don’t like being tightly enclosed. A group of trekkers with porters passes on the path. We met buffaloes that we kindly let pass; the path was wide enough, but it was a staircase going up, and we didn’t want to take any risks.
Across, a view of the magnificent Rupse Waterfall on the other bank of the Kali Gandaki, at the bottom, lots of vehicles and people.
Arrival in Gadpar after crossing a rather unwelcoming small village and cultivated gardens between dry stone walls, each better built than the last.
First lodge spotted, first lodge adopted to answer the call of our feet, and a very warm welcome from the owner. Since we hadn’t eaten at noon, we had Tibetan bread/jam. 6-hour stage including 1 hour of stops. Night + dinner + breakfast + drinks = 5060 NPR
April 6 – Today, heading to Narchyang.
For several days, we’ve seen banana trees with their bunches of fruit and even a prickly pear with large fruits ripening.
This stage is quite peaceful and pleasant. We take a suspension bridge to cross a tributary of the Kali Gandaki. While we’re resting for a moment before crossing the bridge, a couple of porters, a man and a woman, arrive and start across the bridge with their wood load in a basket held by a strap on their forehead, making them bend. We set off too… lighter than them.
On the other side of the bridge… a stone staircase, and it climbs steeply. The porter couple didn’t take this staircase; they went right on the path.
At the top of the staircase, we arrive in Narchyang after a 4-hour stage. A magnificent waterfall overlooks the village. We get lost in this fairly large village looking for a lodge. After wandering around for a while, we ask for directions, and an 84-year-old man takes us through the whole village and accompanies us to a very nice lodge run by a woman.
We chat with our hostess, who asks where we’re from and where we’re going. We explain that we want to reach Tatopani the next day and then return to Pokhara. She tells us there are 4x4s going directly to Pokhara and that it would probably be easier than taking a bus that might be full in Tatopani. After a quick consultation, we decide to return to Pokhara the next day by 4x4. She finds us a 4x4 with 2 seats left, departure at 8 AM – 5 hours on the road and 1500 NPR per person. A charming didi who does everything to be pleasant and helpful.
Narchyang community lodge = night + snacks + dinner + breakfast = 3000 NPR.
There you go, our trek ends tomorrow. Many necessary changes and adaptations to our initial trek, but no regrets, it was superb and a great experience that, for my part, I won’t be able to repeat. Always this encounter with the endearing, welcoming, curious, and very kind Nepali people. It was now or never, and we did it!
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In conclusion, 3 full weeks in Nepal is a duration that allows visiting Kathmandu, Patan, and Bhaktapur, enjoying the various sites, and soaking in the atmosphere and urban Nepali life.
The trek, even revised and corrected, allowed us to get close to the impressive Annapurna and Dhaulagiri peaks. One or two acclimatization days might be necessary to get the body in tune with this magical and extraordinary land.
Stay from March 25 to April 16, 2025
· Flight tickets Air India (via Delhi) (via Skyscanner) = 1130 € per person · Planned budget (and respected without too many restrictions and while buying a few small gifts) = 2000 € for the stay for two. Buses, taxis, and entrance fees to various sites represent a budget to consider. Meals are cheap. Drinks like beer/Coke, however, are not cheap and cost the equivalent of a meal. · Exchange rate of the rupee during our stay = 0.0064 € (the exchange rate is almost identical everywhere, including at the airport). · At the airport, purchase of two SIM cards (phone) = 1000 NPR x 2 for 28 days. · Kathmandu: we had booked the hotel upon arrival: Kathmandu Boutique Hotel (+977 015 357 446 – email: booking@kathmanduboutiquehotel.com), very well located in a quiet alley off the street, south of Thamel, a 10-minute walk from Durbar Square. A hotel like Nepal knows how to do, where tall people will have to duck. Night + breakfast = 18 € for two. Very warm welcome, great location, excellent value for money. · Bhaktapur: we had also booked a hotel for the end of our stay because the chance of the year 2025 made the Nepali New Year and Bisket Jatra particularly festive in Bhaktapur: Manju Baha Hotel School (+977 976 7234014 – email: manjubahahotel@gmail.com) located in an old monastery. "A social enterprise transforming an old monastery into a charming hotel, offering professional hospitality training to underprivileged Nepali youth." Night + breakfast = 32 € for two. Beautifully decorated room. Very warm welcome. Don’t miss the Changunarayan site (near Bhaktapur), it’s amazing. And if you’re lucky enough to be in Bhaktapur in mid-April for 3 days, there’s the Bisket Jatra festivities (Newari festival), joyful, noisy, fun, and wild… · Pokhara (hotel recommended by the Kathmandu hotel): Hotel Green Tara, Lakeside, 10th street, set back, quiet (Tel. +977 61 462698 – email: greentara_67@hotmail.com) · Trek permit (Lower Mustang, no need for an agency or guide, permits checked at Ghasa and Jomsom) = 2000 NPR per person (2 ID photos) · Bus Kathmandu/Pokhara and return = 2000 NPR per person · Bus Pokhara/Jomsom, 2 one-way tickets = 2800 NPR. · Taxi: negotiation with a driver we recommend, Vicky (+977 984 075 599). You explain what you want, negotiate the price, and he waits for you during the visit. Very charming, we used him several times. For example: departure from our hotel at 10 AM -> Boudhanath/Pashupatinath/Patan return at 5 PM to the hotel = 6500 NPR – Swayambhunath (round trip) = 1200 NPR · Site prices: https://ntb.gov.np/plan-your-trip/before-you-come/heritage-site-entry-fees o Visitor Pass for Kathmandu Durbar Square (for the duration of the stay, show your visa) = 1000 NPR per person (1 ID photo) o Bhaktapur Durbar Square (old town) = 1800 NPR per person o Patan = 1000 NPR per person o Swayambhu Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Boudha Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Pashupatinath Temple = 1000 NPR per person (interesting to take a guide) o Changunarayan Temple (6 km north of Bhaktapur) = 400 NPR per person o Mountain Museum in Pokhara = 750 NPR per person · E-cigarettes: e-cigarettes are banned in India and confiscated whether they’re in carry-on or checked luggage. On the way there, we had kept them in our carry-on, they were confiscated in Delhi. On the way back, learning from our previous experience, we put them in our checked luggage. Someone came to get us to take them out of our bags and confiscate them… You can find e-cigarettes and products in Kathmandu.
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I’m 74 years old. I went to Nepal in 1982, 1983, and the last time in 1986. I wanted to introduce this beautiful and endearing country to my husband, and it was… now or never. So we decided it was now.
I knew the trek starting from Pokhara: Naudanda/Birethanti/Ghorepani/Tatopani/Kalopani. There was no way I was going to do that trek, especially the 1000-meter staircase to reach Ghorepani… You have to stay humble with age.
Back then, the road didn’t exist. I didn’t consider, with the construction of this road (NH48) along the western bank of the Kali Gandaki, doing a trek along a windy and dusty road. Was there an alternative hiking trail on the eastern bank? No one answered my question on VoyageForum, so I did my research online. And I found this site: "Andrées de Ruiter and Prem Rai - Trekking the Annapurna Circuit, including the new NATT trails that avoid the road - A guide to one of the most beautiful trekking regions in Nepal and the world (2011) - NATT = New Annapurna Trekking Trail".
Phew! A solution was emerging. This circuit from 2011 wasn’t fully marked. The idea was to go from Jomsom to Tatopani, so we needed to make sure the path was well-marked all the way, which we did, and the path exists, marked in red and white!
So, with the walking times information, we built our 8-day circuit:
· Jomsom/Thinigaon · Thinigaon/Chimang · Chimang/Saura · Saura/Kokhetanti · Rest day or, if in good shape: loop to Sekong Lake · Kokhetanti/Jhipra Deurali · Jhipra Deurali/Kopchepani · Kopchepani/Tatopani
It’s a senior trek, after all. So the walking times noted on the sites indicated 3 hours or even 4 hours for the two longest stages. That pace suited us fine.
On March 29, we left Kathmandu (1400m), after visiting the must-see sites, by bus to Pokhara: 200 km and 8.5 hours on a chaotic road under construction. I had a memory of Pokhara where it was the first city where you could see the Himalayan range, especially Machhapuchhare. But the pollution is such, the dust raised by traffic and construction, that no horizon is visible except the first hills around Pokhara.
We stayed 24 hours in Pokhara (820m), and on March 31, we left our luggage at the hotel and set off with our lightest backpacks: change of clothes, toiletries, first aid kit, anti-chafing cream, water bottle, sleeping bag liner, and light shoes for the stages.
We took the bus to Jomsom: 160 km/7.5 hours including stops for bathroom breaks, tea, and lunch. The road is nothing but a chaos of potholes, landslides, construction, dust, rebuilding, and mudslides. In Ghasa, the bus stops, and we’re told we’re at a checkpoint and that the two foreigners in the bus, my husband and I, need to have our permits checked, which takes a few minutes. The driving is rock-and-roll, surprising, and courteous. The drivers have their codes, and on these improbable roads, they’re virtuosos.
We could have chosen the plane, but several reasons dissuaded us: if there’s too much wind, the planes don’t take off; personally, I wasn’t reassured about landing in Jomsom, and this transport has a cost.
We arrived around 2 PM in Jomsom (2720m), and despite the early wake-up, the nearly 8 hours on the bus, and the altitude, we decided to head straight to Thinigaon (2840m). At the Jomsom checkpoint, they told us it was a 30-minute walk. Great! Except we took an hour and a half on an uphill road, bent over to fight a strong wind. But the Himalayan range is there! The Dhaulagiri, the Nilgiri, the Annapurnas as a reward.
In Thinigaon, we found a room at the "Nilgiri View Hotel" run by a didi (big sister in Nepali). From the lodge’s roof, she proudly showed us the different peaks surrounding the village and told us, worried, that it hadn’t snowed here for 3 years. She said there are very few tourists, that the season is rather in September/October/November. It seems there’s not a soul in this village, yet mules pass through the narrow street paved with large flat stones, their bells ringing. We dine at 6 PM and go to bed… Room = 1200 NPR and dinner, breakfast, and drinks = 2560 NPR.
On April 1, we set off at 9 AM, not for Chimang as planned but for Marpha! The didi from the Thinigaon lodge had said it was a 3-hour walk. The first part of this stage is attractive, the mountains are magnificent and imposing, the landscape is superb, there’s no one around, a feeling of being "alone in the world." We follow Dhumbra Tal, this small green lake. The path is a rocky track that climbs steeply. Then, around a hill, we start the big descent that joins the Kali Gandaki. We face the wind head-on, and the violent gusts take our breath away, throw us off balance, and envelop us in dust. We see the road on the other side of the Kali Gandaki. We arrive in the village of Chhairo at 2 PM, completely exhausted and with blistered feet, after 5 hours of walking instead of the planned 3.5 hours.
We’re welcomed by the village nurse, who tells us there’s a lodge in the village. Chhairo is a Tibetan village, a 20-minute walk from Marpha (according to the locals, multiply by 2 or even 3 for us…). We’re going to revise our trek plan and, first of all, spend the night in Chhairo.
The lodge is quite pleasant, and Karma, the hostess, is very friendly. She asks about our plans and suggests we stay in Chhairo the next day, from where we can visit Marpha and also Chimang, a 1-hour walk away, in light mode, meaning without backpacks. She invites us to participate in a village ceremony the next evening.
We immediately accept the proposal, as our feet need rest and the welcome is so warm… Dinner and bed!
We reworked our trek plan, which was too ambitious for our untrained bodies and, let’s face it… no longer in our first youth. In the initial plan, we thought there wouldn’t be too much elevation gain following the Kali Gandaki, but checking the map, we realize there might be significant elevation changes between Sauru and Sirkung. So we plan:
· Tomorrow: visit Marpha (2670m) and Chimang (2744m) · April 3: bus from Chhairo (2700m) to Kalopani (2530m) and continue on foot to Ghasa (2010m) · April 4: Ghasa/Pairataplo (1940m) · April 5: Pairatapla/Gadpar (1580m) · April 6: Gadpar/Narchyang (1510m) · April 7: Narchyang/Tatopani (1190m) · April 8: return to Pokhara.
Normally, it’s all downhill…
April 2, a rest day then… We set off in the morning to explore Marpha. We have to take a temporary bridge because the suspension bridge is closed due to road construction. We join the road and arrive in Marpha, a village famous for its apple orchards, brandy, cider, and apple juice production. This village is magnificent with its stone houses and monastery clinging to the hillside. The road construction spared it. There are people, but very few Western tourists.
We have lunch in Marpha and go back through Chhairo to take the path to Chimang. We cross a fragrant pine forest and find the rocky path; the landscape is splendid. We walk quietly, passing peaceful buffaloes and cows, and arrive at the foot of a stone staircase… 275 steps (which we counted on the way back) leading us to the village of Chimang. Chimang is an isolated Newari village that seems a bit desolate. Despite the slopes, there are crops on every little bit of land. Thankfully, we changed our initial program because there’s no lodge in this village, contrary to what we saw on a map… We wander through the village, which seems very deserted, have coffee in a house from another world, and then head back to Chhairo.
A rest day? = 5 hours of walking!!
Dinner and village ceremony. From what we understand, this ceremony is in honor of the Dalai Lama. Men, women, and children in traditional costumes gather twice a month; they dance, make, and offer small sweet cakes with Tibetan tea (made from tea, yak butter—often rancid—water, and salt). Surprising for first-timers…
Around 10 PM, we leave the ceremony; tomorrow morning, we need to be on the roadside by 7 AM to catch the bus to Kalopani…
This village of Chhairo is very pleasant and welcoming, no tourists, just two motorcyclists who arrived in the evening, one of whom participated in the ceremony and discreetly poured his Tibetan tea outside.
Lodge: "Norsang Tibetan Guesthouse and Restaurant". Total bill for 2 nights, 2 dinners, 2 breakfasts, and drinks = 8000 NPR.
April 3: bus from Chhairo to Kalopani, about 1.5 hours for the 20 km (200 NPR per person). We descend on the right bank of the Kali Gandaki. We find the red and white markings to resume the trek toward Ghasa. We’re in a fragrant pine forest, the Dhaulagiri on one side and the Annapurnas on the other, magnificent, and the path is pleasant and easy. We get a bit lost in this forest, always looking for the markings. Near Lete, two trekkers pass us, and we meet them again a little further on with two very young children, to whom we give the 2 hard-boiled eggs I didn’t eat this morning. They accepted them without hesitation.
We arrive in a village and ask for directions to Ghasa. The young girls point the way. But we come across a forest being logged, trees cut in all directions. We turn back and ask for confirmation. They confirm… But the two young girls catch up with us and clear the way. We have to step over, go around, and cross the felled trees, with no indication at all. Through this pick-up sticks of felled trees, the girls lead us to the top of a stone staircase, indicating that was the path. It’s the only place where we saw rhododendrons in bloom.
We descend the staircase. At the bottom, to the left, there’s a bridge to go toward Choyo, and to the right, a path to Ghasa. We take the right path and join the road. We should normally find the red and white markings, but we don’t… So we continue on the western bank road of the Kali Gandaki.
A little before the village of Misi, we see fumaroles on the opposite bank that seem to come from the ground. We don’t understand. We stopped to eat in the village of Misi (noodle soup = 600 NPR), but it’s hard to communicate with the elderly people running the guesthouse.
We continued on the road, not finding the marked path parallel to the road. Landslides, both on the left and right banks, seem to have taken over the marked routes. It’s a place where the Kali Gandaki gorge narrows, and on the opposite bank, the mountain smokes more and more, and we now hear the crackling of fire. Across from us, the mountain is burning… Our initial plan had us passing on that burning bank right now…
We arrive in Ghasa at 3:30 PM, a 6.5-hour stage but with a 1-hour stop at noon. We’re at the "Florida Guesthouse and Restaurant." From our room, we see the mountain smoking on the other side of the river, and at night, we see the flames. In this village, posters show Himalayan eagles and vultures that seem to be protected species. Indeed, we saw (and heard) 3 eagles circling today.
April 4 – Today, heading to Pairothapla or Kopchepani depending on our feet, accommodation options, and simply our desires.
No more smoke on the mountain this morning. It’s chilly, 7:45 AM, the sky is clear, just a smell of smoke outside.
Price of the lodge = 1000 NPR for the night + 3580 NPR for meals.
We cross Ghasa, which stretches over more than a kilometer. We have a drink at the last guesthouse in the village, and the didi, when she learns our destination, tells us to be careful because the villages we’re going to aren’t safe. Should we distribute our rupees in different pockets? Nah, we kept going.
At the exit of Ghasa, we find the red and white markings and take the suspension bridge to cross the boiling waters of the Kali Gandaki. The passage is impressive because the river is tumultuous. Lots of climbs and even more descents. We’re back on the eastern bank. It’s hot! On the narrow path, we meet a group of buffaloes. Who has the right of way? We decide to stick as close as possible to the rock wall and move forward calmly. The buffaloes look at us, chewing placidly, with no intention of jumping on us. Phew!
After a 5-hour stage (including stops), we arrive in Pairothapla, with hot feet and firm thighs, and decide we won’t go any further. It’s a good thing because there’s a lodge, the most basic so far, but with a great welcome. We have a meal and a short nap. The buffaloes we met on the way belong to this house. They come to drink at the fountain by the path.
Our host, very pleasant, doesn’t know what to do to please us and is very attentive. He wants to chat. He has two children, a 4-year-old girl and a 7-year-old boy. Where do they go to school? Do they go? He tells us that the fires in the mountain are caused by people, but for what reason? We won’t find out, but it’s illegal. From here, we can still see smoke rising in the distance. The wife is a bit less friendly. Corn kernels dry on a woven straw mat on the ground, and the mom sorts them.
From where we are, we overlook the valley and see the road under construction winding along the mountainside on the other bank.
Dinner on the terrace of the house overlooking the path, windbreaker and fleece on: dal bhat chicken for me and chicken curry for my husband: "organic" products, at least local production. There are small vegetable gardens everywhere with all sorts of vegetables.
April 5 – While we’re having breakfast on the terrace of our lodge, 5 porters, straps on their foreheads, heavily loaded, pass by on the path. A few minutes later, a group of 9 people appears. It must be said that since the beginning of our journey, we’ve met very few hikers. Two backpackers in Chhairo, the two hikers near Lete, two female hikers passed us before Pairothapla, a solo female hiker passed us…
The lodge in Pairothapla is called "Bimala Lodge & Thakali Kitchen" – Price for night + 4 meals + 2 breakfasts = 3000 NPR.
The descent toward the Kali Gandaki involves climbs whose steps we didn’t count. Clearly, the landslides on the mountain cause changes to the official ACAP trek marked in red and white, and the marking updates can’t keep up with the pace of these landslides. It’s almost always by chance that we find the markings. Fortunately, we can follow the power line that guides us somewhat.
Drink stop in Kopchepani, the legs are fine, but the feet don’t like being tightly enclosed. A group of trekkers with porters passes on the path. We met buffaloes that we kindly let pass; the path was wide enough, but it was a staircase going up, and we didn’t want to take any risks.
Across, a view of the magnificent Rupse Waterfall on the other bank of the Kali Gandaki, at the bottom, lots of vehicles and people.
Arrival in Gadpar after crossing a rather unwelcoming small village and cultivated gardens between dry stone walls, each better built than the last.
First lodge spotted, first lodge adopted to answer the call of our feet, and a very warm welcome from the owner. Since we hadn’t eaten at noon, we had Tibetan bread/jam. 6-hour stage including 1 hour of stops. Night + dinner + breakfast + drinks = 5060 NPR
April 6 – Today, heading to Narchyang.
For several days, we’ve seen banana trees with their bunches of fruit and even a prickly pear with large fruits ripening.
This stage is quite peaceful and pleasant. We take a suspension bridge to cross a tributary of the Kali Gandaki. While we’re resting for a moment before crossing the bridge, a couple of porters, a man and a woman, arrive and start across the bridge with their wood load in a basket held by a strap on their forehead, making them bend. We set off too… lighter than them.
On the other side of the bridge… a stone staircase, and it climbs steeply. The porter couple didn’t take this staircase; they went right on the path.
At the top of the staircase, we arrive in Narchyang after a 4-hour stage. A magnificent waterfall overlooks the village. We get lost in this fairly large village looking for a lodge. After wandering around for a while, we ask for directions, and an 84-year-old man takes us through the whole village and accompanies us to a very nice lodge run by a woman.
We chat with our hostess, who asks where we’re from and where we’re going. We explain that we want to reach Tatopani the next day and then return to Pokhara. She tells us there are 4x4s going directly to Pokhara and that it would probably be easier than taking a bus that might be full in Tatopani. After a quick consultation, we decide to return to Pokhara the next day by 4x4. She finds us a 4x4 with 2 seats left, departure at 8 AM – 5 hours on the road and 1500 NPR per person. A charming didi who does everything to be pleasant and helpful.
Narchyang community lodge = night + snacks + dinner + breakfast = 3000 NPR.
There you go, our trek ends tomorrow. Many necessary changes and adaptations to our initial trek, but no regrets, it was superb and a great experience that, for my part, I won’t be able to repeat. Always this encounter with the endearing, welcoming, curious, and very kind Nepali people. It was now or never, and we did it!
* * *
In conclusion, 3 full weeks in Nepal is a duration that allows visiting Kathmandu, Patan, and Bhaktapur, enjoying the various sites, and soaking in the atmosphere and urban Nepali life.
The trek, even revised and corrected, allowed us to get close to the impressive Annapurna and Dhaulagiri peaks. One or two acclimatization days might be necessary to get the body in tune with this magical and extraordinary land.
Hi there,
My partner and I are heading to Nepal for 15 days in March—she’s a schoolteacher. We’ll be trekking to Everest Base Camp and then doing the loop via the Gokyo Lakes.
We’d love to set up a fundraiser to donate to a school in Namche, along with visiting the school. It’s something that really matters to us. But it’s been tough to get in touch with a school—any ideas on how to go about this? Thanks!
My partner and I are heading to Nepal for 15 days in March—she’s a schoolteacher. We’ll be trekking to Everest Base Camp and then doing the loop via the Gokyo Lakes.
We’d love to set up a fundraiser to donate to a school in Namche, along with visiting the school. It’s something that really matters to us. But it’s been tough to get in touch with a school—any ideas on how to go about this? Thanks!
Hello my fellow globetrotters, could anyone tell me how to find the French colonial cemetery in Pondicherry? It seems tricky to locate.
Thanks so much for your help! Take care, pace yourselves, and travel far.
Cheers, Régine
Thanks so much for your help! Take care, pace yourselves, and travel far.
Cheers, Régine
I'm looking for a small, not-too-touristy restaurant in Fort Kochi. Do you know one not too far from Jacob Road?
Thanks
Hi there,
My wife and I are getting ready for this tour from March 27 to April 8.
I’d love to know if anyone’s traveled with Salaun Holidays before? How many people are usually in a group? How much cash should we bring?
We’re also unsure about what clothes to pack..... plus sheets and pillowcases?
And if you’ve got any tips to avoid being too bothered by beggars and touts.
Any advice you’ve got would be really helpful.
Thanks in advance!
Hi there,
I’d like to travel to Rajasthan and the Ganges Valley—it’s my first time going on a long-haul trip, and I’m thinking of booking with BTtours from Belgium (or Salaün in France). Has anyone here traveled with this agency before and can share their experience? I was planning to go around November, but some people tell me it might still be pretty cold (around 8°C)—is that true?
Also, what’s the best way to get money there? Can you enter India with cash on you?
Thanks for your help!
Also, what’s the best way to get money there? Can you enter India with cash on you?
Thanks for your help!
hi everyone,
I’m planning a trip to Northern India (Rajasthan, Ganges Valley with Varanasi (Benares)).
My travel agency is offering me two tour operators: Asia with the "Saris and Saddhus" circuit, and Salaun with the "Northern India and the Ganges Valley" circuit. I’ve already traveled to Sri Lanka and Southern India with Asia. The trips went really well.
I don’t know Salaun Holidays. Their circuit seems more comprehensive, with a day of relaxation (16 days on site). Travel with Air France.
Has any member of this forum done the "Northern India and the Ganges Valley" circuit with Salaun? Can I get your feedback on the tour operator Salaun Holidays?
Thanks so much
I’m planning a trip to Northern India (Rajasthan, Ganges Valley with Varanasi (Benares)).
My travel agency is offering me two tour operators: Asia with the "Saris and Saddhus" circuit, and Salaun with the "Northern India and the Ganges Valley" circuit. I’ve already traveled to Sri Lanka and Southern India with Asia. The trips went really well.
I don’t know Salaun Holidays. Their circuit seems more comprehensive, with a day of relaxation (16 days on site). Travel with Air France.
Has any member of this forum done the "Northern India and the Ganges Valley" circuit with Salaun? Can I get your feedback on the tour operator Salaun Holidays?
Thanks so much
Hi there.
We’re heading to India at the end of December for a month.
I planned an itinerary: Delhi, Nawalgarh, Sikar, Jodhpur, Udaipur, Chittaurgarh, Bundi, Jaipur, Bharatpur, and back to Delhi.
Our driver told us it’s not possible because there are no roads.
He’s suggesting the usual tourist circuit, which we don’t want to do.
What do you think of my route?
Any tips?
Thanks, community!
Hello,
We’re a group of 4 looking for a driver and car for our stay in Kerala from November 22 to December 12, 2025. We’ve already planned an itinerary starting from Cochin.
We’ve traveled with a driver before during our trip to Rajasthan.
Thanks for your replies!
Yves
Hi everyone,
we’re heading to Tamil Nadu and Kerala at the start of the year for 30 days. We did Rajasthan 12 years ago, but things change fast.
I’ve read that to get a SIM card, you have to buy it at a shop and then go to the operator to get a number; you’d also need an Indian mobile number. Has anyone here had recent experience with this?
For buses and trains, do you need to book them well in advance?
Any tips are welcome—thanks in advance!
Happy holidays to all,
Philippe
Hi everyone! 🙂
My partner (who’s a teacher—hence the summer holidays) and I are heading to Eastern India for 23 days in July. This is my 5th trip to India, but her first.
We fly into Delhi on July 7th and leave from Delhi on the 23rd (since our flight to Kolkata arrived late at night, and I wanted to show Agra and Varanasi to my partner).
We love getting off the beaten track and meeting people, so we’ll mostly be taking the train.
Here’s what we’re planning:
- **DELHI**: 1 night on the way (short because the plane is supposed to land at 01:55), then we take the train at 13:00 - **GWALIOR**: 3 nights, including a day trip to **AGRA** by train to see the Taj Mahal and the Red Fort (I find Agra too touristy to stay overnight). Otherwise, in Gwalior, the Fort, the temples, the Man Mandir Palace, and the Jai Vilas Palace if we have time. - **ORCHHA**: 2 nights... *maybe skip this to spend more time in VARANASI?* - **VARANASI**: overnight train + 3 nights, the Ghats, temples... maybe a day trip to **SARNATH**. - **KOLKATA**: overnight train + 3 nights. Maybe a countryside excursion to the ashram in Channa. *- Here we’re hesitating over 2 nights: either 2 nights in **SHANTINIKETAN** with a visit to **CHANNA** on the way, or a 2-day excursion to the **SUNDARBAN** nature park. But is it worth it in July during the monsoon?* - **PURI**: overnight train + 4 nights. *We’re planning to do everything from Puri, as it seems nicer than staying in BHUBANESWAR. What do you think?* Visit **KONARK** and **CHILIKA LAKE**. *Is it worth visiting Chilika Lake this season? Another question: can you swim in Puri, or is it too dangerous (waves)?* - Train to **BHUBANESWAR**, then a flight from BHUBANESWAR to **DELHI**, - 2 nights in **DELHI**, visiting Jama Masjid, and *either Humayun’s Tomb, Safdarjung’s Tomb, or Qutb Minar.*
Back to Paris. Total: 23 nights.
What do you think of these choices? What about the options we’re still unsure about *(in bold/italics)*? Thanks so much! 🙂
We fly into Delhi on July 7th and leave from Delhi on the 23rd (since our flight to Kolkata arrived late at night, and I wanted to show Agra and Varanasi to my partner).
We love getting off the beaten track and meeting people, so we’ll mostly be taking the train.
Here’s what we’re planning:
- **DELHI**: 1 night on the way (short because the plane is supposed to land at 01:55), then we take the train at 13:00 - **GWALIOR**: 3 nights, including a day trip to **AGRA** by train to see the Taj Mahal and the Red Fort (I find Agra too touristy to stay overnight). Otherwise, in Gwalior, the Fort, the temples, the Man Mandir Palace, and the Jai Vilas Palace if we have time. - **ORCHHA**: 2 nights... *maybe skip this to spend more time in VARANASI?* - **VARANASI**: overnight train + 3 nights, the Ghats, temples... maybe a day trip to **SARNATH**. - **KOLKATA**: overnight train + 3 nights. Maybe a countryside excursion to the ashram in Channa. *- Here we’re hesitating over 2 nights: either 2 nights in **SHANTINIKETAN** with a visit to **CHANNA** on the way, or a 2-day excursion to the **SUNDARBAN** nature park. But is it worth it in July during the monsoon?* - **PURI**: overnight train + 4 nights. *We’re planning to do everything from Puri, as it seems nicer than staying in BHUBANESWAR. What do you think?* Visit **KONARK** and **CHILIKA LAKE**. *Is it worth visiting Chilika Lake this season? Another question: can you swim in Puri, or is it too dangerous (waves)?* - Train to **BHUBANESWAR**, then a flight from BHUBANESWAR to **DELHI**, - 2 nights in **DELHI**, visiting Jama Masjid, and *either Humayun’s Tomb, Safdarjung’s Tomb, or Qutb Minar.*
Back to Paris. Total: 23 nights.
What do you think of these choices? What about the options we’re still unsure about *(in bold/italics)*? Thanks so much! 🙂
hi everyone, I’m putting together an itinerary for Sri Lanka in September 2026, so I’m focusing on the east side of the island because of the monsoon on the west coast:
Day 1 Kandy: botanical garden, fruit and vegetable market, traditional dance show
Day 2 Kandy-Ella train
Day 3-4 Kumana NP or Lunugamvehera Block 6+5
Day 5-6 Komari / Pottuvi lagoon safari
Day 7 head up the east coast along the beaches to reach Wasgamuwa NP
Day 8 Wasgamuwa NP early morning safari, then Polonnaruwa (temple and palace)
Day 9-10 Sigiriya Lion’s Rock and Dambulla, cave temple
Day 11-12 Wilpattu NP early morning safari, then late afternoon
Day 13-14 Kalpitiya, snorkeling and chilling
Day 15 return to Colombo
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on whether this route is doable—we’ll be traveling with a driver-guide.
Feel free to mention any great tips or good homestay experiences you’ve had, since we prefer those.
Hi everyone, Kerala experts (especially Marien!)
In January, I’m planning another trip to Kerala. We’ll arrive in Kochi and travel up the coast by train to Gokarna.
So I’m reaching out to ask if it’s worth stopping for a few days in any of the following spots (not all, of course—just one or two that are really worth it...). From what I’ve seen, few Western tourists stop along this coast, given how little info there is about it:
Mahe, Thalassery, Taliparamba, Nileshwar, Bekal, Kasaragod
I’m not mentioning Kannur because we’ve already been there, specifically Thottada Beach, and we’re familiar with the southern destinations (Trivandrum, Kovalam, etc.).
Thanks for your replies!
Anne



