3 months in Southeast Asia with family
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Hey everyone, so happy the site is back!

After traveling solo across Iran and the Stan countries from one end to the other,

this time I’m heading to Southeast Asia with my wife and our 3-year-old.

I went to the Philippines almost 10 years ago and actually met some forum members there. It was love at first sight.

I’ve booked tickets from January 10 to March 31 for Bangkok (amazing price from Milan). I was thinking of spending: 3 weeks in Thailand 3 weeks in Vietnam 1 month in the Philippines.

Don’t worry, I won’t spam the forum with a thousand messages asking how to get from point A to point B :)))

I’m reaching out to the experts or regulars here for suggestions and ideas!

For Thailand, Obviously, some beautiful beaches wouldn’t hurt for a bit of relaxation. I was thinking of Koh Phayam or Koh Kood (or Koh Chang). If anyone knows a nice spot, even if it’s not on an island, I’m all ears. It’s tricky to ask this for Thailand, but I’m looking for a bit of tranquility (so I’ll probably avoid Phuket, Koh Samui, etc.). (Though I know sometimes you just need to get off the beaten path to find some peace, but I’m not sure if that’s the case in Thailand.)

Vietnam—I have no idea!! A friend mentioned Danang, which could be a good base to explore the countryside/inland areas.

And the Philippines—I had a huge crush on the country (Bantayan, Dumaguete, Sipalay, Siquijor) and really want to go back, maybe to new places/islands.

I have one constraint: We’ll stay in the same place each time. With a kid, it’s tough to move every 2 days (unlike when I’m solo), and I hope this will let us connect with locals by staying put for 3 weeks at a time. (Plus, my budget is pretty tight, so the idea is to negotiate a good price for 3 weeks in the same accommodation.) (My rough budget is 1000 € per month for the three of us: 450 € for lodging, 450 € for food, and 100 € for a scooter. This doesn’t include boat, bus, etc. transfers.)

If you have any ideas, tips, or experiences to share, I’m all ears! I’m totally open to shortening or extending our stays in each country, even if it means skipping one of the three.
CO Cottetcottet Globetrotter ·
3 weeks in Bantayan
cottet
RE Renaud38 Regular ·
Hahaha yes, and we’re doing the return trip together to Cebu with Denis! (I don’t know if you remember, but that’s what I did with you in 2015.) I wanted to visit a new island—southern Palawan, probably a little less touristy than the north—but why not go back to Bantayan, a safe bet! Is the guy from Toulouse still around with his chocolate cheesecake?) Have a great day, my friend
DJ Djalma Globetrotter ·
Vietnam I have no idea!! A friend told me about Danang, which could be a base camp to then move around a bit in the countryside/backcountry.

Hello, In my opinion (from what I’ve seen), Danang is really to avoid! Prefer Hoi An and Hue. What I’ll say about Vietnam can only be subjective, and you’ll surely get opposing opinions. I only moderately enjoyed Vietnam. I only visited (partially, of course) the south and the center between Saigon and Hue, passing through the center (Kon Tum). The downsides I found: Degraded nature (war consequences?), polluted and noisy cities, high population density, overly commercial interactions with locals... Some scams with taxis, buses, etc. A country best visited with an agency? I think the north might be better (just an idea). I much preferred Laos! (which you’re not considering) It’s the complete opposite!

For the islands in Thailand, I agree with you—I’ve been to those in the Gulf of Thailand (Samui, Phangan) three times. The first time was in 1976! And the last time in 1992, when things had already changed a lot! My most recent stays in the Thai islands were 4 or 5 years ago, in those located in the far south near Malaysia (Koh Lipe, Koh Tarutao, Koh Muk, Koh Libong). Lipe has certainly become very touristy in recent years, but the beaches are beautiful, and I really enjoyed snorkeling in certain areas, plus trips to the coral reef. Tarutao is large (15 times the size of Lipe) and almost deserted—you can easily find accommodation (cheap and comfortable). Only 20% of the bungalows were occupied during peak season. It’s the "Robinson Crusoe" island—you’ll encounter monkeys, monitor lizards, turtles, wild boars, etc. You can easily stay just 1 or 2 nights, but the tranquility is guaranteed! Only 2 restaurants (5 km apart) on the whole island... You can rent kayaks (or take a boat excursion with a guide) to explore the mangroves, see the crocodile cave, go for walks, etc... Koh Muk: You can find accommodation in quiet areas. This island is mostly visited during the day from Koh Lanta by hordes of tourists who just pass through to see the Emerald Cave. So it’s a good compromise between the very busy Lipe and the deserted Tarutao!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XCOyB7WStI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2eI67iCbKY
CO Cottetcottet Globetrotter ·
I remember. The west road to Cebu was nice. I’ll be in Bantayan until April 9th if you decide to spend a few days there. Another place I really love is Port Barton on Palawan! Safe travels, 😉
cottet
GA Gaura Veteran ·
I just wrote a long illustrated reply that I lost due to a clumsy mistake. This time I’ll keep it short and answer any questions you might have. I’ve been visiting Thailand for over 30 years. If you want to experience the country’s authentic welcome and way of life, I’d avoid the islands and their overtourism.

Instead, head to Prachuap Khiri Khan—a small town by stunning bays with a beautiful, well-maintained beach inside a military base. You’ll find authentic markets, fishing ports, easy bike rides, mostly Thai tourists, and prices to match.

Fishing boats returning to the main bay





Getting there from Bangkok isn’t quick. I’d avoid the "death minibuses" that speed down the emergency lane with motorbikes coming the wrong way, take stimulants, and talk on the phone while driving. Take the train from Bangkok instead—it’s long but fun, and you can enjoy the scenery with locals. On overnight trains, staff will wake you up, and your guesthouse will likely send a TukTuk to meet you.

In Prachuap, there are supermarkets, but also traditional markets. On weekends, night markets get busy with lots of food stalls, trinkets, and Chinese knockoffs. There’s also a food court in the city center on weekday evenings.

Around the bay, accessible via a scenic bike path, you’ll find fishing villages, pretty temples, and a troop of langur monkeys (their babies are orange—best seen in the morning).

Beach at the military base on weekdays





Beach on weekends—Thais bring their own umbrellas





The food court





The langur monkeys



gaura
RE Renaud38 Regular ·
Awesome, thanks a lot Gaura! I’ll send you a PM.
GA Gaura Veteran ·
Other photos. I don’t currently have any more photos of the city itself—I see they weren’t transferred to my new PC. It’s very airy with low-rise buildings: businesses on the ground floor, housing above. Lots of four-seater tuk-tuks. A fruit-producing region, with wholesalers of candied pineapples, dried mangoes, and small prepared pineapples ready to eat... addictive.

















gaura
GA Gaura Veteran ·
Sign for the 3 bays of Prachuap Khiri Khan: the first one is Ao Manao beach, the middle one borders Prachuap town, and the third has a larger fishing port.

gaura
JE Jeandaune Veteran ·
Welcome back to the Philippines, and still welcome to Bantayan.....😎
CouCou d'une perle des Philippines, Bantayan Island
BR Bruno645 Regular ·
Hi there,

Thanks, Noelle, for this little report on the area around Prachuap—I’m not familiar with it. I travel often in Southeast Asia and Thailand too, and I’ll admit I’m running out of ideas for my next trips. I’ve seen most of the so-called touristy spots and islands, so I’m really keen on tips for discovering other, less-known—and definitely more authentic—places in Thailand and generally across Southeast Asia. As for the Thai islands, I’ve visited quite a few, and they all have so much charm. Just to share, I spent a week in November on the islands of Koh Kood and Koh Mak, and I was really pleasantly surprised by how few tourists there were. Swimming on stunning, almost deserted beaches was an absolute treat.
BRUNO https://www.flickr.com/photos/46202812@N07/albums/
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
Click on my username and take a look at my travel journals posted here, starting with the one from 2013. You won’t run out of ideas!
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
GA Gaura Veteran ·
I totally get you—it’s thanks to this forum’s travel journals that I’ve discovered some quiet spots in Thailand over the past few years. I also visited Uzbekistan, which I loved, all thanks to Vasyvite’s journal... I kick myself for not having the courage to write my own journals. I’m passionate about photography, so I just share "tips" on the forum and illustrate them with my pictures. I’d love to create photographic travel journals with minimalist text, just answering any questions people might ask. I don’t think that exists on the forum yet.
gaura
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
Oh, you know, I just started this kind of travel journal, and so far, no one’s complained.

I’m sure lots of people love reading travel journals—it’s a way to discover countries we might never visit because, let’s face it, we can’t do it all in one lifetime. There are folks who can’t or no longer travel who really enjoy reading them.

I’m confident you wouldn’t have to feel embarrassed about your writing or photos. Let’s just say preparation is key before hitting publish: get your thoughts in order so you know what you want to write, then proofread carefully. Pick the right photos—not too many, not too few—and place them well in the text.

Once you get started, it flows naturally. You just need enough time. And hey, no one’s grading you! 🙂
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
GA Gaura Veteran ·
It's sweet of you to encourage me, but it's really time that I'm lacking. I think I can write a text in proper French... but since I type with one finger, it takes ages. Like all retirees, I'm swamped with tons of activities like traveling, taking photos and processing them in Lightroom, designing photo books with captions, watercolor painting, English classes, sewing... I almost forgot a big garden with several hundred square meters of flower beds to maintain (another passion—landscaped gardening!). Let’s not complain that time flies because we have too many hobbies—some people might envy me. Where’s your new travel journal? I must’ve missed it, maybe when VF rebooted?
gaura
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
You select "Travel Journals" in the blue banner at the top of the page, and currently mine is in the middle of the page.

But you know, you just click on a member’s username and you can access all their posts and also the list of their travel journals 😉
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
RE Renaud38 Regular ·
Hey everyone, quick update straight from Thailand—I spent my first week in Prachuap Khiri Khan and I’ll post a full report later.

Here’s a quick rundown so far: it’s a quiet Thai town with few tourists, great massages for 200 baht, and a really nice covered market near the train station with fruits, veggies, and obviously street food. There’s a big Night Market by the sea on Fridays and Saturdays.

Now I’m in Koh Kood. I’ll attach the Boonsiri ferry schedule in a photo—hope it helps someone!

Just a heads-up: I took the train to Prachuap, third class, a chill 5-hour ride. Bought the ticket directly at the Bangkok station counter for 160 baht per person.

Back to Bangkok, I took a minibus since there were no more train seats. Bought the ticket straight from the minibus station in Prachuap for 240 baht per person.

Then Bangkok to Koh Kood by bus + ferry—I booked directly on the Boonsiri website instead of using 12GoAsia (they take a commission, but it’s super convenient, so no judgment if you use it! Just keep in mind it’s a middleman site, so it doesn’t show all routes—only the ones that work for them, even if it’s still pretty solid).
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
I bet not everyone will thank you, but it’s really nice of you.
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
CH Chrisdebiot ·
Hey Renaud, it’s really generous and nice of you to illustrate your tips with photos of schedules and prices. Super helpful! Best,
GA Gaura Veteran ·
I'm glad you enjoyed Prachuap KK—it still looks just like my photos!
gaura

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