Est-ce qu'on peut participer comme on veut?
Vêtements?Hommes et femmes ensemble?
On vient avec notre fils de Belgique en avril.Il épouse une Marocaine.
Comment cela se passe-t-il ?
Combien de jours? On voudrait aussi faire du tourisme.
On est là une semaine.
Cela dépendra de l'endroit et de la famille. Si c'est en ville et que c'est une famille peu conservatrice, une partie du mariage se déroulera mixte. Si c'est dans un village, les femmes seront d'un côté et les hommes de l'autre pour les repas. Un après-midi sera réservé aux femmes entre-elles. La nuit, dans certains villages, c'est mélangé mais seuls les hommes ont le droit de danser.
ne t'inquiète pas trop... et si c'est pour le mariage de ton fils, il t'expliquera... je suppose qu'il en a parlé avec sa future épouse...
Pour ce qui est de danser, je ne comprends pas le message précédent: seuls les hommes ont le droit de danser...
Je peux t' assurer que les femmes s'amusent beaucoup et dansent de leur côté! C'est souvent là qu'il y a le plus d'ambiance!
Vas-y... plonge... s'en t'inquiéter. Si tu fais un impair, ce ne sera pas bien grave, on te le dira gentillement.
J'ai dit que dans certaines régions (notamment dans le Rif ), la nuit, même si c'est mixte, seuls les hommes ont le droit de danser, et qu'il y a avait un après-midi (voire deux, un premier chez la famille de la mariée et un second une fois arrivée chez sa belle-famille) où les femmes étaient entre-elles libres de danser autant de temps qu'elles le souhaitaient.
Si tu prenais le temps de lire attentivement, ça m'éviterait de me répéter.
bonjour en tant que parents bien sur vous etes tenu comme ailleurs de rester dans le coin parents des mariers (presentation aux familles) . Pour votre tenue monsieur comme en europe pour madame si elle veux faire honneur elle peut mettre une tenue comme les autres femmes la famille vous aidera a trouver et vous pretera volontier celle qui vous ira a ravir
si le mariage est mixe(moderne) vous serez avec tout le monde dans le c as ou c est un mariage traditionel vous serez avec les femmes (mais rasurez vous ) elles sont dans un coin mais s amusent autant sinon plus que les hommes entre elles 😉
ce sont des moments magiques pour les europeens noubliez surtout pas votre camera ou appareil photos
je vous promet des souvenirs inoubliables bon Mariage
excusez moi mais je ne vais plus sur le forum pour discuter pas assez amical dans leurs propos vis a vis des personnes qui posent des questions (a mon avis)
excusez moi mais je ne vais plus sur le forum pour discuter pas assez amical dans leurs propos vis a vis des personnes qui posent des questions (a mon avis)
tout dépend de la famille: traditionnelle ou occidentalisée
pour les femmes mettre un caftan
nous apprécions (votre belle-fille pourra vous en prêter)
et les hommes soit un costume comme en europe bien coupé
un smoking c'est un peu too much
ou une belle jellaba blanche avec les babouches assorties
en général au moins deux invitations
une pour la cérémonie du henné qui a lieu en général le vendredi après midi
cérémonie réservée aux femmes en général même à casablanca et même chez les familles occidentalisées
puis le lendemain le mariage en lui même
en général samedi soir
avec orchestre et la cérémonie proprement dite et la signature de l'acte de mariage avec les adouls
plus le lendemain petit déjeuner assez tardif il est vrai et déjeuner avec les mariés ( et non on les laisse pas trankil)
bref prévoir plusieurs tenues
éviter de venir avec des tenues trop dénudées ou jupe courtes ( vous risquez de faire l'attraction du mariage)
Vêtements : il est recommandé de respecter la pudeur marocaine, donc pas de mini jupes ou de dos nus avec décolletés plongeants. Ensuite la limite dépend du type de famille, et ça c'est à votre fils de vous de dire. Pour les hommes, le costume européen est passe partout, pour les femmes on leur proposera surement de s'habiller à la marocaine.
Hommes et femmes séparés : là aussi cela dépend, je dirais d'expérience que même dans les familles très modernes, même si hommes et femmes sont dans la même pièce, les "groupes naturels" sont plutôt hommes d'un côté et femmes de l'autre. Dans les familles très traditionnelles, c'est homme et femme séparées. Quand je me suis mariée, les européens, qui préféraient rester en couples, sont restés avec les hommes, et les femmes venaient de temps en temps avec les femmes.
"Participer comme on veut" ben ça dépend de ce que tu veux dire. En Europe aussi il y a des traditions ;)
Combien de temps ça dure ? Autrefois 7 jours, maintenant 2 ou 3 jours au plus.
Avec beaucoup de monde, car la famille vient.
Il y a toute la préparation, notamment pour la mariée, la cérémonie du henné.
Le mariage proprement dit est assez court, l'imam dit quelques prières, et les mariés signent le contrat devant l'adoul.
Si la cérémonie de la signature du contrat est séparée (avant), dans ce cas la mariée rejoint le marié vers minuit, c'est à dire au début de la journée.
Après la nuit de noces, il y a généralement encore une fête.
La mariée va mettre ses 7 caftans, l'un après l'autre, et se faire photographier, avec son mari, dans chacune des tenues.
Pour le détail des traditions, cela dépend de chaque région.
Tout abord félicitation aux futurs mariés ! Je pense que vous n'avez à avoir aucune inquiétude car votre future belle-fille épouse un européen. Donc elle doit être issue d'une famille très "ouverte".
Au Maghreb, l'hospitalité est une chose naturelle. Vous allez certainement être très bien accueillis dans cette famille. Vous n'allez avoir que de bons souvenirs ! Profitez-en bien !
C'est une chance ce mélange de cultures !
Bon séjour !
Hi everyone, could someone help me out? I can’t find a solution because I need to get married in France with my partner, who is Cambodian. Her birth village refuses to provide a certificate of custom—they just won’t do it. I contacted the Cambodian embassy in France, and they told me that her village’s town hall should just give her a document stating they can’t issue it, signed and stamped. So, my partner went back and asked again in writing, but they still refused. At this point, I don’t know what to do, especially since my partner has to come to France in September to get married at the town hall, and they’re asking for the same thing. Can anyone help?
Best regards.
My husband and I have just gone through this stage of a Franco-Togolese marriage—he’s Togolese, and I’m French.
Given how complicated things can get with the administration, I thought I’d leave this post here. If you’d like advice or want to learn from our experience, don’t hesitate to ask...
Hi, it's Joyce—I’ve got a little issue. I’d like to know if you need a passport to start the CCAM process at the French Embassy in Yaoundé, or if it’s better to do it when registering the birth. Thanks!
Hello,
my Indian fiancé and I are getting married in France in a few weeks. Like many couples before us, we had extreme difficulties finding out the steps to follow in India to obtain the necessary documents for our marriage. We received no useful information from the Indian Embassy in Paris. It took us hours of research on traveler forums to gather scattered information and piece together the puzzle. I decided to summarize here the steps that allowed my fiancé to obtain the required papers, so other couples can struggle a little less than we did in the future.
I hope this post helps!
Context reminder: the list of documents required for a non-EU national to marry in France (see also www.service-public.fr):
Certificate of Custom: This is an explanation in French of the rules governing marriage eligibility in your country of origin. I read that some countries include proof that the applicant is indeed eligible. This is not the case for India.
Single-status certificate/marital capacity certificate. This is simply proof that you are eligible to marry under the laws of your country of origin.
Birth certificate.
All these documents must be less than 6 months old at the date of the banns publication.
The birth certificate and the single-status certificate must be apostilled. This procedure is linked to the international Hague Convention, of which both France and India are members. The apostille is a kind of stamp affixed to an official document by the authorities of the country where it was issued, giving it legal value in a third country.
How we obtained these documents:
The certificate of custom is very easy to obtain if you already live in France. You just need to go to the Indian Embassy in Paris with the required documents and pay the fees. We received it by mail the next day. The instructions on the Indian Embassy in Paris website are very clear (spring 2019). See also the VFS Global website (the company to which the embassy outsources consular activities).
Obtaining the single-status certificate was much more complicated. In France, a birth certificate is enough to prove whether you are married or not, as annotations are added for every major life event. In contrast, the Indian administration, although it can prove that someone is already married, is unable to prove that someone is still single. The only way to resolve this is to produce an affidavit. It took several trials and errors before we succeeded, as the administrators we dealt with generally did not know the procedure. Here’s what finally worked:
Prepare the affidavit on 100-rupee bond paper (first party: signatory; second party: Sub-Divisional Magistrate) at the Sub-Divisional Magistrate’s office in your place of birth. See Model No. 1 below. It must be signed by you and the Sub-Divisional Magistrate. For my fiancé, the latter only agreed to sign after presenting a certificate from the Tahsildar of his birth Taluk stating that he knew my fiancé was still single. If you don’t know the Tahsildar well, it might be useful to first request such a certificate from the "village accountant" before approaching the Tahsildar. We don’t know if the process would be the same in other districts than my fiancé’s.
Attestation at the Regional Commissioner’s (RC) office. The Ministry of External Affairs will only apostille documents that have been attested this way. In our case, we found clear information about the procedure on the Regional Commissioner’s website (required documents, cost, bond paper value). The RC asked us to justify why my fiancé needed a single-status certificate. Such certificates are usually requested by people wishing to join the army, in which case the RC receives a request letter. I asked the mayor of my village to sign such a letter (see Model No. 2, which I wrote myself). I come from a very small town, which was lucky here, as the mayor knows both of us personally and immediately agreed to do it. I have no idea if it would be as easy in a larger town. Once the document was submitted to the RC, it was sent back to the administrator who issued it for authentication. This back-and-forth should not take more than 25 days, but it may be useful to follow the progress of the procedure by calling or visiting the offices of both administrations regularly.
Send the attested documents to the Ministry of External Affairs (MEA) for apostille. In 2019, the Indian MEA only accepts apostille requests through private operators, whose list is available on the MEA website.
The birth certificate, once obtained from the municipality of your place of birth, follows the same procedure as the single-status certificate: attestation by the Regional Commissioner, then apostille at the Ministry of External Affairs.
Note: The Indian Embassy in Paris offers to issue a birth certificate. We recommend NOT GOING THROUGH THEM. The procedure is expensive, and they simply copy the information available on your passport. We seriously doubt the validity of such a document for marriage.
A few tips:
Obtaining these documents in India will require a lot of time, patience, and creativity! For us, more than 4 months passed between the moment my fiancé signed his single-status certificate and the day we had it apostilled in hand. In the meantime, there were dozens of phone calls and visits to various local administrations, a lot of brainstorming, and money wasted on canceled flights due to the monsoon.
If you have contacts in the local administration, don’t hesitate to use them. Also, if possible, closely monitor the progress of the procedures by calling or visiting the offices regularly, as mistakes are very common.
I recommend only requesting the certificate of custom once you’re close to having the other documents in hand, as it’s expensive, its issuance is very quick (at least if you both live in France; otherwise, I don’t know), and it’s only valid for 6 months.
All the steps for the birth certificate and the single-status certificate must be done in person, which can be complicated if you already live outside India. Some companies offer to handle it for you if you’re willing to pay. My fiancé bypassed the problem by designating his brother as an "Authorised representative" (a step taken at the notary of his birth Taluk). Once the single-status certificate was established in person, my fiancé’s brother was able to take over and complete the rest of the steps on his behalf. Finally, we asked the service provider handling the apostille to send the documents to our address in France via DHL (we don’t trust the postal service, as we’ve had mail stuck at customs for several weeks before).
My fiancé first tried to establish his single-status certificate at the notary of his birth Taluk. It didn’t work because the Regional Commissioner categorically refused to attest it. Indeed, it is generally forbidden to make any modifications to a document signed by a notary.
Once the birth certificate and the single-status certificate arrive in France, you must have them translated by a sworn translator registered with the Court of Appeal in your area. You can find the list on your Court of Appeal’s website. There are no sworn translators for all Indian languages! So, check beforehand if one exists for the language in which your certificates will be issued, or ensure they are issued in English.
Model No. 1 - Single-status certificate, affidavit
I, (name of applicant), son of (name of father) and (name of mother), with permanent address (address in India), solemnly affirm and declare as follows:
1. That I am a citizen of India
2. That I was born in (place of birth) on the (date of birth)
3. That I am holding a valid Indian passport bearing the number (passport number) issued at (place of issue) and valid from (date of issue) to (date of expiry).
4. That I am unmarried (single) and have no living spouse at present either in India or abroad
5. That I am eligible to marry an Indian or a person of any other nationality according to law.
6. That I am of sound health and in mentally fit condition
7. I further state that whatever stated therein is correct to the best of my knowledge.
I am aware that suppression of facts or furnishing false/misleading information is punishable under Indian law, under section 193(2), 199, 200 of the Indian Penal Code.
Solemnly declared at (place of signature) on (date of signature).
(your signature) (the subdivisional magistrate’s signature)
Model No. 2 – Request letter from the French mayor to the Indian Regional Commissioner
Dear Sir/Madam,
(English version below)
I, the undersigned (Mayor’s name), Mayor of the Commune of xxx, department of xxx, France, certify as follows.
Firstly, that
Mr./Ms. (Name of the Indian future spouse), citizen of India, passport No. xxx, issued in xxx on xxx, valid until xxx, residing at (address), INDIA,
and
Ms./Mr. (Name of the French future spouse), citizen of France, passport No. xxx, residing at (address), FRANCE,
have requested that I solemnize their marriage in my Commune under French law.
Secondly,
that French law requires me to request from Mr./Ms. (Name of the Indian future spouse) a certificate attesting to their single status.
Issued for all legal purposes.
(Place, date, stamp, and signature of the mayor)
Note:
Prepared on the town hall’s letterhead, directly in both French AND English to avoid needing a translator.
Hi there, please could you tell me how to arrange a marriage interview at the embassy? My fiancé has already been interviewed. Thanks to anyone who can help me out!
hi everyone,
I’m new to this site. Here’s my issue: I just got married in Cameroon to my wife, and I’m waiting for our family record book. After that, I’m trying to figure out what I need to do to apply for her visa. But I’d like her to apply for visas for her children at the same time so they can come with her—is that possible?! Do we need to get passports for her children, or is just the visa application enough? They’re 8 and 15 years old. Thanks!
Otherwise, I’d have to apply for family reunification, but she’d have to stay in France for 18 months before she can apply for her children’s visas—that’s way too long!!!
If anyone can give me some advice or help with this complicated situation, I’d really appreciate it.
Thanks so much for your help.
Best regards,
Hi, the situation is complicated...
My son would like to marry his girlfriend (married to a Filipino in the Philippines but separated for 14 years), who is from the Philippines... but... what complicates things is that she lives in Switzerland illegally—her visa expired after a divorce from a Swiss national, and she received a deportation order in 2022 but never left.
Just to clarify, she’s been working in Switzerland for 10 years and pays Swiss taxes...
Recently, she reapplied for a work visa to request residency rights so she could marry my son, but they refused, and she’s already received an order to leave the country... What can we do? We don’t know who to turn to
I was interviewed at the town hall of my place of residence on March 7, 2025. My fiancée still hasn’t been interviewed by the consulate. The question is whether I need to schedule an appointment for her interview or wait for the consulate to call. Thanks for your reply
Hi everyone, I need some help, please. My partner wants to send our CCAM file to the embassy in Yaoundé from France. We’re wondering if, with the pandemic, the file will even arrive and how long it’ll take. Would it be better to send it directly to the address in Cameroon? We’d planned to drop it off in March but couldn’t, and my interview is next month (even though I know it’ll probably be postponed). I’d really like the file to be in their hands before my interview date. Please help—what should I do?
Please, I need your expert advice.
I’m Cameroonian, married to a Frenchman of Cameroonian origin.
My husband just received a message saying our marriage certificate has been properly transcribed and that copies will be sent to his local town hall via diplomatic pouch.
I’d like to know the details of what comes next so I can apply for my long-stay visa.
Also, I’m about to get a passport—can I use my ID that still has my maiden name, or do I have to get a new ID with my married name before applying for a passport?
Basically, will getting a passport with my maiden name now cause problems later in the process? I really don’t want to deal with the hassle of getting a new ID right now.
Our best friend, who is Moroccan/French, wants to marry an Algerian woman. They’ve already met, and the first steps have been taken.
It seems like getting married under these circumstances is really complicated—has anyone been in a similar situation and could share some advice on the administrative side or the steps to take?
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