My husband and I have just gone through this stage of a Franco-Togolese marriage—he’s Togolese, and I’m French.
Given how complicated things can get with the administration, I thought I’d leave this post here. If you’d like advice or want to learn from our experience, don’t hesitate to ask...
Hi,
My boyfriend and I are thinking of getting married in Togo in 2012, but I can’t find any good sites that can tell me about the different steps to take and the documents we need to provide... Could you help me out????
Thanks in advance!
Sophie
If you haven't made any progress with your paperwork yet, I might be able to help.
You should start by requesting a file from the French consulate in Lomé. You can write to them or go there in person (if you're planning to visit soon).
They'll tell you it takes 6 months, and that's TRUE. Even though I managed to wrap everything up in less than 6 months, it was tough, risky, and required an in-person trip—otherwise, it wouldn't have been possible.
If you're both sure you want to get married, submit your request as soon as possible.
The consulate staff isn't always the friendliest, so you'll have to stay on top of things at every step.
Also, keep in mind that there are quite a few documents required from both future spouses, and some can take a while to obtain for our Togolese friends.
I have all the details if you want to exchange emails.
hi,
I’d love to get in touch with you to get all the info about a Franco-Togolese wedding. I’ll leave my email address so we can connect.
Best, Perrine
I don’t see your email address and I’ve just started using VoyageForum.com. I’d be happy to help, but I don’t know where to find your email address. Sorry! 😮
Hi there,
While researching for some information about a wedding in Togo, I came across your post, and I really appreciate you sharing your experience and offering some advice.
I’d love it if you could give me some tips, but most importantly, I’d like to know what documents are required for the consulate.
If you’re open to chatting, here’s my email address: affivi@hotmail.fr.
Thanks in advance for your reply.
Hi there,
Just a quick message because I’m also planning to get married in Togo. I went to the Togolese consulate at Christmas, but they were only open for emergencies and told me to come back after January 13th, which is tricky for me since I had to return to France. As a result, I couldn’t get any info. I want to gather all the documents before going back to that office and submitting a complete file...
I see I’m not the only one reaching out to you, so if it’s possible, could you share the steps and documents needed for the process?
Good evening,
thank you for getting back to me... my email is: buzzette12@gmail.com.
So here’s my idea if it’s possible and doable: we’d like to get married in August...
Since I drew a blank at the consulate during the Christmas holidays, I’d like to know all the documents needed to complete that famous file to submit to the consulate to get the "capacité à mariage" (or something like that), and either go submit it in February since I’ve got a short week off (though it might be a bit tight time-wise) or during the Easter holidays. But I’m hoping it’ll all be sorted by August because my family really wants to be close to me and doesn’t want to mobilize everyone in Togo for nothing... though I’m well aware that once again, we’ll be at the mercy of administrative responses...
That’s it!
Hope to hear from you soon, and I wish you both a life filled with happiness...
Céline
That’s really kind of you! I’m Togolese, and my girlfriend is a divorced French woman—we split up 6 months ago. We’re planning for her to join me here as soon as I have the means so we can get married and I can join her to live together.
I don’t know any details yet, and neither does she. Give me some advice and share your experiences so everything goes smoothly for us too. Thanks!
Hi there, I’m French and live in Paris. My girlfriend is in Togo—I spent 2 years there with her, and coming back to France was really tough for both of us. I’m planning to go back to Togo, but which month would be best? I’d love some info on the steps we need to take for our wedding, especially how to get the certificate from the consulate. Is it super complicated? What documents do I need to provide? If I go back to France a month after submitting everything, can my girlfriend pick up the certificate? I work, so I can’t wait 6 months.
Also, where does my girlfriend get the residence certificate?Certificate of single status
customary certificate?
To get married in Togo, the French spouse must first request a file from the French consulate in Lomé. This request can be made by mail. You should then allow at least 6 months from the date the file is submitted.
After the consulate reviews the file, any investigation, and any interview for you in France and/or your partner in Togo, as well as the publication of the banns at the town hall where you live, the consulate can issue the certificate of capacity to marry. You are the ONLY one who can pick up this document at the consulate, but you can do so a few days before the wedding—no problem.
There’s also a file to complete at the Togolese town hall where you plan to get married, no later than one month before the wedding.
For certificates of single status, custom, and residence, your partner should contact her birth prefecture.
I find this forum really rich in information, and I want to thank you all for offering your help and experience. I’m Togolese, and my partner is French. My partner would like us to get married in France, but I’d like to know if it’s not more complicated than in Togo, since it’s difficult to get a visa there. Also, if we consider getting married in Togo, how should we go about it? Thanks for your help. Here’s my email: emeraude.sam@gmail.com.
Hello,
I’d also love to get all the information about a Franco-Togolese wedding. I’m Togolese and my boyfriend is French. We’d like to get married but we’re not sure how it all works. I’ll leave my email address for any possible replies: akouvi@live.fr.
Best regards, Akouvi
Hi,
I just got back from a 6-week internship in Togo as part of my studies, and I met someone there. We’ve fallen head over heels for each other and want to get married, but I’ll admit I’m a little discouraged by all the comments about how hard it is for Togolese people to get a French visa. The problem is I still have a little over a year of school left, so I can’t go there right now, and I was hoping he could come here instead... I’m French, and my boyfriend has dual Togolese/Malian nationality.
Could you give us some advice on the steps we can take to get married, please?
Hi, it's Joyce—I’ve got a little issue. I’d like to know if you need a passport to start the CCAM process at the French Embassy in Yaoundé, or if it’s better to do it when registering the birth. Thanks!
Hello,
my Indian fiancé and I are getting married in France in a few weeks. Like many couples before us, we had extreme difficulties finding out the steps to follow in India to obtain the necessary documents for our marriage. We received no useful information from the Indian Embassy in Paris. It took us hours of research on traveler forums to gather scattered information and piece together the puzzle. I decided to summarize here the steps that allowed my fiancé to obtain the required papers, so other couples can struggle a little less than we did in the future.
I hope this post helps!
Context reminder: the list of documents required for a non-EU national to marry in France (see also www.service-public.fr):
Certificate of Custom: This is an explanation in French of the rules governing marriage eligibility in your country of origin. I read that some countries include proof that the applicant is indeed eligible. This is not the case for India.
Single-status certificate/marital capacity certificate. This is simply proof that you are eligible to marry under the laws of your country of origin.
Birth certificate.
All these documents must be less than 6 months old at the date of the banns publication.
The birth certificate and the single-status certificate must be apostilled. This procedure is linked to the international Hague Convention, of which both France and India are members. The apostille is a kind of stamp affixed to an official document by the authorities of the country where it was issued, giving it legal value in a third country.
How we obtained these documents:
The certificate of custom is very easy to obtain if you already live in France. You just need to go to the Indian Embassy in Paris with the required documents and pay the fees. We received it by mail the next day. The instructions on the Indian Embassy in Paris website are very clear (spring 2019). See also the VFS Global website (the company to which the embassy outsources consular activities).
Obtaining the single-status certificate was much more complicated. In France, a birth certificate is enough to prove whether you are married or not, as annotations are added for every major life event. In contrast, the Indian administration, although it can prove that someone is already married, is unable to prove that someone is still single. The only way to resolve this is to produce an affidavit. It took several trials and errors before we succeeded, as the administrators we dealt with generally did not know the procedure. Here’s what finally worked:
Prepare the affidavit on 100-rupee bond paper (first party: signatory; second party: Sub-Divisional Magistrate) at the Sub-Divisional Magistrate’s office in your place of birth. See Model No. 1 below. It must be signed by you and the Sub-Divisional Magistrate. For my fiancé, the latter only agreed to sign after presenting a certificate from the Tahsildar of his birth Taluk stating that he knew my fiancé was still single. If you don’t know the Tahsildar well, it might be useful to first request such a certificate from the "village accountant" before approaching the Tahsildar. We don’t know if the process would be the same in other districts than my fiancé’s.
Attestation at the Regional Commissioner’s (RC) office. The Ministry of External Affairs will only apostille documents that have been attested this way. In our case, we found clear information about the procedure on the Regional Commissioner’s website (required documents, cost, bond paper value). The RC asked us to justify why my fiancé needed a single-status certificate. Such certificates are usually requested by people wishing to join the army, in which case the RC receives a request letter. I asked the mayor of my village to sign such a letter (see Model No. 2, which I wrote myself). I come from a very small town, which was lucky here, as the mayor knows both of us personally and immediately agreed to do it. I have no idea if it would be as easy in a larger town. Once the document was submitted to the RC, it was sent back to the administrator who issued it for authentication. This back-and-forth should not take more than 25 days, but it may be useful to follow the progress of the procedure by calling or visiting the offices of both administrations regularly.
Send the attested documents to the Ministry of External Affairs (MEA) for apostille. In 2019, the Indian MEA only accepts apostille requests through private operators, whose list is available on the MEA website.
The birth certificate, once obtained from the municipality of your place of birth, follows the same procedure as the single-status certificate: attestation by the Regional Commissioner, then apostille at the Ministry of External Affairs.
Note: The Indian Embassy in Paris offers to issue a birth certificate. We recommend NOT GOING THROUGH THEM. The procedure is expensive, and they simply copy the information available on your passport. We seriously doubt the validity of such a document for marriage.
A few tips:
Obtaining these documents in India will require a lot of time, patience, and creativity! For us, more than 4 months passed between the moment my fiancé signed his single-status certificate and the day we had it apostilled in hand. In the meantime, there were dozens of phone calls and visits to various local administrations, a lot of brainstorming, and money wasted on canceled flights due to the monsoon.
If you have contacts in the local administration, don’t hesitate to use them. Also, if possible, closely monitor the progress of the procedures by calling or visiting the offices regularly, as mistakes are very common.
I recommend only requesting the certificate of custom once you’re close to having the other documents in hand, as it’s expensive, its issuance is very quick (at least if you both live in France; otherwise, I don’t know), and it’s only valid for 6 months.
All the steps for the birth certificate and the single-status certificate must be done in person, which can be complicated if you already live outside India. Some companies offer to handle it for you if you’re willing to pay. My fiancé bypassed the problem by designating his brother as an "Authorised representative" (a step taken at the notary of his birth Taluk). Once the single-status certificate was established in person, my fiancé’s brother was able to take over and complete the rest of the steps on his behalf. Finally, we asked the service provider handling the apostille to send the documents to our address in France via DHL (we don’t trust the postal service, as we’ve had mail stuck at customs for several weeks before).
My fiancé first tried to establish his single-status certificate at the notary of his birth Taluk. It didn’t work because the Regional Commissioner categorically refused to attest it. Indeed, it is generally forbidden to make any modifications to a document signed by a notary.
Once the birth certificate and the single-status certificate arrive in France, you must have them translated by a sworn translator registered with the Court of Appeal in your area. You can find the list on your Court of Appeal’s website. There are no sworn translators for all Indian languages! So, check beforehand if one exists for the language in which your certificates will be issued, or ensure they are issued in English.
Model No. 1 - Single-status certificate, affidavit
I, (name of applicant), son of (name of father) and (name of mother), with permanent address (address in India), solemnly affirm and declare as follows:
1. That I am a citizen of India
2. That I was born in (place of birth) on the (date of birth)
3. That I am holding a valid Indian passport bearing the number (passport number) issued at (place of issue) and valid from (date of issue) to (date of expiry).
4. That I am unmarried (single) and have no living spouse at present either in India or abroad
5. That I am eligible to marry an Indian or a person of any other nationality according to law.
6. That I am of sound health and in mentally fit condition
7. I further state that whatever stated therein is correct to the best of my knowledge.
I am aware that suppression of facts or furnishing false/misleading information is punishable under Indian law, under section 193(2), 199, 200 of the Indian Penal Code.
Solemnly declared at (place of signature) on (date of signature).
(your signature) (the subdivisional magistrate’s signature)
Model No. 2 – Request letter from the French mayor to the Indian Regional Commissioner
Dear Sir/Madam,
(English version below)
I, the undersigned (Mayor’s name), Mayor of the Commune of xxx, department of xxx, France, certify as follows.
Firstly, that
Mr./Ms. (Name of the Indian future spouse), citizen of India, passport No. xxx, issued in xxx on xxx, valid until xxx, residing at (address), INDIA,
and
Ms./Mr. (Name of the French future spouse), citizen of France, passport No. xxx, residing at (address), FRANCE,
have requested that I solemnize their marriage in my Commune under French law.
Secondly,
that French law requires me to request from Mr./Ms. (Name of the Indian future spouse) a certificate attesting to their single status.
Issued for all legal purposes.
(Place, date, stamp, and signature of the mayor)
Note:
Prepared on the town hall’s letterhead, directly in both French AND English to avoid needing a translator.
Hi there, please could you tell me how to arrange a marriage interview at the embassy? My fiancé has already been interviewed. Thanks to anyone who can help me out!
hi everyone,
I’m new to this site. Here’s my issue: I just got married in Cameroon to my wife, and I’m waiting for our family record book. After that, I’m trying to figure out what I need to do to apply for her visa. But I’d like her to apply for visas for her children at the same time so they can come with her—is that possible?! Do we need to get passports for her children, or is just the visa application enough? They’re 8 and 15 years old. Thanks!
Otherwise, I’d have to apply for family reunification, but she’d have to stay in France for 18 months before she can apply for her children’s visas—that’s way too long!!!
If anyone can give me some advice or help with this complicated situation, I’d really appreciate it.
Thanks so much for your help.
Best regards,
Hi, the situation is complicated...
My son would like to marry his girlfriend (married to a Filipino in the Philippines but separated for 14 years), who is from the Philippines... but... what complicates things is that she lives in Switzerland illegally—her visa expired after a divorce from a Swiss national, and she received a deportation order in 2022 but never left.
Just to clarify, she’s been working in Switzerland for 10 years and pays Swiss taxes...
Recently, she reapplied for a work visa to request residency rights so she could marry my son, but they refused, and she’s already received an order to leave the country... What can we do? We don’t know who to turn to
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Please, I need your expert advice.
I’m Cameroonian, married to a Frenchman of Cameroonian origin.
My husband just received a message saying our marriage certificate has been properly transcribed and that copies will be sent to his local town hall via diplomatic pouch.
I’d like to know the details of what comes next so I can apply for my long-stay visa.
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Basically, will getting a passport with my maiden name now cause problems later in the process? I really don’t want to deal with the hassle of getting a new ID right now.
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It seems like getting married under these circumstances is really complicated—has anyone been in a similar situation and could share some advice on the administrative side or the steps to take?