Bon aprés quelques questions pratiques, notamment concernant les billets d'avion, mais maintenant presque résolues! une question d'ordre plus personnel!! Donc j'envisage de partir pour un TDM mais seule... personne ne pouvant m'accompagner mais tenant à mon rêve et ben j'y vais toute seule!
Je cherche donc des personnes (filles de préférence, mais les garçons y'a pas de soucis non plus!) ayant voyagé seule(s) et qui me peuvent me donner des avis des impressions, des conseils ... Coup de blues, fatigue, solitude?? Quels moyens pour les éviter? Risque pour sa sécurité personnelle (surtout kan on est une fille?? sans voulir être paranoïaque non plus!)
Voilà grossiérement mon itinéraire qui pour l'instant est loin d'être arrété :
Afrique du sud - Cape town et johannesburg
Océanie - Australie et Nouvelle Zélande/Calédonie
Usa - Los ANgeles - Texas et NYC
Equateur - Quito
Si quelqu'un à des infos sur ces destinations!!
Sinon autre questions : comment évaluer au mieux son budget total? et est il plus sur de prévoir avant de partir les activités sur place ou d'attendre d'être sur place pour voir?
Merciiiiiiiii : )
Voyager est un triple plaisir: l'attente, l'éblouissement, et le souvenir.
Je ne connais aucune des regions que tu mentionnes, mais je voyage souvent seule. Un conseil, aie confiance en toi, et suis ton instinct, et tout le reste devrait suivre. Et quand tu te retrouves dans une situation... delicate, reste maitre de toi et sois le chef 😉.
Pour le reste, voyager seul-e est vraiment tres chouette, on fait souvent des rencontres sympas. Va vers les femmes, car souvent quand on est une femme seule, eh bien, comme de par hasard, ca n'est pas elles qui nous abordent 🙂. Tiens l'autre jour, j'etais dans une ville de Turquie, je cherchais un cafe internet, je suis allee vers une jeune fille, resultat j'ai fini par dormir chez elle avec toutes ses colocatrices, au lieu de finir betement toute seule a l'hotel 🙂.
Pour ton budget... ben mets de cote le plus possible 😛 (oui je sais je t'aide beaucoup la...).
Pour ce qui est des coups de blues, fatigue, pour ma part, la nature me remet d'aplomb, ou les eglises (pourtant je ne suis pas croyante). Alors quand je ne vais pas bien, j'essaie de trouver l'une ou l'autre 😉. A toi de trouver ce qui peut t'aider a reprendre le dessus en cas de petite deprime passagere.
Un ami m'a dit: Le monde serait meilleur si chacun-e regardait dans l'assiette de l'autre et y rajoutait ce qu'il y manque
Sinon à ta question "...Si quelqu'un à des infos sur ces destinations...", je réponds sans hésitation. Oui des gens ont des infos sur ces destinations. Des milliers même de VFistes répondant à des tas de questions sur ce site.
Mais il faudrait que tu sois plus précise sur le type d'infos que tu attends et surtout n'hésite pas à utiliser le moteur de recherche de VF pour voir si toutes les questions que tu te poses n'ont pas déjà eu des réponses.
Bonne chaaaaaannnnnnnnce !
Thierry
On dit souvent "Fermez la porte, il fait froid dehors !" Mais une fois la porte fermée, il fait toujours aussi froid dehors.
Salut
moi non plus je n'ai pas voyagé dans c régions, je ne peux pas t'aider la dessus mais tu trouveras des infos en cherchant dans les destinations...
Pour ton organisation, perso je ne recommande jamais de planifier (hop là!) mais puisque tu as déjà tout cadré avec des billets d'avion, peut etre est il plus judicieux de continuer sur ta lancée et de programmer aussi pour les activités...
Autrement je voyage aussi souvent seule, et je rejoins pas mal Oublieuse, je crois qu'elle t'as dit l'essentiel! L'important en voyage seule, c de ne pas se perdre soi meme, aies confiance en toi c tout! Ca peut paraitre de rien mais c en fait la base, c ton voyage!!
Et puis seule, on rencontre toujours du monde!
Dharma
pour ma part, j ai voyagé au texas en aout et c etait exceptionnel
je te conseille de t arreter a dallas et de visiter fort worth (c est juste à côté de dalls), l ambiance est relax, les gens super sympas et il y a pas mal de musées intéressants
ensuite j ai fait san antonio et ca vaut le coup d y aller rien qu pour fort alamo ou voir un match e basket des san antonio spurs avec toni parker
Le Texas est vraiment un état à part, bonne découverte!!
je n'ai pas l'expérience du voyage en solitaire, par contre sur les destinations je dirais les choses suivantes :
Cape Town : magnifique & exceptionnelle ! j'ai vraiment eu un coup de coeur pour cette ville...
Jo'burg : bof, y'a des endroits 100x plus beau à visiter en RSA en puis ça craint un peu ces temps
L.A. & NYC : bcp de monde n'aime pas L.A. car trop grand et pas de véritable centre, pero j'ai adoré tous les quartiers de L.A. que j'ai visités. Quant à NYC, un autre coup de coeur, c'est juste géant...
Quito : c'est pas mal mais ça reste une grande ville, pourquoi pas Cuenca, belle ville coloniale, capitale artisanale du pays ? ou Otavalo, Riobamba...etc. Les distances sont courtes en Equateur, tu bouges sans problème
Quant à l'organisation, c'est pas parce que tu as booké tes vols que tu dois forcément tout organiser entre 2. Avoir une idée du parcours que l'on souhaite faire, ça suffit, ensuite tu te laisses guider par tes envies et tes coups de coeurs entre 2 vols.
Bonjour !
J'ai fait mon TDM en solo à 60 ans en routarde. Bon, c'est sûr, on se fait moins accoster à cet âge !!! mais côté sécurité ça c'est très bien passé (je ne suis pas passée en Afrique, l'Afrique du Sud aurait, dit-on, assez mauvaise réputation pour les femmes...c'est peut-être des "ragots"...)
Quand j'avais le blues j'allais sur Internet retrouver ma petite famille...
Pour le budget je ne peux pas trop t'aider car je suis allée dans des pays très "bon marché" à part l'Australie.
Pour les activités je m'étais donné quelques priorités à ne pas râter et j'en avais décidé d'autres sur place.
a part l'Australie et nouvelle zelande, que comptes-tu faire en Océanie ? La Papouasie, les îles ?
En tout cas, je te souhaite un très beau voyage; Lydie
Afrique du sud - Cape town et johannesburg
Océanie - Australie et Nouvelle Zélande/Calédonie
Usa - Los ANgeles - Texas et NYC
Equateur - Quito
Coucou,
Je suis partie seule dans le Sud de l'Afrique pendant près de deux mois, et pas de souci en route.
(Afrique du sud : Mpumalanga, Cape Town et environs, road trip du Sud au Nord pour rejoindre Jo'burg /
Zambie
Zimbabwe
Mozambique : plongée aux Bazarutos)
Seul endroit un peu craignos, Jo'burg. Y'a VRAIMENT des quartiers à éviter... Où, du moins, il vaut mieux éviter de se perdre. C'est comme dans toute métropole au final, à part que la criminalité est d'un autre niveau. J'ai eu la chance de visiter avec des copains qui habitaient là et connaissaient bien, mais même eux qui étaient là depuis 4 ans ont eu la trouille quand on s'est paumé...
USA : pas de problème non plus : c'est super sympa, meme seule : la french touch fait des miracles...
Pour le reste, je laisse les autres commenter, j'ai pas encore l'expérience!
Pour ce qui est des coups de blues : écrire, dessiner (meme si on est nul), s'occuper de son carnet de voyage version papier si on en a un (coloriage, découpage de magazine local, aller trainer sur le net et papoter avec les copains et la famille sur msn/facebook/skype. Ou faire dodo en se disant qu'on est nase, et que ça ira mieux quand on se réveillera :-)
je te remercie pour ce petit message d'espoir!!! Enfin quelqu'un qui me dit que je v "survivre" à mon passage en Afrique du Sud!!!😉
Et justement j'aurais une petite question sur ton itinéraire sur place. Est ce que tu pourrais me donner des infos un peu précises sur ton itinéraire sur place? qu'est ce que tu as fait? comment se déplacer(bus, location de voiture, train, pied??)? les trés bons endroits à ne pas râter? Plonger? Carrément, mais ou ça?? et enfin as tu fait un safari? j'ai beaucoup de mal à accéder aux informations concernant l'Afrique du Sud, tant elles sont disparates. Et puis bon j'avoue que je n'ai pas "l'habitude " de ce pays (en oppostion avec les usa par exemple où je me suis déjà rendue plusieurs fois!!)
Merci beaucoup d'avance!!!et merci aussi pour les conseils contre les coups de blues!!!
Julie
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hi there
I’m leaving on October 1st for Rio, which I’ll be exploring over 10 days while staying in Copacabana and Ipanema.
After that, I’m heading to Ilha Grande, Paraty, and finally a flight to Iguaçu.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Rio. Is it possible to walk around and explore without constantly worrying about getting my phone snatched?
I’m traveling alone and don’t speak Portuguese.
I need GPS to get around.
I love walking and don’t really like taking taxis, which is why I’ve booked two places to stay in Rio to experience different neighborhoods.
But is this doable given the security concerns there?!
In short, can you travel peacefully?
Thanks for your feedback if you’ve been to Rio!
Best,
Hi everyone,
I’m planning to travel solo to Oman in December 2025, renting a vehicle that allows me to camp in certain areas. For those who’ve already explored the country this way, could you share your experiences or tips?
I’d also like to visit the Wahiba Desert, but in that area, I’d prefer a guide for driving and, most importantly, not to sleep in those luxury desert-edge camps but rather have a "wild" escape under the stars. Any guide recommendations? Thanks in advance – Clem
Hi there, I’m Brigitte, 66 years old, fairly active and in great shape. I split my time between the Tarn region and Nantes, have a youthful spirit, and am very easy-going. I’m looking for a woman with a similar profile for a road trip in Southeast Asia—half humanitarian work and half free travel. The trip starts in October 2026 in the Philippines on the island of Panay, then moves on to Indonesia and Malaysia. The journey could last up to 4 or 5 months, as I have no fixed schedule. If you’re cool and friendly, feel free to message me. See you soon!
I’m traveling solo to Armenia in mid-September for three weeks, and I’ll be using public transport. I have a few questions:
- Does Yandex work everywhere, even in villages?
I’m looking for:
- Nice guesthouse addresses in the north (national park) and the south, including the village of Ararat,
and a simple but clean hotel in Yerevan that’s convenient for getting to the bus stations later.
- Any great tips or advice you can share.
Actually, I’m a bit worried I’ll be stuck only visiting tourist sites without a car. What do you think?
Thanks for your help
I’m arriving in Tana on 9/10/26 as a solo female traveler.
Which hotel in Tana is good for the first night since I’ll get in at 10 PM?
What’s worth seeing around Tana?
I’m planning 2 nights in Tana,
then 2 nights in Andasibe? After that, Lake Itasy.
Any suggestions? Thanks
I contacted several agencies in Madagascar to arrange this 4x4 trip along the coast.
Always the same answer: a tailor-made trip with at least 2 participants.
Since I don’t want to travel alone and a friend isn’t available, I’m looking for a woman to share this trip with the agency Mahay Mada, which offers a 12-day, 11-night tour of southern Madagascar. I’m available from August 23 to September 14.
Thanks for your direct response at 0784659791. See you soon, Mireille
Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
Hi everyone, I’m really keen to visit Iran for three weeks in mid-March 2015.
What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
Thanks for your advice.
Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
Thanks in advance.
Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
Planned arrival on Sunday evening, November 16, 2025, in San José. Staying 3 nights, then taking a bus to Tortuguero for 2 nights. Looking for a shared shuttle to La Fortuna for 2 nights, then a van-boat-van combo to Santa Elena for 2 or 3 nights. Heading to Quepos for 4 nights for day trips using local buses—Jaco, San Antonio, Uvita. After that, a full-day bus ride to Cahuita. I’m booking hotels as I go, which gives me the flexibility to stay longer in places I like. I’m looking for accommodations in city centers near restaurants and not too far from the bus station. Budget: 50 € for a room with a private bathroom (if you’ve got any great tips!). For my finale, I’ll cross the land border to Panama City for 4 days. Thanks for your suggestions! 😉
As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
Battambang – 1 day
Kampong Chhnang – 3 days
Kampot – 2 days
Islands (WE’RE HESITATING WHICH ONE?) – 4 DAYS
Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks