Bonjour tout le monde! :-)
J'ai comme qui dirait un léger petit tout mini problème et c'est pourquoi je me tourne vers vous. Je pense que vous faites partie des personnes pouvant m'éclairer, tout en restant objectives (extérieures à mon cercle familial, en plus. Un point de vue externe est toujours plus objectif qu'un point de vue interne, selon moi) sur un problème qui peut paraître anodin au premier abord, mais qui pour moi est d'une importance -presque- capitale.
Voilà le deal : J'ai décidé de partir en Norvège aux vacances de la Toussaint (5 jours) pour voir une personne avec qui je corresponds depuis maintenant 1 an. Jusque là, il ne semble pas y avoir de problème. Le hic, c'est que ce sera mon tout premier voyage et par conséquent la toute première fois dans un aéroport/avion. Ma famille est au courant et me soutient (d'une manière assez spéciale) mais mon frère, quant à lui, est totalement contre ce voyage. Il répète sans arrêt que je ne suis pas prête, pas assez mature et pas assez expérimentée. C'est compréhensible, il a peur, il s'inquiète, il ne veut pas que je loupe mon avion . Sauf que l'histoire ne s'arrête pas là. Il fait tout pour me dissuader d'y aller, sous prétexte que je n'ai que 18 ans. Je me pose donc cette question : l'expérience et la maturité ne s'acquièrent-elles pas en faisant nos propres expériences?
Je ne serai pas seule là-bas, du moins, pas complètement. Ma correspondante a son permis et pourra donc venir me chercher à l'aéroport et même m'y remmener. J'ai du mal à cerner le problème, LEUR problème. L'âge? Le sexe? La maturité? Tout ça en même temps? J'ai une envie folle de partir, de passer du temps avec mon amie, j'en rêve depuis des mois et on est tous conscient qu'il est très difficile d'aller à l'encontre de ce qui est solidement ancré dans notre tête. Comment briser mes chaînes et cesser d'être sous le contrôle quasi-permanent de mon frère (qui n'a aucun droit sur moi, mais qui pourtant a une très grande influence sur mes parents, laquelle va inévitablement déteindre sur moi)? J'aimerais qu'on me considère un peu comme étant, non pas une femme indépendante, mais comme une jeune fille qui souhaite se construire en volant un peu hors du nid...
Je suis perdue. Partagée entre l'envie de tout abandonner et de rester cloîtrer chez moi en pleurant toutes les larmes de mon corps ou partir et prendre le risque de manquer mon avion de l'autre côté de la frontière mais en étant heureuse et fière d'avoir su dépasser mes craintes/appréhensions.
Je sais que beaucoup d'entre vous ont déjà voyagé pas mal de fois et c'est ce regard avisé de voyageur expérimenté que je recherche.
Merci d'avance!! :)
Pars et n'écoute pas ton frère, il ne fait que transposer sa mauvaise expérience sur la tienne.
Déjà tu ne pars pas à l'aventure, ce n'est pas un pays risqué, tu vas chez une connaissance , franchement tu crains RIEN 🙂
N'hésite pas à te rendre à l'aéroport en question avant le départ, afin de comprendre le fonctionnement du départ, et tout ira bien.
Ohlala mais t'as trop de chance c'est une super opportunité !!! 🙂
Passer à côté sous prétexte que ton frère n'était pas très dégourdi à 21 ans ça serait dommage... 🤪
Et puis franchement si tu rates ton avion ça fait quoi en fait ? Je comprends pas bien le problème... Y a des avions tous les jours !
La Norvège est un super pays, hyper sécuritaire, il n'y a RIEN à craindre. C'est sûr que je ne te dirais pas la même chose si tu allais te promener toute seule Afghanistan !
Et de toute façon tu as 18 ans, tu es majeure, tu fais ce que tu veux.
Ça y est, c'est fait, j'ai réservé mon voyage et j'y reste 1 semaine. Je suis tellement excitée et impatiente!
Louper l'avion n'est pas un problème en soi, c'est surtout les conséquences que cela entraîne. Il paraîtrait que le prix du billet augmente sévèrement si on l'achète la veille pour le lendemain et si en plus je dois payer un hôtel...
Mes parents sont très nerveux de nature et très TRÈS protecteurs et si mon voyage devait mal se passer, ils seraient doublement effrayés pour les prochains voyages en solitaire.
Et bien sûr, ce n'est pas parce que lui est a commencé à voyager tard que je devrais faire la même chose. NON NON NON!!
note: et après tout, c'est la Norvège, pas les Etats-Unis ou le Cambodge (très belles destinations aussi selon moi) qui eux, sont légèrement plus éloignés de la France. :-p
Bon voyage, profite bien! En plus 1 semaine c'est encore mieux que 5 jours.
Et comme je t'ai conseillé, n'hésite pas à te déplacer à l'aéroport ou à récolter un maximum d'informations sur ton vol (combien de temps arriver à l'avance, etc) et il n'y aura aucun soucis!
Prendre l'avion n'a absolument rien de sorcier ! Les aérogares disposent de tout le personnel demandé pour fournir l'aide voulue aux débutants et sauf à rater l'avion pour cause de retard, je ne vois pas ce qui peut vous empêcher d'aller en Norvège. Renseigner vous auparavant par téléphone si s'agit d'un vol AIRFRANCE, on ne sait jamais ! Bon voyage !
Puisque c'est la première fois que tu vas prendre l'avion, peut-être faut-il te donner quelques conseils que d'autres trouvent évidents, mais la première fois, on ne sait jamais :
- Avant de partir, si tu veux pouvoir utiliser ton téléphone portable à l'étranger, vérifies avec ton opérateur, il peut y avoir à activer une option (et il faut que tu saches combien ça va te coûter). Si tu as un doute sur le fonctionnement du téléphone, penses à partir avec une feuille de papier sur laquelle tu conviendras avec ta correspondante de marquer ton nom, ou le sien, ou un code pour vous retrouver, que tu pourras brandir dans l'aéroport d'arrivée. N'aies pas peur d'avoir l'air ridicule, ça se pratique encore beaucoup, aussi bien pour des anonymes que pour des hommes d'affaires ou des personnalités. Tu peux lui demander de faire la même chose de son côté, comme ça vous serez deux à vous chercher l'une l'autre.
- Le jour du départ, prends de la marge, pour une première fois et pour un vol international, surtout si tu pars d'un grand aéroport où il faudra chercher ton départ, mieux vaut arriver à peu près 3 H avant le départ. L'heure indiquée pour le départ, c'est l'heure de décollage de l'avion, toutes les formalités doivent avoir été faites avant, malgré les éventuelles files d'attente, c'est pour ça qu'il faut des heures (j'exagère un peu, mais parfois il y en a vraiment besoin).
- Vérifie sur le site où tu as réservé les conditions de ce que tu as le droit de transporter. Pas de liquide (ou que de très petits flacons) ni d'objet dangereux dans le sac que tu gardes avec toi dans l'avion. Tous ces produits doivent être mis dans le bagage "en soute" (la valise que tu vas faire enregistrer). Réciproquement, pas de batteries, pas la plupart des matériels électroniques dans le bagage en soute, tu dois les garder avec toi dans le bagage cabine pour les faire examiner si nécessaire au contrôle. Mieux vaut que tu aies préparé tout ça à l'avance, parce qu'à l'aéroport, la première des choses que tu vas faire sera d'enregistrer ta valise en soute, et à partir de là, tu ne l'auras plus si tu découvres dans ton bagage cabine que tu as gardé des affaires que tu n'as pas le droit d'avoir.
- A l'aéroport, n'hésites pas à demander au personnel plutôt qu'à d'autres passagers plus ou moins bien réveillés, plus ou moins bien renseignés. Même si le personnel que tu rencontres n'est pas le bon, il te renverra toujours vers un accueil adapté.
Et surtout, ne t'inquiètes pas, ce voyage n'est pas trop ambitieux, et comme tu le dis, l'expérience viendra en voyageant, les voyages forment la jeunesse.
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Hi everyone,
I’m planning to travel solo to Oman in December 2025, renting a vehicle that allows me to camp in certain areas. For those who’ve already explored the country this way, could you share your experiences or tips?
I’d also like to visit the Wahiba Desert, but in that area, I’d prefer a guide for driving and, most importantly, not to sleep in those luxury desert-edge camps but rather have a "wild" escape under the stars. Any guide recommendations? Thanks in advance – Clem
Hi there, I’m Brigitte, 66 years old, fairly active and in great shape. I split my time between the Tarn region and Nantes, have a youthful spirit, and am very easy-going. I’m looking for a woman with a similar profile for a road trip in Southeast Asia—half humanitarian work and half free travel. The trip starts in October 2026 in the Philippines on the island of Panay, then moves on to Indonesia and Malaysia. The journey could last up to 4 or 5 months, as I have no fixed schedule. If you’re cool and friendly, feel free to message me. See you soon!
hi there
I’m leaving on October 1st for Rio, which I’ll be exploring over 10 days while staying in Copacabana and Ipanema.
After that, I’m heading to Ilha Grande, Paraty, and finally a flight to Iguaçu.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Rio. Is it possible to walk around and explore without constantly worrying about getting my phone snatched?
I’m traveling alone and don’t speak Portuguese.
I need GPS to get around.
I love walking and don’t really like taking taxis, which is why I’ve booked two places to stay in Rio to experience different neighborhoods.
But is this doable given the security concerns there?!
In short, can you travel peacefully?
Thanks for your feedback if you’ve been to Rio!
Best,
I’m traveling solo to Armenia in mid-September for three weeks, and I’ll be using public transport. I have a few questions:
- Does Yandex work everywhere, even in villages?
I’m looking for:
- Nice guesthouse addresses in the north (national park) and the south, including the village of Ararat,
and a simple but clean hotel in Yerevan that’s convenient for getting to the bus stations later.
- Any great tips or advice you can share.
Actually, I’m a bit worried I’ll be stuck only visiting tourist sites without a car. What do you think?
Thanks for your help
I’m arriving in Tana on 9/10/26 as a solo female traveler.
Which hotel in Tana is good for the first night since I’ll get in at 10 PM?
What’s worth seeing around Tana?
I’m planning 2 nights in Tana,
then 2 nights in Andasibe? After that, Lake Itasy.
Any suggestions? Thanks
I contacted several agencies in Madagascar to arrange this 4x4 trip along the coast.
Always the same answer: a tailor-made trip with at least 2 participants.
Since I don’t want to travel alone and a friend isn’t available, I’m looking for a woman to share this trip with the agency Mahay Mada, which offers a 12-day, 11-night tour of southern Madagascar. I’m available from August 23 to September 14.
Thanks for your direct response at 0784659791. See you soon, Mireille
I’d love to settle around Da Nang for about a month and explore the surrounding areas in Vietnam.
I’ve already been to this country and don’t feel like rushing around every day like I used to a few years ago.
I’d really like to find some company to stay for at least a month, and then maybe spend a month in Cambodia...
Given that I’m now 76, I don’t want to run around like I used to, trying to see everything...
I enjoy calm people... Those who love life and with whom I can share a beer... And meet people to create a great atmosphere—la dolce vita....
Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
Hi everyone, I’m really keen to visit Iran for three weeks in mid-March 2015.
What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
Thanks for your advice.
Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
Thanks in advance.
Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
Planned arrival on Sunday evening, November 16, 2025, in San José. Staying 3 nights, then taking a bus to Tortuguero for 2 nights. Looking for a shared shuttle to La Fortuna for 2 nights, then a van-boat-van combo to Santa Elena for 2 or 3 nights. Heading to Quepos for 4 nights for day trips using local buses—Jaco, San Antonio, Uvita. After that, a full-day bus ride to Cahuita. I’m booking hotels as I go, which gives me the flexibility to stay longer in places I like. I’m looking for accommodations in city centers near restaurants and not too far from the bus station. Budget: 50 € for a room with a private bathroom (if you’ve got any great tips!). For my finale, I’ll cross the land border to Panama City for 4 days. Thanks for your suggestions! 😉
As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
Battambang – 1 day
Kampong Chhnang – 3 days
Kampot – 2 days
Islands (WE’RE HESITATING WHICH ONE?) – 4 DAYS
Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks
