Best destination for a first one-month trip with 2- and 5-year-old kids in 2027?
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Hello,

After scouring the forum without managing to decide, I thought I’d ask for your advice! Before becoming a mom, we traveled for a year from Iran to Indonesia, and now my partner and I are finally ready to take our first big one-month trip with our kids. We’d like 2 or 3 places to visit, settle in, and explore the surrounding area. We’re looking for a destination that’s fairly easy (since our kids aren’t always easy themselves), but I’m hesitant about Thailand (which I didn’t enjoy because it felt too touristy at the time). I was thinking about Vietnam, which I don’t know at all. Maybe Laos, but spending a few days near a nice beach would be relaxing with two little ones full of energy… We don’t want to rush through crowded, commercial sites—we want to take our time and discover beautiful places.

Thanks for your tips! !
AR Aroythai Globetrotter ·
Hi, The title is a bit confusing. Destinations March 2027 with kids aged 2 and 5. There should’ve been a comma after 2027.
aroythai
SO Songsam Veteran ·
Hi, While "Paris 15th, Thailand" is pretty clear... 😉

What bothers me more is that Tribu3434 seems to have a lot of non-negotiable requirements that don’t all add up, and they haven’t specified how long the trip will last.
TR Tribu3434 ·
I did forget to mention the duration—it’s a month. I know my request is a bit demanding, but if it were easy, I wouldn’t need to ask for help! ;)
TR Tribu3434 ·
So, apart from how I word my request, no tips?
SO Songsam Veteran ·
Just a few more details, please:

- What month of the year? - Cambodia isn’t on the list of possible countries—was that intentional? - Would Thailand off the tourist trail work for you?

rayonner autour

Just for the day?

Une destination assez facile

Meaning the country in general, or easy stops (access, accommodation options, etc.) in that country?

Nous aimerions 2/3 lieux à visiter (...)prendre le temps

So, 10 to 15 days in each of these 2-3 stops?
CH Chalembert Regular ·
Hi, If you're considering Vietnam, I think it could be a great fit. Beautiful beaches, like in Nha Trang in the center, with some interesting cultural sites. Natural areas such as near Ninh Binh: Tam Coc or Cuc Phuong National Park. Historic urban centers like Saigon, Hue, Hanoi... And the option to spend a few days in Cambodia at Siem Reap to see the Angkor temples. There’s plenty to create an interesting mix for both parents and kids.
SO Songsam Veteran ·
Hi,

From Tribu3434:

I didn’t enjoy it because it was too touristy (...) We don’t want to chain together crowded and commercial sites,

Nha Trang, Siem Reap—uncrowded, non-commercial, not too touristy? That said, meeting ALL the criteria mentioned in the original post won’t be easy...
AR Aroythai Globetrotter ·
So, aside from how I phrased my request, no tips?

Hi there,

You didn’t mention any dates or time of year—and not even how long your stays will be. Give us a few more details!
aroythai
TR Tribu3434 ·
So, I had noted March 27 in the title—you even mentioned it yourselves in the original post 😊—and since I edited it because you found it unclear, I accidentally removed "March."

Anyway, thanks for the other replies, and sorry for taking out the word "March." To clarify: we’d be traveling for the entire month of March with our two little ones.
TR Tribu3434 ·
We’re intentionally considering Cambodia because I’ve read that the heat there is stifling in March. We’re also looking at Laos, which is supposed to be wilder, with beautiful waterfalls and natural sites, but apparently the journeys are grueling. That’s what I mean when I talk about a destination that’s not too difficult: travel and meals—two things that are really essential with little ones. I know Thailand is extremely easy in those respects, but being in a tourist crowd really put me off 10 years ago. On the other hand, I’ve looked at some of your suggestions in the Northeast, near the Laos border—gorgeous! But is it accessible? Is it the right time of year? I loved India, but on the flip side, it’s an exhausting destination—I wouldn’t go there with our kids. I would’ve loved to take them to discover Myanmar… a country I adored. Yes, at least 7 days. Thanks so much for taking the time to reply—it’s really kind of you!
TR Tribu3434 ·
Thanks so much! Are these places as busy as Thailand’s hotspots?
PH Philippebrg Regular ·
Hello,

Why not Thailand, but away from the tourist hotspots? Just to remind you, at least 80% of the country sees very few—or even no—tourists. All you have to do is cross the few touristy cities/provinces off your map (which I’m guessing you’ve already visited), and you’ll see you’ll be spoiled for choice!
CH Chalembert Regular ·
Hi, I don’t know, I’ve never been to Thailand. But you want easy destinations from which to explore, with a nice beach. The places I mention fit the bill—you’ll find everything essential for your kids if needed, pleasant sites to visit with children, and a big beach in Nha Trang. Now, if you want interesting spots with no one around, that’ll be tough.
DJ Djalma Globetrotter ·
Hi there, Personally, with kids, I’d prioritize Thailand for the ease it offers if any issues come up (medical or otherwise). There are so many regions that are practically tourist-free! The vast majority of visitors stick to Bangkok, Ayutthaya, Chiang Mai, Chiang Rai, the coast south of Bangkok (around Pattaya), and a few islands like Phuket, Samui, Koh Phangan, and Koh Tao. The rest of the country is super peaceful—unless things have changed in the last five years, which I doubt! Laos is a good option too, but there’s no sea… which is a shame for the kids. Plus, it starts getting really hot in March. I’d start in Isan (eastern Thailand) or around Mae Hong Son / Mae Sariang (northwest) or even Fang / Thaton… Or near Kanchanaburi… Erawan National Park. Then spend a few days on one or two islands in the Andaman Sea—but not the Gulf of Thailand. Sure, there’ll be tourists, but not as many as you’d think… If you go to these islands, take a flight to Hat Yai and head to Koh Lipe (one of the best spots in Thailand for diving and snorkeling, but not just that). Then spend 2 nights on Tarutao (Robinson Crusoe island!). What a change of scenery! Here are two random links to give you an idea of the places: https://voyagesautenteo.com/thailande/conseils/plages-sud/koh-lipe/ https://aurorevoyage.com/2018/01/14/thailande-pourquoi-se-rendre-a-koh-tarutao/
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MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Hello, I’d have said the same as Djalma—Thailand off the beaten path has plenty to offer! 😊 And if you’ve got the budget (and the faith), you can rent a vehicle, which makes traveling with two little ones much safer. Vietnam’s not bad either—pretty diverse and super easy for getting around.

Laos is a lot quieter, but it means more expensive logistics (domestic flights) if you want to go from north to south. And there’s no sea nearby either…
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DJ Djalma Globetrotter ·
Northern Vietnam isn’t very warm in March... For independent travelers with kids, I find Vietnam harder to visit—quite a few scams, too. The commercial aspect is strong, and people are often pushy. In my opinion, the real highlights are cities like Huế and Hội An... maybe a bit boring for little ones. Nature-wise, it’s just okay (except for the north), and beaches are often concrete-heavy (like Đà Nẵng) or not always very clean. Not many great spots for snorkeling—or at least, I didn’t find any.

That’s just my take. Out of all the Southeast Asian countries, Vietnam is the one I liked the least.
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SO Songsam Veteran ·
It was intentional for Cambodia, because I read that the heat there is stifling in March.

Not the worst of the four countries. According to the site I checked, average maximum temperatures for the countries in March: Vietnam: 27.5°C Laos: 32.3°C Cambodia: 33.8°C Thailand: 34.4°C Same site with a table detailing temperatures in major cities in March: Vietnam: https://www.climatestotravel.com/weatherbymonth/vietnam/march Laos: https://www.climatestotravel.com/weatherbymonth/laos/march Cambodia: https://www.climatestotravel.com/weatherbymonth/cambodia/march Thailand: https://www.climatestotravel.com/weatherbymonth/thailand/march

We’re also looking at Laos, which is supposed to be wilder, with beautiful waterfalls and natural sites, but apparently the journeys are tough.

A high-speed railway line has opened from Vientiane to the Chinese border (and continuing into China), serving cities that might interest travelers, such as Vang Vieng, Luang Prabang, and Na Teuy (for Luang Nam Tha). Booking on these trains isn’t straightforward, and boarding is tightly controlled (inspections with some everyday items banned).

That’s what I mean when I talk about a destination that’s not too difficult: transportation and meals—two things that are really essential with little ones.

Transportation: easy in all four countries, often with several levels of bus comfort up to VIP (except Laos). Trains are comfortable enough but slow (Thailand, Vietnam), slow and with very limited options in Cambodia. Meals: you can find food pretty much everywhere in all four countries, so no problem there. The real factor to consider is the level of chili use. Thailand and Laos are the countries where three-quarters of the dishes are very spicy, but sticking to guesthouse cuisine can greatly reduce the issue.

I know Thailand is extremely easy in those respects, but I really didn’t like the tourist crowds when I was there 10 years ago.

Outside the tourist trail, there are much less crowded cities with day-trip-worthy surroundings. I’m thinking of Mae Hong Son (which also has milder temperatures thanks to the altitude). Even less crowded (just a bit of Thai tourism on weekends for the city’s famously beautiful temples) is the charming little town of Nan and its lovely province, which you can explore in a day by car with a driver. Both cities are easily accessible (including by low-cost flights for the latter) and can justify a relaxed 7-day stay.

On the other hand, I looked at some of your suggestions in the Northeast, near the Laos border—gorgeous! But is it accessible? Is it the right time of year?

I don’t remember creating a specific thread about the Northeast in this forum. I’m not sure which places you’re referring to. If it’s the ones along the Mekong from Chiang Khan to Nong Khai, Chiang Khan, Nong Khai, Sri Chiangmai, and Sangkhom are accessible by direct buses from Bangkok and some from other cities. For Pakchom, you’d need to take a bus to Loei (which is well-connected from Bangkok, including by low-cost flights, and from elsewhere). Getting between these places is less straightforward but doable. As for the timing, the Northeast is one of the hottest regions in the country.
EN Envallis Globetrotter ·
Hi there,

Nobody thinks of Malaysia 😉. It's easy, not crowded, and has quite a few different spots (nature, beach, city, temples...). And in March, you're entering the right season. I went there with kids aged 4 and 8—super easy.

Otherwise, with kids your age, Thailand is totally doable. Yeah, it’s busy, but it’s not that bad—it’s still a big country. I took my kids to Bangkok at the same age, and it’s a great memory.
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SO Songsam Veteran ·
Or around Kanchanaburi... Erawan National Park

Those are two worthwhile spots but very crowded. I think beyond Kanchanaburi and easily accessible from there, Sangkhlaburi would be a better choice: accommodations available, little tourism (just some discreet Thai visitors on weekends), peaceful, unique setting, beautiful scenery, and short walks on foot or by boat...
TR Tribu3434 ·
Thanks so much for these really thorough replies! I can see that this side of Thailand seems to be a big hit! I was worried about accommodation prices, but they look reasonable after a quick glance. For Vietnam, we were thinking of the North, which seems pleasant at this time of year, and possibly a beach in the central region. Land in Hanoi, visit the city and its surroundings, then head toward Ninh Binh and south of Hue.

I’ll look into the Thai cities you suggested. I often read that connecting with locals is trickier in Vietnam, and that there are more scams—so you seem to confirm that... Food-wise, we’re vegetarian, and I think Thailand would be easier for that too...
TR Tribu3434 ·
I’ve already been to Malaysia—it’s definitely super safe and a great country. But the flight is longer and the cost of living (accommodation) is much higher there. And it’s more industrialized.
TR Tribu3434 ·
But isn’t that during the burning season?
SO Songsam Veteran ·
But isn’t that slash-and-burn season?

Yes, exactly—I’d totally spaced on the timing, sorry. So with two little ones, scratch Mae Hong Son and Nan. That said, you could look into a stay in Sangkhlaburi; I mention it upthread in my reply to Djalma.

I keep reading that connecting with locals is trickier in Vietnam, that there are more scams—so you’re confirming that…

I never said anything like that in my earlier replies. But since you bring it up, I’ve noticed that whenever there’s no direct or indirect money in it for the person you’re talking to, making a real connection is harder in Vietnam than in the other three countries. Mind you, my Vietnam experience is limited—I’ve only done two trips and only know Ho Chi Minh City, Nha Trang, and a small part of the Mekong Delta, so it’s not a huge sample.

Food-wise we’re vegetarian; I think Thailand would be easier for that…

No problem for vegetarians,* but the chili issue (if it’s an issue) remains. And don’t forget that Thai cooks put MSG in pretty much everything—some people are allergic to it.

* – vegetarian food: ahan je – Is there vegetarian food?: mi ahan je mai kaa/krap? (have vegetarian food yes/no + polite word depending on whether the speaker is female (kaa) or male (krap)) – For a dish that normally contains meat but you know the name, just say “je” instead of the meat type (only works for made-to-order dishes). Example: khao pad kaprao moo → replace “moo” (pork) with je.
TR Tribu3434 ·
This is really very kind of you to share all this information, and the glossary—thank you so much! I’ll be studying up on the Sangkhlaburi area to see what we could do there over a week or 10 days. It’s school holidays, so the two little ones are home—sorry for the short replies!
SO Songsam Veteran ·
I’ll be looking into the Sangkhlaburi area to see what we could do there for a week or 10 days.

There aren’t enough activities to justify 7 to 10 days for travelers with less time—I usually recommend 3 or 4 nights—but the setting might be reason enough to chill there longer. Here’s what else to do besides what I already mentioned above: - P.Guesthouse*, by the lake, rents canoes (here, you paddle yourself, unlike boat tours). - I remember the same guesthouse used to offer day-long mini-treks, but they don’t mention them on their site anymore. Worth checking on-site or elsewhere. - A trip to the Three Pagodas Pass (Dan Chedi Sam Ong), accessible by regular songthaews. While the name sounds dreamy, the three "pagodas" (actually chedis—the Thai name is more accurate) aren’t worth more than 10 seconds of your time. That said, you might enjoy the vibe of a small border post and catching a glimpse of the Burmese village on the other side. At certain times, they’ll let you cross for the day for $10–20 per person and hold your passport, though you can’t go beyond the village.

* This guesthouse (their site isn’t hard to find) is modern—I was one of the first guests when it opened, cleaning up both literally and figuratively—but the cheapest rooms don’t have en-suite bathrooms. There are other accommodation options.

Getting from Bangkok to Sangkhlaburi in one day will be long (7 to 9–10 hours, no direct buses), so it might make sense to plan at least one night in Kanchanaburi. From there, several regular buses (6-hour trip) and minivans (4 hours) go to Sangkhlaburi. You can also arrive in/depart from Kanchanaburi to/from other cities/regions besides Bangkok. Sangkhlaburi is only accessible from Kanchanaburi.

For Vietnam, we were considering the north, which seems pleasant at that time of year,

Since Vietnam was your initial idea and fits several of your criteria, I’m surprised you’re not mentioning it anymore.
DE Dennis2 Regular ·
A road trip I did with kids by car, which is really much more practical and not too expensive.

Waterfalls, beautiful parks, a bit of history with traces of the war (Bridge on the River Kwai period), few people or Western tourists, an immersion in lovely countryside...

And seeing the Burmese border—even if, as Songsam says, there’s nothing exceptional, the atmosphere is something else...
SO Songsam Veteran ·
a bit of history with traces of the war (Bridge on the River Kwai period),

...and also history from the 12th century thanks to the Prasat Muang Sing temple, the westernmost Khmer site of the past empire (no need to go to Cambodia!😉 ). Just 1.5 km south of Highway 323 Kanchanaburi-Tong Pha Phum-Sangkhlaburi. Accessible from Kan by car/motorcycle, through an agency, or by train—get off at Thakilen station where motorcycle taxis wait for travelers who’d rather not walk the 1.5 km. In terms of interest, preservation of the ruins, and size, it can be compared to Phimai in Isan, so it’s definitely worth a visit.
TR Tribu3434 ·
A thousand thanks for all the info—I took the time to pore over it again and again... and in the end, to answer your last question, I decided on Vietnam. Simply because I still had this urge to discover a country I don’t know (though of course, you don’t really *know* a country after just a month there and without having made the most amazing connections, no doubt...)

I did travel for a year from Kyrgyzstan to India, Malaysia, Myanmar, Iran... and the only country where I experienced aggression was Thailand. Not that I’m drawing any conclusions from that, but maybe there’s a little superstitious side in me... I’ll give Thailand another chance next time, exploring the magnificent regions you suggested!
TE Tessaroy123 ·
Hi there! Personally, given what you're looking for, I’d definitely consider Vietnam. With two little ones, I think it could be a great option if you skip the usual tourist spots and limit your travel to 2 or 3 bases. Pu Luong is a great place to admire rice terraces and villages, then Phong Nha, where you can take boat rides, explore caves, and enjoy the countryside around the national park. Finally, Vinh Hy is in Ninh Thuan province, in the south-central part of Vietnam—it’s a small, well-preserved bay with clear water, pretty coves, and boat trips. This way, you can take your time, enjoy nature, and avoid the overly touristy and commercial side you didn’t like in Thailand.
TR Tribu3434 ·
Hi Tristine, Sure enough, that’s the decision we’ve made! We’re in the process of planning the itinerary—thanks for the tips! Do you think there’s enough to do for a week in Phong Nha without any transport (scooter, etc.)? Thanks again!
KL Klcity ·
I’d say Vietnam—there’s so much to see, and it’s less touristy than Thailand. Prices can be ridiculously low in some cases (taxis, restaurants, hotels).

It’s doable with kids. I went with my son when he was 1 (my daughter was 11). No major issues as long as you stay alert. Just one little scare with my daughter (and me too!) at a water park near Phan Thiet—the slides were safe but maybe a bit more intense than European standards (speed, drops, etc.) 🤪

Plan for long trips between the south, center, and north—the country is really stretched out. Flying is preferable in some cases (VietJet has cheap flights).

I haven’t been to the north, but I loved the central region (Da Nang, Hue, Hoi An).

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