Thaïlande: personne n'est à l'abri...
by Sidartha
This discussion is in French, the community’s main language.
Excuse Lili, ton scénario ne colle pas avec la réalité, ( dans ce cas, , ..... )
( je ne t'en veut pas tu ne les connais pas .......😉)
Pour les avoir rencontré plusieurs fois ce couple, partager leur espoirs, et déceptions, je peut dire que Lek est loin de ce que tu dis,
je crois que Eric va regretter d'avoir ouvert son coeur en public, ( c'est ce que je craignais des le début de ce post🤪🤪 )
Mais il sert a tout ceux qui se lance dans les relations avec des étranger, les formalités administrative font, que parfoit les couples tiennent pas Et je ne dis pas seulement pour la France, ( Terre d'aceuille ........???)
la Thailande est aussi dur dans ce domaine, il faut bien prendre en compte ce point de vue, quant l'amour vous tombe dessus,
Mais je crois que << tout problème il y a sa solution >>>😉
Mais je crois que << tout problème il y a sa solution >>>😉
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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Bonjour Khun Thuan,
Je pense que Lili parlait du cas sur le post de sizzurp et non pas de Sid . 😉
Enfin ceci dit j'espère revoir bientôt l'ami Sid sur VF .
Je pense que Lili parlait du cas sur le post de sizzurp et non pas de Sid . 😉
Enfin ceci dit j'espère revoir bientôt l'ami Sid sur VF .
@+ , Marco .
On aura jamais assez de temps pour tout ce qu'on veut découvrir et comprendre dans nos voyages qu'on se le dise , Amis voyageurs .
et c'et pour ça que son post a d'autant plus de poids et qu'il est bon de le remercier pour
avoir bien voulu nous la faire partager 😉
et sid si sa vaut le coup ne lache pas prise 😛
et sid si sa vaut le coup ne lache pas prise 😛
vive la douceure thai et leurs piments hai hai hai
thuan,
comme toi j'ai été parmis les premières à intervenir, je viens de réouvrir vf, je pensais avoir des nouvelles de notre "ami", (je lui ai envoyé un mp hier soir mais ....) toi qui le connait apparement mieux que nous tous, n'as tu pas le moyen de le contacter et de nous donner des nouvelles, je t'avoue être inquiète 😕 car tu dois savoir ce qu'il endure déjà d'autre part, ausssi fort qu'il puisse être, ce n'est qu'un être humain, comme nous tous !
merci
Une chose est sûre, il faut faire quelque chose !!!!!!
j ai eu un echec dans une relation avec ma femme philippines en partie du a des differences culturelles, d' education et surtout des problemes financiers, je ne regrette rien maintenant apres la fin des combats, ce ce qui fait ce que je suis aujourd hui et ca ne m a pas arrete de reprendre une relation depuis 5 ans avec une thaie
les problemes financiers, c est pas facile une asiatique attendra toujours plus d un mari farang que d un mari thai surtout que dans les villages y a des filles qui ramenent plus d argent que je ne le pourrais il faut arriver rapidement a ce que votre femme soit independante financierement et epanoui dans son travail ca aide a gommer les differences culturelles parce que les efforts mutuels pour se comprendre et s adapter ca ne suffit pas pour les problemes administratifs c'est parfois lourd mais jamais impossible
alors bon courage
les problemes financiers, c est pas facile une asiatique attendra toujours plus d un mari farang que d un mari thai surtout que dans les villages y a des filles qui ramenent plus d argent que je ne le pourrais il faut arriver rapidement a ce que votre femme soit independante financierement et epanoui dans son travail ca aide a gommer les differences culturelles parce que les efforts mutuels pour se comprendre et s adapter ca ne suffit pas pour les problemes administratifs c'est parfois lourd mais jamais impossible
alors bon courage
n'as tu pas le moyen de le contacter et de nous donner des nouvelles, je t'avoue être inquiète
j'ai les moyens a ma dispositions, même physique, mais je respecte ce que il m'a dit, il n'a pas la force de parler ......... il faut attendre que il s'exprime par lui même, en attendant, par respect si c'est possible, ne pas déblatérer des généralités sid a ma connaissance a péter les plons en s'exprimant en public, sa peut arriver a tous, ce n'est pas le genre de personnage exhibitionniste,
j'ai les moyens a ma dispositions, même physique, mais je respecte ce que il m'a dit, il n'a pas la force de parler ......... il faut attendre que il s'exprime par lui même, en attendant, par respect si c'est possible, ne pas déblatérer des généralités sid a ma connaissance a péter les plons en s'exprimant en public, sa peut arriver a tous, ce n'est pas le genre de personnage exhibitionniste,
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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je sais bien qu'il n'est pas exhibitioniste, tout le contraire même, il ne m'a parlé de tous ses exploits, pour moi çà en est en montagne qu'aprés lui avoir tiré les vers de la bouche, ce qu'il a vécu sur les cimes est incroyable, d'où il revient encore plus, je n'ai jamais dis de telles choses thuan, je voulais seulement être rassurée, apparement tu as réussis à avoir un contact avec lui, c'est donc déjà une bonne chose, mais ne penses surtout pas que je déblatére celui que je considére comme notre ami.
Une chose est sûre, il faut faire quelque chose !!!!!!
n'ai jamais dis de telles choses thuan
excuse Kaotom je ne parle pas de toi, 😉 mais je sais que il est très facile que un post dérape, c'est la raison de cette mise en garde, ( je sais tout le monde est libre de s'exprimer ) simplement, je crois que on est dans un cas un peut particulier, et un peut de compréhension serait pas mal, ????
SID Ou est tu ?????, j'en ait mare de prendre ta défense !!!!!!😛😛
excuse Kaotom je ne parle pas de toi, 😉 mais je sais que il est très facile que un post dérape, c'est la raison de cette mise en garde, ( je sais tout le monde est libre de s'exprimer ) simplement, je crois que on est dans un cas un peut particulier, et un peut de compréhension serait pas mal, ????
SID Ou est tu ?????, j'en ait mare de prendre ta défense !!!!!!😛😛
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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"""en attendant, par respect si c'est possible, ne pas déblatérer des généralités ""
Je me répète délibérément, étant sur la même longueur d' ondes : """Exposer si humblement cette difficile étape à surmonter a appelé les témoignages poignants, respectueux et amicaux de vos " compagnons" VF. C'est réconfortant, il reste à espérer que la teneur de votre post ne soit ni récupérée, ni dénaturée"""
Je me répète délibérément, étant sur la même longueur d' ondes : """Exposer si humblement cette difficile étape à surmonter a appelé les témoignages poignants, respectueux et amicaux de vos " compagnons" VF. C'est réconfortant, il reste à espérer que la teneur de votre post ne soit ni récupérée, ni dénaturée"""
""Le voyage pour moi, ce n' est pas arriver, c' est partir. C' est l' imprévu de la prochaine escale, c' est le désir jamais comblé de connaître sans cesse autre chose, c' est demain, éternellement demain"" Roland Dorgelès.
A+++ Lisa
A+++ Lisa
kiper et carl en tête des c.....ds qui ne méritent pas d'avoir droit à la parole ici
Victoria
je ne connais pas Sid, autrement que par lire ces posts ou son blog. J'imagine toutefois que le désespoir qui l'a amené à se "confier" sur un forum à du lui faire du bien, le soulager provisoirement, lui a permis de crier bien haut son désespoir, tout en étant une mise en garde. Pétage de plombs je pense pas, mais plutôt un SOS lancé...
Victoria
Tres emouvant et quel courage d'ecrire ce post,
Je te comprends a 200%,
qu'il ne fallait pas qu'elle perde la ...face
moi aussi j'en ai marre de cette P. de FACE.
Je me bats avec elle tous les jours.
Il y a des jours ou cela EXPLOSE.
courage SID, tu es ou en ce moment ? Si tu veux que je vienne te voir, on boirra une tite mousse ensemble amicalement
courage SID, tu es ou en ce moment ? Si tu veux que je vienne te voir, on boirra une tite mousse ensemble amicalement
que la puissance de la jungle soit avec toi
Mon site http://tintina.com
malheureusement tout est la:
mais une culture si differente de la notre ......)
laisse le temps au temps je te donne mon phone en mp
amities
mais une culture si differente de la notre ......)
laisse le temps au temps je te donne mon phone en mp
amities
coucou sir thuan
oui dsl pour le "blabla" que j'ai fait en retour à l'histoire du membre qui parle de la japonaise qui est parti maintenant avec un américain bref...
je suis de tout coeur en tous les cas avec ton ami.....
il est clair que parfois certaines histoires peuvent faire polémique et avoir différentes opinion plus ou moins mauvaises.... comme deux ou 3 qui on parlé de donner l'histoire à TF1 et 2 autres étaient moqueur, avec vic09 on a réagi pour ça ...
donc toutes mes excuses d'avoir fait allusion à certaines histoires mes amis thai de phuket m'en racontent tellement sur les filles thais vénales poussées par leur famille en échange de garder les enfants que j'ai zappé qu'il y avait quand même des belles histoires d'amour pour certains... heureusement d'ailleurs
oui dsl pour le "blabla" que j'ai fait en retour à l'histoire du membre qui parle de la japonaise qui est parti maintenant avec un américain bref...
je suis de tout coeur en tous les cas avec ton ami.....
il est clair que parfois certaines histoires peuvent faire polémique et avoir différentes opinion plus ou moins mauvaises.... comme deux ou 3 qui on parlé de donner l'histoire à TF1 et 2 autres étaient moqueur, avec vic09 on a réagi pour ça ...
donc toutes mes excuses d'avoir fait allusion à certaines histoires mes amis thai de phuket m'en racontent tellement sur les filles thais vénales poussées par leur famille en échange de garder les enfants que j'ai zappé qu'il y avait quand même des belles histoires d'amour pour certains... heureusement d'ailleurs
d'avoir fait allusion à certaines histoires mes amis thai de phuket m'en racontent tellement sur les filles thais vénales poussées par leur famille en échange de garder les enfants
hélas c'est une réalité, , 🤪🤪 asses courante, il ne faut pas le cacher mais ne pas confondre serviettes et torchons 😛😛
hélas c'est une réalité, , 🤪🤪 asses courante, il ne faut pas le cacher mais ne pas confondre serviettes et torchons 😛😛
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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personne n'est à l'abri nulle part ce qui est valable en thailande l'est aussi dans le reste du monde... une peine de coeur c'est une peine de coeur. Et si en plus on s'est fait "plumer" c'est encore plus "chiant". Moralité (j'ouvre pas un débat, je donne MON avis; il vaut pas plus ni moins que celui des autres) vivre SA vie et être égoiste. Il est toujours temps de se montrer généreux quand on sent que ça en vaut la peine. C'est propre à chacun
manu (tif) de liège
http://picasaweb.google.fr/manuliege/Thailande02
départ le 22 septembre
tintin, je comprends bien ton point de vue, il est vrai que l'égoisme permet de se protéger soi même, mais peut on vraiment vivre une histoire d'amour en étant égosite ?
d'autant plus qu'a travers les posts, j'ai pas l'impréssion que c'est le cas de l'ami sidartha, peut etre aurait il du, je sais pas où est la vérité, je viens de faire lire le post à mon amie qui ne précise connait pas la thailande et les moeurs, elle a été elle aussi touchée, bon je vais arrêter et souhaiter que notre ami s'en sorte au mieux et qu'il revienne nous dire comment il va 😮.
si tu regardes bien plus haut, je suis pas sûr q'uil se soit fait plumer, attention aux abuts de language mais là n'est sans doute pas le théme à developper ici
si tu regardes bien plus haut, je suis pas sûr q'uil se soit fait plumer, attention aux abuts de language mais là n'est sans doute pas le théme à developper ici
" Ils ne savaient pas que c'était impossible, alors ils l'ont fait. "
Moralité (j'ouvre pas un débat, je donne MON avis; il vaut pas plus ni moins que celui des autres) vivre SA vie et être égoiste
Moralité bien dans l'air du temps, l'individualisme étant de plus en plus prégnant dans notre société. Je ne suis pas du même avis sur l'égoïsme qui n'empêchera jamais les peines de coeur, au contraire il peut empêcher l'éclosion d'une histoire d'amour. Comment peut-on aimer en restant égoïste ?
Moralité bien dans l'air du temps, l'individualisme étant de plus en plus prégnant dans notre société. Je ne suis pas du même avis sur l'égoïsme qui n'empêchera jamais les peines de coeur, au contraire il peut empêcher l'éclosion d'une histoire d'amour. Comment peut-on aimer en restant égoïste ?
Bonjour,
J'avais un peu plus haut traité Kiper de con. Le message a été supprimé.
J'espère qu'il ne croit pas que j'ai changé d'avis.
Danielle, téméraire
J'avais un peu plus haut traité Kiper de con. Le message a été supprimé.
J'espère qu'il ne croit pas que j'ai changé d'avis.
Danielle, téméraire
A man, a plan, a canal, Panama - palindrome, auteur inconnu
'ai les moyens a ma dispositions, même physique, mais je respecte ce que il m'a dit, il n'a pas la force de parler .........
il faut attendre que il s'exprime par lui même,
En effet, laissons le se reprendre, il reviendra de lui meme, l'important est qu'il sache qu'il trouvera du soutien en cas de besoin.
sid a ma connaissance a péter les plons en s'exprimant en public, sa peut arriver a tous, ce n'est pas le genre de personnage exhibitionniste,
On peut le comprendre, besoin de trouver du reconfort. Comme tu l'as demande plus haut, il serait bien que ceux qui ont un avis le gardent, les lecons de morale ne sont vraiment pas ce dont il a besoin en ce moment.
A transmettre a Sid, quand tu l'auras en ligne :
Courage, tiens bon, on est la pour toi quand tu veux, prends ton temps.
Merci Thuan et bonjour du Viet Nam, Pat
En effet, laissons le se reprendre, il reviendra de lui meme, l'important est qu'il sache qu'il trouvera du soutien en cas de besoin.
sid a ma connaissance a péter les plons en s'exprimant en public, sa peut arriver a tous, ce n'est pas le genre de personnage exhibitionniste,
On peut le comprendre, besoin de trouver du reconfort. Comme tu l'as demande plus haut, il serait bien que ceux qui ont un avis le gardent, les lecons de morale ne sont vraiment pas ce dont il a besoin en ce moment.
A transmettre a Sid, quand tu l'auras en ligne :
Courage, tiens bon, on est la pour toi quand tu veux, prends ton temps.
Merci Thuan et bonjour du Viet Nam, Pat
perdre la face, uniquement dans un sens, c'est l'education asiatique,
car par exemple, moi je m'en tape de ce que penses les gens je les EM...
je vis ma vie point barre.
amical
que la puissance de la jungle soit avec toi
Mon site http://tintina.com
Bon courage car dans ces situations il en faut beaucoup pour ne pas perdre sa dignite. Nul doute que la famille attend une reaction... sonnante et trebuchante. Pour eux c'est malheureusement comme une partie de poker, et ils viennent de faire banco.
Que deux etres aux sentiments sinceres se retrouvent victimes de ces pratiques c'est forcement choquant.
A l'inverse de Thuan je ne pense pas qu'avoir temoigne sur ce forum etait une betise, ca a peut-etre meme ete la soupape de securite qui a evite d'en faire une.
A l'inverse de Thuan je ne pense pas qu'avoir temoigne sur ce forum etait une betise, ca a peut-etre meme ete la soupape de securite qui a evite d'en faire une.
Tout a été dit, bravo et merci pour votre témoignage, courage et bonne chance pour la suite.
Quand je lis les histoires à droite à gauche, j'ai parfois l'impression d'être tomber sur une perle, mais la culture du farang est si forte en Thaïlande qu'un jour ça pourrait me "péter à la gueule".
Votre message me remet les pieds sur terre et m'encourage à être prudent, même si tout va bien pour le moment.
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Quand je lis les histoires à droite à gauche, j'ai parfois l'impression d'être tomber sur une perle, mais la culture du farang est si forte en Thaïlande qu'un jour ça pourrait me "péter à la gueule".
Votre message me remet les pieds sur terre et m'encourage à être prudent, même si tout va bien pour le moment.
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Je sais que ton post parle juste de ton experience personnelle, mais je dis tout ca, juste parceque je sais que ce forums regorge de gros beauf de base qui ne vont pas manquer de se lancer dans des generalités qui vont flirter avec les stereotypes a la frontiere du racisme de bistrot.
J'ai meme l'impression de voir deja fleurir les desormais classiques posts du genre '' les thaies c'est bien une nuit pour t'amuser, mais pour aimer c'est la femme europeenne ...''.
Merci du fond du coeur pour avoir écrit ça : moi je n'ose plus, ça finit toujours par des posts censurés....
Pourtant c'est vrai qu' il y en a, de la beaufitude confite sur ce forum; et moi, je n'arrive pas à garder mon calme avec eux (elles). C'est pourquoi je ne m'en mêle plus.
J'ai meme l'impression de voir deja fleurir les desormais classiques posts du genre '' les thaies c'est bien une nuit pour t'amuser, mais pour aimer c'est la femme europeenne ...''.
Merci du fond du coeur pour avoir écrit ça : moi je n'ose plus, ça finit toujours par des posts censurés....
Pourtant c'est vrai qu' il y en a, de la beaufitude confite sur ce forum; et moi, je n'arrive pas à garder mon calme avec eux (elles). C'est pourquoi je ne m'en mêle plus.
Pourtant c'est vrai qu' il y en a, de la beaufitude confite sur ce forum; et moi, je n'arrive pas à garder mon calme avec eux (elles). C'est pourquoi je ne m'en mêle plus.
Dommage de leur laisser le champ libre, je pense au contraire qu'il faut réagir.
Dommage de leur laisser le champ libre, je pense au contraire qu'il faut réagir.
Personnellement, bien qu'étant en thailande je ne participe quasiment jamais aux discussion sur ce pays, pour les memes raisons que toi. On revient toujours au discussions des experts auto-proclamés du pays (apres avoir passé 2 semaines de vacances labas), qui sont jamais sorti de pattaya et phuket et qui nous sortent que partout en thailande (sans exeception, et meme dans les autres pays d'asie par extension genetique) les filles sont cupides et toutes pretes a coucher pour 1000 bath (seulement avec des falang par ce sont les plus beaux) et les garcons tous des escrocs.
Comme ces personnes sont majoritaires ici, ca finit toujours troll, flam, godwin etc ...
Comme ces personnes sont majoritaires ici
Non, c'est faux mais comme souvent la majorité est silencieuse et c'est à cause de ça que tu as l'impression que les mecs à putes semblent être majoritaires.
Non, c'est faux mais comme souvent la majorité est silencieuse et c'est à cause de ça que tu as l'impression que les mecs à putes semblent être majoritaires.
Je suis d'accord avec toi et bravo pour le courage de Sid d'avoir oser s'exprimer sur ce forum. Cela doit nous inciter à la prudence. Mais s'il n'y a pas d'amour sans histoire, toutes les histoires ne finissent pas forcément mal.
La beauté est dans l'oeil de celui qui regarde
😎 J - 40 😏
😎 J - 40 😏
L'histoire si je comprends bien est né de la demande des beaux parents, en fait les parents de son ex mari, ce qui rend la situation encore plus complexe. mais cela renvoie surtout à la situation sociale de ces pays : la structure familiale est sensée remplacer tout ce qui est considéré comme de droit en Europe : assurance maladie, chômage et vieillesse. A méditer par tous ceux qui pensent qu'un pays où on ne paie pas ou presque de charges sociales est un paradis...
"Le touriste apparait comme le principal agent de diffusion du mépris anti touristique. Plus le touriste se voit en miroir de l'autre, plus il le déteste".
JEAN DIDIER URBAIN "L'idiot du voyage"
JEAN DIDIER URBAIN "L'idiot du voyage"
que ce qui trouvent leur bohneur avec des filles a 1000 bahts tant mieux pour eux, mais en thailande la frontiere est souvent fine, il n y a qu a voir dans les villages ou l argent des filles de pataya n est pas forcement mal regarde que se soit transforme en ferme belle voitures ou superbes maison
je l ai meme vu a l interieur d une seule famille ou les fils et les filles travaille a la ferme ou en usine ou petit business et ou une ou 2 soeur travaillent a pataya ou ont trouve un mari en passant a pataya (sans l amour tel qu on peut le concevoir en france) et tout le monde se melange dans la plus parfaite serenite
j ai eu ce meme probleme que je dirai financier en plus de ma femme et de mes 2 enfants qui restaient aux phil j avais pris la charge, ce que je considere comme normal du premier fils de ma femme et de 2 nieces c est a dire que je les nourissais et leur avais trouve une ecole correcte et suivait leur education afin de leur donner de meilleures chances d avenir + je donnais un peu de boulot a ma belle soeur mais je ne supportait pour ainsi dire pas la belle mere qui avait ses propres revenus,
eh bin ce stress financier a amener des tensions avec la belle mere et ma femme qui au momment ou d autres problemes sont apparus ont tout fait pete
eh bin ce stress financier a amener des tensions avec la belle mere et ma femme qui au momment ou d autres problemes sont apparus ont tout fait pete
Quelle tristesse, quand la famille s'en melle quelle mer... en plus si ca famille a cette idee que tous les farang on de l'argent (genre imprimerie a billet dans le garage).
Quel sentiment d'impuissance devant cette famille.
Je ne veux surtout pas donner de conseil je me permet que tres rarement de donner un conseil pour les histoires de coeur. Mais j'ose 🤪
Peu etre qu'une discution avec la famille (ou celle ou celui qui en est le chef, des fois se n'est pas forcement le pere ou la mere mais la tente ou autre) en tete a tete, car ce n'ai pas elle qui perd la face mais ca famille par rapport au village.
Les thai ont quand meme souvent bon coeur dis leur que toi aussi. Si par contre ils ne sont attire que par l'argent alors il faudra peu etre le faire comprendre a "elle".
Mais les thai ne lache pas facilement elle reviendra surement d'elle meme...je l'espere pour toi.
Enfin quoi qu'il en soit c'est triste comme histoire, mais je suis sur que ce n'ai pas fini
De tout coeur Bonne chance.
Enfin quoi qu'il en soit c'est triste comme histoire, mais je suis sur que ce n'ai pas fini
De tout coeur Bonne chance.
Il n'y a d'homme plus complet que celui qui a beaucoup voyagé, qui a changé vingt fois la forme de sa pensée et de sa vie
Excuse moi mais tu parles et ecris tres bien, je ne suis pas sur que tous les francais peuvent en dire autant et moi le premier.
bravo
bravo
Il n'y a d'homme plus complet que celui qui a beaucoup voyagé, qui a changé vingt fois la forme de sa pensée et de sa vie
une perte de travail peux detruire aussi une relation franco francaise
ce matin avant d'aller sur VF, étrange ... j'ai pensé à toi ... je me suis dit mais on ne le voit plus aussi souvent sur VF ... il doit se passer quelque chosde et j'avais décider d'enquérir une amitié commune pour savoir ce qu'il en était ...
je serai brève ... ce "perdre la face" n'est pas seulement disons "oriental" mais aussi "occidental", ainsi au jour d'aujourd'hui nous avons des situations similaires chez nous et dans nos pays voisins, en particulier ceux qui sont sur le bord de la méditerranée ... tu peux avoir des déboires uniquement parce que tu es par exemple divorcé ... ou ... que tu avec des enfants ... etc ... et que cela ne fait pas bon ménage ... avec "leur respectabilité"
très nombreuses sont les femmes qui subissent, parfois sous la menace, la pression familiale, dans ce cas j'appelle cela un clan ... menaces, coups, vexations ... chantage ..
pour ton exemple, la pression familiale demande quoi finalement à leur fille ? de se prostituer "légalement" cad ok tu as un amant, ns fermons les yeux à condition qu'il paie, cad qu'il nourrisse toute la famille ... 😎 des mafiosis en quelque sorte sous un aspect pseudo "respectable"
Sid je n'ai pas de remèdes malheureusement qui puisse que tu ailles bien ... de suite ... 😕😕
très amicalement
el.
ps. j'ajoute que même si vs vous étiez mariés cela aurait été la même chose ! tu étais, et ce pour toujours, car l'union étant légitmée par la loi, le pigeon "bien-aimé
penses-tu que l'on puisse construire une relation sur ce tas de boue ?
"pendant un instant l'usage des yeux : la lecture du monde. italo Calvino "Paroles de voyageurs" si tu n'as pas étudié, voyage".
😮 Bonjour Sid,
Je suis vraiment sidéré d'apprendre que tout cela puisse arriver à toi qui connais si bien la Thailande ! La mentalité des gens de là bas avec leur familles derrière !... J'ai lu récemment dans un Livre qui raconte un tas d'histoires de couples qui se terminent ainsi ! ...
Ne t'en fais pas trop, Sid ! Bon courage et j'espère te retrouver en Thailande prochainement comme convenu ? Amitiés . Thanh 😏--
Je suis vraiment sidéré d'apprendre que tout cela puisse arriver à toi qui connais si bien la Thailande ! La mentalité des gens de là bas avec leur familles derrière !... J'ai lu récemment dans un Livre qui raconte un tas d'histoires de couples qui se terminent ainsi ! ...
Ne t'en fais pas trop, Sid ! Bon courage et j'espère te retrouver en Thailande prochainement comme convenu ? Amitiés . Thanh 😏--
j'ajoute que même si vs vous étiez mariés cela aurait été la même chose
comme il fait le loup solitaire qui crevé dans son coin, 🤪🤪 je me permet de dire, que si khun sid était mariée, il n'aurait pas eut ce post, ,
je suppose que khun Lek, en disant <, perdre la face>, voilait dire, on n'est pas arriver, j'abandonne, je ne comprend pas ta société,
mais bon c'est une interprétation personnelle, , 🤪🤪
12 h 28 je viens de téléphoner, , mais je tombe sur le répondeur, , , , , , , ,
comme il fait le loup solitaire qui crevé dans son coin, 🤪🤪 je me permet de dire, que si khun sid était mariée, il n'aurait pas eut ce post, ,
je suppose que khun Lek, en disant <, perdre la face>, voilait dire, on n'est pas arriver, j'abandonne, je ne comprend pas ta société,
mais bon c'est une interprétation personnelle, , 🤪🤪
12 h 28 je viens de téléphoner, , mais je tombe sur le répondeur, , , , , , , ,
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Hi,
On September 1st, we're heading to Kalimantan for six weeks, probably from Pontianak to the Derawan Islands.
I've scoured this site, which is usually my go-to 😉, and others like VoyageForum, but recent info is pretty scarce.
I'd love any tips on places you've visited—our itinerary is still a work in progress.
We're two couples traveling with backpacks, using buses, boats, guesthouses, and homestays.
Thanks in advance!
Bonjour je souhaite diviser mon séjour en 2 parties soit 15 jours à phuket et 15 jours sur krabi. Savez-vous si je peux louer une voiture et la rendre a krabi lors de mon retour en France
Merci de vos retours
Bon dimanche
Martine
Bonjour à tous, me voilà revenue sur le forum.
Je cherche la perle rare pour mon 3eme séjour sur Koh Lanta : un bel hotel qualitatif au bord d' une plage facile d'accès dans un endroit animé. Si vous connaissez quelque chose qui s'apparente à ma recherche et que vous souhaitez partager n' hésitez pas.
Merci beaucoup
Marsyork
Je cherche la perle rare pour mon 3eme séjour sur Koh Lanta : un bel hotel qualitatif au bord d' une plage facile d'accès dans un endroit animé. Si vous connaissez quelque chose qui s'apparente à ma recherche et que vous souhaitez partager n' hésitez pas.
Merci beaucoup
Marsyork
Hi, is anyone there in Flores right now? According to some websites, everything is closed and the situation is tough. But our guide says it's fine. Who should we believe? We're supposed to leave on September 2nd. Thanks to anyone in Flores at the moment!
Bonjour précieuse communauté,
J'envisage de me rendre au Cambodge cet hiver, juste après Noël, pour un premier voyage seule, et mon premier voyage en Asie. Pour deux semaines (oui, je sais, c'est peu, mais je ne peux vraiment pas plus...). J'ai deux grandes envies: Siem Reap, et la campagne, les villages, le Mekong...
Que pensez-vous de cet itinéraire? Arrivée à Siem Reap, départ de Phnom Penh
SR: 5 jours (1 jour pour l'arrivée, 3 pour les temples, 1 pour le lac et ses villages)
Kratie (étape sur la route du Mondolkiri): 3 jours (1 jour de trajet, 2 jours sur place)
Mondolkiri/Sen Monorom: 4 jours (1 jour de trajet, 1 jour sur place, 2 jours de treks)
PP: 3 jours (1 jour de trajet, 2 jours de visite)
Je pense qu'il faut que j'enlève un jour quelque part, si je pars du samedi au samedi, ou du dimanche au dimanche. A Kratie, peut-être? à PP? et je rate le trajet en bateau que tout le monde conseille (SR-Battambang), mais je ne vois pas où le caser. Sauf à faire un PP-PP en commençant par l'est, laisser tomber Kratie ou vraiment juste une nuit, puis SR, puis PP).
Dans mon timing, j'ai l'impression que le Mondolkiri est plus proche que le Ratanakiri, qui me tentait aussi beaucoup! Est-ce que cela restera pas trop compliqué toute seule? Je pense faire appel à des guides locaux, ou une petite agence locale, pour faire une escapade dans la nature et les villages.
Je lis qu'il y a beaucoup de monde à SR entre Noël et Nouvel An, je peux aussi faire le circuit dans l'autre sens. Mais je trouvais plus facile de me familiariser avec le pays en arrivant en territoire touristique, je me trompe peut-être...
Merci pour vos conseils et avis!
Hello,
I’m planning a trip to Laos in early 2027. Does anyone know the dates for the Vat Phou festival in Champasak? Thanks!
I’m planning a trip to Laos in early 2027. Does anyone know the dates for the Vat Phou festival in Champasak? Thanks!
Hi fellow travelers,
First trip to Vietnam.
We’ll be arriving in Ho Chi Minh City during Tet.
Is it complicated to find accommodation and get around during this period?
Any tips would be welcome.
Thanks for your replies.
Hi everyone.
I’m planning my trip, and based on all the posts I’ve read, this country is amazing.
Of course, I’ve got a ton of questions for you.
Here’s a possible itinerary: Vientiane - Vang Vieng - Phonsavan - Sam Neua - Nong Khiaw + villages - Phongsali - Luang Namtha and the area - Udomxai - Huay Xai - Luang Prabang and back to Vientiane.
What do you think?
We’re planning to prioritize local transport—is it possible to do this loop?
We’d also love to go kayaking, but I’m not sure if the season’s right or where the best spot is.
For trekking—I read that Phongsali is the most authentic spot to visit villages and see wildlife. Do you know of a reliable agency and a guesthouse with reasonable prices? Is it worth taking a slow boat for a stretch on the Mekong, and if so, which route?
For accommodations, is it better to book through Booking.com and Agoda or look when we arrive?
Are mosquitoes bad in Laos, and should we take malaria prophylaxis? What’s the average daily budget (accommodation, food, visits)?
Is renting scooters a good option for exploring towns, and if so, which ones?
From what I’ve read, it’s best to carry cash—euros or dollars? Is it risky to walk around with that much cash?
I’ve still got tons of questions. Thanks to anyone who can help, and I’m open to all tips, info, etc. Thanks again
For trekking—I read that Phongsali is the most authentic spot to visit villages and see wildlife. Do you know of a reliable agency and a guesthouse with reasonable prices? Is it worth taking a slow boat for a stretch on the Mekong, and if so, which route?
For accommodations, is it better to book through Booking.com and Agoda or look when we arrive?
Are mosquitoes bad in Laos, and should we take malaria prophylaxis? What’s the average daily budget (accommodation, food, visits)?
Is renting scooters a good option for exploring towns, and if so, which ones?
From what I’ve read, it’s best to carry cash—euros or dollars? Is it risky to walk around with that much cash?
I’ve still got tons of questions. Thanks to anyone who can help, and I’m open to all tips, info, etc. Thanks again
Hi there,
I’m planning a trip to Vietnam in February, specifically Da Nang and Hoi An.
Does anyone know a French-speaking guide in the area?
Thanks for your help
Hi there,
I’m planning a family trip (my wife and I, both 47, and our two sons, aged 5 and 12) to Malaysia for the last week of June and the first two weeks of July 2027.
We used to love road trips as a couple, then as a trio, but since our second child arrived, we’ve taken a break with "camping village" style trips.
Now feels like the right time to get back to our old habits, while adjusting the pace for the kids.
We’re craving Asia. We’ve been lucky enough to visit Thailand, Indonesia (Bali and Lombok), and Sri Lanka before.
Friends have raved about Malaysia, so we’re definitely tempted.
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Thanks in advance for your tips!
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Thanks in advance for your tips!
Hello,
We’re a family of four with two teens aged 16 and 18. We’re heading to Thailand this summer. We’ll arrive in Bangkok and plan to take a flight to Luang Prabang.
I’ve seen there are some great visits and excursions to do (temples, markets, waterfalls) and maybe even venture a bit north to places like Nong Khiaw, Muang Xay, Muang Ngoy, or Oudom Xay.
But I’ve also heard about the Bokeo region with the Gibbon Experience.
Since we won’t be able to do everything, I’d love to hear about your experiences, impressions, and advice on the two options I’m considering, especially since we’ll be meeting family in Chiang Mai, Thailand, afterward.
Option 1: A loop from Luang Prabang heading slightly north, then a flight from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai.
Option 2: A few days in Luang Prabang, exploring within a few dozen kilometers around, then heading to Bokeo province for the 2-day/1-night Gibbon Experience. For this option, I saw on Rome2Rio that it’s possible to book a ferry trip on the Mekong from Luang Prabang to Huay Xay—they mention about 8 hours. But is that realistic? What type of boat is it? Then, to get to Chiang Mai, there aren’t many options—bus or minivan—but how does crossing the border work?
Finally, for those of you who’ve been to Laos in August, what was the weather like? We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
Thanks for your feedback! Best regards, Aurélien
Option 1: A loop from Luang Prabang heading slightly north, then a flight from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai.
Option 2: A few days in Luang Prabang, exploring within a few dozen kilometers around, then heading to Bokeo province for the 2-day/1-night Gibbon Experience. For this option, I saw on Rome2Rio that it’s possible to book a ferry trip on the Mekong from Luang Prabang to Huay Xay—they mention about 8 hours. But is that realistic? What type of boat is it? Then, to get to Chiang Mai, there aren’t many options—bus or minivan—but how does crossing the border work?
Finally, for those of you who’ve been to Laos in August, what was the weather like? We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
Thanks for your feedback! Best regards, Aurélien
I’m starting a discussion about guides in the Mekong Delta because we’ve just finished our trip in this region and had a hard time finding a French-speaking guide. We had Thanh—she speaks French really well and travels all over the delta region, including Ho Chi Minh City. She’s super friendly and flexible. I recommend her wholeheartedly. If it can help someone...
Feel free to contact us for her number.
Hi everyone,
I couldn’t find any recent info on Kuching.
Can anyone recommend a hotel or guesthouse for under 100 RM that’s nice and affordable? No dorms, please.
Also, does it rain a lot in November, and is it still worth visiting Semenggoh or Bako?
Hi there,
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Hey everyone,
Silly question—backpack or hard-shell suitcase for the Sepilok, Kinabatangan, Tioman, KL trip? I’m struggling to fit all my son’s and my stuff into the 70L backpack... and I’m thinking a suitcase would be easier, but I’m not sure if it’ll work for getting around.
Thanks! 🙂
Silly question—backpack or hard-shell suitcase for the Sepilok, Kinabatangan, Tioman, KL trip? I’m struggling to fit all my son’s and my stuff into the 70L backpack... and I’m thinking a suitcase would be easier, but I’m not sure if it’ll work for getting around.
Thanks! 🙂
Hi there,
I didn’t plan to return to Thailand this year, but my health conditions mean it’ll be the best place for me to stay between two trips to India. The tourism setup there is so well-organized that it’s the most "comfortable" country for a short visit. Thailand feels too sanitized for my taste, and there’s too much religion, Buddha, and the King, but it’s still the best option given how my health has been evolving. I’d considered two weeks in ThaTon for hiking, but I got too sick from the burn-offs during my trips to the mountains around Chiang Rai. So I’m not sure where to go this year. Definitely not the sea, touristy spots, or the mountains with burn-offs...
Thanks, friends, if you’ve got any suggestions.
Thanks, friends, if you’ve got any suggestions.
Hi everyone,
After a stay on Koh Phayam this coming November, I’d like to spend 2 or 3 days on Koh Phra Thong before heading further south.
Do you think it’s doable to leave Koh Phayam early enough to catch the 10 AM boat from Khura Buri to Koh Phra Thong? The next one isn’t until 4 PM, which would cost me a whole day.
Thanks
After a stay on Koh Phayam this coming November, I’d like to spend 2 or 3 days on Koh Phra Thong before heading further south.
Do you think it’s doable to leave Koh Phayam early enough to catch the 10 AM boat from Khura Buri to Koh Phra Thong? The next one isn’t until 4 PM, which would cost me a whole day.
Thanks
Hi,
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days. I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome! I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Thanks
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days. I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome! I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Thanks
Hello everyone,
Not long ago, I used to travel as a couple, but my husband has since passed away, and I’ve decided to set off again. The trip I took to Cambodia in January 2025 did me a world of good.
I’m now considering Thailand, a destination we never included in our plans because even 15 years ago, people said it was too touristy. Still, I’m thinking about the itinerary below, but I don’t feel up to arranging buses, trains, or guides on my own while I’m there. I’m looking for one or more drivers and have been in touch with an agency, but their offers are just copy-paste group tours that I don’t want.
So, if you have any contacts, experiences, or advice, I’d be so grateful if you’d share them with me. Here’s my rough plan:
Arrival in Bangkok
Ayutthaya (2 nights)
Kanchanaburi (2 or 3 nights)
Sangkhlaburi/Sai Yok (3 nights)
Sukhothai (2 nights)
Lampang (I’ve planned 3 nights, but that might be a bit much—it depends on what time I arrive in the city)
Chiang Mai
Chiang Dao
Pai
Chiang Rai
I was thinking about the Mae Hong Son loop—thoughts?
What do you think about staying overnight at the Golden Triangle?
When I look online, of course, I can find agencies that organize tours to national parks, etc.
I’m retired but in great physical shape. I’d rather go hiking than sit in hot springs with crowds of tourists who’ve all arranged meet-ups. I don’t want to spend a day at an elephant camp, and I don’t want to visit Karen villages.
I’d love to hear your advice.
Thank you all,
Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi,
From Malacca to get to Jerantut, is it better to go back to KL and take a bus from there, or take a bus to Tampin and then a train? Any feedback on the "Jungle Train"? (duration, price, comfort, etc.). Thanks
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral. Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo). Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok: * Orangutan Center * Malayan Sun Bear Center * Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan. Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari. Jungle walk. Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari. Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port. Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar 5 full days. * Snorkeling * Hiking * Turtle watching * Wild beaches * Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland. Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Days 15 and 16: Taman Negara.
Day 17: Return to Kuala Lumpur.
Day 18: Visit the Petronas Towers or Batu Caves
Day 19: Free day.
Day 20: Return flight.
Thanks in advance, everyone!
Baptiste
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral. Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo). Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok: * Orangutan Center * Malayan Sun Bear Center * Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan. Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari. Jungle walk. Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari. Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port. Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar 5 full days. * Snorkeling * Hiking * Turtle watching * Wild beaches * Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland. Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Days 15 and 16: Taman Negara.
Day 17: Return to Kuala Lumpur.
Day 18: Visit the Petronas Towers or Batu Caves
Day 19: Free day.
Day 20: Return flight.
Thanks in advance, everyone!
Baptiste
Hi everyone,
We’re heading to Flores and then Bali at the end of September.
We’ve already visited both but this time, once we’re in Labuan Bajo, we’d like to take a boat to the Komodo Islands to see the famous Komodo dragons.
I don’t want to sleep on the boat—just a day trip would be perfect.
Does anyone know a reliable and friendly provider to recommend?
Thanks in advance, and have a great summer!
Time to hit the road again!
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali. And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people! So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops): - 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud 2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa) 1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...) - 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces) - 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai - 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed) - 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island) - 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan) - 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels. Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?) Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?) Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali. And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people! So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops): - 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud 2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa) 1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...) - 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces) - 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai - 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed) - 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island) - 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan) - 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels. Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?) Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?) Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
Hello,
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027: - Phnom Penh - Kampong Cham - Kratie - Siem Reap - Battambang - Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights. Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above. Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
- Battambang (round trip) - Siem Reap / Angkor - Kratie - Kampong Cham - Phnom Penh - Kampot (round trip)
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Have a great Sunday
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027: - Phnom Penh - Kampong Cham - Kratie - Siem Reap - Battambang - Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights. Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above. Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
- Battambang (round trip) - Siem Reap / Angkor - Kratie - Kampong Cham - Phnom Penh - Kampot (round trip)
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Have a great Sunday
Hi there,
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Hi there,
We’re planning to travel from Chiang Rai to Luang Prabang next November.
We’d like to take a slow boat from Chiang Khong—or rather from Huay Xai in Laos—with an overnight stop in Pakbeng.
Could you let us know if the boat still leaves Huay Xai in the late morning? If so, what time roughly, and what’s the price for the trip?
Thanks for your help!
Alod
Hello everyone,
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations: We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights: The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1: We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2: This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3: With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4: Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings. We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops. In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5: Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6: This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8: Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10: On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12: We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines. Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment. We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15: From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP). We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning. We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise. Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16: We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town. It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view. We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise. In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911. On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city. We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17: Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning. Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in. The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances: In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary: Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional. Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations: We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights: The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1: We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2: This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3: With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4: Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings. We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops. In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5: Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6: This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8: Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10: On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12: We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines. Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment. We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15: From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP). We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning. We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise. Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16: We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town. It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view. We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise. In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911. On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city. We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17: Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning. Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in. The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances: In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary: Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional. Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
So, my flight tickets have just been booked for a trip to Cambodia from November 4th to 27th, 2025.
I’ll be traveling solo and want to explore this amazing country while getting a bit off the beaten path.
I’m arriving in Phnom Penh and also departing from Phnom Penh.
My goal is to travel as much as possible by bus and scooter.
What itinerary would you recommend?
What are the must-do things?
I’m open to all tips and info.
Thanks in advance for your help and responses.
We got back enchanted from a 6-week trip to Cambodia!
Our itinerary: Kampot - Kampong Chhnang - Battambang - Siem Reap - Kampong Cham - Sen Monorom (Mondulkiri) - Banlung (Ratanakiri) - Kratie - Kampong Thom - Phnom Penh.
We traveled by bus, minivan, boat (between Battambang and Siem Reap), overnight bus, scooter, tuk-tuk, and rickshaw for shorter distances. We stayed in guesthouses, homestays, and even in the jungle during a trek.
While the Angkor temples are fabulous, it’s the people you should visit Cambodia for—the "Land of Smiles" truly lives up to its nickname! Tourists gather in Angkor but are quite rare elsewhere, even though the country is easy to travel around.
I won’t describe our trip in detail but instead highlight a few favorite moments.
From Kampot, don’t hesitate to head out around 6 AM to see the fishermen return and their wives selling their catch (just 10 minutes away by the coast). Guaranteed picturesque!
In Battambang, known for its food scene, we discovered a cooking class with Smokin’ Pot (authentic Khmer cooking class). They pick you up from your guesthouse to shop for ingredients (we made fish amok and beef lok lak) at their village market, then cook and eat together. A private class—just the two of us! They also send the recipes via WhatsApp as a PDF. +855 12 821 400
In Siem Reap, I can recommend a francophone tuk-tuk driver who was very attentive to our wishes. We visited tourist spots but also more remote villages and local grilled-pork restaurants with him. He’s a wealth of information about local life, and chatting with him was a real pleasure—we left with regret! You can reach him on WhatsApp: Vung Hem, +855 96 614 0146.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Mondulkiri. Don’t expect a super dense jungle—it looks more like a forest similar to ours. But Nara, our Bunong ethnic guide, made the experience adventurous and ultimately very immersive! WhatsApp +855 86 630 489
Bee Bee’s Chalets homestay: If you pass through Banlung in Ratanakiri, we *loved* this family and their budget-friendly bungalows. Playing Uno, enjoying Nita’s cooking (ask for her fish amok—amazing!), it was a true homestay experience! Contact Nita on WhatsApp: +855 88 818 5525.
In Kratie, rent a scooter and follow the Mekong north for 40 km at your own pace. Being so close to the locals was a treat! Same goes for heading south if you have time.
Kampong Thom: Head 25 km out to visit the pre-Angkorian temples of Sambor Prei Kuk. Around a hundred monuments spread across three sites… and hardly anyone there!
A few practical tips: Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred. PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront). Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
A few practical tips: Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred. PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront). Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!






