c'est une de ses cérémonies mortuaires asses insolite que nous offre la communauté chinoise de thailande, ,
les défunts chinois sont très matérialistes, ils ont besoin de confort dans le haut delà, , et pour cela les vivants leur procure ses biens, ,
voici des exemplaires de ce que le défunt emporte au paradis, , ( ou en enfer, , )
parmi les objets indispensable qui il faut emporter, , est un coffre fort ...... on ne sais jamais si il y a des voleurs dans le haut delà ! .
des ventilateurs et air con, , on ne sait jamais, , ??
une belle voiture, , il y a sûrement des autoroutes, , etc, ,
tout ces objet sont fabriquer en papier et bambou destinée a être brûlée lors de une cérémonie, pour le grand confort du défunt, ,
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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J'aurais besoin de votre aide encore une fois avant mon prochain départ pour la Thailande. Mon travail au Québec est manucuriste-pédicuriste. J'aimerais bien savoir si à Bangkok ou aux environs il y a des fournisseurs de différents produits pour le décor des ongles. Ici c'est quelque chose qui fonctionne fort, et je suis certaine qu'en Asie ils doivent être à la fine pointe en ce domaine. Si vous pouvez m'aider à trouver des fournisseurs de produits d'ongles, par adresse internet ou autre.... Merci d'avance pour votre aide. Vous nous avez très bien diriger depuis le début et grâce à vous nous avons presque fini notre horaire de visite dans votre beau pays.
Au plaisir de vous relire,
Céline et Jean-Claude du Canada.
Non ce n'est pas nouveau !!! l'histoire nous apprend que le défunt etait entérré avec ses possessions terrestres...aussi quelquefois pour les hauts dignitaires avec la représentation de leur palais et des soldats !
Il n'y a pas qu'en Chine dailleurs ...les vikings et méme gaulois emportés leurs "trésors" dans la tombe et ils tuaient chiens et chevaux pour qu'ils accompagnent leurs maitres !!!
Idem pour l'egypte ou quelquefois c'etaient les concubines qui devaient périr !
En Inde les femmes "satis" suivent sur le bucher...
Au Laos c'est pareil, mais les dons sont moins couteux que chez les chinois.J"espere que cela ne devindra pas aussi ridicule car ils imitent beaucoup leurs voisins...helas
Marie-Helene🙁
salut cine, , mais je crois que tu est un peut à-côté de la plaque ici on parle de la mort, , ,
écris moi en privée je te dirais ou trouver tes fausses ongles, , 😉
Parfois il y a des situations insolites, , comme cette personne qui a la fin de sa vie était en chaise roulante, , et bien elle en a eut une en papier, , , , , ( j'aurais espérer que la famille veuille mieux pour le défunt !!))
Si par hasard vous voulez assister a ses cérémonies c'est très possible, et vous êtes les bien venu, , car plus on est nombreux plus le défunt est content, , simplement ne pas être timide, ,
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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Merci Thuan pour vos photos; cela me réconforte dans mes options de vie : cela me fera une "belle jambe" si on m'offre tout cela dans l'au delà ! Ma maison est moins belle, mon palom acheté chez le petit vendeur mais j'en profite aujourd'hui...
Ont-ils une reproduction en papier du banquier suisse? De mon fromage préféré ? En attendant, je préfère rester de ce Monde !
Cordialement....😕
Diogène
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"Les mathématiciens étudient le soleil et la lune et oublient ce qu'ils ont sous les pieds"»
Ha hahaha !
Une de mes copines d'origine chinoise m'a raconte que pour sa grand-mere ils lui avaient fait tout le tralala en papier... meme une belle mercedes-benz ! Elle etait morte de rire en nous disant que sa grand-mere n'avait jamais su conduire ! A quoi va lui servir la benz ?! 😉
Les photos sont superbes par contre si je peux me permettre le texte d introduction comporte d enorme erreurs . Tous ces objets ne sont absolument pas fais pour l au dela, paradis ou enfer puisque cette notion n existe pas dans aucune des trois grandes religions Chinoise si l on peux apeller comme tel la pratique chinoise ., Il n y as ni enfer ni paradis comme le voient les autres religions . Du point de vue des idées, la religion chinoise se fonde sur une conception de l'univers comme un tout organique, sans création/événement, sans division entre âme et matière. Sa cosmologie se fonde sur les cycles naturels et explique le fonctionnement et l'évolution permanente du monde par le jeu et la combinaison de symboles : yin et yang
Après la mort, on devient ancêtre – pour ceux qui ont rempli leurs devoirs moraux – mais aussi, pour ceux qui ont une force spirituelle particulière, divinité ayant un rang dans la bureaucratie céleste, ou démon – les victimes de malemort, les défunts animés par un désir de vengeance exceptionnelle. Ces trois catégories : ancêtre, dieu, démon permettent de classer les êtres non vivant, et de déterminer les types d'offrandes à effectuer, mais elles ne sont pas absolues ; en réalité, les ancêtres ou dieux des uns sont souvent les démons des autres.Ces offrandes sont donc fais pour leur vie terrestre de non vivant et leur but est d obtenir protection sur les vivants .
Certains imaginent un séjour de durée indéterminée outre-tombe, qui peut être passé dans un certain confort grâce aux meubles ou voitures brûlés lors des cérémonies funéraires et aux sacrifices des vivants. Ce lieu serait un lieu administré par des fonctionnaires ressemblant beaucoup à leurs homologues d'en-haut. Ce séjour "celeste " ne devant pas perduré puisque l influence boudhisme pousse a croire en la réincarnation
Dommage Thuan que tu n es pas oser demander des explication tu aurais alors mieux compris pourquoi le fauteil roulant en papier par exemple 😉
Voila juste une petite parenthese
La vie c est cmme une patisserie on peux la regader sans cesse mais pour connaitre ces saveurs il la faut croquer... les gens sont seuls parce qu'ils construisent des murs au lieu de construire des ponts
Apres quelques seemaines chinoises je trouve que certaines villes ont deja un avant gout d'enfer. Les cieux gris de pollution ont quelque chose d'infinimentde
Les photos sont superbes par contre si je peux me permettre le texte d introduction comporte d enorme erreurs . Tous ces objets ne sont absolument pas fais pour l au dela, paradis ou enfer puisque cette notion n existe pas dans aucune des trois grandes religions Chinoise
totalement vrai YOYO, , c'est pour cela que ils ont un passeport qui ne leur donne le choix que de l'enfer ou le paradis, ,
et le billet d'avion ?? et la carte visa?? 😏
merci pour les photos, , , , , vraiment pas terrible, , , , , 🤪
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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Mais tu as dévaliser le magasin ...On trouve plus facilement ce type de chose a l étranger qu en Chine, inutile de repréciser la position du pouvoir Chinois face a la religion.
Il faut bien comprendre que dans mes propos sur la notion d enfer et de paradis je parle bien en opposition aux autres religions.
D abord il ne faut pas occulter que l on peux difficilement parler de religion Chinoise .Un peu comme en Inde ou nous autres parlons d Hindouiste alors que ce terme n existe pas la bas.
Ce que Thuan présente est l attirail parfais pour fantome. Comme je le dis plus haut la notion de l univers se compose avec des vivants et des non vivants (les fantomes) et bien sure les fantomes vivent de la même facon avec les même envie et les même besoins que les vivants . Le monde des fantomes est la période transitoire avant la réincarnation . Et bien sure on se doit en temps que vivant de faire en sorte que cette période se passe le mieux possible et loin des vivants j explique plus bas
On retrouve cette notion ou en tout cas une trés proche dans la pratique du Boudhisme les maisons aux esprits visible en Thailande sont la pour le rappeller .
C est durrant la phase d attente de réincarnation que l on peux alors parler d enfer et surtout pas de paradis puisque le paradis est encore plus éloigné l on parle d élévation vers un nirvana, en cela est le paradis et l on atteind de son vivant dans cette vie ou la futur .
En faite la salle d attente si l on peux l apeller ainsi, c est cela l enfer et l on y vas tous plus ou moins longtemps . C est surtout d ailleur cette notion de Hell qui est symboliser . La bank, leur monnaie etc etc . et donc toutes ces offrandes sont la pour faire en sorte que le séjour en enfer se passe le mieux possibles et en meme temps c est éviter que les esprit viennent trainer dans le monde des vivants . Remarquez c est pas idiot si le fantome a son passeport un peu d argent et un billet d avion il ne traineras pas autour de la maison . En retrant il est enchanté de son voyage et ne voudrais peut etre pas trouver un vivant pour venir attendre a sa place .
Parcequ en faite leur plus grande peur c est cela. Si la mort a été violente, en générale la famille et les proches mettent grave le paquet et ne lesigne pas sur les accessoires offert. On considere toujours dans cette notion de yin et de fantome que ceux décédés de facon violente sont les fantomes responsable des accidents, noyades voir des suicides en faite des fantome qui sortent leur monde pour venir en quelques sortes hantés les vivants.
Petite parenthese ne sifflez pas la nuit il parais que cela les attires
Il faut savoir que la salle d attente ouvre ces portes pendant 1 mois Tous les séptiemes mois du calendrier lunaire. Et comme l on pense que le contact avec les fantomes est préjudiciable pour les vivants on fais en sorte qu il reste bien en enfer et viennent pas troubler les vivants . et donc on refais offrandes et autres durant cette périodes .Le fantome est considéré comme yin donc néfaste.
bon j arette je pourrais vous en mettre des tonnes j adore le culte chinois c est passionnant plein de légende
La vie c est cmme une patisserie on peux la regader sans cesse mais pour connaitre ces saveurs il la faut croquer... les gens sont seuls parce qu'ils construisent des murs au lieu de construire des ponts
Encore un petit peu la tentation est trop grande
Thuan aurais aussi pu nous faire profiter de la monnaie
celui si est vert comme les dollars car il viens de la bas produit par la communauté chino-americaine
Sinon en regle générale ils sont beaucoup plus colorés
et ne ratez surtout pas le montant du billet il fait aussi grande peur
allez encore un peu d info aussi
en faite cette notion d enfer viens bel et bien du Christianisme et de leurs missionnaires grand conquerent des contrée lointaine en leur temps .
A force de repéter aux peuple Chinois qu ils allaient finir en enfer aprés leur mort car mauvais chrétiens et un folklore digne de Satan, les Chinois se sont vraimment mis a croire que l aprés mort s apellait l enfer car bien sure dans leur grande sagesse il ne comprenaient rien a cette histoire de vie paiennes .
En clair pour eux l enfer n est pas un endroit maléfique ou l on va séjourner parceque l on est mauvais non c est bel et bien la salle d attente avant l embarcement pour une vie nouvel .
PS : pour ceux qui se poseraient la question qui est le monsieur avec le chapeau rigolo et les moustache qui a mon sens le sont tout autant et bien c est l Empereur de l apres-monde The Lord of the Hell ..on s excuse du peu et si vous etes sage je peux aussi vous en dire plus sur sa légende
La vie c est cmme une patisserie on peux la regader sans cesse mais pour connaitre ces saveurs il la faut croquer... les gens sont seuls parce qu'ils construisent des murs au lieu de construire des ponts
Je me souviens que mon pote Amon, cino-thai à Bkk m'avait en effet parlé vaguement de fantômes des morts qui circulaient dans la ville(invisibles bien-sure au commun des mortels)..du coup la nuit même j'ai fait un rêve ou je les voyais vraiment..c'était un cauchemar..mais comme j'était en Thailande, je préfère ne pas renter dans les détails...le landemain lorsque j'en ai parlè à Amon il m'a répondu:"tu vois je ne t'avais pas mentis..ils existent vraiment!!" Et il était sérieux, il ne rigolait pas!!😇😇
De plus je pense que la pensée chinoise sur le monde d'aprés la mort(trés bien expliqué par notre ami YOYO:merci!) me parrait logique et tout à fait cohérente....Mais nous sommes tout de même dans une discussion branchée sur le mode "réalité non ordinaire"... c'est toute la différence, sinon à part cela :tout va bien!!😛
Allé encore un petit bout, précision je suis tout comme Thuan athé et un vrai mais avant de le dire il m as fallu m interesser a tout cela mais revenons sur les fantomes
Ednas ton ami etait sérieux mais en plus en as surrement eue peur la nuit suivante .
En faite ils ont peur que le fantome vienne les foudroyer pour echanger de place .
Il faut comprendre que les fantomes doivent rester dans l enfer, la salle d attente et que ceux qui sont dans le monde des vivants sont des etres qui non pas pu rentrer en enfer on les as laisser dehors ....
Je vois bien le physio a l entrée "non non désolé cela va pas être possible"😎😎
il cherche donc une autre envellope vivante pour aspirer a un monde meilleur . hummm humm sujet interessant il serais donc mieux d etre vivant que mauvais mort
Les fantomes ne sont pas invisible pour tout le monde certain sont capable de discuter avec eux et de les aider ce que font certains moine Taoiste.
Il peux meme arriver que lors de la cérémonie si le moine ressent de mauvaise onde il peux partir avec le fantome du mort pour le faire partir depuis un endroit meilleur pour renter dans la salle d attente . Trop fort les moines
C est d ailleur pour cerla que cela n as pas lieu n importe tout et que l emplacement de la ceremonie joue un role clef .
Pour les raisons que j evoque plus haut les Chinois ne frequente pas ou peu les cimitiere ou les lieux marqués par la mort . On ne veras jamais un Chinois amménager la ou quelqu un se serait suicider par exemple
je m ecarte je m ecarte a la base c etais un post avec des photo alors hop
chambre funereaire Chinoise
La vie c est cmme une patisserie on peux la regader sans cesse mais pour connaitre ces saveurs il la faut croquer... les gens sont seuls parce qu'ils construisent des murs au lieu de construire des ponts
Je te remercie. C'est super intéressant. J'en redemande.
Par contre, il y a une chose qui m'intrigue, à Manille, tu as un cimetière chinois, qui est impressionnant, pour certaines tombes, c'est des petites villas, avec toilettes, air con, poulets, barbecue, etc.... tu as même une tombe, en forme, de tortue, une cathédrale, mais c'est énorme enfin etc...
Ce que je ne comprends pas ou j'ai mal compris, c'est que tu dis que les Chinois "Pour les raisons que j evoque plus haut les Chinois ne frequente pas ou peu les cimitiere ou les lieux marqués par la mort": pourquoi à Manille, ils font cela ?
Salut Larebelle
Desolé pour une si tardive réponse mais je ne suis pas venue sur le net pendant quelques jours .
Quand je dis que les Chinois ne fréquente pas ou peu les cimetières c est a cause de la peur qu ils ont des fantomes. En faisant une tres grande tombe avec tout le confort ils se disent qu ainsi le fantome si il ne va pas attendre dans la zone prevue pour cela au moins il resteront dans leur petite villa au cimetiere et n iras pas voir ce qui se passe ailleur chez les vivants en clair cela seras lors nouveau lieu d habitation mais surtout ils se gardent bien, dans la mesure du possible de leur rendre visite de peur que les fantomes les suivent et ensuite viennent hantée la maison . Ils seraient alors obligé de faire appele a un moine Taoiste ou boudhiste qui as la facultés de le prendre par la main et l emmener ailleur .Ils font d ailleur trés souvent apelle aux moines boudhiste lors des ceremonie car leur priere aident le zombie a trouver sereinement le chemin de la salle d attente .
J en profite pour parler un peu de leurs dieux je parle au pluriel car ils sont nombreux a taiwan ils sont pas loin de 150 ou 200 je suis plus tres sure du chiffre . Contrairement au dieu de nos religions occidentale ils n ont pas de pouvoir absolu et chacun a une fonction bien particuliere . Comme par exemple le dieu des fourneaux (si si cela existe) il est en generale placé dans la cuisine et c est lui qui lors du nouvel an chinois va repeter au dieu du ciel ce qui s est passé dans la famille tout au long de l année . En generale ce n est pas forcement les dieux supremes que l ont prie on evite meme tout contacte avec eux . les prieres sont plus diriges vers des dieux de "secondes classes" a qui l on demande de l aide et suivant le type d aide choisi on prie l un ou l autre Comme par exemple la deese du sol, car il y a aussi des femmes que l on prie pour apporter de l aide a une femme enceinte .
Comme les chionois voient le monde comme un tout vivant et mort l au dela est gerer de la meme facon que sur terre . Avec donc un empire dont l etre supreme est le dieu du ciel et parfois l empereur de Jades et l ensemble des mandarins cela meme qu on prie
Le dieu des Fourneau et sa femme
La vie c est cmme une patisserie on peux la regader sans cesse mais pour connaitre ces saveurs il la faut croquer... les gens sont seuls parce qu'ils construisent des murs au lieu de construire des ponts
On ne veras jamais un Chinois amménager la ou quelqu un se serait suicider par exemple
exact, , c'est comme cela que j'ai eut un 5 étages boutique et studio en plein centre de bkk sur suriwong, pour la somme de 300 euros par mois, , ce n'était pas un suicide mais, un meurtre 5 ans avant, , et il n'y a eut que un farang pour reprendre cette bonne affaire, , d'ailleurs quand on ma dit le prix la première chose que j'ai dit, , est que il n'y aurais pas eut un suicider par hasard ??
Dans ce domaine, , j'en ait une bonne, , j'avais un assistant chinois qui a su ce qui c'était passe 3 mois après que on ait amenager ( j'ai eut le reproche de ne pas l'avoir dit, ), il me dit bon, je vais voir le bonze, pour savoir ce que il faut faire, ???, le bonze ( un malin ) lui a dit la morte a faim, , tu dois m'apporter pendant 20 jours tout les matins de la nourriture, , le la transmettrais, , et pas de problème tu peut travailler pour le farang, ,
et voila commet mon assistant a engraisser un bonze qui n'avait pas besoin de sortir du temple pendant 20 jours,
oui les thais croient aux pii, , ,
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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Hi fellow travelers,
First trip to Vietnam.
We’ll be arriving in Ho Chi Minh City during Tet.
Is it complicated to find accommodation and get around during this period?
Any tips would be welcome.
Thanks for your replies.
Hi everyone.
I’m planning my trip, and based on all the posts I’ve read, this country is amazing.
Of course, I’ve got a ton of questions for you.
Here’s a possible itinerary: Vientiane - Vang Vieng - Phonsavan - Sam Neua - Nong Khiaw + villages - Phongsali - Luang Namtha and the area - Udomxai - Huay Xai - Luang Prabang and back to Vientiane.
What do you think?
We’re planning to prioritize local transport—is it possible to do this loop?
We’d also love to go kayaking, but I’m not sure if the season’s right or where the best spot is.
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Is it worth taking a slow boat for a stretch on the Mekong, and if so, which route?
For accommodations, is it better to book through Booking.com and Agoda or look when we arrive?
Are mosquitoes bad in Laos, and should we take malaria prophylaxis?
What’s the average daily budget (accommodation, food, visits)?
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From what I’ve read, it’s best to carry cash—euros or dollars? Is it risky to walk around with that much cash?
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Thanks again
Hi there,
I’m planning a trip to Vietnam in February, specifically Da Nang and Hoi An.
Does anyone know a French-speaking guide in the area?
Thanks for your help
Hi there,
I’m planning a family trip (my wife and I, both 47, and our two sons, aged 5 and 12) to Malaysia for the last week of June and the first two weeks of July 2027.
We used to love road trips as a couple, then as a trio, but since our second child arrived, we’ve taken a break with "camping village" style trips.
Now feels like the right time to get back to our old habits, while adjusting the pace for the kids.
We’re craving Asia. We’ve been lucky enough to visit Thailand, Indonesia (Bali and Lombok), and Sri Lanka before.
Friends have raved about Malaysia, so we’re definitely tempted.
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
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Hello,
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We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
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Not long ago, I used to travel as a couple, but my husband has since passed away, and I’ve decided to set off again. The trip I took to Cambodia in January 2025 did me a world of good.
I’m now considering Thailand, a destination we never included in our plans because even 15 years ago, people said it was too touristy. Still, I’m thinking about the itinerary below, but I don’t feel up to arranging buses, trains, or guides on my own while I’m there. I’m looking for one or more drivers and have been in touch with an agency, but their offers are just copy-paste group tours that I don’t want.
So, if you have any contacts, experiences, or advice, I’d be so grateful if you’d share them with me. Here’s my rough plan:
Arrival in Bangkok
Ayutthaya (2 nights)
Kanchanaburi (2 or 3 nights)
Sangkhlaburi/Sai Yok (3 nights)
Sukhothai (2 nights)
Lampang (I’ve planned 3 nights, but that might be a bit much—it depends on what time I arrive in the city)
Chiang Mai
Chiang Dao
Pai
Chiang Rai
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What do you think about staying overnight at the Golden Triangle?
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Hi,
On September 1st, we're heading to Kalimantan for six weeks, probably from Pontianak to the Derawan Islands.
I've scoured this site, which is usually my go-to 😉, and others like VoyageForum, but recent info is pretty scarce.
I'd love any tips on places you've visited—our itinerary is still a work in progress.
We're two couples traveling with backpacks, using buses, boats, guesthouses, and homestays.
Thanks in advance!
Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi,
From Malacca to get to Jerantut, is it better to go back to KL and take a bus from there, or take a bus to Tampin and then a train? Any feedback on the "Jungle Train"? (duration, price, comfort, etc.). Thanks
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur
Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral.
Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo).
Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok:
* Orangutan Center
* Malayan Sun Bear Center
* Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan.
Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari.
Jungle walk.
Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari.
Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port.
Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar
5 full days.
* Snorkeling
* Hiking
* Turtle watching
* Wild beaches
* Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland.
Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Hi everyone,
We’re heading to Flores and then Bali at the end of September.
We’ve already visited both but this time, once we’re in Labuan Bajo, we’d like to take a boat to the Komodo Islands to see the famous Komodo dragons.
I don’t want to sleep on the boat—just a day trip would be perfect.
Does anyone know a reliable and friendly provider to recommend?
Thanks in advance, and have a great summer!
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali.
And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people!
So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops):
- 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud
2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa)
1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...)
- 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces)
- 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai
- 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed)
- 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island)
- 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan)
- 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels.
Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?)
Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?)
Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027:
- Phnom Penh
- Kampong Cham
- Kratie
- Siem Reap
- Battambang
- Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights.
Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above.
Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you?
If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Hi there,
We’re planning to travel from Chiang Rai to Luang Prabang next November.
We’d like to take a slow boat from Chiang Khong—or rather from Huay Xai in Laos—with an overnight stop in Pakbeng.
Could you let us know if the boat still leaves Huay Xai in the late morning? If so, what time roughly, and what’s the price for the trip?
Thanks for your help!
Alod
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations:
We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights:
The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1:
We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2:
This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3:
With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4:
Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings.
We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops.
In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5:
Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6:
This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8:
Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10:
On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12:
We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines.
Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment.
We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15:
From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP).
We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning.
We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise.
Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16:
We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town.
It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view.
We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise.
In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911.
On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city.
We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17:
Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning.
Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in.
The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances:
In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary:
Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional.
Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
So, my flight tickets have just been booked for a trip to Cambodia from November 4th to 27th, 2025.
I’ll be traveling solo and want to explore this amazing country while getting a bit off the beaten path.
I’m arriving in Phnom Penh and also departing from Phnom Penh.
My goal is to travel as much as possible by bus and scooter.
What itinerary would you recommend?
What are the must-do things?
I’m open to all tips and info.
Thanks in advance for your help and responses.
We got back enchanted from a 6-week trip to Cambodia!
Our itinerary: Kampot - Kampong Chhnang - Battambang - Siem Reap - Kampong Cham - Sen Monorom (Mondulkiri) - Banlung (Ratanakiri) - Kratie - Kampong Thom - Phnom Penh.
We traveled by bus, minivan, boat (between Battambang and Siem Reap), overnight bus, scooter, tuk-tuk, and rickshaw for shorter distances. We stayed in guesthouses, homestays, and even in the jungle during a trek.
While the Angkor temples are fabulous, it’s the people you should visit Cambodia for—the "Land of Smiles" truly lives up to its nickname! Tourists gather in Angkor but are quite rare elsewhere, even though the country is easy to travel around.
I won’t describe our trip in detail but instead highlight a few favorite moments.
From Kampot, don’t hesitate to head out around 6 AM to see the fishermen return and their wives selling their catch (just 10 minutes away by the coast). Guaranteed picturesque!
In Battambang, known for its food scene, we discovered a cooking class with Smokin’ Pot (authentic Khmer cooking class). They pick you up from your guesthouse to shop for ingredients (we made fish amok and beef lok lak) at their village market, then cook and eat together. A private class—just the two of us! They also send the recipes via WhatsApp as a PDF. +855 12 821 400
In Siem Reap, I can recommend a francophone tuk-tuk driver who was very attentive to our wishes. We visited tourist spots but also more remote villages and local grilled-pork restaurants with him. He’s a wealth of information about local life, and chatting with him was a real pleasure—we left with regret! You can reach him on WhatsApp: Vung Hem, +855 96 614 0146.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Mondulkiri. Don’t expect a super dense jungle—it looks more like a forest similar to ours. But Nara, our Bunong ethnic guide, made the experience adventurous and ultimately very immersive! WhatsApp +855 86 630 489
Bee Bee’s Chalets homestay: If you pass through Banlung in Ratanakiri, we *loved* this family and their budget-friendly bungalows. Playing Uno, enjoying Nita’s cooking (ask for her fish amok—amazing!), it was a true homestay experience! Contact Nita on WhatsApp: +855 88 818 5525.
In Kratie, rent a scooter and follow the Mekong north for 40 km at your own pace. Being so close to the locals was a treat! Same goes for heading south if you have time.
Kampong Thom: Head 25 km out to visit the pre-Angkorian temples of Sambor Prei Kuk. Around a hundred monuments spread across three sites… and hardly anyone there!
A few practical tips:
Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred.
PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront).
Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
We’re planning our second trip to Thailand (2 weeks on-site, late April/early May) as a family with our 5- and 7-year-olds.
On our first trip, we visited Bangkok, Ayutthaya, the River Kwai, Koh Lipe, Koh Phi Phi, and Khao Lak. We especially loved Koh Phi Phi for its limestone cliffs and lush vegetation, as well as Koh Lipe for its crystal-clear waters and snorkeling.
This time, I’m thinking of spending 7 days on the islands. I was considering Koh Tao and Koh Phangan. We’d like some scenery, snorkeling right from the beach, and a bit of atmosphere—but not too much (just enough to grab dinner in the evening).
For the other part of the trip, we’re torn between Chiang Mai and Khao Sok. One or the other… or both? We don’t want to rush, but we’re really nature-focused, so we won’t be hitting too many temples…
Hi there, I’ll be on vacation in Malaysia in November and plan to spend 5 days in Penang. After that, I’d like to visit some temples and places in Butterworth or nearby, and also explore the city. Since I usually get around on foot, which neighborhood would be best for me—meaning within a 30-minute walk of attractions, street food stalls, bus lines, etc.? Thanks in advance for your help!
Françoise