Le petit Dasu jaune sautille sur les tronçons défoncés qui saucissonnent les routes de Saigon. De Cho'lon, il m'emmène au district 7 situé au sud ouest de la ville. Je l'ai choisi selon l'inspiration du moment parce que j'étais déjà passée dans le nord-est et ouest.
Le n. 17 passe au-dessus d'un pont poursuivi par les motos qui en meutes incessantes glapissent leur son aigu en essayant de le dépasse. Il ne se laisse pas faire, tourne avec agilité dans un virage en tête d'épingle et nous projette, ma voisine et moi, vers son plafond bien bas. Il s'elance sur l'avenue qui longe des beaux quartiers aussi neuf que l'asphalte de cette partie du parcours. Dasu en profite !
Il est tel dans mon souvenir d'enfance - l'un des seuls : des ouvertures latérales faites de tube d'acier, l'arrière est grand ouvert ; on y monte par des marches bien hautes que les mamies utilisent pourtant avec une adresse qui fait chaque fois mon admiration. C'était ma place préférée - la plus proche du bord - elle l'est toujours.
Ma voisine porte un masque en tissu, comme beaucoup de Vietnamiens qui se protègent ainsi de la pollution de l'air. J'en ai acheté un et j'envisage d'en acheter en gros au marché de Cho'lon : ils vont être vraiment pratiques pour réduire les risques de transmission de rhume à la maison !
Elle me parle de son neveu qui a 45 ans et qui a fait de longues études. Elle en est très fière.
Je parcours la ville au gré de mes envies, m'en remettant au hasard. Je confonds les noms et me retrouve de l'autre côté de la destination envisagée. Pas grave, c'est tout autant de découvertes et de rencontres éclaires.
Une bonne fée masquée, elle aussi, dont le pseudo sur internet est Kate m'offre même le ticket de bus. Elle refuse que je lui rembourse ! Elle a fait un détour pour m'accompagner.
Je suis perplexe, un peu méfiante : que veut-elle en réalité ?...
En même temps j'ai envie de la connaître. Je fais la conversation, elle répond succintement à mes questions : a-t-elle toujours habité à Saigon ? Non, elle vient de Dalat. Elle est dans le commerce et travaille depuis 10 ans. Au fil des échanges, son visage se découvre.
Elle ne demande rien et disparaît bientôt dans les flots de la rue. C'était bien une petite fée à l'expression fatiguée et un peu triste. J'emporte son image dans mon album photo.
Le ticket de bus et de Dasu Tuyen ne coûte que 3000 dongs. Le confort est minimum, les obsédés de l'hygiène pourraient bien s'évanouir, les paranoïaques pourraient ne pas supporter la promiscuité du Dasu, parfois tellement plein que les derniers arrivés se retrouvent par terre entre les genous des autres passagers ou à l'avant à côté du chauffeur ; les vigilants se contenteront de la prudence nécessaire pour éviter les potentiels pickpockets. (Une réalité contre laquelles des passagères me mettent en garde).
Quant a moi, qui ai envie de discuter, j'y trouve mon compte même si parfois mes côtés hygiéniste et parano rouspètent sous le crâne. Fort heureusement, j'ai appris a les remettre à leur juste place !
j'ai lu avec attention les messages que tu a laissés... Merci de partager tes découvertes avec nous, avec autant de poésie... L'émotion est palpable!
Ton récit me donne encore plus envie de découvrir le Vietnam. J'envisage d'y aller entre mi-février et mi-mars 2011. Pour moi, ce sera une première car je ne suis jamais allée en Asie!
Merci de ton message. Je te souhaite une très bonne expérience au Viet-nam.
Comme la vie est plus complexe que sa division en deux mondes - tout bon ou tout mauvais - je te souhaite aussi de rencontrer le moins possible d'évènements fâcheux.
Un sage disait que ce ne sont pas les choses qui nous font souffrir mais la façon dont on les voit. En l'occurance, les voyageurs s'exposent plus que d'autres aux expériences de la vie. Ainsi, ce séjour interroge quotidiennement ou presque ma façon de voir ces choses. Je découvre en moi la capacité de traverser rapidement les petits comme les grands évènements désagreables.
Je me demande : " pourquoi voyages-tu et spécialement seule au Viet-nam ?" et la réponse qui me vient est : pour découvrir en moi des aspects qui se révèlent au gré des situations du voyage. Le passé lointain revient parfois avec beaucoup d'émotions. Le présent met à l'épreuve ma patience, mon rapport et ma façon de voir l'autre. Il est aussi un cadeau, quand comme ce matin, je discute presque une heure et demi durant avec une personne. Le désir de dessiner et de peindre ceux que je croise émerge, et je deviens un peu plus dégourdie également. Ainsi, je me prépare à ceux qui viendront ; j'espère un jour découvrir l'Asie avec ma famille cette fois-ci. En particulier, j'attends avec impatience la possibilité de découvrir le Japon.
Ton profil montre que tu as déjà beaucoup voyagé. Vas-tu être seule ?
🙂
Bonjour Vinividi69,
pour répondre à ta question, en effet, je prévois de partir seule, avec mon sac à dos, pendant 6 mois en Asie du Sud-Est et au Japon. Je compte:
- atterrir début décembre en Thaïlande, remonter vers le Nord (environ 15 jours / 3 semaines)
- puis visiter le Laos du nord au sud (pendant 1 mois environ)
- puis visiter le Cambodge (pendant 1 mois environ)
- arrivée au Vietnam par le Mékong, et visiter le pays du sud au nord pendant environ un mois
- Quitter l'Asie du sud-est pour le Japon où j'aimerais rester un mois ou plus (en fonction du budget!)
- Et finir par un "saut" aux USA, d'abord à San Francisco, et enfin New York.
J'ai commencé à m'intéresser au Japon d'abord en lisant les romans "La pierre et le sabre" et "La parfaite lumière" de Eiji Yoshikawa. C'est l'histoire d'un jeune homme qui souhaite suivre la Voie du Sabre, et qui découvre le Zen, la cérémonie du thé, l'art de la calligraphie et du sumi-e (peinture à l'encre de chine), etc. ça m'a passionnée!
Puis je me suis intéressée à la méditation et j'ai découvert le bouddhisme... Ce qui m'a vraiment donné envie d'aller visiter le Vietnam, c'est le jour où j'ai découvert la cuisine vietnamienne et où j'ai rencontré des Vietnamiens...
Jusque là, j'avais trop peur d'avoir une allergie à l'arachide (eh oui, malheureusement, je suis allergique aux cacahouètes...), car en France, en général, j'évite les restaurants asiatiques où je ne peux quasiment rien manger car tout est cuit avec de l'huile d'arachide (sauf dans les restaurants de sushi!!)... Mais, compte tenu de ces rencontres, ces lectures et de cette déliceuse cuisine (!), je me dit que ça vaut vraiment la peine de prendre le risque d'y partir.
Actuellement, je suis en pleine préparation de ce voyage au long cours, et grâce aux échanges d'expériences sur ce forum j'ai déjà pas mal de pistes! J'essaie aussi de tirer les leçons de mes précédents voyages que j'ai fait seule (le Chili) ou à deux (l'Afrique du sud avec une copine, sac au dos)...
Je suis preneuse de tous conseils, tant sur le voyage seule en Asie du Sud-est et notamment au Vietnam, que sur mes problèmes d'allergie (je vais commencer à potasser les livres de cuisine asiatiques!)...
J'ai cru comprendre que tu dessines... Je compte prendre le temps de le faire également pendant mon voyage.
C'est un grand projet !
Tous mes voeux de réussite.
Je gribouille en effet. c'est une façon sympa d'établir un premier contact ou de passer le temps. En ce moment j'ai envie de dessiner des personnes. Je travaille les proportions et les mouvements du corps. J'en suis encore au croquis. Il est encore loin le jour où je pourrais faire un portrait satisfaisant.
J'ai lu les aventures de Musashi il y a bien longtemps. Ce fut une lecture marquante. Il existe une adaptation en manga qui s'arrête après la grande bataille contre le clan ... (j'ai oublié son nom), qui finit par la disparition de ce dernier. J'aime beaucoup le personnage de Takuan.
Il m'arrive une mésaventure désagréable, qui peut servir d'enseignement à chacun : ma carte bleue a été avalée par le distributeur 🤪.
heureusement j'en ai une deuxième.
Cette mésaventure me fait prendre conscience de mon isolement. J'espère que tu as de la famille avec qui tu pourras communiquer et qui pourra être un "filet de sécurité". Avoir l'adresse du consulat français, une carte téléphonique au cas où le téléphone a été volé (c'est mon cas, galère sur galère...) ; télécharger au fur et à mesure les photos.
Un vrai voyage initiatique ! J'en ressortirai plus forte !
J'en suis encore au croquis. Il est encore loin le jour où je pourrais faire un portrait satisfaisant.
Bonjour,
Je suis certaine que tu y arriveras !
Cette phrase à elle seule explique pourquoi tu arrives à te plaire au Viet Nam et à passer outre des difficultés et problèmes qui alimentent la rage de certains : elle est pleine d'HUMILITE, qualité de moins en moins fréquente et pourtant indispensable aux voyageurs/découvreurs.
Je te souhaite encore beaucoup de belles découvertes, de grands et de petits bonheurs au VN et ailleurs.
I’d love to settle around Da Nang for about a month and explore the surrounding areas in Vietnam.
I’ve already been to this country and don’t feel like rushing around every day like I used to a few years ago.
I’d really like to find some company to stay for at least a month, and then maybe spend a month in Cambodia...
Given that I’m now 76, I don’t want to run around like I used to, trying to see everything...
I enjoy calm people... Those who love life and with whom I can share a beer... And meet people to create a great atmosphere—la dolce vita....
hi there
I’m leaving on October 1st for Rio, which I’ll be exploring over 10 days while staying in Copacabana and Ipanema.
After that, I’m heading to Ilha Grande, Paraty, and finally a flight to Iguaçu.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Rio. Is it possible to walk around and explore without constantly worrying about getting my phone snatched?
I’m traveling alone and don’t speak Portuguese.
I need GPS to get around.
I love walking and don’t really like taking taxis, which is why I’ve booked two places to stay in Rio to experience different neighborhoods.
But is this doable given the security concerns there?!
In short, can you travel peacefully?
Thanks for your feedback if you’ve been to Rio!
Best,
Hi everyone,
I’m planning to travel solo to Oman in December 2025, renting a vehicle that allows me to camp in certain areas. For those who’ve already explored the country this way, could you share your experiences or tips?
I’d also like to visit the Wahiba Desert, but in that area, I’d prefer a guide for driving and, most importantly, not to sleep in those luxury desert-edge camps but rather have a "wild" escape under the stars. Any guide recommendations? Thanks in advance – Clem
Hi there, I’m Brigitte, 66 years old, fairly active and in great shape. I split my time between the Tarn region and Nantes, have a youthful spirit, and am very easy-going. I’m looking for a woman with a similar profile for a road trip in Southeast Asia—half humanitarian work and half free travel. The trip starts in October 2026 in the Philippines on the island of Panay, then moves on to Indonesia and Malaysia. The journey could last up to 4 or 5 months, as I have no fixed schedule. If you’re cool and friendly, feel free to message me. See you soon!
I’m traveling solo to Armenia in mid-September for three weeks, and I’ll be using public transport. I have a few questions:
- Does Yandex work everywhere, even in villages?
I’m looking for:
- Nice guesthouse addresses in the north (national park) and the south, including the village of Ararat,
and a simple but clean hotel in Yerevan that’s convenient for getting to the bus stations later.
- Any great tips or advice you can share.
Actually, I’m a bit worried I’ll be stuck only visiting tourist sites without a car. What do you think?
Thanks for your help
I’m arriving in Tana on 9/10/26 as a solo female traveler.
Which hotel in Tana is good for the first night since I’ll get in at 10 PM?
What’s worth seeing around Tana?
I’m planning 2 nights in Tana,
then 2 nights in Andasibe? After that, Lake Itasy.
Any suggestions? Thanks
I contacted several agencies in Madagascar to arrange this 4x4 trip along the coast.
Always the same answer: a tailor-made trip with at least 2 participants.
Since I don’t want to travel alone and a friend isn’t available, I’m looking for a woman to share this trip with the agency Mahay Mada, which offers a 12-day, 11-night tour of southern Madagascar. I’m available from August 23 to September 14.
Thanks for your direct response at 0784659791. See you soon, Mireille
Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
Hi everyone, I’m really keen to visit Iran for three weeks in mid-March 2015.
What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
Thanks for your advice.
Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
Thanks in advance.
Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
Planned arrival on Sunday evening, November 16, 2025, in San José. Staying 3 nights, then taking a bus to Tortuguero for 2 nights. Looking for a shared shuttle to La Fortuna for 2 nights, then a van-boat-van combo to Santa Elena for 2 or 3 nights. Heading to Quepos for 4 nights for day trips using local buses—Jaco, San Antonio, Uvita. After that, a full-day bus ride to Cahuita. I’m booking hotels as I go, which gives me the flexibility to stay longer in places I like. I’m looking for accommodations in city centers near restaurants and not too far from the bus station. Budget: 50 € for a room with a private bathroom (if you’ve got any great tips!). For my finale, I’ll cross the land border to Panama City for 4 days. Thanks for your suggestions! 😉
As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
Battambang – 1 day
Kampong Chhnang – 3 days
Kampot – 2 days
Islands (WE’RE HESITATING WHICH ONE?) – 4 DAYS
Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks