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TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Otherwise, they wouldn’t be asking what it’s like here...

They never ask that; they ask where the traveler is from. They start with "American?", and the rest immediately disappoints them a bit. But then they comment.

I’m just a passerby, an observer who wants to experience her trip without the burden that centuries have piled on some people’s shoulders.

The world isn’t here to please us.

Michel
PO Poste42 Veteran ·
I hate to disagree, but Bulgaria is *very* close to Europe—you see it in all the European flags flying everywhere. In France, you don’t see nearly as many. Bulgaria is close to Germany economically, and the language is displayed in many places.
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
The world isn't here to please us.

But you're such a downer!
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PA Parigino Veteran ·
Otherwise, they wouldn’t be asking what it’s like here...

They never ask that; they ask where the traveler is from. They start with "American?"—the rest immediately disappoints them a little—but then they comment. Here...

Of course they ask what life is like in Europe! And I ask what life is like in Kazakhstan. That’s called having a conversation, and nobody’s keeping a low profile. I really wonder who you’ve met in Kazakhstan 😂😂
PA Parigino Veteran ·
I hate to contradict you, but Bulgaria is very much part of EUROPE—you see it in all the European flags flying everywhere. In France, you don’t see nearly as many. Bulgaria is close to Germany economically, and the language is displayed in many places.

Next, he’ll bring up Cyrillic, being part of the Eastern Bloc... I’m beating him to it—I know his arguments by heart 😄
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
I hate to contradict you, but Bulgaria is very much part of EUROPE—you see it in all the European flags flying everywhere. In France, you don’t see nearly as many. Bulgaria is close to Germany economically, and the language is displayed in many places.

Alright, let’s dive in... Bulgaria is a European country, but with a predominantly Orthodox culture, a language very close to Russian, and a history deeply intertwined with other Slavic cultures. It’s probably the European country closest to Russia, alongside Serbia. If you strike up a conversation with passengers in a Bulgarian vehicle in Western Europe—there are loads in Brittany, for example—you’ve got a good chance they’ll speak Turkish. Around 10% of Bulgarians have Turkish as their mother tongue. That’s where the connection with Kazakhstan comes in: beyond shared Eastern and traditional values, there’s proximity to both Russia and Turkey. The Kazakh language is pretty much Turkish—if you understand one, you’ll get the other.

Michel
AT Attila Globetrotter ·
They never ask you that...
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TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
They never ask you that...

I don’t see why the first question or the first thing they’d say would be any different for you than for me.

Michel
AT Attila Globetrotter ·
At the very least, unusual...
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Because you're not me.

I definitely come across differently to my conversation partners than you do.
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PO Poste42 Veteran ·
In Nantes, there are Bulgarians and they speak French. Few Russians in Bulgaria right now—can you guess why? Their residences have their shutters closed. On the other hand, there are Germans and Brits. The world is changing at lightning speed, and you're stuck on rigid principles.
MA Manondugard Regular ·
Is Kazakhstan your home province?

No, the south, and more specifically the Camargue. Some people here have stereotypes and called me a "cagole," so I leaned into it a bit with my language. After all, you and I aren’t from the same world or background at all (hence the total lack of understanding between us), and we definitely haven’t had the same life experiences—I spent my childhood on the streets, and even long after, so it leaves its mark. Like it or not, I don’t care.
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Nothing’s stopping you from moving forward.

It’s up to you if you don’t want to live in society. Your call.
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TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Of course they ask what life is like in Europe! And I ask what life is like in Kazakhstan. That’s called having a conversation, and no one’s acting humble. I really wonder who you’ve met in Kazakhstan 😂😂

In Kazakhstan, people are just as tuned into world news as anywhere else. They have way more opinions about France than curiosity—they see France the way it portrays itself. And as I’ve mentioned before, things like the hijab or same-sex marriage? They’re *very* aware of those topics. They also watch Turkish TV, which they understand.

Michel
PO Poste42 Veteran ·
Yeah, but it’s in the past
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
The world is changing at lightning speed and you're stuck on rigid principles.

I don’t see which principles you’re talking about; as a good Frenchwoman, you’re used to denying national identity and religious identity, imagining that it’s an unsurpassable ideal to abstract yourself from them. It’s an illusion, and it’s costing us more and more every day right now.

Michel
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Because you’re not me. I definitely give off a different vibe to my interlocutors than you do.

Since the question comes up on average after about ten seconds and is always the same, I have my doubts.

Michel
AT Attila Globetrotter ·
things like the veil

The veil is banned in schools there, and the niqab in public spaces. Same as here, really...

marriage for all

Homosexuality is legal in Kazakhstan.

Gender changes can be made on official documents.

We’re a long way from the Taliban...

They have Turkish TV,

A paragon of impartiality, much like Russian TV...
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Not sure if you should.
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MA Manondugard Regular ·
Nothing’s stopping you from evolving.

It’s up to you if you don’t want to live in society. Your call.

No, but now you’re making up my life—I *do* live in society (and I’ve noticed I’m way more sociable than the people I meet, who are surprised by how easily I talk to them without necessarily knowing them). Again, I’m only aggressive when someone comes at me (and I just saw my old username lamanon30, where even you and I used to talk when your username had one less T, and everything was fine—come on, stop it already, pfff).
Christine
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
A benchmark of impartiality, just like Russian TV...😇

No more, no less than state-run channels in France—it’s completely comparable. But it’s tough to discuss things with someone as steeped in ideology as you are, with so little perspective. Of course, homosexuality is allowed in Kazakhstan, but it’s not promoted.

Michel
PA Parigino Veteran ·
In Kazakhstan, people are just as tuned into global news as anywhere else. They have far more judgments about France than curiosity. They see France the way it portrays itself, and as I’ve already explained, things like the headscarf or same-sex marriage are topics they’re very aware of.

Not once has a Kazakh ever talked to me about the headscarf, same-sex marriage, the 'decadent West,' or any of Putin’s nonsense.
DJ Djalma Globetrotter ·
Bulgaria is a European country, but with a predominantly Orthodox culture, a language very close to Russian, and a history of great proximity to other Slavic cultures. It’s undoubtedly the European country closest to Russia, alongside Serbia. If you strike up a conversation with passengers in a Bulgarian vehicle in Western Europe—there are many in Brittany—you’re quite likely to be spoken to in Turkish. Around 10% of Bulgarians have Turkish as their mother tongue.

Knowing Russian, I had no trouble understanding Bulgarian—it really does resemble it a lot. On the other hand, I found Bulgarians much more oriented toward the West (Western Europe) than toward Russia or Turkey. What’s certain is that they’re more religious (Orthodox) than in Western Europe, but that’s also the case for all of Eastern Europe, including Romania. In Bulgaria, a small minority—definitely less than 10%—the Pomaks in the Rhodopes (near the Greek border) are Muslim and apparently share a culture close to Turkey’s. They’re particularly fond of Brittany, huh?😏

Here’s a question for you, one I’ve always wondered about in quite a few countries: In some places, you don’t see senseless vandalism like tags, for example. That’s the case in Bulgaria—I’ve never noticed any senseless damage. I’ve never seen a wall with graffiti, a tagged building, bus, or train. In Romania, it’s very common, just like in France. What do you attribute this behavior to? Both countries lived under repressive communist regimes... So? Would people from Slavic cultures be more respectful of public property than "Latins," even if we consider Romania Latin?
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