...Chacun a sa personnalité et seul le respect et la tolérance devraient primer, ne nous croyons ni supérieur ni inférieur nous sommes tout simplement citoyen du monde et oublions ces querelles mesquines. Ne jamais oublier qu'en général les gens sont avec vous comme vous êtes avec eux.
Conclusion : quand vous voyagez à l'étranger savourez leur culture et leur cuisine, respectez leurs us et coutumes, oubliez votre propre manière de vivre pour épouser le temps des vacances la leur et vous verrez comme vos congés vous serons profitables et peut être qu'au Québec le "maudit Français" ne sera plus qu'une expression affectueuse dans la bouche des gens que vous rencontrerez.
Je suis tout à fait d'accord avec toi, à une seule exception près: à mon avis, le respect et a tolérance ne devraient pas empêcher tout un chacun d'échanger des points de vue sur les us et coutumes de nos pays respectifs.
Car c'est un peu simpliste de dire qu'il faut "épouser les coutumes". Par exemple, je doute que tu accepterais de faire exciser ta fille pendant un long séjour dans un pays africain. C'est un exemple un peu extrême mais il est très parlant car il souligne le fait qu'il n'est pas toujours mauvais de porter un regard critique du moment que cela est fait dans la courtoisie et la réciprocité.
Personnellement, je trouve que le Japon est meilleur sur certains points par rapport à la France, et que la France est meilleur sur certains points par rapport asu Canada.
Enfin, c'est toujours bien d'avoir un avis exterieur. Donc, je ne vois pas pourquoi un Canadien devrait se sentir offensé par une critique constructive à propos de son pays. Par exemple, je serais tout à fait d'accord avec un Canadien si il me disait que remplir sa feuille de déclaration de revenus tous les ans est complètement débile ;)
Ton exemple est un peu extrème mais très intéressant, car dans ce cas si tu en discute, même de manière très courtoise et raisonné, la personne ne comprendra pas du tout ta réaction car nous n'avons pas du tout les mêmes convictions religieuses ou paîennes. Cet exemple montre bien que dans certain cas il vaut mieux militer dans des organisations humanitaires pour faire changer les mentalité (et malheureusement cela ne fontionne pas, car cela arrive même en France !) que d'aborder ce sujet avec un particulier, car cela aménera forcément un malentendu. Et c'est transposable à la pluspart des sujets, bien sur que l'on peu avoir un regard critique, mais je pense que chacun a une part d'orgueil qui est blessée si on touche à son pays, sa religion, etc. Je pense qu'il faut être vraiment bien immergé dans un pays pour se permettre d'en juger le fonctionnement et surtout de vouloir faire prévaloir ses propres idées. On peut bien penser ce qu'on veut, mais est il légitime de s'en ouvrir à des gens que cela risque de blesser ?
....On peut bien penser ce qu'on veut, mais est il légitime de s'en ouvrir à des gens que cela risque de blesser ?
Le problème, c'est qu'on peut pas prévoir à l'avance la susceptibilité de son interlocuteur.
Si on veut appliquer le principe de précaution, alors on finit par ne parler que de la pluie
et du beau temps. Moi, je pars du principe que le cerveau humain vaut mieux que ça.
Et puis il y a des gens qu'il faut blesser pour les sauver d'eux même ou pour en sauver
d'autres. Une parole fera toujours moins mal qu'un clitoris découpé au rasoir mal aiguisé.
Premièrement l'expression date des années 50! Et oui c'était péjoratif! C'était pour désigner l'attitude arrogante des immigrants français dans ces années!😛 L'expression est tout simplement resté!
...le goût de la vie qui dit qu'un enfant joue et ne doit pas travailler...
Tryo
Ces années 50 et 60 en effet...où le Quebec n'était pas tellement, tellement developpé, il faut aussi le dire🙂 donc les français etaient-ils arroguants ou etaient-ce les Quebecois
qui nourrissaient un sacré complexe à leur égard...voir les deux?
A lire sur le sujet des Français de ces années là ou un peu plus,
La fameuse: lettre à un Français qui veut immigrer au Quebec de Carl Dubuc ed: Boreal
très instructif et qui n'a pas pri une ride😎
dans le genre bien moins cool mais qui s'acheve sur un happy end
pour ceux qui veulent un apperçu sur le point de vu Quebecois à l'égard des Français: Les Français aussi ont un accents de Jean Benoit Nadeau chez Payot
Je vous previens ça touche parfois l'insupportable 😠
Puis pour donner le change: Vivre le Quebec libre ou le guide de survie des Europeens au Quebec d'Hubert Mansion drôle et consternant à la fois
au fait, les pourboires au Quebec sont obligatoire tout simplement parce que les 15% du service ne sont pas compri dans la note comme en France...mais ça revient au même.
par contre c'est sure que le fait qu'on te rende la monnaie pour finalement la laisser obligatoirement, a pour nous un petit quelquechose de deroutant, voir de contraignant qui viendrait froisser notre grand amour de nos libertés individuelles lol!
face auquel il est sure qu'on se fait le plus souvent rudoyer par les serveuses plutôt qu'expliquer...
Mais va commander un perno dans un bar ou les serveuses n'ont pas le sourir aux Français, et tu verra qu'entre la dosette, la carafe et les glaçons tu n'aura pas le temps de compter tous les soupirs avant de te prendre son pieds au c.. lol
bonjour,
J'ai la double nationalité -Française et canadienne. C'est très rare de se faire traité de maudit français. Je suis ici depuis 40 ans et cela ne m'est jamais arrivé. Mais je respecte les québécois ainsi que leur culture. Au début l'accent français peut être un frein pour trouver du travail, comme il peut être une force. (J'ai été engagée par une agence immobilière parce que le patron aimait mon accent et la France!!!!). Par contre si vous "les prenez de haut" et avez des paroles méprisantes vous serez vite considéré comme un maudit français.
Vous pourrez être considéré par certain "comme voleur de job" encore las tout dépend de l'attitude de l'immigrant.
Bonjour à tous,
je vis à Montréal, mais suis née de père français et de mère québecoise, si bien que j'ai grandis à cheval entre les deux pays, effectuant mes études au Québec mais passant toutes mes vacances (soit environ 4-5 mois par annnée) en France. Je suis donc à la fois québecoise et française, et peux te dire que je n'ai JAMAIS entendu une telle expression de la part d'un québecois, même si mon accent diffère beaucoup de celui d'un local (j'ai egalement frequenté l'école francaise a Mtl). Les québecois que je connais sont en géneral ravis de rencontrer des français, car ils partagent beaucoup de réferences culturelles malgré ce que certains rapportent. Les français sont fort appréciés au québec, particulièrement lorsqu'ils font preuve d'ouverture d'esprit et de respect, et cherchent à s'intégrer non en reniant leurs différences, mais en acceptant celles qui rendent le Québec distinct de sa patrie d'origine. Certains français débarquent au Québec en arborant une attitude très condescendante, comme s'ils détenaient le monopole de l'élégance et du bon goût, et critiquent ouvertement, à portée d'oreilles de tous, les us et coutumes locales. Ceux-là, bien entendu, ne sont pas très appréciés, tout comme ceux qui nous bassinent les oreilles avec leurs stéréotypes peu flatteurs (bûcherons, paysans et j'en passe). Toutefois, il s'agit d'une minorité d'individus, et tous ceux qui abordent la région (je n'ose dire pays de crainte de me faire taxer de nationalisme) avec une certaine ouverture d'esprit, sont vraiment appréciés pour leur culture, leur mode de vie à certains égards similaires, et leur humour incomparable.
Voilà ce que je peux te dire, moi qui suis un peu des deux et qui est autant d'amis en France qu'au Québec, je me sens tout à fait à l'aise partout et n'ai jamais eu de reproches quant à mes origines ou mon accent... Quelques moqueries, certes, mais qui aime bien châtie bien....
😉J'ai eu l'occasion de parler avec des Acadiens, en séjour de vacances sous les tropiques.
Très sympathiques, mais alors, leur accent!!!!! pour le comprendre dur dur.
Nos amis les Québécois sont très agréables, et si on est reçu chez eux, ils ont un grand sens de l'hospitalité.
Et les humoristes Canadiens sont à mon sens les meilleurs.
Stéphane Rousseau, nous l'adorons.
et il est vrai que leur parler a gardé l'accent du terroir français, d'antan.
On le retrouve dans certaines régions dans les campagnes.
😉Les cabanes à sucre, c'est génial, délicieux le sirop d'érable.
Retransmission sur la 2 du magnifique concert au Québec, pour l'anniversaire des 400 ans, superbe.
Avec tous les artistes, anciens, diane Dufresne, Robert Charlebois, félix Leclerc.
Et les plus récents, Garou, Linda Lemay, Isabelle Boulay, Céline dion, etc.
Une palette de chanteurs et chanteuses, avec toute la chaleur du Québec.
Pour une fois que la télé nous régale, çà nous sort des émissions ordinaires.
Qui peut me renseigner sur les rites et coutumes des québecois j'ai l'impression qu'ils ont assez la bougeotte, serait ce du fait qu'ils sont plus mobiles de…
Je tiens particulièrement à souhaiter un joyeux noel à tous les Québécois. BON NOEL et JOYEUSES FETES L inscription est tt à fait exacte et on en revient qu…
Ce n'est pas la première fois que j'entends que des touristes s'amusent à dire aux douaniers québécois qu'ils sont en possession d'armes lorsqu'ils voyagent.…
Many of us have noticed that bugs have been making it difficult to navigate the forum lately.
I’ll let Kate and Ticapi explain the issue:
I went to your profile to check out the Thailand travel journal, and when I clicked on it, it brought me back here again. All week, I’ve been dealing with bugs like this—it’s really discouraging from continuing on VF.🙁
I had the same thing happen, and multiple times. For me, it was Montagnard’s latest journal that kept coming up no matter which discussion I clicked on.
BOLIVIA: THE COUNTRY ON THE BRINK (What's Really Happening)
A dramatic saga is unfolding before our eyes in the Andes. Between suffocating blockades, clashes, an international airlift, and historic political decisions, Bolivia has just experienced 48 hours of rare intensity.
Here’s the full breakdown (economic, social, and political) of the last 48 hours:
For travelers and tourists: the article also includes an important note about the upcoming publication (starting tomorrow) of the precise status of roadblocks, route by route.
I’ll post the full update here on Voyage Forum!
Don’t miss this in-depth analysis. History is being written before our eyes! https://www.petitherge.com/bolivie-paralysie-et-ultimatum
I just discovered a great show on Arte.
It's called "7 en route": seven young European journalists travel around Europe in a fully converted bus, making reports on every city they visit. It's amazing! 🙂
Yesterday, for example, they were in Rome, Italy, and the reports included things like the world's smallest restaurant—a super romantic spot for two. There was also a report on the king of paparazzi in Italy.
They have to pick topics that let us discover the little quirks of each country. And at the end of each episode, we get to see the finished report.
It's such a great show, mixing journalism, travel, and discovery—basically, a must-watch!
It airs in the evening starting at 6:50 PM (I think), and it started this past Monday, July 14th.
If you watch it, let me know—we can chat about it!
I left my heart’s country eight days ago and returned to my adopted one—or was it the other way around? Scotland-Morvan, Morvan-Scotland, I’m not quite sure anymore.
After a quarter without dragging my slippers around here, even though I’d loudly declared I had no interest left in this site, here I am again!
My imagination never stays fallow for long. Just enough time for my inner land to rest. It gets overgrown with fresh nettles, the kind you can pick without getting stung. Then, it’s time to till the fragrant earth and let the story grow.
I hesitated over where to set this story.
Maybe the Highlands, maybe the Hebrides, maybe the Orkney Islands, maybe the Shetland Islands. All of Scotland is myth—easy to embroider.
But in the end, no. I’d almost be too afraid to bare my soul.
The story will take place at home. Simple, practical.
1)
This morning, I was up well before dawn, feeling a bit grumpy, but nothing a bowl of coffee won’t fix. I love my bowl, and no one dares take it. It’s porcelain, edged with intertwined blue flowers. On the bottom, it says "Revol." The factory has existed long before the Revolution. It was my great-grandmother’s bowl. She drank roasted barley from it during the war, then her Leroux chicory.
Last year, a little guy dropped it. My bowl broke into three pieces. A black anger vibrated deep inside me. The little boy was so upset, on the verge of tears. How could I scold him!
I picked up the three pieces and took Little Boy in my arms. His hair smelled of the light, sweet sweat of toddlers. A gentle hug that healed—his budding sorrow and my anger—everything vanished, and time carried on.
Today, my bowl is even prettier. Man fixed it using the traditional kintsugi technique, except he didn’t use gold powder or lacquer but superglue, and he delicately painted the cracks with woad blue. And my bowl is even more beautiful now.
I’m lingering, I can tell—it’s just that a story wraps itself in life, and life can’t be told in the snap of a finger. Life is long. Like in architecture, you start with a rough sketch, called a "sous-cul" (the initial pencil drawing), then you make a tracing, which is the work itself, the one you later carefully roll up in a wooden tube.
Life is like that: you erase, you start over, you use the nub of the pencil until it’s tiny, but you keep going—dreaming, loving.
"Living is a full-time occupation, a unique adventure. Always a surprise and a wonder, which sometimes turns into astonishment. And, from time to time, happiness."*
Alright, enough digressing—this introduction is definitely too long.
Tomorrow, I’ll get to the heart of the matter.
(I hate that expression; it feels like I’m cutting into someone’s skin.)
I’m Yann, a 28-year-old TikToker who loves traveling!
Since I’ve been to several destinations, I’d love to get a flag from each one as a sort of trophy. But from what I’ve seen online, a lot of sites sell them with what looks like really poor quality...
So I’m reaching out to you all to share a site you usually use—help me start my collection! :)
hi there
I’d love to get some opinions—I’ve never used Airbnb before.
They’re offering a key handover via lockbox.
Any tips or advice?
Is it reliable?
Best,
Hi there, I’m Laura, and I’m looking for a few people to answer some questions so I can understand your travel wishes and challenges. It won’t take long—I can chat here, by email, or by phone. Don’t worry, I’m not selling anything! 😊
On this forum, we talk a lot about trekking in the Himalayas, but I’d love to share another side of Nepal: its spiritual, cultural, and religious atmosphere, especially in Kathmandu.
Nepal, much like Tibet and Bhutan, is deeply connected to the Himalayas—the ultimate sacred mountain range. This small country exudes a calming vibe, shaped by a strong spiritual dimension. What I loved most was the unique sensory experience you get there. Walking around temples and tantric monasteries, a distinct scent fills the air—aromatic plants used for ritual fumigation. Locals mainly burn Himalayan juniper, cedar, sandalwood, and other local essences. This fragrant smoke is a way to purify the space and reach the deities, and you’re constantly enveloped in these aromas.
Another striking aspect is the sound. As soon as you step outside, you hear bells ringing in front of temples. People ring them three times before praying to announce their presence to the deities. Nepal is also the birthplace of singing bowls and sound meditation practices. In Kathmandu, you can easily find meditation sessions or "sound baths."
The spiritual dimension is everywhere: a Hindu sadhu practicing asceticism, a lama in deep red robes with his mala, turning a prayer wheel while murmuring "Om mani padme hum." Newar Buddhism, Tantrism, and Hinduism coexist harmoniously in daily life.
For those who love exploring a destination through its culture and spirituality, Nepal is an unforgettable place. What was your spiritual experience in Nepal like?
Hi,
I’m landing in Quebec and then heading to New Brunswick and Nova Scotia. I’d like to rent a pick-up. My question is: does this vehicle come with a cover and is it secure enough to store luggage in? I’ve heard two conflicting opinions. Thanks
I just installed the Maps.Me app on my phone. I only recently found out about this app. I’m traveling in 2 weeks and a few days, and I’m a bit stuck on how to use it.
I’m from the Montreal (Quebec) area, and I’d love to know if there’s a kind soul out there who could help me get started and use the app at least minimally.
If there are private lessons available, I’d be interested in those too.
Like many others, I’m overjoyed to hear that VoyageForum is reopening! I’ve been waiting hopefully for this, and it’s wonderful that it’s finally happening!
I just couldn’t bring myself to actively participate in other French-language travel forums—their format and way of doing things never appealed to me as much. I really hope that VF’s structure, categories, and interface won’t change too much despite the handover, because I’m very attached to them. Through thick and thin, the site has held strong—it’s amazing!
In a previous message, François mentioned that there were positions to fill ahead of the reopening, including moderators...
I’ve been eagerly waiting for this and hoping to send in my CV.
Now, after reading the latest message, it seems like the team is already fully formed. But are there still a few spots left to fill?
I’ve been a VF member for 20 years (since 2004). I’d love to contribute to this wonderful adventure as a moderator if VF would trust me with the role. If the team is open to reviewing it, I’m ready to send my CV. Could you let me know the next steps?
I’m planning a 3-week trip to Japan in May with Voyage Privé. The package includes a 5 GB eSIM, but my phone isn’t new enough to support it. VP told me I could buy a SIM card when I arrive at the airport.
Sure enough, I’ve seen online that this is possible with different providers.
I only need it for checking routes, looking up addresses, train schedules, etc.—basically using Google Maps, TripAdvisor, and similar apps. No heavy downloads or major internet use. All hotels should provide free Wi-Fi for that, right?
Has anyone got any tips for me on this? What have you tried, and how much did it cost?
Thanks for your help!
I’d like to know if you can buy reef-safe sunscreen sprays at 7-Eleven. If so, how much do they cost? We’re traveling with backpacks, so we’ll either buy 100ml here or in Thailand.
I wanted to share a really unpleasant experience from our last trip booked with Promoséjours and organized by FTI.
We booked an 8-day/7-night stay in Egypt, from June 8 to 15.
The flight initially scheduled was changed a week before departure to take off at 10 PM from Paris CDG.
In the end, it took off with a 1-hour delay and included an unmentioned stopover in Marsa Alam.
We landed in Hurghada at 4 AM and arrived at the hotel at 6 AM.
So, we spent our first night on the plane.
For the return trip, surprise—the flight was moved up. We left the hotel at 10:30 PM on Friday the 14th to take off at 2 AM and land at 7 AM at Paris CDG.
So, we spent our last night on the plane too.
After sending a complaint letter to Promoséjours / FTI, they replied that the first and last days can be dedicated to transport (which I already knew) and that no matter how many nights you book, you’re not guaranteed to spend them in the hotel—it could just as well be on the plane.
I’m really questioning this.
Isn’t there a law that protects customers in cases like this?
Because when I do the math, the first and part of the second day were spent on transport, same for the second-to-last and last day. And I paid for 7 nights for a stay that only lasted 5.
Anyway, I just want to say thanks to them—thanks to their two sleepless nights in transit, I’m coming back even more exhausted from a trip that was supposed to be restful!
I also want to warn anyone booking through this agency about visas for Egypt.
At booking, they told me the visa was included in the price, then they sent me an email saying I’d have to pay for it on-site at 25 €.
Once there, we were directed to a special line for FTI customers, and guess what? They charged us 30 €!
Basically, they’re great at making sure you *enjoy* your vacation—mostly by enjoying your wallet!
If anyone has dealt with this kind of situation and won their case, I’m all ears.
Hi there!
I’m heading to Thailand for two months.
So I thought I’d get a Thai SIM card to use Google Maps for getting around cities, mostly.
Here’s my question: will this SIM affect my apps? Or will they work the same as with my Orange SIM?
Is there any setup I need to do, or can I just pop in the Thai SIM?
I’d also like to switch back to my Orange SIM now and then while I’m in Thailand—on the same phone. Will I need to reset the phone, or will it reconnect without any issues?
Thanks in advance for your tips!
Best,
Huiclos
Hi, I’d like to know where we can buy beer or wine in Chefchaouen and around Merzouga. We’ll be doing a circuit and staying at the Parador Hotel in Chefchaouen and in a bivouac in Merzouga.
Thanks for any info you can share!
Hello everyone,
I’m reaching out to all travelers and globe-trotters on this forum. I’m a teacher in Creuse working in a ULIS program (which welcomes children aged 6 to 12 with disabilities into a mainstream school). This year, I’m launching a school journal project that will involve the kids in many different topics. A big part of this journal will focus on opening up to the world, embracing differences, travel, global cultures, and more.
I’m putting out a call to invite as many of you as possible to send us a postcard (from France or anywhere in the world)! The goal is to help us "travel" and discover new places, countries, and horizons in a way that’s much more fun and exciting than a geography textbook. One section of our journal could be called "We received a letter from ," where we’d research the location and share what we learn with our readers—a really enriching activity for the classroom.
The project starts in September 2025 but doesn’t have a strict end date, since this journal and world-discovery initiative will span several school years (the kids stay in the ULIS program for multiple years). Postcards can be sent anytime—throughout the year, across seasons, even during holidays! The kids will find them when they return.
I hope this idea appeals to as many of you as possible, and that you’ll spread the word to your fellow travelers. Help us dream and explore!
For those who’d like to write to us in a language other than French, no problem—quite the opposite!
Thank you in advance for your participation! Below is our address. If you’d like us to write back, feel free to leave your address on a corner of the postcard! 😊
ULIS program students
Bonnat Elementary School
12 rue Georges Sand
23220 BONNAT
Thank you, and I hope to hear from you soon! 😊
Julien
🙂
Hi there! I have to leave Ivato/Antananarivo on December 16th. I have a lot of ariary that I’d like to exchange for euros since I might not be coming back to Madagascar (after this 21st trip). I think the exchange office at Ivato also buys ariary back. If any of you have seen the rate for this buyback in advance, thanks a million!
Hi everyone,
I’m looking for a website that would let me plot my travel route in advance so I can print it out. The idea is to create a map with a little “me” on a bike that my parents can move along as I progress, since I’m planning to cycle all the way to Nepal.
If any of you have done something similar or know of a good tool, I’d love to hear your tips!
Thanks in advance! 😊
I'm looking to buy an ultra-lightweight 50/55L travel backpack with a suitcase or front opening.
Does anyone have any brand and/or model recommendations?
Thanks,
Emma
Hello. We’re a retired couple heading to Sri Lanka from January to March. After the November floods, I’d like to know if we can offer hands-on help to the locals, maybe pack some clothes or other items people might need in our luggage, and who we could give them to. Thanks for any info from those on the ground.
Be careful when sailing between Somalia and northern Madagascar.
It appears to be Somali pirates who have widened their search in the Mozambique Channel, far from their usual attack zone, since, to my knowledge, there are no Malagasy pirates.
Not sure if this is the right section, but just wanted to warn future travelers...
Where’s Cape Vidal?
It’s in iSimangaliso, an independent park in KZN Wildlife, stunning and just a stone’s throw from St Lucia (KwaZulu-Natal, Maputaland).
It’s the beach spot at the end of the Eastern Shores road. You can swim, fish... but watch out for waves, currents, and sharks...
There’s a really nice game drive where you can get out of your car at certain points, especially at Cape Vidal.
That’s where the camp with bungalows and campsites is.
The vervets and samango monkeys (endemic to the area, and the males are pretty big) can be a bit of a nuisance if you’re trying to braai...
They’re super persistent and not shy at all—don’t let them intimidate you, and stay alert because their speed at snatching food is impressive.
Anyway...
I’m reporting two recent attacks by these hyenas... who were *not* in a playful mood...
The first one happened at night—a hyena tried to bite a camper’s nose off in their tent... and succeeded.
The other night, a camper returning to their tent in the early hours was violently attacked by two hyenas... and they had a close call!
So, if you’re camping there, be careful...
Measures are being taken, but for now, it’s a bit risky.
A white rental Toyota Land Cruiser 4x4 carrying foreign tourists was attacked at the entrance of Tsingy de Bemaraha National Park in the village of Bekopaka, western Madagascar, yesterday. So far, there’s been no response from the central government to curb these repeated armed attacks—usually between Malagasy people, but this time targeting foreign tourists.
After an engine failure in mid-2016 on a long-haul flight from BRISBANE to LYON, I developed a persistent aviophobia that I’m struggling to shake off. It’s becoming more and more of a hindrance.
Up until now, I’ve been using an avoidance strategy (for example, avoiding destinations that would require any other mode of transport than a car or train), but lately, it’s become really limiting.
I’m looking for a therapist—either in-person or via video call—who could help me get past this hurdle.
First and foremost, I hope this topic won’t just focus on my region—the South of France—and that those of you who enjoy exchanging ideas will share what makes your own regions special.
Personally, I’ve often wanted to push back when people call us vulgar (though I’ll admit I sometimes play it up). At heart, we pure-blooded Southerners just have our own way of expressing ourselves, which differs from other regions. We also get heated in conversations pretty easily (some researchers say it’s the influence of the sun and climate in general).
What some perceive as vulgar, we don’t see that way at all.
Do you want a uniform world with no differences? If so, how do you handle traveling to places with cultures completely different from your own?
In the travel community, the word "authenticity" comes up a lot, and it often takes priority in people’s searches.
In my specific case, speaking a purely regional language without having gone to school for it doesn’t help with understanding on this forum. That’s what creates what you call controversies—and what I call passionate exchanges.
It left me speechless and ended the conversation because, for him, that’s just how he sees things, and he refuses to debate it, sticking to his position. I’ll quote him, hoping he won’t hold it against me:
"For me, things like bullfighting, boxing, football, and MMA are just tangible proof that human evolution is still at a primitive stage."
For him, our Latin-origin bullfights are barbaric customs. For us *taurins*, we need to see men face wild beasts (bulls and *toros*) at the risk of their lives every day. Does that make us barbarians?
We’ve always had this need to confront death—it’s in our genes.
Take the example he gave about football: fans of the sport would be considered mentally underdeveloped. But what about a kid who’s passionate about the game and has that drive to be a winner, just like a boxer or athletes in other violent sports?
As a traveler myself, passionate about old stones and beautiful historic buildings, I’ve visited Rome but couldn’t fully appreciate it. Religion is everywhere, and I felt like I had a lead weight on my head realizing that millions of people worldwide have believed in a god for millennia.
I’ve also judged believers for basing their faith on archaic texts that don’t prove a god (or gods) ever existed—I still think that, but I’m open to being proven wrong so I can say, "You’ve convinced me I was mistaken."
- If everyone clings to their own ideas and positions, no discussion is possible, and that’s a shame.
I’ll take away two things from my forum interactions: some accuse me of being omnipresent when I just love exchanging ideas. My way of speaking is misunderstood (regional differences), even if I’ll admit I sometimes turn up the heat—or rather, the *aïoli* —which for me is just lively debates 🔥 (a regional specialty).
And my "mocking" side, which I really need to work on.
This topic isn’t just about me—I hope other forum members will share their own regional "specialties" . For example, in Alsace, some older folks switch to their local language when they don’t want outsiders to understand, and I still don’t know if it’s German or something else.
