Marrying a Cameroonian: bringing her children to France
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CH ChrisKamer Regular ·
Hi jluc Yes, of course, you need three cards—sorry, I understand you, but that’s just how it is for three people. Also, it’s possible that each of them will have different meet-up dates.
Cordialement !!
FI Fifiabi ·
Good evening;

Indeed, each person needs their own "carte bantou"—this doesn’t prevent her from applying for visas at the same time as her children. She calls and books an appointment for herself as well as for the kids.
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Thanks for your reply! We’ve booked an appointment for the girls, but not on the same day as their mom—what a shame!!! But in this case, we’ll have to redo the whole file for her too.

Thanks, Jean-Luc
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Thanks for your reply Fifiabi, The problem is I’ll have to make more photocopies so she can fill out the visa application too, just like my wife’s. My wife has an appointment on June 19th and the kids on June 20th. I tried to cancel the June 19th appointment, but it’s impossible online. We’ll see—she’s going to try to get the kids’ visas to see what they say there, hoping everything goes smoothly. Thanks again, Jean-Luc
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
hi ChrisKamer

I’d like to ask you a question—it’d be really kind of you to help me out. The embassy asked for 80,000 € per child—it’s a lot, but okay!! And they asked me to do a "regroupement familial"—sorry, but what does that mean? I can’t find any paperwork for "regroupement familial." Thanks. I’m waiting for your reply.

What documents are needed for family reunification? Thanks again.

Jean-Luc, urgent
FI Fifiabi ·
Hi, If I’m not mistaken, family reunification requires your wife to move to France without her children for 18 months. After that, she can start the family reunification process. I know it’s tough, but there’s no other choice. That said, she can visit her kids in Cameroon from time to time. Anyway,
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Thanks for your reply, but why are they asking for 80,000 francs per child when the embassy’s website says 65,000? I don’t understand anything anymore. Everyone said there wouldn’t be any issues and the kids could come with their mom, but now they’re talking about family reunification.

Now I’m going to be forced to wait 18 months—what a nightmare. I was leaving with hope, and now I don’t know where to turn. I’m so disappointed by this mess. I’m completely lost.

Thanks anyway.

Best regards,
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
hi Fifiabi

how are you doing with your application and the visa? I’m in the process of applying for visas for her—no problem there—but it’s complicated for the kids. They’re asking for family reunification. Today, she just submitted the children’s birth certificates and the visa application, and it went to the OFII. I thought the kids didn’t have to go to the OFII. Now we’re waiting for a response, hoping it doesn’t take too long. Thanks for your help. Let me know where you’re at with your process. Best, Jean-Luc
FI Fifiabi ·
Hi there, I already want to schedule the meet-up for the visa application. I hope I’ll get it a bit early—how did the kids’ files go at the office? I don’t understand what’s going on, and where is your wife in her visa application process? If I’m getting this right, there still isn’t a final decision on the kids’ visa application, right?
FI Fifiabi ·
Has your wife already gone to the office for the exams?
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
No, she just submitted the application for the kids this morning—she did it yesterday. They asked her for the children's birth certificates this morning; she had forgotten them, as well as the OFII form. Now she just has to wait for the OFII call. Good luck to you both!
LA Lanvin64 ·
Good evening Geronimotm, Thanks for the updates on how your case is progressing. Have you finally received your family record book and the transcription? Because I don’t understand how your wife can schedule a meet-up at the embassy—and even more so for her children—when you still haven’t obtained the transcription... Thanks,
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
hi Lanvin64

thanks first of all for your message. My wife went to the French embassy in Yaoundé to apply for visas for herself and our daughters—everything should have been normal. Before going, we already had the family record book and the transcription; we’re fully compliant for the application. We provided all the documents for the file. They didn’t take the family record book or the transcription, just glanced at them. They took the mayor’s attestation (for accommodation) but not even the photocopies of my visa—nothing makes sense. That was it. She went to the OFII for her medical visit; the kids haven’t yet. She’s waiting for the call for the rest. It’s been a week already, and we’re still waiting, hoping it’ll all work out. Just so you know, the embassy staff were a bit cold and even rude to her (my wife). All that to unsettle her, and she’s already very shy around people—it’s not easy. That’s all I can tell you for now. Thanks, Jean-Luc
FI Fifiabi ·
Good evening

Your wife still hasn’t gotten her visa? Since it’s already been a week, has she gone to check on it?
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Not yet, I’ll tell him it has to be her who goes there. Right now she’s sick with malaria and on an IV drip. Thanks. Best, Jean-Luc
LA Lanvin64 ·
Good evening Jean Luc, If I understood correctly, the consulate agreed to grant visas to your wife for her children, who are still in Cameroon, even though I thought she had to already be in France and at least a resident for a minimum of 18 months? Could you confirm this for me, please? Because my wife has her 4-year-old daughter, whom she’s forced to leave in Cameroon, and if she could bring her over once and for all, it would really help us out. Thanks
FI Fifiabi ·
Yes, your wife can absolutely come to France with her 4-year-old child, especially since he’s still very young. She just needs to apply for a visa for herself and her child at the same time. And in the handwritten letter, you should mention your wife’s name and her child’s name. Good luck!
LA Lanvin64 ·
Okay, thanks Fifiabi for this info. I’ll look into it when the time comes. First, I need to receive the file transcription sent via diplomatic pouch on April 23rd. Have you already gone through this step? Are you in France now?
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
hi Lanvin64

hang in there—we haven’t done it yet either, still waiting on the visa, nothing received!!! the kids and my wife haven’t managed to get to the embassy
JI Jinettegrace ·
Hi Berti! Since you're based in Yaoundé, try to apply for your visa at the same time as your 4-year-old daughter—you might get lucky and the embassy will grant her a visa.
JI Jinettegrace ·
Hi Jean Luc. With God’s help, your wife and her children will come to France normally—the Yaoundé embassy doesn’t make it difficult to grant visas to the kids. Keep us posted on how it goes, and good luck!
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
good evening Jinettegrace

thanks so much for your message. We’re still waiting for my wife’s visa. They said there’s no problem for the kids. They’re investigating the validation of the documents. Normally, we went to check, and everything’s been recorded properly. They told her the result will be next week or the week after. We’re keeping our fingers crossed, but it’s getting tough—always doubting, and it’s causing a lot of stress.

thanks again, Jean-Luc
JI Jinettegrace ·
Hi Jean Luc, the most important thing is that the embassy didn’t refuse the visa for your wife’s two children. So if they’re talking about verifying the documents, that’s a good sign—let’s wait for the next steps in a week. Hugs
SC Schedid ·
Hello everyone,

After taking the plunge and getting married in Yaoundé on June 16, 2018, my partner and I are now waiting for the transcription to the French civil registry, which I hope won’t take too long (the file was submitted to the embassy on June 25, 2018). A question just came to mind: my partner, who is in Yaoundé, has two children whose father is still alive (they’re not married and don’t live together), but the father’s name appears on the birth certificate along with the mother’s. I’d like to know if the two children can travel with their mother freely (with a visa, of course) to come join me, or if she needs an exit permit from the father to obtain the children’s visas and enter France?

Another question: what kind of handwritten letter template should we provide to the embassy to welcome my wife and her children? Does it need to be signed by my city’s town hall?

Thanks in advance for your answers.
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
thanks Jinettegrace

As you said, we’ll wait until next week—I’ll let you know how it goes!! Thanks again, Jean Luc
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
hi Schedid

congrats on your marriage! For me, the transcription took a month, but they made a mistake with the village—unlucky, but it still worked out in the end. For the kids, you need to get their passports and double-check their birth certificates at their town hall. If the father is still there and their names are on the certificates, he’ll need to write a letter explaining why he’s agreeing to let their mother take care of them. And most importantly, a signed and dated letter from the mayor of your town confirming you’ll be hosting them, with your wife’s name (the one on her passport) and the names of both children—don’t forget that! For me, I’m still waiting, and I can’t wait to see them here. It’s going to be amazing once I get the confirmation. Good luck!

Thanks,

Jean Luc
LA Lanvin64 ·
Hello, For the children, the father must have a document called a "delegation of parental authority" issued by the court in your favor, in addition to the travel authorization. This makes you the "proxy father" in his absence to handle any questions related to the children. A simple letter has no legal value and isn’t enough, because you must prove the children weren’t taken out of the country secretly, without the father’s consent or his knowledge—something that happens regularly. Good luck to you
SC Schedid ·
Thanks for the replies. It's getting complicated with all these extra steps. The embassy isn't communicating about it, even though the birth certificates were requested and I assume verified. The only thing the embassy asked for at the start of the CCAM application was the original photocopy of the recognition declaration for the future spouse's children.
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
hi Schedid

hang in there with all that paperwork—it’s tough to get through! For me, it took over 2 years. It’s long and expensive, but hey, love is there. And it’s not over yet, but we’re getting there.

Be happy!

jean luc
SC Schedid ·
my file started in October 2016, and as of today, we're nearing the end. I'm waiting for the transcription (filed on June 25, 2018), and then it'll be time for visas and finally the trip to France. Hang in there to all those who are just starting their file—patience is the name of the game.
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
we’re almost in the same boat—I got the transcription and family record book in June 2018 for my July 2016 wedding. I see it’s the same for everyone—over 2 years of procedure. hang in there, everyone. but honestly, when it finally happens, it’s so worth it
JI Jinettegrace ·
Good evening everyone. I haven’t had the chance to travel with my daughters. The consulate told me I need to apply for family reunification to bring them over. So I left without them—it’s really sad, but I didn’t have a choice. I’m dealing with the Douala consulate, and it’s been 6 months since I left Cameroon. Maybe in Yaoundé it goes more smoothly—I don’t know.
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
hi Jinettegrace

I haven’t done anything yet for us. At the French embassy in Yaoundé, they also told us to apply for family reunification, but we haven’t done it. They said our file was small, but now they’ve gone to check the children’s birth certificates. My wife is still there—we’re waiting. They said it would take 1 to 2 weeks. If it doesn’t work out, she’ll leave alone, and we’ll do family reunification later since the process is long!!! I’m crossing my fingers for a positive response. Thanks for your message, and hang in there!

Best regards,
LA Lanvin64 ·
Hi there, I really think the consulate gives you the illusion that your Cameroonian spouse can travel with her children, simply because they can’t bring themselves to say NO right away. From what I know, the only procedure is family reunification, which is possible 18 months after your spouse’s entry and stay in France. So in my opinion, you shouldn’t waste time or get your hopes up with the idea of traveling with the kids. Have a good day
CH ChrisKamer Regular ·
Indeed, it's also to line their pockets.
Cordialement !!
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
good evening Lanvin64

yeah, I agree with you—I feel like they’re just leading us in circles, making us believe all this false hope, unfortunately. But we keep waiting and hoping hard, you never know, lol. If I get an answer, I’ll confirm it.

best regards, Jean-Luc
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
good evening ChrisKamer

as you said, filling their pockets during this time, they’re harming all the couples who just want to live happily. I’d be so disappointed if it doesn’t work out! We love kids too much, even if they’re not mine—I adore them like my own. Best regards, Jean Luc
JI Jinettegrace ·
Hang in there, Jean Luc. I hope you get good news for your wife and her kids soon. Keep us posted on this as soon as you can, please. Thanks in advance
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
good evening Jinettegrace

yes, I can't wait to have good news to share with all of you for your support. I have the courage, but it's taking so long!!!! Thank you all

jean luc
K2 K2lizy Regular ·
Hi geroniomtm Still no news about the visa application for your wife and kids?
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Good evening,

My wife is still waiting for the kids' visas—no problem for her. We're still waiting.
K2 K2lizy Regular ·
These people really like to play with your nerves. It's starting to drag on. I just hope they're not doing this just to waste time.
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
I hope so too, it's really stressful, especially for her. He stresses her out so much, he doesn't reply to emails, basically he couldn't care less. But we're keeping our fingers crossed, hoping they haven't forgotten about us lol
K2 K2lizy Regular ·
Lol they can't just forget about you!
JI Jinettegrace ·
Yeah, they don’t forget anyone, don’t worry.
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Thanks, but still no news yet—it’s taking so long, way too long!!!!!!!!!!!
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Hi everyone, I’m sharing the visa response for the kids—they were refused for "lack of proof." What proof?! We’re so disappointed, it’s shameful. I’ve tried calling them but the number doesn’t work. Can anyone help me from France? The phone number is 237 22227950. I tried 00 23722226950 and that didn’t work either. Need help!
LA Lanvin64 ·
Good evening,

Well, the verdict is in, and they’ve wasted your time for nothing. You’ll need to go through the family reunification process after 18 months of residency in France.

Good luck!
GE Geronimotm Regular ·
Yeah, I kinda figured, but dreaming doesn’t hurt. Unfortunately, it quickly turns into the harsh reality of dealing with embassies—now it’s just an 18-month process ahead. Ugh, another nightmare...
K2 K2lizy Regular ·
Really a shame. But it's okay, time will pass faster by your wife's side.

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