Why do we always think that "ELSEWHERE" is better than our own country?
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TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Without a license or a car, if it's like in Brittany, you're stuck at home; it's impossible to get a job without having a car and a license. Of course, you have to pay for it. Let’s take a resident near Quimper, for example. Nantes is at least a 2.5-hour drive, Paris around 6 hours. We can compare everything if you want, no problem. Besides, I don’t see how the fact that people in Auvergne are isolated could justify others being almost as badly off. I don’t know if I should add that Brittany is at least three times more populated than Auvergne.

Michel
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
What to do? Territorial competitions?

.. I don’t know... Maybe understanding that most of the positions in question shouldn’t fall under a state-run civil service managed like the military? Recruiting by region, obviously, is the least we could do. The French obsession with the state, with civil service, with being taken care of and assigned a lifelong mission. Honestly, I don’t really get the plan.

Michel
MA Mathews Globetrotter ·
The point?

The point is really simple to understand—or maybe I didn’t explain myself well. French people whine nonstop with their mouths full, while there are tons of people living in misery around the world. I don’t want to sound like I’m pitying anyone, but just think about what a migrant fleeing a war-torn country (like Syria or Libya) has to endure.
MA Mathews Globetrotter ·
Recruiting by region, obviously, is the least one could do.

That would be a good solution, yes. However, I’d venture to say that the central state—basically the French state (as opposed to local authorities)—doesn’t want to because there have been too many abuses in the past: financial mismanagement, local authorities spending central government transfers without restraint... I think that’s the main reason the housing tax was scrapped.

No contest, Macron wants to regain control of all that. Some local authorities took out "toxic" loans before the 2008 crisis (particularly with Natixis, to name names) and were in financial trouble not so long ago.
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Hello,

It seems to me that France and its central state don’t need anyone else to dig financial black holes—though, admittedly, voters have repeatedly approved this since... well, forever. Treating non-Parisians like minors under guardianship is a classic move.

Michel

Hiring by region, of course, is the very least that should be done.

That would be a good solution, yes. However, I’d venture to say that the central state—basically, the French state (as opposed to local authorities)—doesn’t want to because there have been too many abuses in the past: financial mismanagement, local authorities spending state transfers without restraint... I think that’s the main reason behind the elimination of the housing tax. No question about it—Macron wants to regain control of all that. Some local authorities took out "toxic" loans before the 2008 crisis (particularly with Natixis, no need to name names) and were in financial trouble not so long ago.
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
impossible d'obtenir un emploi sans avoir de voiture et de permis.

Well, yeah—civil service jobs! You don’t need a car or a license to work in the 93!

Imaginons un résident des envions de Quimper, par exemple. Nantes c'est 2h30 de route au moins

That’s peanuts for people living in mountainous regions with no highways... Aren’t your Bretons a bit spoiled? 😄
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
That would be a good solution, yes.

That’s the solution adopted for the competitive exam for primary school teachers.

Result: a hyper-selective exam in regions like Brittany and an almost guaranteed pass in the Paris area.

In short, Bretons take the exam in the Paris area to be sure of passing, then complain about having to stay there for a long time.😏

Regional exams are just a band-aid on a wooden leg.
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
Recruiting by region, of course, is the very least one can do.

Well, no... And then "Brittany for the Bretons"—that eerily echoes the slogan of one of this region’s unfortunately more nationally prominent political figures.
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Did I say that? I said that the idea of enlisting people with quasi-military status to parachute them anywhere, then moving them around like pawns under the pretext of unifying the nation was an outdated idea—one that no one in Europe supports or shares, in any case. We’re seeing the results: a total collapse in education, depression and resignations at every level, to the point that if things keep going like this, we’ll have to stop classes on Thursday evenings because there won’t be enough staff to make it through the week. We can keep pushing a model that’s completely exhausted and ill-suited to today’s world, or we can have the wisdom to let go of universalist pretensions and stop believing we’re the only ones standing tall, right, and proud in the face of the whole world.

Michel

Nope... And then there’s "Brittany for the Bretons," which eerily echoes the slogan of one of this region’s unfortunately more nationally prominent political figures.
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
I don’t think so. It’s true that compared to Ireland, which is similar in size and geographical location, they lost out in the game of history. Few people can place Auvergne on a map, though. 🙂

Michel

Peanuts for the inhabitants of a mountainous region without motorways... Aren’t your Bretons a bit spoiled?😄
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
Total collapse of education, depression and resignations at every level, to the point that if this continues, we’ll have to stop classes on Thursday evenings due to a lack of staff to make it through the week.

As I’ve already told you—but apparently you’re blind—all civil servants are in the same boat, yet they’re not all quitting or depressed.

The malaise among teachers must be coming from somewhere other than the centralization of exams. Besides, when they leave the national education system, they don’t hesitate to take other civil service exams... 😄

I said that the idea of enlisting people with quasi-military status to parachute them anywhere, then moving them around like pawns under the pretext of unifying the nation was an outdated idea

Equality. That’s the foundation the system rests on.

The same exam across the entire country to give everyone the same opportunities.

Besides, unless you’re completely clueless, you know in advance where you might be transferred when you take an exam.

Exams help less attractive regions. A kind of compensation for those areas.

Someone from the Paris region will likely stay in their childhood homeland. But strangely, they don’t want to...

She tells me I cry all the time, That I’m like a little child Who no longer loves his games, his life, his mom. She says I cry all the time, That I’m downright mean, never happy, Downright mean, never happy.

Alain Souchon...
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
Few people can place Auvergne on a map, though

Alégia, never heard of it! 😇
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
As I’ve already told you, but apparently you’re blind, all civil servants are in the same boat and aren’t all resigning or depressed.

That’s not at all what teachers’ testimonies show—they highlight huge differences in how staff are managed between the National Education system and other public sectors.

So, teachers’ distress must be due to something other than the centralization of competitive exams. Besides, when they leave the National Education system, they don’t hesitate to take other civil service exams... 😄

They have little choice—it’s a highly stigmatized status, and they often can’t do anything else. That said, they’re often victims of their own aspirations and the illusions of those around them, trapped by long-standing family influences. So they do what they can.

Equality. That’s the foundation the system rests on.

In Germany, is the system collapsing because these things are handled at the state level? Which modern country confuses equality with equity like this? I don’t know of any.

Michel
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Alégia, no idea what that is! 😇

I don’t know what you’re talking about.

Michel
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
What to do? Territorial competitions?

- I don’t know... Maybe understanding that most of the positions in question shouldn’t fall under a state-run civil service managed like the military? Recruiting by region, obviously, would be the least they could do. The French’s wild passion for the State, for civil service, for being taken care of and put to work for a lifelong mission. Honestly, I don’t really get the plan.

Michel

France is one of the few countries with such a recruitment system for teachers. It completely demotivated me—I preferred not to go into that world (for other reasons too), even though my studies were really suited for it.
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TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Hi there,

You know, honestly, I think this system is in its final, painful throes, and it’s certain that in a few years, we won’t be recruiting teachers this way anymore. The shift has already begun.

Michel

What to do? Regional competitive exams?

- I don’t know... Maybe understand that most of these positions don’t need to fall under a state-run civil service managed like the military? Recruiting by region, obviously, is the least we could do. The French obsession with the state, with civil service, with being taken care of and assigned a lifelong mission. Honestly, I don’t really get the plan.

Michel

France is one of the few countries with such a recruitment system for teachers. It completely demotivated me—I preferred not to go into that world (for other reasons too), even though my studies were really suited for it.
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
I hope so, for the sake of future generations. As for me, teaching in France no longer interests me at all.
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AT Atila Globetrotter ·
This is not at all what emerges from teachers' testimonies, which highlight huge differences in staff management between the National Education system and other sectors of the civil service.

I know both sides... :)

it’s a very stigmatizing status

Being a teacher and Breton is a real ordeal...

In Germany, the system is collapsing because these things are handled at the state level?

Even in Germany, there must be "Bretons" who whine because they voluntarily moved to Bavaria when they didn’t want to leave their native Berlin...
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
All that's left is disparagement when the arguments are flimsy. The overbearing centralism and state control is an indefensible stance, incompatible with the aspirations of today's European citizens. It's already isolated and exotic, and it will succumb to a Europe of nations. It's quite ironic to note that the supporters of this centralist model are incapable of envisioning Europe, terrified as they are of not being able to imagine anything other than a star-shaped structure, where they would no longer inevitably be the center.

Michel

This is not at all what emerges from teachers' testimonies, which highlight enormous differences in staff management between the National Education system and other sectors of the civil service.

I know both sides...🙂

it's a very stigmatizing status

Being a teacher and Breton is a real ordeal...😇

In Germany, the system is collapsing because these things are handled at the state level?

Even in Germany, there must be "Bretons" who whine because they voluntarily moved to Bavaria when they didn't want to leave their native Berlin...
MI Mick013 Veteran ·
Hi Catherine, you’re in a good position to know what they say in Italy: France climbs onto Germany’s shoulders to look taller.

Hello,

To refocus the discussion on the topic and accommodate everyone’s rainy constraints during this dreary, damp winter, I suggest clarifying the question:

Why is this tendency to see the grass as greener elsewhere so distinctly French? What does it stem from? A cultural trait, a worldview, a type of society?...

Hi,

Well... I’ll answer... since I’m one of those who went off to wander elsewhere. 🙂

What I found almost unbearable when I lived in France was the tendency there to spin stories about itself. Here’s a very concrete example, taken from this morning’s press: "Macron, the lonely leader of a convalescent Europe" (Le Monde). Oh, how beautiful solitary heroes are! France is a country that constantly generates its own myth. And I don’t like grandiose myths. The wry fatalism of my adopted country suits me much better.

Cold, dry Sunday wishes.

Catherine
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
Mick, no aggression intended—I know you love Italy a lot. Have you ever thought about moving there? (We’re still on the topic of "elsewhere" being better.)

I think life must be more enjoyable there. Italians are generally friendlier, and the food is just better. 😛
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MI Mick013 Veteran ·
hi when I was 30 or 40, I would’ve done it if I’d studied science (engineer, doctor, for example) instead of law (French law, obviously) with no job market appeal in Italy. now, I’m retired, but too many personal things (family, assets to manage, etc.) keep me from moving abroad anywhere. if I had to do it (but I won’t), yeah, I’d go to Italy, Tuscany—not for the climate (I have the same in Provence), nor for the cost of living (same as France). For that, there’s Spain and Portugal, but for me, they’re too out of the way for traveling around Europe.

Mick, no offense meant—I know you love Italy a lot. Have you ever thought about moving there? (We’re still on the topic of elsewhere being better.)

I think life must be more pleasant there. Italians are generally nicer, and the food is better 😛
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
All you can do now is dodge the question when you’ve run out of your already repetitive and weak arguments. ..🙂
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
All I want is to live like a European. With European freedoms. Apparently, that’s too much to ask. But I’m not worried—it’ll happen, it’s just a matter of time. You’re incapable of shifting your perspective, stuck in that dirigiste, French-centric worldview. You don’t even realize it doesn’t work. The French have their own idea of harmonization in Europe—they want everyone else to do things their way 🤪.

Michel

All you can do is deflect when you’ve run out of your already thin and repetitive arguments... 🙂
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
Hi, When I was 30 or 40, I would have done it if I had studied science (engineer, doctor, for example) instead of law (obviously French) which had no interest in the Italian job market. Now, I’m retired, but too many personal things (family, managing assets, etc.) keep me from moving abroad anywhere. If I had to do it (but I won’t), yes, I’d go to Italy, Tuscany—not for the climate (I have the same in Provence), nor for the cost of living (same as France). For that, there’s Spain and Portugal, but for me, they’re too far out of the way for traveling around Europe.

Mick, no offense meant—I know you love Italy a lot. Have you ever thought about moving there? (We’re still on the topic of elsewhere being better.)

I think life must be more pleasant there—Italians are generally nicer, and the food is better 😛

Okay!

It’s always the same issues that come up: having a job that allows you to move abroad, leaving loved ones, etc.

In my case, it’s the first point that’s the problem—the rest, not so much.

For retirees, it’s definitely appealing to live in a country that’s cheaper and less taxed. Though I’d say it mainly interests those with a small pension, to improve their purchasing power.

At least you’re not far from Italy—you can go there regularly 😛
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AT Atila Globetrotter ·
You can't shift your gaze, stuck in...your... worldview

Oh really?🙂
CA Cambrousse Globetrotter ·
"I’d say it’s mostly of interest to those with a small pension, to help improve their purchasing power."

Unless I can’t "eat my fill," it’s not the standard of living that would make me move to another country (I’m talking about long-term residency, not travel). I’d miss my kids and French and European culture way too much.

And a pension that’s too small outright prevents you from even considering moving somewhere else... Being poor at home isn’t always (or even at all) being rich somewhere else.

I’d talk about average incomes, though—now *that’s* a different story.
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MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
Portugal is increasingly attracting retirees—with a 1000 € pension in France, life is tough, but in Portugal, it’s much better. It also appeals to those who want to pay less in taxes.

Of course, it’s personal, but if I were retired, I wouldn’t stay in France. I don’t feel attached to this country. That said, I can’t see myself living outside of Europe...
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CA Cambrousse Globetrotter ·
All of this is very personal, that's true. With a 1000 € pension, you have to break all material ties in France (no duplicates possible: two rents are a no-go, and owning a house in France plus renting in Portugal—with 1000 €, I just don’t see how). Or sell everything here to buy there? Yeah, possible. With 1000 €, you’ll be scraping by... here or elsewhere.
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TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Oh really? :)

Of course... France’s usual passions: the state’s omnipresence in transport, communications, education, energy, housing—often monopolizing them at the expense of quality and service; an obsession with centralism, to the point of not even being able to imagine what a (con)federation is; the conviction of being the universal model in terms of identity and culture, despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary worldwide; a poorly managed and still explosive colonial past; legalism; and hegemonic ambitions over the language... None of this is universal or even beneficial, yet it all sounds like unquestionable truths to most people—dogmatic ones at that.

Michel
MI Mick013 Veteran ·
I went to Portugal, including shopping at LIDL. Okay, it’s a bit cheaper than in France, but you still can’t live like a king on 1000 € a month.
MI Mick013 Veteran ·
Hey, I also forgot—it’s actually crucial—that in Haute-Provence, I have my olive trees. For the first time this year, the weather let me start pruning them. Sure, people might say I could sell them and buy others in Italy, but would you tell someone who’s in love that they should just change partners?

Another reason: my place in the Basque Country, where we spend (in chunks) 2 or 3 months a year. That’s already far enough—Italy would be even farther...
CA Cambrousse Globetrotter ·
If you have ties to France, it’s normal to be loyal to it. To address the title, we’re not obligated to think that somewhere else is better than our own country.
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MA Mariecurry Globetrotter ·
To echo the title, we're not obliged to think that elsewhere is better than our own country.

Obliged? As if! 😏
CA Cambrousse Globetrotter ·
🙂 I’m just responding to the way the discussion is phrased—"why always think..." Not *always*, luckily...
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MA Mariecurry Globetrotter ·
I was just teasing you. 😉 I generally agree with your comments, by the way.
UN UnaMilanese Veteran ·
Hi,

in Italy; but do you tell someone who’s in love that they just need to change their wife (or husband)?

.

Ah...

You’re right, you’re not ready for a move across the Alps. Here, we change everything—except our soccer team. I was literally told that last week.

Catherine
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VO Voyajou Globetrotter ·
France is a country that constantly generates a permanent myth about itself.

Yes. And, more seriously, this annoying tendency now seems to be affecting neighboring nations. Some Bretons are severely affected. For now, the grass has never been so green in Brittany. Worse, it’s growing in the middle of winter while in South Africa it’s dying in the middle of summer.
MA Mathews Globetrotter ·
What I found almost unbearable when I lived in France was the tendency there to spin stories about itself. Here’s a very concrete example from this morning’s press: "Macron, the lonely leader of a convalescent Europe" (Le Monde). Oh, how beautiful solitary heroes are!

That’s the classic and symptomatic theme of French culture’s obsession with the "providential man"... By the way, the magazine Marianne devoted an entire article to this. In other words, in France, people love "providential figures" capable of a certain personality cult, bordering on narcissism...😏 France is a country that doesn’t seem able to govern itself autonomously without orders "coming from above" (as Alexandre Jardin put it in one of his interviews). In other words, it needs an eternal, transcendent icon at the national level, like De Gaulle was.

France is a country that constantly generates its own myth. And I don’t like grandiose myths.

At least there are two of us who share the same opinion 🙂 The problem is that by constantly generating this permanent myth, the country ends up going in circles.
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
I went to Portugal, including at LIDL, okay it's a bit cheaper than in France, but you still can't live like a nabob on 1000 euros a month

Like a nabob, of course not, but still better than in France. Restaurants are cheaper (bigger difference than with shops), same for real estate.

After all, it depends on your situation in France (homeowner, family, etc.). In France, in a big city with 1000 € and rent, you live very poorly (I know what I'm talking about). Then there are even cheaper places than Portugal, sure, I just used it as an example because the country is attracting more and more French retirees. It's not the place that makes me dream in itself (but I don't dream of anything, actually).
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MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
It’s all very personal, that’s true. With a 1000 € pension, you have to break all your material ties in France (no duplicates possible: two rents are a no-go, and owning a house in France plus renting in Portugal—with 1000 €, I just don’t see how). Or sell everything here to buy there? Yeah, possible. With 1000 €, you’ll just scrape by... here or elsewhere.

Yeah, it definitely depends on your ties... I talked about it with my mom, for example—she could sell and live better there. She doesn’t really have ties left, but an unknown country, the language, losing her bearings—she’s not motivated.

Me? I’d love to find a place I love and just go. Oh well! !
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CA Cambrousse Globetrotter ·
With 1000 € a month, once you've paid your rent, utilities, and normal expenses, I guess even in Portugal you can't go out to eat very often—even if it's cheaper.

But I don’t have anything against people who leave; no issue with that at all.

Just saying: no, we don’t always think the grass is greener elsewhere. That phrase, as it stands, doesn’t mean anything.
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MA Mariecurry Globetrotter ·
With 1,000 € a month, once you’ve paid rent, utilities, and normal expenses, I guess even in Portugal you can’t go out to eat very often—even if it’s cheaper. But I don’t have anything against people who leave; no issue with that idea at all.

But just: no, we don’t always think the grass is greener on the other side.

Also, keep some savings for round trips back to France if you need medical treatment. A lot of retirees who moved to Portugal still get treated in France. Go figure...
TA Tatra Globetrotter ·
Hi there,

I was just thinking earlier, while driving and listening to the radio, that there’s no shortage of examples illustrating France’s situation: centralist, authoritarian in a hierarchical way, very 19th-century, and far from the standards of other European countries when it comes to freedoms, human rights, and society. The discussion was about the prison system, and experts agreed that it’s outdated. They also acknowledged that while some progress—meaning better conditions and greater efficiency—has been made over the past few decades, it’s only happened under pressure from European legislation, not because France took the initiative itself. This is just one example among many of a country still clinging to an authoritarian system that’s now obsolete, with a passion for the State, which is portrayed as virtuous and indispensable according to dogma. This example can be applied, *mutatis mutandis*, to other administrative sectors, like transportation, which lag behind the average because they’re weighed down by monopolistic legacies and endless exemptions from privatization that EU membership was supposed to enforce.

Michel
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
With 1000 euros a month, once you've paid your rent, bills, and normal expenses, I guess even in Portugal, you can't go out to restaurants very often, even if they're cheaper.

But I don’t have anything against people who leave—no issue with that idea at all.

But just to say: no, we don’t always think the grass is greener elsewhere. That phrase, as it is, doesn’t mean much.

Well, way more than in France...

That said, net income doesn’t necessarily mean much. I live on less than 1000 € a month and manage to go out to eat about once a week and travel regularly. It’s all about good deals, resourcefulness, etc.

It’s easier if you have a property to sell before moving somewhere else (so no rent to pay).

My mom, who lives on a half-pension of 800 €/month plus some cleaning jobs on the side, would have gained purchasing power by selling her place and moving to Portugal (just an example—the country) instead of staying in PACA, which is a very expensive region. Still, I get that taking the leap isn’t easy when you don’t speak a word of English, you’re afraid of being alone, or you don’t know the country, etc.

Otherwise, there are countries cheaper than Portugal, but you’ve got to want to live there (cheaper European countries like Ukraine don’t attract many people... and yet with 1000 € there, you’re basically rich)
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MI Mick013 Veteran ·
Of course, but we’re not *obliged* to think that France is better than everywhere else either.

If you have ties to France, it’s normal to be loyal to it. To echo the title, we’re not forced to think that elsewhere is better than our own country.
CA Cambrousse Globetrotter ·
Totally agree! 🙂

That statement is hollow.
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MI Mick013 Veteran ·
It must be said that for decades they’ve been told that France has the best healthcare system (which is far from Bloomberg’s opinion). Within a few months’ difference, the Portuguese don’t die any more than the French. We’ve just seen with Johnny and France Gall—when you have a fatal illness, you die just as much in France as anywhere else (except you pay more).

With 1000 € a month, once you’ve paid your rent, bills, and normal expenses, I suppose even in Portugal you can’t go out to restaurants very often, even if they’re cheaper. But I don’t have anything against people who leave—no issue with that idea at all.

But just this: no, we don’t always think the grass is greener elsewhere.

Also, keep some savings for round trips to France if you need medical treatment. Many retirees who’ve moved to Portugal still get treated in France. Go figure...

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