Best destination for a first one-month trip with 2- and 5-year-old kids in 2027?
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TR Tribu3434 ·
Thanks so much for these really thorough replies! I can see that this side of Thailand seems to be a big hit! I was worried about accommodation prices, but they look reasonable after a quick glance. For Vietnam, we were thinking of the North, which seems pleasant at this time of year, and possibly a beach in the central region. Land in Hanoi, visit the city and its surroundings, then head toward Ninh Binh and south of Hue.

I’ll look into the Thai cities you suggested. I often read that connecting with locals is trickier in Vietnam, and that there are more scams—so you seem to confirm that... Food-wise, we’re vegetarian, and I think Thailand would be easier for that too...
TR Tribu3434 ·
I’ve already been to Malaysia—it’s definitely super safe and a great country. But the flight is longer and the cost of living (accommodation) is much higher there. And it’s more industrialized.
TR Tribu3434 ·
But isn’t that during the burning season?
SO Songsam Veteran ·
But isn’t that slash-and-burn season?

Yes, exactly—I’d totally spaced on the timing, sorry. So with two little ones, scratch Mae Hong Son and Nan. That said, you could look into a stay in Sangkhlaburi; I mention it upthread in my reply to Djalma.

I keep reading that connecting with locals is trickier in Vietnam, that there are more scams—so you’re confirming that…

I never said anything like that in my earlier replies. But since you bring it up, I’ve noticed that whenever there’s no direct or indirect money in it for the person you’re talking to, making a real connection is harder in Vietnam than in the other three countries. Mind you, my Vietnam experience is limited—I’ve only done two trips and only know Ho Chi Minh City, Nha Trang, and a small part of the Mekong Delta, so it’s not a huge sample.

Food-wise we’re vegetarian; I think Thailand would be easier for that…

No problem for vegetarians,* but the chili issue (if it’s an issue) remains. And don’t forget that Thai cooks put MSG in pretty much everything—some people are allergic to it.

* – vegetarian food: ahan je – Is there vegetarian food?: mi ahan je mai kaa/krap? (have vegetarian food yes/no + polite word depending on whether the speaker is female (kaa) or male (krap)) – For a dish that normally contains meat but you know the name, just say “je” instead of the meat type (only works for made-to-order dishes). Example: khao pad kaprao moo → replace “moo” (pork) with je.
TR Tribu3434 ·
This is really very kind of you to share all this information, and the glossary—thank you so much! I’ll be studying up on the Sangkhlaburi area to see what we could do there over a week or 10 days. It’s school holidays, so the two little ones are home—sorry for the short replies!
SO Songsam Veteran ·
I’ll be looking into the Sangkhlaburi area to see what we could do there for a week or 10 days.

There aren’t enough activities to justify 7 to 10 days for travelers with less time—I usually recommend 3 or 4 nights—but the setting might be reason enough to chill there longer. Here’s what else to do besides what I already mentioned above: - P.Guesthouse*, by the lake, rents canoes (here, you paddle yourself, unlike boat tours). - I remember the same guesthouse used to offer day-long mini-treks, but they don’t mention them on their site anymore. Worth checking on-site or elsewhere. - A trip to the Three Pagodas Pass (Dan Chedi Sam Ong), accessible by regular songthaews. While the name sounds dreamy, the three "pagodas" (actually chedis—the Thai name is more accurate) aren’t worth more than 10 seconds of your time. That said, you might enjoy the vibe of a small border post and catching a glimpse of the Burmese village on the other side. At certain times, they’ll let you cross for the day for $10–20 per person and hold your passport, though you can’t go beyond the village.

* This guesthouse (their site isn’t hard to find) is modern—I was one of the first guests when it opened, cleaning up both literally and figuratively—but the cheapest rooms don’t have en-suite bathrooms. There are other accommodation options.

Getting from Bangkok to Sangkhlaburi in one day will be long (7 to 9–10 hours, no direct buses), so it might make sense to plan at least one night in Kanchanaburi. From there, several regular buses (6-hour trip) and minivans (4 hours) go to Sangkhlaburi. You can also arrive in/depart from Kanchanaburi to/from other cities/regions besides Bangkok. Sangkhlaburi is only accessible from Kanchanaburi.

For Vietnam, we were considering the north, which seems pleasant at that time of year,

Since Vietnam was your initial idea and fits several of your criteria, I’m surprised you’re not mentioning it anymore.
DE Dennis2 Regular ·
A road trip I did with kids by car, which is really much more practical and not too expensive.

Waterfalls, beautiful parks, a bit of history with traces of the war (Bridge on the River Kwai period), few people or Western tourists, an immersion in lovely countryside...

And seeing the Burmese border—even if, as Songsam says, there’s nothing exceptional, the atmosphere is something else...
SO Songsam Veteran ·
a bit of history with traces of the war (Bridge on the River Kwai period),

...and also history from the 12th century thanks to the Prasat Muang Sing temple, the westernmost Khmer site of the past empire (no need to go to Cambodia!😉 ). Just 1.5 km south of Highway 323 Kanchanaburi-Tong Pha Phum-Sangkhlaburi. Accessible from Kan by car/motorcycle, through an agency, or by train—get off at Thakilen station where motorcycle taxis wait for travelers who’d rather not walk the 1.5 km. In terms of interest, preservation of the ruins, and size, it can be compared to Phimai in Isan, so it’s definitely worth a visit.
TR Tribu3434 ·
A thousand thanks for all the info—I took the time to pore over it again and again... and in the end, to answer your last question, I decided on Vietnam. Simply because I still had this urge to discover a country I don’t know (though of course, you don’t really *know* a country after just a month there and without having made the most amazing connections, no doubt...)

I did travel for a year from Kyrgyzstan to India, Malaysia, Myanmar, Iran... and the only country where I experienced aggression was Thailand. Not that I’m drawing any conclusions from that, but maybe there’s a little superstitious side in me... I’ll give Thailand another chance next time, exploring the magnificent regions you suggested!
TE Tessaroy123 ·
Hi there! Personally, given what you're looking for, I’d definitely consider Vietnam. With two little ones, I think it could be a great option if you skip the usual tourist spots and limit your travel to 2 or 3 bases. Pu Luong is a great place to admire rice terraces and villages, then Phong Nha, where you can take boat rides, explore caves, and enjoy the countryside around the national park. Finally, Vinh Hy is in Ninh Thuan province, in the south-central part of Vietnam—it’s a small, well-preserved bay with clear water, pretty coves, and boat trips. This way, you can take your time, enjoy nature, and avoid the overly touristy and commercial side you didn’t like in Thailand.
TR Tribu3434 ·
Hi Tristine, Sure enough, that’s the decision we’ve made! We’re in the process of planning the itinerary—thanks for the tips! Do you think there’s enough to do for a week in Phong Nha without any transport (scooter, etc.)? Thanks again!
KL Klcity ·
I’d say Vietnam—there’s so much to see, and it’s less touristy than Thailand. Prices can be ridiculously low in some cases (taxis, restaurants, hotels).

It’s doable with kids. I went with my son when he was 1 (my daughter was 11). No major issues as long as you stay alert. Just one little scare with my daughter (and me too!) at a water park near Phan Thiet—the slides were safe but maybe a bit more intense than European standards (speed, drops, etc.) 🤪

Plan for long trips between the south, center, and north—the country is really stretched out. Flying is preferable in some cases (VietJet has cheap flights).

I haven’t been to the north, but I loved the central region (Da Nang, Hue, Hoi An).

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