Je dois partir avec ma copine en Indonésie le mois prochain, et en regardant sur internet, je suis tombé sur un article disant que le port du bikini était interdit en Indonésie sauf à Bali depuis environ 1 mois. Ca m'étonne un peu car je connais l'ouverture d'esprit de nos amis indonésiens.
On commence à faire nos préparatifs et je dis à ma petite amie qu'il n'y aura pas de problèmes si elle va en bikini sur une plage mais elle voudrait avoir la confirmation de quelqu'un sur place...
Qui a raison?
Merci d'avance pour votre réponse
HM
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Je suis déjà allé en Indonésie et ca ne posait pas de problèmes d'être en bikini. Les italiennes faisaient même du topless! Ce que je me demandais en fait c'est si cette loi était effectivement appliquée ou pas... parce que j'imagine qu'il y a une certaine tolérance vis a vis des touristes (surtout dans des endroits comme Lombok où les habitants dépendent de nous)
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Pas de souci pour Trawangan !!! Lorsque j'étais sur cette île, j'me trimbalais moi-même en bikini, j'ai jamais eu aucune réflexion. Par contre, y'en a plus d'un qui s'est foutu de ma gueule... Oui, apparament ils n'ont pas l'habitude de voir des hommes en bikini...😛
A Kuta, comme il est déjà dit ci-dessus, regardez autour de vous, mais je suis sûr qu'il n'y a aucun problème.
Après, aller dans le nord de Sumatra ou sur une plage de pêcheur à Sumbawa avec un "stirng ficèle léopard" (le fameux...) et courir seins nus en se massant le tétons à l'huile de noix de pécan, c'est une toute autre histoire... 😏
Pour ce qui est de faire de la loi elle n`est pas passee. Pour ce qui est de ta copine elle peut faire du bikini a Bali, Trawangan cependant a Lombok ils sont musulmans et moins touches par le tourisme que Bali donc pour Lombok j`eviterai peut etre voila. sinon bonnes vacances en Indonesie 😉
Ça dépend vraiment, mais pour Bali, Les Gili, Komodo, Rionca, Sulawesi et les iles...enfin toutes les iles et aussitot que tu es sur une plage, paas de problème.
La loi anti-pornographique vient d'être adoptée mais je ne crois sincèrement pas qu'il faut s'en inquiéter pour ce qui est du port du bikini sur les plages. Ce sont plutôt les gestes d'affection en public - baisers et caresses un peu osées - qui choquent généralement les Indonésiens. Certes la loi est très critiquable mais de là à penser que les autorités voudront appliquer la définition de pornographie aux touristes en bikini, je crois que c'est de la parano mal placée.
Comme plusieurs l'ont écrit, le port du bikini à Bali ne pose aucun problème. Pour Lombok, je n'y suis jamais allé. Le conseil de regarder avant d'adopter est excellent, à mon humble avis.
Si vous compter vous rendre à l'extérieur des endroits touristiques à Lombok, dans les villages surtout, je ne conseille absolument pas de porter le bikini ni même la camisole bretelle et tout ce qui se situe en haut des genoux. Premièrement, votre peau est blanche et il y a de bonnes chances que vous soyez plus grand que la moyenne des gens ici, en Indonésie. Donc on vous remarquera et regardera déjà beaucoup, pas besoin d'en rajouter avec des vêtements sexy.
Deuxièmement, dans les villages, un touriste se promenant avec des vêtements sexy est généralement considéré comme irrespectueux envers les coutumes et la culture d'ici. Bien sûr, il y a peu de chances que l'on vous le dise en pleine face, car ce n'est pas dans la culture indonésienne de s'insulter directement. Mais entre eux, c'est ce que la majorité pensera de vous. Croyez-moi, je suis fiancés à un Indonésien depuis un an et demi et je séjourne la plupart du temps dans les villages de la Sulawesi. Je fais partie d'une famille très nombreuse ici et je connais bien leur mentalité à l'égard des touristes, celles qui se discute dans les cuisines et les "ruang keluarga" (la salle familiale).
Je vous souhaite un agréable séjour, l'Indonésie est un pays merveilleux à découvrir!
Ah oui, j'oubliais, quant aux femmes âgées qui se promènent seins nus ou peu habillées, il est important de prendre en compte quelques spécificités culturelles indonésiennes. Ici, les droits quant aux vêtements ne sont pas tous égaux, cela dépend de votre statut maritale et de l'endroit où vous êtes. Dans le contexte des villages et des villes régionales (dans les iles musulmanes telles Lombok), une jeune fille indonésienne qui adopte un look sexy en public est considérée comme pas assez surveillée par ses parents. Un ou une touriste qui fait pareil est considéré comme irrespectueux à l'égard de la culture local.
Une femme marié, surtout si elle à des enfants et encore plus si elle à des petits enfants, à beaucoup plus de liberté quant à son habillement. Aussi il n'est pas rare de voir les grand-mères revêtir un simple sarong, les épaules nues ("topless" dans certains villages) ou encore une blouse transparente.
À la maison, les femmes vont aussi s'habiller plus sexy. Mais je vous déconseille de le faire si vous séjourner dans une famille indonésienne car votre statut est différent que celui des femmes indonésienne. À la maison, elles sont en famille, donc avec leurs frères, soeurs, cousins, etc. Vous, vous êtes des invités, donc pouvant potentiellement séduire les hommes et les femmes de la maison.
A Bali pas de problème, d'ailleurs les Indonésiens se baignent rarement ils n'aiment pas le soleil. Par contre évitez le topless, ce n'est pas interdit mais pas dans les moeurs et ça pourrait choquer, en tous cas vous seriez mal vus. Sinon prenez un hotel avec plage privée et vous resterez entre touristes.
Sinon prenez un hotel avec plage privée et vous resterez entre touristes.
En Indonésie -comme ailleurs- ce qui gêne, ce sont les habitants ...
C'est bizarre, on ne parle plus de la "bombe à neutrons" ?
Si vous avez compris tout ce que je viens de vous dire, c'est que j'ai dû faire une erreur quelque part. - Alan Greenspan
Science sans conscience n'est que ruine de l'âme - Rabelais
Je pars en avril 2009 pour faire Bali et Sulawesie, et j'avais lu dans des guides qu'en dehors de Bali, il fallait faire attention à son habillement par respect pour les habitants ... et vous me confirmez ce point. Je prendrais donc pantacourts et T-shirts "couvrants les épaules" pour Sulawesie, et peut-être des vêtements un peu plus courts et "dénudés" pour Bali (histoire de profiter un peu du soleil et du bronzage !!§§??).
Pouvez-vous me confirmer que cette règle s'applique aussi bien aux hommes qu'aux femmes ?
Effectivement, je suggère aux hommes la même retenue, soit d'évitez le short ras-la-fesse et la camisole. Les hommes indonésiens peuvent se promener sans t-shirt ni chandail à la maison ou chez les amis, mais vous allez généralement les voir remettre leur chandail si une jeune fille ou un invité se pointe.
Et comme j'ai déjà écrit, on vous remarquera et regardera beaucoup, ce n'est pas nécessaire d'en remettre avec tenue moulante ou peu couvrante. Si vous êtes intimidé par les regards soutenus, souriez à la personne, vous aurez droit dans 99% des cas à un beau sourire en retour!!
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