I chose a country she’d dreamed of going to: Iceland was high on the list. I sent volunteer requests on the site helpx.net before telling her, so I could be proactive and not just the person who complains and whines all the time.
We’d decided that September and October would be dedicated to traveling outside France and volunteering. A method I love for traveling. Discovering locals, the culture, cool places while helping and being housed and fed. What could be better?! After volunteering for a few days in Morocco last year on a lemon plantation, after 15 days on an organic market garden in the South Morvan this August, we really appreciate this way of traveling—which is why it was the plan: Volunteering in Spain at a Buddhist meditation center, with a short volunteer stint somewhere else beforehand.
Photo taken at the Kadampa Center France in April 2025 Well, I’d be lying if I said the responses to my requests came quickly. No. They took their time. I even had to follow up with everyone I’d contacted. Internet connection issues in Iceland? But miraculously, a week later, on a Friday in Auvergne, while I’m talking to my dad, the answer arrives. “Yes, it’s okay.” My heart skips a beat. My lungs relax. Finally, I find meaning in this trip. Me, always searching for meaning—my meaning, not the universal one—I’m going to explore distant lands with a culture different from France’s. He said YES! Indeed, the person who said yes—Björn*—lives in northwestern Iceland, an area known for its fjords, and which seems a bit remote. Proof: in the ad, it says the nearest town is 35 km away, and only two buses, one on Friday and one on Sunday, go there or leave. PERFECT! It also mentions taking a kayak to collect feathers from eider duck nests and taking care of rainbow trout. Things I don’t know how to do! And She said yes! So I tell Mélanie, who’d known about my last-minute change of mind since the day before—for the umpteenth time, I must admit. A little dilemma: our month of volunteering in Spain had just been sorted, so should we cancel it? Yes! The pull of Iceland and adventure is stronger! Change of plans, then. Normally, we’d continue our route to Montauban for the 400 Coups festival with friends, then stay in the south for the Mantra festival before heading to southern Spain toward Malaga. Now, the migration will be more northward since we’re returning to Rennes Monday morning (after the 400 Coups festival, which we wouldn’t have missed for the world!!) to change our wardrobe. Indeed, the weather won’t be the same between southern Spain and northern Iceland. It was September 12, and we were leaving on the 20th! Because, yes, that same evening, after arriving at our friends’ place and quickly summarizing the situation—even trying to convince one of them to join us—we start looking at bookings.
First thing: flight tickets—which I’d already more or less looked at and knew weren’t that expensive, thanks to low-cost airlines—,
Second thing: train tickets to Paris, and oh, miracle, they’re not expensive at all. 25 € per person one way! What’s happening at SNCF?!
Third thing: accommodation for Saturday night so we could take the bus on Sunday—which I hadn’t looked at and seemed quite pricey for just a bed in a dorm—.
Sometimes, we spend months and months planning a vacation (only to change everything at the last minute… We still remember the trip to Churchill…), and here, in one day, it’s almost done. Welcome to my life. Build, deconstruct, and rebuild. Why don’t I plan ahead? You have the answer. The week in Rennes does us good. Coming back to a familiar place after a month and a half of wandering around France. Resting because we’re accumulating fatigue. I also take the opportunity to have sessions with the few people who contacted me during our August road trip, see some friends, binge on galettes (5 galette meals in 9 meals—I went all out!), and realize we really need to take winter clothes—5°C expected in Iceland—. And boom, Saturday arrives. Like a calm river? Boom ??? No, that would’ve been too simple, too idyllic. Indeed, on Wednesday, a little message from Björn—who’s the intermediary between the volunteer site owner and us—tells us the owner no longer wants to host volunteers, so it’s off for us, and he’s really sorry. And that he can try to see with a friend if they can host us, if we want. What?! Uh, that’s not possible. Me, who changed all the plans at the last minute, how do I tell Mélanie we’ve got nothing left? That’ll teach me to never be satisfied with what I have and to always plan everything at the last minute. Take a breath: after all, the situation isn’t ruined. He has a friend who might host us, and maybe there are other ads I haven’t seen. So I tell him yes, and a few minutes later, he confirms it’s good, his friend is okay to take us starting October 1st, and he’ll host us until September 30th. Phew!!! The plan seems twisted, we still don’t know what we’ll be doing, or with whom, or where, but at least we haven’t thrown money out the airplane windows. After double-checking that I understood everything correctly, after confirming we still need to go to H in northwestern Iceland, it’s good, the clouds are clearing again.
