Je m'appelle Ophélie et j'ai décidé de partir en Inde en 2014.
Le nord pour commencer dans le courant de mars ou avril pendant 3 semaines, 1 mois.
J'avoue que je ne me sens pas rassurée de voyager seule, j'ai fait seulement la Thaïlande en sac à dos avec 3 filles, c'était facile et chouette mais cela remonte à 2009. Je veux retenter l'expérience d'une aventure personnalisé, ce sera une aventure intérieur pour moi-même. ça serait chouette de pouvoir la partager par d'autre fan de voyage. Ma famille s'inquiète avec tout ce qu'on entend sur les agressions et viols. Je n'ai encore rien préparé ni vol ni date exact juste un pré-itinéraire défini en tête, encore rien de concret. J'aimerais bien sûr des conseils et de l'aide pour préparer ce voyage. J'aimerais passer une semaine dans un ashram à Rishikesh (éventuellement commencer par la semaine du festival de yoga). Je suis excitée mais à la fois j'ai la trouille.
Je pense être capable de le faire solo mais si je peux partager des bouts de chemin et rencontrer de chouettes personnes cela me tente aussi. Je suis nouvelle sur ce forum que je ne vais pas tarder à éplucher afin d'avoir les meilleures astuces possibles.
Merci d'avance pour toutes vos suggestions et au plaisir d'en discuter.
Je suis partie seule en Inde et j'avais les mêmes appréhensions.
Mais à la différence que mes parents connaissant eux-mêmes l'Inde, ils m'ont plus rassurée qu'inquiétée.
L'Inde est un pays à part, il faut y être préparé. Et même si on y voyage aisément, on est loin de la Thaïlande et de ses facilités.
Il existe sur ce forum de nombreuses discussions sur le voyage en Inde pour une femme seule.
Jette un œil dessus. Lis les blogs des unes et des autres.
Pour les histoires de viols, rien à dire, je n'ai JAMAIS eu de problèmes, mais je suis quelqu'un de responsable et je sais analyser quand une situation peut être dangereuse ou pas.
Pour moi, les indiens sont des gens adorables mais même avec la plus grande prudence, on est jamais à l'abri d'un taré, là bas comme dans n'importe quel pays.
L'Inde a beaucoup à t'apporter, donc j'espère que tu feras ce voyage.
Et sache qu'il est facile de trouver des compagnons de voyage une fois là bas (ou avant de partir) si tu en as l'envie.
J'ai passé plus d'un mois en Inde du Nord en juin dernier avec mon copain. J'ai rencontré beaucoup de femmes voyageant seules et elles le vivaient très bien!! Une fois qu'on est habituées aux regards persistants, on peut en sourire. Il faut évidemment faire très attention, mais ça, comme il est dit juste au dessus, c'est comme partout!! Ma famille était hyper stressée, ils n'ont jamais voyagé vraiment alors ils étaient forcément inquiets de l'inconnu. En donnant des nouvelles régulièrement, tu pourras sans problème les rassurer.
J'ai adoré, j'y retournerai bien là maintenant !! N'hésite pas si tu as besoin d'infos. bonne préparation et ce sera une belle expérience, sois en sûre :)
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Merci pour vos infos. Je vais éplucher le forum et tout ce qu'on en dit. J'avoue que un stress mais un stress positif. Je pense aussi que l'Inde pourra m'apporter bcp. D'ailleurs si je peux me permettre, quel budget vous a-t-il fallu?
Au plaisir.
Bonjour Ophélie,
Comme toi, je prépare un voyage relativement solo en décembre/janvier 2013/2014. Malgré un premier voyage en août, (durant lequel j'ai rejoint une amie), je ne me sens pas hyper rassurée d'y voyager seule non plus, mais ayant testé rapidement "l'ambiance" en aout, je pense que c'est faisable. Je cherche également, si c possible, des compagnons de voyage avec lesquels on pourrait partager des "morceaux de voyage", en fonction de ce que chacun a prévu de faire.
Je commence par une petite semaine à Varanasi pour aller visiter ma copine, puis je me lance (un peu en flip, mais ça va le faire :-)
Si jamais tu as possibilité de modifier légèrement tes dates (pour moi y'a pas moyen, je pars du 24 déc au 14 janv), peut-être pourrions-nous faire un bout de trip ensemble?? ?
Au plaisir, stéphanie de Nouméa, nouvelle-Calédonie
Salut Ophélie,
Tu vois, après la Thaïlande seule, je prévois de partir le 2 janvier en Inde.
Je vais flâner durant 6 à 8 sem au nord de Calcutta jusqu'au Rajasthan.
Je peux comprendre ton appréhension.
J'ai moi meme chercher à comprendre quels sont les codes, les choses à faire et ne pas faire, les comportements et les choses à penser pour ma sécurité.
A partir de là, et comme disent d'autres personnes ici, je crois qu'il faut rester calme et lucide pour éviter les pièges.
Il faut même accepter qu'une situation se passe moins bien, parce qu'on t'a roulé, sur un service. Mais ca fait partie du jeu et il est sans doute préférable de savoir ne serait ce quelle pieces tu dois avoir dans ta poche, au cas ou... (dans ton sac de voyage : une chaîne, un cadenas, une lampe... bref...).
Je pense qu'il est très facile et j’espère avoir raison, de réserver son prochain transfert et sa prochaine nuit d'hotel (guest house), afin de toujours se faciliter l'arrivée dans une autre ville.
moi je pars confiance et très heureuse de cette chance.
salut
Fabienne
Bonjour , Ophelie
Tu as bien raison l'inde est un superbe !!! :))
Si tu as des questions " d'appréhension " sur ce pays que tu vas aborder seule , ou si tu as des questions à la con ( oui oui car on est des filles ) , ou des questions de logistique trajet etc etc.
N'hésites pas à m'envoyer un message en privé .
Je connais tres bien le nord du Pays mais pas trop le sud
Biz !!
Elisa
Bonjour,
Juste une petite remarque sur un point que personne n'a relevé. La période fin mars/avril/mai/juin n'est pas une très bonne saison pour partir. C'est la saison chaude en Inde du Nord. Tu auras des températures autour de 40°C et plus, qui peuvent atteindre dans les 50°C dans certaines régions comme le Rajasthan. Après à toi de voir...
hello , premiere experience pour moi en inde aussi , j y vais pour le festival , je cherches encore des infos sur les ashrams durant cette periode , . merci
Pour mon voyage, j'ai tellement été indécise par rapport au circuit et à ce que je voudrais visiter.
Pour ce premier voyage et vu ma situation actuelle, je vais me poser quelque temps dans le nord, dans un monastère bouddhiste. Ensuite faire le Holi festival, Taj Mahal, et ensuite redescendre sur Goa pour voir la mer.
J'aviserai le reste au feeling.
Bonjour Ophélie,
Je pars le 10 pour l'Inde du sud. Retour dans le Kerala ou je suis allée en janvier 2008. En 2010 j'étais retournée en Inde mais dans le nord cette fois et en avril. J'ai été cette fois littéralement bloquée par la chaleur écrasante. Je me suis réfugiée dans la montagne plus fraiche et n'aie pas trouvé l'énergie pour supporter ces températures harassantes. La question de la température n'est pas à négliger selon moi. Pour ce qui est de tes appréhensions, nul danger en Inde si tu respectés les coutumes du pays. Pour ma part je s'habille comme une nonne et évite les coins sombres et déserts, surtout la nuit tombée.
Le climat social et humain est très différent dans le nord ou le sud. Je décide cette fois de prendre mon temps pour le sud que j'avais beaucoup aimé en 2008. N'hésite pas à me contacter pour toutes les questions que tu auras, de Delhi à Agra, Bénarès, Dharamsala, Magali... j'ai trainé mes pattes ;). Namaste.
Erika
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What’s worth seeing around Tana?
I’m planning 2 nights in Tana,
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Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
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What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
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Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
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Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
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As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
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Kampot – 2 days
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Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks
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I’m adding more details to my info request. Here are two proposed itineraries. We’re hesitating:
Colombo - Unawatuna 2 days - Sinharaja 1 day - Bandarawela 2 days - Kandy 3 days - Dambulla 2 days - Wilpattu Park 1 day - Kalpitiya 3 days - Negombo 1 day
What should we change or add a day for to include Jaffna?
Or:
Negombo 1 day - Anuradhapura 2 days - Jaffna 2 days - Sigiriya 2 days - Dambulla 1 day - Kandy 2 days - Ella 1 day - Galle 3 days
For your advice.
Is it better to finish in Galle or Kalpitiya?
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This is a warning message! I’d like to address it especially to young women traveling alone for the first time in India. Other travelers may react to my post based on their own experiences, but I think what I’m about to say shouldn’t be taken lightly—unless that’s what you’re looking for!
Last July, I traveled to Northern India. I stopped in Khajuraho to see the famous tantric temples. I stayed one night, and that was more than enough. Khajuraho is very touristy, but you should know that 80% of young Indian men there are "gigolos." Locals call these young men (aged 18 to 30) "playboys" or "Lapka" (which means "capture the woman" in Hindi)!!!
They approach tourists with kindness and politeness, offering tea or a motorcycle ride (which they’ve often gotten from generous Western female tourists) to waterfalls a few kilometers from Khajuraho or other tourist sites. After befriending you, they charm you—be careful, these are professionals who are very skilled at this; it’s all they do, and they do it well. They’ll offer you food, drinks, and even temple entry to confuse you. They’ll suggest spending the evening or even the night with them. **Refuse (unless you’re into local flings and that’s why you came)!!!!**
At first, you’ll be seduced by their generosity, let your guard down, and then they’ll make you believe in *true love*. They won’t leave you alone and will keep in touch via email or phone if you give them your details. The lines they use to soften you up and scam you include: *"I’m the only one taking care of my family, my brother is sick, I don’t know what to do..."* All of this is to manipulate you into offering them money. They’ll never ask for it outright (to avoid being exposed) but will wait for you to suggest it.
If you receive emails from them, they’ll never be signed, and their name won’t appear in the email address (to avoid leaving traces). They use fake names to avoid being reported. If you believe their sob stories and offer help, they’ll give you a bank account number to send money via Western Union. These young men make a living from this—selling their bodies and scamming people! They’re very skilled, charming, manipulative, and *big-time cheaters*!
(Especially one young man who goes by the alias *Tony*—apparently the most skilled. He lives in a hotel near the lake, *Krishna Cottage*, and is in regular contact via Skype with Western women he’s tricked into believing he loves them while shamelessly scamming them. He even opened an internet café on the roof of the hotel with money he stole from women who fell for his charm.)
So, young romantic women craving love, sensitive singles, or anyone emotionally vulnerable—**don’t let yourself be scammed!!!** This behavior is becoming more common in India and is still relatively unknown. Male prostitution is on the rise, and cases of romantic scams and financial fraud by gigolos are increasing.