Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip for November.
I’ve chosen Thailand because it’s my first solo trip and I wanted a country that’s easy and safe for a woman (though maybe you have other suggestions?), but also because of this time of year when the monsoon is hitting many Asian countries. A lot of people have confirmed that Thailand is a destination where everything is relatively easy for a first solo trip: getting around the country (buses and trains), great food, beautiful beaches, stunning countryside, decent safety, etc...
This trip comes after a major burnout and professional exhaustion 😵💫. I quit my job this week and need to recharge and clear my head before diving back into the professional grind... I’m looking for peaceful landscapes away from mass tourism, combining mountains, countryside, and beaches. I need moments of free wandering, yoga, sightseeing, and maybe some woofing. I love authenticity, contemplation, and beautiful things in simplicity.
Thanks for your route and accommodation ideas 😊!
Armelle
How many nights are you planning to stay there?
What do you mean by "free walk" and "nice things in simplicity"?
Thanks for your itinerary ideas
Your brief is too vague to help you plan an itinerary—you need to clarify it a bit, otherwise you’ll only get vague answers or reading recommendations at best.
Merci pour ta réponse.
Je pensais à 29 nuits sur place en raison du visa pour simplifier les choses.
Promenade libres : endroits où je peux aller randonner, me balader où il y ait des choses à faire pas loin du lieu d'hébergement, temples etc..
J'aimerais des lieux d'hébergement simple mais cosy/joli sans faire des etoilés.
J'aimerais aller a la rencontre de la population et participer à la vie locale en aidant par exemple à la ferme etc...
participer à la vie locale en aidant par exemple à la ferme
Quel est ton niveau de thaï? Moyen? Bon? Excellent? N'espère pas que des fermiers sauront parler autre chose que le thaï, voire aussi le thaï du nord... dans le nord ou le laotien dans le nord-est. Il y a une différence entre avoir une conversation de 5mn essentiellement avec les mains lors d'une rencontre éphémère avec par ex. un commerçant ou un gamin curieux et vivre et travailler h24 dans une famille de locaux.
Et de toutes façons ce n'est pas une activité touristique répandue en Thaïlande même s'il n'est pas impossible que tu trouves sur le net des sites attrape-couillons prêts à te mettre en rapport avec la "population profonde" pour un prix 5 ou 10 fois supérieur au cout de revient réel.
En outre en Thaïlande tout travail (quelque soit le nom que tu lui donnes) y compris bénévole, y compris de courte durée, effectué dans le cadre d'un séjour touristique est illégal.
J'aimerais aller a la rencontre de la population et participer à la vie locale
Pas besoin (et compliqué) de participer. Vivre quelques jours au rythme d'un village isolé même sans parler la langue t'apportera déjà beaucoup et c'est un excellent moyen d'aller à la rencontre de la populacione tant dans le village lui-même que lors de balades à pied ou à vélo dans sa campagne environnante, En revanche, si tu veux que le lieu soit éloigné du tourisme il ne faut pas espérer de site majeur à visiter dans le coin. Le principe te convient-il? Si oui des suggestions de villages situés en outre dans un cadre sympa peuvent s'inclure dans une suggestion d'itinéraire.
Je pensais à 29 nuits sur place en raison du visa pour simplifier les choses.
OK. Ce n'est pas un visa mais juste un coup de tampon bien nommé "Visa Exemption" dans le passeport.
et plages
Environ combien de nuits sur les 29 (jour ou nuit d'accès inclus)? 6? 7? Moins?
Dès que tu auras répondu aux 2 questions ci-dessus une suggestion d'itinéraire sera envisageable.
Pour l'instant et si je t'ai bien compris (sinon rectifie ou ajoute) tes critères sont:
- campagne, montagne et plage
- pas ou peu d'autres touristes
- authenticité
- rythme de voyageur contemplatif
- pas de vols intérieurs
Oui le principe de vivre au rythme d'un village en étant éloigné de sites majeurs me convient parfaitement.
Je préfère découvrir les paysages de campagne que les plages que je trouve plus languissant. Je pensais finir le voyage par la plage pour la détente mais pas que le nombre domine le séjour. Je pense que 5 jours max sont ok.
Est ce qu'il est possible de faire les déplacements sans vols intérieurs? Je pensais utiliser le train pour le voyage.
Oui les critères sont les bons 👍
Est-ce compliqué de louer un vélo sur place pour rayonner quelques jours ?
Merci pour ta réponse.
Est ce qu'il est possible de faire les déplacements sans vols intérieurs?
Oui. Surtout que tu auras le temps.
Je pensais utiliser le train pour le voyage.
Le réseau ferré n'étant pas assez étendu pour envisager de voyager hors de l'autoroute touristique uniquement en train, tu devras te déplacer d'étape à étape la plupart du temps en bus. Je retiens toutefois le critère "train" pour tâcher d'en prévoir au moins un dans l'itinéraire suggéré, pour ton expérience.
Selon les endroits et la distance à parcourir la qualité des bus ira de tortillard (lotmêê thamada) sans clim qui peut s'arrêter partout à la demande des passagers montants ou descendants, à bus + confortable et + rapide climatisé (lotmêê êê) de 2ème ou 1ère classe voire VIP.
Est-ce compliqué de louer un vélo sur place pour rayonner quelques jours ?
On ne trouve des loueurs de vélos (généralement de 50 à 150 Bahts*/jour selon que la monture est normale ou de genre VTT) que dans les villes touristiques, donc à priori tu ne devrais pas être concernée.
Ailleurs certains hébergements en louent pour le même tarif, parfois le prêt est même inclus dans le prix de la chambre. Quand l'hébergement n'en propose pas je n'hésite jamais à demander qu'il m'en prête un et la plupart me confient alors gracieusement celui d'un membre de la famille ou du personnel.
Dans tous les cas avant de partir fais toujours un essai de frein en roulant** et règle la hauteur de selle à ta bonne hauteur.
* de 1,30 à 4 euros
** retiens que là-bas le frein arrière est toujours à main gauche.
Je reviens plus tard avec une suggestion d'itinéraire.
I’d love to settle around Da Nang for about a month and explore the surrounding areas in Vietnam.
I’ve already been to this country and don’t feel like rushing around every day like I used to a few years ago.
I’d really like to find some company to stay for at least a month, and then maybe spend a month in Cambodia...
Given that I’m now 76, I don’t want to run around like I used to, trying to see everything...
I enjoy calm people... Those who love life and with whom I can share a beer... And meet people to create a great atmosphere—la dolce vita....
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After that, I’m heading to Ilha Grande, Paraty, and finally a flight to Iguaçu.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Rio. Is it possible to walk around and explore without constantly worrying about getting my phone snatched?
I’m traveling alone and don’t speak Portuguese.
I need GPS to get around.
I love walking and don’t really like taking taxis, which is why I’ve booked two places to stay in Rio to experience different neighborhoods.
But is this doable given the security concerns there?!
In short, can you travel peacefully?
Thanks for your feedback if you’ve been to Rio!
Best,
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Always the same answer: a tailor-made trip with at least 2 participants.
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I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
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I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
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What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
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Hi everyone,
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1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
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Hi,
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Hi,
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