J’ai lu avec attention le débat qui s’est tenu hier sur ce forum au sujet la personne britannique qui s’était fait dépouiller par son épouse Thaïlandaise.
J’envisageais moi aussi de sortir de ma solitude et de me rendre cet été en Thaïlande pour y rencontrer peut être, mon âme sœur. J’ai déjà un billet d’avion pour Bangkok, départ le 15 août, retour le 6 septembre.
Le débat d’hier a tout remis en question, je me suis davantage informé et je nourris maintenant de gros doutes pour mon projet.
Je suis quelqu'un de sérieux, j’ai une très bonne situation et désire réellement du fond du cœur construire quelque chose de positif à long terme avec une personne de confiance.
Je n’ai pas trop envie de rencontrer une prostituée, mais aimerais rencontrer une fille de bonne famille (bouddhiste) ayant les mêmes buts que moi. Fonder une famille et vivre heureux dans un climat d’amour et de confiance mutuelle.
Je ne sais pas bien par où commencer mes recherches.
Comment et où rencontrer une personne sérieuse ? En ville ou plutôt dans les endroits touristiques ?
J’ai cru comprendre que certains d’entre vous sont mariés à une Thaïlandaise depuis longtemps et que tout se passe bien ?
Attention. Je ne cherche pas une esclave ou je ne sais quoi, au contraire, je cherche une femme Thaïlandaise car j’aime la culture asiatique, la philosophie bouddhiste, la douceur asiatique et les bons petits plats.
Merci.
bonjour une prostituée en thaïlande a 90% de chance d'être bouddhiste et beaucoup de ces demoiselles veulent fonder une famille avec un étranger et oui beaucoup de farang sont très heureux avec d'anciennes filles de bars (mois le premier) ce qui est le cas pour un gros pourcentage des couples franco-thaïs donc c'est possible après je ne sais pas, tous les cas sont différents si je n'ai qu'un seul petit conseille à donner attendre qu'elle fasse les premiers pas et qui vivra verra .
les voyages forment la jeunesse , vive la retraite
bonjour il ne faut pas tomber dans l'extremise ( même si cela existe ) en fait c'est relativement simple , chercher une personne comme toi , cela existe , ce n'est pas les femmes qui sont interdépendantes qui ont un bon métier qui peuvent avoir une relation qui manque ..........
le problème est que souvent les homes vont vers la facilitée c'est a dire rentrer dans un bar et sortir avec la tirak .......... sous le bras avec comme idée moi je vais te sortir de l'enfer ........mais c'est le début de l’enfer
le seul conseille est prend ton temps ............ mais bon en 1 mois ......... ce n'est pas évident ...😕.
au moins l'anglais a fait réfléchir 1 personne 😉
ce qui est le cas pour un gros pourcentage des couples franco-thaïs je comprend maintenant pourquoi il y a un énorme de % de divorce a l'ambassade de france a a bkk .........
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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salut thuan j'ai mal formulé ma phrase en disant ce qui est le cas pour un gros pourcentage des couples franco-thaïs je voulais dire qu'il y a beaucoup de français marié avec des filles de bar après le pourcentage de réussite n'est peut être pas très élevé j'en conviens mais pour certains cela fonctionne je suis arrivé a bangkok en début d'aprés-midi un certain moi d'avril 2001 et j'ai connu celle qui allait devenir ma femme le soir même ça fait onze ans que cela dure et pour le moment tous va bien (sauf quand elle mange du durian 🏴☠️)
les voyages forment la jeunesse , vive la retraite
merci pour ton hoax.
Bon il est un peu gros mais c'est pas grave : tu vas voir que c'est à nouveau les mêmes qui vont y sauter à pieds joints...😉
C'est déjà bien parti d'ailleurs...🤪
jojosimonin a dit qu'il ne voulait pas rencontrer une prostituée.
Tu as quoi contre le durian ?😉 Moi, j'adore ça. Juste là maintenant, je pourrais tuer pour en avoir une belle portion bien mûre et coulante 😏
salut il a dit Je n’ai pas trop envie de rencontrer une prostituée (y'a un début a tous) et pour le durian c'est l'odeur pas question a la maison ( c'est pour cela qu'il est interdit dans les hôtels en thaïlande)et comme a dit un célèbre auteur 'Au début j'ai cru que c'était de la merde et après j'ai regretté que ce n'en fut pas '😉
les voyages forment la jeunesse , vive la retraite
Ha le fameux durian un peu comme si nous on mange du camembert pareil , j'ai un ami marié à une thaïe depuis très longtemps ( 22 ans ) et à chaque fois qu'il se fait plaisir de manger du camembert sa femme lui dit je t'embrasse pas pendant 2 jours , je l'ai vécu à l'entendre lorsque je lui avait amener du camembert quel fou rire avons eu et lui avons dit à sa femme pareil avec le durian , pas pareil elle nous a répondu . 😏
Ps : par contre du chocolat pas de soucis .
@+ , Marco .
On aura jamais assez de temps pour tout ce qu'on veut découvrir et comprendre dans nos voyages qu'on se le dise , Amis voyageurs .
les touristes en font tout une histoire pour le durian, uniquement parce que ça en parle dans leurs guides....🤪
franchement, qui peut dire que ça pue vraiment.
et si c'est interdit dans certains hôtels ou certains avions, c'est uniquement parce que l'odeur s'incruste durablement dans les textiles. rien de plus.
salut barbot , du camenbert d'accord mais du vieux du très vieux qui pue 😐 mais perso le durian je ne peu pas ou peut-être avec une pince a linge sur le nez😛 et après une bonne quiche🤪 bon je crois que l'on s'éloigne du sujet (faut bien rigoler)
les voyages forment la jeunesse , vive la retraite
je retourne au pays du sourire en août et je promet de goûter ce fruit très odorant😇 si vous n'avez pas de news sur ce forum fin décembre j'aimerais que mes cendres sois dispersées dans le mékong😉merci
les voyages forment la jeunesse , vive la retraite
je retourne au pays du sourire en août et je promet de goûter ce fruit très odorant😇 si vous n'avez pas de news sur ce forum fin décembre j'aimerais que mes cendres sois dispersées dans le mékong😉merci
Oui essaie tu verras , c'est comme certains fromages de chez nous qui pue mais que c'est bon d'en manger .
Non les cendres dans le Mékong pas d'accord ils ont rien fait ces poissons va pas les rendre malade . 😏😏
@+ , Marco .
On aura jamais assez de temps pour tout ce qu'on veut découvrir et comprendre dans nos voyages qu'on se le dise , Amis voyageurs .
Bsr ......essaye les petites annonces il parait que cela marche .........😛😛 et si tu connait des couples francothai ses beaucoup mieux car ils connaissent toujours une ou deux femme célibataire , quand au filles de bonne familles il faut que tu sache deux choses , la première... être du même niveau sociale point de vue thune et tous se qui va bien ...et l' autre ses que tu n' essaye pas en la marchandise avant le mariage le vrai avec 200 invites dans un grand hotel avec les amies , des amies.....un régal 😎😎
La vie est trop courte pour se réveiller avec des regrets.Aime les gens qui te traitent bien, oublie les autres Crois que tout arrive pour une raison, si tu as une seconde chance attrape la.Personne n'a dit que la vie serait facile, ils ont juste promis qu'elle valait la peine.
En Thaïlande la formule est simple : tu peux rencontrer qui tu veux pour faire ce que tu veux. Les candidates sont nombreuses sur les sites de rencontres, elles proviennent de tous les milieux et tu auras l’embarras du choix.
Mais il faut respecter une règle absolue: Tu restes maître de ton pognon. Aucun achat au nom de Madame, pas de prêt, pas de construction, pas d'achat anonyme comme de l'or ou des bijoux etc...
En suivant ces conseils je peux te garantir une longue vie... de joyeux célibataire. 😏
Il n'y a pas d'ennemi, seulement parfois de bonnes bouffées de haine...
( JR)
hi!moi ca fait 4 ans que je suis avec une ex bar girl de bkk ca se passe relativement bien, quelqu3s disputes mais rien de mechant, nous avons une fille de 20 mois, ma "femme"(pas marier encore) s adapte tres bien en france (nous faisons 2 sejours de plusieurs mois dans chaque pays par an)bref tout roule pour nous , et j'espere pour forever... sa "sister" (cousine)est avec un anglais depuis janvier dernier , rencontrer par agence matrimoniale, il etais venu en thailand une seul fois avan le "meeting' (autant dire peu de temps passer au pds...)et ils se marient en mai!et le mec veut deja acheter terrain et maison sur lesbords du mekong! bon la cousine a l'air d etre serieuse et de vouloir l''ame soeur mais je touve qu'ils vont vite...apres tout si ca marche...
Il y a autant de réponses que d'histoires...certains vivent une belle histoire avec une "bar girl", d'autres échouent, certains vivent une belle histoire avec une fille non issue des bars, certains échouent...certains se font plumer, d'autres ont une vie prospère...
Du coup chacun y va de son avis plus ou moins objectif. Mais la vérité des uns n'est pas celle des autres...
Trois semaines, cela semble très court pour maitriser tous les paramètres nécessaires à un mariage réussi.
"Le touriste apparait comme le principal agent de diffusion du mépris anti touristique. Plus le touriste se voit en miroir de l'autre, plus il le déteste".
il n'y a pas que la Thaïlande pour chercher "une bouddhiste de bonne famille"
3 semaines, ce n'est pas du tout assez pour "paramétrer"(excusez le terme)un mariage.Joel, planque tout dans la chambre(apn, tel, fric...)si tu te rend compte que tu ne veux pas rester avec elle!
Bonjour ;
Merci à tous pour vos messages et vos sages conseils.
Je crois aussi, qu'il faut bien plus que 3 semaines pour construire un début de relation solide et sérieuse.
Je crois qu'une bonne option serait d'être "présenté" à la soeur ou la cousine d'une Thailandaise déjà mariée à un étranger.
Messieurs, si vous avez belles soeurs ou belles cousines esseulées
Après avoir reçu quelques avis en "message privés" et y avoir réfléchi, je prends position et je ne choisirai pas une fille de bars.
Sans vouloir juger personne, j'ai peur que ces filles (pas toutes) aient d'une part "trop vécu", et d'autre part, qu'elles soient trop déçues par le comportement des farangs (en général)
et qu'elles n'aient plus aucun respect pour nous (ce que je peux facilement comprendre)
Encore merci a tous.
Joel
Ne parle pas sans savoir , et ne juge pas trop vite , ne lis pas trop de mp , va en Thaïlande et fait toi ta propre idée.....En Thaïlande le respect sais dans leurs nature .............
La vie est trop courte pour se réveiller avec des regrets.Aime les gens qui te traitent bien, oublie les autres Crois que tout arrive pour une raison, si tu as une seconde chance attrape la.Personne n'a dit que la vie serait facile, ils ont juste promis qu'elle valait la peine.
salut.
tu dis vouloir partir le 15 aout?
vers le 13 aout, essaye de te mettre une balle dans un pied.
ca te fera moins mal et ca te couteras moins cher.
il est deja difficile de s'entendre avec quelqu'un de la même culture, religion, éducation que soi, sans parler de la barrière de la langue.
la grande majorité des mariages euro-thais, ne survivent pas 6 ou 8 mois. (la période moyenne de tonte)
je sait, je suis un peu cru et dur, ca ne fait pas spécialement plaisir, mais ce que je dis est une réalité constatée à de maintes reprises.
ABE salut
il est deja difficile de s'entendre avec quelqu'un de la même culture, religion, éducation que soi, sans parler de la barrière de la langue.
la grande majorité des mariages euro-thais, ne survivent pas 6 ou 8 mois. (la période moyenne de tonte) ......................en + si ses se genre de mp renvoi les a leurs propriétaire , car malhereusement il ne connaisse rien ou pas grand chose ..........Va fait toi ton idée , ses un beau pays et les gens sont gentil si tu ne fréquente pas certaine faune touristique qui croient tous connaitre .............ou pas grand chose .....
La vie est trop courte pour se réveiller avec des regrets.Aime les gens qui te traitent bien, oublie les autres Crois que tout arrive pour une raison, si tu as une seconde chance attrape la.Personne n'a dit que la vie serait facile, ils ont juste promis qu'elle valait la peine.
Ne parle pas sans savoir , et ne juge pas trop vite , ne lis pas trop de mp , va en Thaïlande et fait toi ta propre idée.....En Thaïlande le respect sais dans leurs nature .............
Oui merci, c'est ce que je vais faire.
Je ne juge pas, je ne connais pas, et je verais bien une fois sur place
😎definition en anglais......attention c est une copy right registration( la mienne ).. a lire attentivement pour ceux que ça intéresse
qui sont ces femmes thailandaises qui recherchent des partenaires..... farang .....
An attempt to define the different categories of Thai Women looking for partners
To whom it may concern!
These details have been put together as a result of many enquiries from Internet acquaintances and others who are interested in having various kinds of associations with Thai women. These observations stem from a mixture of personal experience and actual experiences from a variety of responsible/reliable sources.
Basically there are three main categories of Thai Women who, for various reasons, are interested in meeting foreigners but there are exceptions to every rule that was ever made! What follows are simply guidelines and generalidations!
The 1st kind
These are what are commonly known as Bar Girls, Street Walkers and/or Hookers. These are straight forward prostitutes who sell their services for a negotiable fee; which can be for a half hour quick one up to a three month contract or more! This is their permanent job and they have no other form of work/money earning facility. Mostly these girls are not interested in permanent relationships as they enjoy their life – contrary to what many ‘do gooders’ organisations would have you believe! There is a high risk of disease but they are capable of delivering a high level of sexual and companionable satisfaction and are very good at making their clients believe ‘he’ is the best ever. By reputation, they will never be happy with anything resembling a marriage although many foreigners have tried to take them away and re-adjust. Other sources (statistics) suggest that less than 5% are satisfactory!
However for the foreigner who wants a two day/week/month fling with no strings attached, this is where he fits into the Thai scenario
Many of these girls have at least two or three permanent arrangements with foreigners, who visit Thailand once or twice a year and stay for a few weeks. These men have to make regular monthly payments to keep up the relationship but then they are ‘met off the plane’ and it’s straight to bed without having to search in bars or wherever!
The 2nd kind
These are women who are on the border line of prostitution (the gray zone) depending upon how you want to define prostitution. Often times they are office workers, sales girls, receptionists etc. who want a good time once in a while but not necessarily any sort of permanent relationship. Some, some ….. are bored wives whose husbands are working away and just want to be wined and dined once in a while. They are usually not particularly interested in money as such, as long as the foreigner concerned is ‘picking up the bill’ for the restaurant or overnight stay.
This category is a little difficult to find and nearly impossible for the casual visitor because they are not easily recognised and their inclinations are not advertised – but there are exceptions through casual encounters at a bank, pharmacy or department store etc. etc.
The 3rd kind
These are ‘youngish’ but more mature(experienced!) women, who have usually been married before to a Thai, divorced and totally fed up with the attitudes of Thai men! It should be clearly understood that ‘one night stands’ or even longer term stays are definitely NOT acceptable. They usually have a job and so are not in financial difficulties.
These women, are not only very attractive physically but are usually more honest than most, reliable and make very good loving and appreciative companions/wives. Almost always they look for OLDER men because these are considered to be more stable and caring than the younger ones who are more prone to flit about (aka butterflies). The big requirement is that they want their man to be with them ALL the time. They want a permanent relationship – either Thai Style or marriage European style after a reasonable period of getting to know each other by Email, telephone and non sexual visits for a while. They are NOT interested in either of the 1st or 2nd category situations. The criterion is that they must feel sure you will stay with them for ever.
These women are usually in the range of 30 to 40 years of age but are often more attractive than the younger girls because they know how to look after themselves as well as their prospective partners (younger girls rarely know much or care about the latter!).
Women in this category often have one or two children by their first marriage but these are almost always looked after by their Mothers – a perfectly normal Thai custom.
“Why”, you might ask, is this criterion of ‘permanency’ so important to them? Well firstly, they are ‘decent’ women and if the foreigner disappears after a month or even after a year they are then regarded by neigbours and friends as some kind of prostitute – rightly or wrongly! Thai women (men too) care about ‘loss of face’ very very much more that the average foreigner.
Next, in order to have been with someone long term, they would probably have had to stop working and to regain a job at their age in Thailand is NOT easy. Companies (even International ones) much prefer to employ young girls. (lower salaries etc.)
So if you leave them after a period of time, they are left lonely and without any source of income! These are some of the reasons why, this 3rd category of women are choosey and careful about their association with foreigners. However they have a great deal more to offer than their younger contemporaries for any man who is looking for home comforts as well as sex per se!
There is no doubt about the fact that for older foreigners, this 3rd category of young women is by far the best possibility which enjoys a relatively high degree of success. Once you are satisfied and sure of each other, a man will have all the sex and loving attention that you have ever imagined in your wildest dreams in addition to all the comforts of home!
An addendum in praise of the 3rd category of women
For many men (especially Thai males) there is a fixation about the attractions of very young girls which relates to the totally fictional belief that sex with a young little used female organ provides the greatest enjoyment. However in grim reality, the fullest sexual enjoyment comes about when two people possess significant amounts of experience, and can then participate fully in terms of actions and feelings.
There are few, if any, young females in the 3rd category who would possess this kind of experience so that their contribution to sexual satisfaction would be minimal to say in the least!
On the other hand, women possessing more maturity (30 to 40 years of age) will have had much more experience and can therefore provide/achieve much much more to mutual satisfaction.
There is a very true old adage that, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and while tastes in terms of ‘beauty’ may differ widely, in general it will be found that women in the 3rd category range are often even more beautiful and physically attractive because their bodies are more mature with more seductive profiles and they know how to take care of themselves and to keep themselves in shape generally. If you are a foreigner looking for a ‘caring’ person with a sense of responsibility and the ability to make a comfortable home in addition to the sexual aspects, then this category is definitely the one for you to select
The last word – ‘please leave some for us!’
A letter written recently to the Editor of an English Language Thai Newspaper contained a plea from a group of Thai men who were very concerned about the high rates of foreigners marrying Thai women. It seems that statistics, supposedly from the Marriages Registration Offices (Ampur/Kate in Thai) indicate that the numbers of Thai women marrying foreigners are escalating every year!
Bref... après les agences de rencontre avec les femmes russes, il faudrait un buisness avec "de la" thaie.
Cela existe déjà. Tout a déjà été fait dans ce domaine. Par contre, je prédis l'apparition d'agences matrimoniales pour homos sous peu. Les boxeurs de 40 ans vont pouvoir se marier.
Je n’ai pas trop envie de rencontrer une prostituée, mais aimerais rencontrer une fille de bonne famille (bouddhiste) ayant les mêmes buts que moi. Fonder une famille et vivre heureux dans un climat d’amour et de confiance mutuelle.
Je ne sais pas bien par où commencer mes recherches.
Comment et où rencontrer une personne sérieuse ? En ville ou plutôt dans les endroits touristiques ?
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salut rencontrer une fille de bonne famille en Thaïlande , je pense que c'est très difficile voire extrêmement difficile malgré ce que l'on peut penser..
pourquoi? Parce que qui dit (future) conjointe de "bonne famille" dit personne d'origines sociales aisées.
Donc si on est logique, étant donné que la majorité de la classe moyenne en Thaïlande a un revenu inférieur à ce qui se fait en Europe, reste la classe aisée et riche financièrement....en d'autres termes , toi Français de classe moyenne en France tu risques d'avoir des difficultés rien qu'en essayant d'avoir des relations avec ce milieu social.
Donc reste les "futures" conjointes de milieu social plutôt défavorisé ; comme le montre le reportage en question l'Anglais se marie avec une femme qui a peu de ressources financières ; d'où le risque d'inadéquation entre les 2 conjoints .
Ensuite il ne faut pas perdre de vue que pour les filles qui travaillent dans les bars de PAttaya et de Phuket, étant issues de régions pauvres de Thaïlande, le fait de se marier à un étranger leur permet une certaine ascension sociale..
Sinon Thai Boss a fait une parfaite description des choses.
😎definition en anglais......attention c est une copy right registration( la mienne ).. a lire attentivement pour ceux que ça intéresse
qui sont ces femmes thailandaises qui recherchent des partenaires..... farang .....
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je ne sais pas si c'est toi qui a fait le texte mais il me semble que tout est dit, rien à rajouter..😉
Étonnant parfois les termes utilisées: de bonne famille...penses tu que seules les filles de bonne famille tiennent la route? C est fini la lutte des classes. Même en Thaïlande tout le monde se mélangent maintenant. Et je ne parle pas que de relations affectives mais aussi amicales (personnellement je pratique le cyvlisme avec des gens BIEN plus aisés que moi ici et jamais je n'ai ressenti de prise de supériorité...).
Va dans les boites huppés de Bangkok et tu verras di les filles de bonne famille sont si sage^^.
Le forum Thaïlande c'est vraiment le forum du cliché...
Va dans les boites huppés de Bangkok et tu verras les filles de bonne famille sont si sage^^.
😇la n ai pas la question . bien
sur ces filles commes les hommes thai sont la fète et quand ils font la fète et bien c est pire que les fètes de songkran ..avec les bagarres qui s en suivent ..... en tant que farang tu n as pas beaucoup de chance de la marier , mais de coucher avec oui , si tu sais t y prendre oui ......
en fait si tu relis mon petit guide ça rentre dans la catégorie 2 .je n en parle pas car il est extrêmement difficile de les rencontrer , les filles de milliardaire ou millionnaires , il y en a des milliers .... tu les trouvent dans les universités
et quand elles sortent c est en bande ou minimum a deux .....et elles ont toutes des voitures a + d un million de baht ...
j ai un reportage près sur eux( faut je réfléchisse encore ce que je veux en faire ) ....dating a millionaire woman in Bangkok !!!!!et ceci par pur expérience, j ai passé quelques mois dans ce milieu de millionaire et milliardaire thai ....
je ne sais pas si c'est toi qui a fait le texte mais il me semble que tout est dit, rien à rajouter.
oui c est moi , avec un correcteur anglais quand même, un ami écrivain ....il y a aussi ce livre/roman en français
Jeff Molto L expat ...... enfer au paradis tome 1 méfie toi des filles...qui parle de l expérience sentimentale entre un farang et une thailandaise
pas mal thaiboss, mais chercher a definir, le marriage, meme du franco-francais.. il y a de tout, des imbrobable qui fonctionne parfaitement, d'autre qui semble parfait de l'exterieur un vrai desastre..
je connais d'anciennes prostituees marrier qui sont d'exelente femme, forte dans les affaires , bonne mere, maitresse de maison parfaite.. d'autre de "bonne" famille bachelore a l'etranger, qui se comporte pire que des filles de bar des que le mari a le dos tourner..
la seul chose dont on peux etre certain, c'est qu'on ne sait rien avant que l'histoire soit vecue..
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Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi,
On September 1st, we're heading to Kalimantan for six weeks, probably from Pontianak to the Derawan Islands.
I've scoured this site, which is usually my go-to 😉, and others like VoyageForum, but recent info is pretty scarce.
I'd love any tips on places you've visited—our itinerary is still a work in progress.
We're two couples traveling with backpacks, using buses, boats, guesthouses, and homestays.
Thanks in advance!
Hi,
From Malacca to get to Jerantut, is it better to go back to KL and take a bus from there, or take a bus to Tampin and then a train? Any feedback on the "Jungle Train"? (duration, price, comfort, etc.). Thanks
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur
Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral.
Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo).
Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok:
* Orangutan Center
* Malayan Sun Bear Center
* Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan.
Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari.
Jungle walk.
Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari.
Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port.
Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar
5 full days.
* Snorkeling
* Hiking
* Turtle watching
* Wild beaches
* Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland.
Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Hi there,
I’m planning a family trip (my wife and I, both 47, and our two sons, aged 5 and 12) to Malaysia for the last week of June and the first two weeks of July 2027.
We used to love road trips as a couple, then as a trio, but since our second child arrived, we’ve taken a break with "camping village" style trips.
Now feels like the right time to get back to our old habits, while adjusting the pace for the kids.
We’re craving Asia. We’ve been lucky enough to visit Thailand, Indonesia (Bali and Lombok), and Sri Lanka before.
Friends have raved about Malaysia, so we’re definitely tempted.
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Hi everyone,
We’re heading to Flores and then Bali at the end of September.
We’ve already visited both but this time, once we’re in Labuan Bajo, we’d like to take a boat to the Komodo Islands to see the famous Komodo dragons.
I don’t want to sleep on the boat—just a day trip would be perfect.
Does anyone know a reliable and friendly provider to recommend?
Thanks in advance, and have a great summer!
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali.
And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people!
So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops):
- 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud
2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa)
1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...)
- 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces)
- 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai
- 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed)
- 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island)
- 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan)
- 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels.
Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?)
Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?)
Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027:
- Phnom Penh
- Kampong Cham
- Kratie
- Siem Reap
- Battambang
- Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights.
Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above.
Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you?
If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you?
If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Hi there,
We’re planning to travel from Chiang Rai to Luang Prabang next November.
We’d like to take a slow boat from Chiang Khong—or rather from Huay Xai in Laos—with an overnight stop in Pakbeng.
Could you let us know if the boat still leaves Huay Xai in the late morning? If so, what time roughly, and what’s the price for the trip?
Thanks for your help!
Alod
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations:
We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights:
The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1:
We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2:
This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3:
With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4:
Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings.
We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops.
In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5:
Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6:
This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8:
Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10:
On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12:
We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines.
Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment.
We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15:
From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP).
We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning.
We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise.
Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16:
We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town.
It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view.
We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise.
In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911.
On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city.
We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17:
Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning.
Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in.
The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances:
In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary:
Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional.
Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
So, my flight tickets have just been booked for a trip to Cambodia from November 4th to 27th, 2025.
I’ll be traveling solo and want to explore this amazing country while getting a bit off the beaten path.
I’m arriving in Phnom Penh and also departing from Phnom Penh.
My goal is to travel as much as possible by bus and scooter.
What itinerary would you recommend?
What are the must-do things?
I’m open to all tips and info.
Thanks in advance for your help and responses.
We got back enchanted from a 6-week trip to Cambodia!
Our itinerary: Kampot - Kampong Chhnang - Battambang - Siem Reap - Kampong Cham - Sen Monorom (Mondulkiri) - Banlung (Ratanakiri) - Kratie - Kampong Thom - Phnom Penh.
We traveled by bus, minivan, boat (between Battambang and Siem Reap), overnight bus, scooter, tuk-tuk, and rickshaw for shorter distances. We stayed in guesthouses, homestays, and even in the jungle during a trek.
While the Angkor temples are fabulous, it’s the people you should visit Cambodia for—the "Land of Smiles" truly lives up to its nickname! Tourists gather in Angkor but are quite rare elsewhere, even though the country is easy to travel around.
I won’t describe our trip in detail but instead highlight a few favorite moments.
From Kampot, don’t hesitate to head out around 6 AM to see the fishermen return and their wives selling their catch (just 10 minutes away by the coast). Guaranteed picturesque!
In Battambang, known for its food scene, we discovered a cooking class with Smokin’ Pot (authentic Khmer cooking class). They pick you up from your guesthouse to shop for ingredients (we made fish amok and beef lok lak) at their village market, then cook and eat together. A private class—just the two of us! They also send the recipes via WhatsApp as a PDF. +855 12 821 400
In Siem Reap, I can recommend a francophone tuk-tuk driver who was very attentive to our wishes. We visited tourist spots but also more remote villages and local grilled-pork restaurants with him. He’s a wealth of information about local life, and chatting with him was a real pleasure—we left with regret! You can reach him on WhatsApp: Vung Hem, +855 96 614 0146.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Mondulkiri. Don’t expect a super dense jungle—it looks more like a forest similar to ours. But Nara, our Bunong ethnic guide, made the experience adventurous and ultimately very immersive! WhatsApp +855 86 630 489
Bee Bee’s Chalets homestay: If you pass through Banlung in Ratanakiri, we *loved* this family and their budget-friendly bungalows. Playing Uno, enjoying Nita’s cooking (ask for her fish amok—amazing!), it was a true homestay experience! Contact Nita on WhatsApp: +855 88 818 5525.
In Kratie, rent a scooter and follow the Mekong north for 40 km at your own pace. Being so close to the locals was a treat! Same goes for heading south if you have time.
Kampong Thom: Head 25 km out to visit the pre-Angkorian temples of Sambor Prei Kuk. Around a hundred monuments spread across three sites… and hardly anyone there!
A few practical tips:
Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred.
PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront).
Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
We’re planning our second trip to Thailand (2 weeks on-site, late April/early May) as a family with our 5- and 7-year-olds.
On our first trip, we visited Bangkok, Ayutthaya, the River Kwai, Koh Lipe, Koh Phi Phi, and Khao Lak. We especially loved Koh Phi Phi for its limestone cliffs and lush vegetation, as well as Koh Lipe for its crystal-clear waters and snorkeling.
This time, I’m thinking of spending 7 days on the islands. I was considering Koh Tao and Koh Phangan. We’d like some scenery, snorkeling right from the beach, and a bit of atmosphere—but not too much (just enough to grab dinner in the evening).
For the other part of the trip, we’re torn between Chiang Mai and Khao Sok. One or the other… or both? We don’t want to rush, but we’re really nature-focused, so we won’t be hitting too many temples…
Hi there, I’ll be on vacation in Malaysia in November and plan to spend 5 days in Penang. After that, I’d like to visit some temples and places in Butterworth or nearby, and also explore the city. Since I usually get around on foot, which neighborhood would be best for me—meaning within a 30-minute walk of attractions, street food stalls, bus lines, etc.? Thanks in advance for your help!
Françoise
Hello, it’s been a while since I last asked for your help on this forum—I’ve really missed it! I hope you’re all doing well, whether you're new or returning members.
I’m planning a trip from February 6 to 18, 2027, with my sister (we’re 47 and 50—time flies!). I’ve got my eye on a flight from Paris that lands in Bangkok on February 7 at 3 PM, with a return flight from Bangkok on February 18 at noon.
My sister has never been to this destination, and it’ll be her first time in Asia. Her priorities: beaches, sunshine, and cocktails by the shore. For me, I love that too, but I also enjoy exploring, nature, forests, and a bit of comfort (mixing guesthouses and higher-end hotels with pools). A little evening entertainment would be great, but not too much—good cocktails in a nice atmosphere rather than a rave party ;-). And I can’t help but dream of taking her on a little trek through a tropical forest (guaranteed memories and laughs, though she might curse me at the time) and showing her some karst landscapes.
I’ve been to Thailand before, but it was 15 years ago...
The idea is to give her a taste of Bangkok for 1 or 2 nights, a few days on an island (but which one...?), a tropical forest excursion with 1 or 2 nights on-site (Khao Sok?), and then back to Bangkok.
For the "main" island, even after reading the *Guide du Routard*, I’m still undecided. It’s hard to find a place that ticks all the boxes without feeling as crowded as the French Riviera in August: Koh Lanta? Khao Lak (though it’s not an island)? Koh Tao (I could maybe get my PADI certification, but I’m afraid she’d get bored, and it might be better to save that for a solo trip)? Koh Yao Yai (I worry we’d be bored in the evenings)? What a dilemma!
Thank you if you’ve read this far! Feel free to share any advice—it’ll all be warmly welcomed.
Here’s a rough outline of the itinerary (I’d rather skip a night in Bangkok if needed):
· Saturday, February 6, 2027: departure (overnight flight)
· Sunday, February 7, 2027: arrival at 3 PM, probably at the hotel by 6 PM, evening in Bangkok (overnight in Bangkok)
· Monday, February 8, 2027: day in Bangkok (Wat Pho and a floating market?) (overnight in Bangkok)
· Tuesday, February 9, 2027: travel to Koh Lanta or another island (flight to Phuket or Krabi?) (overnight on island "x")
· Wednesday, February 10, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x")
· Thursday, February 11, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x")
· Friday, February 12, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x")
· Saturday, February 13, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x")
· Sunday, February 14, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x")
· Monday, February 15, 2027: travel to Khao Sok—nighttime excursion to Khao Sok (overnight in Khao Sok)
· Tuesday, February 16, 2027: exploration and hike in Khao Sok (overnight in Khao Sok)
· Wednesday, February 17, 2027: return trip to Bangkok (overnight in Bangkok)
· Thursday, February 18, 2027: return flight to Paris at noon
I’m planning a trip to Cambodia and was set on visiting the Ratanakiri region, which seemed to match what we love most in terms of landscapes: forests, jungle, greenery...
However, as I started looking into the area, I read that deforestation there is massive, and some of the info on the topic is years old—the situation hasn’t improved since, unfortunately.
So my question is: is Ratanakiri still worth visiting, and does it justify the long travel time and distance to get there?
I’ve seen that jungle treks are possible, but from experience, I know guides sometimes hesitate to venture deep into the forest and stick to shorter walks along the edges of parks.
Hi there,
I’ve found so many tips and reviews on this forum, so it’s my turn to contribute a little.
We spent just over two weeks with our family, with the following itinerary:
- Hanoi: 5 days
- Halong Bay: 3 days and 2 nights
- Tam Coc: 3 days
- Mai Chau: 2 days
- Sapa: 3 days
We got around by bike, scooter, Grab, and bus.
Our main accommodations were homestays and hotels in Hanoi.
We visited lots of museums, temples, and neighborhoods in Hanoi.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Sapa with May, a Hmong local, without going through an agency.
A few small regrets: the weather was overcast, and we couldn’t make it to Fansipan, but nothing major 😅. We also couldn’t find transport to get from Sapa to Mu Cang Chai.
Other than that, this trip will stay in our memories for the kindness of the Vietnamese people, the connections we made, the food (street food, homestays...), the coffee 😋, the landscapes, and how easy it was to get around...
Our goal was to take our time and focus only on a small part of northern Vietnam.
If you need any tips or recommendations, don’t hesitate to ask.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Cédric.
Hi there, we’re landing at Hanoi Airport and would like to head straight to Cao Bang without going into Hanoi. Does anyone know if there are buses that go directly from the airport to Cao Bang (especially in the early afternoon)? Thanks in advance!
Hi everyone,
I’m currently working on a 30-day itinerary for May/June 2027.
10 days in eastern Java (Malang, Bromo, waterfalls, Meru Beriti Park, Banyuwangi, and Ijen), a short transit in Ubud for a few days, then Flores before heading back to Jakarta.
We’ll spend 15 days in Flores (the classic route: Moni, Bajawa, Riung, Ruteng, ending in Labuan Bajo).
I’d love some firsthand feedback on flights to Maumere or Ende from Bali Denpasar. I know there are no direct routes and that you have to connect through Labuan Bajo or Timor (I think), which isn’t an issue in itself.
But I’ve read here and there that flights to these destinations can be delayed—or worse, canceled—and that it’s better to fly in and out of Labuan Bajo, which isn’t exactly ideal...
Thanks for any tips or experiences you can share!
hi everyone,
I want to travel in the north for 3 weeks in September-October 2026 to meet ethnic minorities, photograph mountain rice terraces and their harvest, and revisit Halong Bay—but maybe Lan Ha Bay instead. Can you recommend one or more local agencies?
Thanks, and happy holidays!
I need some expert advice on these two destinations for a 15-day trip. We land in KL and plan to stay for 2 days before heading to Borneo and finishing with an island for snorkeling.
For those who’ve been, what are your must-sees?
We were thinking of spending the last 3 days on the Perhentian Islands, unless you’ve got another island to recommend near Borneo.
Thanks for your tips and help!
I’d love to get some feedback on our itinerary—it’s probably pretty basic! This is our second trip to Asia and our first to Indonesia. We have three kids aged 20, 18, and 12. We land in Jakarta at 4 PM, spend 3 nights/2 days there, then take the train to Yogyakarta for 3 nights/2 days, followed by the train to Surabaya for 2 nights/1 day, then the train to Bromo for 1 day/1 night, a private driver to Ijen for 2 nights/2 days, then on to Bali (Ubud) for 4 nights/3 days, followed by Gili Air for 3 nights/2 days, Senggigi (Lombok) for 2 nights, and finally 5 nights in Kuta. I’m considering cutting the 2 nights in Senggigi to just keep Kuta and extend it to 7 nights. In Lombok, I’m not sure how to get around since I’m not comfortable with scooters... Your thoughts on all of this, and any advice, are more than welcome—don’t hesitate!
For those wondering why cities like Jakarta and Surabaya: we don’t often get the chance to visit big Asian cities, so we wanted to include that discovery in our trip. The trains between Jakarta and Yogyakarta, Surabaya and Probolinggo are booked. The return flight from Lombok to Jakarta is also set. Accommodations are booked but flexible (same for the trains).
Hi everyone,
I’m looking for addresses for guesthouses or, even better, houseboats or rafting houses on the River Kwai, between Kanchanaburi and Sangkhlaburi, to spend a few weeks contemplating this beautiful river.
Thanks for your suggestions!
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Hi there,
we’re currently in Mai Chau and tomorrow we’re hitting the road back to Hanoi to head up toward Bac Ha and Sapa.
We haven’t really had a set plan since we arrived—we’ve already done the Halong Bay on land and by sea.
I’ve got 2 free days before heading to Bac Ha and Sapa.
Any tips?
Thanks, and looking forward to hearing from you.
Hi fellow travelers,
First trip to Vietnam.
We’ll be arriving in Ho Chi Minh City during Tet.
Is it complicated to find accommodation and get around during this period?
Any tips would be welcome.
Thanks for your replies.