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Tomber en amour avec les filles à Phuket
by Machtock
This discussion is in French, the community’s main language.
Pfffffffff ! Tu vis ta vie comme tu le sens mais par pitié ne l'impose pas aux autres !
J'ai une soeur qui a 33 ans, qui a 2 gamins et un mari adorable avec qui elle est marié depuis 9 ans...
D'après ce que tu me dis, ma soeur à tout faux et n'a rien compris à la vie et elle est emmerdé à longueur de journée... Ecoute je lui ferai part de ta vision des choses à la prochaine occasion, comme ça, ça lui donnera envie d'aller voir ailleurs et de tromper son mari.
Pareil que dans mon précédent post : évite de dire "c'est comme ça est pas autrement" ou "tout est blanc, tout est noir et ce qui ne l'ont pas compris ne sont pas dans le monde réel"
C'est un peu limite comme raisonnement...
Mano
"Faites que vos rêves dévorent votre vie avant que votre vie ne dévore vos rêves" Saint Exupéry
"Faites que vos rêves dévorent votre vie avant que votre vie ne dévore vos rêves" Saint Exupéry
Pfffffffff ! Tu vis ta vie comme tu le sens mais par pitié ne l'impose pas aux autres !
J'ai une soeur qui a 33 ans, qui a 2 gamins et un mari adorable avec qui elle est marié depuis 9 ans...
D'après ce que tu me dis, ma soeur à tout faux et n'a rien compris à la vie et elle est emmerdé à longueur de journée... Ecoute je lui ferai part de ta vision des choses à la prochaine occasion, comme ça, ça lui donnera envie d'aller voir ailleurs et de tromper son mari.
Pareil que dans mon précédent post : évite de dire "c'est comme ça est pas autrement" ou "tout est blanc, tout est noir et ce qui ne l'ont pas compris ne sont pas dans le monde réel"
C'est un peu limite comme raisonnement...
et le tiens de raisonnement il est comment?je donne mon avis et j'ai le droit de penser differement de toi non.j'impose rien par contre toi tu n'acceptes pas que l on pense differement de toi. aller va si vous etes content de venter les merites de thailandaises "bien"de "bonne famille" qui sont bien souvent bien pire que les prostitues, un jour peut etre vous tomberez du haut de vos illusions. ok chacun voit midi a sa porte comme on dit.
et le tiens de raisonnement il est comment?je donne mon avis et j'ai le droit de penser differement de toi non.j'impose rien par contre toi tu n'acceptes pas que l on pense differement de toi. aller va si vous etes content de venter les merites de thailandaises "bien"de "bonne famille" qui sont bien souvent bien pire que les prostitues, un jour peut etre vous tomberez du haut de vos illusions. ok chacun voit midi a sa porte comme on dit.
une fille fiable, ca veut dire quoi?
ben oui, c'est certains, toutes des s...pes !!! 😠
en france, comme en thailande, en 2007 la vie en couple n'est plus possible, plus adapte a notre epoque
pas du tout d'accord, les couples cassent plus vite parce que beaucoup ne prennent pas la peine de réfléchir AVANT
ceux qui pratiquent les short time ils l ont compris ca et au moins ils sont pas emmerdes,
en tout cas, toi, tu es sacrément bien adapté à la génération du "tout à jeter"
ben oui, c'est certains, toutes des s...pes !!! 😠
en france, comme en thailande, en 2007 la vie en couple n'est plus possible, plus adapte a notre epoque
pas du tout d'accord, les couples cassent plus vite parce que beaucoup ne prennent pas la peine de réfléchir AVANT
ceux qui pratiquent les short time ils l ont compris ca et au moins ils sont pas emmerdes,
en tout cas, toi, tu es sacrément bien adapté à la génération du "tout à jeter"
mon cher ottlnpac je suis d'accord avec toi au moins sur une chose(comme quoi) oui trop de couples de nos jours ne reflechissent pas assez avant de s'aventurer dans des mariages et la conceptions d'enfants, ah c'est facile de divorcer(et ce sont eux la generation tout jeter comme tu dis)
moi non je suis logique avec moi meme connaissant mon independance naturelle je m'engage pas dans des relations et encore moins dans des progenitures qui en serait les premieres victimes(j'suis logique avec moi meme).
a noter pour en revenir a la thailande que beaucoup de filles qui travaillent dans les bar beer et gogo viennent de l'isan, maries tres tot(trop tot), 1 gosse, 2gosses le mari(qui ne sait pas la chance qu il a)se casse, et voila plus le choix faut aller gagner sa vie a bkk, pattaya ou phuket.c'est aussi pour ca que je les respecte et qu on arrete de les traiter vulgairement de putes.
maintenant sil y en a qui de nos jours arrivent encore a construire une vie de couple tant mieux pour eux je les felicite.
Quand je disais : "toutes des s...pes", c'était du second degré😉 (je suis une femme.... lol et j'entends ce genre de réflexion depuis des années). Dans le temps, ça m'énervait, maintenant, je réponds "T'as raison, duc... !"😊
Quant au fait de ne pas t'engager dans une relation ou faire d'enfants, je respecte tout à fait ton choix qui, à mon humble avis, est très judicieux puisque tu te sais très indépendant. En fait, ce qui m'a fait tiquer, c'est que tu dises "ceux là ont compris", ce qui laisse entendre que les autres (ceux qui désirent construire une relation de couple) sont des ânes... et là, je me dois de réagir, chacun ayant le droit de vivre et de concevoir sa vie comme il l'entend à partir du moment où cela ne fait pas de tort à autrui.
Sur ce, je t'accorde que le célibat, quand on est capable de vivre seul et de s'assumer, c'est vraiment une très bonne situation (j'ai testé les deux, je sais de quoi je parle)😉
Quant au fait de ne pas t'engager dans une relation ou faire d'enfants, je respecte tout à fait ton choix qui, à mon humble avis, est très judicieux puisque tu te sais très indépendant. En fait, ce qui m'a fait tiquer, c'est que tu dises "ceux là ont compris", ce qui laisse entendre que les autres (ceux qui désirent construire une relation de couple) sont des ânes... et là, je me dois de réagir, chacun ayant le droit de vivre et de concevoir sa vie comme il l'entend à partir du moment où cela ne fait pas de tort à autrui.
Sur ce, je t'accorde que le célibat, quand on est capable de vivre seul et de s'assumer, c'est vraiment une très bonne situation (j'ai testé les deux, je sais de quoi je parle)😉
et là, je me dois de réagir, chacun ayant le droit de vivre et de concevoir sa vie comme il l'entend à partir du moment où cela ne fait pas de tort à autrui.
Tout à fait d'accord, et quand je vois des propos d'HonlyTonler disans je cite : "aller va si vous etes content de venter les merites de thailandaises "bien"de "bonne famille" qui sont bien souvent bien pire que les prostitues, un jour peut etre vous tomberez du haut de vos illusions. ok chacun voit midi a sa porte comme on dit. "
ça sous entend quoi là ? que toutes les Thailandaises sont des manipulatrice qui n'ont aucun scrupule et aucune notion d'amour ?Faut arrêter avec ce genre de propos rabaissant et réducteur à entendre ça une "vraie" femme aimante n'existe pas en Thailande...
Tout à fait d'accord, et quand je vois des propos d'HonlyTonler disans je cite : "aller va si vous etes content de venter les merites de thailandaises "bien"de "bonne famille" qui sont bien souvent bien pire que les prostitues, un jour peut etre vous tomberez du haut de vos illusions. ok chacun voit midi a sa porte comme on dit. "
ça sous entend quoi là ? que toutes les Thailandaises sont des manipulatrice qui n'ont aucun scrupule et aucune notion d'amour ?Faut arrêter avec ce genre de propos rabaissant et réducteur à entendre ça une "vraie" femme aimante n'existe pas en Thailande...
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Celui qui pose une question risque cinq minutes d'avoir l'air bête. Celui qui ne pose pas de question restera bête toute sa vie.
Paix et tranquillité, voilà le bonheur.
Celui qui pose une question risque cinq minutes d'avoir l'air bête. Celui qui ne pose pas de question restera bête toute sa vie.
Paix et tranquillité, voilà le bonheur.
connaissant mon independance naturelle je m'engage pas dans des relations et encore moins dans des progenitures qui en serait les premieres victimes,
beaucoup de filles viennent de l'isan, maries tres tot(trop tot), 1 gosse, 2gosses le mari(qui ne sait pas la chance qu il a) se casse, et voila, c'est aussi pour ca que je les respecte
maintenant sil y en a qui de nos jours arrivent encore a construire une vie de couple tant mieux pour eux je les felicite.
beau point de vue d'un independant,
beaucoup de filles viennent de l'isan, maries tres tot(trop tot), 1 gosse, 2gosses le mari(qui ne sait pas la chance qu il a) se casse, et voila, c'est aussi pour ca que je les respecte
maintenant sil y en a qui de nos jours arrivent encore a construire une vie de couple tant mieux pour eux je les felicite.
beau point de vue d'un independant,
je suis une femme....
pas de sexisisme stp 😛
pas de sexisisme stp 😛
bonjour Romain,
toi on vois que tu est amoureux, il est vrai qu'il y a de quoi, de plus une personne qui adore prendre les enfants en photos, ne peux être que bonne,
sans generaliser, des manipulatrices (teurs) il y en a dans tout les pays du mondes,
simplement dans les pays a revenus + que modeste, ou il faut se battre pour sa survie et surtout celle des siens, tu en trouveras un peut plus,
le tout c'est d'être lucide dans le choix de la personne et de la vie que l'on souhaite menée
je suis une femme....
pas de sexisisme stp 😛
Polnaref à chanter "" Je suis un homme, je suis un homme "" bientôt on verra Ottinpac dans un nouvel album chanter "" Je suis une femme, je suis une femme la la la la ""😉
pas de sexisisme stp 😛
Polnaref à chanter "" Je suis un homme, je suis un homme "" bientôt on verra Ottinpac dans un nouvel album chanter "" Je suis une femme, je suis une femme la la la la ""😉
@+ , Marco .
On aura jamais assez de temps pour tout ce qu'on veut découvrir et comprendre dans nos voyages qu'on se le dise , Amis voyageurs .
Regarde le post au dessus, 😉 bien sur je plaisante comme d'habitude
@+ , Marco .
On aura jamais assez de temps pour tout ce qu'on veut découvrir et comprendre dans nos voyages qu'on se le dise , Amis voyageurs .
Mais tout à fait ! Mais tout à fait ! Je ne suis pas d'accord avec toi mais je respecte ton choix. Comme je te le dis en début de message : Vis ta vie comme tu veux mais n'impose pas ton style de vie aux autres.
Ce qui me gène dans ce que tu dis c'est : "vous l'avez pas compris ca encore... " Et que toi tu as tout compris, il faut que tout le monde fasse comme toi, sinon il sont naïfs et bébettes...
C'est franchement un manque de respect pour ceux qui conçoivent leur vie différement de toi. Et si je ne suis pas d'accord avec toi, je tolère ce que tu dis et ce que tu vis, ce qui ne semble pas être ton cas vis-à-vis de ceux qui ne sont pas comme toi.
Heureusement, tu dis dans ton second post : chacun vois midi à sa porte...
Et oui de nos jours il y en a encore qui construisent des vies de couples et qui même se reproduisent !!!! Incroyable non ?
Mano
"Faites que vos rêves dévorent votre vie avant que votre vie ne dévore vos rêves" Saint Exupéry
"Faites que vos rêves dévorent votre vie avant que votre vie ne dévore vos rêves" Saint Exupéry
Kapoue: Et oui de nos jours il y en a encore qui construisent des vies de couples et qui même se reproduisent !!!! Incroyable non ?
Je me demande bien si tu respectes la vie de famille, comparer les êtres humains à des animaux en rut, c'est une première sur Vf
Je me demande bien si tu respectes la vie de famille, comparer les êtres humains à des animaux en rut, c'est une première sur Vf
😉 héhéhé ! C'est ton interprétation
Faut pas trop extrapoler quand même.
Je n'ai pas comparé des être humains à des animaux et je ne crois pas que ce serait une première sur vf. Mais, si tu prends ton dictionnaire "se reproduire" est applicable aussi bien aux homo sapiens qu'aux autres créatures. 😉
Mano
"Faites que vos rêves dévorent votre vie avant que votre vie ne dévore vos rêves" Saint Exupéry
"Faites que vos rêves dévorent votre vie avant que votre vie ne dévore vos rêves" Saint Exupéry
je suis une femme....
pas de sexisisme stp 😛
c'est pas du sexisme, c'est un fait... et je le revendique ! 😏 non mais !!! 😏
ça sous entend quoi là ? que toutes les Thailandaises sont des manipulatrice qui n'ont aucun scrupule et aucune notion d'amour ?
Ha ha ha... tu peux remplacer Thailandaises par Femmes et tu auras le point de vue (devant les copains) de beaucoup d'hommes... et puis, derrière, quand ils se retrouvent tout seuls ou en compagnie d'une femme le discours change radicalement.
Ce discours change d'ailleurs régulièrement et selon les circonstances, qu'il vienne d'un homme ou d'une femme : amoureux(se) : "mais non, tous les hommes (femmes) ne sont pas des sal..." plaqué(e) : "tou(te)s des sal... !" bien dans sa vie de couple : "le(la) mien(ne), c'est différent, il(elle) a ses défauts, mais ce n'est pas si grave" bien célibataire : "il y en a de toutes les sortes, le tout c'est de trouver celui(celle) qui convient"
et c'est reparti pour un tour... finalement, du Nord au Sud et de l'Est à l'Ouest, on est tou(te)s pareil(le)s 😉
Ha ha ha... tu peux remplacer Thailandaises par Femmes et tu auras le point de vue (devant les copains) de beaucoup d'hommes... et puis, derrière, quand ils se retrouvent tout seuls ou en compagnie d'une femme le discours change radicalement.
Ce discours change d'ailleurs régulièrement et selon les circonstances, qu'il vienne d'un homme ou d'une femme : amoureux(se) : "mais non, tous les hommes (femmes) ne sont pas des sal..." plaqué(e) : "tou(te)s des sal... !" bien dans sa vie de couple : "le(la) mien(ne), c'est différent, il(elle) a ses défauts, mais ce n'est pas si grave" bien célibataire : "il y en a de toutes les sortes, le tout c'est de trouver celui(celle) qui convient"
et c'est reparti pour un tour... finalement, du Nord au Sud et de l'Est à l'Ouest, on est tou(te)s pareil(le)s 😉
bientôt on verra Ottinpac dans un nouvel album chanter "" Je suis une femme, je suis une femme la la la la ""😉
Promis, si on se croise à Phuket, on ira au karaoké 😏😏
Promis, si on se croise à Phuket, on ira au karaoké 😏😏
Merci à toutes et à tous pour tout vos avis et conseils, je suis toujours en contact avec mon amie, je vais laisser le temps au temps, de toutes façons, aucune histoire d'amour n'est simple la seule chose qui compte c'est de vivre de bons moments, la vie fera le reste, merci à tout le monde.
il y a eu ici beaucoup d'avis et de conseils, si tu veux le mien, le voici : teste, teste, teste. Teste la pour voir si elle est intéressé par l'argent, à ses réponses tu pourras te faire une opinion plus fine. P.ex. si tu l'a par tel, pose lui la question toute simple : veux-tu que je t'envoie de l'argent ? et d'autres petites questions dans la conversation anodyne afin de voir sa réaction. Aussi, très important, c'est où elle travaille, quelle est sa formation, comment est sa famille ? est-elle vraiment originaire de Phuket, si non, est elle venue à Phuket pour trouver un étranger ? fait-elle des plans sur la comète style elle te parle mariage, qu'elle voudrait visiter l'europe, même sous ce qui semble une plaisanterie etc... bref, tous ces petits détails rassemblés te donneront une idée plus claire. Déjà en étant prêt d'elle ce n'est pas simple, alors avec la distance c'est bien plus compliqué.
il y a eu ici beaucoup d'avis et de conseils, si tu veux le mien, le voici : teste, teste, teste. Teste la pour voir si elle est intéressé par l'argent, à ses réponses tu pourras te faire une opinion plus fine. P.ex. si tu l'a par tel, pose lui la question toute simple : veux-tu que je t'envoie de l'argent ? et d'autres petites questions dans la conversation anodyne afin de voir sa réaction. Aussi, très important, c'est où elle travaille, quelle est sa formation, comment est sa famille ? est-elle vraiment originaire de Phuket, si non, est elle venue à Phuket pour trouver un étranger ? fait-elle des plans sur la comète style elle te parle mariage, qu'elle voudrait visiter l'europe, même sous ce qui semble une plaisanterie etc... bref, tous ces petits détails rassemblés te donneront une idée plus claire. Déjà en étant prêt d'elle ce n'est pas simple, alors avec la distance c'est bien plus compliqué.
Quand l'eau baisse les fourmis mangent les poissons; quand l'eau monte les poissons mangent les fourmis.
Il n'y a que le changement qui ne change pas.
🙂Oh non, la pluie risque de tomber😛
🙂Oh non, la pluie risque de tomber😛
Tu en redemanderais... sans vantardise aucune, je chante très bien...
Tu en redemanderais... sans vantardise aucune, je chante très bien...
🙂Oh non, la pluie risque de tomber😛
Tu en redemanderais... sans vantardise aucune, je chante très bien...
Bon ok je serai ton imprésario et Mastegoupil le garde du corps, on prendra pas cher .😏😏😏
Tu en redemanderais... sans vantardise aucune, je chante très bien...
Bon ok je serai ton imprésario et Mastegoupil le garde du corps, on prendra pas cher .😏😏😏
@+ , Marco .
On aura jamais assez de temps pour tout ce qu'on veut découvrir et comprendre dans nos voyages qu'on se le dise , Amis voyageurs .
Bon ok je serai ton imprésario et Mastegoupil le garde du corps, on prendra pas cher .😏😏😏
Oki doc, reste plus qu'à trouver les fonds et les autorisations et on ouvre un piano-bar pour les vieux farangs😉
Oki doc, reste plus qu'à trouver les fonds et les autorisations et on ouvre un piano-bar pour les vieux farangs😉
en fait je suis tomber en amour d'une superbe thailandaise a hua hin.superbe non?
en fait je suis tomber en amour d'une superbe thailandaise a hua hin.superbe non?
CQFD... et ton discours va vite changer.... 😎 Good luck !
CQFD... et ton discours va vite changer.... 😎 Good luck !
🙂Je m'attendais qu'elle fasse du cheval sur la longue plage de Hua Hin😛
en fait je suis tomber en amour d'une superbe thailandaise a hua hin.superbe non?
elle dit Kha ou Krap ?
elle dit Kha ou Krap ?
Quand l'eau baisse les fourmis mangent les poissons; quand l'eau monte les poissons mangent les fourmis.
Il n'y a que le changement qui ne change pas.
en fait je suis tomber en amour d'une superbe thailandaise a hua hin.superbe non?
haï ! 😮
haï ! 😮
Il y a environ 2 300 000 francaises et francais enregistres dans les ambassade de France. Et bien plus de 50% sont des couples binationaux.
En Europe et donc en France, les vies communes entre "franco-etranger" sont en constantes augmentations...
Pourquoi un tel phenomene ?
Les transports modernes seraient-ils en cause ? 😊
Pourquoi un tel phenomene ?
Les transports modernes seraient-ils en cause ? 😊
en fait je suis tomber en amour d'une superbe thailandaise a hua hin.superbe non?
elle dit Kha ou Krap ?
😏😏😏 J'ai failli m'etrangler avec ma singha 😄😄😄
elle dit Kha ou Krap ?
😏😏😏 J'ai failli m'etrangler avec ma singha 😄😄😄
Khun maa jak nai krap?
"être loin d'ailleurs, c'est être ici" (P. Geluk)
"être loin d'ailleurs, c'est être ici" (P. Geluk)
En Europe et donc en France, les vies communes entre "franco-etranger" sont en constantes augmentations...
Pourquoi un tel phenomene ?
L'analyse pourra être intéressante si tu as des pourcentages plus précis : homme français - femme étrangère femme française - homme étranger âge de l'homme et de la femme selon leur nationalité couple franco-étranger, oui, mais pourcentage franco-européen, franco - américain du Nord, du Sud, franco-asiatique, franco-africain du Nord, du Sud...
Tu as entr'ouvert la porte... go!
L'analyse pourra être intéressante si tu as des pourcentages plus précis : homme français - femme étrangère femme française - homme étranger âge de l'homme et de la femme selon leur nationalité couple franco-étranger, oui, mais pourcentage franco-européen, franco - américain du Nord, du Sud, franco-asiatique, franco-africain du Nord, du Sud...
Tu as entr'ouvert la porte... go!
Bonsoir, Ce récit n'est pas mon "histoire"....je relate simplement et "informe" ceux qui voudraient "s'investir" dans une relation (amoureuse) tout en "investissant" financièrement (en Thaïlande) avec l'élue de son coeur... O! combien cet homme a dû souffrir pour un amour désavoué... Heureusement la morale est sauve ! Happy End.... Personnellement, je garde un goût amer d'une relation avec une très jolie fille "officiant" à Patong (free lance), en provenance de l'Issan rurale comme les 3/4 des filles...No comment, il y aurait beaucoup à dire...Cependant, par pudeur et par respect je n'en dirais rien. Nota: J'ai consulté un excellent rapport (assez récent) rédigé par un sociologue, celui-ci s'était interressé aux moeurs et à la prostitution en Thailande, c'est éloquent de précisions et de justesse ! RECIT J'ai rencontré celle qui est devenu mon épouse à Phuket, en allant diner seul, comme tous les soirs depuis une semaine. J'étais là-bas pour faire de la plongé et des photos sous marine. C'est à 100 m en sortant de mon hôtel qu'a eu lieu cette rencontre, elle ne parlait que le Thaï, pas de tatouage et habillée ordinaire. Nous avons vécu en France, puis nous avons déménagé définitivement dans son village en 2001
J'ai du me mettre au Thaï rapidement.
Cela fait déjà six ans que je ne suis pas rentré en France, j'habite à Phitsanulok. Les lois Thaïlandaises ne sont pas les mêmes qu'en Europe, la propriété du sol agricole peut appartenir seulement à une personne de nationalité thaïlandaise, c'est un gros hic, donc pour résumer et faire simple, tout ce que j'ai acheté est au nom de Madame, adieu veau, vache, cochon, etc. ... Pour tout le reste c'est pareil, la maison, les voitures etc. Madame est partie faire du ''busness'' à Pattaya en abandonnant son fils, ses parents, la bananeraie, la maison et bien sûre moi-même. En regardant tous les papiers, (écrit en Thaï bien sûre), j'ai découvert qu'une partie du terrain de la bananeraie était au nom de son père, une autre au nom de sa mère et encore une à son nom, la perfide ! Pourquoi pas tout à son nom ? Les voitures pareilles à son nom, la perfide ! Pour la maison, le terrain au nom de son père, le bâtiment à son nom, la perfide ! Pourquoi pas tout à son nom ? . Je suis resté trois mois au village, (200 âmes, le village de cultivateurs..., il faut en avoir de l'AMOUR pour sa dulcinée !). Après son départ, j'avais encore un peu d'espoir, mais en vain car là où elle était partie, elle a rencontrer des supers perfide , qui ont dû lui expliquer qu'elle pouvait devenir super perfide , c'est là qu'elle a mis fin à la carte grise de la voiture dont je me servais ! La super perfiiiiide ! . Les lettres, comme celles de ma fille, ne m'ont jamais été transmises, interceptés, comme une fois j'ai retrouvé au fond d'un tiroir sa carte postale avec une traduction en Thaï, elle datait de plus d'un an, la perfide !. Je vous en passe des vertes et des pas mûrs dans tous les genres. J'ai fait appel à un avocat pour demander le divorce, le salopard s'est mis d'accord avec la super perfide et a touché des deux côtés. J'ai donc changé d'avocat qui, lui, a promis de lui piquer jusqu'à sa dernière petite culotte. Entre-temps j'ai une voiture 20 000 km qui est bâché et que je ne peux pas me servir. J'ai dû, donc, acheter une nouvelle voiture, la super perfide ! Et je suis en train de faire reconstruire une maison et le tout, cette fois ci, bien sûr à mon nom. Sinon point de vue cœur, j'ai une nouvelle copine. Quand j'ai rencontré Liam, elle avait son petit triporteur barbeK et vendait des saucisses et poulet grillés à la sortie d'école. Elle, en un an, a fait pour moi plus que la super perfide en six ans, nous vivons actuellement dans sa maison en attendant que la nouvelle soit terminée....
Cela fait déjà six ans que je ne suis pas rentré en France, j'habite à Phitsanulok. Les lois Thaïlandaises ne sont pas les mêmes qu'en Europe, la propriété du sol agricole peut appartenir seulement à une personne de nationalité thaïlandaise, c'est un gros hic, donc pour résumer et faire simple, tout ce que j'ai acheté est au nom de Madame, adieu veau, vache, cochon, etc. ... Pour tout le reste c'est pareil, la maison, les voitures etc. Madame est partie faire du ''busness'' à Pattaya en abandonnant son fils, ses parents, la bananeraie, la maison et bien sûre moi-même. En regardant tous les papiers, (écrit en Thaï bien sûre), j'ai découvert qu'une partie du terrain de la bananeraie était au nom de son père, une autre au nom de sa mère et encore une à son nom, la perfide ! Pourquoi pas tout à son nom ? Les voitures pareilles à son nom, la perfide ! Pour la maison, le terrain au nom de son père, le bâtiment à son nom, la perfide ! Pourquoi pas tout à son nom ? . Je suis resté trois mois au village, (200 âmes, le village de cultivateurs..., il faut en avoir de l'AMOUR pour sa dulcinée !). Après son départ, j'avais encore un peu d'espoir, mais en vain car là où elle était partie, elle a rencontrer des supers perfide , qui ont dû lui expliquer qu'elle pouvait devenir super perfide , c'est là qu'elle a mis fin à la carte grise de la voiture dont je me servais ! La super perfiiiiide ! . Les lettres, comme celles de ma fille, ne m'ont jamais été transmises, interceptés, comme une fois j'ai retrouvé au fond d'un tiroir sa carte postale avec une traduction en Thaï, elle datait de plus d'un an, la perfide !. Je vous en passe des vertes et des pas mûrs dans tous les genres. J'ai fait appel à un avocat pour demander le divorce, le salopard s'est mis d'accord avec la super perfide et a touché des deux côtés. J'ai donc changé d'avocat qui, lui, a promis de lui piquer jusqu'à sa dernière petite culotte. Entre-temps j'ai une voiture 20 000 km qui est bâché et que je ne peux pas me servir. J'ai dû, donc, acheter une nouvelle voiture, la super perfide ! Et je suis en train de faire reconstruire une maison et le tout, cette fois ci, bien sûr à mon nom. Sinon point de vue cœur, j'ai une nouvelle copine. Quand j'ai rencontré Liam, elle avait son petit triporteur barbeK et vendait des saucisses et poulet grillés à la sortie d'école. Elle, en un an, a fait pour moi plus que la super perfide en six ans, nous vivons actuellement dans sa maison en attendant que la nouvelle soit terminée....
Pierre-Alexandre
La Thaïlande si belle, si vaste, si accueillante et si chaleureuse soit-elle, ne se mérite que si on la respecte et si on l'aime...
La Thaïlande si belle, si vaste, si accueillante et si chaleureuse soit-elle, ne se mérite que si on la respecte et si on l'aime...
Oui je suis amoureux et il y a de quoi, c'est vrai que ce genre de propos me blesse car dénigre totalement la femme Thai, ma copine étant on ne peut plus charmante cela à tendance à me mettre en colère de mettre tout le monde dans le même panier.
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Celui qui pose une question risque cinq minutes d'avoir l'air bête. Celui qui ne pose pas de question restera bête toute sa vie.
Paix et tranquillité, voilà le bonheur.
Celui qui pose une question risque cinq minutes d'avoir l'air bête. Celui qui ne pose pas de question restera bête toute sa vie.
Paix et tranquillité, voilà le bonheur.
C'est sûr, c'est le scénario classique dans bien des cas malheureusement mais je tiens à dire qu'il y a Thailandaises et Thailandaises, c'est un peu comme si on disait tout les prêtres sont des pédophiles, toutes les blondes sont des connes, ce genre de cliché quoi...
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Celui qui pose une question risque cinq minutes d'avoir l'air bête. Celui qui ne pose pas de question restera bête toute sa vie.
Paix et tranquillité, voilà le bonheur.
Celui qui pose une question risque cinq minutes d'avoir l'air bête. Celui qui ne pose pas de question restera bête toute sa vie.
Paix et tranquillité, voilà le bonheur.
en provenance de l'Issan rurale comme les 3/4 des filles...
Exclusivite reserve aux "farangs" quand elles ne peuvent plus vivre avec un homme de leur bourgade et sous la benediction des sino-thailandais, leurs usuriers, qui les meprisent au plus haut point ! Ce que vous dites est la "spoliation" ordinaire qui se joue en Thailande la plupart du temps en toute impunite et en silence... 😕 Par contre pour le droit du sol, il est possible moyennant avocat et argent d'avoir une concession pouvant aller jusqu'a 99 ans. Regle pour eviter que les eventuels descendants "etrangers" puissent heriter !
Exclusivite reserve aux "farangs" quand elles ne peuvent plus vivre avec un homme de leur bourgade et sous la benediction des sino-thailandais, leurs usuriers, qui les meprisent au plus haut point ! Ce que vous dites est la "spoliation" ordinaire qui se joue en Thailande la plupart du temps en toute impunite et en silence... 😕 Par contre pour le droit du sol, il est possible moyennant avocat et argent d'avoir une concession pouvant aller jusqu'a 99 ans. Regle pour eviter que les eventuels descendants "etrangers" puissent heriter !
Bonsoir,
Sujet sensible... n'est-ce pas ?
Ce ne sont que des observations, d'observateurs.... ayant eu le courage d'expliquer en toute clarté une situation possible.
En outre, il ne sera pas fait de procés d'intentions, ni de quelques cas vécus une généralité... c'est du bon sens !
Dans ce cas précis, il est mis en évidence une réalité qu'il ne faut pas cachée...
Il est possible de vous adresser en MP le rapport de: Bernard Formoso sur le Tourisme et la Prostitution en Thailande (16 pg).
Bien entendu, il est heureusement possible de faire de belles rencontres...
J'ai rencontré également une jeune femme à Bangkok ayant de "vraies qualités de coeur", travaillant (shop de vêtements) à Pratunam. Chaque jour, elle souhaitait participer aux frais... elle est très pratiquante (retraites au temple sur plusieurs jours dictés de conditions assez dures)...elle est adorable de gentillesse et de prévenances.
cordialement
Sujet sensible... n'est-ce pas ?
Ce ne sont que des observations, d'observateurs.... ayant eu le courage d'expliquer en toute clarté une situation possible.
En outre, il ne sera pas fait de procés d'intentions, ni de quelques cas vécus une généralité... c'est du bon sens !
Dans ce cas précis, il est mis en évidence une réalité qu'il ne faut pas cachée...
Il est possible de vous adresser en MP le rapport de: Bernard Formoso sur le Tourisme et la Prostitution en Thailande (16 pg).
Bien entendu, il est heureusement possible de faire de belles rencontres...
J'ai rencontré également une jeune femme à Bangkok ayant de "vraies qualités de coeur", travaillant (shop de vêtements) à Pratunam. Chaque jour, elle souhaitait participer aux frais... elle est très pratiquante (retraites au temple sur plusieurs jours dictés de conditions assez dures)...elle est adorable de gentillesse et de prévenances.
cordialement
Pierre-Alexandre
La Thaïlande si belle, si vaste, si accueillante et si chaleureuse soit-elle, ne se mérite que si on la respecte et si on l'aime...
La Thaïlande si belle, si vaste, si accueillante et si chaleureuse soit-elle, ne se mérite que si on la respecte et si on l'aime...
Merci de signaler le travail de Bernard Formoso du CNRS !
Dommage qu'il ne soit pas possible de coller des fichiers PDF sur ce forum... 😕
Dommage qu'il ne soit pas possible de coller des fichiers PDF sur ce forum... 😕
Salut,
Le rapport (de Bernard Formoso : "corps etrangers") dont tu parles est effectivement tres instructif. Accessible ici: http://66.102.9.104/search?q=cache:iEDys8H7bcwJ:www.erudit.org/revue/AS/2001/v25/n2/000233ar.pdf+Bernard+Formoso+sur+le+Tourisme+et+la+Prostitution&hl=fr&ct=clnk&cd=4&gl=fr
Mais comme Rely23 (à qui je souhaite beaucoup de bonheur), je regrette l'amalgame qui est fait.
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Le rapport (de Bernard Formoso : "corps etrangers") dont tu parles est effectivement tres instructif. Accessible ici: http://66.102.9.104/search?q=cache:iEDys8H7bcwJ:www.erudit.org/revue/AS/2001/v25/n2/000233ar.pdf+Bernard+Formoso+sur+le+Tourisme+et+la+Prostitution&hl=fr&ct=clnk&cd=4&gl=fr
Mais comme Rely23 (à qui je souhaite beaucoup de bonheur), je regrette l'amalgame qui est fait.
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Merci pour le lien article tres intéressant, cool comme rapport de thèse d'étudiant, j'aurai du y penser 😉
Khun maa jak nai krap?
"être loin d'ailleurs, c'est être ici" (P. Geluk)
"être loin d'ailleurs, c'est être ici" (P. Geluk)
Bernard Formoso : "corps etrangers"
Il a egalement fait une etude tres instructive sur la societe "sino" en Thailande 🙂
Il a egalement fait une etude tres instructive sur la societe "sino" en Thailande 🙂
cool comme rapport de thèse d'étudiant, j'aurai du y penser 😉
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Juste pour voir la tête des examinateurs 😏
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Juste pour voir la tête des examinateurs 😏
Il a egalement fait une etude tres instructive sur la societe "sino" en Thailande 🙂
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Tu as raison, l'ouvrage s'intitule "Destins chinois en milieu bouddhiste thaï" et c vraiment interessant.
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Tu as raison, l'ouvrage s'intitule "Destins chinois en milieu bouddhiste thaï" et c vraiment interessant.
🙂Grand merci pour les liens😉
7 192 lectures 343 réponses (dont les miennes ) 😉
un record, Pattaya enterré ! et avec la these sur la prostitution, c'est pas fini ! 😉
un record, Pattaya enterré ! et avec la these sur la prostitution, c'est pas fini ! 😉
Merci beaucoup khiNorn, (et pour ceux qui voudraient en savoir plus):
Isabelle Thireau, Bernard Formoso, Identités en regard. Destins chinois en milieu bouddhiste thaï. Paris, CNRS/MSH, 2000., Etudes rurales, 155-156 - Prégnance du droit coutumier, 2000 http://etudesrurales.revues.org/document58.html
Il a egalement fait une etude tres instructive sur la societe "sino" en Thailande 🙂
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Tu as raison, l'ouvrage s'intitule "Destins chinois en milieu bouddhiste thaï" et c vraiment interessant.
Isabelle Thireau, Bernard Formoso, Identités en regard. Destins chinois en milieu bouddhiste thaï. Paris, CNRS/MSH, 2000., Etudes rurales, 155-156 - Prégnance du droit coutumier, 2000 http://etudesrurales.revues.org/document58.html
Il a egalement fait une etude tres instructive sur la societe "sino" en Thailande 🙂
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Tu as raison, l'ouvrage s'intitule "Destins chinois en milieu bouddhiste thaï" et c vraiment interessant.
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😉 Oui bon ! Faut dire que la moitié des messages parlait du chocolat...😛
c'etait pour rire (le propre de l'homme ) et puis le chocolat çà rend amoureux, vais aller chercher une these chez mon ami google 😄😄😄
c'etait pour rire (le propre de l'homme ) et puis le chocolat çà rend amoureux, vais aller chercher une these chez mon ami google 😄😄😄
😉 Oui bon ! Faut dire que la moitié des messages parlait du chocolat...😛
du chocolat ??????? ah Bon !!!!😐
du chocolat ??????? ah Bon !!!!😐
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I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days. I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome! I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Thanks
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days. I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome! I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Thanks
Hello everyone,
Not long ago, I used to travel as a couple, but my husband has since passed away, and I’ve decided to set off again. The trip I took to Cambodia in January 2025 did me a world of good.
I’m now considering Thailand, a destination we never included in our plans because even 15 years ago, people said it was too touristy. Still, I’m thinking about the itinerary below, but I don’t feel up to arranging buses, trains, or guides on my own while I’m there. I’m looking for one or more drivers and have been in touch with an agency, but their offers are just copy-paste group tours that I don’t want.
So, if you have any contacts, experiences, or advice, I’d be so grateful if you’d share them with me. Here’s my rough plan:
Arrival in Bangkok
Ayutthaya (2 nights)
Kanchanaburi (2 or 3 nights)
Sangkhlaburi/Sai Yok (3 nights)
Sukhothai (2 nights)
Lampang (I’ve planned 3 nights, but that might be a bit much—it depends on what time I arrive in the city)
Chiang Mai
Chiang Dao
Pai
Chiang Rai
I was thinking about the Mae Hong Son loop—thoughts?
What do you think about staying overnight at the Golden Triangle?
When I look online, of course, I can find agencies that organize tours to national parks, etc.
I’m retired but in great physical shape. I’d rather go hiking than sit in hot springs with crowds of tourists who’ve all arranged meet-ups. I don’t want to spend a day at an elephant camp, and I don’t want to visit Karen villages.
I’d love to hear your advice.
Thank you all,
Hi,
On September 1st, we're heading to Kalimantan for six weeks, probably from Pontianak to the Derawan Islands.
I've scoured this site, which is usually my go-to 😉, and others like VoyageForum, but recent info is pretty scarce.
I'd love any tips on places you've visited—our itinerary is still a work in progress.
We're two couples traveling with backpacks, using buses, boats, guesthouses, and homestays.
Thanks in advance!
Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi,
From Malacca to get to Jerantut, is it better to go back to KL and take a bus from there, or take a bus to Tampin and then a train? Any feedback on the "Jungle Train"? (duration, price, comfort, etc.). Thanks
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral. Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo). Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok: * Orangutan Center * Malayan Sun Bear Center * Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan. Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari. Jungle walk. Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari. Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port. Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar 5 full days. * Snorkeling * Hiking * Turtle watching * Wild beaches * Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland. Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Days 15 and 16: Taman Negara.
Day 17: Return to Kuala Lumpur.
Day 18: Visit the Petronas Towers or Batu Caves
Day 19: Free day.
Day 20: Return flight.
Thanks in advance, everyone!
Baptiste
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral. Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo). Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok: * Orangutan Center * Malayan Sun Bear Center * Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan. Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari. Jungle walk. Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari. Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port. Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar 5 full days. * Snorkeling * Hiking * Turtle watching * Wild beaches * Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland. Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Days 15 and 16: Taman Negara.
Day 17: Return to Kuala Lumpur.
Day 18: Visit the Petronas Towers or Batu Caves
Day 19: Free day.
Day 20: Return flight.
Thanks in advance, everyone!
Baptiste
Hi everyone,
We’re heading to Flores and then Bali at the end of September.
We’ve already visited both but this time, once we’re in Labuan Bajo, we’d like to take a boat to the Komodo Islands to see the famous Komodo dragons.
I don’t want to sleep on the boat—just a day trip would be perfect.
Does anyone know a reliable and friendly provider to recommend?
Thanks in advance, and have a great summer!
Time to hit the road again!
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali. And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people! So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops): - 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud 2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa) 1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...) - 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces) - 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai - 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed) - 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island) - 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan) - 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels. Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?) Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?) Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali. And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people! So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops): - 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud 2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa) 1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...) - 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces) - 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai - 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed) - 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island) - 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan) - 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels. Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?) Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?) Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
Hello,
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027: - Phnom Penh - Kampong Cham - Kratie - Siem Reap - Battambang - Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights. Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above. Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
- Battambang (round trip) - Siem Reap / Angkor - Kratie - Kampong Cham - Phnom Penh - Kampot (round trip)
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Have a great Sunday
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027: - Phnom Penh - Kampong Cham - Kratie - Siem Reap - Battambang - Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights. Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above. Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
- Battambang (round trip) - Siem Reap / Angkor - Kratie - Kampong Cham - Phnom Penh - Kampot (round trip)
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Have a great Sunday
Hi there,
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Hi there,
We’re planning to travel from Chiang Rai to Luang Prabang next November.
We’d like to take a slow boat from Chiang Khong—or rather from Huay Xai in Laos—with an overnight stop in Pakbeng.
Could you let us know if the boat still leaves Huay Xai in the late morning? If so, what time roughly, and what’s the price for the trip?
Thanks for your help!
Alod
Hello everyone,
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations: We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights: The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1: We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2: This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3: With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4: Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings. We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops. In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5: Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6: This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8: Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10: On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12: We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines. Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment. We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15: From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP). We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning. We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise. Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16: We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town. It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view. We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise. In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911. On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city. We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17: Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning. Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in. The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances: In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary: Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional. Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations: We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights: The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1: We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2: This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3: With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4: Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings. We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops. In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5: Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6: This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8: Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10: On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12: We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines. Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment. We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15: From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP). We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning. We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise. Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16: We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town. It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view. We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise. In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911. On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city. We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17: Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning. Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in. The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances: In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary: Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional. Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
So, my flight tickets have just been booked for a trip to Cambodia from November 4th to 27th, 2025.
I’ll be traveling solo and want to explore this amazing country while getting a bit off the beaten path.
I’m arriving in Phnom Penh and also departing from Phnom Penh.
My goal is to travel as much as possible by bus and scooter.
What itinerary would you recommend?
What are the must-do things?
I’m open to all tips and info.
Thanks in advance for your help and responses.
We got back enchanted from a 6-week trip to Cambodia!
Our itinerary: Kampot - Kampong Chhnang - Battambang - Siem Reap - Kampong Cham - Sen Monorom (Mondulkiri) - Banlung (Ratanakiri) - Kratie - Kampong Thom - Phnom Penh.
We traveled by bus, minivan, boat (between Battambang and Siem Reap), overnight bus, scooter, tuk-tuk, and rickshaw for shorter distances. We stayed in guesthouses, homestays, and even in the jungle during a trek.
While the Angkor temples are fabulous, it’s the people you should visit Cambodia for—the "Land of Smiles" truly lives up to its nickname! Tourists gather in Angkor but are quite rare elsewhere, even though the country is easy to travel around.
I won’t describe our trip in detail but instead highlight a few favorite moments.
From Kampot, don’t hesitate to head out around 6 AM to see the fishermen return and their wives selling their catch (just 10 minutes away by the coast). Guaranteed picturesque!
In Battambang, known for its food scene, we discovered a cooking class with Smokin’ Pot (authentic Khmer cooking class). They pick you up from your guesthouse to shop for ingredients (we made fish amok and beef lok lak) at their village market, then cook and eat together. A private class—just the two of us! They also send the recipes via WhatsApp as a PDF. +855 12 821 400
In Siem Reap, I can recommend a francophone tuk-tuk driver who was very attentive to our wishes. We visited tourist spots but also more remote villages and local grilled-pork restaurants with him. He’s a wealth of information about local life, and chatting with him was a real pleasure—we left with regret! You can reach him on WhatsApp: Vung Hem, +855 96 614 0146.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Mondulkiri. Don’t expect a super dense jungle—it looks more like a forest similar to ours. But Nara, our Bunong ethnic guide, made the experience adventurous and ultimately very immersive! WhatsApp +855 86 630 489
Bee Bee’s Chalets homestay: If you pass through Banlung in Ratanakiri, we *loved* this family and their budget-friendly bungalows. Playing Uno, enjoying Nita’s cooking (ask for her fish amok—amazing!), it was a true homestay experience! Contact Nita on WhatsApp: +855 88 818 5525.
In Kratie, rent a scooter and follow the Mekong north for 40 km at your own pace. Being so close to the locals was a treat! Same goes for heading south if you have time.
Kampong Thom: Head 25 km out to visit the pre-Angkorian temples of Sambor Prei Kuk. Around a hundred monuments spread across three sites… and hardly anyone there!
A few practical tips: Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred. PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront). Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
A few practical tips: Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred. PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront). Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
Hi everyone,
We’re planning our second trip to Thailand (2 weeks on-site, late April/early May) as a family with our 5- and 7-year-olds.
On our first trip, we visited Bangkok, Ayutthaya, the River Kwai, Koh Lipe, Koh Phi Phi, and Khao Lak. We especially loved Koh Phi Phi for its limestone cliffs and lush vegetation, as well as Koh Lipe for its crystal-clear waters and snorkeling.
This time, I’m thinking of spending 7 days on the islands. I was considering Koh Tao and Koh Phangan. We’d like some scenery, snorkeling right from the beach, and a bit of atmosphere—but not too much (just enough to grab dinner in the evening).
For the other part of the trip, we’re torn between Chiang Mai and Khao Sok. One or the other… or both? We don’t want to rush, but we’re really nature-focused, so we won’t be hitting too many temples…
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences!
We’re planning our second trip to Thailand (2 weeks on-site, late April/early May) as a family with our 5- and 7-year-olds.
On our first trip, we visited Bangkok, Ayutthaya, the River Kwai, Koh Lipe, Koh Phi Phi, and Khao Lak. We especially loved Koh Phi Phi for its limestone cliffs and lush vegetation, as well as Koh Lipe for its crystal-clear waters and snorkeling.
This time, I’m thinking of spending 7 days on the islands. I was considering Koh Tao and Koh Phangan. We’d like some scenery, snorkeling right from the beach, and a bit of atmosphere—but not too much (just enough to grab dinner in the evening).
For the other part of the trip, we’re torn between Chiang Mai and Khao Sok. One or the other… or both? We don’t want to rush, but we’re really nature-focused, so we won’t be hitting too many temples…
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences!
