Partir seule n'est jamais évident, surtout pour une femme car on se pose des tas de questions sur comment utiliser le temps et bien sur la sécurité...
Déjà, tu as un âge ou on a la tête bien sur les épaules, et commencer un tour du monde par l'Asie du Sud Est est une excellente mise en jambes tant est que dans ces différents pays, tu rencontreras des tas de voyageurs qui fairont un bout de chemin avec toi et celà t'aguerrira pour la suite de tes pérégrinations, surtout si tu vas en Afrique ou en AMSUD, continents plus compliqués à appréhender pour une femme seule.
Va donc au bout de tes envies, car tu verras que sur la route tout devient complétement différent et on en retire une énorme richesse qui te faira voir le monde d'une autre façon.....
🙂Merci pour ta réponse encourageante, quand on a ce genre de projet on a a plutôt tendance à s'entendre dire qu'on est dingue, que c'est dangereux, déraisonnable etc...
Est-ce que tu as déjà fait de longs voyages en solo ? ça c'est passé comment ?
Eh non, pas encore, j'ai visité beaucoup de pays mais toujours sur de courtes durées n'excédant pas plus de trois ou quatre semaines, et toujours en couple, mais nous avons toujours espoir de pouvoir partir un jour pour de plus longues périodes.
Par contre, au fil de nos pérégrinations j'ai souvent rencontré des voyageurs (euses ) seuls, et jamais aucun ( e ) n'a regretté ( e ) son choix d'être parti ainsi à l'aventure.....
Ne jamais prendre pour argent comptant les conseils des autres, bons ou mauvais d'ailleurs, en prendre connaissance mais toujours suivre son idée première en l'améliorant suite à des suggestions ou à des émotions narrées par d'autres voyageurs.....
je suis dans les mêmes conditions que toi, j'envisage pour la rentrée 2005 de partir faire le tour du monde mais je ne sais pas encore dans quelle condition
Je suis partie en solo, 8 mois en Asie (Mongolie, Chine, Vietnam, Cambodge, Nord Thailande et Myanmar). C'était fabuleux!
Une femme seule en Asie n'a absolument aucun problème... les gens sont adorables a tous les points de vue... alors fonces... tu verras, on se pose quelques questions avant mais dès qu'on est là-bas, c'est magique, comme tous les voyages sur une longue durée!
bonjour moi aussi j'envisage un tour du monde seule ou avec une copine j'ai 60 ans et quelques experiences la tailande la turquies maroc etc ...sans problemes mais sans peurs ni provocationsj'aime les gens et les rencontres a bientot!vous pouvez me joindre pierloui@voila.fr
😄Je me suis éclatée comme une petite folle à faire le tour du globe seule! 😄
Je pense que l'on va plus vite vers les autres, locaux, locales et touristes voyageurs, d'autres aussi voyagent seul(e)s, on se revoit des mois ou semaines plus tard par hasard ou pas...
Parfois on fait un bout de chemin avec l'un d'eux...
L'Asie du SE est extra pour commencer, comme dit + haut.
Tous les jours j'écrivais mon journal de voyage, je me forcais à ne pas louper un jour sinon j'allais oublié peut être. Parfois, je me prends à le relire, un peu de nostalgie... Vivement le prochain voyage...
Bonne route!😎
Fainéanter dans un monde neuf est la plus absorbante des occupations... (N.Bouvier)
Il me semblais que ce n'etais pas un pseudo inconnu!!!😉
Tu sais que je pars m'installer a Anvers pour 4 mois?
Que le vent te pousse en avant, que le soleil illumine ton visage, que le vent du destin te pousse à danser avec les étoiles.... THE BLOW pour laisser la place à ses rêves!!!!
salut les filles, j'aimerais vous poser une question qui vous paraitra sans doute idiote mais comment faites vous pour partir si longtemps. Je travaille tout le temps et je ne peux prendre des vacances qu'en aout et à Noël. Heureusement je n'ai plus que trois ans à attendre pour prendre ma retraite et alors là je vais m'éclater, je compte bien aller partout avec mon sac à dos. A+
vivre simplement pour que simplement les autres puissent vivre.
Pour ma part, chaque fois que je prennais la route pour un bout de temps, je lachais tout. Appart' et boulot.
Il y a une phrase que j'aime beaucoup...
"Quand vous pratiquez le risque, une force étrange et merveilleuse entre en vous. Evidemment, il faut sacrifier sa sécurité, son confort, plonger parfois dans des excès, mais ça vaut le peine. D’autant que quelque chose de supérieur protège les aventuriers."
J'ai joué la cigalle, en ai bien profité... Maintenant je "joue" la fourmi et rêve de reprendre la route m'enfin bon... Ca reviendra! :)
"Life belongs to those who beleive in the beauty of their dreams..."
Fainéanter dans un monde neuf est la plus absorbante des occupations... (N.Bouvier)
Pakistan seule?? Ca m'interesse ca, j'ai pas encore poussé la témérité a ce point..
Tu raconte un peu stp??
Que le vent te pousse en avant, que le soleil illumine ton visage, que le vent du destin te pousse à danser avec les étoiles.... THE BLOW pour laisser la place à ses rêves!!!!
Le plus longtemps que je suis partie ces 7 mois.
Mon retour ne fut pas si mal. J'avais pas trop le choix je retournai a l'école le lendemain matin, et je recommecais le boulot quelques jours plustard.
Mais 2 mois apres mon retour, j'ai peter les plombs je me suis écroulé dans ma cuisine en larmes sans trop savoir pourquoi. Encore aujourd'hui je ne saurai répondre.
La vie trop active? Le retour a une réalité a laquelle je n'etais pas prete. Peut etre je n'en sais rien.
Les retours ne sont jamais évident apres 6 mois ou apres 15 jours je pense parce qu'on découvre des choses qu'on laisse s'immerger en soi sans prendre garde. Difficile d'y faire le tri de savoir ou mettre tout ca en ordre...
Je ne sais trop quoi dire en fait... Il faut juste faire son possible pour trouver un lien une similitude entre les deux le moyen de caser tout ca ensemble.
Que le vent te pousse en avant, que le soleil illumine ton visage, que le vent du destin te pousse à danser avec les étoiles.... THE BLOW pour laisser la place à ses rêves!!!!
Oh que oui le retour est souvent dur...
Mais si on a déjà peur de revenir, alors on ne part jamais! Et que de richesses aprenons nous donc sur la route!!! 😄😎
Après des années sans chez moi, je me suis réinstallée, boulot metro dodo au secours!!!!! 🏴☠️ Oh que oui j'veux reprendre la route... Bientôt bientôt...😄
"Life belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams"...
Fainéanter dans un monde neuf est la plus absorbante des occupations... (N.Bouvier)
et oui le pakistan est mon meilleur souvenir de voyages
3 mois dans le nord (territ. du Nord ouest ) dans les montagnes, dans les villages. chitral, gilgit, vallée de swat etc....
j'ai adoré être en compagnie des kalashs qui seraient des descendants d'alexandre le grand. Ils ont certains points en commun avec les grecs. j'ai rencontré des grecs qui venaient dans ces villages et qui les aidaient à construire des écoles.
enfin il y aurait tellement de choses à raconter....
les pakistanais sont des gens très accueillants mais biensûr pour une femme seule il faut avoir un peu l'habitude du voyage et savoir dire non quand il faut!!
Si tu t'habilles avec les habits locaux et que tu respectes les gens il n'y a pas vraiment de problèmes.
le pakistan est formidable pour les treks mais c'est sûr ce n'est pas organisé comme au népal. de plus c'est cher, il faut partir avec un groupe sinon c'est trop cher.
Merci pour la confidence. De voyager seule j'en ai l'habitude. Sac au dos. Le Népal garde des coins non explorer tu sais aussi. Sinon ce n'est pas le trek en lui meme qui m'attire mais bien le contact avec les locaux.Avec ce qu'ils sont. Pour l'habit local pas de probleme non plus, j'ai déja ma quantité de punjabi.
Mais parle de ton expérience en tant que femme la-bas. Ton rapport a la population, ton vécu si tu y arrive, ce qui n'est pas toujours évident a mettre en mot je sais.
Que le vent te pousse en avant, que le soleil illumine ton visage, que le vent du destin te pousse à danser avec les étoiles.... THE BLOW pour laisser la place à ses rêves!!!!
quoi te dire je vivais dans les petits hotels, dans les familles
on faisait des marches, je leur faisais la cuisine, ils m'invitaient à voir leur famille, des choses très simples tu sais.
Comme femme tu es très respectée. parfois c'est même gênant car on te donne une des meilleures places dans le bus par ex alors que tu en demandes pas tant.
bcq sont guides de montagnes et me racontaient leurs aventures avec les touristes. bcq ne vivent que du tourisme. les événements d'afghanistan ont eu un effet très néfaste sur eux car déjà il y a peu de touristes mais alors avec les evenements c'est un peu le néant pour eux.
ils rêvent tous de venir en europe (londres) d'épouser une occidentale et de sortir de leurs situations difficiles.
mes impressions personnelles ce sont pour moi des images, des situations, des instants mais ça ne se traduit pas vraiment en mots.....il faut le vivre sinon ça manque un peu d'intêret...
Bonjour 🙂
Tu as donc été seule au Pakistan? Etc??? T'as pas des récits pour nous faire rêver, partager tes aventures??? Un site internet??? Waouh, chapeau en tout cas 😉
Fainéanter dans un monde neuf est la plus absorbante des occupations... (N.Bouvier)
Je te raconterai quand j'y mettrais les pieds... Ca viendra je le sens.
Merci et si jamais tu met en mots tu sait ou sonner.
Que le vent te pousse en avant, que le soleil illumine ton visage, que le vent du destin te pousse à danser avec les étoiles.... THE BLOW pour laisser la place à ses rêves!!!!
Je souhaite, d'ici 1 ans, faire un petit tour du monde seule d'1 ans ou plus si affinité. Comme continents et pays j'ai choisie: - L'Asie avec la Birmanie, le…
Je sollicite ici principalement les expériences de femmes ou de jeunes filles qui comme moi on eu un jour cette formidable idée de partir faire le tour du…
Nous partons pour un tour du monde dès juillet 2010 et nous projetons de revenir un an plus tard. Nous avons développé un projet autour de notre voyage en lien…
Des questions réservées aux filles, peut-être un peu futile mais bon, puisque je me les pose, j'en appelle à l'expérience de mesdames tourmondistes. Avez-vous…
Je souhaite préparer un tour du monde pour l'an prochain et j'aimerai avoir des avis de femmes qui ont voyagé toute seule. Est-ce sécurisé, avez-vous rencontré…
j'arrive le 10/9/26 a Tana femme seule aventuriere
quel hotel à Tana pour la première nuit car j 'arrive à 22h
que visiter autour de Tana ?
2 nuits a Tana
ensuite Andasibe 2 nuits? et ensuite lac d'Itasy
suggestions ? merci
I contacted several agencies in Madagascar to arrange this 4x4 trip along the coast.
Always the same answer: a tailor-made trip with at least 2 participants.
Since I don’t want to travel alone and a friend isn’t available, I’m looking for a woman to share this trip with the agency Mahay Mada, which offers a 12-day, 11-night tour of southern Madagascar. I’m available from August 23 to September 14.
Thanks for your direct response at 0784659791. See you soon, Mireille
I’d love to settle around Da Nang for about a month and explore the surrounding areas in Vietnam.
I’ve already been to this country and don’t feel like rushing around every day like I used to a few years ago.
I’d really like to find some company to stay for at least a month, and then maybe spend a month in Cambodia...
Given that I’m now 76, I don’t want to run around like I used to, trying to see everything...
I enjoy calm people... Those who love life and with whom I can share a beer... And meet people to create a great atmosphere—la dolce vita....
Hi everyone,
I’m a 67-year-old woman who loves to travel, and for my third solo trip, I’ve decided to explore Indonesia.
I’ll be there from September 1st to October 5th, and I’m really struggling to plan my itinerary.
I’d love any advice you can share—I’ll read it all carefully.
So far, I’ve booked my first two nights with a local host in Jakarta, and then I’m heading to Borobudur. That’s all I’ve got planned for now.
Do you think I should book accommodations and transport tickets in advance? It seems really complicated, or could I just decide day by day based on how I feel?
Thanks in advance for your replies!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a solo trip to Mongolia this summer, without an agency. However, I’d like to have a guide accompany me for certain parts of my journey.
From my research, I understand that most "activities," accommodations, and transportation are best arranged day by day, depending on opportunities and encounters. Without an agency, everything is organized on the spot.
I’d love to hear more opinions on this, especially regarding the Orkhon Valley.
Here’s the itinerary I’m planning:
* UB -> Mörön (flight) -> Khatgal (local buses)
A few days at Lake Khövsgöl
* Khatgal -> Mörön -> Jargalant -> Tariat (local buses)
A few days at the White Lakes
* White Lakes -> Tsetserleg -> Kharkhorin (4x4 with driver)
A few days in the Orkhon Valley
+ the Eight Lakes (horseback trekking with a guide)
* Return to UB
From what I’ve gathered, the first part should be fairly straightforward, but I have questions about the Orkhon Valley.
Here are my questions:
-> Tsetserleg to Kharkhorin route:
Have any of you made this trip by booking a driver on the spot when arriving in Tsetserleg? Was it easy to find an available driver? And did you find it easy/difficult/impossible to find other travelers to share the ride with? Ideally, I’d like to share this leg with fellow travelers.
-> The Eight Lakes: Could you share your experience with the Eight Lakes? Did you easily find a guide directly on site? Were you able to share this experience with other travelers?
Last question for women who’ve traveled solo in Mongolia:
-> How did you experience it? Do you have any specific tips or recommendations?
I’m considering a road trip (rental car) to explore the Canadian Rockies in September 2026, starting in Calgary and ending with about 10 days in Vancouver and the surrounding area. (Two weeks in the Rockies and a little under two weeks in Vancouver and nearby.)
I’d like to say that being a woman traveling alone doesn’t really bother me. That’s not the issue. Being a woman is just how it is, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon, but traveling solo is something I could fix by finding travel companions. However, I had a not-so-great experience in India with two girls who were total strangers at first and turned out to be quite annoying, so I’m a bit put off by the idea now.
My question is simple, assuming I do this trip alone: is it worth sticking *only* to driving? I have **zero** sense of direction—with a map, I’m hopeless. So, is it realistic to think, "With my GPS, I’ll just drive from Calgary to Vancouver and see what I see," since I don’t see myself hiking alone? I’m not easily scared, but I wouldn’t feel confident doing that solo. Unless all the sightseeing is done with a guide (but then, hello, the cost—my budget isn’t exactly overflowing).
What do you all think?
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Take care and happy travels.
Cheers,
Régine
Hi,
After a week of sports south of Bergen, I’m not sure what to visit during the following week between Bergen and Oslo.
I haven’t planned to rent a car.
I’d love your suggestions. Thanks
Hi everyone, I’m really keen to visit Iran for three weeks in mid-March 2015.
What worries me a bit isn’t so much traveling alone—I’m used to it and know the Middle East well—but rather the current events (Islamic State) that could potentially become dangerous.
Flights are pretty cheap at the moment, and I’d like to book before prices go up.
Any advice from people who know the ground situation and Iranian current affairs better than I do would be much appreciated! :)
Hi there! I’m in the middle of planning my first solo trip (as a woman). Do you have any ideal destinations with activities like hiking, diving, sightseeing, and easy ways to meet locals—all on a small budget?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had this experience before! :)
Hi there,
Who could recommend a reliable agency for visiting several islands, including the parks around Komodo? I’m traveling solo as a woman.
Thanks for your great tips!
Hi everyone,
I’m often in transit in Tokyo and I stay at the hotel because Japanese people speak little English and the signs are almost always in Japanese!
Any ideas for getting from Narita to a nice park or an onsen? I wanted to try Hokkaido, but apart from renting a car, it’s all trains! Any suggestions for a car with a driver? Or is it too expensive? Small group tours in Hokkaido? I read about the Explorator group’s offer—way too expensive!!!
I’ve got a maximum of 8 days. I’d just like a nice Japanese break.
Thanks for any tips you can share!
my friend, with whom I traveled to Iran, Myanmar, and India, really wanted to take a one-month trip to Armenia and Georgia. So we booked our flights (June 21 to July 19), but disaster struck—she can’t travel anymore due to serious family reasons.
Now I’m heading off on this adventure alone. It’s not that I’ve never traveled solo before—I spent three months exploring Southeast Asia by myself last year—but I still have a few questions, and I’d really appreciate your input.
* I don’t think traveling alone in these countries is very risky—what do you think?
* Maybe I could hire a driver? What would that cost, since some places seem tricky to reach by public transport. Do you have any driver recommendations?
* I don’t want to rent a car—the driving seems too unpredictable, especially in Georgia.
* I’d love to do some nice hikes—are there any guides available?
Here’s my rough itinerary:
YEREVAN and surroundings
YEGHEGNADZOR for Noravank
GORIS and TATEV
LAKE SEVAN
DILIJAN
HAGHPAT
TBILISI and surroundings
The CAUCASUS toward Mestia
UPLISTSIKHE
VARDZIA
Return to Yerevan for my flight
Thanks to anyone who can share their experiences or answer my questions!
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share a few tips that really helped me better prepare my carry-on luggage. After a few trips (and some mistakes too!), I’ve finally found a way to organize myself that makes life a lot easier. Maybe this can help other travelers here.
1. Choose a practical and sturdy bag
A good bag is the foundation. I’ve noticed that a model with a solid structure, sturdy wheels, and a well-thought-out interior really changes the experience. Hard-shell suitcases hold up better, especially when you’re hopping between flights. Personally, I use a Lambert suitcase because the interior is super well-divided, but the important thing is to find a model that works for you.
2. Rolling your clothes really works
It’s simple, but it saves so much space. Plus, it wrinkles less. I do this now for almost everything, especially lightweight clothes.
3. Keep everything in a small kit
100 ml liquids, toothbrush, cream, mini first-aid kit… Having all of that in one clear toiletry bag makes going through security much easier. It saves you from having to take everything out and put it back in a rush.
4. A pouch for essentials
Passport, headphones, charger, phone… I keep all of that in the same pouch. It saves so much stress when you need to find something quickly, especially on the plane.
5. Traveling lighter makes all the difference
Since I started choosing versatile clothes that mix and match well, I travel with a lot less. Less weight, fewer decisions to make, fewer things to lug around. It honestly makes traveling so much more enjoyable.
From the conversations I’ve had with other travelers (and several customers too), I’ve realized you can really simplify your trip just by organizing a little better and choosing good accessories.
If you have other tips or methods that work for you, I’d love to read them. We always learn from others on this forum.
Looking forward to exchanging with you all!
Hi,
Has anyone recently taken the boat to Casamance from Dakar and could share their experience?
From France, is it possible to book online, or do you need to go through an agency? How far in advance?
Boarding/disembarking: how does it work? Do we have to check in our luggage and then pick it up on arrival?
What’s the vibe like on the boat in the seating area?
Has anyone ever stopped over in Carabane? Accommodation options there?
Thanks so much if you have any recent info!
Exploring India by road is all about having a good driver. I highly recommend the one I’ve traveled with for 5 "safe" trips—Rajasthan 3 times over 16 years, Gujarat, Himachal Pradesh, and Punjab. He’s been driving tourists for 25 years now and is more than just a driver. He knows how to talk about his country, the cities you visit, and suggests alternative routes.
He’s well-connected with real local guides who don’t just ramble (as he puts it himself) or drag you into shops claiming to be run by their "so-called family." Depending on your preferences, he can suggest well-tested itineraries and recommend typical hotels like Havelis.
For dining, he oversees meal prep based on your spice-level preferences. He’s Sikh and deeply respectful of his passengers.
He speaks English better than French, but one of his daughters is studying French at university.
Hi,
We’d like to spend about twenty days in Albania next July. We’re two women traveling together and we’re thinking of renting a small car. Does that sound reasonable, or should we avoid it?
Thanks for your advice.
Hi there,
I’m spending a week in Morocco (Rabat - Meknes - Fes).
I’ll be traveling solo—is it safe for a woman over 60?
For transportation, I’m planning to take the train. I was thinking of buying my ticket last minute, but it’s around the end-of-year period…?
I’ll be in Meknes on December 31st—any suggestions on how they celebrate New Year’s Eve there?
Is anyone visiting these destinations? Maybe we could meet up…?
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
After hearing so much about Djerba, especially the GO clubs, is it risky for a young, pretty newly-retired woman to visit the island alone?
Thanks in advance.
Hi,
Does anyone know how late the buses run from Cusco Airport to the city center? I land at 9:30 PM, plus time to clear customs, pick up my luggage, and exchange some money—figure an extra 30 to 45 minutes. Though, come to think of it, I still have 5 sols from last time—maybe that’ll be enough for the bus?
Thanks.
Brigitte
Planned arrival on Sunday evening, November 16, 2025, in San José. Staying 3 nights, then taking a bus to Tortuguero for 2 nights. Looking for a shared shuttle to La Fortuna for 2 nights, then a van-boat-van combo to Santa Elena for 2 or 3 nights. Heading to Quepos for 4 nights for day trips using local buses—Jaco, San Antonio, Uvita. After that, a full-day bus ride to Cahuita. I’m booking hotels as I go, which gives me the flexibility to stay longer in places I like. I’m looking for accommodations in city centers near restaurants and not too far from the bus station. Budget: 50 € for a room with a private bathroom (if you’ve got any great tips!). For my finale, I’ll cross the land border to Panama City for 4 days. Thanks for your suggestions! 😉
As I mentioned before, I’m heading to Istanbul next summer, and I’ve heard there have been quite a few attacks by Kurds in Turkey recently, which is making me hesitate about my trip.
What do you all think? :( I’m wondering if it’s really a good idea to go...
Hi everyone,
I’m 66 and just discovered solo travel in Uzbekistan—I loved it! So I’ve decided to explore Africa, starting with Senegal. I’m just beginning my research, but if anyone can give me advice on which month to go, what to see, and whether this destination is safe—or maybe suggest another African country—I’d really appreciate your tips!
Hi there!
We’re leaving in early November for a month.
Here’s our itinerary:
Arrival in Takhmau, then heading to:
Kampong Cham
Kratie – 2 days
Mondolkiri – 3 days
Ratanakiri – 3 days
Stung Treng – 1 day
Siem Reap – 4 days
Battambang – 1 day
Kampong Chhnang – 3 days
Kampot – 2 days
Islands (WE’RE HESITATING WHICH ONE?) – 4 DAYS
Phnom Penh – 2 days
That’s it! 😊
We’re backpacking… and we love spots that aren’t too touristy. If you’ve got any tips, we’re all ears!
Thanks
Hi there,
We’d like to stay in Switzerland for five days.
There are two of us (women).
We don’t know this country at all.
What cities or affordable spots would you recommend for visiting?
Cheap accommodation.
Looking for community-based options.
And being close to public transport.
Thanks for your tips and experiences!
Best regards.
Hi there,
I was wondering if anyone has taken a Rede Expressos bus from Lisbon Airport to Lagos, and if so, where exactly at the airport you need to board it? I’m worried I’ll get lost and miss my bus...
Hi again,
I’m adding more details to my info request. Here are two proposed itineraries. We’re hesitating:
Colombo - Unawatuna 2 days - Sinharaja 1 day - Bandarawela 2 days - Kandy 3 days - Dambulla 2 days - Wilpattu Park 1 day - Kalpitiya 3 days - Negombo 1 day
What should we change or add a day for to include Jaffna?
Or:
Negombo 1 day - Anuradhapura 2 days - Jaffna 2 days - Sigiriya 2 days - Dambulla 1 day - Kandy 2 days - Ella 1 day - Galle 3 days
For your advice.
Is it better to finish in Galle or Kalpitiya?
Thanks in advance!
Nicole
This is a warning message! I’d like to address it especially to young women traveling alone for the first time in India. Other travelers may react to my post based on their own experiences, but I think what I’m about to say shouldn’t be taken lightly—unless that’s what you’re looking for!
Last July, I traveled to Northern India. I stopped in Khajuraho to see the famous tantric temples. I stayed one night, and that was more than enough. Khajuraho is very touristy, but you should know that 80% of young Indian men there are "gigolos." Locals call these young men (aged 18 to 30) "playboys" or "Lapka" (which means "capture the woman" in Hindi)!!!
They approach tourists with kindness and politeness, offering tea or a motorcycle ride (which they’ve often gotten from generous Western female tourists) to waterfalls a few kilometers from Khajuraho or other tourist sites. After befriending you, they charm you—be careful, these are professionals who are very skilled at this; it’s all they do, and they do it well. They’ll offer you food, drinks, and even temple entry to confuse you. They’ll suggest spending the evening or even the night with them. **Refuse (unless you’re into local flings and that’s why you came)!!!!**
At first, you’ll be seduced by their generosity, let your guard down, and then they’ll make you believe in *true love*. They won’t leave you alone and will keep in touch via email or phone if you give them your details. The lines they use to soften you up and scam you include: *"I’m the only one taking care of my family, my brother is sick, I don’t know what to do..."* All of this is to manipulate you into offering them money. They’ll never ask for it outright (to avoid being exposed) but will wait for you to suggest it.
If you receive emails from them, they’ll never be signed, and their name won’t appear in the email address (to avoid leaving traces). They use fake names to avoid being reported. If you believe their sob stories and offer help, they’ll give you a bank account number to send money via Western Union. These young men make a living from this—selling their bodies and scamming people! They’re very skilled, charming, manipulative, and *big-time cheaters*!
(Especially one young man who goes by the alias *Tony*—apparently the most skilled. He lives in a hotel near the lake, *Krishna Cottage*, and is in regular contact via Skype with Western women he’s tricked into believing he loves them while shamelessly scamming them. He even opened an internet café on the roof of the hotel with money he stole from women who fell for his charm.)
So, young romantic women craving love, sensitive singles, or anyone emotionally vulnerable—**don’t let yourself be scammed!!!** This behavior is becoming more common in India and is still relatively unknown. Male prostitution is on the rise, and cases of romantic scams and financial fraud by gigolos are increasing.
hi everyone! I’d like to visit Montreal and the surrounding areas in August, and I’ve got 3 weeks of vacation. I’m traveling alone and will be visiting my daughter, who recently moved there. She’ll be working and only available in the evenings! So I’m torn between spending a week in Montreal, then taking a flight to Cuba, and returning to France from Havana—or staying in Montreal and exploring the nearby areas alone.
For my first idea—going to Cuba—is it feasible in terms of administrative formalities and legality? And for my second idea, is it possible to take buses? If so, is it too expensive? And are there many places served by them?