Who really loves India?
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FA Fastkoala Globetrotter ·
The goal isn't to make a splash or not—it's just an observation. I find that for those doing the same route, there are other countries that are more interesting to see, like Nepal, which I loved.
ST Stalingrad Globetrotter ·
OK, but I find it funny that every time a post like yours is written, all the India aficionados (and aficionadas) react 😉😉😉. It just shows how much we all have this country in our hearts and how it never leaves anyone indifferent.
LA Lavinçoune Veteran ·
Hey, I think what can be fascinating about India is that Western tourists are faced with a very ancient civilization with its own codes and habits, its still-hierarchical society.... Culture shock is definitely guaranteed!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4NKH9He66U http://www.chu-toulouse.fr/-conseils-aux-voyageurs-
MA Marcomarco Veteran ·
Okay, but I find it funny that every time a post like yours is written, all the India aficionados (and aficionadas) react 😉😉😉

It’s normal—we come here for that too! 😉

The "best" example of this kind of reaction: click here
EL Elconcombre Veteran ·
oh wow... a BIG MOMENT from the "India forum" on VF! worth reading from start to finish... eye-opening, sometimes...
MA Marcomarco Veteran ·
(I just took a quick look at "Genevieve"'s blog—apparently she hasn't "done" India since... and, I imagine, it's thanks to us here 😎 ) What a loss for the Indian nation!
LA Lamouette Regular ·
hi there

I haven’t been to Thanjavur, but I did go to Madurai, which I loved for its non-stop buzz—right into the late hours—throughout the temple district. It’s honestly one of the most beautiful temples I’ve visited, along with the one in Rameswaram.

We stayed between the train station and the temple, and we had no issues in the city. In fact, that’s where my husband got a haircut for just 30 rupees! On the other hand, we didn’t really like Chennai (Madras)—it’s super polluted, overrun with traffic, noisy, and there’s not much to see. Plus, it rained for three days straight while we were there.

happy travels
Le ciel et la terre sont en nous. GANDHI

lamouette
NO Noham Regular ·
Thanks, and I was also wondering if I was the only one drawn to Madurai
MA Marcomarco Veteran ·
Thanks, I was also wondering if I was the only one drawn to Madurai

breathtaking photos of Madurai: http://www.oochappan.be/madu.html
DU Dusala Regular ·
breathtaking photos of Madurai: http://www.oochappan.be/madu.html

Gorgeous!
NO Noham Regular ·
That’s gorgeous, thanks! Okay, I’ll try to take some just as nice… in Madurai and… elsewhere…
MÉ Mékong Globetrotter ·
hi it’s true that it’s a matter of taste and feeling. It all depends on what you're looking for when you're there.

Chennai... I’d only heard comments like... nothing to see, noisy, etc. But when I was there, I didn’t come across a single tourist. I stayed for a week and loved the place. It’s a chaotic city, kind of like a patchwork of villages with lots of noise—just the way I like it🙂. Didn’t do anything special, just wandered around the city by bicycle, but I have great memories of it.

Eric
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mekong69/sets/ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-UPh_7iIlQ
MA Marcomarco Veteran ·
hi it’s really a matter of taste and vibe. It all depends on what you're looking for when you're there. Chennai... I’d only heard comments like... nothing to see, noisy, etc. But when I was there, I didn’t come across a single tourist. I stayed a week and loved the place. It’s a chaotic city, kind of like a patchwork of villages with lots of noise—just how I like them🙂. Didn’t do anything special, just wandered around the city by bicycle, but I have great memories of it.

Eric

exactly!

But let’s go in December to experience the music festival live! I spent a week in the rain in Chennai (by the way, rain + thunderstorms 4-5 times a day in October), which was pretty tough, but you get used to it... Still a fascinating city. As chaotic as you’d wish, but we love it...😛
LA Lamouette Regular ·
by the way, rain + thunderstorms 4-5 times a day in October

yes, as you say marcomarco, 4 to 6 times a day of rain even in November, and really big drops. But we had brought our ponchos—after a month and a half wandering around India without using them!!! On the other hand, I have fond memories of wandering the streets behind the station in heavy rain, and the smiles of Indians happy to see us out in the same weather, offering us chai at the doors of their offices or shops. But watch where you step—the water running in the streets, rising well above our ankles, is far from clear, and we quickly fall into drainage holes without realizing it.

Every city has its charm; it all depends on the neighborhoods and also what state of mind you're in at the time
Le ciel et la terre sont en nous. GANDHI

lamouette
MA Marcomarco Veteran ·
by the way, rain + thunderstorms 4-5 times a day in October

Watch where you step, because the water running in the streets and reaching well above our ankles is far from clear, and we quickly fall into drainage holes without realizing it.

Yes! Like poor Aishwarya Rai in a movie (Kandukondain Kandukondain or Iruvar, I can’t remember which), if I ever find the clip again...—she fell and completely disappeared into a manhole while walking on the "sidewalk" 😮 What a mess! 😛



it’s here, at 3:20: http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=uRn7uh87U4c
DU Duppyconquer Veteran ·
Hey,

I just read the post with "genevieve"—she really took a beating, didn’t she? There’s always a "weeping boy" in a group, even a small one... lol😛

About the plumbing issue, when we were in Kerala with Tom (my English buddy), he had that problem but at night when it wasn’t even raining. lol. We’d only had a little aperitif, and the worst part is I walked right past it and must’ve had some insane luck—I missed it... not him

Check out the attached photo, two and a half weeks later when we were in Manali... emergency repatriation to England because he was starting to get sepsis... no comment...
GI Gildadesiles Globetrotter ·
Hello Stalingrad!

I’m back from Tamil Nadu and Kerala, and I loved it!!!! There’s a huge contrast between Rajasthan (which we visited last year) and these regions of India: while the north sometimes feels like it’s stuck in the Middle Ages with dirt everywhere, these areas seemed cleaner and less archaic!!! Too bad we were only able to stay for 3 weeks this year—one extra week would’ve been great.

It’s true we were hassled less than in the north: rickshaws, hotels, shops—everything felt more relaxed. The people have radiant smiles, and their head wobbles are delightful (though sometimes we were left wondering: yes, no, maybe????). One gripe about tourists: if they could stop giving pens and money to kids, maybe they wouldn’t be seen as walking ATMs!

This trip was amazing (thanks Stalingrad for your invaluable tips). We ate incredibly well (seafood and fish were delicious—no food poisoning at all), the hotels were great (the most we paid was 1000 Rs in Madurai and Pondicherry, but we wanted to treat ourselves; otherwise, it was between 400 and 700 Rs). We met friendly, kind, and smiling people. No disrespect toward me as a woman. We mostly traveled by bus and always found charming people to help us.

And on top of that, we were lucky—the rain had stopped, and we got to enjoy Kerala in the sunshine (just a few nighttime showers).

These two trips were great for different reasons: Rajasthan and North India for their incredibly rich heritage, which probably "shocked" us more than the south, and the south for its lush landscapes, vibrant vegetation, and the warmth of people’s smiles.
ST Stalingrad Globetrotter ·
Thanks for the wink and for your story—it really made my day! 😎
LO Logart Regular ·
It's hard to add more comments after everything that's been said, but I think you can still enjoy India even if you don't have much time. Despite a short stay (13 days), we loved this amazing country and can't stop thinking about going back. But we still can't decide where to go next given the diversity of cultures and landscapes. One thing is clear from everyone's messages: it's a country that leaves no one indifferent!
BR Brzhiwerzhon Regular ·
ME I ADORE INDIA and I’m still thanking it 10 years later, and after another trip back to Nepal this year where I left friends and, I think, a big part of my soul.

You’ve got to tame INDIA to love it—it’s the ONLY place in the world that can literally change a person. And you don’t need drugs for that. That’s what travel in India IS.

Namaste
Dieu se rit des hommes qui déplorent les effets dont ils chérissent les causes
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Wow, you're bringing back a debate that hasn't aged a day since it started in 2008. 17 years! 17 years since I fell in love with India (from my very first trip)
Je rencontrai sur mon chemin tant de difficultés Qu’elles furent toutes surmontées MIRZA GHALIB poète urdu (1796 -1869) https://www.telling-india-pictures.com https://youpic.com/marien
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Just got back from a walk and found *For the Love of India* by Catherine Clément in a little free library, right after reading that heated debate dug up 😅
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Hey, Pagal, great to see you again... even if it's just in passing... We've really missed your input on this India forum.

right after reading that heated debate dug up 😅

It'll be interesting to see if the fire that's been smoldering underground for years will wake the volcano... That would be an interesting test... But personally, I won't be taking part. I've already shared the reasons—if there are any—for my love of India in my various travel journals and other discussions.
Je rencontrai sur mon chemin tant de difficultés Qu’elles furent toutes surmontées MIRZA GHALIB poète urdu (1796 -1869) https://www.telling-india-pictures.com https://youpic.com/marien
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Thanks Jean-Marie! It was indeed a quick visit. You know how hard it is for me right now to jump in here, to find the time to read travel journals properly—not just skimming—and even less to reply with anything truly insightful. But I’m not giving up; I’m starting to have a bit more time now.
XI Xiongmao Regular ·
Instant love at first sight in 2003 (while working in humanitarian aid) when I arrived in India, and I spent the best years of my life there since I stayed every year (6 months/year). My last trip ended at the end of February 2025 !

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