Bonjour, je m'apprête à voyager en Thailande, plus précisément à Bangkok, avec ma future femme qui est thailandaise. On m'a dit quà certains hotels, ils peuvent refuser l'accès à ma femme parce qu'elle est thaie. Si oui, comment peux t-on faire pour éviter ces problèmes avec les hotels et guest house à Bangkok?? Je serai à Bangkok en février 2010 et je tiens à régler ce problème. Aidez moi svp...
Certaines adresses d'hôtels récalcitrants ont été données sur ce forum, en utilisant la fonction recherche, tu en trouveras, sinon les autres membres te donneront la "black list"...
Quand l'eau baisse les fourmis mangent les poissons; quand l'eau monte les poissons mangent les fourmis.
Il n'y a que le changement qui ne change pas.
Alors tout dépends de l'hotel, GH....
Et si tu prend t'a piaule avec elle ou sans!!!
On peut lui demandé ça ID card, ça peut aussi arriver dans des immeubles...
Certains gardiens font plus ou moins du zel, parfois on te demande juste ou tu vas, parfois on demande aux thai(e)s de laisser leur ID card a l'entrée...
ça dépend vraiment ou tu vas, mais en regle générale, si tu loge dans un hotel, on lui demandera sa ID card au début, puis si tu restes longtemps et qu'il voit toujours la meme venir on ne lui demandera plus apres!!!
Le mieux pour etre tranquille c'est de prendre ta piaule avec elle, ils te demanderons ton passeport (voir peut etre aussi sa ID card) une seule fois au début, et puis voila!!!
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pour les pti curieux!!! le chien subliminaleeu
oui mais il faut avouer que c'est très dégradant .. se faire contrôler dans son propre pays .. et juger au faciesse .. 🤪
( plus on a la peau miel dorée plus on est contrôler .. )
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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oui mais il faut avouer que c'est très dégradant .. se faire contrôler dans son propre pays .. et juger au faciesse .. 🤪
ça c'est clair, la mauvaise réputation des femmes thaïes n'est pas seulement international mais aussi national, et c'est bien dommage, car encore une fois, une minorité porte préjudice à la majorité...🤪
Quand l'eau baisse les fourmis mangent les poissons; quand l'eau monte les poissons mangent les fourmis.
Il n'y a que le changement qui ne change pas.
Perso jamais eu ce souci, une seule fois en allant chez un pote avec ma copine, ont nous a demandé ou on allait, j'ai répondu tel appart et rien de plus!!! (et pourtant c'était sur Sukhumvit)
Dans mon appart (hotel qui fait service appartement) aucun souci non plus!!!
ça dépend aussi beaucoup des endroits, des heures, et aussi malheureusement des filles!!!!!!
Le mieux est de prendre sa chambre avec sa copine des le départ, ça évite tout ces désagréments!!!!
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Un voyage de mille lis a commencé par un pas. (Lao-Tseu ; 1 lis=ancienne mesure chinoise équivalente a 576m définie des la dynastie Qin, mais qui variait selon la région et l'époque, valeur actuelle 500m, le li est une mesure coréenne d'environ 3920m)
pour les pti curieux!!! le chien subliminaleeu
Bonjour,
Alors la je suis étonné!? Je n'est jamais eu de problème (en 20 ans), ma femme m'a confirmé que ça existait, mais ce sont plutot des Hotels haut de gamme (que je ne peut et ne veut pas fréquenté), elle pense que si le comportement est correct, la tenue pas trop exentrique et les réponses aux questions posées par le personnel correct, l'accès doit être possible.
En tous cas c'est aarrivé a une de ces amie et celle-ci a envoyé ch... d'entrée le personnel et est partie chercher ailleur, chose que je trouve adéquatte.
hélas cela existe .. je me suis rendu a une expositions organiser par l'ambassade d'Australie ..dans un hôtel . avec une femme thaïe de couleur fonce .. et refus . a l'entrée . . manque de chance c était l'organisatrice de l'évènement .. 🤪
si on est aussi nombreux a faire ce terrible constat c'est bien que il existe .. 🙁
ça c'est clair, la mauvaise réputation des femmes thaïes n'est pas seulement international mais aussi national, et c'est bien dommage, car encore une fois, une minorité porte préjudice à la majorité...🤪
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« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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Juste,
je pense que les thaïs sont très physionomistes bien que certains incidents de faux jugements sont à déplorer envers des femmes de bonne famille.
BYe
Quand l'eau baisse les fourmis mangent les poissons; quand l'eau monte les poissons mangent les fourmis.
Il n'y a que le changement qui ne change pas.
Tu fais le check-in avec elle et normalement pas de problème, cela m'est arrivé une fois, j'ai fais appeler le manager et tout c'est arrangé. Si un gardien fait du zèle, il vérifira que vous avez " checké " ensemble pour une chambre double et il ne devrait pas recommencer le lendemain 😉
ca me semble surealiste, j'ai voyager avec ma copine thai un peu partout. j'ai eu des regards sur ma copine , mais jamais de refus.. elle a toujours des tenues dirons adequate pour les lieux ou on va. et bon elle a 23ans j'en ai 28 peux etre ca joue..
enfin on s'enregistre toujours ensemble a l'hotel, parfois ils demandent sa piece d'identiter.
si vous pouviez partager les hotels qui ont donner des refus ca serait sympa=)
Je n'ai jamais été refoulé d'aucun hotel, mais c'est vrai que de lui voir réclamer sa carte quand on rentre le soir m'ennerve. Elle prend ça avec le sourire, en me disant, c'est pas grave, il fait son travail.
Je ne peux vous donner que mon expérience: aucun problème.Ca m'est déjà arrivé, après qqs nuits, le malentendu passe, et le sourires deviennent plus francs!
Juste bien confirmer qu'on séjourne en couple fixe, donner passeport pour toi et id card pour elle.
Donner les noms et les identités par email si réservation, ça évitera les confusions.
C'est parfaitement normal que certains hôtels refusent des couples dont ils peuvent penser que ce sont des rapports tarifés, (donc h farang, f thaï) et moi je ferais pareil à leur place.
De toute façon, si tu réserves à l'avance, je ne vois pas comment ils peuvent te refuser la chambre.
Chacun possède la force créatrice de l'univers. Il crée sa réalité et se doit d'en assumer les conséquences.
Le Bouddha Gautama, vers 500 av J.C.
oui mais il faut avouer que c'est très dégradant .. se faire contrôler dans son propre pays .. et juger au faciesse .. 🤪
ça c'est clair, la mauvaise réputation des femmes thaïes n'est pas seulement international mais aussi national, et c'est bien dommage, car encore une fois, une minorité porte préjudice à la majorité...🤪
Une minorité?
HAHAHAHA, mes glandes lacrymales fonctionnent à merveille.
Merci Salsa😉
moi je suis marie avec mon epouse depuis 15 ans, et j ai jamais eu de soucis de se genre en thailande, par contre en chine ou au vietnam j ai eu des problemes presque dans tous les hotels .
Encore une loi stupide typiquement française où une ex peut porter le nom de son ex mari....
C'est un truc français tout simplement!
Bsr,
Ca dépend de quel côté on se place. On parle souvent de l'intérêt des enfants dans ce genre de choix. Pour être plus précis, l'ex-épouse peut demander au juge de porter ce nom, mais il n'est pas dit qu'il accepte!
Chacun possède la force créatrice de l'univers. Il crée sa réalité et se doit d'en assumer les conséquences.
Le Bouddha Gautama, vers 500 av J.C.
Bonjour, je m'apprête à voyager en Thailande, plus précisément à Bangkok, avec ma future femme qui est thailandaise. On m'a dit quà certains hotels, ils peuvent refuser l'accès à ma femme parce qu'elle est thaie. Si oui, comment peux t-on faire pour éviter ces problèmes avec les hotels et guest house à Bangkok?? Je serai à Bangkok en février 2010 et je tiens à régler ce problème. Aidez moi svp...
J, aimerais qu'on me donne des noms d'hotels ou guest house peu recommandables à Bangkok pour les éviter si possible, car il y aurait une black list supposément. J, aimerais éviter les ennuis et que ma femme se sente un peu humiliée par des gens non courtois. Merci d'avance...
Une chose est sûr l'hôtel Atlanta est à éviter car même avec ta femme, les regards risquent d'être suspicieux.
la au moins c'est très clair il y a un panneaux .🤪..... pareille dans des guets ..
cela m'amuse quant je lis ( il suffit d'être habiller poliment ) la femme thaïe Oui mais le farang ou la farang es que on lui oblige de faire de même .. ?? es normal ???
un panneau très significatif de cet état d'esprit .. le NO est es énorme caractère .. bien en évidence .. aucune gêne ni discrétion .. le logo .pour montrer clairement ce que on pense .
et bien mettre en évidence Thaïe .. quant au merci il se fait minuscule ( a vous d'interpréter ce panneau .. ) qui bien sur était sur le comptoir de la réception ......
aimerais qu'on me donne des noms d'hôtels ou guest house peu recommandables à Bangkok pour les éviter si possible, car il y aurait une black list supposément. J, aimerais éviter les ennuis et que ma femme se sente un peu humiliée par des gens non courtois. Merci d'avance...
je vais donner un ou 2 coups de téléphone a certains hôtels et demander si cette pratique . est courante dans l'hôtel .. et je t'enverrais un message ..
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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C'est effectivement un gros problème. J'ai eu le cas personnellement 2 fois. Dans mon cas, le pire exemple a été l'hôtel Ambassador à Bangkok où ma femme s'est fait contrôler pour pouvoir entrer dans sa chambre. Certains hôtels refusent même carrément l'accès aux Thaïs.
Solution? Je n'en ai pas vraiment..... Mis à part éviter ces endroits; mais comme dirait Forrest Gump, on ne sait jamais sur quoi on va tomber.
Et ce ne sont pas forcément les grands hôtels les pires. Par exemple, j'ai l'habitude de résider au Sheraton Grande Sukhumvit et ma femme n'y a jamais été inquiétée; que du contraire.
Bonjour, je m'apprête à voyager en Thailande, plus précisément à Bangkok, avec ma future femme qui est thailandaise. On m'a dit quà certains hotels, ils peuvent refuser l'accès à ma femme parce qu'elle est thaie. Si oui, comment peux t-on faire pour éviter ces problèmes avec les hotels et guest house à Bangkok?? Je serai à Bangkok en février 2010 et je tiens à régler ce problème. Aidez moi svp...
Une minorité?
HAHAHAHA, mes glandes lacrymales fonctionnent à merveille.
Merci Salsa😉
A nouveau abominable (remarquez que je n'ai pas mis de majuscule à la lettre a car dans ce cas, c'est un adjectif...), il faudra un jour que tu apprennes à ne pas mélanger ta propre situation pour l'appliquer bêtement à l'ensemble.😛
Quand l'eau baisse les fourmis mangent les poissons; quand l'eau monte les poissons mangent les fourmis.
Il n'y a que le changement qui ne change pas.
Le fait de donner sa carte ou son passeport le 1er jour pour l enregistrement est normal. Je pense que c est comme cela en France et ailleur...
Par contre, si on reste plusieurs jours on a pas a le ou la refaire voir...
Ça nous est arrivé une fois que l on demande à mon épouse sa carte après avoir passé 2 nuits dans un hotel .Elle l a montré mais j ai fais appelé le patron . Je lui ai demandé des excuses de son employé et un geste . Il nous a offert les petits déjeuners des 3 jours.
Helas ! on vit dans un monde ou c est de plus en plus comme ça...( je ne parle pas que de la Thailande )
Ce matin , je me suis vu refuser a Siam Paragorn l entree d une exposition sur l hotelerie au 5eme etage . Parce que j etais en short ! car aujourd hui c est le 1er jour de l expo et une hotesse m a dit que c est le brand day then no short ! Par contre , vous laissez entrer les femmes en robe , jupe ou short .... I don t understand !!! Je lui ai demandé si c est parce que mes jambes ne sont pas aussi belles que les siennes ! Elle est devenue toute rouge et ses copines se sont foutu d elle !!!...
Et quand on voit comment certains commerçants vous accostent pour vous vendre qqchose... Les tailleurs Indiens par exemple.
Moi j'ai une adresse sur Klongtan si tu veux, Tu t'enregistre avec ta copine et ils ne te demanderons plus jamais rien!!!!! Nasa Vegas Hotel
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Un voyage de mille lis a commencé par un pas. (Lao-Tseu ; 1 lis=ancienne mesure chinoise équivalente a 576m définie des la dynastie Qin, mais qui variait selon la région et l'époque, valeur actuelle 500m, le li est une mesure coréenne d'environ 3920m)
pour les pti curieux!!! le chien subliminaleeu
De toute façon la plupart du temps en Thaïlande, pour des petites choses comme ça il ne faut pas cherché à comprendre et faire comme cela se présente, car sinon on risque parfois de se cogner la tête dans les murs ...perso, je me marre de tout, alors ...
Pour dire, avec ma femme qui est comme moi farang, on rencontre une Thaïe un soir ( on se calme, on se calme 😄 ..je vois déjà les commentaires ) ..bref, il s'avère que je vais avec à ma piole ...seul avec elle ...oui ma femme était au salon de massage ...et là le gus au pied de l'ascenseur, nous fait son numéro de cirque ...bref on s'en fout la copine laisse sa carte et puis voilà ...
Le soir même, ma femme monte seule avec ... ( on reste tjrs calme 😏 ) et là va savoir pourquoi le mec en bas est là béât, sourire ultra aux lèvres et laisse monter les dames seules à l'étage, sans dépôt de la carte 😕 ...va comprendre !!! ...
Je veux coucher dans une place soit près de Khao San Road, soit près de l'Ambassade du Canada. Je veux mettre un maximum de 1200 bhts par nuit, tandis que c'est propre, j'ai un bon lit et de l'air climatisé et une bonne douche , ca irait. 😉
Mais en tout cas l'adresse que je t'ai donné est a l'est de Bangkok donc a l'opposée de KSR!!!!!
Je sais qu'il y a l'ambassade de Cuba et du Nigéria pas loin MDR
DSL A+
Un voyage de mille lis a commencé par un pas. (Lao-Tseu ; 1 lis=ancienne mesure chinoise équivalente a 576m définie des la dynastie Qin, mais qui variait selon la région et l'époque, valeur actuelle 500m, le li est une mesure coréenne d'environ 3920m)
pour les pti curieux!!! le chien subliminaleeu
Je pense que tu ne dois pas trop te poser de question, car en general si tu fais le check in avec ta femme ensuite il est tres rare que l'on redemande la ID sauf dans les quartier un peux chaud, et si comme dans certain hotel comme l'Ambassadeur ou le Montien on vous le demande au pied de l'assenceur c'est unniquement qu'il ne peux pas savoir que vous avez etes enregistre ensembre et il suffit de leur dire il passe un coup de fil a la reception et c'est fini.
Cela n'est pas par discrimination mais surtout pour eviter les problemes de vol etc, leur identite etant connus de la reception il auront plus de crainte de partir avec telephone, argent, credit carte, et j'en passe et cela arrive encore tres souvent surtout lorsque le Monsieur rentre et dis que c'est ca femme.
Bjr,
Eh! Oui, comme souvent , en Thaïlande ce sont aussi les mêmes règles que dans d'autres pays: il est souvent interdit à une tierce personne de monter dans une chambre.
On peut uniquement la recevoir dans les salons communs!
Chacun possède la force créatrice de l'univers. Il crée sa réalité et se doit d'en assumer les conséquences.
Le Bouddha Gautama, vers 500 av J.C.
Ce matin , je me suis vu refuser a Siam Paragorn l entree d une exposition sur l hotelerie au 5eme etage . Parce que j etais en short ! car aujourd hui c est le 1er jour de l expo et une hotesse m a dit que c est le brand day then no short ! Par contre , vous laissez entrer les femmes en robe , jupe ou short .... I don t understand !!! Je lui ai demandé si c est parce que mes jambes ne sont pas aussi belles que les siennes ! Elle est devenue toute rouge et ses copines se sont foutu d elle !!!...
Bah je trouve ca tout à fait normal. C'était tenue correcte exigée pour le premier jour de l'exposition. Ça existe même en Thaïlande! Ensuite bien vu pour l'humour, mais ce n'est pas ca qui t'a fait rentrer.
Et quand on voit comment certains commerçants vous accostent pour vous vendre qqchose... Les tailleurs Indiens par exemple.
Euh, je ne vois pas du tout le rapport...
profitons de cette vie si courte!!! Ao sanuk mak mak touk touk wan. (I wanna enjoy life everyday)
Bjr,
Eh! Oui, comme souvent , en Thaïlande ce sont aussi les mêmes règles que dans d'autres pays: il est souvent interdit à une tierce personne de monter dans une chambre.
On peut uniquement la recevoir dans les salons communs!
il n'est interdit a personne de monter dans une chambre on lui demande unniquement de decliner sont identite, pour plus de securite dans les etablissements, d'ailleur comme on a demande la votre a votree arrivee pour le check in et la personne ne trouvent quelque chose a dire.
Te prends pas la tete. Surpris que cela existe. Vu les commentaires il semble pourtant que ce soit le cas. cela doit neanmoins rester tres minoritaire.
Alors n`y pense pas et si cela t`arrive va juste a l`hotel ou guesthouse suivant.
Bjr,
Eh! Oui, comme souvent , en Thaïlande ce sont aussi les mêmes règles que dans d'autres pays: il est souvent interdit à une tierce personne de monter dans une chambre.
On peut uniquement la recevoir dans les salons communs!
il n'est interdit a personne de monter dans une chambre on lui demande unniquement de decliner sont identite, pour plus de securite dans les etablissements, d'ailleur comme on a demande la votre a votree arrivee pour le check in et la personne ne trouvent quelque chose a dire.
souvent...pas... toujours!
Chacun possède la force créatrice de l'univers. Il crée sa réalité et se doit d'en assumer les conséquences.
Le Bouddha Gautama, vers 500 av J.C.
Bjr,
Eh! Oui, comme souvent , en Thaïlande ce sont aussi les mêmes règles que dans d'autres pays: il est souvent interdit à une tierce personne de monter dans une chambre.
On peut uniquement la recevoir dans les salons communs!
Cette norme est surtout appliquée pour le soir.
En ce qui concerne les grands hôtels, avec ma femme et mes enfants jamais eu de problèmes mais en général une certaine jalousie des employées de réception, sachant que 2 nuits dans leur hôtels correspondent environ à leur salaire mensuel.
Il y a eu beaucoup d'histoire de vol par des filles d'une nuit alors la solution pour eviter ca c'est de demander la carte d'identite. Si l'hotel demande la carte a toutes les femmes Thai c'est bien une preuve de non discrimination et c'est tellement rare en Thailande que ca merite d'etre note. Si la carte n'est demande qu'au femmes a la peau sombre alors c'est de la discrimination. Ensuite si vous arrivez le matin a l'hotel, vous ne verrez pas le meme personnel que le soir donc c'est normale qu'il ne vous connait pas.
Et finalement il arrive aussi qu'on demande la carte a la fille (si c'est pour la nuit) parce que ca permet d'arrondir les fins de mois du gardien!
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Thanks for your help
Hi there,
I’m planning a family trip (my wife and I, both 47, and our two sons, aged 5 and 12) to Malaysia for the last week of June and the first two weeks of July 2027.
We used to love road trips as a couple, then as a trio, but since our second child arrived, we’ve taken a break with "camping village" style trips.
Now feels like the right time to get back to our old habits, while adjusting the pace for the kids.
We’re craving Asia. We’ve been lucky enough to visit Thailand, Indonesia (Bali and Lombok), and Sri Lanka before.
Friends have raved about Malaysia, so we’re definitely tempted.
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Hello,
We’re a family of four with two teens aged 16 and 18. We’re heading to Thailand this summer. We’ll arrive in Bangkok and plan to take a flight to Luang Prabang.
I’ve seen there are some great visits and excursions to do (temples, markets, waterfalls) and maybe even venture a bit north to places like Nong Khiaw, Muang Xay, Muang Ngoy, or Oudom Xay.
But I’ve also heard about the Bokeo region with the Gibbon Experience.
Since we won’t be able to do everything, I’d love to hear about your experiences, impressions, and advice on the two options I’m considering, especially since we’ll be meeting family in Chiang Mai, Thailand, afterward.
Option 1: A loop from Luang Prabang heading slightly north, then a flight from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai.
Option 2: A few days in Luang Prabang, exploring within a few dozen kilometers around, then heading to Bokeo province for the 2-day/1-night Gibbon Experience. For this option, I saw on Rome2Rio that it’s possible to book a ferry trip on the Mekong from Luang Prabang to Huay Xay—they mention about 8 hours. But is that realistic? What type of boat is it?
Then, to get to Chiang Mai, there aren’t many options—bus or minivan—but how does crossing the border work?
Finally, for those of you who’ve been to Laos in August, what was the weather like?
We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
I’m starting a discussion about guides in the Mekong Delta because we’ve just finished our trip in this region and had a hard time finding a French-speaking guide. We had Thanh—she speaks French really well and travels all over the delta region, including Ho Chi Minh City. She’s super friendly and flexible. I recommend her wholeheartedly. If it can help someone...
Feel free to contact us for her number.
Hi everyone,
I couldn’t find any recent info on Kuching.
Can anyone recommend a hotel or guesthouse for under 100 RM that’s nice and affordable? No dorms, please.
Also, does it rain a lot in November, and is it still worth visiting Semenggoh or Bako?
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you?
If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
Silly question—backpack or hard-shell suitcase for the Sepilok, Kinabatangan, Tioman, KL trip?
I’m struggling to fit all my son’s and my stuff into the 70L backpack... and I’m thinking a suitcase would be easier, but I’m not sure if it’ll work for getting around.
Hi there,
I didn’t plan to return to Thailand this year, but my health conditions mean it’ll be the best place for me to stay between two trips to India. The tourism setup there is so well-organized that it’s the most "comfortable" country for a short visit. Thailand feels too sanitized for my taste, and there’s too much religion, Buddha, and the King, but it’s still the best option given how my health has been evolving. I’d considered two weeks in ThaTon for hiking, but I got too sick from the burn-offs during my trips to the mountains around Chiang Rai. So I’m not sure where to go this year. Definitely not the sea, touristy spots, or the mountains with burn-offs...
After a stay on Koh Phayam this coming November, I’d like to spend 2 or 3 days on Koh Phra Thong before heading further south.
Do you think it’s doable to leave Koh Phayam early enough to catch the 10 AM boat from Khura Buri to Koh Phra Thong? The next one isn’t until 4 PM, which would cost me a whole day.
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days.
I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome!
I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Hello everyone,
Not long ago, I used to travel as a couple, but my husband has since passed away, and I’ve decided to set off again. The trip I took to Cambodia in January 2025 did me a world of good.
I’m now considering Thailand, a destination we never included in our plans because even 15 years ago, people said it was too touristy. Still, I’m thinking about the itinerary below, but I don’t feel up to arranging buses, trains, or guides on my own while I’m there. I’m looking for one or more drivers and have been in touch with an agency, but their offers are just copy-paste group tours that I don’t want.
So, if you have any contacts, experiences, or advice, I’d be so grateful if you’d share them with me. Here’s my rough plan:
Arrival in Bangkok
Ayutthaya (2 nights)
Kanchanaburi (2 or 3 nights)
Sangkhlaburi/Sai Yok (3 nights)
Sukhothai (2 nights)
Lampang (I’ve planned 3 nights, but that might be a bit much—it depends on what time I arrive in the city)
Chiang Mai
Chiang Dao
Pai
Chiang Rai
I was thinking about the Mae Hong Son loop—thoughts?
What do you think about staying overnight at the Golden Triangle?
When I look online, of course, I can find agencies that organize tours to national parks, etc.
I’m retired but in great physical shape. I’d rather go hiking than sit in hot springs with crowds of tourists who’ve all arranged meet-ups. I don’t want to spend a day at an elephant camp, and I don’t want to visit Karen villages.
I’d love to hear your advice.
Thank you all,
Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi,
From Malacca to get to Jerantut, is it better to go back to KL and take a bus from there, or take a bus to Tampin and then a train? Any feedback on the "Jungle Train"? (duration, price, comfort, etc.). Thanks
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur
Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral.
Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo).
Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok:
* Orangutan Center
* Malayan Sun Bear Center
* Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan.
Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari.
Jungle walk.
Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari.
Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port.
Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar
5 full days.
* Snorkeling
* Hiking
* Turtle watching
* Wild beaches
* Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland.
Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Hi everyone,
We’re heading to Flores and then Bali at the end of September.
We’ve already visited both but this time, once we’re in Labuan Bajo, we’d like to take a boat to the Komodo Islands to see the famous Komodo dragons.
I don’t want to sleep on the boat—just a day trip would be perfect.
Does anyone know a reliable and friendly provider to recommend?
Thanks in advance, and have a great summer!
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali.
And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people!
So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops):
- 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud
2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa)
1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...)
- 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces)
- 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai
- 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed)
- 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island)
- 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan)
- 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels.
Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?)
Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?)
Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027:
- Phnom Penh
- Kampong Cham
- Kratie
- Siem Reap
- Battambang
- Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights.
Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above.
Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
Hi there,
We’re planning to travel from Chiang Rai to Luang Prabang next November.
We’d like to take a slow boat from Chiang Khong—or rather from Huay Xai in Laos—with an overnight stop in Pakbeng.
Could you let us know if the boat still leaves Huay Xai in the late morning? If so, what time roughly, and what’s the price for the trip?
Thanks for your help!
Alod
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations:
We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights:
The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1:
We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2:
This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3:
With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4:
Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings.
We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops.
In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5:
Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6:
This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8:
Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10:
On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12:
We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines.
Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment.
We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15:
From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP).
We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning.
We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise.
Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16:
We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town.
It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view.
We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise.
In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911.
On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city.
We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17:
Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning.
Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in.
The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances:
In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary:
Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional.
Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
So, my flight tickets have just been booked for a trip to Cambodia from November 4th to 27th, 2025.
I’ll be traveling solo and want to explore this amazing country while getting a bit off the beaten path.
I’m arriving in Phnom Penh and also departing from Phnom Penh.
My goal is to travel as much as possible by bus and scooter.
What itinerary would you recommend?
What are the must-do things?
I’m open to all tips and info.
Thanks in advance for your help and responses.
