J'ai rencontre un Monsieur thai qui m'a dit qu'il etait ricule pour un etranger de faire le wai compagne du Ka pun ka a des inconnus en Thailande. C'est pourtant ce que j'ai toujours fait aux caissieres, taximen, vendeurs de rue etc... Je n'ai recu que wai en retour et beaux sourires, et pas eu l'impression qu'on se moquait dans mon dos, mais cette reflexion aujourdh'hui me fait douter. Pas trop envie de passer pour une neuneu exageremment obsequieuse dans ce beau pays. So, quand est-il a votre avis ?
Thaïlande: mode d'emploi du waï pour les étrangers?
by Sunhae
This discussion is in French, the community’s main language.
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Bonjour a tous
J'ai rencontre un Monsieur thai qui m'a dit qu'il etait ricule pour un etranger de faire le wai compagne du Ka pun ka a des inconnus en Thailande. C'est pourtant ce que j'ai toujours fait aux caissieres, taximen, vendeurs de rue etc... Je n'ai recu que wai en retour et beaux sourires, et pas eu l'impression qu'on se moquait dans mon dos, mais cette reflexion aujourdh'hui me fait douter. Pas trop envie de passer pour une neuneu exageremment obsequieuse dans ce beau pays. So, quand est-il a votre avis ?
J'ai rencontre un Monsieur thai qui m'a dit qu'il etait ricule pour un etranger de faire le wai compagne du Ka pun ka a des inconnus en Thailande. C'est pourtant ce que j'ai toujours fait aux caissieres, taximen, vendeurs de rue etc... Je n'ai recu que wai en retour et beaux sourires, et pas eu l'impression qu'on se moquait dans mon dos, mais cette reflexion aujourdh'hui me fait douter. Pas trop envie de passer pour une neuneu exageremment obsequieuse dans ce beau pays. So, quand est-il a votre avis ?
" Veux tu vivre heureux ? Voyages avec 2 sacs. L'un pour donner, l'autre pour recevoir."
Johann Wolfang Von Goethe
Bonjour,
En effet, en Thaîlande on ne salue pas (en premier) quelqu'un qui est inférieur socialement à soi. De même ou ne salue pas par un Wai un Ami ou famille du même âge.
Pas de Wai à un caissier du 7/11 ou taxi par exemple. Par contre si celui-ci vous salue par un Wai lui répondre de la sorte est la norme.
Plus les mains sont hautes, plus le respect est grand:
- pouces au dessus du nez pour un moine
- pouces qui viennent toucher le nez pour quelqu'un de superieur à soi (parent plus vieux, patron)
- mains sous le menton pour un Wai à une personne équivalente à soi ou pour une réponse à Wai de quelqu'un d'inférieur.
Cordialement.
En effet, en Thaîlande on ne salue pas (en premier) quelqu'un qui est inférieur socialement à soi. De même ou ne salue pas par un Wai un Ami ou famille du même âge.
Pas de Wai à un caissier du 7/11 ou taxi par exemple. Par contre si celui-ci vous salue par un Wai lui répondre de la sorte est la norme.
Plus les mains sont hautes, plus le respect est grand:
- pouces au dessus du nez pour un moine
- pouces qui viennent toucher le nez pour quelqu'un de superieur à soi (parent plus vieux, patron)
- mains sous le menton pour un Wai à une personne équivalente à soi ou pour une réponse à Wai de quelqu'un d'inférieur.
Cordialement.
Merci a toi, me voila completement fixee sur les "wai-lleries" !
Mais alors dans ce cas, a un caissier 7/11, on dit bonjour comment, juste les mots sans le wai ?
Mais alors dans ce cas, a un caissier 7/11, on dit bonjour comment, juste les mots sans le wai ?
" Veux tu vivre heureux ? Voyages avec 2 sacs. L'un pour donner, l'autre pour recevoir."
Johann Wolfang Von Goethe
On dit rien!
Je sais que c'est bizzare pour nous Français mais je n'ai jamais vu ma femme dire "sawadee kha" au 7/11. Mais moi à chaque fois je lâche un petit "sawadee krab" par habitude!
Par contre si le vendeur voue salue par les mots ou par le geste il faut lui répondre de la même manière.
Je sais que c'est bizzare pour nous Français mais je n'ai jamais vu ma femme dire "sawadee kha" au 7/11. Mais moi à chaque fois je lâche un petit "sawadee krab" par habitude!
Par contre si le vendeur voue salue par les mots ou par le geste il faut lui répondre de la même manière.
Bonjour,
Vu qu'on est au rayon 'us et coutumes', j'en profite.
J'ai lu x fois qu'on ne touchait pas la tête de quelqu'un.
Aussi, je suis toujours étonnée (parfois plusieurs fois par jour!) de voir leur curiosité prendre le dessus, lorsqu'ils touchent la tête de mon petit bonhomme (à la chevelure...particulière).
En partant du principe qu'au 1er abord, on ne peut pas savoir si je suis bouddhiste ou pas. 🙂
Un début d'explication peut-être?
Vu qu'on est au rayon 'us et coutumes', j'en profite.
J'ai lu x fois qu'on ne touchait pas la tête de quelqu'un.
Aussi, je suis toujours étonnée (parfois plusieurs fois par jour!) de voir leur curiosité prendre le dessus, lorsqu'ils touchent la tête de mon petit bonhomme (à la chevelure...particulière).
En partant du principe qu'au 1er abord, on ne peut pas savoir si je suis bouddhiste ou pas. 🙂
Un début d'explication peut-être?
Bonjour,
On ne touche pas la tête de quelqu'un plus vieux ou plus "important" que soi. De même il ne faut jamais passer son bras au dessus de quelqu'un ou l'enjamber. J'ai comme vous lu pleins de fois qu'on ne touche pas la tête d'un enfant car c'est le "siège de son âme", mais en réalité c'est faux. Peut-être une ancienne croyance/coutume qui se perds comme le Waï d'ailleurs qui a tendance à "s'uniformiser" peut importe le rang social ou l'âge.
Cordialement
On ne touche pas la tête de quelqu'un plus vieux ou plus "important" que soi. De même il ne faut jamais passer son bras au dessus de quelqu'un ou l'enjamber. J'ai comme vous lu pleins de fois qu'on ne touche pas la tête d'un enfant car c'est le "siège de son âme", mais en réalité c'est faux. Peut-être une ancienne croyance/coutume qui se perds comme le Waï d'ailleurs qui a tendance à "s'uniformiser" peut importe le rang social ou l'âge.
Cordialement
me voila completement fixee sur les "wai-lleries" !
Sawadee krap
Plus complexe que ça: Le waï et le krap
Regles de bienséances au wat
Sawadee krap
Plus complexe que ça: Le waï et le krap
Regles de bienséances au wat
On ne touche pas la tête de quelqu'un plus vieux ou plus "important" que soi.
De même il ne faut jamais passer son bras au dessus de quelqu'un ou l'enjamber.
J'ai comme vous lu pleins de fois qu'on ne touche pas la tête d'un enfant car c'est le "siège de son âme", mais en réalité c'est faux.
A part la tête d'un moine, Tout ça fait partie des superstitions a géométrie variable suivant les régions et les personnes: Superstitions Thaïlande: Les 60 choses a savoir et a éviter
le Waï d'ailleurs qui a tendance à "s'uniformiser" peut importe le rang social ou l'âge.
Non
A part la tête d'un moine, Tout ça fait partie des superstitions a géométrie variable suivant les régions et les personnes: Superstitions Thaïlande: Les 60 choses a savoir et a éviter
le Waï d'ailleurs qui a tendance à "s'uniformiser" peut importe le rang social ou l'âge.
Non
Sawadee krap Bob
Il y a des points communs avec d'autres croyances occidendales ou pas .
Comme quoi les humains sont partout pareils.
Plus les mains sont hautes, plus le respect est grand:
- pouces au dessus du nez pour un moine
- pouces qui viennent toucher le nez pour quelqu'un de superieur à soi (parent plus vieux, patron)
- mains sous le menton pour un Wai à une personne équivalente à soi ou pour une réponse à Wai de quelqu'un d'inférieur.
Cordialement.
et si on croise son boss et qu'on a un gros colis dans les bras, on fait comment ?
- pouces au dessus du nez pour un moine
- pouces qui viennent toucher le nez pour quelqu'un de superieur à soi (parent plus vieux, patron)
- mains sous le menton pour un Wai à une personne équivalente à soi ou pour une réponse à Wai de quelqu'un d'inférieur.
Cordialement.
et si on croise son boss et qu'on a un gros colis dans les bras, on fait comment ?
God and love likely to disappear during translating.
Ah! tu te renseignes pour demain , quand tu me rencontreras avec mon cadeau ?
Plus les mains sont hautes, plus le respect est grand:
- pouces au dessus du nez pour un moine
- pouces qui viennent toucher le nez pour quelqu'un de superieur à soi (parent plus vieux, patron)
- mains sous le menton pour un Wai à une personne équivalente à soi ou pour une réponse à Wai de quelqu'un d'inférieur.
Cordialement.
et si on croise son boss et qu'on a un gros colis dans les bras, on fait comment ?
Je viens de tester à la maison:c'est faisable 😛
- pouces au dessus du nez pour un moine
- pouces qui viennent toucher le nez pour quelqu'un de superieur à soi (parent plus vieux, patron)
- mains sous le menton pour un Wai à une personne équivalente à soi ou pour une réponse à Wai de quelqu'un d'inférieur.
Cordialement.
et si on croise son boss et qu'on a un gros colis dans les bras, on fait comment ?
Je viens de tester à la maison:c'est faisable 😛
et si on croise son boss et qu'on a un gros colis dans les bras, on fait comment ?
Je viens de tester à la maison:c'est faisable 😛
Le colis n'étais ni assez gros, ni assez lourd 😏 et les livreurs de piano à queue ils font comment ?
Je viens de tester à la maison:c'est faisable 😛
Le colis n'étais ni assez gros, ni assez lourd 😏 et les livreurs de piano à queue ils font comment ?
God and love likely to disappear during translating.
Bonjour,
Vu qu'on est au rayon 'us et coutumes', j'en profite.
J'ai lu x fois qu'on ne touchait pas la tête de quelqu'un.
Aussi, je suis toujours étonnée (parfois plusieurs fois par jour!) de voir leur curiosité prendre le dessus, lorsqu'ils touchent la tête de mon petit bonhomme (à la chevelure...particulière).
En partant du principe qu'au 1er abord, on ne peut pas savoir si je suis bouddhiste ou pas. 🙂
Un début d'explication peut-être?
Et en images, s'il vous plaît! 😏😏
N.B.: La prochaine fois que tu rencontres une personne "curieuse" qui tourne autour de ton petit... demande lui si elle n'a pas bu du lactel avant... 😏😏😎
Et en images, s'il vous plaît! 😏😏
N.B.: La prochaine fois que tu rencontres une personne "curieuse" qui tourne autour de ton petit... demande lui si elle n'a pas bu du lactel avant... 😏😏😎
le fiston
Tu le tond et tu l'habille en safran. problème réglé 🙂
Tu le tond et tu l'habille en safran. problème réglé 🙂
God and love likely to disappear during translating.
Pour l'anecdote; dans un train en direction du sud, on a croisé un Mr thai; on aurait dit Barbe Bleue mais version rousse (j'imagine qu'il allait au sud du sud :o). 1m95, au bas mot (en plus, suis 'minuscule', hein, modo perso!), 100 kg, un pantalon et un sac à dos treillis.
Ben malgré les assauts répétés sur sa chevelure, mon fils, cette fois, n'a rien dit (:o!) Sont pas bêtes, mêmes petits!!!! Sa mère...indigne 😊 non plus!😏
Tout se perd, et je (surtout le fiston) le regrette; vivement le retour du 'on ne touche pas à la tête'. Vu que ma croissance est terminée 😕😏
Ben malgré les assauts répétés sur sa chevelure, mon fils, cette fois, n'a rien dit (:o!) Sont pas bêtes, mêmes petits!!!! Sa mère...indigne 😊 non plus!😏
Tout se perd, et je (surtout le fiston) le regrette; vivement le retour du 'on ne touche pas à la tête'. Vu que ma croissance est terminée 😕😏
Si, je maintiens.😠Je veux bien croire que dans votre entourage ça ne soit pas le cas, mais ma source est fiable puisque Thaï.😉
Sawadee krap
Même les kwaïs ne sont pas d'accord avec toi 😉:
Un bufflalo qui fait le Waï
Sawadee krap
Même les kwaïs ne sont pas d'accord avec toi 😉:
Un bufflalo qui fait le Waï
me voila completement fixee sur les "wai-lleries" !
Sawadee krap
Plus complexe que ça: Le waï et le krap
Regles de bienséances au wat
Coucou Tokara Une fois de plus on peut compter sur toi si on veut passer pour la fine fleur de l'etranger... Et merci aussi aux autres contributeurs, tres interessant tout ca.
Sawadee krap
Plus complexe que ça: Le waï et le krap
Regles de bienséances au wat
Coucou Tokara Une fois de plus on peut compter sur toi si on veut passer pour la fine fleur de l'etranger... Et merci aussi aux autres contributeurs, tres interessant tout ca.
" Veux tu vivre heureux ? Voyages avec 2 sacs. L'un pour donner, l'autre pour recevoir."
Johann Wolfang Von Goethe
Sawadee krap
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Tout le plaisir est pour moi 🙂
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Thanks for your suggestions!
Hi there,
Does anyone know of a private transfer or taxi company that organizes transfers from the Sukhothai area to Chiang Mai? Our routes are Sukhothai-Lampang, Lampang-Chom Thong, and Chom Thong-Chiang Mai. My searches on Google Maps, 12Go, and others haven’t turned up much...
For our Bangkok-Sukhothai trips, I use a company I’ve already tried, but they don’t have a fleet available from Sukhothai and have to go through third-party companies—which, understandably, take their commission. This nearly doubles the prices...
There are four of us, and we’re not traveling light, so a minibus isn’t an option. ;-)
Thanks for your tips! DrSnuggle
Does anyone know of a private transfer or taxi company that organizes transfers from the Sukhothai area to Chiang Mai? Our routes are Sukhothai-Lampang, Lampang-Chom Thong, and Chom Thong-Chiang Mai. My searches on Google Maps, 12Go, and others haven’t turned up much...
For our Bangkok-Sukhothai trips, I use a company I’ve already tried, but they don’t have a fleet available from Sukhothai and have to go through third-party companies—which, understandably, take their commission. This nearly doubles the prices...
There are four of us, and we’re not traveling light, so a minibus isn’t an option. ;-)
Thanks for your tips! DrSnuggle
Bonjour,
En voyage en Thaïlande je suis à la recherche de jonc bouddhiste kumlai.
Quelqu’un saurait-il me guider pour en trouver?
À Bangkok j’ai visité quelques temple mais je n’en n’ai pas trouvé sur les magasins à proximité.
Si vous avez une idée je suis preneuse! Belle journée :-)
Hi there
My trip’s coming up, and I’m having a bit of trouble with three bus/minivan routes. Usually, I find everything at this time of year, but this time—yikes!
Sandakan → Sepilok: No app for this one—you just hop on bus #14 at the local terminal (pay cash on board). But where do I catch it, and where’s the stop??
Sandakan → Semporna: From what I’ve heard, it’s the Sida Express company (great name, right? 😄). Can’t book online, but apparently, you *have* to because there’s only one bus at 8 AM. Where do I board, and where does it drop me off?
Semporna → Tawau: Found this via AI—is it legit? No online booking, as far as I can tell. Minivans leave from a stop in the Jalan Hospital area, near the Milimewa supermarket, supposedly???? And when you arrive, does it drop you at **Sabindo Square** in Tawau?????
Thanks for any tips—I’m stuck!
My trip’s coming up, and I’m having a bit of trouble with three bus/minivan routes. Usually, I find everything at this time of year, but this time—yikes!
Sandakan → Sepilok: No app for this one—you just hop on bus #14 at the local terminal (pay cash on board). But where do I catch it, and where’s the stop??
Sandakan → Semporna: From what I’ve heard, it’s the Sida Express company (great name, right? 😄). Can’t book online, but apparently, you *have* to because there’s only one bus at 8 AM. Where do I board, and where does it drop me off?
Semporna → Tawau: Found this via AI—is it legit? No online booking, as far as I can tell. Minivans leave from a stop in the Jalan Hospital area, near the Milimewa supermarket, supposedly???? And when you arrive, does it drop you at **Sabindo Square** in Tawau?????
Thanks for any tips—I’m stuck!
Hi there,
we’ll be in Mai Chau in June and we’re thinking of heading to Sapa, but first spending a few days in Bac Ha to do some hiking and explore the area.
Is this a good idea for those who’ve been there?
How do you get there?
Thanks for your feedback.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Cédric.
Hi everyone. As I’m planning my trip for next winter, I’m looking for hotel suggestions in Camotes, Bantayan, Malapascua, Bohol, and Siquijor. The ones I had in mind seem to be fully booked (unless it’s too early?). For those familiar with the area, is it easy to find accommodations on the spot in January/February? I’m specifically looking for hotels with a pool, beachfront, air conditioning, and easy scooter rental nearby. Thanks for your tips!
Hi there,
I’m planning an itinerary and would love some feedback on whether it’s doable and if the number of days per destination is enough—or too much. I was also debating whether to add an extra night on an island or spend an extra night in Kampot to visit Kep or Battambang.
March 23: Arrival in Phnom Penh in the morning March 24: Phnom Penh March 25: Phnom Penh March 26: Depart for Kampot March 27: Kampot March 28: Depart for Battambang March 29: Battambang March 30: Tonlé SAP to Siem Reap March 31: Siem Reap April 1: Siem Reap April 2: Siem Reap April 3: Siem Reap April 4: Siem Reap April 5: Departure
Thanks for any suggestions or help!
March 23: Arrival in Phnom Penh in the morning March 24: Phnom Penh March 25: Phnom Penh March 26: Depart for Kampot March 27: Kampot March 28: Depart for Battambang March 29: Battambang March 30: Tonlé SAP to Siem Reap March 31: Siem Reap April 1: Siem Reap April 2: Siem Reap April 3: Siem Reap April 4: Siem Reap April 5: Departure
Thanks for any suggestions or help!
Hi there,
Yesterday in the Thailand section, 100% of the new threads were just about beach destinations 😕...
So here’s the counterattack in the form of this photo thread, dedicated solely to the countryside: the locals, their livestock, fields, farms, rice paddies, small rivers, and agricultural machinery. If you’ve got any pictures that fit these categories, feel free to add them!
Comments welcome.
For each photo, I’ll (or you can) indicate the area where it was taken.
Kanchanaburi:
Kanchanaburi:
Sri Chiangmai:
Soppong:
Tha Wang Pha:
Kanchanaburi:

Kanchanaburi:

Sri Chiangmai:

Soppong:

Tha Wang Pha:

🙂 Hi everyone!
Hope you're all doing well! It's been a while since I last traveled, but I'm finally heading out again soon!
For those familiar with SOUTHEAST ASIA, I'm planning to leave in mid-June (with the trip ending at the latest in November), and I don’t have a precise idea of exact places or itineraries yet. The thing is, this period is usually the rainy season...
Any advice? I was thinking of Malaysia or Indonesia, like Sulawesi, for example (all countries and islands in Southeast Asia interest me except Bali).
Any recommendations? I’m doing my research online, but if anyone here has the time and knowledge, I’d love to hear from you.
Thanks everyone, take care and stay happy! ❤️
Hope you're all doing well! It's been a while since I last traveled, but I'm finally heading out again soon!
For those familiar with SOUTHEAST ASIA, I'm planning to leave in mid-June (with the trip ending at the latest in November), and I don’t have a precise idea of exact places or itineraries yet. The thing is, this period is usually the rainy season...
Any advice? I was thinking of Malaysia or Indonesia, like Sulawesi, for example (all countries and islands in Southeast Asia interest me except Bali).
Any recommendations? I’m doing my research online, but if anyone here has the time and knowledge, I’d love to hear from you.
Thanks everyone, take care and stay happy! ❤️
Hi there,
My partner and I are planning a trip to Indonesia in September-October 2026. It’ll be our first time in Asia, and we’re thinking of hitting the classic spots in East Java and Bali, then wrapping up with a cruise around Komodo for some snorkeling/diving. Here’s a rough draft of our itinerary—I’m wondering if it’s doable.
20/09: Flight from Jakarta to Yogyakarta, arrive around noon, afternoon/evening and overnight in Yogyakarta. 21/09: Borobudur 22/09: Prambanan 23/09: Travel to Bromo (Cemoro Lawang) 24/09: Bromo 25/09: Kawa Ijen 26/09: Travel to Bali, overnight in Pemuteran 27/09: Excursion to Pulau Melujan, overnight in Pemuteran 28/09: Travel to Munduk, overnight in Munduk 29/09: Explore Munduk and surroundings, overnight in Munduk 30/09: Explore Munduk and surroundings, overnight in Munduk 01/10: Route to Ubud (via Pura Ulu Danau Bratan, Jatiluwih?), overnight in Ubud 02/10: Explore Ubud and surroundings, overnight in Ubud 03/10: Explore Ubud and surroundings, overnight in Ubud 04/10: Travel to Denpasar, flight to Labuan Bajo, overnight in Labuan Bajo 05/10: Komodo cruise 06/10: Komodo cruise 07/10: Komodo cruise, flight to Denpasar in the late afternoon/evening or overnight in Labuan Bajo. 08/10: Flight to Denpasar (if not taken the day before), afternoon in Jimbaran, overnight near Denpasar 09/10: 10:00 AM flight Denpasar - SIN, overnight in Singapore 10/10: Flight SIN-YQB
Thanks for your thoughts—and for your time!
My partner and I are planning a trip to Indonesia in September-October 2026. It’ll be our first time in Asia, and we’re thinking of hitting the classic spots in East Java and Bali, then wrapping up with a cruise around Komodo for some snorkeling/diving. Here’s a rough draft of our itinerary—I’m wondering if it’s doable.
20/09: Flight from Jakarta to Yogyakarta, arrive around noon, afternoon/evening and overnight in Yogyakarta. 21/09: Borobudur 22/09: Prambanan 23/09: Travel to Bromo (Cemoro Lawang) 24/09: Bromo 25/09: Kawa Ijen 26/09: Travel to Bali, overnight in Pemuteran 27/09: Excursion to Pulau Melujan, overnight in Pemuteran 28/09: Travel to Munduk, overnight in Munduk 29/09: Explore Munduk and surroundings, overnight in Munduk 30/09: Explore Munduk and surroundings, overnight in Munduk 01/10: Route to Ubud (via Pura Ulu Danau Bratan, Jatiluwih?), overnight in Ubud 02/10: Explore Ubud and surroundings, overnight in Ubud 03/10: Explore Ubud and surroundings, overnight in Ubud 04/10: Travel to Denpasar, flight to Labuan Bajo, overnight in Labuan Bajo 05/10: Komodo cruise 06/10: Komodo cruise 07/10: Komodo cruise, flight to Denpasar in the late afternoon/evening or overnight in Labuan Bajo. 08/10: Flight to Denpasar (if not taken the day before), afternoon in Jimbaran, overnight near Denpasar 09/10: 10:00 AM flight Denpasar - SIN, overnight in Singapore 10/10: Flight SIN-YQB
Thanks for your thoughts—and for your time!
Hi everyone,
My girlfriend and I booked our tickets with Saudia Airlines for a trip to Thailand this summer, from July 5th to August 3rd. Given the geopolitical situation in the Middle East, we’re keeping a close eye on the news.
I was wondering if anyone here is in the same situation as us?
• Have you heard anything about possible mass cancellations or if the airline is still maintaining its routes to Asia?
• Are there any travelers who’ve recently returned who could tell us if air corridors have been changed (longer flight times)?
The idea is to know what to expect so we can prepare as best as possible. Thanks for your replies! !
Hi everyone,
Thanks for all your contributions on the forum—they’ve really helped me plan my trip. There are four of us friends heading to Sulawesi for 20 days. Based on all your advice, I’ve put together the following itinerary:
July 30: Makassar – sightseeing July 31: Makassar – sightseeing + overnight bus to Rantepao August 1–7: Tana Toraja with a guide August 7: Tana Toraja to Tentena + visit Tentena August 8: Early departure with a private driver to Ampana, then ferry to the Togian Islands August 9–15: Togian Islands (2 different resorts) August 15: Depart Togian Islands for Luwuk August 16: Flight Luwuk to Makassar August 17: Rammang Rammang August 18: Stroll in Makassar, then return home
Overall, what do you think?
I also have a question about the connection between Tentena and the Togian Islands: Is it doable to leave early in the morning as planned and still be sure not to miss the ferry?
Thanks in advance for your feedback! :)
Thanks for all your contributions on the forum—they’ve really helped me plan my trip. There are four of us friends heading to Sulawesi for 20 days. Based on all your advice, I’ve put together the following itinerary:
July 30: Makassar – sightseeing July 31: Makassar – sightseeing + overnight bus to Rantepao August 1–7: Tana Toraja with a guide August 7: Tana Toraja to Tentena + visit Tentena August 8: Early departure with a private driver to Ampana, then ferry to the Togian Islands August 9–15: Togian Islands (2 different resorts) August 15: Depart Togian Islands for Luwuk August 16: Flight Luwuk to Makassar August 17: Rammang Rammang August 18: Stroll in Makassar, then return home
Overall, what do you think?
I also have a question about the connection between Tentena and the Togian Islands: Is it doable to leave early in the morning as planned and still be sure not to miss the ferry?
Thanks in advance for your feedback! :)
Hi everyone,
I’m currently working on a 30-day itinerary for May/June 2027.
10 days in eastern Java (Malang, Bromo, waterfalls, Meru Beriti Park, Banyuwangi, and Ijen), a short transit in Ubud for a few days, then Flores before heading back to Jakarta.
We’ll spend 15 days in Flores (the classic route: Moni, Bajawa, Riung, Ruteng, ending in Labuan Bajo).
I’d love some firsthand feedback on flights to Maumere or Ende from Bali Denpasar. I know there are no direct routes and that you have to connect through Labuan Bajo or Timor (I think), which isn’t an issue in itself.
But I’ve read here and there that flights to these destinations can be delayed—or worse, canceled—and that it’s better to fly in and out of Labuan Bajo, which isn’t exactly ideal...
Thanks for any tips or experiences you can share!
Hi everyone,
Family of 4—2 adults and 2 kids (11 and 15) who are well-traveled. We’re planning a 15-day trip to Indonesia and would love your thoughts on our itinerary. We love discovering local culture, food (!!), seeing beautiful landscapes, and keeping an active pace. We’re not the type to lounge on the beach for 5 hours or spend ages by the pool when we’re halfway across the world. Also, we try to avoid places "ruined" by mass tourism (like Holbox in Mexico, which we loved 10 years ago but not at all on our last visit, or Phi Phi in Thailand, completely destroyed by mass tourism).
Special note: we love traveling by train :)
Here’s what we’ve planned so far:
**Day 1** Arrival in Jakarta, then domestic flight to Yogyakarta. Settle in Yogyakarta.
**Day 2** Borobudur in the morning, then exploring nearby villages.
**Day 3** Prambanan in the morning, followed by culinary discovery / market / local vibe in Yogyakarta.
**Day 4** Train to Jombang, then driver/bus to the Bromo area. Overnight stay.
**Day 5** Sunrise at Bromo, exploring the volcano and sea of sand. Relax in the afternoon.
**Day 6** Travel to eastern Java, then train, ferry, and road to reach Sidemen in Bali.
**Day 7** Sidemen
**Day 8** Sidemen
**Day 9** Sidemen
**Day 10** Transfer to Gili Air (car to the port + fast boat?)
**Day 11** Gili Air
**Day 12** Gili Air
**Day 13** Transfer to Ubud
**Day 14** Ubud
**Day 15** Return to Bali airport, flight to Jakarta, then international flight.
Does this itinerary seem coherent for a family? Does it feel too packed or well-balanced? Would you make any changes to certain stops, durations, or transfers?
Thanks so much for your tips and experiences!
Family of 4—2 adults and 2 kids (11 and 15) who are well-traveled. We’re planning a 15-day trip to Indonesia and would love your thoughts on our itinerary. We love discovering local culture, food (!!), seeing beautiful landscapes, and keeping an active pace. We’re not the type to lounge on the beach for 5 hours or spend ages by the pool when we’re halfway across the world. Also, we try to avoid places "ruined" by mass tourism (like Holbox in Mexico, which we loved 10 years ago but not at all on our last visit, or Phi Phi in Thailand, completely destroyed by mass tourism).
Special note: we love traveling by train :)
Here’s what we’ve planned so far:
**Day 1** Arrival in Jakarta, then domestic flight to Yogyakarta. Settle in Yogyakarta.
**Day 2** Borobudur in the morning, then exploring nearby villages.
**Day 3** Prambanan in the morning, followed by culinary discovery / market / local vibe in Yogyakarta.
**Day 4** Train to Jombang, then driver/bus to the Bromo area. Overnight stay.
**Day 5** Sunrise at Bromo, exploring the volcano and sea of sand. Relax in the afternoon.
**Day 6** Travel to eastern Java, then train, ferry, and road to reach Sidemen in Bali.
**Day 7** Sidemen
**Day 8** Sidemen
**Day 9** Sidemen
**Day 10** Transfer to Gili Air (car to the port + fast boat?)
**Day 11** Gili Air
**Day 12** Gili Air
**Day 13** Transfer to Ubud
**Day 14** Ubud
**Day 15** Return to Bali airport, flight to Jakarta, then international flight.
Does this itinerary seem coherent for a family? Does it feel too packed or well-balanced? Would you make any changes to certain stops, durations, or transfers?
Thanks so much for your tips and experiences!






