Bonjour
Je vais essayer d'expliquer en quelques mots ma situation...
Je me suis rendue au Sénégal en Octobre dernier dans le cadre de mes études et j'y ai fait la connaissance d'un jeune homme.
Nous avons depuis gardé le contact, nous nous envoyons quotidiennement des sms, nous nous appelons de temps en temps et nous retrouvons généralement une fois par semaine sur msn...
J'y suis retournée une semaine en février, nous avons passé la semaine ensemble et tout s'est très bien passé.
Mais aujourd'hui, tout mon entourage me dit de me méfier, qu'il veut m'utiliser pour avoir des papiers et venir en France...
Je vous avous que je suis vraiment perdue et que je ne sais plus trop où j'en suis.
Si vous avez vécu ce genre de situation ou bien si vous voulez simplement me donner vote avis, je vous en serais très reconnaissante....
Merci beaucoup
salut
va dans la rubrique "pensees et reflexions" plus bas vous aurez bcp de discution a ce sujet
vous avez aussi la fonction "rechercher" en haut de cette page
sur ce sujer bcp de debats et sur plusieurs pays
mais je conseille d etre tres prudent sur le sujet du mariage meme si les reussites sont assez nombreuses il y a quand meme des echecs qui entrainent des problemes plus profond du aux differences de culture
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bonjour chere amie quoi te dire la vie c'est le risque
de nos jours on ne sais plus a qui faire confiance suis la voie de ton coeur si tu l'aime
ou alors si tu veux un africain a tous prix je te proposerai un que je connait trés bien a bientot
Oui, la vie est un pertuel jeu de choix.... Je ne sais pas encore quelle decision je vais prendre, et je ne sais pas si ce sera la bonne.
Mais j'essaie d'avancer depuis longtemps en me disant que je prefere regretter d'avoir fait une chose plutot que de regretter de ne pas l'avoir faite.... car sinon je ne saurais pas à coté de quoi je serais passé (que cela soit bien ou non).
Qui sait ce que l'avenir nous reserve? Est-ce déjà tracé?
Enfin merci pour tes quelques lignes
Il y a tout ce qui faut comme canon de beauté au Sénégal !!
Tout ce que ton "chéri" cherche ce sont des papiers (et argent)pour rejoindre l'Europe et en suite, merci beaucoup madame !! vous étes des centaines comme ça et, je vois que ça continu ce p'ti manége de l'amour pour des papiers, il n'y a pas que le Sénégal qui pratique ce moyen d'entrer en Europe !!
Fait gaffe a toi, ce n'est pas toi qui l'interesse, mais ton argent et les papiers pour devenir Français !!
Ne t'a t'il pas fait craché un peu d'argent déjà ?? (si oui ? ce n'est que le début !! si non ? c'est un malin)
Cordialement de
J'apprécie votre réponse modérée ainsi que les références que vous lui indiquez. Elle sera mieux guidée par ce biais car les réponses ne lui étant pas destinées directement, elle prendra plus de recul.
Hélas, nous sommes à une période "funeste" où le départ des jeunes du Sénégal est à l'ordre du jour. Donc, effectivement, si l'un d'eux rencontre une jeune européenne, pas mal, il sera sans doute tenté.
Mais nous devons aussi accorder le bénéfice du doute à ce jeune homme. Je souhaite qu'il fasse partie d'1/3 des sénégalais pas intéressés par l'exil. Croyant en l'Homme, je souhaite que ce couple, dans 30 ans, nous envoie une photo sur VF pour nous dire qu'on s'est trompé.
Comme dans tout couple, il faut construire sa vie ensemble. Et quand cette jeune fille aura élucidé le problème de l'exil, elle devra affronter le choc des cultures, puis la vie matérielle... Si le jeune homme est instruit et/ou a un métier, c'est déjà 1 point positif. Tout est surmontable mais il faudra s'y préparer.
oui tout a fait d accord
c est pour cela qui faut prendre son temps et surtout ne pas precipiter les choses
pour la suite du couple ici en france avec un taux d echec des couples franco français on n a pas de leçons a donner
mais par contre en cas de rupture c est la que tout se complique avec un etranger (nationalite '4ans de vie commune revolue, enfants, job du monsieur, adaptation reciproque aux differences de culture etc...;) ces ces choses de la vie peuvent devenir fatale meme a un couple sincere alors si les motivations sont autres n en parlons pas!!!!😕
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IL est vrai que meme avant de partir on m'avait dit que ce genre de chose se passait et pourrait m'arriver. JE suis donc restée méfiante tout le long de mon séjour, car en plus travaillant dans un poste de soin, je rencontrais des sénégalais tout le temps.
Depuis mon retour, le doute est toujours présent même s'il s'estompe plus à certain moment. La vie n'est pas facile; quand pour c'est affronter de la douleur, aider l'autre (que ce soit dans nos établissements de soins francais ou au sénégal par exemple), je fonce, je ne me pose pas de questions. Mais là la situation me concerne personnelement donc je ne réagis, ni n'agit plus du tout de la meme manière...
J'ai la chance de ne pas être jugée ni par ma mère, ni par ma soeur, qui sont à mon écoute, et je les en remercie sincèrement. Elles me conseillent, m'écoutent, mais me laissent libre de mes choix car elles voient que j'ai conscience des risques que cela présente.
La seule chose que je m'autorise à faire sans justement avoir peur c'est de laisser passer du temps. Je me donne un an (printemps 2009, avant une nouvelle mission dans le nord du pays) pour voir comment les choses vont évoluer, voir si son comportement à lui va changer, ....
(Petite precision c'est souvent le toubab le plus vieu mais dans mon cas, j'ai 8ans de moins que lui...)
Je vais donc essayer de rester les pieds sur terre, continuer à avancer, mais ne pas prendre de decision avant d'être sur d'en accepter les consequences.
JE suis allée voir les liens que vous m'aviez donné... cela me fait continuer dans ma reflexion
Un GRAND MERCI a tous!
bonjour,
Je suis tout nouveau membre sur le site.
Je rejoins bon nombre de personnes ici qui t'ont apporter leur aide et j'en fais pareil !
Selon mes connaissances pour avoir la nationalité française il faudrait que le couple ait au moins un enfant en commun et bien sur que l'une des deux personnes (le couple) soit française.
De plus un mariage nécessite un engagement, des responsabilités .... A toi de prendre le temps de connaitre l'homme avec qui tu désires faire ta vie.
Pour le reste faut prendre des risques aussi dans la vie, personne ne te dira si ton homme est matérialiste ou pas.. A toi d'user de la tete pour le savoir.
L'amour c'est bien beau, mais il faut aussi avancé la tête sur les épaules.
Je suis libanais né au sénégal, des amis(es) sénégalais j'en ai, et bon nombres sont sérieux(ses)..
Khalil Gibran : Le mariage
Vous êtres nés ensemble et ensemble vous
resterez pour toujours.
Vous resterez ensemble quand les blanches
ailes de la mort disperseront vos jours.
Oui, vous serez ensemble
jusque dans la silencieuse mémoire de Dieu.
Mais qu'il y ait des espaces dans votre communion,
Et que les vents du ciel dansent entre vous.
Aimez-vous l'un l'autre,
mais ne faites pas de l'amour une entrave:
Qu'il soit plutôt une mer mouvante
entre les rivages de vos âmes.
Emplissez chacun la coupe de l'autre
mais ne buvez pas dans la même coupe.
Partagez votre pain
mais ne mangez pas de la même miche.
Chantez et dansez ensemble et soyez joyeux,
mais demeurez chacun seul,
De même que les cordes d'un luth sont seules
cependant qu'elles vibrent de la même harmonie.
Donnez vos coeurs,
mais non pas à la garde l'un de l'autre.
Car seule la main de la Vie peut contenir vos coeurs.
Et tenez-vous ensemble, mais pas trop proches non plus:
Car les pilliers du temple s'érigent à distance,
Et le chène et le cyprès ne croissent pas
dans l'ombre l'un de l'autre.
Tout d'abord merci à toi pour ton message....
Comme tu l'as peut-être lu un peu plus haut, je vais essayer de laisser le temps passer...
J'ai prévu de revenir au Sénégal en Aout prochain pour trois semaines, dont une avec des amis. Je pourrais au moins avoir leurs impressions, un de mes amis est d'origine Comorienne et la-bas aussi, les convoitises de mariages auprès d'européenns exsitent.
Je ne sais pas ce que l'avenir a prévu pour nous, 🙂, mais je continue d'avancer malgré tout.
Nous gardons toujours contact par sms, mail, msn... mais c'est vrai que tout cela coute très cher, et les quelques dix sms que nous nous envoyons chaque jour depuis octobre, commencent à nous ruiner l'un et l'autre...
Il est vraique je trouve dommage de mettre tous les sénégalais dans le même pannier, en pensant qu'ils collectionnent tous les ptites toubabs; mais ton témoignage est rassurant et encourageant je trouve...
Je ne m'attendais pas ce que ce pays me plaisent autant, j'avais beaucoup d'aprioris, j'avoue, mais aujoud'hui j'espère pouvoir y retourner aussi souvent que possible, que ce soit en mission ou en vacances...
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une petite stat pour t informer sur les mariage dit "mixte"
en 2005
90000 mariages de français (H ou F) avec un etranger toutes nationalites confondues
50000 en france
40000 a l etranger
mariage dit "blanc" environ 500
quand au divorce ou separation rien n est dit a ce sujet
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Bonjour je suis passé par la la jeune fille Ivoirienne ne voulait que les papiers qu'elle n'a pas eu j'ai fait opposition de suite au bout de 6 mois.Sur le tchate tu es marié au premier contact mon BB, etc... mais pour quoi se marier de suite mais d'abord faire une année ou deux, d'autre part tu peux préparer le Carnet de Chèques car à tous moments il y a un problème à régler souvent des maladies imaginaires et toutes les semaines sans compter la Grand'Mère qui est morte plusieurs fois
"Depuis mon retour, le doute est toujours présent" .....
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La réponse est seule en toi, et là, tu l'as !!!!, tu nous la donnes !
ou dit autrement : quand on pose la question, c'est qu'on a la réponse ...
Tu sais, si tu le veux -ou pas d'ailleurs, car eux ils le veulent- tu peux remplir un charter entier de maris ennamourés seulement 1/2 heure après ton arrivée sur le tarmac ..... leur désir de l'eldorado est humain et se comprend à 100 %...
bonjour
non il n'y a pas que des gens interessés dans ce monde !
il y a aussi des gens sincères, écoute Jipi qui est de bon conseil ...prend le temps ...
j'ai plusieurs exemples autour de moi de jeunes couples qui se sont formés avec des Burkinabé, Sénégalais, Maliens, Marocains et beaucoup
fonctionnent très bien, on eu des enfants, travaillent...
et d'autres sont plus difficiles, causes cultures différentes ... mais pas plus que des couples franco-français .
Laisse toi du temps .
a bientot
francia
Au jour d'aujourd'hui, je n'arrive toujours pas à ma faire d'avis précis...
Mes pensées évolues quotidiennement, avec parfois des retours en arrière, me disant que je serais peut-être une de plus à me faire avoir.
Mais comme beaucoup peuvent l'écrire, la vie c'est aussi prendre des risques, on ne peut jamais prédire combien de temps une relation va durer, que cela soit un couple franco-francais, franco-sénégalais ou autre... J'ai vu des couples français se déchirer... sauf qu'on en parle peut-être moins que les couples mixtes?
Enfin, aujourd'hui j'ai fait le choix de continuer d'avancer, peut-être changerai-je d'avis demain? Mais demain est un autre jour... et aller à la rencontre des gens, des expériences ce n'est pas facile mais personnellement c'est qui m'enchirit le plus; cette expérience est un peu particulière et risquée mais, j'avance... à petit pas, mais j'avance...
Rendez-vous dans 5 ans pour voir quel chemin on aura pris
Bonjour Francia...
J'aimerais que tous les messages que je recois soit comme le tien.....🙂. IL est plein de réalisme... mais tous les avis que je recois m'apportent tous autant les uns que les autres à me forger ma propre idée; et c'est vrai que je comprends celle qui se sont faites avoir et qui pensent que ce genre de relation ne serait pas possible.
Aujourd'hui j'espère juste que je ne ferais pas partie de ces femmes là. Peut-être que je vais me faire avoir mais je pense que l'amour n'a pas de couleur, de religion, de coutume donc tout est possible, y compris une relation entre une toubab et sénégalais...
Donc je vais écouter vos bons conseils, ceux de Jipi et les autres membres....: prendre le temps et essayer de garder pieds sur terre!
Bonjour Espoir
J'ai lu avec attention ton post et je tenais à t'apporter aussi mon témoignage pour avoir vécu la même expérience que la tienne et surtout t'apporter un beau message d'espoir
En 2002 lors d'un voyage au sénégal comme toi j'ai rencontré un jeune homme et comme toi tout le monde m'a mise en gare, nous sommes mariés depuis 5 ans et tout va bien dans le meilleur des mondes.
J'ai écouté mon coeur et il m'a donné raison, contrairement à toi j'ai du faire face à une pression de la part de mon entourage familiale entre autre, tout le monde n'avait de cesse de me dire, fait attention à çi, fait attention à ça et les mariages blancs et patati et patata.
Comme toi j'étais perdue et ne savais plus quoi penser et qui croire.
Dès le départ tout le monde n'avait de cesse de me parler d'argent, alors que justement mon mari ne m'en avait jamais demandé, certes quand j'allais au sénégal je prenais en charge nos séjours sur place ce qui ma paraissait logique puisque nos revenus n'étaient pas comparables, mais celui qui est devenu mon futur mari me faisait toujours plaisir avec ses moyens et n'a jamais manqué d'attention à mon égard. J'ai été acceuillie par sa famille à bras ouvert, et durant une année j'allais lui rendre visite le plus souvent possible.
Il fallait prendre une décision et j'ai donc pris la décision de lui proposer de me suivre en France. Nous avons tout d'abord fait toutes les démarches nécessaires pour lui obtenir un visa pour au départ venir passer quelques semaines de vacances à Paris et ce afin qu'il se rende compte de ce que la France était vraiment et bien entendu l'ambassade de france refusait systématiquement le visa ce n'est qu'après plusieurs tentatives que nous avons pris la décision de nous marier, nous n'avions pas le choix de toute façon. Crois moi nous nous sommes battus comme des lions pour ce visa mais l'ambassade refusait toujours.
Tu comprendras ce que je veux dire si tu devais passer par là, l'ambassade de France fera tout pour te décourager, à toi d'être forte.
Mon mari ne rêvait pas de la France et n'en rêve toujours pas, il vit ici depuis 5 années et crois moi il ne rêve que d'une seule chose, repartir au sénégal, ensembles. C'est pour cette raison que nous pensons partir nous installer définitivement au sénégal d'ici à deux ans.
Ne généralisons pas tous les sénégalais(e)s ne cherchent pas à épouser des "toubabs" pour les papiers, je refuse de croire cela. J'ai beaucoup de personnes dans mon entourage qui ont vécu une aussi bonne expérience que la mienne et regrette malheureusement de ne jamais voir ce type de témoignage sur les forums.
Je tiens à préciser aussi que mon mari à 4 ans de moins que moi, nous sommes très loin de l'image du vieux avec la jeune, de la veille avec le jeune, nous sommes un couple normal et nous aurions pu très bien nous rencontrer n'importe ou dans le monde.
Fait ce que ton coeur te dicte et donne une chance à ta relation, tu n'en est qu'au début, profite des moments qui te sont offert et laisse faire les choses et le temps. Ecoute ce que ton coeur te dicte et ce que toi tu ressens et surtout ne t'enferme pas dans les mauvaises expériences des autres. Certes il faut être méfiante mais dans toutes relations tu dois l'être.
Une relation entre un(e) toubab et un(e) sénégalais(e) est tout à fait possible, j'en suis la preuve vivante.
Si tu as besoin de partager notre expérience n'hésites surtout pas.
Vava
Hello, I hope you and your loved ones are doing well.
I’m reaching out because I’m planning a trip to Senegal with three or four friends in our fifties, and we’d ideally like to stay in Toubab Dialao.
Our goal is to have a meaningful and human experience, as close to the locals as possible. We’re looking for a homestay (full board) to share daily life in the village, enjoy traditional meals, and discover the local culture.
Our travel dates are from Sunday, May 2 to Sunday, May 9, 2027 (7 nights, in three or four separate rooms).
Would it be possible to know if you have any trusted host families available for those dates?
Hello Community!
Back and happy to see this site resurfacing after the precious help I’ve gathered here before!
Today, the family has grown, and we’re looking for accommodation for 5 (2 adults, 3 kids) in Tarrafal to spend New Year’s… any ideas for a memorable stay? Guesthouse or hotel…
I'm heading to Cape Verde in July and I'd like some practical info: Are boat connections between the islands easy? Should we book tickets in advance? There are three of us women—are there any safety concerns?
Hi there,
We're planning a 2-week trip to Cape Verde, departing from Nantes in February 2027.
The only direct flight from Nantes goes to SAO VICENTE.
We'd like to visit a maximum of 3 or 4 islands—could you guide us in our choices?
THANKS SO MUCH TO FELLOW TRAVELERS!!!!!!!
C & JP
Hello,
We’re a family of 5 (2 adults and 3 kids who’ll be 2, 7, and 10 years old) planning to visit the islands of Santiago, Fogo, and Maio this summer. We’ll have 22 full days on the ground. It’s a shame (financially, logistically, and environmentally speaking!), but we’ll be taking 4 flights: a round-trip from Santiago to Fogo and another from Santiago to Maio. We’d like to position Maio toward the end of our stay since we enjoy ending our trips with a quieter beach phase.
For now, based on flight schedules and dates, we’re thinking of doing:
23/07: Arrival in Santiago
24/07 – 30/07: Fogo (5 full days)
30/07 – 05/08: Santiago (5 full days)
05/08 – 11/08: Maio (5 full days)
11/08 – 15/08: Santiago (3 full days)
15/08: Return to France
FOGO: Of course, we want to visit Cha das Caldeiras, where we’d like to spend 3 nights. We’d love to explore the valley and are also considering hiking the smaller Pico (the taller one seems too ambitious for us with the kids). Do you have any info on that hike?
What else do you recommend doing on the other days? Where can we go for other walks? I’ve seen that it’s possible to descend from Cha das Caldeiras to Monteiros, but I’m worried it might still be too challenging. It looks amazing!! But how do we manage with our luggage? Otherwise, the north of the island intrigues me, though we’re not thrilled about São Filipe, even though we know we’ll have to spend at least one night there before returning to Santiago.
On this island, we initially thought about not renting a car, but I’m wondering if that’s a good idea for us with all the luggage. If we do rent one, is it easy to reach Cha das Caldeiras by car?
Any advice is welcome!
MAIO: Here, I think renting a car will be essential for us to get around easily. We’d like to do an excursion to observe turtle nesting. I haven’t found much info on this—where and with whom should we go? Otherwise, the plan is to do some snorkeling directly from the beach, independently, since we’ll need to take turns so one adult can stay with our 2-year-old. Any spots you’d recommend?
Which towns would you suggest staying in? All options work for us—we’re fine with settling in one place or splitting our time (e.g., 3 nights in one spot and 3 nights elsewhere).
Basically, I’m open to all tips and recommendations for this little week on Maio (short walks, places to relax, beaches, etc.)!
SANTIAGO: Nothing too original, but for Santiago, we’re considering visiting Cidade Velha, Tarrafal, and Ribeira da Prata (for the black sand beach and natural pools), as well as Serra Malagueta for a hike.
There must be so much more to do, especially with the time we have. What else would you recommend?
I’m struggling to figure out how to organize our time there since we’ll have 5 full days first, then 3 more. How would you do it?
Hi,
We’re heading to Cape Verde in January. We’re scheduled to arrive in Praia on a Saturday around 11 AM.
I read somewhere that the exchange rate for Euros to Escudos is the same everywhere—110 escudos for 1 euro. Can anyone confirm this? If that’s the case, I assume there’s a currency exchange desk at the airport, and the rate isn’t too bad? So, it’s better to exchange at the airport, right? What do you think? I don’t want to use ATMs.
Otherwise, are banks in town open on Saturdays? I read they close by 3 PM?
I’m heading to Abidjan, Côte d'Ivoire for a long stay from July to September 2026. Could you please recommend any apartments for rent or a real estate agency? Thanks
I’ve been looking for a destination for a 2-week trip early next spring, and Cape Verde has been growing on me. (The flight isn’t too long, the temperatures are more than pleasant, and it’s an unknown country for me.)
The thing is, Cape Verde is pretty complicated when it comes to inter-island transfers, and I don’t want to spend my time in airports or on ferries—especially since those transfers aren’t exactly known for their reliability...
So, I’d like to limit internal flights to just 2, meaning the island I arrive on plus one other.
I’ve ruled out the all-inclusive islands: Sal and Boa Vista.
I’m torn between combining Santo Antão + São Vicente or Fogo + Santiago.
The goal of the trip is to see beautiful landscapes, go on day hikes (nothing multi-day), swim a little—though I prefer quiet spots—and enjoy 1 or 2 days in a city, but not much more than that!
In your opinion, which option would be the best, and why?
Hi,
Have you got any recent feedback from a trip back from São Tomé?
We're heading there in a few months.
One question among others: is swimming—well, snorkeling—risky there?
Thanks for your feedback, tips, etc.
I’m planning a trip to Benin in July, and I saw there were a few recent discussions about this destination. Would you have any suggestions for nice places to stay in Cotonou that won’t break the bank, as well as in other cities (Porto-Novo, Ouidah, etc.)? Thanks sooo much for all your valuable tips!
Hello,
We’re two senior travelers and would like to visit Cape Verde in Feb 2027.
We don’t hike but love meeting people, culture, and nature.
Which islands would you recommend, and do you know of any local agencies?
Thanks a million!
Hello from Quebec,
I’m a French-Canadian from Montreal. I’d love to go to Senegal during the Quebec winter to shorten this long season. Two people told me it’s not worth spending a lot of money to get there from Canada because there’s not much to discover. But I’m still skeptical. I’d love to read real testimonials from travelers who’ve been there, with as much info as possible. Thanks
Hello, my wife and I are planning a trip to Cape Verde at the end of May for 20 days. We’re still unsure which islands to prioritize (they all look amazing!). Santo Antão and São Vicente seem like must-sees. Which other islands should we visit, given that we love hiking (nothing too challenging) and swimming?
Thanks
Hi everyone!
The forum has been a huge help during my moments of doubt, and since Cape Verde isn’t a destination with many discussions, I felt I had to share my trip report 🙂
First, the EASE: I could never validate it from my phone—I tried 50 times without success, and on the computer, it worked the first time.
Then, Cabo Verde Airlines: forget online check-in. I went to the airport early to get my window seat (and in the end, the plane wasn’t full—I had three seats to myself, so I could finish my night peacefully). No in-flight entertainment for those who don’t sleep on planes.
Monday 9: Flight + arrival at Antonio’s (Oia Mindelo Guesthouse). Antonio’s apartment is up on the hill, but really, it’s only a 10-minute walk to the beach and 10 minutes to the city center (depending on where in the center). He picked me up at the airport (1000$). I continued relaxing by doing... nothing on the beach. Dinner in town at Café Mindelo: a pretty place, but otherwise meh—expensive and not necessarily good (2100$ for a beer and a fish that didn’t seem freshly caught as advertised).
Tuesday 10: Antonio offered to do a tour of the island (for cheap), and we left with his other guests (a lovely English couple, 76 and 77 years old). Stops at Salamansa (I felt something special on that beach—I could’ve stayed there for an hour doing nothing), then another scenic spot, a restaurant, and Baias das Gatas (I took a quick dip, but to me, it had less charm than Salamansa). Then we crossed the island to return to São Pedro (beautiful but windy; the village looks cute). Exhausted, I went to bed early because of the ferry to Santo Antão the next day.
Wednesday 11: Antonio took me to the ferry, and we’ll see each other again since he’s hosting me at his aunt’s place during Carnival. On the ferry, I had a Booking.com reservation for what I thought was in Ribeira Grande (the town), but it was actually *in* the ribeira—specifically in Manta Velha (aluguer to Cruzinha ~600$). I thought I’d fallen into a hole, but I ended up loving it—Casa Familiar Gilda. Gilda is a divine cook (dinner for 1000$—don’t eat lunch, or there won’t be room), the village has a typical rural Santo Antão vibe, the place has great energy, and you can get around easily by aluguer.
Thursday 12: I left early by aluguer to Ribeira Grande (250$), then another aluguer to Ponta do Sol (100$)—a sleepy beauty at that hour—to do the Ponta do Sol-Cruzinha hike, finishing in Cha de Igreja. Departure at 8:22 AM from the cemetery in Ponta do Sol, passing through Fontainhas (those doing it the other way will have a fabulous climb at the end 😏), and let’s go! I loved this glimpse of rural life—past or present—the sea is stunning, and we were shaded most of the way (though it goes up and down, it’s manageable). The arrival at Cha de Mar is breathtaking, and Cruzinha is a charming little town (arrived at 12:30 PM). I’d brought my swimsuit after reading there was a beach, but I packed it back up—too many waves and big pebbles. I continued to Cha de Igreja (25 more minutes) after a short break (ask for the path that doesn’t go by the road). It’s adorable with its church square (you don’t see this layout much elsewhere). I might’ve stayed longer to enjoy the place, but a taxi driver asked if I wanted to return to Manta Velha (1000$), and like a fool, I said yes (it was 2:30 PM—I could’ve waited for the 4:30 PM aluguer for 100$, but oh well).
But since I still had energy, I decided to see if I could find a grog distillery. I ran into a French guy arriving at Gilda’s, and we ended up talking to Rodrigo, who explained everything from A to Z about how they make grog (the simple cane juice is amazingly good—but the work is clearly tough).
Friday 13: Transfer to Xoxo on Djalma’s advice 😉, where I’d booked a room at Casa Xoxo. I did the hike to Rabo Crusto... it’s tough, but I kept quiet when I saw a pregnant woman doing it with her two little ones 😄. There’s also a distillery I didn’t linger in, and I took a tea break with that wonderful landscape before heading back. I couldn’t find the path Jean-Michel had told me about (take a right at the village entrance), so I went back down to the water reservoir to turn off and take the waterfall path (anyone can point it out if needed). The bedding at Casa Xoxo was perfect, but the dinner atmosphere was less family-like.
Saturday 14: No one at Casa Xoxo could tell me when the aluguer passed, so I scarfed down my breakfast and headed down a bit. I found one (not sure if he’d planned to work, but there were three of us, so he left). Arrived in Ribeira Grande, an aluguer driver told me the coastal road to Porto Novo was closed and we had to take the Corde road—but no one was leaving, so we’d have to charter... Sometimes, you just have to say it: aluguer drivers say there’s no ride just to make you pay the private price (3500$). But this time, it was true! With another French couple, we wanted to go to Tarrafal. Our driver called the Porto Novo-Tarrafal aluguer to wait for us. The Corde road is stunning—more different landscapes (thorny forest, misty peaks...). Changed aluguers in Porto Novo and headed to Tarrafal. Another world—lunar landscape on the way. Arrived in Tarrafal and relaxed.
Sunday 15: Hike from Tarrafal to Monte Trigo, left at 8 AM, and I’m glad I did—I was in the shade until about 9:30 AM, then the sun got strong. Beautiful walk, arrived in Monte Trigo around 11:30 AM. The people weren’t particularly friendly, but oh well. Swam at the little beach in Monte Trigo (the water is *so* good). I waited for other French people who had “booked” a boat for the return. Came back with Javi (50 min—1000$ each), who lent us masks and snorkels for some snorkeling. Had grog with Ludo, Estelle’s husband, who was waiting at the bar, then filled my grog bottle at the *mercearia*. I admit, it’s delicious, but I don’t remember much of that evening 😇🤪. Except Javi put on a show saying he’d been robbed, had no money, and needed to pay the boat owner, etc. People paid again (apparently not me, since Ludo, Estelle, and I arrived at the restaurant after Javi’s drama). FYI, Javi does this often—my host had warned the couple renting the other room to watch out for him because he scams people for money. So Javi is 35 with hazel/special-colored eyes. But if you don’t repay the “service,” the day was still great.
Monday 16: Several of us were taking the late-afternoon boat, so we chartered an aluguer (7000$) to avoid the 6 AM one—trip—boat to Mindelo. Antonio picked me up at the ferry, and boom—Carnival!
I found a spot on Rua de Lisboa. My neighbor was from Santo Antão just for Carnival, spoke French, and explained that last year’s Carnival started 3 hours late because a float couldn’t fit under the power lines 😏 (like they don’t know the height by now hahaha). On Monday, it’s the teachers (nice—kind of a warm-up) and the Madingas. Once they passed my spot, I followed them along the route—I LOVED it! By midnight, they still hadn’t reached Praça Nova, and the police told them to speed up, but I loved that energy!
Tuesday 17—Mardi Gras: Beach day, then Carnival! Antonio had bought me a seated ticket just in case (300$). Ended up in front of a punch stand, where I ran into two French women I’d met in Manta Velha. Two guys from Mindelo talked to us, and we did Carnival with them. And what was bound to happen, happened: a float couldn’t pass because... it was taller than the power lines 😏😏😏. The dancers kept dancing while the crowd tried to lift the cable. Finally, a guy in a tree climbed higher and used a pole to lift it... and the parade could continue 😉. Around 12:30–1:30 AM, when the concert was supposed to start, the power went out. I went home and later learned the concert started around 3 AM.
Wednesday 18: I went home because I was taking the boat back to Santo Antão, heading to Casa Familiar Gilda. Walked the loop from Manta Velha.
Thursday 19: Left early for Ribeira da Paul to do the loop to Sandra’s House. It’s truly breathtaking! Back at Gilda’s, I chilled. I wanted to go to Sinagoga’s natural pools, but the hike had worn me out.
Friday 20: Return to Mindelo on the red company’s ferry—no comparison: way more comfortable than the blue company’s, especially for someone prone to seasickness. Beach. Exhausted, I struggled to sleep because the shop on the ground floor of my rental had a party until 3 AM (and the windows aren’t double-glazed—*hi*—but that’s common in Mindelo).
Saturday 21: Ran into Estelle and Ludo by chance (the city’s small), and we arranged to share a taxi the next day since we had the same return flight. Beach (I tried Lazaretto Beach, but nope—not great—dead fish + weird smell = bad signs). So Laginhia was fine, and in the evening, a restaurant with singers, then Caravelle (the ground-floor shop didn’t bother me since I got home when they were saying goodbye 😏). Too bad—I dance salsa, bachata, kompa, zouk, but not kizomba hahaha, but it was still fun.
Sunday 22: Took a taxi with Ludo and Estelle (1200$). Arrived *ages* before takeoff (no exchange office—get escudos in town if you have any left). Boom—CDG, boom—RER... home.
There you go—a super long trip report. Not sure if it’ll help, but the digital detox was amazing. These two islands are very different but so beautiful. I only got a glimpse, but they’re worth the trip. I was lucky to see Carnival (what joy in that city!) and happy the Cambodia ticket (my first idea) was way too expensive 😉
Hi,
Without booking in advance through an agency, is it possible/easy to organize luggage transfer from one night to the next between accommodations in Santo Antão?
Thanks.
Easily accessible from Sal or São Vicente, São Nicolau is the forgotten island of the Barlavento group. With two large villages, volcanoes, jagged peaks, lush valleys, and vast rocky expanses, it has nothing to envy its big sister Santo Antão. It’s slipped under travelers’ radar a bit (in January, there were probably fewer than a hundred European tourists on the whole island), and that’s just fine! Accommodations aren’t overrun by groups like in Santo Antão, and connecting with locals is even easier. But don’t come to São Nicolau for wild nightlife—it’s incredibly peaceful here, and on Sundays, it’s total silence!
A little favorite of mine: Pensão Jardim in Ribeira Brava, the capital; Residencial Palice in Queimadas; and especially Pousada d’Anna in Estância de Brás, where the raging sea crashes against the black lava spurs.
Weather-wise, it was chilly this year but perfect for hiking. If you’re up high (like Monte Gordo), dress warmly or wait for spring! Fog gusts can ground you completely. Trails are generally less marked than in Santo Antão; if you’re wary of apps, you can find a 1:50,000 map at the small travel agency in Tarrafal.
Those who enjoy sharing experiences with other travelers over a Strela or two in the evening might feel a bit frustrated on São Nicolau, but the island’s beauty, the resilience of its farmers in extreme conditions, and the kindness of its people make it a fantastic stop for any visitor to Cape Verde!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning a trip to Senegal in early July 2026 for a week with my teenage daughter.
We’ll be staying in a bungalow at Club Les Filaos.
I’d love to hear your advice, especially about visits and excursions. The hotel offers them directly, but I’m wondering if it’s better to go with their organized tours or hire local guides you’d recommend.
What do you think are the pros and cons of each option?
I’d also appreciate tips on currency exchange—where’s the best place to do it to avoid any nasty surprises?
Finally, if anyone’s stayed at this hotel recently, I’d love to hear your thoughts! I’ve read both glowing and terrible reviews, so I’d really value your firsthand experiences.
Which taxi app do you recommend for Senegal? Are there shared taxis from Dakar Airport to La Somone? If not, do you have an idea of the price for a taxi?
Hi everyone,
After a year where I’ve worked way too much and with a house under renovation, it’s become essential to take a breather. My contract ends on 01/30, and I’ll try to find a new client for early March, so overall, let’s go somewhere in February!
I thought Réunion with the full trek around the Mafate cirque for reconnecting with Nature would be perfect, but since it’s cyclone season, it wasn’t such a great idea. Then came the idea that Southeast Asia could fulfill the peace-and-beach vibe, especially Cambodia with its cultural past, but the flight ticket price and a chat with a friend made me change my mind—and boom, Cape Verde popped up, with Santo Antão for hiking and São Vicente for culture and the beach.
So I bought a ticket a week ago, and oh, what a coincidence—it’s during Carnival!
Except now, I don’t know if it’s reality or just exhaustion talking, but I feel like I’m making a mess of things.
I’ve traveled a lot without even booking the first night, but this time, I pre-booked 2 nights in Mindelo (though one of them ended up canceling itself).
But the main issue is that I arrive on Monday, 02/09 at 6 PM and leave on Sunday, 02/22 at 11 AM, and there’s a little hiccup in the logical organization—actually, several hiccups—since I don’t really have any organization right now, and that’s where I need help
Because Carnival is in full swing from 02/15 to 02/17, right in the middle of my trip, so the logic of my visit to Santo Antão isn’t clicking for me. Plus, I just checked, and there’s zero accommodation available in Mindelo from 02/15 to 02/18 😕
So I don’t know: should I skip Carnival, should I forget about planning and just wing it once I’m there, should I stay on São Vicente after Carnival (because I read Montaganrd’s trip report, and he made São Vicente sound like a rock !), or should I keep in mind the option of heading to Santiago afterward and buying a return flight to Paris from Praia?
I need help 🏴☠️
Hi everyone, thanks for your advice! I’m starting a new thread because it seems my first one about Senegal was deleted—or maybe it’s just my computer acting up again 😉. Anyway, I’ve decided to go to Benin instead. I’ll be there from January 5th to February 2nd—why count the days when you love traveling😄? I’d love all your tips on accommodations, restaurants, and itineraries. I’m basically starting from scratch to plan my trip.
Hi there,
We’re heading to Senegal for 4 weeks in February 2025.
We’ve booked a 7-day cruise on the Bou el Mogdad departing from Saint-Louis.
That’s all we’ve planned so far—we’re also thinking of exploring Casamance after the cruise.
Any ideas for things to do while traveling between Dakar and Saint-Louis? We’ll arrive in Dakar 5 days before the cruise sets off.
Thanks so much for your tips!
Edith
I’d planned to go to Benin in 2026, but given the recent events and upcoming elections, I’m thinking I’ll wait to see what happens after the elections.
Has anyone traveled to Benin recently or is planning to go soon?
I’m trying to find out the dates for the best parades at the Mindelo Carnival in 2026, but I’m having trouble figuring it out. When I search for "Mindelo Carnival 2026," I get different dates and no clear schedule.
I’ve found the parade on Tuesday, February 17, 2026, and the one on Sunday, February 22, with the grotesque makeup, which seem the most interesting. On the other hand, some say the São Nicolau Carnival is more authentic than Mindelo’s.
If you’ve experienced this firsthand—not just theoretically but actually been there—I’d love to hear your practical tips.
Hi there, I’m planning a trip to Santo Antão with some hiking (for me) but not for my partner. I’d love some help figuring out if my plan is doable in terms of time and transportation:
- Day 1 – Arrival by boat from Mindelo, then aluguer to Cova (and overnight nearby)
- Day 2 – Hike to Paul / aluguer for my partner
- Day 3 – Aluguer to Ponta do Sol
- Days 4 & 5 – Ponta do Sol
- Day 6 – Hike to Cruzinha / aluguer for my partner (overnight in Cruzinha)
- Day 7 – Aluguer (or taxi) to Xoxo (overnight in Xoxo)
- Day 8 – Aluguer to Porto Novo + boat to Mindelo
Does this plan make sense with the local transport options?
For accommodations, I’d love any suggestions you might have.
Thanks so much for your help!
We’ve booked our tickets for July—there’ll be 4 of us, maybe 6 (all in our sixties). We’d like to visit 4 islands:
Arrival in Praia on July 8th
Return from São Vicente on July 29th
Between those dates, I’m not sure how to split our time across each island. We’ll definitely spend at least a week on Santo Antão. We’re planning to visit Santiago, Fogo, São Vicente, and Santo Antão.
We’re looking for easy hikes, diving, sightseeing, and a little beach time (but not too much).
How do you think we should divide the 3 weeks among the islands? Is 3 days in Fogo enough?
Are guides essential, and can we easily find them on the spot?
Should we rent a car, given we won’t just be hiking?
Thanks in advance for your advice, tips, warnings, and anything else you can share… and I’ve still got plenty more questions!
Valéry
I arrive in Fogo at 11 a.m. (if the ferry is on time) from the ferry departing Praia. From what I understand, the collectivos to Cha das Caldeiras leave late morning? Do you think I can leave the same day?
My question is: should I spend a night in São Filipe?
I don’t want to take a taxi—it’s too expensive.
Hello,
We’re a couple in our sixties and have finally decided to spend 15 days in Cape Verde from March 1 to 15, 2025, focusing exclusively on the four Leeward Islands.
We’ve planned to take the boat between these four islands and adjust our stays based on the ferry schedules. If there are any difficulties or need to adjust the route, we might take a flight instead.
Here’s our planned itinerary with the boats:
Day 1: Flight from France to Santiago Island
Day 2: Boat from Santiago Island to Brava Island
Day 3: Brava Island
Day 4: Brava Island
Day 5: Boat from Brava Island to Fogo Island
Day 6: Fogo Island
Day 7: Fogo Island
Day 8: Fogo Island
Day 9: Boat from Fogo Island to Santiago Island
Day 10: Santiago Island
Day 11: Boat from Santiago Island to Maio Island
Day 12: Maio Island
Day 13: Boat from Maio Island to Santiago Island
Day 14: Santiago Island
Day 15: Flight from Santiago Island to France.
Based on your experiences and knowledge, could you share:
- Your favorite places to visit and hikes
- Accommodations that charmed you
- Restaurants you enjoyed
Thanks in advance to all travelers and locals from these islands who’d like to share their favorite spots! !
Hello,
We’ve just returned (2 senior couples) from 18 days in Cape Verde (21/01 to 7/02) that we really enjoyed. The temperature was great—20° to 27°—admittedly a bit windy at times, but the friendliness of the Cape Verdeans made up for it.
Paris Orly, direct flight with Transavia (cheap if you book in advance). We landed in São Vicente, with a 12 € city transfer. We had a fantastic 2-bedroom apartment in downtown Mindelo—Av. Fernando Ferreira Fortes, "Casa So Morabeza"—for 58 € per night. The owner lives in France and communicates instantly via WhatsApp.
We spent 2 days exploring the (beautiful) city of Mindelo and its port activity, plus a private taxi tour of the island (6000 CVE for the day).
Then we took the Armas ferry (recommended company—1500 CVE) to Santo Antão.
From there, a collectivo (450 CVE per person) took us to Ribeira Grande, a central base for hikes.
We stayed in a brand-new, modern, and well-equipped 2-bedroom apartment—*Apartamentos Modernos*—for 6770 CVE per night, staying 6 nights. I highly recommend it for its location in town and proximity to *aluguers* and *collectivos* for hiking.
The hikes were stunning:
- The coastal trail from Fontainhas to Cruzinha (taxi for 1500 CVE)
- The route from Corda to Coculi (taxi for 2000 CVE + 100 CVE per person for the return)
- The trail from Cova to Cidade de Pombas (taxi for 2000 CVE + 100 CVE per person for the return)
- The hike from Miradouro to Ribeira Grande (taxi for 2000 CVE)
- The coastal road from Ribeira Grande to Ponta do Sol (visit and lunch at *Mini Familiar* in the city center—excellent and affordable) for the round trip.
Ribeira Grande has plenty of restaurants, but avoid *5 de Julho*—it’s loud and slow.
We loved: *Bellcanto*, *Cantinho da Amizade*, and *Boca-Fina Churrasqueria*.
Meals with drinks cost around 800–1000 CVE.
Back to São Vicente by ferry (1500 CVE), then an airport transfer (12 €) and a flight (99 €) to Santiago’s Praia. The airport-to-city transfer was 15 €.
We stayed at *Kelly’s* in Plato, Praia, which was disappointing—not ideal for two couples—but well-located.
One day was spent visiting the massive *Suspicia* market, then a collectivo to Cidade Velha (2 x 200 CVE round trip per person). We hiked up to the fort, explored *Rua Banana*, and had lunch at *Praça do Mar* by the beach.
We rented a car for 6 days (29000 CVE) from *Slimpycar* in Praia.
On Saturday, we visited the huge *Assomada* market—don’t miss it!—then hiked to *Boa Entrada* and *Poilon*, the largest and most impressive tree we’ve ever seen.
We stayed for 2 nights (138 €) in a beautiful valley in *Picos*—a spacious, lovely house with 2 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, and a large living area, surrounded by nature and animals.
Lina, the charming neighbor, prepared dinner (8.50 €) and breakfast (4.50 €) for us.
Next, we headed to *Tarrafal*, stopping to visit the concentration camp (500 CVE)—a must-see—before arriving.
We spent 3 nights (184 €) in a fantastic house called *"Maison Familiale"*—huge, with 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, 2 kitchens, 5 toilets, and a large terrace with sea views. It was absolutely stunning and very close to the beach and numerous restaurants.
We did a beautiful 3.8 km hike to the *Farol da Ponta Preta* lighthouse.
Tarrafal’s beach is lively and pleasant, with bars, restaurants, and even acrobats!
We also explored *Ribeira da Prata* to see the *Piscina Natural de Cuba* (not easy to find).
We loved discovering isolated villages like *Ponta Furna*, *Ponta Labrão*, and *Fazenda*.
For food, I recommend *Mira Mar* at *Mama’s*.
On the way back to Praia, we took the east coast route via *Calheta de São Miguel*, *Pedra Badejo*, and *Praia Baixo*—nothing extraordinary, just a rugged, wild coastline with beaches that seemed a bit tricky to access.
Our last evening in Praia was nice. The seaside esplanade was lively, and many Cape Verdeans were swimming at *Prainha* beach, which seemed very accessible and safe.
If you’d like more info—addresses, etc.—feel free to message me privately. I’ll respond.
Jacquesler.