Savoir vivre en Thaïlande
by Melusine67
This discussion is in French, the community’s main language.
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En dehors des quelques conseils que l'on trouve sur internet, Ceux d'entre vous qui ont séjourné ou qui vivent en Thailande, pourraient ils m'éclairer sur quelques règles essentielles de savoir vivre.
Je veux parler de coutumes propres au habitants qui ne sont pas forcément familières aux occidentaux, ou de ce genre de gaffes que l'on fait par méconnaissance du sujet.
Bref, l'idée est de ne pas choquer par des attitudes qui ne seraient pas adaptées.
Toutes les infos m'intéressent sur ce sujet
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Bonjour Mélusine, comme tu le dit dans ton message, il y a effectivement quelques règles à respecter en Thaïlande, qui pour nous occidentaux ne sont pas choquantes. Par exemple, il ne faut jamais toucher la tête d'un enfant ou d'un adulte (geste de tendresse chez nous) car la tête est la partie du corps la plus pûre. Il ne faut pas non plus emjamber le corps de quelqu'un qui par exemple est couché par terre, mais passer à côté ; de même, ne jamais pointer quelqu'un avec son pied, que l'on soit debout ou assis ; ne jamais hausser la voix même en cas de désaccord...
Mais le plus important, toujours garder le sourire... 🙂
salut🙂, tout ce que je peux te dire c'est de rester toi même, soi naturel,
je peux te dire seulement c'est quand quelqu'un t'offre à boire ou à manger dis non avec le sourire, même si la personne insiste, ou tu accepte tant mieux😄
je peux te dire seulement c'est quand quelqu'un t'offre à boire ou à manger dis non avec le sourire, même si la personne insiste, ou tu accepte tant mieux😄
Exige beaucoup de toi-même et attends peu des autres.
Ainsi beaucoup d'ennuis te seront épargnés.
Merci Garuda🙂
Ca n'a effectivement rien d'évident pour nous, qui baigons dans une autre culture. C'est important de le savoir à mon sens, car il est inutile de laisser une mauvaise impression de notre passage dans un pays ou l'accueil est semble t'-il chaleureux. Excellente
Ca n'a effectivement rien d'évident pour nous, qui baigons dans une autre culture. C'est important de le savoir à mon sens, car il est inutile de laisser une mauvaise impression de notre passage dans un pays ou l'accueil est semble t'-il chaleureux. Excellente
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excellente idée, le sourire en toutes circonstances lol
(post parti trop vite)
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ne pas marcher avec vos chaussures chez moi, , , , , , , ma femme vous tue du regard, ,
Là ça m'étonnerait ... !!! 😉
Par contre, pour répondre à la question initialement posée, un truc tout bête qu'on fait chez nous mais à ne pas faire ABSOLUMENT du tout en Thaïlande : si un billet (baths) vous échappe et qu'il s'envole avec le vent, surtout ne pas essayer de le rattrapper en mettant le pied dessus ... là c'est le roi que vous offensez !
@+, Sabaïdee
Là ça m'étonnerait ... !!! 😉
Par contre, pour répondre à la question initialement posée, un truc tout bête qu'on fait chez nous mais à ne pas faire ABSOLUMENT du tout en Thaïlande : si un billet (baths) vous échappe et qu'il s'envole avec le vent, surtout ne pas essayer de le rattrapper en mettant le pied dessus ... là c'est le roi que vous offensez !
@+, Sabaïdee
J'ai le mal du pays pour un pays qui n'est pas le mien ... (A. David-Neel)
Salut,
De même par exemple si tu laisses tomber un billet de banque surtout ne jamais mettre le pied dessus pour le rattraper c'est considérer comme irrespectueux, car sur tout les billets de banque le roi y est figurer .
De même par exemple si tu laisses tomber un billet de banque surtout ne jamais mettre le pied dessus pour le rattraper c'est considérer comme irrespectueux, car sur tout les billets de banque le roi y est figurer .
@+ , Marco .
On aura jamais assez de temps pour tout ce qu'on veut découvrir et comprendre dans nos voyages qu'on se le dise , Amis voyageurs .
COPIEUR !!!
Là, sur le coup, j'ai été plus rapide que toi ! 😉
@+, S
Là, sur le coup, j'ai été plus rapide que toi ! 😉
@+, S
J'ai le mal du pays pour un pays qui n'est pas le mien ... (A. David-Neel)
totalement vrai kun sabaidee, , d'ailleurs je suis bluffer par tant de connaissances, , dans l'histoire de la monnaie ce fut extrêmement difficile de faire admettre l'effigie du roi, , pendant des decennies la monnaie n'avait pas l'effigie du roi, , car on devait pas offenser l'image sacrée du roi, ,
photo de la monnaie thai, , datant de seulement 150 ans, ,


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lol Thuan,
Rassure ta femme, il y a peu de chances qu'elle me voie marcher en chaussures chez elle.
ne pas faire de look donw, , ça peut vous coûte un retour anticipé ?? Je ne comprends pas trop en quelles circonstances ?
ne pas faire de look donw, , ça peut vous coûte un retour anticipé ?? Je ne comprends pas trop en quelles circonstances ?
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lol Thuan,
Rassure ta femme, il y a peu de chances qu'elle me voie marcher en chaussures chez elle.
ne pas faire de look donw, , ça peut vous coûte un retour anticipé ?? Je ne comprends pas trop en quelles circonstances ?
bon ça va elle t'accepte, , ( pour cela ma femme est vraiment trop thai !)
je reconnais que mon langage est un peut abstrait ( comme je le suis ), , mais bon explications ......., , faire un look donw est regarder de haut une personne, , et cela est tres vexant en asie, , si par exemple on fait un look donw a un policier que veut grossir sa cave a whisky illegalement ( appeler banalement de la corruption, , ) et bien il va tellement se vexer que il va inventer un beau mensonge pour que il puisse legalement vous mettre dans l'avion avez en prime une interdiction sur le territoire pendant 10 ans, , , , , ,
ne pas faire de look donw, , ça peut vous coûte un retour anticipé ?? Je ne comprends pas trop en quelles circonstances ?
bon ça va elle t'accepte, , ( pour cela ma femme est vraiment trop thai !)
je reconnais que mon langage est un peut abstrait ( comme je le suis ), , mais bon explications ......., , faire un look donw est regarder de haut une personne, , et cela est tres vexant en asie, , si par exemple on fait un look donw a un policier que veut grossir sa cave a whisky illegalement ( appeler banalement de la corruption, , ) et bien il va tellement se vexer que il va inventer un beau mensonge pour que il puisse legalement vous mettre dans l'avion avez en prime une interdiction sur le territoire pendant 10 ans, , , , , ,
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waouh !! attention danger...
voilà une info. qui pourrait être utile à certains, mais ça va je sais faire preuve d'humilité (surtout quand je ne suis pas en position de force 😉 )
voilà une info. qui pourrait être utile à certains, mais ça va je sais faire preuve d'humilité (surtout quand je ne suis pas en position de force 😉 )
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il y a des situations parfois pas évidentes, ,
comme c'est home d'affaire qui voyage en première classe, , direction le pays du sourire, , et qui ne pouvais pas dormir, , donc il a lu toute la nuit, , a son arriver, , a l'immigration, , tampon refus d'entrée, , motif <<< offence royale, >>>,
le pauvre il ne savait pas que pas loin de lui il y avait une de ses princesse en représentation a letranger, , et la lumière la déranger, , , , , , , , et oui c'est un vrai royaume ne jamais oublier, ,
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Pour la photo du gars en string, je crois que ce n'est pas à faire en Thailande, ni à faire nulle part d'ailleurs...🙁
Une autre chose qui n'a pas été mentionnée ici, peut-être parce qu'elle est tellement évidente qu'on n'y pense plus, c'est de ne pas embrasser en public. Vous ne verrez jamais des Thai s'embrasser. Le seul endroit où je vois des gens s'embrasser (mais je devrais pas le voir) c'est au cinéma, et donc à l'abri des regards. Sinon j'ai assister à un "roulage de patin" intense en boîte, mais c'est exceptionnel. En 10 mois c'est le seul bécottage public que j'ai vu.
Sinon encore pour l'argent, ne pas compter ses billets en public ou ne pas jeter vulgairement ses pièces sur la table du resto par exemple. Pour l'avoir fait une fois (je voulais juste me débarrasser de ces fichus pièces de 0.5 bahts), mes collègues de boulot m'ont tout de suite foudroyé du regard et expliqué que ce n'était pas poli.
Bon sinon le reste à déjà été dis plus haut !!! Tout ca reste des détails, en règle générale suffit d'être poli, de bien se tenir, et tout va bien, la culture Thai pour ce qui est du comportement en public n'est pas si différente de la notre (ou alors je m'y suis habitué et je ne me rend plus compte, ce n'est pas impossible...)
Une autre chose qui n'a pas été mentionnée ici, peut-être parce qu'elle est tellement évidente qu'on n'y pense plus, c'est de ne pas embrasser en public. Vous ne verrez jamais des Thai s'embrasser. Le seul endroit où je vois des gens s'embrasser (mais je devrais pas le voir) c'est au cinéma, et donc à l'abri des regards. Sinon j'ai assister à un "roulage de patin" intense en boîte, mais c'est exceptionnel. En 10 mois c'est le seul bécottage public que j'ai vu.
Sinon encore pour l'argent, ne pas compter ses billets en public ou ne pas jeter vulgairement ses pièces sur la table du resto par exemple. Pour l'avoir fait une fois (je voulais juste me débarrasser de ces fichus pièces de 0.5 bahts), mes collègues de boulot m'ont tout de suite foudroyé du regard et expliqué que ce n'était pas poli.
Bon sinon le reste à déjà été dis plus haut !!! Tout ca reste des détails, en règle générale suffit d'être poli, de bien se tenir, et tout va bien, la culture Thai pour ce qui est du comportement en public n'est pas si différente de la notre (ou alors je m'y suis habitué et je ne me rend plus compte, ce n'est pas impossible...)
de toute façon melusine67 rien que de poser ce post, , veut dire que tu prend conscience des autres, , donc il ne t'enviera rien, , les personnes concernés sont ceux qui ne se posent pas la question, ,
il ne faut pas être parados, , les thais comprennent bien qui est qui, , tu seras largement apprécier, , être naturel et ouvert c'est la base, , après on peut faire de petites erreurs, , ça passe, ,
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Un grand merci à vous tous, pour ces réponses.
Je savais que les Thaïs ont la réputation d'être des gens aimables et pudiques.
Evidemment l'exemple de la photo du mec en string, 😠 c'est carrément de la provoc. ou alors de l'inconscience.
Mais il y a des gestes comme par exemple se tenir par la main en couple ( ce que je fais spontanément ) qui indiquent ici l'affection et qui sont sans doute à éviter en public.
Pour tout ce qui concerne la déférence à la royauté, je n'en avais aucune idée. Ben promis, je ne piétinerai pas mes billets lol
Je n'ai pas d'appréhension particulière, parce que c'est vrai, j'ai l'habitude d'être attentive aux autres et d'observer, mais je partirai quand même plus riche de quelques infos intéressantes
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Y a un truc aussi qui compte, surtout si on reste longtemps...c est de realiser l importance d un thailandais a sauver la face....cela explique beaucoup de comportement que nous autres trouvons strange et illogique..et notre facon de nous exprimer en toute liberte fait flop ici...
les gens se placent differemment qu en occident...il y a toute un body language, ..presque pas besoin de parler que deja par l attitude..vous aller vous faire accepter ...je recommande aux bons debutants...de beaucoup observer et de rester calme souvent....par votre facon d etre, le thai vous voit venir...beaucoup de choses peuvent se passer rien que dans les silences
les gens se placent differemment qu en occident...il y a toute un body language, ..presque pas besoin de parler que deja par l attitude..vous aller vous faire accepter ...je recommande aux bons debutants...de beaucoup observer et de rester calme souvent....par votre facon d etre, le thai vous voit venir...beaucoup de choses peuvent se passer rien que dans les silences
Y a un truc aussi qui compte, surtout si on reste longtemps...c est de realiser l importance d un thailandais a sauver la face....cela explique beaucoup de comportement que nous autres trouvons strange et illogique..et notre facon de nous exprimer en toute liberte fait flop ici...
exact, , mais ce n'est pas évident a piger de suite, , par exemple, , nous les bons judeo chretiens, , et bien mentir ce n'est pas bon, , tu me ment, , je te dis adieu, , bien pour les thais ( et surtout les issan ) mentir fait partie de la vie courante, , et il est préférable mentir que perdre la face, , et la tout ce complique, , ne pas croire que c'est compliquer que entre farangs et thais, , NON entre thai ils perdent la boule, aussi, ce n'est pas si simple que de vivre en Thailande
mais bon le sourire peut arranger pas mal de situation, , et puis il y a le may pen lai, , qui fait que la vie est plus que supportable, ,
exact, , mais ce n'est pas évident a piger de suite, , par exemple, , nous les bons judeo chretiens, , et bien mentir ce n'est pas bon, , tu me ment, , je te dis adieu, , bien pour les thais ( et surtout les issan ) mentir fait partie de la vie courante, , et il est préférable mentir que perdre la face, , et la tout ce complique, , ne pas croire que c'est compliquer que entre farangs et thais, , NON entre thai ils perdent la boule, aussi, ce n'est pas si simple que de vivre en Thailande
mais bon le sourire peut arranger pas mal de situation, , et puis il y a le may pen lai, , qui fait que la vie est plus que supportable, ,
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Je suis cette conversation avec intérêt, parce que vous avez une approche tout à fait pertinente du sujet et surtout parce que seules les personnes ayant séjourné là-bas assez longtemps
peuvent saisir ces subtilités-
mais bon, je vais encore demander une précision : "le may pen lai " en français et en clair c'est quoi ? le sourire ?
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Je suis cette conversation avec intérêt, parce que vous avez une approche tout à fait pertinente du sujet et surtout parce que seules les personnes ayant séjourné là-bas assez longtemps
peuvent saisir ces subtilités-
mais bon, je vais encore demander une précision : "le may pen lai " en français et en clair c'est quoi ? le sourire ?
may pan lai, , est une expression tres thai qui veut dire << ce n'est pas grave, , >> mais qui est bien plus profonde dans l esprit thai, , au résultat, , c'est cette nonchalance qui plais tant aux etrangers, , ( dont j'en fait partie, , )
may pan lai, , est une expression tres thai qui veut dire << ce n'est pas grave, , >> mais qui est bien plus profonde dans l esprit thai, , au résultat, , c'est cette nonchalance qui plais tant aux etrangers, , ( dont j'en fait partie, , )
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
Benjamin Disraeli
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"mai pen raï..."
"ainsi soit-il...", "ce n'est pas grâve..." (à dire si possible avec une non chalance, en haussant les épaules c'est encore mieux!!!)
Namasté
"ainsi soit-il...", "ce n'est pas grâve..." (à dire si possible avec une non chalance, en haussant les épaules c'est encore mieux!!!)
Namasté
"Si vous croisez le Bouddha, tuez-le !!!"
Une autre chose qui n'a pas été mentionnée ici, peut-être parce qu'elle est tellement évidente qu'on n'y pense plus, c'est de ne pas embrasser en public. Vous ne verrez jamais des Thai s'embrasser
Qu'en est-il de l'amitié entre garçons en Thailande? Est-ce qu'on voit des garçons se promener la main dans la main ou la main sur l'autre épaule? sans que cela soit interprété à l'Occidentale?
Qu'en est-il de l'amitié entre garçons en Thailande? Est-ce qu'on voit des garçons se promener la main dans la main ou la main sur l'autre épaule? sans que cela soit interprété à l'Occidentale?
http://www.maison-chance.org/
Lucky that we have a home/Our Home is Nha May Man/Passing rain and dry seasons/In a full-of-love atmosphere/Besides my new family/I have brothers and sisters/The sun shines over the skies/Let's stay here, with all of us,
W've got home;
Lucky that we have a home/Our Home is Nha May Man/Passing rain and dry seasons/In a full-of-love atmosphere/Besides my new family/I have brothers and sisters/The sun shines over the skies/Let's stay here, with all of us,
W've got home;
Alors il arrive de voir 2 garçons se tenir la main, c'est rare mais ça arrive. En revanche les transexuels très nombreux ne se cachent pas, les homosexuels n'hésitent pas à montrer leur féminité, enfin bref, tout ça n'est pas du tout interpreté comme en occident. Tout le monde fait ce qu'il veut de son look, de sa sexualité, sans se soucier du regard des autres. A tel point que même au Starbuck du MBK ils emploient des transexuels, ce qui prouve à quel point c'est libéré.
Petite anecdote : J'étais avec des amis à Chiang Mai pour Songkran, et donc comme tout le monde on jouait avec l'eau au milieu de la foule et des pick-ups. Alors qu'on marchait, je repère un pick-up avec 3 transexuels à l'arrière qui me regarde d'un air dragueur. Je les évite mais mes 2 amis qui me suivaient ne les avaient pas vu, c'est alors que l'un des transexuels descend et prend à pleine main les "parties" de chacun de mes amis.
Moi j'ai évidemment beaucoup ri, mes potes un peu moins!!! 😉
Petite anecdote : J'étais avec des amis à Chiang Mai pour Songkran, et donc comme tout le monde on jouait avec l'eau au milieu de la foule et des pick-ups. Alors qu'on marchait, je repère un pick-up avec 3 transexuels à l'arrière qui me regarde d'un air dragueur. Je les évite mais mes 2 amis qui me suivaient ne les avaient pas vu, c'est alors que l'un des transexuels descend et prend à pleine main les "parties" de chacun de mes amis.
Moi j'ai évidemment beaucoup ri, mes potes un peu moins!!! 😉
Une autre chose qui n'a pas été mentionnée ici, peut-être parce qu'elle est tellement évidente qu'on n'y pense plus, c'est de ne pas embrasser en public. Vous ne verrez jamais des Thai s'embrasser
Qu'en est-il de l'amitié entre garçons en Thailande? Est-ce qu'on voit des garçons se promener la main dans la main ou la main sur l'autre épaule? sans que cela soit interprété à l'Occidentale?
l homosexualite n'est pas tabou en thailande, , simplement
Qu'en est-il de l'amitié entre garçons en Thailande? Est-ce qu'on voit des garçons se promener la main dans la main ou la main sur l'autre épaule? sans que cela soit interprété à l'Occidentale?
l homosexualite n'est pas tabou en thailande, , simplement
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homosexualite n'est pas tabou en thailande, , simplement
Oui mais une pure amitié entre garçons, ça existe aussi?
Oui mais une pure amitié entre garçons, ça existe aussi?
http://www.maison-chance.org/
Lucky that we have a home/Our Home is Nha May Man/Passing rain and dry seasons/In a full-of-love atmosphere/Besides my new family/I have brothers and sisters/The sun shines over the skies/Let's stay here, with all of us,
W've got home;
Lucky that we have a home/Our Home is Nha May Man/Passing rain and dry seasons/In a full-of-love atmosphere/Besides my new family/I have brothers and sisters/The sun shines over the skies/Let's stay here, with all of us,
W've got home;
J'comprend pas bien la question "mais une pure amitié entre garcons ca existe aussi ? "
La réponse n'est-elle pas évidente ? Eclairez ma lanterne car je vois pas bien le sous-entendu de la question (s'il y en a un).
La réponse n'est-elle pas évidente ? Eclairez ma lanterne car je vois pas bien le sous-entendu de la question (s'il y en a un).
La réponse n'est-elle pas évidente ? Eclairez ma lanterne car je vois pas bien le sous-entendu de la question (s'il y en a un).
La réponse de Kun Thuan est évidente🙂 ça permet de ne pas voir toujours mal quand on voit deux garçons se promener main dans la main.
Mais c'est moins évident quand il s'agit de 2 homos ... Comment distinguer une pure amitié entre deux garçons qui se tiennent main dans la main et deux homos qui ont les mêmes attitudes.
Peut-être que la tolérance envers les homos font que personne n'y prête guère attention?
La réponse de Kun Thuan est évidente🙂 ça permet de ne pas voir toujours mal quand on voit deux garçons se promener main dans la main.
Mais c'est moins évident quand il s'agit de 2 homos ... Comment distinguer une pure amitié entre deux garçons qui se tiennent main dans la main et deux homos qui ont les mêmes attitudes.
Peut-être que la tolérance envers les homos font que personne n'y prête guère attention?
http://www.maison-chance.org/
Lucky that we have a home/Our Home is Nha May Man/Passing rain and dry seasons/In a full-of-love atmosphere/Besides my new family/I have brothers and sisters/The sun shines over the skies/Let's stay here, with all of us,
W've got home;
Lucky that we have a home/Our Home is Nha May Man/Passing rain and dry seasons/In a full-of-love atmosphere/Besides my new family/I have brothers and sisters/The sun shines over the skies/Let's stay here, with all of us,
W've got home;
Merci, je comprends maintenant le sens de ta question. Désolé j'avais pas interprêté comme ca 😉
Pour ce que j'ai pu en voir il ne me semble pas avoir vu 2 amis garçons se tenir la main, chez les filles en revanche c'est tres fréquent, elles se tiennent souvent la main, juste par amitié, rien de plus.
Pour ce que j'ai pu en voir il ne me semble pas avoir vu 2 amis garçons se tenir la main, chez les filles en revanche c'est tres fréquent, elles se tiennent souvent la main, juste par amitié, rien de plus.
Coucou Melusine,
Je rajoute une chose dont une amie m'a parlé (ça ne m'est pas arrivée à moi mais à elle). Apparemment, il ne faut pas lorsqu'on est une femme s'asseoir à côté d'un moine dans un transport public. J'avoue que ça m'a un peu étonnée moi-même parce qu'en Birmanie par exemple ça ne pose pas de souci mais apparemment lorsqu'elle s'est assise à côté d'un moine dans un bus thai ça a fait un mini ramdam. Thuan pourrait peut-être nous éclairer sur le pourquoi de la chose
Biz
Shaiia
Je rajoute une chose dont une amie m'a parlé (ça ne m'est pas arrivée à moi mais à elle). Apparemment, il ne faut pas lorsqu'on est une femme s'asseoir à côté d'un moine dans un transport public. J'avoue que ça m'a un peu étonnée moi-même parce qu'en Birmanie par exemple ça ne pose pas de souci mais apparemment lorsqu'elle s'est assise à côté d'un moine dans un bus thai ça a fait un mini ramdam. Thuan pourrait peut-être nous éclairer sur le pourquoi de la chose
Biz
Shaiia
Pour aller loin: ne jamais demander son chemin à qui ne sait pas s’égarer.
Bonjour Shaiia,
Merci pour cette info. Ca c'est bien le genre de gaffe que j'aurais pu faire, parce que ici on a l'habitude de cotoyer les moines sans protocole particulier.
Bravo pour ton parcours de voyageuse, je suis admirative 🙂
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Bonjour Melusine 🙂
Il me revient encore quelque chose ... Nous les femmes, lorsque nous nous asseyons, nous avons souvent l'habitude de croiser les jambes.
Si tu es assise quelque part en Thaïlande (dans un transport en commun, par exemple, tel que métro ...), ne fais pas cela car de ce fait, tu pointes le pied vers quelqu'un !
@+, Sabaïdee
Il me revient encore quelque chose ... Nous les femmes, lorsque nous nous asseyons, nous avons souvent l'habitude de croiser les jambes.
Si tu es assise quelque part en Thaïlande (dans un transport en commun, par exemple, tel que métro ...), ne fais pas cela car de ce fait, tu pointes le pied vers quelqu'un !
@+, Sabaïdee
J'ai le mal du pays pour un pays qui n'est pas le mien ... (A. David-Neel)
Thuan pourrait peut-être nous éclairer sur le pourquoi de la chose
juste, , shailia, , point tres important pour le sexe féminin, , aucun contact physique entre les dames et les robes oranges, , l'origine de cette interdiction, , vient de la royauté ancienne, , comme les bonzes batifoler comme des abeilles sur les fleurs fraîches, , et fessait collection de ses fleurs par dizaines, , , , et bien ils ne s'occupaient pas de a quoi ils étaient destinée, , c'est a dire la spiritualité, , et être au service de la communaute, , du coup on a déclarer que le sexe féminin est impur Voila la raison pragmatique, , mais comme il faut bien une monnaie d'échange, , ( ne pas croire que les bonzes ce sont laisser faire !!!!, , ), , et bien pour que le sexe féminin puisse atteindre le paradis, , ( sans toucher les beaux bonzes ) et bien on leur offre des offrandes, , ( surtout alimentaires, , du coup les Bonzes on perdu en sexe mais on gagner le taille de brioche, ) aucun bonze ne meut de faim en Thailande, , mais bon, , la technologie est venu au secours des ses braves HOMES, , , , , , le VDO XXX circule bien sous les homes en oranges, , et cela le roi ne l'avait pas prévu
Si tu es assise quelque part en Thaïlande (dans un transport en commun, par exemple, tel que métro ...), ne fais pas cela car de ce fait, tu pointes le pied vers quelqu'un ! juste, , et cela va pour les 3 sexes, ,
juste, , shailia, , point tres important pour le sexe féminin, , aucun contact physique entre les dames et les robes oranges, , l'origine de cette interdiction, , vient de la royauté ancienne, , comme les bonzes batifoler comme des abeilles sur les fleurs fraîches, , et fessait collection de ses fleurs par dizaines, , , , et bien ils ne s'occupaient pas de a quoi ils étaient destinée, , c'est a dire la spiritualité, , et être au service de la communaute, , du coup on a déclarer que le sexe féminin est impur Voila la raison pragmatique, , mais comme il faut bien une monnaie d'échange, , ( ne pas croire que les bonzes ce sont laisser faire !!!!, , ), , et bien pour que le sexe féminin puisse atteindre le paradis, , ( sans toucher les beaux bonzes ) et bien on leur offre des offrandes, , ( surtout alimentaires, , du coup les Bonzes on perdu en sexe mais on gagner le taille de brioche, ) aucun bonze ne meut de faim en Thailande, , mais bon, , la technologie est venu au secours des ses braves HOMES, , , , , , le VDO XXX circule bien sous les homes en oranges, , et cela le roi ne l'avait pas prévu
Si tu es assise quelque part en Thaïlande (dans un transport en commun, par exemple, tel que métro ...), ne fais pas cela car de ce fait, tu pointes le pied vers quelqu'un ! juste, , et cela va pour les 3 sexes, ,
« Le voyage apprend la tolérance. »
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Je vois pas très bien pour le fait de croiser les jambes (décidément j'ai du mal à comprendre en ce moment). Je vois partout des femmes croiser les jambes en s'asseyant. Et ce même si des personnes se trouvent à côté. A moins que vous ne parliez de croiser les jambes de manière masculine, c'est à dire en posant un pied sur la cuisse, mais là pour le coup je ne vois encore aucun femme faire ca.
Une petite explication SVP !!! (soyez sympa j'ai le cerveau au ralenti avec la chaleur...😉)
Une petite explication SVP !!! (soyez sympa j'ai le cerveau au ralenti avec la chaleur...😉)
Bonjour Youpi 🙂
Bien sûr que les femmes (thaïes) croisent les jambes en s'asseyant mais fais attention, si elles se trouvent en face d'une personne, elles s'arrangeront toujours pour que leur pied ne pointe pas en sa direction ... Ceci expliquant cela ...
T'as compris ou bien tu es dans ta minute "blonde" 😉 (je te rassure, j'en suis une ...).
@+, Sabaïdee
Bien sûr que les femmes (thaïes) croisent les jambes en s'asseyant mais fais attention, si elles se trouvent en face d'une personne, elles s'arrangeront toujours pour que leur pied ne pointe pas en sa direction ... Ceci expliquant cela ...
T'as compris ou bien tu es dans ta minute "blonde" 😉 (je te rassure, j'en suis une ...).
@+, Sabaïdee
J'ai le mal du pays pour un pays qui n'est pas le mien ... (A. David-Neel)
Ok ok. Je comprends, c'est juste qu'en vous lisant on a l'impression que les femmes ne croisent jamais les jambes. Sinon évidemment je valide ce que vous dites.
Petite news : encore ce midi à mon boulot l'un de mes collègues Thai était en train de rugir de rage car lors de son voyage à Ko Samui la semaine dernière des touristes dirigeaient leurs pieds vers la tête d'enfants alors assis par terre. Ca l'a mis dans une colère terrible et j'ai dû le calmer en lui disant qu'il aurait dû expliquer à ces touristes leur geste plutôt que de les condamner de suite. Mais bon, quand on a 30 touristes en face de soi c'est pas toujours évident 😉
Cette anecdote montre bien que certains gestes en Thailande sont vraiment à proscrire, et que ce n'est pas que pour le folkore !!!
Petite news : encore ce midi à mon boulot l'un de mes collègues Thai était en train de rugir de rage car lors de son voyage à Ko Samui la semaine dernière des touristes dirigeaient leurs pieds vers la tête d'enfants alors assis par terre. Ca l'a mis dans une colère terrible et j'ai dû le calmer en lui disant qu'il aurait dû expliquer à ces touristes leur geste plutôt que de les condamner de suite. Mais bon, quand on a 30 touristes en face de soi c'est pas toujours évident 😉
Cette anecdote montre bien que certains gestes en Thailande sont vraiment à proscrire, et que ce n'est pas que pour le folkore !!!
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I’m planning a family trip (my wife and I, both 47, and our two sons, aged 5 and 12) to Malaysia for the last week of June and the first two weeks of July 2027.
We used to love road trips as a couple, then as a trio, but since our second child arrived, we’ve taken a break with "camping village" style trips.
Now feels like the right time to get back to our old habits, while adjusting the pace for the kids.
We’re craving Asia. We’ve been lucky enough to visit Thailand, Indonesia (Bali and Lombok), and Sri Lanka before.
Friends have raved about Malaysia, so we’re definitely tempted.
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Thanks in advance for your tips!
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Thanks in advance for your tips!
Bonjour, qui serait sur place en ce moment à Flores? d apres des sites internet, tout serait fermé, la situation serait difficile ; notre guide dirait que ça va ; qui croire? nous sommes censés partir le 2 septembre ; merci à celles et ceux qui sont à Flores en ce moment
Hello,
We’re a family of four with two teens aged 16 and 18. We’re heading to Thailand this summer. We’ll arrive in Bangkok and plan to take a flight to Luang Prabang.
I’ve seen there are some great visits and excursions to do (temples, markets, waterfalls) and maybe even venture a bit north to places like Nong Khiaw, Muang Xay, Muang Ngoy, or Oudom Xay.
But I’ve also heard about the Bokeo region with the Gibbon Experience.
Since we won’t be able to do everything, I’d love to hear about your experiences, impressions, and advice on the two options I’m considering, especially since we’ll be meeting family in Chiang Mai, Thailand, afterward.
Option 1: A loop from Luang Prabang heading slightly north, then a flight from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai.
Option 2: A few days in Luang Prabang, exploring within a few dozen kilometers around, then heading to Bokeo province for the 2-day/1-night Gibbon Experience. For this option, I saw on Rome2Rio that it’s possible to book a ferry trip on the Mekong from Luang Prabang to Huay Xay—they mention about 8 hours. But is that realistic? What type of boat is it? Then, to get to Chiang Mai, there aren’t many options—bus or minivan—but how does crossing the border work?
Finally, for those of you who’ve been to Laos in August, what was the weather like? We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
Thanks for your feedback! Best regards, Aurélien
Option 1: A loop from Luang Prabang heading slightly north, then a flight from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai.
Option 2: A few days in Luang Prabang, exploring within a few dozen kilometers around, then heading to Bokeo province for the 2-day/1-night Gibbon Experience. For this option, I saw on Rome2Rio that it’s possible to book a ferry trip on the Mekong from Luang Prabang to Huay Xay—they mention about 8 hours. But is that realistic? What type of boat is it? Then, to get to Chiang Mai, there aren’t many options—bus or minivan—but how does crossing the border work?
Finally, for those of you who’ve been to Laos in August, what was the weather like? We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
Thanks for your feedback! Best regards, Aurélien
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Hi everyone,
I couldn’t find any recent info on Kuching.
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Also, does it rain a lot in November, and is it still worth visiting Semenggoh or Bako?
Hi there,
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Hey everyone,
Silly question—backpack or hard-shell suitcase for the Sepilok, Kinabatangan, Tioman, KL trip? I’m struggling to fit all my son’s and my stuff into the 70L backpack... and I’m thinking a suitcase would be easier, but I’m not sure if it’ll work for getting around.
Thanks! 🙂
Silly question—backpack or hard-shell suitcase for the Sepilok, Kinabatangan, Tioman, KL trip? I’m struggling to fit all my son’s and my stuff into the 70L backpack... and I’m thinking a suitcase would be easier, but I’m not sure if it’ll work for getting around.
Thanks! 🙂
Hi there,
I didn’t plan to return to Thailand this year, but my health conditions mean it’ll be the best place for me to stay between two trips to India. The tourism setup there is so well-organized that it’s the most "comfortable" country for a short visit. Thailand feels too sanitized for my taste, and there’s too much religion, Buddha, and the King, but it’s still the best option given how my health has been evolving. I’d considered two weeks in ThaTon for hiking, but I got too sick from the burn-offs during my trips to the mountains around Chiang Rai. So I’m not sure where to go this year. Definitely not the sea, touristy spots, or the mountains with burn-offs...
Thanks, friends, if you’ve got any suggestions.
Thanks, friends, if you’ve got any suggestions.
Hi everyone,
After a stay on Koh Phayam this coming November, I’d like to spend 2 or 3 days on Koh Phra Thong before heading further south.
Do you think it’s doable to leave Koh Phayam early enough to catch the 10 AM boat from Khura Buri to Koh Phra Thong? The next one isn’t until 4 PM, which would cost me a whole day.
Thanks
After a stay on Koh Phayam this coming November, I’d like to spend 2 or 3 days on Koh Phra Thong before heading further south.
Do you think it’s doable to leave Koh Phayam early enough to catch the 10 AM boat from Khura Buri to Koh Phra Thong? The next one isn’t until 4 PM, which would cost me a whole day.
Thanks
Hi,
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days. I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome! I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Thanks
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days. I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome! I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
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Hello everyone,
Not long ago, I used to travel as a couple, but my husband has since passed away, and I’ve decided to set off again. The trip I took to Cambodia in January 2025 did me a world of good.
I’m now considering Thailand, a destination we never included in our plans because even 15 years ago, people said it was too touristy. Still, I’m thinking about the itinerary below, but I don’t feel up to arranging buses, trains, or guides on my own while I’m there. I’m looking for one or more drivers and have been in touch with an agency, but their offers are just copy-paste group tours that I don’t want.
So, if you have any contacts, experiences, or advice, I’d be so grateful if you’d share them with me. Here’s my rough plan:
Arrival in Bangkok
Ayutthaya (2 nights)
Kanchanaburi (2 or 3 nights)
Sangkhlaburi/Sai Yok (3 nights)
Sukhothai (2 nights)
Lampang (I’ve planned 3 nights, but that might be a bit much—it depends on what time I arrive in the city)
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Chiang Dao
Pai
Chiang Rai
I was thinking about the Mae Hong Son loop—thoughts?
What do you think about staying overnight at the Golden Triangle?
When I look online, of course, I can find agencies that organize tours to national parks, etc.
I’m retired but in great physical shape. I’d rather go hiking than sit in hot springs with crowds of tourists who’ve all arranged meet-ups. I don’t want to spend a day at an elephant camp, and I don’t want to visit Karen villages.
I’d love to hear your advice.
Thank you all,
Hi,
On September 1st, we're heading to Kalimantan for six weeks, probably from Pontianak to the Derawan Islands.
I've scoured this site, which is usually my go-to 😉, and others like VoyageForum, but recent info is pretty scarce.
I'd love any tips on places you've visited—our itinerary is still a work in progress.
We're two couples traveling with backpacks, using buses, boats, guesthouses, and homestays.
Thanks in advance!
Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi,
From Malacca to get to Jerantut, is it better to go back to KL and take a bus from there, or take a bus to Tampin and then a train? Any feedback on the "Jungle Train"? (duration, price, comfort, etc.). Thanks
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral. Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo). Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok: * Orangutan Center * Malayan Sun Bear Center * Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan. Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari. Jungle walk. Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari. Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port. Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar 5 full days. * Snorkeling * Hiking * Turtle watching * Wild beaches * Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland. Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Days 15 and 16: Taman Negara.
Day 17: Return to Kuala Lumpur.
Day 18: Visit the Petronas Towers or Batu Caves
Day 19: Free day.
Day 20: Return flight.
Thanks in advance, everyone!
Baptiste
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral. Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo). Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok: * Orangutan Center * Malayan Sun Bear Center * Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan. Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari. Jungle walk. Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari. Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port. Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar 5 full days. * Snorkeling * Hiking * Turtle watching * Wild beaches * Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland. Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Days 15 and 16: Taman Negara.
Day 17: Return to Kuala Lumpur.
Day 18: Visit the Petronas Towers or Batu Caves
Day 19: Free day.
Day 20: Return flight.
Thanks in advance, everyone!
Baptiste
Hi everyone,
We’re heading to Flores and then Bali at the end of September.
We’ve already visited both but this time, once we’re in Labuan Bajo, we’d like to take a boat to the Komodo Islands to see the famous Komodo dragons.
I don’t want to sleep on the boat—just a day trip would be perfect.
Does anyone know a reliable and friendly provider to recommend?
Thanks in advance, and have a great summer!
Time to hit the road again!
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali. And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people! So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops): - 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud 2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa) 1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...) - 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces) - 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai - 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed) - 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island) - 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan) - 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels. Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?) Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?) Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali. And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people! So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops): - 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud 2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa) 1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...) - 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces) - 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai - 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed) - 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island) - 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan) - 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels. Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?) Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?) Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
Hello,
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027: - Phnom Penh - Kampong Cham - Kratie - Siem Reap - Battambang - Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights. Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above. Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
- Battambang (round trip) - Siem Reap / Angkor - Kratie - Kampong Cham - Phnom Penh - Kampot (round trip)
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Have a great Sunday
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027: - Phnom Penh - Kampong Cham - Kratie - Siem Reap - Battambang - Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights. Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above. Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
- Battambang (round trip) - Siem Reap / Angkor - Kratie - Kampong Cham - Phnom Penh - Kampot (round trip)
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Have a great Sunday
Hi there,
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you? If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Thanks in advance for your help.
Hi there,
We’re planning to travel from Chiang Rai to Luang Prabang next November.
We’d like to take a slow boat from Chiang Khong—or rather from Huay Xai in Laos—with an overnight stop in Pakbeng.
Could you let us know if the boat still leaves Huay Xai in the late morning? If so, what time roughly, and what’s the price for the trip?
Thanks for your help!
Alod
Hello everyone,
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations: We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights: The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1: We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2: This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3: With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4: Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings. We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops. In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5: Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6: This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8: Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10: On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12: We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines. Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment. We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15: From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP). We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning. We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise. Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16: We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town. It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view. We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise. In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911. On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city. We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17: Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning. Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in. The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances: In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary: Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional. Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations: We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights: The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1: We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2: This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3: With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4: Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings. We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops. In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5: Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6: This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8: Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10: On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12: We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines. Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment. We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15: From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP). We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning. We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise. Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16: We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town. It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view. We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise. In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911. On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city. We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17: Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning. Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in. The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances: In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary: Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional. Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
So, my flight tickets have just been booked for a trip to Cambodia from November 4th to 27th, 2025.
I’ll be traveling solo and want to explore this amazing country while getting a bit off the beaten path.
I’m arriving in Phnom Penh and also departing from Phnom Penh.
My goal is to travel as much as possible by bus and scooter.
What itinerary would you recommend?
What are the must-do things?
I’m open to all tips and info.
Thanks in advance for your help and responses.
We got back enchanted from a 6-week trip to Cambodia!
Our itinerary: Kampot - Kampong Chhnang - Battambang - Siem Reap - Kampong Cham - Sen Monorom (Mondulkiri) - Banlung (Ratanakiri) - Kratie - Kampong Thom - Phnom Penh.
We traveled by bus, minivan, boat (between Battambang and Siem Reap), overnight bus, scooter, tuk-tuk, and rickshaw for shorter distances. We stayed in guesthouses, homestays, and even in the jungle during a trek.
While the Angkor temples are fabulous, it’s the people you should visit Cambodia for—the "Land of Smiles" truly lives up to its nickname! Tourists gather in Angkor but are quite rare elsewhere, even though the country is easy to travel around.
I won’t describe our trip in detail but instead highlight a few favorite moments.
From Kampot, don’t hesitate to head out around 6 AM to see the fishermen return and their wives selling their catch (just 10 minutes away by the coast). Guaranteed picturesque!
In Battambang, known for its food scene, we discovered a cooking class with Smokin’ Pot (authentic Khmer cooking class). They pick you up from your guesthouse to shop for ingredients (we made fish amok and beef lok lak) at their village market, then cook and eat together. A private class—just the two of us! They also send the recipes via WhatsApp as a PDF. +855 12 821 400
In Siem Reap, I can recommend a francophone tuk-tuk driver who was very attentive to our wishes. We visited tourist spots but also more remote villages and local grilled-pork restaurants with him. He’s a wealth of information about local life, and chatting with him was a real pleasure—we left with regret! You can reach him on WhatsApp: Vung Hem, +855 96 614 0146.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Mondulkiri. Don’t expect a super dense jungle—it looks more like a forest similar to ours. But Nara, our Bunong ethnic guide, made the experience adventurous and ultimately very immersive! WhatsApp +855 86 630 489
Bee Bee’s Chalets homestay: If you pass through Banlung in Ratanakiri, we *loved* this family and their budget-friendly bungalows. Playing Uno, enjoying Nita’s cooking (ask for her fish amok—amazing!), it was a true homestay experience! Contact Nita on WhatsApp: +855 88 818 5525.
In Kratie, rent a scooter and follow the Mekong north for 40 km at your own pace. Being so close to the locals was a treat! Same goes for heading south if you have time.
Kampong Thom: Head 25 km out to visit the pre-Angkorian temples of Sambor Prei Kuk. Around a hundred monuments spread across three sites… and hardly anyone there!
A few practical tips: Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred. PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront). Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
A few practical tips: Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred. PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront). Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
Hi everyone,
We’re planning our second trip to Thailand (2 weeks on-site, late April/early May) as a family with our 5- and 7-year-olds.
On our first trip, we visited Bangkok, Ayutthaya, the River Kwai, Koh Lipe, Koh Phi Phi, and Khao Lak. We especially loved Koh Phi Phi for its limestone cliffs and lush vegetation, as well as Koh Lipe for its crystal-clear waters and snorkeling.
This time, I’m thinking of spending 7 days on the islands. I was considering Koh Tao and Koh Phangan. We’d like some scenery, snorkeling right from the beach, and a bit of atmosphere—but not too much (just enough to grab dinner in the evening).
For the other part of the trip, we’re torn between Chiang Mai and Khao Sok. One or the other… or both? We don’t want to rush, but we’re really nature-focused, so we won’t be hitting too many temples…
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences!
We’re planning our second trip to Thailand (2 weeks on-site, late April/early May) as a family with our 5- and 7-year-olds.
On our first trip, we visited Bangkok, Ayutthaya, the River Kwai, Koh Lipe, Koh Phi Phi, and Khao Lak. We especially loved Koh Phi Phi for its limestone cliffs and lush vegetation, as well as Koh Lipe for its crystal-clear waters and snorkeling.
This time, I’m thinking of spending 7 days on the islands. I was considering Koh Tao and Koh Phangan. We’d like some scenery, snorkeling right from the beach, and a bit of atmosphere—but not too much (just enough to grab dinner in the evening).
For the other part of the trip, we’re torn between Chiang Mai and Khao Sok. One or the other… or both? We don’t want to rush, but we’re really nature-focused, so we won’t be hitting too many temples…
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences!
Hi everyone, I’m looking to do a 15-day Muay Thai training course. Any great places to recommend? Thanks
Hi there, I’ll be on vacation in Malaysia in November and plan to spend 5 days in Penang. After that, I’d like to visit some temples and places in Butterworth or nearby, and also explore the city. Since I usually get around on foot, which neighborhood would be best for me—meaning within a 30-minute walk of attractions, street food stalls, bus lines, etc.? Thanks in advance for your help!
Françoise
Hello, it’s been a while since I last asked for your help on this forum—I’ve really missed it! I hope you’re all doing well, whether you're new or returning members.
I’m planning a trip from February 6 to 18, 2027, with my sister (we’re 47 and 50—time flies!). I’ve got my eye on a flight from Paris that lands in Bangkok on February 7 at 3 PM, with a return flight from Bangkok on February 18 at noon.
My sister has never been to this destination, and it’ll be her first time in Asia. Her priorities: beaches, sunshine, and cocktails by the shore. For me, I love that too, but I also enjoy exploring, nature, forests, and a bit of comfort (mixing guesthouses and higher-end hotels with pools). A little evening entertainment would be great, but not too much—good cocktails in a nice atmosphere rather than a rave party ;-). And I can’t help but dream of taking her on a little trek through a tropical forest (guaranteed memories and laughs, though she might curse me at the time) and showing her some karst landscapes.
I’ve been to Thailand before, but it was 15 years ago...
The idea is to give her a taste of Bangkok for 1 or 2 nights, a few days on an island (but which one...?), a tropical forest excursion with 1 or 2 nights on-site (Khao Sok?), and then back to Bangkok.
For the "main" island, even after reading the *Guide du Routard*, I’m still undecided. It’s hard to find a place that ticks all the boxes without feeling as crowded as the French Riviera in August: Koh Lanta? Khao Lak (though it’s not an island)? Koh Tao (I could maybe get my PADI certification, but I’m afraid she’d get bored, and it might be better to save that for a solo trip)? Koh Yao Yai (I worry we’d be bored in the evenings)? What a dilemma!
Thank you if you’ve read this far! Feel free to share any advice—it’ll all be warmly welcomed.
Here’s a rough outline of the itinerary (I’d rather skip a night in Bangkok if needed):
· Saturday, February 6, 2027: departure (overnight flight) · Sunday, February 7, 2027: arrival at 3 PM, probably at the hotel by 6 PM, evening in Bangkok (overnight in Bangkok) · Monday, February 8, 2027: day in Bangkok (Wat Pho and a floating market?) (overnight in Bangkok) · Tuesday, February 9, 2027: travel to Koh Lanta or another island (flight to Phuket or Krabi?) (overnight on island "x") · Wednesday, February 10, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Thursday, February 11, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Friday, February 12, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Saturday, February 13, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Sunday, February 14, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Monday, February 15, 2027: travel to Khao Sok—nighttime excursion to Khao Sok (overnight in Khao Sok) · Tuesday, February 16, 2027: exploration and hike in Khao Sok (overnight in Khao Sok) · Wednesday, February 17, 2027: return trip to Bangkok (overnight in Bangkok) · Thursday, February 18, 2027: return flight to Paris at noon
I’m planning a trip from February 6 to 18, 2027, with my sister (we’re 47 and 50—time flies!). I’ve got my eye on a flight from Paris that lands in Bangkok on February 7 at 3 PM, with a return flight from Bangkok on February 18 at noon.
My sister has never been to this destination, and it’ll be her first time in Asia. Her priorities: beaches, sunshine, and cocktails by the shore. For me, I love that too, but I also enjoy exploring, nature, forests, and a bit of comfort (mixing guesthouses and higher-end hotels with pools). A little evening entertainment would be great, but not too much—good cocktails in a nice atmosphere rather than a rave party ;-). And I can’t help but dream of taking her on a little trek through a tropical forest (guaranteed memories and laughs, though she might curse me at the time) and showing her some karst landscapes.
I’ve been to Thailand before, but it was 15 years ago...
The idea is to give her a taste of Bangkok for 1 or 2 nights, a few days on an island (but which one...?), a tropical forest excursion with 1 or 2 nights on-site (Khao Sok?), and then back to Bangkok.
For the "main" island, even after reading the *Guide du Routard*, I’m still undecided. It’s hard to find a place that ticks all the boxes without feeling as crowded as the French Riviera in August: Koh Lanta? Khao Lak (though it’s not an island)? Koh Tao (I could maybe get my PADI certification, but I’m afraid she’d get bored, and it might be better to save that for a solo trip)? Koh Yao Yai (I worry we’d be bored in the evenings)? What a dilemma!
Thank you if you’ve read this far! Feel free to share any advice—it’ll all be warmly welcomed.
Here’s a rough outline of the itinerary (I’d rather skip a night in Bangkok if needed):
· Saturday, February 6, 2027: departure (overnight flight) · Sunday, February 7, 2027: arrival at 3 PM, probably at the hotel by 6 PM, evening in Bangkok (overnight in Bangkok) · Monday, February 8, 2027: day in Bangkok (Wat Pho and a floating market?) (overnight in Bangkok) · Tuesday, February 9, 2027: travel to Koh Lanta or another island (flight to Phuket or Krabi?) (overnight on island "x") · Wednesday, February 10, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Thursday, February 11, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Friday, February 12, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Saturday, February 13, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Sunday, February 14, 2027: beach and walks (overnight on island "x") · Monday, February 15, 2027: travel to Khao Sok—nighttime excursion to Khao Sok (overnight in Khao Sok) · Tuesday, February 16, 2027: exploration and hike in Khao Sok (overnight in Khao Sok) · Wednesday, February 17, 2027: return trip to Bangkok (overnight in Bangkok) · Thursday, February 18, 2027: return flight to Paris at noon
Hi there,
I’m planning a trip to Cambodia and was set on visiting the Ratanakiri region, which seemed to match what we love most in terms of landscapes: forests, jungle, greenery...
However, as I started looking into the area, I read that deforestation there is massive, and some of the info on the topic is years old—the situation hasn’t improved since, unfortunately.
So my question is: is Ratanakiri still worth visiting, and does it justify the long travel time and distance to get there?
I’ve seen that jungle treks are possible, but from experience, I know guides sometimes hesitate to venture deep into the forest and stick to shorter walks along the edges of parks.
Thanks in advance for your feedback.
I’m planning a trip to Cambodia and was set on visiting the Ratanakiri region, which seemed to match what we love most in terms of landscapes: forests, jungle, greenery...
However, as I started looking into the area, I read that deforestation there is massive, and some of the info on the topic is years old—the situation hasn’t improved since, unfortunately.
So my question is: is Ratanakiri still worth visiting, and does it justify the long travel time and distance to get there?
I’ve seen that jungle treks are possible, but from experience, I know guides sometimes hesitate to venture deep into the forest and stick to shorter walks along the edges of parks.
Thanks in advance for your feedback.
Hi there,
I’ve found so many tips and reviews on this forum, so it’s my turn to contribute a little.
We spent just over two weeks with our family, with the following itinerary:
- Hanoi: 5 days
- Halong Bay: 3 days and 2 nights
- Tam Coc: 3 days
- Mai Chau: 2 days
- Sapa: 3 days
We got around by bike, scooter, Grab, and bus.
Our main accommodations were homestays and hotels in Hanoi.
We visited lots of museums, temples, and neighborhoods in Hanoi.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Sapa with May, a Hmong local, without going through an agency.
A few small regrets: the weather was overcast, and we couldn’t make it to Fansipan, but nothing major 😅. We also couldn’t find transport to get from Sapa to Mu Cang Chai.
Other than that, this trip will stay in our memories for the kindness of the Vietnamese people, the connections we made, the food (street food, homestays...), the coffee 😋, the landscapes, and how easy it was to get around...
Our goal was to take our time and focus only on a small part of northern Vietnam.
If you need any tips or recommendations, don’t hesitate to ask.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Cédric.
Hi there, we’re landing at Hanoi Airport and would like to head straight to Cao Bang without going into Hanoi. Does anyone know if there are buses that go directly from the airport to Cao Bang (especially in the early afternoon)? Thanks in advance!






