I was in Bangkok during the 2010 events (over 80 dead, thousands injured), and my friends were disappointed he didn’t intervene. "Disappointed," but not critical, since you don’t criticize the king.
I wasn’t in Bangkok on May 19, 2010, because I was in our rice fields in Isan, but I should’ve been there (in Bangkok). A good part of the village and I were supposed to go down to lend a hand to those already there.
You’re right, Charlie—over 80 dead. In reality, more than 700. That’s a long way from 80. The official figure given is over 91 dead.
Why such a gap between the official number and the real one?
For more details, check out the writings of Giles Ji Ungpakorn, for example—a Thai academic exiled in Great Britain. Luckily, he had dual nationality (Thai and British), otherwise he’d be rotting behind pretty bars or already dead.
Exiled why?
Because of his book A Coup for the Rich.
It’s not just *Le Figaro* or *Le Monde* you should read...
There’s also *Prachathai*—in English for those who don’t read Thai.
According to newspapers citing Mr. Srivara Ransibrahmanakul, deputy police chief, police have arrested 5 people for lèse-majesté since the king’s death. Most of those involved posted online messages criticizing the monarchy.
Regarding other cases involving people living abroad, police are working in coordination with prosecutors specializing in international crime.
Regarding other cases of individuals residing abroad, the police act in coordination with the public prosecutors responsible for international crime.
What a joke...
I’d even say... what a *great* joke 🤪 ;
On this topic, some guys or gals—more royalist than the king—want certain Thais living in France or Great Britain to be prosecuted, thrown in irons, and shipped back to Thailand in the hold...
Too bad there aren’t enough spots in psychiatric hospitals in Thailand 🏴☠️
Farangs are snickering, Thais less so. Check out Liu Yangyue’s work or look into the "cyber scouts."
The Bangkok Post is singing the praises of the royal decades. The 1970s seem particularly interesting to observe—at least for those who want to move beyond the snickering. This vision of HRH Bhumibol regarding man’s relationship with his land often appears in ultranationalist, even totalitarian, systems ("The land does not lie," etc.).
It’s pretty amusing to see, since the various governments that followed have struggled to reconcile his "self-sufficiency" concept with the unbridled liberalism that’s driven the country’s economy for decades.
At least the farangs in Lumpini Park will now know who invented those little paddle wheels you see all over the country.
www.bangkokpost.com/...riculture-by-hm-king
Go ahead, laugh. The day it actually happens, we’ll be laughing a lot less.
I know some so-called socialist or "people’s democratic" republics that don’t hesitate to pressure families back home to punish expat dissidents.
Too bad Thailand isn’t a military dictatorship yet, huh? 🤪
Naturally, the infantilization of an entire people through the exacerbation of the personality cult (thanks for your link choice, which provides such a caricatured example) leaves its mark.
Its mark? What am I saying? Real bolts screwed into skulls...😕
Regarding other cases of people living abroad, the police act in coordination with the general prosecutors responsible for international crime.
What a joke...
I’ll even say it’s a *really* good joke 🤪 ;
On this topic, some guys or gals more royalist than the King want certain Thai people living in France or Great Britain to be prosecuted, thrown in irons, sent back to Thailand in the ship’s hold...
Too bad there aren’t enough spots in psychiatric hospitals in Thailand 🏴☠️
Go ahead, laugh. The day it actually happens, we’ll be laughing a lot less.
Let me know when the news is officially announced, so I can stop laughing in time...😇
Let me know when the information is released, so I can stop laughing in time...
Hello,
Just showing respect for a culture that isn’t yours—is that really asking too much, in the grand scheme of things?
For Thai residents, whether it’s a child or not, the penalties are severe, and IP tracking outside of FB and YT is common practice. Abe.
Naturally, the infantilization of an entire people through the exacerbation of the personality cult (thanks for your link choice, which offers such a caricatured example) leaves its mark.
Marks? What am I saying? Real bolts screwed into skulls...😕
When a student lacks education, the blame should fall on their teachers. It’s also worth noting that thinking all "skulls" don’t think is forgetting what’s said in universities and ignoring that political criticism is constant.
Those who voice these criticisms avoid targeting the monarchy—not out of ignorance, but because it doesn’t advance their ideas. And they risk nothing less than being thrown in prison for long sentences. The crime of lèse-majesté is nothing more or less than a tool of political repression used by the country’s real ruler: the Army.
As for armchair revolutionaries, I’ll wait for the next uprising to see if they dare take to the streets.
Let me know when the news is out, so I can stop laughing in time...😇
Hmm... I know the story of a ladyboy who lived in France and badmouthed the King on Facebook... the authorities tracked him down through his French boyfriend... seems like said ladyboy is heading back to Thailand to do some thinking in prison...
Good evening Christian!
You’re absolutely right—those who aren’t happy should stay home and definitely not come to Thailand!
Once again, bravo for your comment and your respect for the Royal Family. When you know—or take the time to understand—the history of this country, the least you can do is show even more respect during this period of mourning.
Make sure to let me know when the news is out, so I can stop laughing in time...😇
Hmm... I know the story of a ladyboy who lived in France and spoke ill of the King on Facebook... the authorities tracked him down through his French boyfriend... seems like said ladyboy is heading back to Thailand to do some thinking in prison...
Once again, congratulations on your comment and your respect for the Royal Family
Oh, it must be acknowledged that he was probably "the best of us." I quote (from here):
living reincarnation of King Ramkhamhaeng
a relationship with his people like a loving father with his children
the richest man on Earth, but it was said that his wealth was just as great inwardly
Only love watched over him
And the best for last:
the said King was only waiting for his death to become a God in his next life
No more to add!
Good evening!
My message wasn’t aimed at you, but at Christian, and it’s clear he understood that on this forum and others, it’s strongly advised not to discuss Thailand’s political policies.
Fortunately, many members follow this advice, and I can see where you’re going with this, "sir," but it’s not about blindly following the crowd—it’s simply about showing respect for a country that isn’t ours!
Now, what can *you* do to change the daily life of the Thai people? Come on, you must have some ideas?! For a Frenchman who has freedom of speech, it should be super easy to get results... We can see every day how much better your country is doing...
Anyway, I’d be happy to read about "200 days of solitary confinement, barefoot and without a guide, deep in a Thai prison."
Best to all!
PS – Just stick to eating Lyon’s "Rosette" sausage, and then, sir, I’ll agree that when it comes to food, you’re the best...
So when you don't know and you want to take the trouble to understand
Hello,
I’m taking the liberty of going slightly off-topic here, as I don’t want to clutter your wonderful travel journals.
Living in Udon Thani, I see a constant stream of vehicles from Laos coming to Thai hospitals,
like here in front of Bangkok Hospital (the Benz AMG is in front of Centara). The purchase price of these vehicles is staggering—I couldn’t take photos of a stunning Maybach and a Porsche Cayenne.
Simple question:
has the purchasing power increased significantly since 2007 (when I last visited Laos) for every citizen to own this kind of vehicle?
Has the road infrastructure (which I found terrible) improved enough to fully enjoy these cars, which are designed for highways?
And aren’t there any decent hospitals in Laos that people have to come to Thailand for medical care?
Let me know when the information is released, so I can stop laughing in time..
There’s nothing amusing about seeing the world turn into Big Brother or veer toward extremists of all kinds.
I’ve read your travel journals too and I’m almost surprised by the amount of irony on your part.
Laos hasn’t had a king since 1975—the Pathet Lao, a single party with no real opposition, sent the king, queen, and crown prince to an internment camp where they died. Is that better?
Since then, the leaders have been lining their pockets and growing fat with China’s blessing, at the expense of the population and a freedom of expression that’s also heavily restricted (see Sombath Somphone in 2012).
I know a few Laotians who immigrated to France and they were telling me about Aum Neko and drawing parallels with communism in Laos.
Personally, this doesn’t make me laugh.
I can understand that it might outrage you, but also understand the respect and mourning of an entire people for their sovereign, without calling them lobotomized.
So when you don’t know and you want to make the effort to understand:
Now that’s some expert-level information. Between the extreme precision of phrases like "many Thais"..."an attitude shared by a large segment of the population..." "...a completely infantilized population..." and the pretension of explaining decades of history in one page—when we know, for example, that the 1932 coup alone has generated countless contradictory academic analyses spanning hundreds of pages... As for the psyche, the unconscious is entirely absent from any materialist conception of the world, by definition.
Simple, summarized, objective, Manichean, easy to understand. I love the information doled out to uneducated people by the enlightened elite—and if they don’t want it, by force, with sickle and hammer.
And above all, pick your side. But preferably mine, because all the others are wrong.
Hello,
I read, like other contributors, the stories from 321. And it’s amazing. Just a little compassion and understanding for the country as a whole and its paradoxes.
Edit: This was meant for 321. Not directly for you, sorry!
Yeah, I'm an idiot, and you're shockingly naive (see your comments that I quoted).
No big deal, and long live diversity!
what I wrote ... is what the Thais think...
I wasn’t talking about infantilization for no reason... So if it’s true (that Thais think that), then you’re perfectly illustrating the consequences with these splendid examples...😕
I didn’t say "lobotomized" but "infantilized" (and I stand by that).
As for the rest (your comments on the situation in Laos), I completely agree with you (and since you mentioned it, the link to the support blog for S. Somphone has been in my profile since the year it was created).
So when you don’t know and you can’t be bothered to understand:
Now that’s some expert-level information. Between the extreme precision of phrases like "many Thais"..."an attitude shared by a large segment of the population..." "...a completely infantilized population..." and the pretension of explaining decades of history in one page—when we know, for example, that the 1932 coup alone has generated countless conflicting academic analyses spanning hundreds of pages... As for the psyche, the unconscious is absent from any materialist conception of the world by definition.
Simple, summarized, objective, black-and-white, easy to understand. I love the information handed down to uneducated people by enlightened elites, and if necessary, with a sickle and hammer when they don’t want it. And above all, pick your side. But preferably mine, because all the others are wrong.
Once again, you have nothing to say. So I’ll move on.
Hello,
I read, like other contributors, 321’s stories. And they’re magnificent. Just a little compassion, some understanding for the country as a whole and its paradoxes.
Edit: This was meant for 321. Not directly for you, sorry!
Hi,
For compassion, don’t worry—let everyone handle it in their own way, from total silence to the most shameless, even sordid, displays on forums.
As for understanding, thankfully, no one has a monopoly on it, no matter the subject.
I couldn't care less, and you're showing total ignorance about Buddhism with your incoherent responses... there's nothing wrong with looking foolish in life... but to flaunt it and mock others with such unparalleled misunderstanding is another story....
So for your personal education... and I beg you, dear Sir...
Theravada Buddhism remains what defines love in the most subtle way... it's true that it takes effort to learn, and it's up to you...
As your punishment, you’ll recite the 44 letters of the Thai alphabet for me, and while singing!!! 😛 p-l-e-a-s-e...
I don’t mind, and you’re showing total ignorance about Buddhism
Ugh, and here I thought the topic was the monarchy (and, of course, the military, since the two are inseparable in this case—"thick as thieves," as they say!).
And then you talk about inconsistency... 🤪
with your incoherent replies...
Please quote what you didn’t understand—I’ll try to use even simpler words...
there’s nothing wrong with looking foolish in life...
I can confirm that (example).
an unparalleled misunderstanding
Seriously: "misunderstanding," "ignorance," "inconsistency"... What are you waiting for to explain it all to me (without nonsense, please)?
Theravada Buddhism remains what defines love in one of the most subtle ways... it’s true that it takes effort to educate yourself, and it’s up to you...
Speaking of education, start by rereading your own posts—it’s a bit rough...
Anyway, moving on, because for me, religions are all the same—none’s better than the other.
And especially not this one...
Regarding the rest (your comments about the situation in Laos)
Hmm, I think 321 must consider that my questions don’t deserve a response for the readers.
On a personal note, I really enjoy
Travel journals by motorcycle, on foot, or hitchhiking that lead to something concrete, not just a link of compassion.
And even if I don’t align with his ideas, I have deep respect for the man and his commitment,
paired with an extraordinary lifelong friendship.
fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carnets_de_voyage
And following Christian’s relevant quote:
As your punishment, you’ll recite the 44 letters of the Thai alphabet—singing!
"An Eternal Light," a song composed and produced by French pianist and producer Frank Herrgott.
Lyrics by Australian singer James Flynn, in collaboration with American singer Keithen Carter,
featuring the famous Thai saxophonist Mr. Saxman and Canadian Sylvain Gagnon on double bass.
The choir consists of foreign singers and musicians living in Thailand and Luk-Khun (mixed heritage).
music.sanook.com/2382365/
I think 321 feels my questions don’t deserve an answer
Hi,
Of course they do! But (beyond being off-topic) I honestly can’t give you a reliable answer on this. Others will be much better informed.
Cheers,
321
Once again, you have nothing to say. So I’ll move on.
I’ll skip the condescension because sometimes—rarely—a person who thinks very highly of themselves actually has good reason to.
I’m asking you a simple question: Do you know any Thais?
I’ll ask you a simple question: do you hang out with Thais?
Seeing you come in with all the subtlety of a sledgehammer, I’ll ask you not one, but three questions in return (my generosity will be my downfall):
- Do you *have* to know Lao people to have the right to challenge the dictatorship ruling that country?
- Do you *have* to know Breton farmers to have the right to challenge intensive pig farming in Brittany?
- Do you *have* to know people who sodomize flies to have the right to challenge the sodomy of flies?
You're not being consistent with the forum topic: The King of Thailand has died... do you understand French?
Feel free to start a thread on any miscellaneous topics that interest you, if you'd like, but here we're discussing the fact that the King of Thailand has passed away... and there's plenty to remember... do you see how your comments don't relate to what's being said? 🤪
I’ll ask you a very simple question: do you hang out with Thais?
Seeing you come in with all the subtlety of a sledgehammer, I’ll ask you not one but three questions in return (my generosity will be my downfall):
- Do you have to know Lao people to have the right to challenge the dictatorship governing that country?
- Do you have to know Breton farmers to have the right to challenge intensive pig farming in Brittany?
- Do you have to know people who sodomize dipterans to have the right to challenge the sodomy of dipterans?
The floor is yours, counsel for the prosecution.
My question was simple. Thanks for answering it with the same simplicity.
Condescension, constant generalizations, prejudices about the person you’re talking to, zero field experience (big theories about infantilized Thais are great, but long evenings chatting with a few of them is also valuable), partial and biased knowledge of complex issues, black-and-white judgments, and to top it off, a supposedly funny "childish" pirouette (oh really?).
I won’t learn anything from this, and clearly, I have nothing to teach you either, since you’ve already got it all figured out.
End of discussion on my end.
PS: For anyone who actually wants to understand this country beyond stereotypes, know that foreigners are welcome, you can travel freely, and people speak freely too. At least when real friendships are formed. Respect, humility, and an open mind.
Is it mandatory to know Lao people to have the right to challenge the dictatorship governing that country?
It’s certainly not a requirement, but when talking about a country in mourning, the opinions of locals seem far more relevant than those of armchair activists comfortably sitting on their sofas. A cultural difference, I suppose.
I’m more concerned about the fate of the people who have always been kind and welcoming to me, a foreigner, and I can only respect an elderly woman—perhaps infantilized?—paying tribute to a king (*), even if he wasn’t perfect or was criticized by some Western media. Ordinary people make a country too.
Should we condemn or mock an entire nation because of its leaders?
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ngeAXZbyq08
(*) A thank you to Khun Obeo for this video.
I’ll leave you to judge for yourselves when it comes to pig farming and sodomizers of all stripes.
Note that most participants in this thread don’t need PMs to discuss or agree with your points. So, accept Franky’s PMs—he’ll bother us less, though I doubt his cheers come without some snide remarks about certain members.😎
Hello everyone! I’m heading off solo in February and wanted to share my rough itinerary with you. Does this sound doable?
PS: I’m not really into beaches.
D1 Departure on February 17, 2027
D2 Arrival in Kuala Lumpur – stroll through Chinatown and visit the Petronas Towers
D3: Kuala Lumpur – Chow Kit Market, Batu Caves, Little India, Bukit Bintang downtown area
D4: Early morning bus to Malacca. Explore Malacca in the afternoon and evening
D5: Another 2–3 hours in Malacca in the morning, then bus back to Kuala Lumpur. Merdeka Square area. Stay in Chinatown
D6: Bus trip to Kuala Tahan. Night tour
D7: Morning – canopy walk and Bukit Terisek hike. Afternoon – off to Lata Berkoh
D8 & D9: 2-day jungle trek in Taman Negara National Park
D10: Head to Cameron Highlands
D11: Morning hike through the plantations. Afternoon still to be decided
D12: Morning – excursion to Mossy Forest and Sungei Plantation. Afternoon bus to Ipoh
D13: Morning – Mirror Lake / Sam Poh Temple area. Afternoon – explore downtown Ipoh
D14: Morning train to Penang. Afternoon – wander around Georgetown
D15: Morning – Penang Hill and Keh Loh Temple. Afternoon – Georgetown
D16: Bus to Butterfly Garden and Spice Garden. Late afternoon – Burmese and Thai temples
D17: Morning flight to Singapore. Afternoon – Chinatown and Marina Bay tour
D18: Morning – Gardens by the Bay area. Afternoon – Boat Quay, Clarke Quay, Kampong Glam
D19: Morning – The Ridges area and Botanical Garden. Afternoon – Little India, then back to Chinatown before 11:15 PM return flight
D20: Morning arrival
Has anyone traveled with the Laos travel agency ADV ?
I’m planning a trip to Laos and have received several quotes. Among them, this agency’s seem very reasonable, and so far, the interactions have been positive.
I’ve found a few positive reviews online, but I’d love to hear from travelers who’ve actually booked with them: how’s the organization, guide quality, accommodations, on-the-ground responsiveness, etc.
Thanks for sharing your experiences!
First stop on our discovery of the peninsula: Amphawa. It’s our first night in Thailand (we arrived at Suvarnabhumi at 8:50 AM).
Our initial plan was to explore the area before heading further south. The Mae Klong Railway Market is tempting... but what else is there to do????
We’ll be there on a Wednesday, and from what I’ve read on the forum, some say there’s absolutely nothing to do during the week—no floating market, barely any shops open, no restaurants, etc.
Others, though, say the place is actually more charming without the weekend crowds.
Could you share your thoughts? Missing the floating market is one thing, but if it’s really a ghost town on Wednesdays, I might just drop our bags somewhere else.
Amphawa seemed like a good first stop, just 1.5 hours from the airport, but I’d still like to settle somewhere a bit lively for our first evening.
We’ll be there at the end of October.
Thanks!
Hi,
I wanted to visit the plantations in the morning with GetYourGuide or by just showing up.
How much time should I really plan for?
I’d like to catch either the 3 PM or 5 PM bus back to KL.
Thanks
Hi,
I wanted to get some info about the cable car and the bridge—I see lots of different options...
How much time should we allow for these two activities? If we arrive around 4 PM, will we have enough time to visit without rushing?
Thanks
Hi there,
I didn’t plan to return to Thailand this year, but my health conditions mean it’ll be the best place for me to stay between two trips to India. The tourism setup there is so well-organized that it’s the most "comfortable" country for a short visit. Thailand feels too sanitized for my taste, and there’s too much religion, Buddha, and the King, but it’s still the best option given how my health has been evolving. I’d considered two weeks in ThaTon for hiking, but I got too sick from the burn-offs during my trips to the mountains around Chiang Rai. So I’m not sure where to go this year. Definitely not the sea, touristy spots, or the mountains with burn-offs...
Hi,
On September 1st, we're heading to Kalimantan for six weeks, probably from Pontianak to the Derawan Islands.
I've scoured this site, which is usually my go-to 😉, and others like VoyageForum, but recent info is pretty scarce.
I'd love any tips on places you've visited—our itinerary is still a work in progress.
We're two couples traveling with backpacks, using buses, boats, guesthouses, and homestays.
Thanks in advance!
Hi fellow travelers,
First trip to Vietnam.
We’ll be arriving in Ho Chi Minh City during Tet.
Is it complicated to find accommodation and get around during this period?
Any tips would be welcome.
Thanks for your replies.
Hi! I’d like to split my trip into two parts: 15 days in Phuket and 15 days in Krabi. Do you know if I can rent a car and drop it off in Krabi when I fly back to France?
Thanks for your feedback!
Have a great Sunday!
Martine
Hello,
After 1 night in Khao Sok, I’d like to find a 2 Days 1 Night package on the lake.
After reading a lot, I decided to "break the bank" and treat ourselves to a private tour—mainly to avoid the crowds.
But after contacting several operators, they offer "private tours" that are very expensive (around 700 €), yet in the details, the boats can only leave from the pier at 10 AM like everyone else. (I was hoping to leave much earlier.) The morning program is the same for everyone too (private or not). They drop us off at noon at our floating hotel (I’d chosen Phupha Waree). Free afternoon (swimming or kayaking in front of the hotel). We head back by boat for a 1-hour sunset ride. And the next morning, we leave the hotel at 8 AM to be at the pier by 9:30 AM at the latest—end of the trip.
So basically, we’re paying a lot for a private tour just to do the same thing as everyone else at the same time.
Or maybe I just had bad luck in my search.
I contacted Panida Ladi, who’s very popular on forums. We’d agreed on a private tour that matched my request (departure from the pier at 8 AM, very personalized itinerary). We settled on the itinerary and price, she asked for a Wise transfer for a 30% deposit, confirmed receipt of the deposit. Then 30 minutes later, she messaged me to say she was canceling everything because it was impossible to do the requested tour—and promised a quick refund of my deposit.
So here’s my question: Who’s done a *real* private tour on this lake? Who can recommend a reliable agency? Is it even really possible to do a private tour here?
I’m searching for a real gem for my 3rd stay in Koh Lanta: a lovely, high-quality hotel right by an easily accessible beach in a lively spot.
If you know of anything that fits what I’m looking for and want to share, don’t hesitate!
Hi, is anyone there in Flores right now? According to some websites, everything is closed and the situation is tough. But our guide says it's fine. Who should we believe? We're supposed to leave on September 2nd. Thanks to anyone in Flores at the moment!
Hi dear community,
I'm planning to visit Cambodia this winter, right after Christmas, for my first solo trip and my first trip to Asia. For two weeks (yes, I know it's short, but I really can't do more...). I have two main desires: Siem Reap and the countryside, the villages, the Mekong...
What do you think of this itinerary? Arrival in Siem Reap, departure from Phnom Penh.
SR: 5 days (1 day for arrival, 3 for the temples, 1 for the lake and its villages)
Kratie (stop on the way to Mondolkiri): 3 days (1 day of travel, 2 days there)
Mondolkiri/Sen Monorom: 4 days (1 day of travel, 1 day there, 2 days of treks)
PP: 3 days (1 day of travel, 2 days of sightseeing)
I think I need to cut one day somewhere if I travel from Saturday to Saturday or Sunday to Sunday. In Kratie, maybe? Or in PP? And I'll miss the boat trip that everyone recommends (SR-Battambang), but I don't see where to fit it in. Unless I do a PP-PP loop starting in the east, skip Kratie or just stay one night, then SR, then PP.
In my timing, Mondolkiri seems closer than Ratanakiri, which also tempted me a lot! Will it be too complicated alone? I'm thinking of using local guides or a small local agency for a nature and village getaway.
I've read that Siem Reap is very crowded between Christmas and New Year's. I could also do the circuit in the opposite direction. But I thought it would be easier to get familiar with the country by arriving in a touristy area—I might be wrong...
Thanks for your advice and opinions!
Hi everyone.
I’m planning my trip, and based on all the posts I’ve read, this country is amazing.
Of course, I’ve got a ton of questions for you.
Here’s a possible itinerary: Vientiane - Vang Vieng - Phonsavan - Sam Neua - Nong Khiaw + villages - Phongsali - Luang Namtha and the area - Udomxai - Huay Xai - Luang Prabang and back to Vientiane.
What do you think?
We’re planning to prioritize local transport—is it possible to do this loop?
We’d also love to go kayaking, but I’m not sure if the season’s right or where the best spot is.
For trekking—I read that Phongsali is the most authentic spot to visit villages and see wildlife. Do you know of a reliable agency and a guesthouse with reasonable prices?
Is it worth taking a slow boat for a stretch on the Mekong, and if so, which route?
For accommodations, is it better to book through Booking.com and Agoda or look when we arrive?
Are mosquitoes bad in Laos, and should we take malaria prophylaxis?
What’s the average daily budget (accommodation, food, visits)?
Is renting scooters a good option for exploring towns, and if so, which ones?
From what I’ve read, it’s best to carry cash—euros or dollars? Is it risky to walk around with that much cash?
I’ve still got tons of questions. Thanks to anyone who can help, and I’m open to all tips, info, etc.
Thanks again
Hi there,
I’m planning a trip to Vietnam in February, specifically Da Nang and Hoi An.
Does anyone know a French-speaking guide in the area?
Thanks for your help
Hi there,
I’m planning a family trip (my wife and I, both 47, and our two sons, aged 5 and 12) to Malaysia for the last week of June and the first two weeks of July 2027.
We used to love road trips as a couple, then as a trio, but since our second child arrived, we’ve taken a break with "camping village" style trips.
Now feels like the right time to get back to our old habits, while adjusting the pace for the kids.
We’re craving Asia. We’ve been lucky enough to visit Thailand, Indonesia (Bali and Lombok), and Sri Lanka before.
Friends have raved about Malaysia, so we’re definitely tempted.
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Hello,
We’re a family of four with two teens aged 16 and 18. We’re heading to Thailand this summer. We’ll arrive in Bangkok and plan to take a flight to Luang Prabang.
I’ve seen there are some great visits and excursions to do (temples, markets, waterfalls) and maybe even venture a bit north to places like Nong Khiaw, Muang Xay, Muang Ngoy, or Oudom Xay.
But I’ve also heard about the Bokeo region with the Gibbon Experience.
Since we won’t be able to do everything, I’d love to hear about your experiences, impressions, and advice on the two options I’m considering, especially since we’ll be meeting family in Chiang Mai, Thailand, afterward.
Option 1: A loop from Luang Prabang heading slightly north, then a flight from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai.
Option 2: A few days in Luang Prabang, exploring within a few dozen kilometers around, then heading to Bokeo province for the 2-day/1-night Gibbon Experience. For this option, I saw on Rome2Rio that it’s possible to book a ferry trip on the Mekong from Luang Prabang to Huay Xay—they mention about 8 hours. But is that realistic? What type of boat is it?
Then, to get to Chiang Mai, there aren’t many options—bus or minivan—but how does crossing the border work?
Finally, for those of you who’ve been to Laos in August, what was the weather like?
We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
I’m starting a discussion about guides in the Mekong Delta because we’ve just finished our trip in this region and had a hard time finding a French-speaking guide. We had Thanh—she speaks French really well and travels all over the delta region, including Ho Chi Minh City. She’s super friendly and flexible. I recommend her wholeheartedly. If it can help someone...
Feel free to contact us for her number.
Hi everyone,
I couldn’t find any recent info on Kuching.
Can anyone recommend a hotel or guesthouse for under 100 RM that’s nice and affordable? No dorms, please.
Also, does it rain a lot in November, and is it still worth visiting Semenggoh or Bako?
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you?
If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
Silly question—backpack or hard-shell suitcase for the Sepilok, Kinabatangan, Tioman, KL trip?
I’m struggling to fit all my son’s and my stuff into the 70L backpack... and I’m thinking a suitcase would be easier, but I’m not sure if it’ll work for getting around.
After a stay on Koh Phayam this coming November, I’d like to spend 2 or 3 days on Koh Phra Thong before heading further south.
Do you think it’s doable to leave Koh Phayam early enough to catch the 10 AM boat from Khura Buri to Koh Phra Thong? The next one isn’t until 4 PM, which would cost me a whole day.
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days.
I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome!
I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Hello everyone,
Not long ago, I used to travel as a couple, but my husband has since passed away, and I’ve decided to set off again. The trip I took to Cambodia in January 2025 did me a world of good.
I’m now considering Thailand, a destination we never included in our plans because even 15 years ago, people said it was too touristy. Still, I’m thinking about the itinerary below, but I don’t feel up to arranging buses, trains, or guides on my own while I’m there. I’m looking for one or more drivers and have been in touch with an agency, but their offers are just copy-paste group tours that I don’t want.
So, if you have any contacts, experiences, or advice, I’d be so grateful if you’d share them with me. Here’s my rough plan:
Arrival in Bangkok
Ayutthaya (2 nights)
Kanchanaburi (2 or 3 nights)
Sangkhlaburi/Sai Yok (3 nights)
Sukhothai (2 nights)
Lampang (I’ve planned 3 nights, but that might be a bit much—it depends on what time I arrive in the city)
Chiang Mai
Chiang Dao
Pai
Chiang Rai
I was thinking about the Mae Hong Son loop—thoughts?
What do you think about staying overnight at the Golden Triangle?
When I look online, of course, I can find agencies that organize tours to national parks, etc.
I’m retired but in great physical shape. I’d rather go hiking than sit in hot springs with crowds of tourists who’ve all arranged meet-ups. I don’t want to spend a day at an elephant camp, and I don’t want to visit Karen villages.
I’d love to hear your advice.
Thank you all,
Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur
Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral.
Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo).
Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok:
* Orangutan Center
* Malayan Sun Bear Center
* Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan.
Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari.
Jungle walk.
Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari.
Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port.
Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar
5 full days.
* Snorkeling
* Hiking
* Turtle watching
* Wild beaches
* Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland.
Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali.
And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people!
So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops):
- 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud
2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa)
1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...)
- 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces)
- 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai
- 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed)
- 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island)
- 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan)
- 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels.
Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?)
Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?)
Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027:
- Phnom Penh
- Kampong Cham
- Kratie
- Siem Reap
- Battambang
- Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights.
Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above.
Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
