Franco-Togolese marriage
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Translated into English.

BA Bashomar ·
Hi Paag. I just got back from Lomé with all the marriage paperwork. I’ve got everything ready to send for the marriage transcription. I sent it off two weeks ago. I’m waiting for the acknowledgment of receipt to make sure they’ve received my file.
PA Paag ·
Good evening. Are you married? Congratulations! Sometimes the acknowledgment of receipt can take a very long time. Did you get married through the CCM? In a few months, you’ll receive your family record book. Then the visa, and you’ll be together. Good luck!
BA Bashomar ·
Good evening! Yeah, it's been 20 days since I've been waiting for an acknowledgment of receipt. But this afternoon, I went back to the post office to ask for information and file a complaint. They confirmed that the mail did arrive at its destination and that they'll send me a duplicate. I went through this marriage without a CCM. But it cost me a lot because of all this. Now I'm waiting, but I don't know how long. Should I call them or not?
PA Paag ·
Hi there. We got married in June without CCM and received the family record book in January. Don’t wait too long for the acknowledgment of receipt. With a bit of luck, it’ll take about 3 months. But the consulate definitely received your file. You can’t reach them by phone or email. You just gotta be patient—around 7 months. Hang in there!
BA Bashomar ·
Hi; will they send you something to prove that your application is being processed or not? Thanks again.
PA Paag ·
No paperwork at all. They’ll just email you if any documents are missing.
BA Bashomar ·
AND HOW WILL YOU KNOW if it’s good? You’ve got your booklet, right?
PA Paag ·
7 months later they sent me an email saying my family record book was being prepared, and that I could pick it up at the town hall 10 days later. Nantes handles this. Did you get married in Lomé or somewhere else?
BA Bashomar ·
No, in Lomé it was too tight; I went to Tsevie to get married. There were a lot of people, and we had to negotiate. It was really tough, but it's done.
PA Paag ·
Hello. Keep me posted on when the family record book arrives. Where in France do you live?
BA Bashomar ·
GOOD EVENING, no worries; I live near Toulouse
KC Kchoupapy ·
Hi everyone. We got married in August in Tsevié with CCAM. We’ve submitted the paperwork for the transcription, sent it a week ago. I have a question about my spouse’s visa application—they’re asking for proof of the French spouse’s French nationality. What do you think this means? Is a valid passport or ID card enough, or do we absolutely need a French Nationality Certificate?

Best regards
NO Nounou81 ·
Hello,

You’ll need the national ID card plus the certificate of nationality (mandatory).
AN Angemimine ·
Hello,

My husband and I have just gone through the Franco-Togolese wedding process. He’s Togolese, and I’m French. Given how complicated things can get with the administration, I thought I’d leave this post here. If you’d like advice or want to benefit from our experience, don’t hesitate...

Good luck to everyone in the same situation!!

Hi, I’m planning to marry a Togolese man, and with all the administrative paperwork, I’m completely lost. After seeing your post, I was wondering if you could still offer some help understanding this administrative process, specifically how to put together the CCAM file. Looking forward to your response. Thanks in advance
BA Bashomar ·
Good evening everyone, just wanted to let you know that I received our family record book with the birth certificate transcription for my son. So happy! I’ll start preparing the visa for my wife and my son’s passport. Thanks for all your advice.
CA Carrell ·
Hi, I'm French and want to marry my Togolese girlfriend in the CCAM. They're asking for a CNF (French nationality certificate), but after looking into it, I realized the processing times are really long. Is this really required? Thanks for your replies! Jpierre
PA Paag ·
Hello, yes, you need a certificate of nationality, which you get from the courthouse. They ask for the birth certificates of your parents and their marriage certificate. I waited a month and a half. Good luck! Best regards, Françoise.
CA Carrell ·
Hi and thanks for your reply! I got a call from the court—they told me what to do next, but I have to wait until September if everything goes well. If we can stay in touch, that’d make me happy. Have a great day! JPierre
AN Angemimine ·
Hi I sent my file in mid-June and it arrived in Lomé in mid-July. I didn’t include this certificate because, as far as I’m concerned, both my parents are French and were born on French territory, so I didn’t think I needed to provide one. They told me they’d received the file, and I’ll see if they ask for it. I got an email saying it’s being processed. I’m from the French West Indies and I’m waiting for my CCAM so I can marry a Togolese man
CA Carrell ·
Hey hey hello, it's funny—I lived in Martinique in Schoelcher for 20 years before heading to French Guiana. But tell me, has your fiancé ever come to Martinique at least once to meet you? And I suppose you’ve been to Togo yourself... As for the CNF, it’s listed, but I only spotted it between the lines in three words and didn’t see it before, which is why I asked about it on this forum. Be careful—because of that, they could send your file back. They know exactly what they’re doing at the consulate, I know it all too well, and they’ve never even seen me to give advice. Believe me, they’re completely absent except for the Togolese security guards at the entrance—you don’t see the French staff at all??? If we can exchange emails, let me know, and I’ll explain the steps I’ve already taken. That’d be great if we could help each other out because apparently, their paperwork is really complicated to put together. Best regards, JPierre
CA Carrell ·
the logical solution would be to request a visa to introduce their country before going through marriage procedures... that just makes sense to me.

well, no...

really?! so why offer a service I found exceptional when I tested it last time, like CAPAGO on Rue des Femmes Savantes in Lomé, which supposedly advises you in the best way possible, only to hand you back, alone, without any visitors behind a 50x40 cm window, with a security guard who looks miserable (or is it just acting?), a sterile passport, and then escorts you to the exit in the elevator? Why not say from the start that the visa application has no chance of success anyway and that it's a waste of time to apply, even with a complete file and lawyer's documents to back it up? of course... no more money coming in for them... and you're telling me about marriage... without giving the person from another culture the chance to appreciate—or not—your own country where you're welcoming them? not to mention the wasted time, money spent for nothing, and the total disappointment and consternation that follows... the consulate itself stays clear of unfavorable outcomes and the distress this causes for sincere people, and here I am, a French citizen dependent on the consulate—or at least the French Embassy in Togo—wasting my energy and money for nothing to prove my good faith and that of my partner? What do you think about that? and the rejections and the "no-shows" for appointments that feel like a scam to me, a French person who made the trip specifically for this? what world are we living in? during the slavery era, "visas were certainly easier to obtain in the 17th century"—but what do we do now? maybe cut off an arm and leave it in the consulate's freezer to pick up on the person's return, or give it to the dogs if they don’t come back...

and this is the service offered:

To address the increase in visa applications, reduce waiting times, and improve public reception, visa application files will now be collected at the Capago Togo center. This center will provide a dedicated and adapted space for receiving the public and will improve the reception of individuals wishing to travel to France or to a country represented in Togo by France. Appointment waiting times will be reduced.

This simplification of visa application collection reflects the President of the Republic's desire to facilitate regular mobility.

What are the benefits for users? This new procedure aims to improve the service for users in several ways:

- Speed: appointment waiting times will be minimized; - Reception: 16 agents will be available to users from Monday to Friday, from 7:00 AM to 2:00 PM; - File tracking: Capago Togo will keep users informed at every stage of their file's progress via SMS or email; - Comfort: users will be welcomed in a large 550 m² space, of which 380 m² will be exclusively dedicated to file collection. Comfortably arranged, the center will guarantee the reception of at least 60 applicants daily. - Premium Service: a new feature is also offered, with the possibility for users to opt for a Premium service, where comfort, advantages, and attention will be enhanced. Users can thus enjoy pastries, hot drinks, fresh fruit juices, Wi-Fi access, and personalized reception in a dedicated space.

The Capago Togo Center The Capago Togo center is located in the P. Thérèse building, at the intersection of Boulevard du 13 Janvier and Rue des Femmes Savantes in Lomé.

- The basic service fee amounts to 18,500 CFA francs - For the Premium service, an additional 25,000 CFA francs will be required

The Capago Togo center, a private service provider, is mandated by the French Embassy. Its role is limited to receiving, verifying the completeness of files, and collecting alphanumeric and biometric data. However, visa applications remain processed by the consular service of the French Embassy, the only authority entitled to make decisions regarding visas, in accordance with current regulations.

even a Premium service... great!! just like on some airlines...

When passports were returned, there were 5 applications, and all 5 were systematically refused with the box checked "no proof of return to the territory provided"... there you go. and how many others like this??? I'm disillusioned with this system that feels like a mirage...
AB Abba1 ·
Hi, I’d also like to get married in Togo in November, but with everything I’m reading and all the paperwork required, I’m a bit lost and don’t know where to start... Could you shed some light on this, please?
AB Abba1 ·
Hi everyone, Actually, every case is different, but there’s always at least one super long document to get For my part, I applied for the CCAM at the end of December and got it in mid-April (so three and a half months). We were starting to stress, but we managed to get married in May. The transcription request was sent at the end of May, but more than three months later, we still haven’t heard anything... and then there’s the visa to deal with. I’m starting to worry we won’t be able to spend the end-of-year holidays together. It’s crazy how much of an obstacle course we have to go through just to live together...

Good luck to everyone!

Hello, I’d also like to get married in Togo in November, but with everything I’m reading and all the paperwork required, I’m a bit lost and don’t know where to start... Could you shed some light on this, please?
CA Carrell ·
Make sure to carefully check the list of required documents, keeping in mind that each paper can take more or less time to obtain. Don’t forget anything they’re asking for—I think they’re just waiting for that. On my end, I’m still waiting for some documents that haven’t arrived yet, and on top of that, it’s vacation season... so that’s all I’ve got for now.......
AB Abba1 ·
Thanks so much for the reply! So, for the CCM, they’re asking for documents from my future spouse. Maybe it’s better to handle it on-site (in Togo) at the embassy, after I’ve gathered all my own documents first? I’ll be there from October through the end of February...
CA Carrell ·
it's the town hall that issues the papers to your wife, not the embassy
AB Abba1 ·
Yeah, I got it, but once I have all the papers on my side, and my spouse has hers too, can I just drop off the CCM file directly at the embassy? Since I’ll be there in person... or do I *have* to mail it?
CA Carrell ·
Some people say you can drop off documents at the consulate in Lomé, others mention the diplomatic pouch—I’m not sure. As for me, I’m eagerly waiting for the CNF, the French nationality certificate, which I’d never heard of before, even though I have all my papers and birth certificate?? It’s taking a long time to start the document-sending process, and no one could tell me if the absence of this document is important or not. But I want to provide it because I’m afraid of my file being rejected for being incomplete. That’s all!
CA Carrell ·
Hey there, did you provide the CNF when you applied? Thanks
KC Kchoupapy ·
Hi! For my part, I didn’t provide the French nationality certificate for the CCAM file. I only provided it afterward so my spouse could apply for the long-stay visa. The application went through just fine! Have a great day!
CA Carrell ·
thanks for your reply, so we’ll need it anyway?
KC Kchoupapy ·
Yes, you'll need it for the visa application!
CA Carrell ·
okay even if I don’t really get the point of this paperwork that’s so hard and long to get...
KC Kchoupapy ·
Yes... I got it in 3 months in the Paris region! They asked me for my parents' birth certificates and also my grandparents'!... Along with a marriage certificate... even though I've been French for several generations... Once I had all these documents, I was able to submit the file. And this certificate helped my husband get his visa (it was required and highly recommended). So much paperwork...
CA Carrell ·
He’s asking me for my father’s death certificate, a photo, a full copy of my birth certificate less than three months old, a photocopy of my passport and ID card, proof of address, and to send it all by registered mail since I don’t live in mainland France. And now I’m waiting for my birth certificates, which still haven’t arrived...
AB Abba1 ·
Hi, Kchoupapy, is it possible to call you for more information? In private, of course...
KC Kchoupapy ·
Hi, we can communicate by email if you'd like. I don't want to give out my personal number! Best regards
BE Beniap ·
Hello, I’ve just gone through all these steps and am now at the marriage transcription stage. If I can help by answering any questions about this process, don’t hesitate to ask. Best regards, Benoît
Beniap
AN Angemimine ·
Hello, I’ve just gone through all these steps, and I’m now at the marriage transcription stage. If I can help by answering your questions about this process, don’t hesitate. Best regards, Benoît

Good evening, So happy for you! Could you tell me how long the transcription will take? I’m at the marriage stage—it’s in two months.
ES Estellest ·
Hello, what does "via la valise diplomatique" mean? I went to the post office, but no one could answer me. Is it a special service? Indeed, on the shipping paper, I’m given an address and asked to send it by recorded delivery via la valise diplomatique. Could you clarify this for me? Thanks

Hello everyone,

Sorry for disappearing from the discussion for so long! I married my Togolese fiancé on August 13, 2015, and we’ve been parents since October 10, 2016. For those who have questions, I’d be happy to answer!

I can already tell you that the French consulate in Lomé doesn’t perform marriages! You have to go through the local authorities (only the town hall, not the prefecture) after obtaining a Certificate of Capacity to Marry from the consulate for the French national. This procedure, almost mandatory if you later want to register your marriage in the consular civil registry, takes between 3 and 6 months if your file is complete. Additionally, the consulate doesn’t receive any Togolese who aren’t married to a French national outside of visa applications (tourist visas are systematically refused, by the way!). Moreover, I strongly advise requesting this famous Certificate of Capacity to Marry (CCM) from France via la valise diplomatique (this is very well explained on the consulate’s website, under "services for French citizens" – "marriage"). Indeed, when files are submitted directly at the consulate (even by the French national), they mysteriously disappear without a trace... (this is from personal experience, I’m not just gossiping).

There you go, if I can help, I’d be happy to!
BE Beniap ·
hi there, using the diplomatic pouch means you need to send this file by registered mail with acknowledgment of receipt to the embassy. the address (MAE French Embassy in Lomé (TOGO) - Consular Section - 13 rue Louveau - 92438 Châtillon cedex) should be written on the registered mail, the letter will be sent to the address above and then forwarded to the Togolese embassy via the diplomatic pouch. don’t wait for the receipt confirmation, it’s never sent back. if you have any other questions, don’t hesitate. Best regards, Benoit
Beniap
ES Estellest ·
Thanks so much!! 😁
GA Gabrielle090 ·
Hi there, I’m right in the middle of putting together the CCAM file, and I’m really struggling with my Togolese spouse’s paperwork. Could you help me make sense of it? It’s mostly about the birth certificate documents: - Is section 4 the original birth declaration? - Is section 1 (the stub) the full copy? - And they’re also asking for “original certified true copy of section 1 of the foreign future spouse’s birth certificate”—what does that mean? What should I ask the town hall for? It seems different from the full copy, which I thought was section 1 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’m looking for someone who got married recently to help me with the steps because the Togolese embassy never answers my questions, and I can’t find any answers anywhere! Thanks in advance 😅🏾😅🏾😅🏾
ES Estellest ·
Hi! For the paperwork, you’ll need to go to the town hall in the place where they were born and request each document—each one is different. They’re usually pretty familiar with the process at the town hall, but you’ll see that for section number 4, they might ask for either 4 or 5. And make sure you send the originals! Hope that answers your question!
GA Gabrielle090 ·
Sorry, this isn't very clear to me, haha! In the file, they say exactly this: 1) original of the certified true copy of section No. 1 of the foreign future spouse’s birth certificate (with translation and possible legalization if issued by a foreign authority) 2) original of the full typed copy (i.e., typed by typewriter or computer) of section No. 1 stub of the foreign future spouse’s birth certificate 3) original of the certified true copy of the original of section No. 4 or 5 of the foreign future spouse’s birth certificate

For (1), do I need to ask the town hall for section No. 1 and get a certified copy? What’s the difference with (2)? For (2), okay, that’s the full copy of the section No. 1 stub from the town hall—no problem with that. For (3), is that the paper they have at birth, the handwritten birth declaration, and we need to submit a certified copy of that?
ES Estellest ·
Okay, for number 1: - They’ll give you the original of the certified copy of form n1 (it’ll be handwritten). It’s already a certified and legalized copy, which is why you shouldn’t send a copy of this document but the original they issue you. For number 2: - It’s the same document, but they’ll give it to you typed (that’s the difference). For number 3: - It’s indeed the document they have at birth, form n4 at the town hall. They’ll make you a certified copy (stamped and dated). So, you hand in the originals of the documents issued by the town hall. Hope I’m being clear enough!
GA Gabrielle090 ·
Thanks so much, super clear!!
BE Beniap ·
hi, for my part, all these steps are done—I got married in August 2019. As for the documents required, in Togo, they need to be authenticated, certified, and legalized. They’re used to mixed marriages at the civil registry, so your future spouse just has to ask for the documents they need—they’ll give them to him. Which town hall in Lomé?
Beniap
GA Gabrielle090 ·
Yes, I saw that everything needs to be legalized, but for the CCAM, French documents don’t need legalization, right? That’s what I was told about the wedding. For the town hall, he needs to get it from his village specifically because of his birthplace—that’s why I needed clear info in case they’re not used to it. Did you get married at the town hall in Lomé or at the embassy/consulate?
BE Beniap ·
Yes, that's right—you need to pick up the documents from the place of birth. I asked if it was Lomé because I know someone at the civil registry in Lomé. We got married at the Lomé town hall. Contrary to what you might read on forums, the French embassy doesn’t perform marriages. If you have any questions about the different steps, don’t hesitate—I’ll be happy to help.
Beniap

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