Are we "bores" with our travel stories?
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MO Mong1 Globetrotter ·
What a mix of opinions on travel journals and blogs! 😄

Pitting "useful journal" against "personal journal"—fair enough! You mention caricature, but you’ll probably agree that the two can blend... sometimes one or the other, sometimes both. A journal can be written in the first person, share feelings without being narcissistic, and still include practical info that readers can pick up along the way or separately.

Concretely, a review of a destination, what we felt here or there, is subjective and really only concerns the author.

Concretely, yes... but it can also give a hint (or even influence) if the reader seems to relate to a certain way of traveling.

As for the "useful" side you seem to favor, you yourself call it "maybe less interesting"... so that ties into the boring part! 😉

The useful can’t have any purpose other than to inform... more or less well, more or less clearly. It can’t be linked to the pleasure of reading, but rather to a certain convenience. This way of delivering information has its place just as much as the more personal journal, but isn’t it easier to find info in a guidebook, go straight to the page you need, or the right section online? It’s true you won’t find everything in guidebooks, but how many journals will you have to go through before finding the info you want?

Anyway, we’re going in circles... 😏 There’s something for every taste, and what seems boring to some will be appreciated by others!
BL Blogob Regular ·
😉 totally ming, just like we often go in circles on a forum! I agree with what you're saying, you agree, everyone agrees, it's a party!! 🙂
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
chacun fait ce qu'il veut..

You wouldn’t think so reading you...

l ne s'agit pas de voyager au millimètre, mais d'en savoir un peu plus sur le lieu à visiter.

Then why pile up information before leaving?

The people who seek the most precise details are usually those who can’t imagine traveling without first preparing a hefty road book, even if the destination is super touristy and well-marked.

.je dis que le partage d'information est plus utile

A letter’s missing: I say that sharing information is more useful **to me**

e raconter sa vie ou son voyage est plus subjectif.

Yes, generally speaking. That’s partly what makes it interesting to me.

.j'ai dit non, toi tu dis oui..

Even if I rephrase it, that’s not what I said...

I just think a travel journal is more exciting than a litany of prices, schedules, or good (or bad, depending on taste—very subjective too) addresses if it has that little extra that hooks the reader, whether it’s words, humor, photos...

A travel journal can be just as dull as an informative one, but that’s okay because you’ll notice right away in the first message and won’t read the rest.

After all, a travel journal will stand the test of time, while an informative one has a built-in obsolescence as short as a mobile phone’s—even shorter if the country starts its tourism boom.
MA Mathews Globetrotter ·
The term "airport novel" came up in this thread... it could make a great theme for a novel set in a train station, with all its social interactions, forgotten luggage, delayed trains, and travelers missing their rides.
VO Voyajou Globetrotter ·
It's the story of a returnee who, by reading him, you understand why he chose another mode of expression: video. And since one must justify their inclinations, he claims it’s superior to others. To the point of seriously considering summarizing entire countries in a single video without commentary.

Someone who awkwardly hijacks (the first to write 'video') the topic of this interesting discussion for the thinly veiled benefit of his blog. To the point of getting tangled in his own ideas.

He first gathers opinions from the crème de la crème of the 'Thoughts' section (one displaying intellectual dishonesty) and then from the forum’s elite, as he puts it.

A Narcissus unaware of himself.

(I hope the click-throughs live up to his expectations).
MA Mathews Globetrotter ·
I often criticize practical posts for being limiting.

Okay, but what makes a travel blog appealing?
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
The same thing that makes a travel journal appealing—a style...

For a uniquely practical side, I don’t see it.

Maybe a style too, but with even more talent to make it go down smoothly.

Actually, I think the truly practical side of a trip is found more in answers to questions you ask than in a generic travel journal that isn’t necessarily tailored to your own needs.

By asking questions, you usually get more precise, up-to-date info that aligns better with your way of traveling—aside from those few old-timers who ramble on, and you never know if they’re talking about their 1970s adventures or their quiet trip from yesterday.

After all, an author doesn’t necessarily write to be appealing. But also to relive their trip and keep the memory in an easily accessible virtual space.
MA Masterpo Globetrotter ·
For a purely practical side, I don’t see it.

On the contrary. When planning my trips, I start from the principle that for any weird place or unusual experience, there’s someone who’s written about it on their site. I check out dozens of blogs looking for gems, and then I dig deeper into my research, using the power of Google (with the - operator). Of course, there are plenty of blogs I skim through quickly. But others grab my attention more, and I even end up checking out other destinations...
BL Blogob Regular ·
Actually, the misunderstanding or miscommunication might come from the fact that no one gives the same definition to "travel journal" or "practical guide"...? Travel-oriented websites with loads of practical information are rarely just a list of prices... there’s always some text behind it, a hidden opinion, an experience. And the information on these kinds of sites is something we need at one point or another: which path should I take to get there faster? Which part of the beach is better for snorkeling? Or where am I most likely to see a particular animal in a park? I want to go to Caño Cristales in Colombia—how do I book, which agency seems good...? And all the answers provided by useful blogs come from experience. So yes, consulting "useful" blogs saves a *ton* of time. It’s kind of like passing on knowledge: you struggle to find info, and when you get back, you think of others so they don’t struggle like you did or waste time like you did. You share the info you wish you’d had before leaving... When planning a trip, a practical guide (or practical blog) is often the best source for all this info. It has nothing to do with planning down to the last detail. A paper guidebook will rarely, if ever, tell you that taking this little path on the right gives you a much better view, for example, or that there are other cool spots to visit, or that in this part of a coral reef, there’s a moray eel hiding, or that going this way helps you avoid a scam... in short;

And a travel journal can certainly be well-written, to the point of grabbing attention or admiration or even inspiring a calling... but personally, I’ve read so many blogs or travel journals searching for info and never found anything—no style, no useful details, just "I went there, and I loved it"... that I have a really bad impression of them. They’ve never helped me plan a trip. Like you all say, a site that blends a travel journal with a real writing style *and* practical info—and does it well—is the ideal, but those are rare...

Maybe it’s this difference in approach—searching for info vs. searching for escape—that makes us not always agree... After that, Atila, I agree with you: running a practical blog is a double constraint because, on top of writing, you also have to keep it updated... especially when it’s just a hobby. It’s a choice you have to think about when you have a blog, because it’s true that it takes time, and after a while, it can get annoying to take notes while traveling, knowing that in two years, the info will be outdated... 🙁
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
I don’t quite see the connection with practical blogs and this.

When planning my trips, I start from the principle that for any weird place or unusual experience, there’s someone who’s written about it on their site.

A blog or a practical travel journal is about addresses, opening hours, prices.

Unusual experiences and weird places don’t seem to fit into that category—they feel more like part of a travel story or narrative blog. ???
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
Well, yes, reading "useful" blogs does save a considerable amount of time

But that’s not what makes you want to travel.

And that kind of blog or travel journal will only be read by someone who’s already planned that destination.

You don’t stumble upon that kind of blog/journal by accident. And you only pick out what you need from it.

Besides, this idea of saving time really gets me thinking. Why try to save time on something as enjoyable as planning a trip????

So they don’t waste time like you did... get there faster?... it takes time

It’s a habit...
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
But you rarely stumble upon a blog by accident, right? Most people who read them are interested in a specific destination. After that, they might explore the blog and read other things, but that’s often the starting point...

And sharing practical info doesn’t stop you from talking about your experiences, your visit itinerary, or telling anecdotes—it’s not all one or the other!
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BL Blogob Regular ·
we’re going in circles... - "I really like travel journals" - "I’m not that interested, I prefer info to plan my trip" - "Really?? But I love travel journals.." - "Oh yeah?? No, you know... I prefer practical sites" - "Oh, is that true??? But travel journals are dreamy" - "No, practical info is useful" - "I waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaant my journaaaaaaaaaaaal....!!!!!" - "Alright, fine, here’s your journal... but wouldn’t you like a little practical tip before you leave.... no???"

Talking to a brick wall... Every now and then I come to chat in a thread, but most of the time I leave exhausted from spinning in an endless roundabout!! 🙂
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
Generally, all discussions where people share their opinions just go in circles. Because everyone has their own opinion, the next person won’t agree, someone else will argue in favor of their own view, and in the end, everyone leaves with the same ideas. It’s like most debates: pointless.
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RH Rhume Veteran ·
Overall, all the discussions where people share their opinions just go in circles. Because everyone has their own opinion, the next person won’t agree, another will argue in favor of theirs, and in the end, everyone leaves with the same ideas. It’s like most debates: pointless.

There are also people who are open-minded enough to look beyond their own perspective—people you can have constructive debates with, consider others’ arguments, and even be convinced to reconsider your own viewpoint. Yes, they really exist. I’ve even been on forums where everyone was like that—kind when reading others’ posts, and it was a real pleasure to debate. It has to be said, though—it was a different time back then, since the internet is still so new.
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
That’s not the issue. It seems we’re discussing things in a calm and open way, but that doesn’t mean people who don’t like reading travel journals will suddenly start enjoying them, etc.

It *is* a matter of exchanging points of view—it can be interesting (which is why I read these kinds of threads), but after a while, once everyone’s shared their opinion with explanations, well, we just end up going in circles.
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AT Atila Globetrotter ·
But you rarely stumble upon a blog by accident, right?

When you're looking for information, you might come across a blog.

But on this forum, you can read a travel journal without searching for info. Just because the title, the author, or the first few words caught your eye.

It’s not all one or the other!

A reading journal:

https://voyageforum.com/discussion/coree-du-nord-coree-nord-d144695/

An informative trip report:

https://voyageforum.com/discussion/retour-voyage-mozambique-conseils-pratico-pratique-d8705456/

More of a reading experience:

https://voyageforum.com/v.f?post=7237396;#7237396

More of an informative post:

https://voyageforum.com/discussion/4-jours-istanbul-d9230242/

Only the 2nd and 4th will have readers looking for specifics.
BL Blogob Regular ·
hey cold (or should I say, hey runny nose?), I’m stepping slightly out of the discussion (which seems endless and ultimately pointless) to ask you what you think makes the key to a constructive discussion?

Because let’s be honest, some people—once they jump in—it just goes in circles… and even if we admit we can understand certain points of view, the person (or people) in question stubbornly keeps repeating themselves and making others repeat things endlessly… (and I’m sure they think the same about the other side). It’s tough under those conditions not to get annoyed, not to slip into personal judgments (because you start wondering if the person is all there), and to stay constructive, right? On an open question like this, everyone gives their opinion. Once they’ve shared their take, both sides clash to make the other admit that one point of view is better than the other. Everyone digs in. Once both sides realize they can’t change the other’s mind, we move on to the phase of "I’m judging you because if you don’t get it, you must be stupid"… and in the end, everyone looks at each other and says… "Wait, what was the question again?"…
CA Captainbang Veteran ·
On an open-ended question like this, everyone gives their opinion. Once they’ve shared their views, both sides clash to make the other admit that one point of view is better than the other. Everyone digs in. Once both sides realize they can’t change the other’s mind, we move on to the "I’m judging you because if you don’t get it, you must be stupid" phase… and in the end, people just look at each other and say, "Wait, what was the question again?"…

That’s actually a pretty good summary of the usual process! 🙂 But honestly, at a certain point, what the question was doesn’t matter at all! What counts is the debate (or should I say the free-for-all!) and, above all, the clash! Some TV shows thrive on that!
MA Masterpo Globetrotter ·
That’s actually a good summary of the usual process!

And even then, VF is a model of its kind (thanks to moderation). I’ve been hanging out on forums since the last century, and the early days—especially on unmoderated forums—were way more brutal. We were closer to trench warfare than a casual chat...
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
It's still the case on some forums with no moderation... But VF is still filled with civilized people who know how to have a discussion, I think.
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AT Atila Globetrotter ·
because let’s face it, some people—once they get started—just go in circles. Even if we can see their point, the person (or people) in question just keeps hammering the same thing over and over for no clear reason, making everyone repeat themselves endlessly... (and I’m sure they think the same about the other side).

At least some people repeat the same thing under the same username, while you’ve been saying the same stuff under different ones...

Why’d you ditch your old identity?
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
And above all, above all, as much as possible, avoid the clash!

Why?

It’s not about the clash—it’s about enjoying the discussion and exchanging ideas.

I don’t get why people get so worked up just because we disagree with them or point out their contradictions.🤪
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
VF still has civilized people who know how to discuss, I find.

Yes. It’s pretty rare for insults to fly.
VO Voyajou Globetrotter ·
hey rhume, I’m stepping out of the discussion (which is endless and ultimately pointless)

Here’s a thread opened seven years ago by a contributor who shares excellent travel journals here, both in photos and writing. A thread where around sixty participants have expressed themselves properly. Among them, writers of beautiful travel stories, renowned bloggers, and early readers. A lively, rich, and respectful discussion—one I’ve been part of since the beginning (for those who think the world began with you).

Then some random person shows up, seemingly not even understanding what they’re writing, goes off-topic, spins in circles, gets tired, and finally decides the whole discussion is pointless. They’re absolutely right—about their own contributions, that is.

P.S. I’ll say it here as briefly as I have elsewhere: no need to bombard me with private messages. To put it in terms you’ll understand—leave me alone. I handle my public business publicly.
BL Blogob Regular ·
Thanks voyajou, you’re totally proving my point again... yeah, we’re going in circles. Seems like quite a few of us keep saying the same thing, but oh well... Careful voyajou, don’t bark too loud or you’ll lose your dentures!!😉 Take care of your health, otherwise soon you won’t be able to flood us with your travel journals anymore, and your groupies will feel lonely!!
AT Atila Globetrotter ·
Is this supposed to be an argument?😇

I get why you’d choose images over writing for your informative trip reports now.
MA Maxav Regular ·
Hello, I just came across this debate. I agree that there can be a bit of narcissism in sharing our travels. But digging deeper, aren’t there other reasons why some travelers spend hours recounting their adventures on a forum or in an article? Isn’t it also because they’ve been disappointed—or even frustrated—by not finding interested listeners that they finally decide to put pen to paper or fingers to keyboard? Isn’t it natural, when you return from a trip full of anecdotes, to want to share all of it with your loved ones? Is it really less interesting for our friends to learn a little more about the world through a loved one’s experience than to hear yet another discussion about the umpteenth way to cook dish X, the imagined flavors of wine Y, or the features of the latest car Z? Is it shocking to spend 30 minutes sharing the highlights of a three-week trip or showing your best photos during a four-hour evening? If the topic of a lived experience should be censored (I’ve personally known this for 30 years!), where do we draw the line? Every year, we receive a little document recounting the highlights of the year—especially their travels—from an American couple we met in Peru. We find it interesting and it doesn’t shock us, but it seems unthinkable in France... Every year, I try to understand such attitudes, and every year, one word comes back: jealousy!!!
MI MirandaMouse Globetrotter ·
For me, nothing shocking—it’s just about finding the right person to talk to! It’s like anything else: parents who go on and on about their kids, the workaholic who won’t shut up about their job, the best friend who drones on about their dramatic love life, the fitness buff with their sport, etc...

These are just conversations like any others—you’ve gotta find the people who are actually interested!
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TI TinkerNell Regular ·
Hi Miranda! I agree with what you said.

Otherwise, we’re definitely all bores at one point or another.

The great thing about writing and also about exchanges on sites like VF is that only those who want to read a story do… with the option to skip it anytime!

That’s why I stick to travel forums to talk about travel. Unless someone asks me about it in real life.
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JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
What if we have a life of travel?
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
MA Maxav Regular ·
Hi! Being a "bore" would be the right word if we wanted to recount a trip in minute detail for hours. Claiming 30 minutes to share a few anecdotes from a 3-week trip seems legitimate. Facing total boycott is shocking. Admitting that we can only express ourselves in a forum is surprising... I see we don’t agree. But I’m probably wrong...
TI TinkerNell Regular ·
Hi! Being a "bore" might be the right word if someone wanted to recount a trip in minute detail for hours. Claiming 30 minutes to share a few anecdotes from a 3-week trip seems reasonable. Facing total boycott is shocking. Admitting that we can only express ourselves in a forum is surprising... We don’t see eye to eye, I guess. But maybe I’m wrong...

Hello! Nope, you’re not wrong. We just have different points of view ;) What I meant is that I don’t spontaneously talk about my trips. If someone asks me what I did last summer, I’ll say I went to Oregon. But I won’t expand on the topic on my own. If the person is interested, they’ll ask. In that case, I’m obviously not a "bore." But you know, people ask questions but don’t actually expect an answer most of the time. It’s like when someone asks how you’re doing! They don’t really want to know if you’re not okay

For example, after a trip, I don’t organize a slideshow of my photos with my friends. If the destination interests them, they won’t hesitate to ask.

And how do I know most people aren’t interested in our travels? I have a blog, and when I post an article, I share the link on FB. A lot of my friends "like" my post but don’t actually read the article ;) (I know because of the stats) But you see, the boycott isn’t total since I still share my articles on social media.
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TH Thartampion Regular ·
we’re all bores. Back home, people don’t care where we’ve been or what we’ve done… gotta accept it. We don’t travel for them, we travel for us. Hugs
MA MazaBen31 Regular ·
We’re all bores. Back home, people don’t care where we went or what we did… gotta accept that. We don’t travel for others, we travel for ourselves. Cheers

Couldn’t agree more! !
Benoit - ex voyageur au long cours...
JE Jemaflor Veteran ·
we're all bores. People "back home" don't care about us, where we went, what we did... gotta accept it. We don’t travel for others, we travel for ourselves. Cheers

Hey Frank,

Thanks for chiming in—at least the message is clear and often true... Okay, let’s admit that sometimes our stories *can* interest certain people and/or internet users. But it’s true that the one telling the story gets the most pleasure out of reliving the trip. So as far as I’m concerned, I’ll keep "reliving" my travels... by writing up travel stories and reports. Like this one, with this little nod to a visit in the world capital of ostriches—it’s in South Africa... and it’s a wink!

https://voyageforum.com/discussion/afrique-du-sud-oudtshoorn-capitale-mondiale-autruches-d9673563/
Jean http://perso.wanadoo.fr/groenland-disko/yukon-dempster/
AF Afagedsnok ·
We’re no more boring than the people who tell us about their day at the office and their problems with their boss.
AF Afagedsnok ·
Generally, all discussions where people share their opinions go in circles. Because everyone has their own opinion, the neighbor won’t agree, another will argue in favor of their own view, and in the end, everyone leaves with the same ideas. It’s like most debates: sterile.

There are also people who are educated not to only see their own navel—people you can have constructive debates with, reflect on others' arguments, and even be convinced to reconsider your viewpoint. Yes, they exist! I’ve even been on forums where everyone was like that—kind when reading others’ posts, and it was a real pleasure to debate. I must say, it was—already, since the internet is recent—a different era.

It has nothing to do with travel, but there are language forums where people respond politely, like WordReference: no ego problems.
MA Maxav Regular ·
Hello, I completely agree—if we can’t talk about travel, what *can* we talk about? Where do we draw the line? We become "boring" if we go on too long... just like any conversation. Of course, we travel primarily for ourselves. Thankfully, otherwise I would’ve stopped long ago! But it’s only natural to want to share the moments we’ve experienced. I stand by the diagnosis I made in a previous post....
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
On this site, no one can claim they were forced to log in and then had to read a travel journal.

Even if I’m often disappointed by the poor quality of the photos and/or texts, every now and then a gem pops up.

I know my travel journals interest a certain number of people—my only regret is that these shares don’t inspire more participants. Uh, I mean, non-participants.
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
NI Nicoltillard ·
I totally agree with you, Jemmaflor! I found the solution to avoid this very real pitfall: I keep a daily serial going by sharing just a short reflection or anecdote that I want to be poetic, funny, or philosophical—but very short, illustrated with one or two photos, and whoever wants to follow along can! I have my loyal followers, and as a result, we only exchange a few impressions when I return, nothing more. No detailed, exhaustive accounts like: « After a restorative nap, we hit the road again at 3 PM heading toward , ,, » only to arrive exhausted and overwhelmed by the heat at our destination, where we enjoyed a well-deserved meal. »
Nicol
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
So, what did you eat? 🙂
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
NI Nicoltillard ·
Hihihi!
Nicol
PO Pong Globetrotter ·
"After a restorative nap, we hit the road again at 3 PM, heading toward... only to arrive exhausted and drained by the heat at our destination, where we enjoyed a well-deserved meal."

I’m ready to read this travel journal! 😉 😎
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NI Nicoltillard ·
You just need to get invited to my Facebook page Nicole Tillard Next trip in February: Ecuador! Best regards
Nicol
PO Pong Globetrotter ·
Got it! :)
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DJ Djalma Globetrotter ·
No detailed and exhaustive account like: "After a restorative nap, we hit the road again at 3 PM heading toward..." only to arrive exhausted and overwhelmed by the heat at our destination, where we enjoyed a well-deserved meal.

You forgot to add the photo of the dishes during the romantic dinner!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XCOyB7WStI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2eI67iCbKY
NI Nicoltillard ·
Hahaha.
Nicol
MI Mick013 Veteran ·
in that case, I find it more interesting than all the stories that are just copy-pasted from travel guides
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
in this case, I find it more interesting than all the stories that are just copy-pasted from travel guides

With texts that regularly lack rich vocabulary and expressions. And on top of that, terrible photos taken in a rush with a phone. Everything’s there: the blur, the poor centering, the awful framing, no focus, cut-off feet, etc.

The craziest part is how many people gush and congratulate the author for their "beautiful" photos. Hard to tell if it’s their eyes or their brains that are damaged—or both.

For me, it’s a mystery: those who praise both the people posting great photos *and* those who dare to share a mess of images you wouldn’t even want in your attic. Yet they’re not running for office or anything. Oh well, some questions will just remain unanswered!
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood

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