Je commence a preparer mon prochain trip de 6 mois en asie , j'ai lu pas mal d'article pour me documenter , mais voyage forum reste toujours mine d'or d'infos en tout genre pour moi
Aussi : je sollicite vos conseils avises en matieres d'us et coutumes , les choses a faire a ne pas faire , qu'est ce qui peut paraitre impoli ou vexant en asie , en bref j'aimerai eviter les gaffes avec les gens la bas et etre polie a leurs yeux ,
jai deja voyager en Inde et j'ai ete contente une fois dans le bus de savoir que l'on doit reveiller les gens pour passser et ne surtout pas les enjamber...
donc ttes vos anecdotes m'aideront beaucoup
Alors n'hesiter pas me faire part de ce que vous savez , peut importe ce que c'est 😉 Merci a tous !
C'est bien de vouloir connaître la moindre la culture d'un pays que l'on visite.
Mais l'asie, c'est grand ! Si je te pose la même question vis-à-vis de l'europe, tu risque de me demander quel pays, non ?
Ici same same, on ne peut pas mettre des chinois, des koréens, des malésiens et des thailandais dans le même sac. Un pays, une culture... Idem pour un italien, un allemand et un suédois.
Reformule ta question et tu auras peut-être des réponses.
Bonne journée
Il voulait lui donner des fleurs, mais comme il n'y a pas de fleurs sur l'île, il lui a donné l'argent des fleurs
Aussi : je sollicite vos conseils avises en matieres d'us et coutumes , les choses a faire a ne pas faire , qu'est ce qui peut paraitre impoli ou vexant en asie , en bref j'aimerai eviter les gaffes avec les gens la bas et etre polie a leurs yeux ,
Bonjour,
Pour la Thaïlande:
quelques pistes en TEXTES ET VIDEOS
Et surtout:
Tenue correcte dans les Temples (Wat)
et pas de reflextions en public faisant perdre la face à ton interlocuteur (commun à bcp de pays d'asie)
Pour se chamailler y a toujours du beau monde, mais là... 😕
Tokara t'a renseigné pour la Thaïlande, où tu n'iras finalement pas, mais je pense que son conseil pour les temples est valable pour le Laos et le Cambodge.
Ajoutons qu'il est très conseillé de se déchausser en entrant chez les gens et dans beaucoup de Guest Houses.
Ne pas chercher à serrer la main ou faire la bise mais s'incliner un peu c'est déjà mieux si on ne maitrise pas bien le waï
j'etais surtout curieuse pour la birmanie en fait qui en petit plus (fermee ) que ces voisins si vous me permettez l'expression quelles sont les choses a eviter pour ne pas faire de vagues
Bon je sais qu'on evite de photographier tous les batiments militaires en commentant dans un micro et filmes tout ce qui bouge , on ne voudrai pas finir dans les geoles de l'etat pour un petit interrogatoire 😉
les femmes sont considerees comme impures apparemment donc ne doivent pas approches les moines de trop pres ( ni son ombre qaund il marche )
mais quelles sont les marques de respect , de remerciement ? ect ...
au fait beautoucan ta pas tort javais deja remarque que sa se chamaille pas mal de temps en temps .😛
Avant ton voyage en Birmanie, je te conseille une lecture plaisante qui donne une idée des us de ce pays : le bédéiste Guy Delisle, Québécois, et ses Chroniques Birmanes.
la réponse est un peu ardue car les cultures sont différentes aussi sans vouloir trop généraliser les asiatiques détestent perdre la face donc toujours laisser une porte de sortie:
si tu poses une question et qu'ils ne savent pas il t'en donneront une quitte à te dire quelque chose de faux (direction en voiture ou à pieds par exemple).
ne jamais vraiment jamais se mettre en colère
en fait le meilleur moyen c'est l'observation on apprend très vite
tu rencontrera forcement des moines bouddhistes dans ces pays..
et bien, il est inconvenant de présenter la pointe ou le dessous de tes chaussures en face de ces moines.
voit comme les gens s'asseyent dans les temples:
les pieds sur le coté; mais jamais devant.
je me souviens que dans un train birman, j'avais déposé mes chaussures de marche dans les filets à bagages, accrochées à mon sac à dos.
deux moines sont venus s'assoir dans les sieges juste en dessous.
mon accompagnateur birman est allé retourner mes chaussures afin que les semelles ne soient pas vers le bas donc "face" aux moines..
autre comportement élémentaire:
respecter leur pudeur extreme (bain de mer, jupe ou mini short à proscrire, effusions ou baisers dans la rue...))
pas d'énervement ni colère
éviter de caresser la tete des enfants
Voici ce que j'ai trouvé lors de mes recherches afin de préparer mon futur voyage en Asie du Sud-Est.
COMPORTEMENT
L’impossibilité de prendre des photos des musées (intérieur et extérieur), bâtiments administratifs et même des écoles.
Se déchausser en entrant dans l'enceinte d'une pagode, l'enceinte extérieure de la pagode (le mur d'enceinte) ou même un tas de pierre qui est surmonté du drapeau du Bouddhisme.
- Se déchausser pour rentrer dans une maison privée même en cas de remarque contraire de votre hôte.
- Si vous souhaitez faire une donation en argent à un monastère, vous pouvez donner l'argent à un "Kappiya". Le "Kappiya" (mot pali voulant dire : approprié, autorisé) sert les moines et peut recevoir de l'argent et le garder pour les moines. Le code monastique (Vinaya) est très clair, les moines ne peuvent pas recevoir d'argent.
- être patient.
- présenter ses respects ou ses salutations à la personne la plus âgée (surtout si vous êtes invité dans une maison).
NE PAS FAIRE
- S'embrasser en public et tout spécialement dans l'enceinte d'une pagode.
- Porter des shorts aussi bien pour les hommes que pour les femmes.
- Porter des tee-shirts trop échancrés sur les épaules ou sur le côté.
- Toucher un moine.
- Marcher volontairement dans l'ombre d'un moine.
- Toucher la tête d'un adulte.
- S'asseoir plus haut qu'un moine ou qu'une statue de Bouddha.
- S'asseoir sur une statue de Bouddha pour faire une photographie.
- Tourner la plante des pieds vers quelqu'un, un moine ou une statue de Bouddha.
- S'interpeller ou crier dans les pagodes.
- Garder ses chaussettes dans une pagode.
- Donner une offrande en nourriture à un moine l'après midi.
- Donner de l'argent à un moine (règle monastique peu suivie).
- Demander à un moine s'il aime votre présent, sa nourriture (si la réponse est oui, il fait preuve d'attachement, soit il dit non, il risque de mentir).
- Ne pas serrer la main d'une femme, sauf si elle en prend l'initiative.
- Garder votre maillot de bain européen pour la piscine de l'hôtel, à la plage essayez de mettre un short de plage.
- Ne pas enjamber le corps (ou une partie du corps de quelqu'un), même de ne pas mettre votre corps en travers d'un passage, les birmans n'oseront pas passer (et vous déranger pour vous le dire).
- Ne jamais montrer ou désigner un objet ou une personne avec la pointe des pieds (par exemple pour choisir un article exposé sur le sol.....). C'est très mal vu.
- Ne pas faire de monokini, ou du nudisme à la plage ou à l'hôtel, hélas cela ce voit de plus en plus souvent.
Précédemment, c'était pour la Birmanie. VOici ce que j'avais trouvé pour le Vietnam.
À faire
Appelez un chat, un chat : les vietnamiens ne prennent pas de pincettes. Ils sont souvent très directs. Un gros est un gros et non une personne enrobée, un moche est un moche et non une personne peu gâtée par la nature. Ne soyez pas choqué par ce que l'on dira de vous ou de votre pays. À vous de savoir où sont les limites du correct quand vous vous sentirez visé par des propos un peu rudes.
Appelez toujours votre interlocuteur par son prénom, qu’il s’agit d’un ami ou d’une nouvelle connaissance. Le prénom est le plus souvent le dernier mot qui compose le nom complet. Par exemple : Tran Quang Van (Tran = nom de famille ; Quang = mot intercalaire ; Van = prénom).
Demander l’âge des gens même des dames et des personnes âgées n’est pas à éviter. Vivre longtemps est d’ailleurs une fierté des gens. De même, ce n’est pas du tout gênant pour un vietnamien si vous demandez s’il est marié ou s’il a des enfants.
Si vous souhaitez prendre des photos de souvenir avec les gens dans les lieux que vous visitez, n’hésitez pas, mais avec un sourire : ils vont en être très contents et l’acceptent donc volontiers.
Ce que vous devriez faire :
Quand vous invitez quelqu’un pour un repas, bien sûr vous payez ce que vous commandez. Mais lorsque vous accompagnez quelqu’un dans un restaurant, soit celui-ci paie, soit c’est vous. En pratique, on ne partage jamais le tarif. Si l’un paie un jour, son ami l’invitera un autre jour. C’est ainsi mal vu pour les vietnamiens que l’on a un grand sens du détail. Si on vous offre le repas, n'insistez pour payer que si vous pouvez payer pour tout le monde.
Il est nécessaire de marchander quand vous achetez hors des supermarchés. Même si le prix est indiqué sur les articles, il est de coutume que ce sont des prix qui vous en donnent une idée et que vous pouvez tout à fait faire réduire. Mais soyez toutefois raisonnable et sachez que dans plusieurs boutiques le prix est fixe et acceptable !
Les vietnamiens ont tous du respect pour les personnes âgées. Et au Vietnam, vivez à ce point comme les vietnamiens : lorsque vous les rencontrez, baissez la tête en formulant votre salutation ou simplement en souriant.
Une fois à table, il n’est pas question de commencer à manger avant que chaque convive soit servi. D’ailleurs, chacun se sert soi-même dans tous les plats disposés au centre de la table, mais ce par petites quantités, une à deux bouchées à chaque fois.
Témoignez de votre sentiment d’amitié vous aussi en donnant des bonbons aux enfants que vous croisez pendant votre trajet et surtout dans les milieux rural et montagneux : ils vous remercient par des sourires très sympathiques et aussi par des gestes très enfantins.
Ne soyez pas surpris si lors d'une conversation, un ou une vietnamienne inconnu aborde des sujets qui vous semblent très personnels (êtes-vous mariés, quel est votre travail)
Acceptez que les plats arrivent, non pas dans l'ordre ou vous l'imaginez, mais dans l'ordre ou les serveurs les apportent. Un plat qui s'apparente à une entrée arrivera probablement en fin de repas. C'est presque une constante.
Merci pour tous ces coms detailles!
c'est vraiment super de prendre le temps d'ecrire tout ca , on se croirait deja en voyage juste en lisant les posts,
me voila bien renseignee !🙂
Je me posait une question, apparemment , comme en Inde il n'est pas bien de toucher la tete des enfants
savez vous pourquoi ?
Je ne peux prendre de crédit pour l'écriture de ces commentaires, car j'ai copié-collé des infos du Web ou VF??? pour monter mes fichiers d'infos pour divers pays d'Asie Sus-Est. Donc, ce ne fut pas trop fatigant de les transférer. BOn, maintenant, je me sens coupable de ne pas donner le crédit à l'auteur de ces commentaires.
Je me posait une question, apparemment , comme en Inde il n'est pas bien de toucher la tete des enfants
savez vous pourquoi ?
La tête "communique" avec Buddha pour faire simple. Il n'est pas bon de toucher le sommet de la tête car cela coupe ce flux. Il est fréquent, en Thailande, de voir des adultes toucher la tête des enfants. Mais la main touche le côté ou le dos de la tête et non le dessus. Un geste à la Beni Hill (sur le chauve, si ca vous dit qqch) serait très mal vu.
C'est aussi ce qui explique que les pieds sont "sales". Ils sont à l'opposé de la tête.
Bonne journée
Il voulait lui donner des fleurs, mais comme il n'y a pas de fleurs sur l'île, il lui a donné l'argent des fleurs
Témoignez de votre sentiment d’amitié vous aussi en donnant des bonbons aux enfants que vous croisez pendant votre trajet et surtout dans les milieux rural et montagneux : ils vous remercient par des sourires très sympathiques et aussi par des gestes très enfantins.
Là, je m'insurge. On ne donne pas de bonbons aux enfants, ils n'ont que rarement accès à des soins dentaires !
non pas de bonbon on me disait pareil au Maroc car pas de dentiste
[...]
alors qu'est qu'il faut faire ??
Tu peux leur donner des bonbons !!
C'est pas avec ça qu'ils vont se taper des caries comme les nôtres de gamins qui se goinfrent de sucreries à longueur de journée !
Des clémentines, des bananes, ... ça ne peut pas faire de mal.
C'est sûr que c'est plus compliqué d'en avoir dans le sac qu'un paquet de bonbons : dernièrement, j'ai donné des clémentines à des enfants en Birmanie (je venais d'en acheter au marché), ils se sont presque battus pour les avoir, et ont filé sans demander leur reste.
Je suis parfaitement d'accord avec vous. J'apporte plutôt des supers balles (un plaisir fou), de petites autos (dans les bus du moins cela les occupe), des crayons ou effaces rigolotes...
Des petits jouets , des fruits, des crayons en bref ...d'ailleurs est ce quil y a des associations dans le coin qui recupewrent des dons comme ca ,
Car avec mon amis on avait pense a descendre en asie avec un peu de matos - crayons - stylos - cahiers...gommes ect ect ..pas enorme , juste dans la limite de nos moyens mais on a pense que ca ferait plaisir a cetains etablissement , associations ou pensionnats ,
Des petits jouets , des fruits, des crayons en bref ...d'ailleurs est ce quil y a des associations dans le coin qui recupewrent des dons comme ca ,
Car avec mon amis on avait pense a descendre en asie avec un peu de matos - crayons - stylos - cahiers...gommes ect ect ..pas enorme , juste dans la limite de nos moyens mais on a pense que ca ferait plaisir a cetains etablissement , associations ou pensionnats ,
Ca, on ne l'a jamais fait, mais il paraît que les écoles et les associations sont très demandeuses.
J'ai déjà effectué une recherche sur les écoles à San Andres à l'aide de Google afin de remettre cahiers, feuilles lignées, étui à crayons, cartables, etc. J'avais trouvé une école pour handicapés. Je m'y étais rendue en kart afin de leur remettre le tout.
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Hi fellow travelers,
First trip to Vietnam.
We’ll be arriving in Ho Chi Minh City during Tet.
Is it complicated to find accommodation and get around during this period?
Any tips would be welcome.
Thanks for your replies.
Hi, is anyone there in Flores right now? According to some websites, everything is closed and the situation is tough. But our guide says it's fine. Who should we believe? We're supposed to leave on September 2nd. Thanks to anyone in Flores at the moment!
Hi everyone.
I’m planning my trip, and based on all the posts I’ve read, this country is amazing.
Of course, I’ve got a ton of questions for you.
Here’s a possible itinerary: Vientiane - Vang Vieng - Phonsavan - Sam Neua - Nong Khiaw + villages - Phongsali - Luang Namtha and the area - Udomxai - Huay Xai - Luang Prabang and back to Vientiane.
What do you think?
We’re planning to prioritize local transport—is it possible to do this loop?
We’d also love to go kayaking, but I’m not sure if the season’s right or where the best spot is.
For trekking—I read that Phongsali is the most authentic spot to visit villages and see wildlife. Do you know of a reliable agency and a guesthouse with reasonable prices?
Is it worth taking a slow boat for a stretch on the Mekong, and if so, which route?
For accommodations, is it better to book through Booking.com and Agoda or look when we arrive?
Are mosquitoes bad in Laos, and should we take malaria prophylaxis?
What’s the average daily budget (accommodation, food, visits)?
Is renting scooters a good option for exploring towns, and if so, which ones?
From what I’ve read, it’s best to carry cash—euros or dollars? Is it risky to walk around with that much cash?
I’ve still got tons of questions. Thanks to anyone who can help, and I’m open to all tips, info, etc.
Thanks again
Hi there,
I’m planning a trip to Vietnam in February, specifically Da Nang and Hoi An.
Does anyone know a French-speaking guide in the area?
Thanks for your help
Hi there,
I’m planning a family trip (my wife and I, both 47, and our two sons, aged 5 and 12) to Malaysia for the last week of June and the first two weeks of July 2027.
We used to love road trips as a couple, then as a trio, but since our second child arrived, we’ve taken a break with "camping village" style trips.
Now feels like the right time to get back to our old habits, while adjusting the pace for the kids.
We’re craving Asia. We’ve been lucky enough to visit Thailand, Indonesia (Bali and Lombok), and Sri Lanka before.
Friends have raved about Malaysia, so we’re definitely tempted.
For those who know and love Malaysia, what would be a good itinerary starting from Kuala Lumpur, with a maximum of 3-4 stops? We’d like a mix of culture, nature, and relaxation (just to clarify, we’re not big beach fans). All of this without rushing, of course.
Hello,
We’re a family of four with two teens aged 16 and 18. We’re heading to Thailand this summer. We’ll arrive in Bangkok and plan to take a flight to Luang Prabang.
I’ve seen there are some great visits and excursions to do (temples, markets, waterfalls) and maybe even venture a bit north to places like Nong Khiaw, Muang Xay, Muang Ngoy, or Oudom Xay.
But I’ve also heard about the Bokeo region with the Gibbon Experience.
Since we won’t be able to do everything, I’d love to hear about your experiences, impressions, and advice on the two options I’m considering, especially since we’ll be meeting family in Chiang Mai, Thailand, afterward.
Option 1: A loop from Luang Prabang heading slightly north, then a flight from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai.
Option 2: A few days in Luang Prabang, exploring within a few dozen kilometers around, then heading to Bokeo province for the 2-day/1-night Gibbon Experience. For this option, I saw on Rome2Rio that it’s possible to book a ferry trip on the Mekong from Luang Prabang to Huay Xay—they mention about 8 hours. But is that realistic? What type of boat is it?
Then, to get to Chiang Mai, there aren’t many options—bus or minivan—but how does crossing the border work?
Finally, for those of you who’ve been to Laos in August, what was the weather like?
We’ve already visited Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia during the same period over the past four years and weren’t really bothered by bad weather.
I’m starting a discussion about guides in the Mekong Delta because we’ve just finished our trip in this region and had a hard time finding a French-speaking guide. We had Thanh—she speaks French really well and travels all over the delta region, including Ho Chi Minh City. She’s super friendly and flexible. I recommend her wholeheartedly. If it can help someone...
Feel free to contact us for her number.
Hi everyone,
I couldn’t find any recent info on Kuching.
Can anyone recommend a hotel or guesthouse for under 100 RM that’s nice and affordable? No dorms, please.
Also, does it rain a lot in November, and is it still worth visiting Semenggoh or Bako?
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
That said, I’m not really sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you?
If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still any walks or sights worth checking out in Kampong Thom?
Silly question—backpack or hard-shell suitcase for the Sepilok, Kinabatangan, Tioman, KL trip?
I’m struggling to fit all my son’s and my stuff into the 70L backpack... and I’m thinking a suitcase would be easier, but I’m not sure if it’ll work for getting around.
Hi there,
I didn’t plan to return to Thailand this year, but my health conditions mean it’ll be the best place for me to stay between two trips to India. The tourism setup there is so well-organized that it’s the most "comfortable" country for a short visit. Thailand feels too sanitized for my taste, and there’s too much religion, Buddha, and the King, but it’s still the best option given how my health has been evolving. I’d considered two weeks in ThaTon for hiking, but I got too sick from the burn-offs during my trips to the mountains around Chiang Rai. So I’m not sure where to go this year. Definitely not the sea, touristy spots, or the mountains with burn-offs...
After a stay on Koh Phayam this coming November, I’d like to spend 2 or 3 days on Koh Phra Thong before heading further south.
Do you think it’s doable to leave Koh Phayam early enough to catch the 10 AM boat from Khura Buri to Koh Phra Thong? The next one isn’t until 4 PM, which would cost me a whole day.
I’m planning a trip to Indonesia, specifically Sulawesi and Java, in September for 10 days.
I don’t know this part of the world at all—any advice is welcome!
I’ll be traveling solo and would also love tips on meeting other travelers or locals.
Hello everyone,
Not long ago, I used to travel as a couple, but my husband has since passed away, and I’ve decided to set off again. The trip I took to Cambodia in January 2025 did me a world of good.
I’m now considering Thailand, a destination we never included in our plans because even 15 years ago, people said it was too touristy. Still, I’m thinking about the itinerary below, but I don’t feel up to arranging buses, trains, or guides on my own while I’m there. I’m looking for one or more drivers and have been in touch with an agency, but their offers are just copy-paste group tours that I don’t want.
So, if you have any contacts, experiences, or advice, I’d be so grateful if you’d share them with me. Here’s my rough plan:
Arrival in Bangkok
Ayutthaya (2 nights)
Kanchanaburi (2 or 3 nights)
Sangkhlaburi/Sai Yok (3 nights)
Sukhothai (2 nights)
Lampang (I’ve planned 3 nights, but that might be a bit much—it depends on what time I arrive in the city)
Chiang Mai
Chiang Dao
Pai
Chiang Rai
I was thinking about the Mae Hong Son loop—thoughts?
What do you think about staying overnight at the Golden Triangle?
When I look online, of course, I can find agencies that organize tours to national parks, etc.
I’m retired but in great physical shape. I’d rather go hiking than sit in hot springs with crowds of tourists who’ve all arranged meet-ups. I don’t want to spend a day at an elephant camp, and I don’t want to visit Karen villages.
I’d love to hear your advice.
Thank you all,
Hi,
On September 1st, we're heading to Kalimantan for six weeks, probably from Pontianak to the Derawan Islands.
I've scoured this site, which is usually my go-to 😉, and others like VoyageForum, but recent info is pretty scarce.
I'd love any tips on places you've visited—our itinerary is still a work in progress.
We're two couples traveling with backpacks, using buses, boats, guesthouses, and homestays.
Thanks in advance!
Hi everyone,
Could you share your thoughts on my 3-week itinerary?
We’re a small group (family + friends) of 12 people, planning to leave around January 21, 2027.
Here’s my itinerary:
3 nights in Bangkok
4 nights in Chiang Mai
3 nights on Koh Samui
3 nights on Koh Phangan
4 nights in Krabi
4 nights in Phuket
I’m also open to any great tips you might have...
Thanks, everyone! Alain.
Hi,
From Malacca to get to Jerantut, is it better to go back to KL and take a bus from there, or take a bus to Tampin and then a train? Any feedback on the "Jungle Train"? (duration, price, comfort, etc.). Thanks
Hi there,
We’re planning a 3-week family trip next summer with our three kids, who’ll be 8, 8, and 7 years old.
After some research, we’re leaning toward Malaysia to combine nature/forests and paradise beaches. The idea is to introduce our kids to the country’s culture, nature, and wildlife.
We want a great trip but without splurging on luxury options like high-end lodges and resorts. We’re looking for comfort with a touch of authenticity—basically, a good middle ground.
I’ve started putting together an itinerary and would love your expert advice and tips to help us build this amazing trip with our little ones.
Day 1: Departure from France
Day 2: Kuala Lumpur
Stay at a hotel near the airport or KL Sentral.
Just one night.
Day 3: Morning flight to Sandakan (Borneo).
Stay in Sepilok
Day 4: Sepilok:
* Orangutan Center
* Malayan Sun Bear Center
* Rainforest Discovery Centre
Day 5: Depart for Kinabatangan.
Boat safari in the late afternoon.
Day 6: Sunrise safari.
Jungle walk.
Evening safari.
Day 7: Final safari.
Return to Sandakan.
Flight to Kuala Lumpur, then to Kota Bharu (or overnight transit depending on schedules).
Day 8: Transfer to the port.
Boat to the Perhentian Islands.
Days 9 to 13: Perhentian Besar
5 full days.
* Snorkeling
* Hiking
* Turtle watching
* Wild beaches
* Relaxation
Day 14: Return to the mainland.
Bus or private car to Taman Negara.
Hi everyone,
We’re heading to Flores and then Bali at the end of September.
We’ve already visited both but this time, once we’re in Labuan Bajo, we’d like to take a boat to the Komodo Islands to see the famous Komodo dragons.
I don’t want to sleep on the boat—just a day trip would be perfect.
Does anyone know a reliable and friendly provider to recommend?
Thanks in advance, and have a great summer!
Summer seems to be the best time weather-wise for Bali.
And since summer’s when we can take a long trip, let’s go for Bali... even though we know it’ll be *packed* with people!
So we’ll steer clear of the island’s south...
Our current plan (19 days on the ground, 7 stops):
- 4 Nights (3 days) in Ubud
2 days for rice terraces / activities (Tegallalang, Campuhan Ridge, Monkey Forest, Bird Park, coffee plantation, market (?), dance "pestacle," cooking class and/or spa)
1 day with a driver for the Temples (Pura Gunung Kawi, Tirta Empul Spring, Pura Mengening, Goa Gajah...)
- 2 nights in Sidemen (1 day for Pura Kehen + Batur Caldera + Pura Besakih and 1 day to relax in the rice terraces)
- 3 nights on Gili Meno (Rest and beaches) from Padangbai
- 2 nights in Amed (1 day from Padangbai with the Abang rice terrace and Tirta Gangga baths, and the next day a boat tour in Amed)
- 4 nights in Pemuteran (1 day for transfer and rest, 1 day to visit Kawah Ijen, and 2 days of snorkeling at Menjangan Island)
- 2 nights in Munduk (1 day with the Dayang rice terrace and the 3-waterfall hike, 1 day at Pura Ulun Danu Bratan)
- 2 nights in Jatiluwih (1 day in the rice terraces, and on the last day, we’ll stop by Pura Taman Ayun in Mengwi and Pura Tanah Lot before catching our red-eye flight).
Accommodations in homestays or hotels.
Transportation to be arranged on-site with the lodgings (?)
Boat to Gili Meno to book in advance (?)
Kawah Ijen excursion to plan ahead (?)—check with the homestay (?)
Thanks for your thoughts/comments to help us explore this destination...
After reading and researching, we're planning the following stops in Cambodia in January 2027:
- Phnom Penh
- Kampong Cham
- Kratie
- Siem Reap
- Battambang
- Kampot (round trip)
I'm wondering about the direction of these stops, which could also influence our international flights.
Either a round trip from Phnom Penh in the order above.
Or landing in Siem Reap with the following order:
This second option would save us the Battambang - PP - Kampot trip but means doing a round trip to Battambang from Siem Reap and placing the "highlight of the trip" (Angkor) at the beginning of our stay.
We’ll be arriving in Phnom Penh this coming January and we’re thinking of starting our trip with a stop in Kampong Cham, then Kratie.
After Kratie, we’re considering heading toward Siem Reap with a stop in Kampong Thom.
However, I’m not quite sure how long the Kratie–Kampong Thom journey might take or how complicated it is.
Does this stop on the way to Siem Reap seem like a good idea to you?
If we don’t visit the Sambor Prei Kuk site, are there still some walks and/or things to see in Kampong Thom?
Hi there,
We’re planning to travel from Chiang Rai to Luang Prabang next November.
We’d like to take a slow boat from Chiang Khong—or rather from Huay Xai in Laos—with an overnight stop in Pakbeng.
Could you let us know if the boat still leaves Huay Xai in the late morning? If so, what time roughly, and what’s the price for the trip?
Thanks for your help!
Alod
We (3 adults: 68, 65, and 25 years old) are just back from a short trip to the Philippines, and I’d like to share a little summary of our journey. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone who contributes to this forum about this destination and answers the questions of those who aren’t familiar with it. I should also mention that my comments are personal and don’t reflect anyone else’s opinions. Since I don’t have any literary or photographic talent, I’ll stick to the facts and share a few details about the sights, hotels, and restaurants.
Preparations:
We chose this destination in December and quickly booked our flight tickets (540 € with Turkish Airlines) for a departure on February 16 and return on March 5, 2019. We then contacted two French-speaking tour operators based in Manila, asking them to put together an itinerary based on our wishes (places to visit, type of accommodation) and our budget. We wanted to see the rice terraces in northern Luzon, the hanging coffins in Sagada, before flying to the Visayas (Bohol, Siquijor, etc.), and the Taal Volcano, while limiting our nights in Manila as much as possible. In the end, we opted for Alize, whose itinerary and quote matched our request almost perfectly. Our exchanges helped us refine our circuit.
International flights:
The round-trip flights went smoothly. Turkish Airlines, while not at the level of Asian or Gulf airlines, does the job just fine.
Day 1:
We landed on time (6:15 PM) on Monday, February 16, at Terminal 3. We exchanged our euros (near the car rental counters), and I can confirm the exchange rate was very good. On the way to the St. Giles Hotel (decent and affordable for a transit night), we got our first glimpse of Manila’s dense traffic. The Makati district, where our hotel was located, offers a wide choice of restaurants, so we grabbed a quick bite to recover from the trip.
Day 2:
This day was dedicated to transferring to Banaue. Fortunately, we had a comfortable van and an excellent driver for this journey, which took all day (8 to 9 hours with stops). We got a taste of driving in the Philippines—and it’s terrifying. You wouldn’t want to drive on these roads. The first thing that struck us was the relatively good condition of the roads and the cleanliness (a change from other Southeast Asian countries). This impression lasted throughout our trip. Around 6 PM, we checked into our room at the Banaue Hotel (large, charm-free, but with a beautiful view of the rice terraces).
Day 3:
With the help of a local guide, we took a jeepney to Batad. And then—wow! The rice terraces form an amphitheater overlooking the small village. Under the sun, it’s simply spectacular and breathtaking! Even though we’re familiar with rice terraces (Sapa, Bali, Thailand, etc.), we were dazzled by so much beauty. We spent the day walking along the terrace walls. This place is timeless and fully deserves its UNESCO World Heritage status. However, we returned to the hotel exhausted (due to our ages and lack of exercise). We had dinner with our driver at the Las Vegas restaurant in the center of Banaue. The meal was decent, cheap, and the Filipino owner played the guitar to accompany our dinner.
Day 4:
Today, our driver took us to Sagada. The mountain road offered spectacular landscapes (about 1.5 to 2 hours). Along the way, we stopped in Bontoc to visit the small but interesting anthropological museum. It features old photos and various objects from the Ifugao tribes, as well as a reconstruction of primitive dwellings.
We then went on a short hike in Sagada with a very friendly local guide who explained the region’s funeral rites. The walk started at the communal cemetery before reaching “Echo Valley,” where we saw the first coffins hanging on the cliff. We continued to the “Underground River” and a small waterfall, ending our journey in the “Lumiang Cave” burial cave. All in all, this day was very interesting. On the way back, we made a few photo stops.
In the evening, on our driver’s recommendation, we ate at the “Bistro,” a French enclave in the center of Banaue (good pizza, roasted quail, homemade fries).
Day 5:
Today was a transfer day. To limit fatigue and nights in Manila, our tour operator arranged a flight from Clark to Tagbilaran (Bohol), saving us 2 to 3 hours of driving. But to catch our flight, we had to leave very early: 5:30 AM. Our kind driver dropped us off on time at the airport. To use it, we had to pay a 150 PHP tax per person. The Philippine Airlines flight (15 minutes) left early and was far from full. Upon arrival, we were taken to the Loboc River Hotel, on the banks of the river of the same name. A very charming lodge lost in a tropical garden. We stayed in a stilt cottage overlooking the river. We relaxed a bit in the lovely pool. This place is really great—the staff is charming, and the food is excellent for a reasonable price.
Day 6:
This day was dedicated to exploring Bohol. The program was classic, starting with the tarsier sanctuary. We saw a few specimens in a small garden, each pointed out by a staff member. It was both good and disappointing because the animals were in pseudo-freedom in a small enclosure. Then we went to the “Chocolate Hills” and climbed 240 steps to admire the panoramic view of the hills—but by 10 AM, it was crowded. On the way back, we stopped at the butterfly garden, which was uninteresting: tiny, with few butterflies. We consoled ourselves by photographing beautiful flowers. To please our teen, we stopped at the Loboc Eco Tourism Adventure Park and crossed the river lying down, suspended from a steel cable (300 PHP). Finally, we had the traditional lunch-cruise on the Loboc River. It was a factory-like experience, and the meal was unremarkable. The only good thing was the singer on each boat and the lush vegetation. Afterward, we visited colonial churches and the cathedral, remnants of the Spanish presence, before returning to the hotel for a well-deserved dip in the pool. Note that for those interested, there’s an arena near the hotel where cockfights are held every Sunday—something Filipinos are passionate (if not obsessed) about.
Day 8:
Very early departure for the port. We boarded a *banca* in search of dolphins. After about an hour of sailing, we were lucky enough to spot around a hundred dolphins. Our boat then headed to the small and charming island of Pamilacan. After a walk through the little village, we came across locals traditionally building a boat. They told us it takes about a month to finish their outrigger boat. Then we had to choose our snorkeling spot between the coral garden, the fish park, and the turtle enclosure. Note that a fee is charged for each spot: 150 PHP per place and per person. It felt a bit like we were being ripped off, especially since the spots weren’t amazing—we’d see much better on Apo for much less. We had lunch on the island at one of the many small eateries (350 PHP per person).
Days 9 and 10:
On our return, we were taken to the Bohol Sea Resort on Panglao Island, where we stayed for 2 nights. It’s a small, recent establishment in a quiet corner of the island. It’s relaxing—maybe a bit too much. It has a nice pool and access to Danao Beach, but the view is blocked by a flotilla of boats. We didn’t try their diving school. The meals were good. If we had to do it again, we’d skip this stop to spend more time in Negros.
Days 11 and 12:
We took a fast ferry (Ocean Jet) from Tagbilaran port to Dumaguete and were taken to the Thalatta Resort, about 20 km away near Zamboanguita. We stayed there for 2 nights. Let’s just say it was our favorite. It’s a small place facing Apo Island. The rooms are simple, and the pool, nestled in a magnificent tropical garden, is fantastic. The staff is friendly, and the meals are very good. The hotel has its own diving center (snorkeling gear provided) and its own boats. We booked the Apo Island excursion: 1,350 PHP per person, including lunch. It was incredible: magnificent corals, colorful fish, and turtles of all sizes. The crew was endlessly kind and didn’t hesitate to dive to guide us to the best spots. In short, a perfect day. This site is ranked among the top 5 diving spots in the Philippines.
Since we were lucky enough to be there on a Wednesday morning, we explored the surprising Malapay Market, a 10-minute walk from our hotel. You’ll find numerous stalls selling vegetables, fruits, live or dried fish, and handicrafts. Enclosures are set up for selling livestock (calves, zebu, pigs). There are also restaurants. We were lucky to see two pigs roasted traditionally on a spit. There are few Europeans, and the people are warm. A great moment.
We left this beautiful place with regret because we didn’t have time to visit the island or go swimming with whale sharks.
Days 12 to 15:
From Dumaguete port, we took a short crossing (1 hour with Ocean Jet) to Siquijor Island to reach the Coco Grove Beach Resort. A beautiful hotel nestled in a spacious tropical garden. Several restaurants and bars, 4 pools. Despite the size of the place, it remains intimate. You can snorkel (corals and fish) right in front of the beautiful beach. We stayed in a very pleasant duplex suite. For those interested, there’s a spa and a diving center. You can also take the Apo Island excursion (offered at 1,950 PHP).
We spent our days relaxing between the pool and the beach. In the evening, the sunsets over Negros and Apo were stunning.
We booked an island tour with a comfortable tricycle from the hotel (1,500 PHP). The circuit was classic and allowed us to go around the island. We discovered beaches, the famous 400-year-old ficus tree with its enormous roots, and its equally famous foot bath with its cleaning fish. Then we visited the St. Isidore Convent before heading to the Cambugahay waterfalls and their four pools. The setting is idyllic, and the water is surprisingly good—we had a lot of fun swimming. We had dinner at a restaurant overlooking the island, where you can see Apo, Cebu, and Negros. In the end, Siquijor turned out to be a real little tropical paradise.
Since the hotel restaurants were expensive, we dined at nearby establishments: Fuego (clean, good—excellent raw fish—and quiet), Chekesch (louder), and the very pleasant Baha Bar, which brews its own beer and offers more refined cuisine.
Days 15 to 16:
We left at dawn to return to Dumaguete and its airport by ferry. We had breakfast at the Coco Grande Hotel, an annex of the previous one. The Philippine Airlines flight went smoothly. A driver took us to the town of Taal. We stayed at Paradores Del Castillo, right in the heart of the old town. It’s a charming old house with only 6 rooms. The various rooms are decorated with antiques—a real little museum. The garden is pleasant and opens onto the town.
It’s an old early 19th-century house converted into a hotel, beautifully arranged with 6 rooms in the heart of the city. The restaurant in the garden is very pleasant and offers a panoramic view.
We visited an old Spanish house before heading to the beautiful Basilica of St. Martin of Tours, one of the most beautiful religious buildings in the Philippines. A mass was in progress, allowing us to gauge the Filipinos’ fervor before we could visit. When we left, it was dark, and we could admire the illuminated building. We ended our evening by exploring the night market with its many fruit and skewer stalls. A nice surprise.
In the morning, we were taken to the shores of Taal Lake, an ancient caldera where a second volcano has formed in the middle of the lake, which in turn contains another lake. We boarded a *banca* to reach the island in the middle of the lake. This was followed by an uphill walk, made difficult by the high temperature (36°C) and the dust on the path. The dust was worsened by the many horses carrying (or bringing back) the less courageous. To illustrate the difficulty of the climb, the trail is marked by the Stations of the Cross and its 14 stations. We were panting while our guide trotted far ahead. Our effort was rewarded when we reached the summit and its viewpoints over the inner lake and the surroundings. The wisps of smoke seen here and there confirmed we were on an active volcano. Inside the lake, there are supposedly 45 small volcanoes, one of which emerged during its last eruption in 1911.
On the way back, we had lunch by the lake before returning to Manila and the Bayleaf Hotel, whose main merit is its location in the Intramuros district. In the late afternoon, we walked along the walls of the old city.
We had dinner on the hotel’s panoramic terrace overlooking the city and the bay.
Day 17:
Last day! Our tour operator joined us for a tour of the Intramuros district. He enriched the visit with comments on the history, geopolitics, and economy of the Philippines. We visited the Manila Cathedral, destroyed 7 times in the past (6 earthquakes and the 1945 bombing). It’s beautiful, and its stained glass is magnificent. We couldn’t enter the San Agustin Church, the oldest Catholic building in Manila. We passed by the memorial to the Battle of Manila, which claimed over 100,000 lives. We visited the area around Casa Manila, which was closed on Monday, and had a drink at Barbara’s cabaret, located in a historic house. A very enriching morning.
Then we went to the Mall of Asia, the world’s largest shopping mall, to buy some souvenirs (Kultura store) before being taken to the airport. We exchanged our last pesos at the buying rate right after check-in.
The return flight went smoothly. We regretted not being able to use the facilities of Istanbul’s new airport, as its opening was delayed by another month.
Finances:
In the end, we spent 1,640 € for the international flights, 4,200 € for the stay (hotels, visits, various transports) with the agency (whose professionalism we can only praise), and about 700 € for meals, tips, and souvenirs.
Summary:
Luckily, we had beautiful weather throughout our stay, with temperatures between 26 and 35°C. Discovering the Philippines was a wonderful experience. The diversity of the landscapes, the kindness of the Filipinos, the cleanliness, and the truly delicious fruits (especially pineapples and mangoes). We were never harassed, unlike in many touristy countries. On the other hand, the food, though generally cheap, wasn’t exceptional.
Since this country is so vast, we might return in the near future.
Though I’m not a specialist on this destination, I’m happy to answer your questions based on my experience.
So, my flight tickets have just been booked for a trip to Cambodia from November 4th to 27th, 2025.
I’ll be traveling solo and want to explore this amazing country while getting a bit off the beaten path.
I’m arriving in Phnom Penh and also departing from Phnom Penh.
My goal is to travel as much as possible by bus and scooter.
What itinerary would you recommend?
What are the must-do things?
I’m open to all tips and info.
Thanks in advance for your help and responses.
We got back enchanted from a 6-week trip to Cambodia!
Our itinerary: Kampot - Kampong Chhnang - Battambang - Siem Reap - Kampong Cham - Sen Monorom (Mondulkiri) - Banlung (Ratanakiri) - Kratie - Kampong Thom - Phnom Penh.
We traveled by bus, minivan, boat (between Battambang and Siem Reap), overnight bus, scooter, tuk-tuk, and rickshaw for shorter distances. We stayed in guesthouses, homestays, and even in the jungle during a trek.
While the Angkor temples are fabulous, it’s the people you should visit Cambodia for—the "Land of Smiles" truly lives up to its nickname! Tourists gather in Angkor but are quite rare elsewhere, even though the country is easy to travel around.
I won’t describe our trip in detail but instead highlight a few favorite moments.
From Kampot, don’t hesitate to head out around 6 AM to see the fishermen return and their wives selling their catch (just 10 minutes away by the coast). Guaranteed picturesque!
In Battambang, known for its food scene, we discovered a cooking class with Smokin’ Pot (authentic Khmer cooking class). They pick you up from your guesthouse to shop for ingredients (we made fish amok and beef lok lak) at their village market, then cook and eat together. A private class—just the two of us! They also send the recipes via WhatsApp as a PDF. +855 12 821 400
In Siem Reap, I can recommend a francophone tuk-tuk driver who was very attentive to our wishes. We visited tourist spots but also more remote villages and local grilled-pork restaurants with him. He’s a wealth of information about local life, and chatting with him was a real pleasure—we left with regret! You can reach him on WhatsApp: Vung Hem, +855 96 614 0146.
We did a 2-day, 1-night trek in Mondulkiri. Don’t expect a super dense jungle—it looks more like a forest similar to ours. But Nara, our Bunong ethnic guide, made the experience adventurous and ultimately very immersive! WhatsApp +855 86 630 489
Bee Bee’s Chalets homestay: If you pass through Banlung in Ratanakiri, we *loved* this family and their budget-friendly bungalows. Playing Uno, enjoying Nita’s cooking (ask for her fish amok—amazing!), it was a true homestay experience! Contact Nita on WhatsApp: +855 88 818 5525.
In Kratie, rent a scooter and follow the Mekong north for 40 km at your own pace. Being so close to the locals was a treat! Same goes for heading south if you have time.
Kampong Thom: Head 25 km out to visit the pre-Angkorian temples of Sambor Prei Kuk. Around a hundred monuments spread across three sites… and hardly anyone there!
A few practical tips:
Though prices are often listed in dollars, you can always pay in riels (1 USD = 4000 riels), which is what we preferred.
PassApp: An app to book tuk-tuks or rickshaws (and most importantly, know the price upfront).
Virak Buntham: A bus company connecting several cities, bookable online.
Feel free to ask me questions about places, accommodations, etc.—I’d be happy to answer!
We’re planning our second trip to Thailand (2 weeks on-site, late April/early May) as a family with our 5- and 7-year-olds.
On our first trip, we visited Bangkok, Ayutthaya, the River Kwai, Koh Lipe, Koh Phi Phi, and Khao Lak. We especially loved Koh Phi Phi for its limestone cliffs and lush vegetation, as well as Koh Lipe for its crystal-clear waters and snorkeling.
This time, I’m thinking of spending 7 days on the islands. I was considering Koh Tao and Koh Phangan. We’d like some scenery, snorkeling right from the beach, and a bit of atmosphere—but not too much (just enough to grab dinner in the evening).
For the other part of the trip, we’re torn between Chiang Mai and Khao Sok. One or the other… or both? We don’t want to rush, but we’re really nature-focused, so we won’t be hitting too many temples…
Hi there, I’ll be on vacation in Malaysia in November and plan to spend 5 days in Penang. After that, I’d like to visit some temples and places in Butterworth or nearby, and also explore the city. Since I usually get around on foot, which neighborhood would be best for me—meaning within a 30-minute walk of attractions, street food stalls, bus lines, etc.? Thanks in advance for your help!
Françoise