une autre anecdote a partager= Une indienne de ma famille avait rencontre un indien qui travaillait et vivait a san diego. Pr elle ca a ete le coup de foudre mais il s est avere par la suite que l indien avait deja une copine aux etats unis et que cette rencontre n etait qu une manoeuvre de la part de la famille de l indien (pression familiale).
Mariages arrangés en Inde
by Romkun
This discussion is in French, the community’s main language.
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hello! je suis en paying guest accommodation pour le moment chez une famille indienne. Il y a la famille et d autres paying guests comme moi. Un des fils des proprio age de 26 ans qui habite maintenant a Dubai va se marier. Il a recu la photo de sa future femme par internet !! Ils doivent se marier mais ne se connaissent pas !! Je me demandais si les marriages arranges etaient encore courants ici et si toutes ces coutumes, pratiques...(castes..) ne peuvent pas etre un frein au developpement de l inde. Quelqun a des temoignages a ce sujet ? comment se passe un mariage..y a t il un systeme de dote comme ds certains pays ?? les mariages entre indien(ne) et etranger(e)st ils toleres ? je pense que ca risque d etre present pendant encore longtemps et l inde aura du mal a s en detacher.
une autre anecdote a partager= Une indienne de ma famille avait rencontre un indien qui travaillait et vivait a san diego. Pr elle ca a ete le coup de foudre mais il s est avere par la suite que l indien avait deja une copine aux etats unis et que cette rencontre n etait qu une manoeuvre de la part de la famille de l indien (pression familiale).
une autre anecdote a partager= Une indienne de ma famille avait rencontre un indien qui travaillait et vivait a san diego. Pr elle ca a ete le coup de foudre mais il s est avere par la suite que l indien avait deja une copine aux etats unis et que cette rencontre n etait qu une manoeuvre de la part de la famille de l indien (pression familiale).
"Har ghadi badal rahi hai rup zindagi
Chanv hai kabhi kabhi hai dhup zindagi
Har pal yahan ji bhar jiyo
Jo hai saman kal ho na ho"
je suis tenté de dire: tant mieux si l'inde attend encore longtemps pour abandonner ses références pour des références qui lui sont totalement étrangères!!
le modèle à suivre n'est pas forcément celui de l'occident, il suffit de voir à quoi cela conduit dans les pays où cela a été imposé. Il y a une majorité de mariages arrangés en Inde; que le gars découvre sa future épouse par une photo envoyé par internet ou qu'il la recontre fortuitement et de façon hasardeuse dans une boite de nuit, ne fait pas beaucoup de différence dans la rencontre par elle même qu'il n'y ait pas la possibilité de vivre en couple pour éventuellement se marier, si on arrive à s'entendre n'est pas démontré par le taux de divorce; le mariage à l'essai ne conduit pas plus à la stabilité. Que cette pratique soit différente de ce qui se pratique couramment en Europe c'est un fait, bien que dans certains milieux ce soit la même chose qu'en Inde mais que cette pratique choque dénote un ancrage dans ses repères ( ce qui est normal) mais aussi une difficlté d'accepter des coutumes qu'on a tendance à condamner car en quelques jours on n'arrive pas à appréhender quelques millénaires de culture différente
le modèle à suivre n'est pas forcément celui de l'occident, il suffit de voir à quoi cela conduit dans les pays où cela a été imposé. Il y a une majorité de mariages arrangés en Inde; que le gars découvre sa future épouse par une photo envoyé par internet ou qu'il la recontre fortuitement et de façon hasardeuse dans une boite de nuit, ne fait pas beaucoup de différence dans la rencontre par elle même qu'il n'y ait pas la possibilité de vivre en couple pour éventuellement se marier, si on arrive à s'entendre n'est pas démontré par le taux de divorce; le mariage à l'essai ne conduit pas plus à la stabilité. Que cette pratique soit différente de ce qui se pratique couramment en Europe c'est un fait, bien que dans certains milieux ce soit la même chose qu'en Inde mais que cette pratique choque dénote un ancrage dans ses repères ( ce qui est normal) mais aussi une difficlté d'accepter des coutumes qu'on a tendance à condamner car en quelques jours on n'arrive pas à appréhender quelques millénaires de culture différente
Chacun a raison de son propre point de vue, mais il n'est pas impossible que tout le monde ait tort.
Salut,
Le 99% des mariages, sont arrangés et c’est vrai que dans le fond il y a très peu de divorces. Le mari doit être de la même caste que la femme, c’est très rare les mariages mixtes, quoi que ça arrive, mais c’est rare. La dote oui elle fait ravages, la dote doit être donnée par la famille de la mariée pas du marié et la famille du marié exige souvent de grosses sommes d’argent et surtout de l’or, mais aussi une voiture, réfrigérateur, télé, vaisselle, on a déjà tout vu. La famille où tu loges, demande leur combien ils exigent pour marier leur FILS qui plus est se trouve à l’étranger. C’est chose rare de pouvoir travaille « abroad », donc forcément on peut exiger plus et que fait cette charmante lady ? Elle a sûrement étudié peut être même est elle graduée ? Sinon ils ne l’accepteraient pas.
Arrêtez de dire que les castes c’est un problème. La caste n’est pas un problème en Inde mais une nécessité car c’est l’identité même de l’individu et d’appartenir à un groupe ou une communauté, est une fierté pour un indien pas une tare. Jamais aucun indien ne s’en plaint, excepté l’étranger qui arrive et ne connaît rien à rien et croit toujours parce qu’il est libre de faire n’importe quoi que cela le rend nécessairement plus heureux, quel chaos cela serait ici si tout à coup les indiens devraient abandonner leur identité ou appartenance. Il y a d’autres problèmes bien plus profonds que les castes, c’est les pots de vin, ‘bribes’, dessous de tables et détournement d’argent de l’Etat, au profit de bureaucrates pourris qui décident de vous faire chier la vie si vous refusez de donner, ne pensez vous pas qu’il faille commencer par dénoncer ce problème, plutôt que de s’occuper de vouloir éradiquer une identité vieille comme l’inde ?
Le coup fourré d’une famille qui n’accepte pas qu’un de leurs enfants se marie par amour c’est vrai, tout sera bon pour envenimer la relation, par exemple ils paieront une tierce personne qui s’immisce dans le couple, pour faire croire que le jeune homme ou jeune fille a déjà un amoureux etc. C’est le coup classique bête et méchant.
Salut!
Je sais qu'en Inde et au Népal (je connais mieux le nepal, mais je pense que c'est pareil!) la grande majorité des mariages sont arrangés...Dans certaines familles, un peux moins proches des traditions, le mari peut manifester son désaccord pour la femme qui lui est proposé et ne pas se marier avec elle. C'est vrai aussi que dans ce système, la fille a une dotte qu'elle doit donner à son mari une fois le marriage fini. Et pour les mariages mixtes, certains sont trés ouverts sur ce point là, car je suis moi-même (française) en train de me marier avec un Népalais...Et la famille n'a pas montré de désaccord particulier...
J'espère avoir plus ou moins répondu à tes questions...
Bonne journée
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namaste,
j ai parle avec le frere du futur marie et il ne m a pas parle de dote et m a meme dit qu il n y en aurait pas. Le probleme est que son frere de dubai ne veut pas se marie ou alors il veut epouser la fille qu il a rencontre (une russe). Mais sa mere veut qu il se marie avec une Punjabi. je n en sais pas plus sur la fille sinon.
j ai parle avec le frere du futur marie et il ne m a pas parle de dote et m a meme dit qu il n y en aurait pas. Le probleme est que son frere de dubai ne veut pas se marie ou alors il veut epouser la fille qu il a rencontre (une russe). Mais sa mere veut qu il se marie avec une Punjabi. je n en sais pas plus sur la fille sinon.
"Har ghadi badal rahi hai rup zindagi
Chanv hai kabhi kabhi hai dhup zindagi
Har pal yahan ji bhar jiyo
Jo hai saman kal ho na ho"
Bonjour,
Ah ces mariages arrangés en Inde! pour nous effectivement ça parait choquant, mais pour les indiens c'est tout à fait normal, même les jeunes venant d'un milieu social assez élevé, qui font des études, qui sont très ouverts sur l'occident... j'ai passé 8 mois en université à delhi, j'ai rencontré un indien avec qui j'envisage de me marier, donc j'ai pas mal parlé sur ce sujet! si vous voulez aussi avoir un regard sur mon vécu, je suis ouverte pour en parler avec vous!
Ah ces mariages arrangés en Inde! pour nous effectivement ça parait choquant, mais pour les indiens c'est tout à fait normal, même les jeunes venant d'un milieu social assez élevé, qui font des études, qui sont très ouverts sur l'occident... j'ai passé 8 mois en université à delhi, j'ai rencontré un indien avec qui j'envisage de me marier, donc j'ai pas mal parlé sur ce sujet! si vous voulez aussi avoir un regard sur mon vécu, je suis ouverte pour en parler avec vous!
C'est vrai que cela pose question.
A ma première réaction de révolte, j'ai observé qu'en réalité, ces couples issus d'un mariage arrangé ne sont pas moins proche l'un de l'autre. Parfois, ils sont de vrais amis, et on peut même aller jusqu'à parler d'amour...
J'aimerais te poser une question: comment ton ami envisage-t-il les choses? Car, une énorme pression doit peser sur lui s'il est en âge et projette de se marier?
J'aimerais te poser une question: comment ton ami envisage-t-il les choses? Car, une énorme pression doit peser sur lui s'il est en âge et projette de se marier?
le truc, c'est qu'en inde une fois que tu es marié c'est pour la vie, donc forcément même si au début tu connais pas ton partenaire tu apprends à le connaître et tu deviens très tolérant parce que tu sais que t'as pas le choix. donc en général ça se passe très bien et les couples finissent par s'aimer ou tout au moins s'attacher l'un à l'autre. par contre il est vrai que souvent l'amour n'a pas la même signification que pour nous, où nous n'envisageons que les mariages d'amour, et où les critères sociaux par exemple entrent moins en compte.
pour ce qui est de mon petit ami, effectivement il a une certaine forme de pression depuis quelques années puisque toutes les semaines sa mère lui parle d'une nouvelle fille, lui montre des photos... toutes les filles sont d'abord étudiées: caste, religion, passé, niveau d'études et/ou activité professionnelle, fréquentations, signe astrologique... mais toutes les semaines, il lui rappelle que ça ne sert à rien, sur ce sujet jamais personne ne prendra la décision à sa place. donc sa mère continue quand même, mais elle ne le force pas, surtout que maintenant sa famille a bien compris qu'il y avait déjà quelque chose. j'ai rencontré sa famille, ils m'ont tous adorée, et ils seraient heureux si on se mariait (en tout cas sa mère et sa soeur, son père se sera un peu plus délicat).
mais c'est une famille plutôt open-minded, parce que par exemple ils ont proposé à sa soeur de divorcer, parce que son mariage (arrangé) n'est pas heureux. là par contre, c'est elle qui refuse. elle a dit oui, alors elle assumera jusqu'à la fin de sa vie. c'est dommage pour elle mais c'est compréhensible. c'est là que l'on se dit qu'il est important de fréquenter un peu la personne avant de prendre la décision, même si ce sont les parents qui présentent et que l'enquête effectuée sur le gars ou sur la fille auparavant ne révèle que des choses très bien.
alors certains choisissent leur compagne ou compagnon, et s'il correspond à ce que les parents recherchent pour leur enfant, alors tout va bien et tout le monde est heureux. ça arrive de plus en plus, surtout avec internet où les gens se connectent en fonction de leur caste, religion etc et discutent. s'ils trouvent quelqu'un qui leur plait, alors ils en parleront à leurs parents qui diront oui ou non. mais il existe encore beaucoup de mariages arrangés, même chez mes amis. et ils trouvent ça tout à fait normal, parce que leurs parents ont plus d'expérience et savent ce qui est bon pour eux. et comme souvent ça marche, pourquoi se révolter? même pour nous, l'avis de nos parents est souvent avisé, même si l'on se refuse parfois à les écouter...
enfin voilà en résumé mon avis sur la question! si ça t'intéresse d'en discuter plus longuement, donne moi une adresse mail ou msn. bonne journée!
pour ce qui est de mon petit ami, effectivement il a une certaine forme de pression depuis quelques années puisque toutes les semaines sa mère lui parle d'une nouvelle fille, lui montre des photos... toutes les filles sont d'abord étudiées: caste, religion, passé, niveau d'études et/ou activité professionnelle, fréquentations, signe astrologique... mais toutes les semaines, il lui rappelle que ça ne sert à rien, sur ce sujet jamais personne ne prendra la décision à sa place. donc sa mère continue quand même, mais elle ne le force pas, surtout que maintenant sa famille a bien compris qu'il y avait déjà quelque chose. j'ai rencontré sa famille, ils m'ont tous adorée, et ils seraient heureux si on se mariait (en tout cas sa mère et sa soeur, son père se sera un peu plus délicat).
mais c'est une famille plutôt open-minded, parce que par exemple ils ont proposé à sa soeur de divorcer, parce que son mariage (arrangé) n'est pas heureux. là par contre, c'est elle qui refuse. elle a dit oui, alors elle assumera jusqu'à la fin de sa vie. c'est dommage pour elle mais c'est compréhensible. c'est là que l'on se dit qu'il est important de fréquenter un peu la personne avant de prendre la décision, même si ce sont les parents qui présentent et que l'enquête effectuée sur le gars ou sur la fille auparavant ne révèle que des choses très bien.
alors certains choisissent leur compagne ou compagnon, et s'il correspond à ce que les parents recherchent pour leur enfant, alors tout va bien et tout le monde est heureux. ça arrive de plus en plus, surtout avec internet où les gens se connectent en fonction de leur caste, religion etc et discutent. s'ils trouvent quelqu'un qui leur plait, alors ils en parleront à leurs parents qui diront oui ou non. mais il existe encore beaucoup de mariages arrangés, même chez mes amis. et ils trouvent ça tout à fait normal, parce que leurs parents ont plus d'expérience et savent ce qui est bon pour eux. et comme souvent ça marche, pourquoi se révolter? même pour nous, l'avis de nos parents est souvent avisé, même si l'on se refuse parfois à les écouter...
enfin voilà en résumé mon avis sur la question! si ça t'intéresse d'en discuter plus longuement, donne moi une adresse mail ou msn. bonne journée!
Mon expérience
J'ai 2 amis masculins en inde, l'un marié de puis 5 ans, l'autre qui n'est pas encore marié mais ces parents cherchent pour lui.
Et tous les 2 ont bcp de mal à accepter de ne pas choisir leir destins, et en souffrent énormément
Meme s'il y a des cotés positifs de se marier ainsi, ils voudraient avoir la liberté de choisir, ne serais se que ds lzeurs castes et le moment
Le premier ami qui est marié depuis 5 ans, n'a jmais été à l"école puisqu"il a du s'occuper de sa mère handicapée, il a toujours rêver de voyager en inde et detenter sa chance à bombay; du coup il est enomément frustrée d'être marié, et il se bloque et n'essaye même pas de découvrir sa femme. Il prend tout de meme sion de sa fille t de sa famille, mais j'ai vraiment été touché par sa tristesse et se manque de liberté ds le choix de sa vie.
L'autre indien bcp plus jeune, est rejeté un peu de sa famille tout est donné au fils ainé et lui on ne l'écoute pas et on ne le soutient pas ds sa famille, sauf biensur qd il rapporte à manger et de l'argent. Pourtant il est de la caste des brhamanes (ceux qui savant lire les textes sacrés) lui aussi à tres peurs d'être marier à une femme quil n'aime pas De plus il y a c ses jeunes indiens, un grand ideal de l'amour, ils sont extrement romantique et croivent àu grand l'amour
Je suis dc partagée sur ce sujet car le fait de ne pas avoir le choix, les oblige à etre plus tolérant et à apprendre à s'aimer, mais il n'y a pas de liberté...de choix Qd aux femmes indiennes, je nai pas eut l'occasion de parler vraiment avec elles du fait que la plus part ne palent pas anglais, ou sont plus timides et intimes. en tout cas c un sujet bien interessant
Le premier ami qui est marié depuis 5 ans, n'a jmais été à l"école puisqu"il a du s'occuper de sa mère handicapée, il a toujours rêver de voyager en inde et detenter sa chance à bombay; du coup il est enomément frustrée d'être marié, et il se bloque et n'essaye même pas de découvrir sa femme. Il prend tout de meme sion de sa fille t de sa famille, mais j'ai vraiment été touché par sa tristesse et se manque de liberté ds le choix de sa vie.
L'autre indien bcp plus jeune, est rejeté un peu de sa famille tout est donné au fils ainé et lui on ne l'écoute pas et on ne le soutient pas ds sa famille, sauf biensur qd il rapporte à manger et de l'argent. Pourtant il est de la caste des brhamanes (ceux qui savant lire les textes sacrés) lui aussi à tres peurs d'être marier à une femme quil n'aime pas De plus il y a c ses jeunes indiens, un grand ideal de l'amour, ils sont extrement romantique et croivent àu grand l'amour
Je suis dc partagée sur ce sujet car le fait de ne pas avoir le choix, les oblige à etre plus tolérant et à apprendre à s'aimer, mais il n'y a pas de liberté...de choix Qd aux femmes indiennes, je nai pas eut l'occasion de parler vraiment avec elles du fait que la plus part ne palent pas anglais, ou sont plus timides et intimes. en tout cas c un sujet bien interessant
Oui, c'est un sujet vraiment intéressant.
Oui, la plupart des jeunes indiens (et les jeunes indiennes, je pense) aspirent très fort au véritable amour. C'est très prégnant. Cela fait partie de l'âme indienne.
Et pourtant, certains vont accepter le choix de leurs familles. Bon, combien de jeunes français(es) choisissent-ils qqn qui ne déplaira pas à leurs parents, à défaut de trouver le grand amour? Là encore, il faut balayer devant notre porte.
J'ai beaucoup interrogé mes amis en Inde sur le sujet. Ce que retiens, c'est que le plus beau mariage reste pour eux le mariage d'amour, mais que beaucoup de jeunes gens aspirent à partager leur vie, à fonder un foyer, mais ne se sentent pas toujours "armés" pour faire les bons choix. Ils s'en remettent donc à leurs parents. Il y a cependant des histoires terribles: ce manque d'amour au départ est d'autant plus effroyable pour les enfants nés de parents qui "ne s'aiment pas".
Je me demande pourquoi personne n'a encore fait de documentaire sur ce sujet, afin de croiser les regards. Ne serait-ce que pour nous retourner la question, à nous qui pensons être affranchis de toute contrainte: qu'est que c'est que le mariage? Et surtout, qu'est-ce que l'amour ?
Et pourtant, certains vont accepter le choix de leurs familles. Bon, combien de jeunes français(es) choisissent-ils qqn qui ne déplaira pas à leurs parents, à défaut de trouver le grand amour? Là encore, il faut balayer devant notre porte.
J'ai beaucoup interrogé mes amis en Inde sur le sujet. Ce que retiens, c'est que le plus beau mariage reste pour eux le mariage d'amour, mais que beaucoup de jeunes gens aspirent à partager leur vie, à fonder un foyer, mais ne se sentent pas toujours "armés" pour faire les bons choix. Ils s'en remettent donc à leurs parents. Il y a cependant des histoires terribles: ce manque d'amour au départ est d'autant plus effroyable pour les enfants nés de parents qui "ne s'aiment pas".
Je me demande pourquoi personne n'a encore fait de documentaire sur ce sujet, afin de croiser les regards. Ne serait-ce que pour nous retourner la question, à nous qui pensons être affranchis de toute contrainte: qu'est que c'est que le mariage? Et surtout, qu'est-ce que l'amour ?
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What we found interesting when crunching the numbers is that in Sri Lanka, it’s not necessarily meals or short trips that blow the budget, but rather flights, certain accommodations, cultural activities, and all those little expenses we sometimes forget, like tips.
If this can help other travelers get a better idea, we’ve put everything together on our blog with our experience, a detailed breakdown of expenses, and practical info on money while there, withdrawals, and tipping:
https://aventures-sans-mesaventure.com/budget-sri-lanka-pour-un-voyage-de-2-semaines/
Happy travels and enjoy your adventure! !
Happy travels and enjoy your adventure! !
Hi everyone,
We’re a group of 5 heading to the Everest Base Camp trek in early April. We won’t have a porter or guide—we’re used to hiking independently and have already done the Langtang trek and the Annapurna Circuit (back in 2003!).
I’d love to know if it’s necessary to book lodges in advance or if we’ll easily find availability during this busy season. Also, will we find lodges all along the route between the main stopover villages, or only in those villages? I remember there were plenty everywhere on the Annapurna Circuit. We want to stay as flexible as possible.
Thanks for your feedback!
We’re a group of 5 heading to the Everest Base Camp trek in early April. We won’t have a porter or guide—we’re used to hiking independently and have already done the Langtang trek and the Annapurna Circuit (back in 2003!).
I’d love to know if it’s necessary to book lodges in advance or if we’ll easily find availability during this busy season. Also, will we find lodges all along the route between the main stopover villages, or only in those villages? I remember there were plenty everywhere on the Annapurna Circuit. We want to stay as flexible as possible.
Thanks for your feedback!
Hi there,
We’re heading to India in March 2026 and had planned to visit the parts of the Meenakshi Temple that are open to non-Hindus. However, the temple is currently undergoing major renovations—with all the towers covered in scaffolding—which might really take away from the experience and our stop in Madurai.
After some frustrating and vague online searches, and before we reshuffle our itinerary, I’d love to know—if possible—the most accurate expected completion date for the renovation work.
Thanks in advance.
We’re heading to India in March 2026 and had planned to visit the parts of the Meenakshi Temple that are open to non-Hindus. However, the temple is currently undergoing major renovations—with all the towers covered in scaffolding—which might really take away from the experience and our stop in Madurai.
After some frustrating and vague online searches, and before we reshuffle our itinerary, I’d love to know—if possible—the most accurate expected completion date for the renovation work.
Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
We’re planning a trip to Nepal and would love to do a helicopter tour to Everest with Namche Heli Service. Has anyone here used this agency? I can’t seem to find any reviews online. Thanks in advance!
Kloki
We’re planning a trip to Nepal and would love to do a helicopter tour to Everest with Namche Heli Service. Has anyone here used this agency? I can’t seem to find any reviews online. Thanks in advance!
Kloki
Hey fellow travelers,
I’m spending two weeks studying Hindi in the mornings in Delhi, in the Hauz Khas neighborhood. What spots should I check out in this area? Any cafés to chill at? How do I get to other parts of Delhi? By rickshaw? Is it easy to negotiate the price upfront?
Thanks in advance. 😊 Marlène
I’m spending two weeks studying Hindi in the mornings in Delhi, in the Hauz Khas neighborhood. What spots should I check out in this area? Any cafés to chill at? How do I get to other parts of Delhi? By rickshaw? Is it easy to negotiate the price upfront?
Thanks in advance. 😊 Marlène
Hi,
I’m leaving this Saturday for Northern India from 15/02 to 27/02. I’m planning to visit New Delhi, Agra, Chand Baori, Jaipur, Ranthambore, Bundi, Udaipur, and Jodhpur.
What’s the best way to get around? I was thinking of doing everything by train. Maybe taking the bus for some stretches?
As for renting a car with a driver, it seems expensive, so I’ve pretty much ruled that out. Unless someone’s got space for the same dates?
Thanks for your insights!
What’s the best way to get around? I was thinking of doing everything by train. Maybe taking the bus for some stretches?
As for renting a car with a driver, it seems expensive, so I’ve pretty much ruled that out. Unless someone’s got space for the same dates?
Thanks for your insights!
Hi everyone,
We’re heading out in March for this trek. We’re used to hiking and long-distance treks, but this’ll be our first time in Nepal.
QUESTION: People from Nepal are telling us it’s MANDATORY to have guides! Is this true, or is it just agencies trying to get work for their staff?
The Lonely Planet says: "In April 2023, the government announced that every trekker would need to hire the services of a porter or a licensed guide to obtain the TIMS permit. The law isn’t enforced, and by 2025, there were no longer any obligations for teahouse treks."
What do you think? What’s your experience? Thanks for your feedback.
We’re heading out in March for this trek. We’re used to hiking and long-distance treks, but this’ll be our first time in Nepal.
QUESTION: People from Nepal are telling us it’s MANDATORY to have guides! Is this true, or is it just agencies trying to get work for their staff?
The Lonely Planet says: "In April 2023, the government announced that every trekker would need to hire the services of a porter or a licensed guide to obtain the TIMS permit. The law isn’t enforced, and by 2025, there were no longer any obligations for teahouse treks."
What do you think? What’s your experience? Thanks for your feedback.
Hi,
I’d like to arrive in India at New Delhi Airport with some cash. I was wondering if the exchange rates at the airport are any good or if it’s best to avoid them (and exchange in the city instead?).
Thanks for your help.
Thanks for your help.
NAMASTE NEPAL! PRACTICAL INFO AND EXPERIENCE FEEDBACK
Stay from March 25 to April 16, 2025
· Flight tickets Air India (via Delhi) (via Skyscanner) = 1130 € per person · Planned budget (and respected without too many restrictions and while buying a few small gifts) = 2000 € for the stay for two. Buses, taxis, and entrance fees to various sites represent a budget to consider. Meals are cheap. Drinks like beer/Coke, however, are not cheap and cost the equivalent of a meal. · Exchange rate of the rupee during our stay = 0.0064 € (the exchange rate is almost identical everywhere, including at the airport). · At the airport, purchase of two SIM cards (phone) = 1000 NPR x 2 for 28 days. · Kathmandu: we had booked the hotel upon arrival: Kathmandu Boutique Hotel (+977 015 357 446 – email: booking@kathmanduboutiquehotel.com), very well located in a quiet alley off the street, south of Thamel, a 10-minute walk from Durbar Square. A hotel like Nepal knows how to do, where tall people will have to duck. Night + breakfast = 18 € for two. Very warm welcome, great location, excellent value for money. · Bhaktapur: we had also booked a hotel for the end of our stay because the chance of the year 2025 made the Nepali New Year and Bisket Jatra particularly festive in Bhaktapur: Manju Baha Hotel School (+977 976 7234014 – email: manjubahahotel@gmail.com) located in an old monastery. "A social enterprise transforming an old monastery into a charming hotel, offering professional hospitality training to underprivileged Nepali youth." Night + breakfast = 32 € for two. Beautifully decorated room. Very warm welcome. Don’t miss the Changunarayan site (near Bhaktapur), it’s amazing. And if you’re lucky enough to be in Bhaktapur in mid-April for 3 days, there’s the Bisket Jatra festivities (Newari festival), joyful, noisy, fun, and wild… · Pokhara (hotel recommended by the Kathmandu hotel): Hotel Green Tara, Lakeside, 10th street, set back, quiet (Tel. +977 61 462698 – email: greentara_67@hotmail.com) · Trek permit (Lower Mustang, no need for an agency or guide, permits checked at Ghasa and Jomsom) = 2000 NPR per person (2 ID photos) · Bus Kathmandu/Pokhara and return = 2000 NPR per person · Bus Pokhara/Jomsom, 2 one-way tickets = 2800 NPR. · Taxi: negotiation with a driver we recommend, Vicky (+977 984 075 599). You explain what you want, negotiate the price, and he waits for you during the visit. Very charming, we used him several times. For example: departure from our hotel at 10 AM -> Boudhanath/Pashupatinath/Patan return at 5 PM to the hotel = 6500 NPR – Swayambhunath (round trip) = 1200 NPR · Site prices: https://ntb.gov.np/plan-your-trip/before-you-come/heritage-site-entry-fees o Visitor Pass for Kathmandu Durbar Square (for the duration of the stay, show your visa) = 1000 NPR per person (1 ID photo) o Bhaktapur Durbar Square (old town) = 1800 NPR per person o Patan = 1000 NPR per person o Swayambhu Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Boudha Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Pashupatinath Temple = 1000 NPR per person (interesting to take a guide) o Changunarayan Temple (6 km north of Bhaktapur) = 400 NPR per person o Mountain Museum in Pokhara = 750 NPR per person · E-cigarettes: e-cigarettes are banned in India and confiscated whether they’re in carry-on or checked luggage. On the way there, we had kept them in our carry-on, they were confiscated in Delhi. On the way back, learning from our previous experience, we put them in our checked luggage. Someone came to get us to take them out of our bags and confiscate them… You can find e-cigarettes and products in Kathmandu.
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I’m 74 years old. I went to Nepal in 1982, 1983, and the last time in 1986. I wanted to introduce this beautiful and endearing country to my husband, and it was… now or never. So we decided it was now.
I knew the trek starting from Pokhara: Naudanda/Birethanti/Ghorepani/Tatopani/Kalopani. There was no way I was going to do that trek, especially the 1000-meter staircase to reach Ghorepani… You have to stay humble with age.
Back then, the road didn’t exist. I didn’t consider, with the construction of this road (NH48) along the western bank of the Kali Gandaki, doing a trek along a windy and dusty road. Was there an alternative hiking trail on the eastern bank? No one answered my question on VoyageForum, so I did my research online. And I found this site: "Andrées de Ruiter and Prem Rai - Trekking the Annapurna Circuit, including the new NATT trails that avoid the road - A guide to one of the most beautiful trekking regions in Nepal and the world (2011) - NATT = New Annapurna Trekking Trail".
Phew! A solution was emerging. This circuit from 2011 wasn’t fully marked. The idea was to go from Jomsom to Tatopani, so we needed to make sure the path was well-marked all the way, which we did, and the path exists, marked in red and white!
So, with the walking times information, we built our 8-day circuit:
· Jomsom/Thinigaon · Thinigaon/Chimang · Chimang/Saura · Saura/Kokhetanti · Rest day or, if in good shape: loop to Sekong Lake · Kokhetanti/Jhipra Deurali · Jhipra Deurali/Kopchepani · Kopchepani/Tatopani
It’s a senior trek, after all. So the walking times noted on the sites indicated 3 hours or even 4 hours for the two longest stages. That pace suited us fine.
On March 29, we left Kathmandu (1400m), after visiting the must-see sites, by bus to Pokhara: 200 km and 8.5 hours on a chaotic road under construction. I had a memory of Pokhara where it was the first city where you could see the Himalayan range, especially Machhapuchhare. But the pollution is such, the dust raised by traffic and construction, that no horizon is visible except the first hills around Pokhara.
We stayed 24 hours in Pokhara (820m), and on March 31, we left our luggage at the hotel and set off with our lightest backpacks: change of clothes, toiletries, first aid kit, anti-chafing cream, water bottle, sleeping bag liner, and light shoes for the stages.
We took the bus to Jomsom: 160 km/7.5 hours including stops for bathroom breaks, tea, and lunch. The road is nothing but a chaos of potholes, landslides, construction, dust, rebuilding, and mudslides. In Ghasa, the bus stops, and we’re told we’re at a checkpoint and that the two foreigners in the bus, my husband and I, need to have our permits checked, which takes a few minutes. The driving is rock-and-roll, surprising, and courteous. The drivers have their codes, and on these improbable roads, they’re virtuosos.
We could have chosen the plane, but several reasons dissuaded us: if there’s too much wind, the planes don’t take off; personally, I wasn’t reassured about landing in Jomsom, and this transport has a cost.
We arrived around 2 PM in Jomsom (2720m), and despite the early wake-up, the nearly 8 hours on the bus, and the altitude, we decided to head straight to Thinigaon (2840m). At the Jomsom checkpoint, they told us it was a 30-minute walk. Great! Except we took an hour and a half on an uphill road, bent over to fight a strong wind. But the Himalayan range is there! The Dhaulagiri, the Nilgiri, the Annapurnas as a reward.
In Thinigaon, we found a room at the "Nilgiri View Hotel" run by a didi (big sister in Nepali). From the lodge’s roof, she proudly showed us the different peaks surrounding the village and told us, worried, that it hadn’t snowed here for 3 years. She said there are very few tourists, that the season is rather in September/October/November. It seems there’s not a soul in this village, yet mules pass through the narrow street paved with large flat stones, their bells ringing. We dine at 6 PM and go to bed… Room = 1200 NPR and dinner, breakfast, and drinks = 2560 NPR.
On April 1, we set off at 9 AM, not for Chimang as planned but for Marpha! The didi from the Thinigaon lodge had said it was a 3-hour walk. The first part of this stage is attractive, the mountains are magnificent and imposing, the landscape is superb, there’s no one around, a feeling of being "alone in the world." We follow Dhumbra Tal, this small green lake. The path is a rocky track that climbs steeply. Then, around a hill, we start the big descent that joins the Kali Gandaki. We face the wind head-on, and the violent gusts take our breath away, throw us off balance, and envelop us in dust. We see the road on the other side of the Kali Gandaki. We arrive in the village of Chhairo at 2 PM, completely exhausted and with blistered feet, after 5 hours of walking instead of the planned 3.5 hours.
We’re welcomed by the village nurse, who tells us there’s a lodge in the village. Chhairo is a Tibetan village, a 20-minute walk from Marpha (according to the locals, multiply by 2 or even 3 for us…). We’re going to revise our trek plan and, first of all, spend the night in Chhairo.
The lodge is quite pleasant, and Karma, the hostess, is very friendly. She asks about our plans and suggests we stay in Chhairo the next day, from where we can visit Marpha and also Chimang, a 1-hour walk away, in light mode, meaning without backpacks. She invites us to participate in a village ceremony the next evening.
We immediately accept the proposal, as our feet need rest and the welcome is so warm… Dinner and bed!
We reworked our trek plan, which was too ambitious for our untrained bodies and, let’s face it… no longer in our first youth. In the initial plan, we thought there wouldn’t be too much elevation gain following the Kali Gandaki, but checking the map, we realize there might be significant elevation changes between Sauru and Sirkung. So we plan:
· Tomorrow: visit Marpha (2670m) and Chimang (2744m) · April 3: bus from Chhairo (2700m) to Kalopani (2530m) and continue on foot to Ghasa (2010m) · April 4: Ghasa/Pairataplo (1940m) · April 5: Pairatapla/Gadpar (1580m) · April 6: Gadpar/Narchyang (1510m) · April 7: Narchyang/Tatopani (1190m) · April 8: return to Pokhara.
Normally, it’s all downhill…
April 2, a rest day then… We set off in the morning to explore Marpha. We have to take a temporary bridge because the suspension bridge is closed due to road construction. We join the road and arrive in Marpha, a village famous for its apple orchards, brandy, cider, and apple juice production. This village is magnificent with its stone houses and monastery clinging to the hillside. The road construction spared it. There are people, but very few Western tourists.
We have lunch in Marpha and go back through Chhairo to take the path to Chimang. We cross a fragrant pine forest and find the rocky path; the landscape is splendid. We walk quietly, passing peaceful buffaloes and cows, and arrive at the foot of a stone staircase… 275 steps (which we counted on the way back) leading us to the village of Chimang. Chimang is an isolated Newari village that seems a bit desolate. Despite the slopes, there are crops on every little bit of land. Thankfully, we changed our initial program because there’s no lodge in this village, contrary to what we saw on a map… We wander through the village, which seems very deserted, have coffee in a house from another world, and then head back to Chhairo.
A rest day? = 5 hours of walking!!
Dinner and village ceremony. From what we understand, this ceremony is in honor of the Dalai Lama. Men, women, and children in traditional costumes gather twice a month; they dance, make, and offer small sweet cakes with Tibetan tea (made from tea, yak butter—often rancid—water, and salt). Surprising for first-timers…
Around 10 PM, we leave the ceremony; tomorrow morning, we need to be on the roadside by 7 AM to catch the bus to Kalopani…
This village of Chhairo is very pleasant and welcoming, no tourists, just two motorcyclists who arrived in the evening, one of whom participated in the ceremony and discreetly poured his Tibetan tea outside.
Lodge: "Norsang Tibetan Guesthouse and Restaurant". Total bill for 2 nights, 2 dinners, 2 breakfasts, and drinks = 8000 NPR.
April 3: bus from Chhairo to Kalopani, about 1.5 hours for the 20 km (200 NPR per person). We descend on the right bank of the Kali Gandaki. We find the red and white markings to resume the trek toward Ghasa. We’re in a fragrant pine forest, the Dhaulagiri on one side and the Annapurnas on the other, magnificent, and the path is pleasant and easy. We get a bit lost in this forest, always looking for the markings. Near Lete, two trekkers pass us, and we meet them again a little further on with two very young children, to whom we give the 2 hard-boiled eggs I didn’t eat this morning. They accepted them without hesitation.
We arrive in a village and ask for directions to Ghasa. The young girls point the way. But we come across a forest being logged, trees cut in all directions. We turn back and ask for confirmation. They confirm… But the two young girls catch up with us and clear the way. We have to step over, go around, and cross the felled trees, with no indication at all. Through this pick-up sticks of felled trees, the girls lead us to the top of a stone staircase, indicating that was the path. It’s the only place where we saw rhododendrons in bloom.
We descend the staircase. At the bottom, to the left, there’s a bridge to go toward Choyo, and to the right, a path to Ghasa. We take the right path and join the road. We should normally find the red and white markings, but we don’t… So we continue on the western bank road of the Kali Gandaki.
A little before the village of Misi, we see fumaroles on the opposite bank that seem to come from the ground. We don’t understand. We stopped to eat in the village of Misi (noodle soup = 600 NPR), but it’s hard to communicate with the elderly people running the guesthouse.
We continued on the road, not finding the marked path parallel to the road. Landslides, both on the left and right banks, seem to have taken over the marked routes. It’s a place where the Kali Gandaki gorge narrows, and on the opposite bank, the mountain smokes more and more, and we now hear the crackling of fire. Across from us, the mountain is burning… Our initial plan had us passing on that burning bank right now…
We arrive in Ghasa at 3:30 PM, a 6.5-hour stage but with a 1-hour stop at noon. We’re at the "Florida Guesthouse and Restaurant." From our room, we see the mountain smoking on the other side of the river, and at night, we see the flames. In this village, posters show Himalayan eagles and vultures that seem to be protected species. Indeed, we saw (and heard) 3 eagles circling today.
April 4 – Today, heading to Pairothapla or Kopchepani depending on our feet, accommodation options, and simply our desires.
No more smoke on the mountain this morning. It’s chilly, 7:45 AM, the sky is clear, just a smell of smoke outside.
Price of the lodge = 1000 NPR for the night + 3580 NPR for meals.
We cross Ghasa, which stretches over more than a kilometer. We have a drink at the last guesthouse in the village, and the didi, when she learns our destination, tells us to be careful because the villages we’re going to aren’t safe. Should we distribute our rupees in different pockets? Nah, we kept going.
At the exit of Ghasa, we find the red and white markings and take the suspension bridge to cross the boiling waters of the Kali Gandaki. The passage is impressive because the river is tumultuous. Lots of climbs and even more descents. We’re back on the eastern bank. It’s hot! On the narrow path, we meet a group of buffaloes. Who has the right of way? We decide to stick as close as possible to the rock wall and move forward calmly. The buffaloes look at us, chewing placidly, with no intention of jumping on us. Phew!
After a 5-hour stage (including stops), we arrive in Pairothapla, with hot feet and firm thighs, and decide we won’t go any further. It’s a good thing because there’s a lodge, the most basic so far, but with a great welcome. We have a meal and a short nap. The buffaloes we met on the way belong to this house. They come to drink at the fountain by the path.
Our host, very pleasant, doesn’t know what to do to please us and is very attentive. He wants to chat. He has two children, a 4-year-old girl and a 7-year-old boy. Where do they go to school? Do they go? He tells us that the fires in the mountain are caused by people, but for what reason? We won’t find out, but it’s illegal. From here, we can still see smoke rising in the distance. The wife is a bit less friendly. Corn kernels dry on a woven straw mat on the ground, and the mom sorts them.
From where we are, we overlook the valley and see the road under construction winding along the mountainside on the other bank.
Dinner on the terrace of the house overlooking the path, windbreaker and fleece on: dal bhat chicken for me and chicken curry for my husband: "organic" products, at least local production. There are small vegetable gardens everywhere with all sorts of vegetables.
April 5 – While we’re having breakfast on the terrace of our lodge, 5 porters, straps on their foreheads, heavily loaded, pass by on the path. A few minutes later, a group of 9 people appears. It must be said that since the beginning of our journey, we’ve met very few hikers. Two backpackers in Chhairo, the two hikers near Lete, two female hikers passed us before Pairothapla, a solo female hiker passed us…
The lodge in Pairothapla is called "Bimala Lodge & Thakali Kitchen" – Price for night + 4 meals + 2 breakfasts = 3000 NPR.
The descent toward the Kali Gandaki involves climbs whose steps we didn’t count. Clearly, the landslides on the mountain cause changes to the official ACAP trek marked in red and white, and the marking updates can’t keep up with the pace of these landslides. It’s almost always by chance that we find the markings. Fortunately, we can follow the power line that guides us somewhat.
Drink stop in Kopchepani, the legs are fine, but the feet don’t like being tightly enclosed. A group of trekkers with porters passes on the path. We met buffaloes that we kindly let pass; the path was wide enough, but it was a staircase going up, and we didn’t want to take any risks.
Across, a view of the magnificent Rupse Waterfall on the other bank of the Kali Gandaki, at the bottom, lots of vehicles and people.
Arrival in Gadpar after crossing a rather unwelcoming small village and cultivated gardens between dry stone walls, each better built than the last.
First lodge spotted, first lodge adopted to answer the call of our feet, and a very warm welcome from the owner. Since we hadn’t eaten at noon, we had Tibetan bread/jam. 6-hour stage including 1 hour of stops. Night + dinner + breakfast + drinks = 5060 NPR
April 6 – Today, heading to Narchyang.
For several days, we’ve seen banana trees with their bunches of fruit and even a prickly pear with large fruits ripening.
This stage is quite peaceful and pleasant. We take a suspension bridge to cross a tributary of the Kali Gandaki. While we’re resting for a moment before crossing the bridge, a couple of porters, a man and a woman, arrive and start across the bridge with their wood load in a basket held by a strap on their forehead, making them bend. We set off too… lighter than them.
On the other side of the bridge… a stone staircase, and it climbs steeply. The porter couple didn’t take this staircase; they went right on the path.
At the top of the staircase, we arrive in Narchyang after a 4-hour stage. A magnificent waterfall overlooks the village. We get lost in this fairly large village looking for a lodge. After wandering around for a while, we ask for directions, and an 84-year-old man takes us through the whole village and accompanies us to a very nice lodge run by a woman.
We chat with our hostess, who asks where we’re from and where we’re going. We explain that we want to reach Tatopani the next day and then return to Pokhara. She tells us there are 4x4s going directly to Pokhara and that it would probably be easier than taking a bus that might be full in Tatopani. After a quick consultation, we decide to return to Pokhara the next day by 4x4. She finds us a 4x4 with 2 seats left, departure at 8 AM – 5 hours on the road and 1500 NPR per person. A charming didi who does everything to be pleasant and helpful.
Narchyang community lodge = night + snacks + dinner + breakfast = 3000 NPR.
There you go, our trek ends tomorrow. Many necessary changes and adaptations to our initial trek, but no regrets, it was superb and a great experience that, for my part, I won’t be able to repeat. Always this encounter with the endearing, welcoming, curious, and very kind Nepali people. It was now or never, and we did it!
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In conclusion, 3 full weeks in Nepal is a duration that allows visiting Kathmandu, Patan, and Bhaktapur, enjoying the various sites, and soaking in the atmosphere and urban Nepali life.
The trek, even revised and corrected, allowed us to get close to the impressive Annapurna and Dhaulagiri peaks. One or two acclimatization days might be necessary to get the body in tune with this magical and extraordinary land.
Stay from March 25 to April 16, 2025
· Flight tickets Air India (via Delhi) (via Skyscanner) = 1130 € per person · Planned budget (and respected without too many restrictions and while buying a few small gifts) = 2000 € for the stay for two. Buses, taxis, and entrance fees to various sites represent a budget to consider. Meals are cheap. Drinks like beer/Coke, however, are not cheap and cost the equivalent of a meal. · Exchange rate of the rupee during our stay = 0.0064 € (the exchange rate is almost identical everywhere, including at the airport). · At the airport, purchase of two SIM cards (phone) = 1000 NPR x 2 for 28 days. · Kathmandu: we had booked the hotel upon arrival: Kathmandu Boutique Hotel (+977 015 357 446 – email: booking@kathmanduboutiquehotel.com), very well located in a quiet alley off the street, south of Thamel, a 10-minute walk from Durbar Square. A hotel like Nepal knows how to do, where tall people will have to duck. Night + breakfast = 18 € for two. Very warm welcome, great location, excellent value for money. · Bhaktapur: we had also booked a hotel for the end of our stay because the chance of the year 2025 made the Nepali New Year and Bisket Jatra particularly festive in Bhaktapur: Manju Baha Hotel School (+977 976 7234014 – email: manjubahahotel@gmail.com) located in an old monastery. "A social enterprise transforming an old monastery into a charming hotel, offering professional hospitality training to underprivileged Nepali youth." Night + breakfast = 32 € for two. Beautifully decorated room. Very warm welcome. Don’t miss the Changunarayan site (near Bhaktapur), it’s amazing. And if you’re lucky enough to be in Bhaktapur in mid-April for 3 days, there’s the Bisket Jatra festivities (Newari festival), joyful, noisy, fun, and wild… · Pokhara (hotel recommended by the Kathmandu hotel): Hotel Green Tara, Lakeside, 10th street, set back, quiet (Tel. +977 61 462698 – email: greentara_67@hotmail.com) · Trek permit (Lower Mustang, no need for an agency or guide, permits checked at Ghasa and Jomsom) = 2000 NPR per person (2 ID photos) · Bus Kathmandu/Pokhara and return = 2000 NPR per person · Bus Pokhara/Jomsom, 2 one-way tickets = 2800 NPR. · Taxi: negotiation with a driver we recommend, Vicky (+977 984 075 599). You explain what you want, negotiate the price, and he waits for you during the visit. Very charming, we used him several times. For example: departure from our hotel at 10 AM -> Boudhanath/Pashupatinath/Patan return at 5 PM to the hotel = 6500 NPR – Swayambhunath (round trip) = 1200 NPR · Site prices: https://ntb.gov.np/plan-your-trip/before-you-come/heritage-site-entry-fees o Visitor Pass for Kathmandu Durbar Square (for the duration of the stay, show your visa) = 1000 NPR per person (1 ID photo) o Bhaktapur Durbar Square (old town) = 1800 NPR per person o Patan = 1000 NPR per person o Swayambhu Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Boudha Stupa = 200 NPR per person o Pashupatinath Temple = 1000 NPR per person (interesting to take a guide) o Changunarayan Temple (6 km north of Bhaktapur) = 400 NPR per person o Mountain Museum in Pokhara = 750 NPR per person · E-cigarettes: e-cigarettes are banned in India and confiscated whether they’re in carry-on or checked luggage. On the way there, we had kept them in our carry-on, they were confiscated in Delhi. On the way back, learning from our previous experience, we put them in our checked luggage. Someone came to get us to take them out of our bags and confiscate them… You can find e-cigarettes and products in Kathmandu.
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I’m 74 years old. I went to Nepal in 1982, 1983, and the last time in 1986. I wanted to introduce this beautiful and endearing country to my husband, and it was… now or never. So we decided it was now.
I knew the trek starting from Pokhara: Naudanda/Birethanti/Ghorepani/Tatopani/Kalopani. There was no way I was going to do that trek, especially the 1000-meter staircase to reach Ghorepani… You have to stay humble with age.
Back then, the road didn’t exist. I didn’t consider, with the construction of this road (NH48) along the western bank of the Kali Gandaki, doing a trek along a windy and dusty road. Was there an alternative hiking trail on the eastern bank? No one answered my question on VoyageForum, so I did my research online. And I found this site: "Andrées de Ruiter and Prem Rai - Trekking the Annapurna Circuit, including the new NATT trails that avoid the road - A guide to one of the most beautiful trekking regions in Nepal and the world (2011) - NATT = New Annapurna Trekking Trail".
Phew! A solution was emerging. This circuit from 2011 wasn’t fully marked. The idea was to go from Jomsom to Tatopani, so we needed to make sure the path was well-marked all the way, which we did, and the path exists, marked in red and white!
So, with the walking times information, we built our 8-day circuit:
· Jomsom/Thinigaon · Thinigaon/Chimang · Chimang/Saura · Saura/Kokhetanti · Rest day or, if in good shape: loop to Sekong Lake · Kokhetanti/Jhipra Deurali · Jhipra Deurali/Kopchepani · Kopchepani/Tatopani
It’s a senior trek, after all. So the walking times noted on the sites indicated 3 hours or even 4 hours for the two longest stages. That pace suited us fine.
On March 29, we left Kathmandu (1400m), after visiting the must-see sites, by bus to Pokhara: 200 km and 8.5 hours on a chaotic road under construction. I had a memory of Pokhara where it was the first city where you could see the Himalayan range, especially Machhapuchhare. But the pollution is such, the dust raised by traffic and construction, that no horizon is visible except the first hills around Pokhara.
We stayed 24 hours in Pokhara (820m), and on March 31, we left our luggage at the hotel and set off with our lightest backpacks: change of clothes, toiletries, first aid kit, anti-chafing cream, water bottle, sleeping bag liner, and light shoes for the stages.
We took the bus to Jomsom: 160 km/7.5 hours including stops for bathroom breaks, tea, and lunch. The road is nothing but a chaos of potholes, landslides, construction, dust, rebuilding, and mudslides. In Ghasa, the bus stops, and we’re told we’re at a checkpoint and that the two foreigners in the bus, my husband and I, need to have our permits checked, which takes a few minutes. The driving is rock-and-roll, surprising, and courteous. The drivers have their codes, and on these improbable roads, they’re virtuosos.
We could have chosen the plane, but several reasons dissuaded us: if there’s too much wind, the planes don’t take off; personally, I wasn’t reassured about landing in Jomsom, and this transport has a cost.
We arrived around 2 PM in Jomsom (2720m), and despite the early wake-up, the nearly 8 hours on the bus, and the altitude, we decided to head straight to Thinigaon (2840m). At the Jomsom checkpoint, they told us it was a 30-minute walk. Great! Except we took an hour and a half on an uphill road, bent over to fight a strong wind. But the Himalayan range is there! The Dhaulagiri, the Nilgiri, the Annapurnas as a reward.
In Thinigaon, we found a room at the "Nilgiri View Hotel" run by a didi (big sister in Nepali). From the lodge’s roof, she proudly showed us the different peaks surrounding the village and told us, worried, that it hadn’t snowed here for 3 years. She said there are very few tourists, that the season is rather in September/October/November. It seems there’s not a soul in this village, yet mules pass through the narrow street paved with large flat stones, their bells ringing. We dine at 6 PM and go to bed… Room = 1200 NPR and dinner, breakfast, and drinks = 2560 NPR.
On April 1, we set off at 9 AM, not for Chimang as planned but for Marpha! The didi from the Thinigaon lodge had said it was a 3-hour walk. The first part of this stage is attractive, the mountains are magnificent and imposing, the landscape is superb, there’s no one around, a feeling of being "alone in the world." We follow Dhumbra Tal, this small green lake. The path is a rocky track that climbs steeply. Then, around a hill, we start the big descent that joins the Kali Gandaki. We face the wind head-on, and the violent gusts take our breath away, throw us off balance, and envelop us in dust. We see the road on the other side of the Kali Gandaki. We arrive in the village of Chhairo at 2 PM, completely exhausted and with blistered feet, after 5 hours of walking instead of the planned 3.5 hours.
We’re welcomed by the village nurse, who tells us there’s a lodge in the village. Chhairo is a Tibetan village, a 20-minute walk from Marpha (according to the locals, multiply by 2 or even 3 for us…). We’re going to revise our trek plan and, first of all, spend the night in Chhairo.
The lodge is quite pleasant, and Karma, the hostess, is very friendly. She asks about our plans and suggests we stay in Chhairo the next day, from where we can visit Marpha and also Chimang, a 1-hour walk away, in light mode, meaning without backpacks. She invites us to participate in a village ceremony the next evening.
We immediately accept the proposal, as our feet need rest and the welcome is so warm… Dinner and bed!
We reworked our trek plan, which was too ambitious for our untrained bodies and, let’s face it… no longer in our first youth. In the initial plan, we thought there wouldn’t be too much elevation gain following the Kali Gandaki, but checking the map, we realize there might be significant elevation changes between Sauru and Sirkung. So we plan:
· Tomorrow: visit Marpha (2670m) and Chimang (2744m) · April 3: bus from Chhairo (2700m) to Kalopani (2530m) and continue on foot to Ghasa (2010m) · April 4: Ghasa/Pairataplo (1940m) · April 5: Pairatapla/Gadpar (1580m) · April 6: Gadpar/Narchyang (1510m) · April 7: Narchyang/Tatopani (1190m) · April 8: return to Pokhara.
Normally, it’s all downhill…
April 2, a rest day then… We set off in the morning to explore Marpha. We have to take a temporary bridge because the suspension bridge is closed due to road construction. We join the road and arrive in Marpha, a village famous for its apple orchards, brandy, cider, and apple juice production. This village is magnificent with its stone houses and monastery clinging to the hillside. The road construction spared it. There are people, but very few Western tourists.
We have lunch in Marpha and go back through Chhairo to take the path to Chimang. We cross a fragrant pine forest and find the rocky path; the landscape is splendid. We walk quietly, passing peaceful buffaloes and cows, and arrive at the foot of a stone staircase… 275 steps (which we counted on the way back) leading us to the village of Chimang. Chimang is an isolated Newari village that seems a bit desolate. Despite the slopes, there are crops on every little bit of land. Thankfully, we changed our initial program because there’s no lodge in this village, contrary to what we saw on a map… We wander through the village, which seems very deserted, have coffee in a house from another world, and then head back to Chhairo.
A rest day? = 5 hours of walking!!
Dinner and village ceremony. From what we understand, this ceremony is in honor of the Dalai Lama. Men, women, and children in traditional costumes gather twice a month; they dance, make, and offer small sweet cakes with Tibetan tea (made from tea, yak butter—often rancid—water, and salt). Surprising for first-timers…
Around 10 PM, we leave the ceremony; tomorrow morning, we need to be on the roadside by 7 AM to catch the bus to Kalopani…
This village of Chhairo is very pleasant and welcoming, no tourists, just two motorcyclists who arrived in the evening, one of whom participated in the ceremony and discreetly poured his Tibetan tea outside.
Lodge: "Norsang Tibetan Guesthouse and Restaurant". Total bill for 2 nights, 2 dinners, 2 breakfasts, and drinks = 8000 NPR.
April 3: bus from Chhairo to Kalopani, about 1.5 hours for the 20 km (200 NPR per person). We descend on the right bank of the Kali Gandaki. We find the red and white markings to resume the trek toward Ghasa. We’re in a fragrant pine forest, the Dhaulagiri on one side and the Annapurnas on the other, magnificent, and the path is pleasant and easy. We get a bit lost in this forest, always looking for the markings. Near Lete, two trekkers pass us, and we meet them again a little further on with two very young children, to whom we give the 2 hard-boiled eggs I didn’t eat this morning. They accepted them without hesitation.
We arrive in a village and ask for directions to Ghasa. The young girls point the way. But we come across a forest being logged, trees cut in all directions. We turn back and ask for confirmation. They confirm… But the two young girls catch up with us and clear the way. We have to step over, go around, and cross the felled trees, with no indication at all. Through this pick-up sticks of felled trees, the girls lead us to the top of a stone staircase, indicating that was the path. It’s the only place where we saw rhododendrons in bloom.
We descend the staircase. At the bottom, to the left, there’s a bridge to go toward Choyo, and to the right, a path to Ghasa. We take the right path and join the road. We should normally find the red and white markings, but we don’t… So we continue on the western bank road of the Kali Gandaki.
A little before the village of Misi, we see fumaroles on the opposite bank that seem to come from the ground. We don’t understand. We stopped to eat in the village of Misi (noodle soup = 600 NPR), but it’s hard to communicate with the elderly people running the guesthouse.
We continued on the road, not finding the marked path parallel to the road. Landslides, both on the left and right banks, seem to have taken over the marked routes. It’s a place where the Kali Gandaki gorge narrows, and on the opposite bank, the mountain smokes more and more, and we now hear the crackling of fire. Across from us, the mountain is burning… Our initial plan had us passing on that burning bank right now…
We arrive in Ghasa at 3:30 PM, a 6.5-hour stage but with a 1-hour stop at noon. We’re at the "Florida Guesthouse and Restaurant." From our room, we see the mountain smoking on the other side of the river, and at night, we see the flames. In this village, posters show Himalayan eagles and vultures that seem to be protected species. Indeed, we saw (and heard) 3 eagles circling today.
April 4 – Today, heading to Pairothapla or Kopchepani depending on our feet, accommodation options, and simply our desires.
No more smoke on the mountain this morning. It’s chilly, 7:45 AM, the sky is clear, just a smell of smoke outside.
Price of the lodge = 1000 NPR for the night + 3580 NPR for meals.
We cross Ghasa, which stretches over more than a kilometer. We have a drink at the last guesthouse in the village, and the didi, when she learns our destination, tells us to be careful because the villages we’re going to aren’t safe. Should we distribute our rupees in different pockets? Nah, we kept going.
At the exit of Ghasa, we find the red and white markings and take the suspension bridge to cross the boiling waters of the Kali Gandaki. The passage is impressive because the river is tumultuous. Lots of climbs and even more descents. We’re back on the eastern bank. It’s hot! On the narrow path, we meet a group of buffaloes. Who has the right of way? We decide to stick as close as possible to the rock wall and move forward calmly. The buffaloes look at us, chewing placidly, with no intention of jumping on us. Phew!
After a 5-hour stage (including stops), we arrive in Pairothapla, with hot feet and firm thighs, and decide we won’t go any further. It’s a good thing because there’s a lodge, the most basic so far, but with a great welcome. We have a meal and a short nap. The buffaloes we met on the way belong to this house. They come to drink at the fountain by the path.
Our host, very pleasant, doesn’t know what to do to please us and is very attentive. He wants to chat. He has two children, a 4-year-old girl and a 7-year-old boy. Where do they go to school? Do they go? He tells us that the fires in the mountain are caused by people, but for what reason? We won’t find out, but it’s illegal. From here, we can still see smoke rising in the distance. The wife is a bit less friendly. Corn kernels dry on a woven straw mat on the ground, and the mom sorts them.
From where we are, we overlook the valley and see the road under construction winding along the mountainside on the other bank.
Dinner on the terrace of the house overlooking the path, windbreaker and fleece on: dal bhat chicken for me and chicken curry for my husband: "organic" products, at least local production. There are small vegetable gardens everywhere with all sorts of vegetables.
April 5 – While we’re having breakfast on the terrace of our lodge, 5 porters, straps on their foreheads, heavily loaded, pass by on the path. A few minutes later, a group of 9 people appears. It must be said that since the beginning of our journey, we’ve met very few hikers. Two backpackers in Chhairo, the two hikers near Lete, two female hikers passed us before Pairothapla, a solo female hiker passed us…
The lodge in Pairothapla is called "Bimala Lodge & Thakali Kitchen" – Price for night + 4 meals + 2 breakfasts = 3000 NPR.
The descent toward the Kali Gandaki involves climbs whose steps we didn’t count. Clearly, the landslides on the mountain cause changes to the official ACAP trek marked in red and white, and the marking updates can’t keep up with the pace of these landslides. It’s almost always by chance that we find the markings. Fortunately, we can follow the power line that guides us somewhat.
Drink stop in Kopchepani, the legs are fine, but the feet don’t like being tightly enclosed. A group of trekkers with porters passes on the path. We met buffaloes that we kindly let pass; the path was wide enough, but it was a staircase going up, and we didn’t want to take any risks.
Across, a view of the magnificent Rupse Waterfall on the other bank of the Kali Gandaki, at the bottom, lots of vehicles and people.
Arrival in Gadpar after crossing a rather unwelcoming small village and cultivated gardens between dry stone walls, each better built than the last.
First lodge spotted, first lodge adopted to answer the call of our feet, and a very warm welcome from the owner. Since we hadn’t eaten at noon, we had Tibetan bread/jam. 6-hour stage including 1 hour of stops. Night + dinner + breakfast + drinks = 5060 NPR
April 6 – Today, heading to Narchyang.
For several days, we’ve seen banana trees with their bunches of fruit and even a prickly pear with large fruits ripening.
This stage is quite peaceful and pleasant. We take a suspension bridge to cross a tributary of the Kali Gandaki. While we’re resting for a moment before crossing the bridge, a couple of porters, a man and a woman, arrive and start across the bridge with their wood load in a basket held by a strap on their forehead, making them bend. We set off too… lighter than them.
On the other side of the bridge… a stone staircase, and it climbs steeply. The porter couple didn’t take this staircase; they went right on the path.
At the top of the staircase, we arrive in Narchyang after a 4-hour stage. A magnificent waterfall overlooks the village. We get lost in this fairly large village looking for a lodge. After wandering around for a while, we ask for directions, and an 84-year-old man takes us through the whole village and accompanies us to a very nice lodge run by a woman.
We chat with our hostess, who asks where we’re from and where we’re going. We explain that we want to reach Tatopani the next day and then return to Pokhara. She tells us there are 4x4s going directly to Pokhara and that it would probably be easier than taking a bus that might be full in Tatopani. After a quick consultation, we decide to return to Pokhara the next day by 4x4. She finds us a 4x4 with 2 seats left, departure at 8 AM – 5 hours on the road and 1500 NPR per person. A charming didi who does everything to be pleasant and helpful.
Narchyang community lodge = night + snacks + dinner + breakfast = 3000 NPR.
There you go, our trek ends tomorrow. Many necessary changes and adaptations to our initial trek, but no regrets, it was superb and a great experience that, for my part, I won’t be able to repeat. Always this encounter with the endearing, welcoming, curious, and very kind Nepali people. It was now or never, and we did it!
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In conclusion, 3 full weeks in Nepal is a duration that allows visiting Kathmandu, Patan, and Bhaktapur, enjoying the various sites, and soaking in the atmosphere and urban Nepali life.
The trek, even revised and corrected, allowed us to get close to the impressive Annapurna and Dhaulagiri peaks. One or two acclimatization days might be necessary to get the body in tune with this magical and extraordinary land.
Hi there,
My partner and I are heading to Nepal for 15 days in March—she’s a schoolteacher. We’ll be trekking to Everest Base Camp and then doing the loop via the Gokyo Lakes.
We’d love to set up a fundraiser to donate to a school in Namche, along with visiting the school. It’s something that really matters to us. But it’s been tough to get in touch with a school—any ideas on how to go about this? Thanks!
My partner and I are heading to Nepal for 15 days in March—she’s a schoolteacher. We’ll be trekking to Everest Base Camp and then doing the loop via the Gokyo Lakes.
We’d love to set up a fundraiser to donate to a school in Namche, along with visiting the school. It’s something that really matters to us. But it’s been tough to get in touch with a school—any ideas on how to go about this? Thanks!
Hello my fellow globetrotters, could anyone tell me how to find the French colonial cemetery in Pondicherry? It seems tricky to locate.
Thanks so much for your help! Take care, pace yourselves, and travel far.
Cheers, Régine
Thanks so much for your help! Take care, pace yourselves, and travel far.
Cheers, Régine
I'm looking for a small, not-too-touristy restaurant in Fort Kochi. Do you know one not too far from Jacob Road?
Thanks
Bonjour,
Nous nous apprêtons ma femme et moi pour ce circuit du 27 mars au 8 avril.
J'aimerai savoir si quelqu'un est déjà parti avec l'agence Salaun Holidays? combien de personnes en moyenne par groupe ? combien en liquidités ?
Nous avons des doutes sur les vêtements à prendre.....+ draps et taies ?
Et si vous avez des petits tuyaux pour ne pas être trop ennuyé par les mendiants et démarcheurs.
Vos remarques seront toujours bonnes à prendre.
Merci à l'avance.
Bonjour,
je voudrais faire un voyage au Rajasthan et la vallée du Gange: c'est la première fois que je ferais un voyage lointain et pense le faire avec l'agence BTtours à partir de la Belgique (ou Salaün en France). Quelqu'un a-t-il déjà voyagé avec cette agence et peut-il me donner son avis? Je pensais partir vers le mois de novembre, mais certains me disent que, même là, il ferait relativement froid (8°C) est-ce possible?
D'autre part, quelle est le meilleur moyen pour se procurer de l'argent? Peut-on entrer en Inde avec de l'argent liquide sur soi?
Merci pour les réponses.
bonjour à tous,
Je prépare un voyage en Inde du Nord (Rajasthan, vallée du Gange avec Varanasi (Benares)).
Mon agence de voyage me propose deux TO, Asia avec le circuit "Saris et Saddhus" et Salaun avec le circuit "l'inde du nord et la vallée du Gange". J'ai déjà voyagé au Sri Lanka et en Inde du Sud avec Asia. Les voyages se sont très bien passés.
Je ne connais pas Salaun Holidays. Leur circuit semble plus complet avec une journée de détente (16 jours sur place) . Voyage avec Air France.
Est ce qu'un de membre de ce forum a fait le circuit "l'inde du Nord et la vallée du Gange" avec Salaun? Puis je avoir votre avis sur le TO Salaun Holidays?
Merci beaucoup
Je prépare un voyage en Inde du Nord (Rajasthan, vallée du Gange avec Varanasi (Benares)).
Mon agence de voyage me propose deux TO, Asia avec le circuit "Saris et Saddhus" et Salaun avec le circuit "l'inde du nord et la vallée du Gange". J'ai déjà voyagé au Sri Lanka et en Inde du Sud avec Asia. Les voyages se sont très bien passés.
Je ne connais pas Salaun Holidays. Leur circuit semble plus complet avec une journée de détente (16 jours sur place) . Voyage avec Air France.
Est ce qu'un de membre de ce forum a fait le circuit "l'inde du Nord et la vallée du Gange" avec Salaun? Puis je avoir votre avis sur le TO Salaun Holidays?
Merci beaucoup
Hi there.
We’re heading to India at the end of December for a month.
I planned an itinerary: Delhi, Nawalgarh, Sikar, Jodhpur, Udaipur, Chittaurgarh, Bundi, Jaipur, Bharatpur, and back to Delhi.
Our driver told us it’s not possible because there are no roads.
He’s suggesting the usual tourist circuit, which we don’t want to do.
What do you think of my route?
Any tips?
Thanks, community!
Hello,
We’re a group of 4 looking for a driver and car for our stay in Kerala from November 22 to December 12, 2025. We’ve already planned an itinerary starting from Cochin.
We’ve traveled with a driver before during our trip to Rajasthan.
Thanks for your replies!
Yves
Hi everyone,
we’re heading to Tamil Nadu and Kerala at the start of the year for 30 days. We did Rajasthan 12 years ago, but things change fast.
I’ve read that to get a SIM card, you have to buy it at a shop and then go to the operator to get a number; you’d also need an Indian mobile number. Has anyone here had recent experience with this?
For buses and trains, do you need to book them well in advance?
Any tips are welcome—thanks in advance!
Happy holidays to all,
Philippe
Hi everyone! 🙂
My partner (who’s a teacher—hence the summer holidays) and I are heading to Eastern India for 23 days in July. This is my 5th trip to India, but her first.
We fly into Delhi on July 7th and leave from Delhi on the 23rd (since our flight to Kolkata arrived late at night, and I wanted to show Agra and Varanasi to my partner).
We love getting off the beaten track and meeting people, so we’ll mostly be taking the train.
Here’s what we’re planning:
- **DELHI**: 1 night on the way (short because the plane is supposed to land at 01:55), then we take the train at 13:00 - **GWALIOR**: 3 nights, including a day trip to **AGRA** by train to see the Taj Mahal and the Red Fort (I find Agra too touristy to stay overnight). Otherwise, in Gwalior, the Fort, the temples, the Man Mandir Palace, and the Jai Vilas Palace if we have time. - **ORCHHA**: 2 nights... *maybe skip this to spend more time in VARANASI?* - **VARANASI**: overnight train + 3 nights, the Ghats, temples... maybe a day trip to **SARNATH**. - **KOLKATA**: overnight train + 3 nights. Maybe a countryside excursion to the ashram in Channa. *- Here we’re hesitating over 2 nights: either 2 nights in **SHANTINIKETAN** with a visit to **CHANNA** on the way, or a 2-day excursion to the **SUNDARBAN** nature park. But is it worth it in July during the monsoon?* - **PURI**: overnight train + 4 nights. *We’re planning to do everything from Puri, as it seems nicer than staying in BHUBANESWAR. What do you think?* Visit **KONARK** and **CHILIKA LAKE**. *Is it worth visiting Chilika Lake this season? Another question: can you swim in Puri, or is it too dangerous (waves)?* - Train to **BHUBANESWAR**, then a flight from BHUBANESWAR to **DELHI**, - 2 nights in **DELHI**, visiting Jama Masjid, and *either Humayun’s Tomb, Safdarjung’s Tomb, or Qutb Minar.*
Back to Paris. Total: 23 nights.
What do you think of these choices? What about the options we’re still unsure about *(in bold/italics)*? Thanks so much! 🙂
We fly into Delhi on July 7th and leave from Delhi on the 23rd (since our flight to Kolkata arrived late at night, and I wanted to show Agra and Varanasi to my partner).
We love getting off the beaten track and meeting people, so we’ll mostly be taking the train.
Here’s what we’re planning:
- **DELHI**: 1 night on the way (short because the plane is supposed to land at 01:55), then we take the train at 13:00 - **GWALIOR**: 3 nights, including a day trip to **AGRA** by train to see the Taj Mahal and the Red Fort (I find Agra too touristy to stay overnight). Otherwise, in Gwalior, the Fort, the temples, the Man Mandir Palace, and the Jai Vilas Palace if we have time. - **ORCHHA**: 2 nights... *maybe skip this to spend more time in VARANASI?* - **VARANASI**: overnight train + 3 nights, the Ghats, temples... maybe a day trip to **SARNATH**. - **KOLKATA**: overnight train + 3 nights. Maybe a countryside excursion to the ashram in Channa. *- Here we’re hesitating over 2 nights: either 2 nights in **SHANTINIKETAN** with a visit to **CHANNA** on the way, or a 2-day excursion to the **SUNDARBAN** nature park. But is it worth it in July during the monsoon?* - **PURI**: overnight train + 4 nights. *We’re planning to do everything from Puri, as it seems nicer than staying in BHUBANESWAR. What do you think?* Visit **KONARK** and **CHILIKA LAKE**. *Is it worth visiting Chilika Lake this season? Another question: can you swim in Puri, or is it too dangerous (waves)?* - Train to **BHUBANESWAR**, then a flight from BHUBANESWAR to **DELHI**, - 2 nights in **DELHI**, visiting Jama Masjid, and *either Humayun’s Tomb, Safdarjung’s Tomb, or Qutb Minar.*
Back to Paris. Total: 23 nights.
What do you think of these choices? What about the options we’re still unsure about *(in bold/italics)*? Thanks so much! 🙂
hi everyone, I’m putting together an itinerary for Sri Lanka in September 2026, so I’m focusing on the east side of the island because of the monsoon on the west coast:
Day 1 Kandy: botanical garden, fruit and vegetable market, traditional dance show
Day 2 Kandy-Ella train
Day 3-4 Kumana NP or Lunugamvehera Block 6+5
Day 5-6 Komari / Pottuvi lagoon safari
Day 7 head up the east coast along the beaches to reach Wasgamuwa NP
Day 8 Wasgamuwa NP early morning safari, then Polonnaruwa (temple and palace)
Day 9-10 Sigiriya Lion’s Rock and Dambulla, cave temple
Day 11-12 Wilpattu NP early morning safari, then late afternoon
Day 13-14 Kalpitiya, snorkeling and chilling
Day 15 return to Colombo
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on whether this route is doable—we’ll be traveling with a driver-guide.
Feel free to mention any great tips or good homestay experiences you’ve had, since we prefer those.
Hi everyone, Kerala experts (especially Marien!)
In January, I’m planning another trip to Kerala. We’ll arrive in Kochi and travel up the coast by train to Gokarna.
So I’m reaching out to ask if it’s worth stopping for a few days in any of the following spots (not all, of course—just one or two that are really worth it...). From what I’ve seen, few Western tourists stop along this coast, given how little info there is about it:
Mahe, Thalassery, Taliparamba, Nileshwar, Bekal, Kasaragod
I’m not mentioning Kannur because we’ve already been there, specifically Thottada Beach, and we’re familiar with the southern destinations (Trivandrum, Kovalam, etc.).
Thanks for your replies!
Anne
Hello,
My husband and I usually spend a month in January/February in southern India. We end our trip in Gokarna and fly back from Vasco de Gama Airport in Dabolim. So, it might make sense to spend a few days in a nice, quiet spot in southern Goa. Do you have any recommendations?
Thanks
Hi there,
I’d like to head to Upper Dolpo in September/October 2026.
Does anyone know the current state of the roads in the area?
Specifically for getting from Saldang to Dho Tarap.
Also, what do you think about the weather between September 20th and October 20th?
Any tips would be much appreciated.
I’ve already checked out the info on Martinpierre’s site—it’s super detailed about the region, but the details are a bit outdated.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
Thierry




