M'étant récemment inscrit sur plusieurs sites d'Au Pair je recherchais des familles sur Londres mais j'ai été plus souvent contacté par des familles Américaines. Après avoir vérifié par de nombreux mails qu'il ne s'agissait pas d'une énième arnaque j'ai commencé à me renseigner sur comment partir aux U.S.A. et il y a quelque chose que je n'arrive pas à définir et j'aimerai avoir votre avis avant de dépense 15 euros d'appel téléphonique à l'Ambassade des Etats-unis à Paris. Bref...
Peut-on obtenir un visa de travail en tant qu'Au Pair sans passer par une agence ? J'ai lu beaucoup de sites qui ne cessent de me dire qu'il faut passer par une agence pour être Au Pair mais d'après ma famille d'accueil il suffit qu'ils me fournissent ce qu'ils appellent "invitation letters" et "contract letters". Est-ce vrai ? Est-ce qu'alors je peut faire ma demande à l'ambassade ou doit on tous s'inscrire dans une agence en espérant qu'elle veule bien faire l'intermédiaire.
merci d'avoir pris le temps de me lire. J'espère que vous saurez éclairer ma lanterne.
Pour être légalement au pair, tu dois obtenir un visa (J1). Et dans ce but, tu dois passer par un organisme. Le site de l'ambassade est clair sur ce sujet: "Un visa de la catégorie « J » est requis dans les cas suivants : participation à un programme d’échange, recherche, assistanat, études médicales, job d’été, stages (rémunérés ou non) et au pair."
A mon avis, la famille que tu as trouvée voudrait que tu viennes sous visa touristique (d'où le fait qu'ils veuillent te fournir une "invitation letter") mais travailler avec ce type visa est illégal.
Aurore t’a donné la réponse.
Pour être au pair aux USA il faut le visa J1 et pour obtenir le visa J1 il faut passer par un organisme officiel : CALVIN THOMAS, STS, APIA, Cultural Care….
Visiblement ta famille n’a pas envie de passer par un organisme….
Sans visa tu ne peux pas être au pair légalement. Si tu pars sous le programme d’exemption de visa (90 jours maximum ET interdiction de travailler) tu travailleras illégalement (au black) avec tous les risques que cela entraine : pas de contrat de travail… pas d’assurances…. personne si ça se passe mal sur place…..
Et les « invitation letters » et « contract letters »….
Là ils se moquent de toi. Tu n’as pas besoin d’une lettre d’invitation pour aller aux USA…. Et les « contract letters » c’est quoi ? Un contrat de travail ? Il te servira à quoi ton contrat si la famille ne le respecte pas ?
Si tu acceptes de partir sans organisme, qu’est ce que la famille paye ?
Les billets d’avion ? Les assurances ? Tu toucheras combien ? Tu travailleras combien d’heures par jour/semaine ?
L’organisme n’est pas uniquement là pour l’obtention du visa, ils sont aussi là pour s’occuper de toi sur place.
Pour être au pair :
Il faut le BAC ou une équivalence et le permis de conduire. Tu passeras un entretien en anglais et des tests psychologiques.
Si ton dossier est accepté, il te faudra les références de 3 familles (autres que ta famille) où tu as gardé des enfants, et pour t'occuper d'enfants de moins de 2 ans, il faut en avoir gardé pendant un certain nombre d'heures (il me semble que c'est 200 heures mini).
Actuellement les au pairs touchent 195$ la semaine (montant fixé par le gouvernement américain) pour 45 heures maxi par semaine. Et tu as 2 semaines de congés payés pendant ton année. Si tu ne travailles que 30 heures, tu toucheras la même paye.....
Si tu t'occupes d'enfants scolarisés, tu auras du temps de libre pendant tes journées, mais la famille pourra te demander de travailler le samedi. Si tu t'occupes de petits, tu feras tes 45 heures pendant la semaine, mais en principe tu seras tranquille les WE.
Tu auras un visa pour une durée d'1 an, mais tu pourras prolonger ton séjour d'un mois, le 13ème mois, pour voyager aux USA.
Ton année d'au pair peut être prolongée de 6 mois ou 1 an, donc 2 ans au total.
Je viens de regarder ton profil, j'aurais du commencer par là....😊
La réponse reste la même. Mais certains organismes (Calvin Thomas par ex) ne prennent que des filles...
Pour les garçons, le BAFA est souvent demandé en plus. Il me semble que STS prends des garçons.
Va sur le forum des au pairs aux USA (même si c'est plus un forum de nanas....) tu trouveras les réponses à tes questions.
C'est très dangereux pour toi, car tu n'as aucune protection légale. Tu es un immigré sans papier, illégal, ils peuvent donc faire n'importe quoi y comprsi travailler 12 heures par jour sans aucun jour de repos et tu n'as aucune assurance ni de toucher ta paye, ni d'être soigné si tu es malade, ni qu'ils payent ton billet de retour, etc. Et bien sûr si l'agent des douanes est soupçonneux (ce qu'il sera certainement) c'est renvoi dans ton pays à tes frais avec interdiction de territoire pendant 10 ans.
Désolé j'ai juste eu besoin d'encaisser un peu le fait que de toute manière ça n'avait pas d'importance puisqu'il s'agissait d'un fake. Encore.
Merci pour vos messages, je ne me serai de toute façon pas lancé à corps perdu dans le premier avion pour les Etats-Unis, j'étais juste content de voir qu'une famille s'intéressait à moi. Mais comme je l'ai appris à mes dépends, c'est rarement le cas.
Peut-être qu'elle s'intéresse vraiment à toi mais rien que les frais à payer à l'organisme s'élèvent à plusieurs milliers de dollars pour la famille. Du coup, il y en a qui essaient de se passer de l'organisme ce qui ne veut pas dire qu'ils auraient été "affreux" avec toi. Mais effectivement, il faut ignorer ce type de famille car dans tous les cas tu seras perdant.
Désolé j'ai juste eu besoin d'encaisser un peu le fait que de toute manière ça n'avait pas d'importance puisqu'il s'agissait d'un fake. Encore.
Désolée pour toi 😕
Mais comme le dit Aurore, vaut mieux passer par une agence qui s'occupe de te trouver une famille au pair. Oui, pour la famille cela signifie une grande dépense, mais je pense que des parents sérieux, qui tiennent à recruter une candidate qualifiée et évaluée par un organisme pour s'occuper de leurs rejetons (après tout, il s'agit de leurs enfants!!) seront prêts à payer ce qu'il faut.
Et toi, tu auras une sécurité.
Bonne chance!
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"Candidat" serait plus approprié et c'est d'ailleurs pourquoi je ne peut pas passer par une agence. Il y en a très peu qui prennent des garçons. Pourtant j'ai déjà travaillé en tant qu'au pair à Londres mais bon...
"Candidat" serait plus approprié et c'est d'ailleurs pourquoi je ne peut pas passer par une agence. Il y en a très peu qui prennent des garçons. Pourtant j'ai déjà travaillé en tant qu'au pair à Londres mais bon...
Pour les garçons, il y a des programmes qui acceptent les candidatures 😉
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