A t'entendre, tu connais tous les rouages de la société, tout ce que le monde pense, tout ce que les gens sont. Tu généralises bien trop mon pauvre. Enfin, s'il n'y avait que ça qui n'allait pas chez toi... 😉
Chez les Algonquins et les Iroquois, et d'autres amérindiens, on appelle ou appellait parfois les québecois et d'autres "américains / canadiens", les "barbares venus de l'est" ;)
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Tu suscites de vives réactions ! ( Dès que ça remet en questions des façons de fonctionner , c'est ce qui arrive...)
Tes propos dérangent quelque peu. Je te considère comme un éveilleur de conscience. Je te rejoins dans ta démarche.
Lecteurs ouverts d'esprits et curieux ! , voici un lien qui peut permettre que ça fasse tilt dans nos têtes : http://youtu.be/TfCgdOfdYKw
C'est : Indigné ! , et après ?
Depuis longtemps le pétrole (et leurs rois) auraient dû laisser de la place à d'autres sources d'énergies...
Sur dailymotion : "appel à la libération de l'énergie libre". (j'aime bien les dernières phrases de Mr Hatem, à la 13 ème minute)
S'interroger , c'est quand même une idée intéressante !
Autres liens qui permet cela : http://youtu.be/POqe3DY_kEs (ce n'est qu'un extrait de film, mais c'est assez éclairant. Il y a une phrase que je retiens :"La vérité est tellement sinistre que personne ne veut en entendre parler." ) (ce lien ne fonctionne pas ? , "en manuel" ça le fait encore : sur you tube : "Energie libre Les injustices commises contre l'humanité". )
http://youtu.be/_CvfyuL9bDk (Intéressant le discours de Pierre Rabhi ! )
Une chose est quasi certaine , je penses qu'on se rejoint tous sur le fait du "délire de notre société de consommation".
Ne serions nous pas , nous globalement : asservi, esclave ...?!
Interrogeons- nous ! Et interrogeons nous sur tout.
Avoir un échange courtois , serein , même si nos points de vue sont différents , quelle classe ! , un art !
Une chose est quasi certaine , je penses qu'on se rejoint tous sur le fait du "délire de notre société de consommation".
Ne serions nous pas , nous globalement : asservi, esclave ...?!
Non, je ne suis pas esclave tout en appréciant consommer...
On en revient à un constat fait plus tôt : tu rejettes tout mais tu as quand même un ordinateur construit en Chine probablement par des gens un peu exploités, tu as sûrement un téléphone portable également, et tu utilises de l'électricité, donc des centrales nucléaires, pour faire fonctionner tout ça... Tu es dans le système, comme tout le monde.
Perso, je n'ai aucun problème de conscience vis à vis de tout ça. Il y a des choses bien plus importantes à régler dans la vie que de se forcer à aller contre ses envies voire ses besoins...
Pour moi la vie, c'est avoir le moins de contraintes possible. Mais si tu veux, tu peux t'en imposer, ça n'empêchera pas la Chine, l'Inde et de nombreux autres pays en explosion économique de réduire à néant de minuscules efforts (parfois contre-productifs d'ailleurs, comme le bonus-malus pour les bagnoles) faits en Europe...
Tu suscites de vives réactions ! ( Dès que ça remet en questions des façons de fonctionner , c'est ce qui arrive...)
Tes propos dérangent quelque peu. Je te considère comme un éveilleur de conscience. Je te rejoins dans ta démarche.
Eveilleur de conscience, hum... vraiment ? 😕
Avant de mettre certains ici sur le même pied que... Pierre Rabhi, par exemple, je t'invite à (re)lire plus attentivement leurs propos et la manière dont ils déroulent une argumentation.
Quant à la tienne d'argumentation... quelle est-elle, au delà des quelques liens que tu indiques ?
Les gens sont toujours "esclaves"' de ce ou ceux dont dépendent leurs plaisirs, besoins ou bonheur, sauf si cela ne dépend de rien ni personne pour eux bien sûr (à part eux-même peut-être) 😉
Que ce soit en terme de transports, alimentation, santé, relations, "amours", désirs etc;
L'autarcie complete est impossible sur terre, si on considère que même l'air, l'eau, la nourriture, sont des sources "exterieures" à soi, dont le corps physique a besoin pour survivre jusqu'aux jours prochains;
Mais à la base, ces "sources extérieures" ne sont pas tributaires de l'argent, ni d'autres êtres humains; L'air pur et l'eau sont donnés par la nature, la nourriture aussi à la base; et pour se déplacer, l'homme a pendant des millénaires vécu sans voitures, pétroles, ordinateurs, barraques en béton, etc;
Il vivait (vit encore pour certains), à pieds, ou à cheval, en canoé, pirogues, se construisait lui-même ses abris ou cabanes; cueillait, pêchait, ou chassait, bref, il avait une forme de liberté, qui dépendait beaucoup moins d'un système ou société pour vivre;
Voir sur ce sujet, "le discours sur l'origine des inégalités parmi les hommes" de Rousseau, texte qui date pas mal, mais dont certaines visions sont toujours d'actualité;
Tu ne te sens pas dépendant des "fournisseurs de voiture et de pétrole", entre autre, mais si ils refusaient de te les fournir, ou sont libres d'augmenter comme il le veulent leurs prix, tu es donc tributaire de leurs bons vouloirs; y compris financiers ! Si ça ne te pose pas de problèmes de conscience, tant mieux ou tant pis pour toi ;)
Un extrait de philosophie grecque pour méditer 😉
"Un soir, dégustant un simple plat de lentilles, Diogène fut abordé par Aristippe, un illustre philosophe qui menait une brillante existence à la cour. Aristippe lui dit : "Si tu flattais le roi, à mon exemple, tu n'en serais pas à bouffer des lentilles."
Diogène lui rétorqua du tac au tac : "Si tu te contentais de lentilles pour ton repas, tu n'aurais pas à lécher les pieds du roi avant de bouffer à sa table et d'entendre les fadaises de ses courtisans !"."
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Tu exposes une vision bien étroite du monde dans lequel tu évolues... et ce monde tel que tu nous le rabâches n'est pas tout à fait comme cela...
Entre les uns et les autres, entre soi et les autres... il existe autre chose que des rapports de force, de dépendance, d'asservissement.
Tu sembles ne pas savoir, ne pas connaître cela.
Le regard que tu penses être lucide, libre... est au contraire limité par des oeillères. Il est tourné vers un passé que tu idéalises, quelque chose qui n'a jamais été tel que tu t'obstines à nous le présenter.
Lorsqu'une cause est juste, elle ne nécessite pas de dépenser tant d'énergie pour la rendre présentable...
Lève le nez de tes bouquins mal assimilés, ouvre la fenêtre et aère un peu. Dehors il y a du soleil.
Je n'ai rien à justifier ou affirmer pour moi-même;
Tu crois que je donne mes avis pour "m'estimer" moi-même ?
Tu te trompes;
Je donne ces avis comme des gouttes d'eau ou de sables dans les rouages d'une société qui détruit la terre; et je les donne non pas pour moi, mais pour la terre, la nature, et tous les êtres qui y vivent;
Et pour être honnête j'ai posté le premier message après avoir entendu des infos récentes sur le réchauffement climatique; Il y a des causes qui nous tiennent plus à coeur que pour d'autres; Pour d'autres ce sera le mariage gay, le droit de boire des bières au night clubs, ou la crise économique !
Mais c'est sur qu'un gars avec famille à gérer et faire vivre, qui bosse toute l'année "pour le système", n'a surement que peu de temps à accorder ou penser à la défense active ou même verbale de la biosphère;
Etant pour ma part en grande partie hors de ce système, donc plus libre de ce point de vue, je peux consacrer un peu plus de mon temps pour ça, ça fait parti de mon "travail à rebours" du système, chacun travaille comme il veut ou peut 😉
Mais je suis conscient que c'est une goutte d'eau dans le désert; Le soleil brille, mais il y a des nuages à l'horizon _/)
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Mais à la base, ces "sources extérieures" ne sont pas tributaires de l'argent, ni d'autres êtres humains; L'air pur et l'eau sont donnés par la nature, la nourriture aussi à la base; et pour se déplacer, l'homme a pendant des millénaires vécu sans voitures, pétroles, ordinateurs, barraques en béton, etc
La vie en harmonie avec la nature ne se résume pas à "l'âge des cavernes" , loin de là 😉
Il y a beaucoup de façons de le vivre;
Et chez le primate "moderne" en costard cravate, même enrobé de principes et d'hypocrisie, il reste la "bête" qui existait déjà à cette période; et pas seulement pour assurer germaine dans la caverne !
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Croire faire parti du système, ou croire être obligé de suivre un système ou d'en faire parti pour vivre,
voilà une bien plus grande illusion 😉
C'est la principale qui t'empêche de t'en détacher et d'etre vraiment libre
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Ton problème c'est que tu es toujours dans le jugement, et tu poses trop facilement des étiquettes, sans réellement connaitre "l'autre", et d'autres ici l'ont fait remarqué pour eux; Tu es donc loin d'être libre
Quant à moi, je ne me défini pas par rapport à la société, d'ailleurs la réalité échappe à toute définition
Neti, neti,
c'est ma devise 😉
Ni ceci, ni cela
C'est l'amour fou entre kola et roulelemonde !
on part quand tous les deux en voyage ? 😄
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Ton problème c'est que tu es toujours dans le jugement, et tu poses trop facilement des étiquettes, sans réellement connaitre "l'autre", et d'autres ici l'ont fait remarqué pour eux;
Roulelemonde, tu ne t'en rends pas compte, mais tu viens de faire ta propre description 😛 !
Dépersonnalise un peu l'échange, et réalise ce que tes messages contiennent et ce qu'ils révèlent de toi.
Nul jugement dans mes propos. Juste un miroir tendu...
Tu ne t'en rends certainement pas compte, vu qu'il est plus facile de juger l'autre que soi,
mais c'est à chaque fois toi, qui te permet de juger mes messages, et l'auteur des messages aussi, alors que je ne m'adresse pas à toi personnellement; Je ne fais que te rendre la pareille; Qui cherche, trouve
Aucun miroir tendu chez toi, (car un miroir n'a aucune prétention ou avis) juste une arrogance que je te renvoie dans la face (mais j'ai l'habitude avec les...) 😉
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Fuis moi, je te suis, suis moi je te fuis,
Combien de fois j'ai pu vérifier ça avec les femmes !
Surtout quand on en veut plus 😄
Allez ferme la une bonne fois pour toute avec moi et mes messages,
ça me fera déjà de belles vacances 😉
Salut
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Surtout quand on vit hors du système et qu'on ne cherche pas de vie de couple, ni mariage et autres gamins,
ça ne le fait pas souvent 😎, et c'est souvent réciproque, vu le comportement de la plupart des "homoindustrialis" soit disant modernes, males mais aussi femelles !
Peu sont vraiment interessant(e)s de nos jours, voire pire;
J'ai d'autres "chats à fouetter", aujourd'hui ma préoccupation principale est de vivre libre, et de défendre la nature, les ours polaires et toutes les causes non perdues, qui en valent la peine, ce qui est assez antinomique avec la société des singes urbain(e)s à valises, et autres êtres de peu d'amour 😉
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
J'ai survolé la discussion (il y en a quand même 10 pages) et plusieurs points m'interpellent. Tu vis où ? Et de quoi vis-tu ? (quelles sont tes ressources ?)
J'ai survolé la discussion (il y en a quand même 10 pages) et plusieurs points m'interpellent. Tu vis où ? Et de quoi vis-tu ? (quelles sont tes ressources ?)
Plusieurs questions, une seule réponse : sa tête !
(bon d'accord : l'est pas tout seul là-dedans !) 🤪
Où suis-je ?
Que vis-je ?
Dans quel état je gère ?
Quel est ce chemin sans fin ?
Pourquoi vivre si c'est pour mourir ? (mangé par nos amis les vers de terre)
Pourquoi tout ça ?
Le but ?
Qui sommes nous sur terre ?
Du vent, de la poussière ?
Mais qui êtes-vous ?
Ne vous inquietez pas, je suis là
Pour répondre (quand même par politesse) à mes dé-tracteurs (avec ou sans voitures),
je rejoins des avis de Soyonsprécis, mais je ne suis ni un agitateur, ni indigné, à la limite "provocateur", mais je ne suis pas militant revendiquant;
Ceux qui s'agitent, s'indignent, se révoltent, attendent toujours d'une façon ou d'une autre, quelquechose de la société ou du système envers lequel ils s'indignent, alors que certains n'attendent rien, ou vraiment peu ! de tous ces systèmes; au contraire; à part qu'on leur fiche la paix peut-être 🙂
Donc peut-être une forme de provocation, ou taper dans la fourmilière histoire de réveiller le convois qui va.... on ne sait où.
Et aussi pour parler de ce que cela détruit : la nature, la liberté souvent, la paix, les gens eux-même;
Je ne suis pas exemplaire pour autant, loin de là;
Mais je n'ai rien à faire de ce mode de vie, il ne m'interesse pas, et ne me plait pas, c'est tout
Et quand on remet en cause les transports à base de pétrole, ce sur quoi est basé en grande part aujourd'hui ce même système, il est normal que ça dérange les consciences, alors ils vont chercher à remettre en question le questionneur, ou le critiquer, jusqu'à (pourquoi pas) le juger fou ou autre; Ca s'est fait si souvent; Mais ils oublient au passage que leur société est très certainement bien plus folle; malade d'avidité, qui rend malade la terre, et les gens qui y sont aussi parfois;
Vue du ciel, des extraterrestres trouveront certainement que ce que l'humain fait de la terre, n'est pas le "progrès", mais un vaste saccage et irrespect pour Gaia
Hugh
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
‘’Now observe that in all the propaganda of the ecologists—amidst all their appeals to nature and pleas for “harmony with nature”—there is no discussion of man’s needs and the requirements of his survival. Man is treated as if he were an unnatural phenomenon. Man cannot survive in the kind of state of nature that the ecologists envision—i.e., on the level of sea urchins or polar bears . . . .
In order to survive, man has to discover and produce everything he needs, which means that he has to alter his background and adapt it to his needs. Nature has not equipped him for adapting himself to his background in the manner of animals. From the most primitive cultures to the most advanced civilizations, man has had to manufacture things; his well-being depends on his success at production. The lowest human tribe cannot survive without that alleged source of pollution: fire. It is not merely symbolic that fire was the property of the gods which Prometheus brought to man. The ecologists are the new vultures swarming to extinguish that fire.
Without machines and technology, the task of mere survival is a terrible, mind-and-body-wrecking ordeal. In “nature, ” the struggle for food, clothing and shelter consumes all of a man’s energy and spirit; it is a losing struggle—the winner is any flood, earthquake or swarm of locusts. To work only for bare necessities is a luxury that mankind cannot afford.’’
‘’Observons maintenant toute la propagande des écologistes--parmi tout leurs appels à la nature et arguments pour ‘’ l’harmonie avec la nature’’--il n’y a aucune discussion possible sur les besoins de l’homme et les exigences pour sa survie. L’homme y est traité comme s‘il était un phénomène non naturel. L’homme ne peut survivre de manière naturelle en l’état prévu par les écologistes--i.e., au niveau des oursins de mer ou des ours polaires....
Afin de survivre, l’homme doit découvrir et produire pour toutes ses nécessités, ce qui signifie qu’il doit altérer son environnement et l’adapter à ses besoins. La nature ne l’a pas équipé pour s’y adapter à la manière des animaux. Depuis les plus primitives cultures jusqu’aux civilisations les plus avancées, l’homme a du manufacturer les choses; son bien-être dépends de ses succès dans la production. La plus humble tribu ne peut survivre sans cette source de pollution alléguée: le feu. Il n’est pas seulement symbolique que le feu fut la propriété des dieux lequel fut apporté à l’homme par Prométhé. Les écologistes sont les nouveaux vautours essaimant pour éteindre ce feu.
Sans les machines et la technologie, la tâche d’une simple survie est un terrible calvaire de démolition pour l’esprit et le corps. Dans la ‘’nature’’ la lutte pour se nourrir, se vêtir et se trouver un abri consomme toute l’énergie et l’esprit d’un homme; c’est une bataille perdue—peu importe, le gagnant est une inondation, un tremblement de terre, un essaim de criquets. Travailler uniquement pour ses besoins vitaux est un luxe que l’humanité ne peut se permettre.’’
Ayn Rand, Return of the Primitive: The Anti-Industrial Revolution.
‘’Ecology as a social principle . . . condemns cities, culture, industry, technology, the intellect, and advocates men’s return to “nature, ” to the state of grunting subanimals digging the soil with their bare hands.’’
‘’L’écologie comme principe social… condamne les villes, la culture, l’industrie, la technologie, l’intellect, et plaide en faveur du retour des hommes à la ‘’nature, ’’ en l’état de sous-animaux grognant et creusant le sol de leurs mains nues.’’
Ayn Rand, The Ayn Rand Letter, “The Lessons of Vietnam, ”
DeCléricy, traduction libre.
J’en appelle à vous ô Muses
Où tant ma vie passe et s’use
Qu’encore et toujours j’aime
Mes soeurs Galère et Bohème
Salut Marcel !
Tu sembles préfèrer Hobbes à Rousseau...tantpis !
"Voyez Mes frères, le printemps est venu ; la terre a reçu l'étreinte du soleil, et nous verrons bientôt les fruits de cet amour! Chaque graine s'éveille et de même chaque animal prend vie.C'est à ce mystérieux pouvoir que nous devons nous aussi notre existence ;c'est pourquoi nous concédons à nos voisins, même à nos voisins animaux, le même droit qu'à nous d'habiter cette terre. Pourtant, écoutez-moi, vous tous, nous avons maintenant affaire à une autre race, petite faible quand nos pères l'on rencontrée pour la première fois, mais aujourd'hui grande et arrogante. Assez étrangement, ils ont dans l'idée de cultiver le sol et l'amour de posséder est chez eux une maladie. Ces gens-là ont établi beaucoup de règles que les riches peuvent briser mais non les pauvres. Ils prélèvent des taxes sur les pauvres et les faibles pour entretenir les riches qui gouvernent.Ils revendiquent notre mère à tous, la terre, pour leur propres usages et se barricadent contre leurs voisins ; ils la défigurent avec leurs constructions et leurs ordures.Cette nation est pareille à un torrent de neige fondue qui sort de son lit et détruit tout sur son passage. Nous ne pouvons vivre côte à côte."
Sitting bull - Tatanka yotanka
"Nous étions un peuple sans lois, mais nous étions en très bons termes avec Le Grand Esprit, créateur et maître de toute chose. Vous présumiez que nous étions des sauvages. Vous ne compreniez pas nos prières.Vous n'essayiez pas de les comprendre. Lorsque nous chantions nos louanges au soleil, à la lune ou au vent, vous nous traitiez d'idolâtres. Sans comprendre, vous nous avez condamnés comme des âmes perdues, simplement parce que notre religion était différente de la vôtre.Nous voyions la main du Grand Esprit dans presque tout : le soleil, la lune, les arbres, le vent et les montagnes, parfois nous l'approchions par leur intermédiaire. Etait-ce si mal? Je pense que nous croyons sincèrement en l'Etre suprême : d'une foi plus forte que celle de bien des Blancs qui nous ont traités de païens...Les indiens vivant près de la nature et du Maître de la nature ne vivent pas dans l'obscurité.Saviez-vous que les arbres parlent? Ils le font pourtant! Ils se parlent entre eux et ils vous parleront si vous écoutez. L'ennui avec les Blancs, c'est qu'ils n'écoutent pas! Ils n'ont jamais écouté les Indiens, aussi je suppose qu'ils n'écouteront pas les autres voix de la nature. Pourtant, les arbres m'ont beaucoup appris : tantôt sur le temps, tantôt sur les animaux, tantôt sur le Grand Esprit."
Chef Seattle
Roulelemonde, autre avis libre
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Ce n'est pas tant tes idées sur l'écologie qui te sont reprochées car certaines questions peuvent être posées et méritent qu'on en débattent mais plutôt ta façon de te croire hors du lot en te considérant ou t'identifiant ( inconsciemment)à un prophète et en nous livrant les écrits des gourous ou des chefs de tribus Amérindiennes et en nous ressassant les conduites de vie qu'il conviendrait selon toi de suivre alors que tu es comme tout le monde dans le même système. Même si tu as été mis un peu à l'écart de ce système par manque de compétences ou de moyens ce qui revient au même.. On voit très bien que tu n'a pas vraiment le choix.. c'est un peu la fable du Renard et des raisins...Il est facile de se passer du matériel, du superflu et de vivre chichement et faire la morale aux autres quand on n'a pas d'autre choix..il est plus difficile pour quelqu'un qui a vécu avec de gros moyens , de l'argent, du pouvoir, qui a été quelque part performant de tout abandonner pour aller vivre dans les bois.. personnellement des individus de cette catégorie je n'en connais pas...
Si tu avais eu des parents dans la misère et que tu avais trouvé les moyens de t'en sortir tu considérerais les choses sous un tout autre autre aspect.
La solution serait pour toi de sortir de ton ornière et de "réussir" matériellement ou même simplement comme la moyenne puis ensuite de renoncer à tout..Pas facile ça!
Même si tu as été mis un peu à l'écart de ce système par manque de compétences ou de moyens ce qui revient au même.. On voit très bien que tu n'a pas vraiment le choix..
Détrompes toi, c'est de moi-même et par moi-même que j'ai préféré quitter, en grande part, "le système", il y a un bail, et chaque jour qui passe me conforte dans mes choix, et ne laisse place à aucun regret, quand je vois où va la société d'ici ou d'ailleurs;
Aucune envie d'y revenir;
Et quand on voit le comportement général des êtres humains ou certains humains en particulier, entre eux, envers ceux qui sont en dehors, comme envers la terre;
Tu peux bosser pour le système toute ta vie et cramer ton argent en accumulant les billets d'avion (et la nature avec), mais rien de tout ça ne t'apportera la liberté, ni le bonheur réel
Va toujours par le chemin le plus court, et le plus court est le chemin tracé par la nature
Aucun historien vivant ou mort n’est assez dupe pour croire ces paroles que Sitting Bull aurait prétendument prononcées.
Sitting Bull s’exprimait dans sa langue le Lushootseed, lui-même traduit en jargon Chinook pour ensuite nous parvenir en une traduction en anglais et finalement la version française que tu nous présente ici.
Du grand n’importe quoi déformé et galvaudé par de prétendus biographes, eux-mêmes doués de fertiles talents littéraires à l’imagination débordante pour le salut d’abrutis zélottes buvant ces paroles dans leurs céréales du matin.
N’est-ce pas ce même Sitting Bull et ce même Chief Seatle qui disposait d’esclaves à leurs services pour eux et leurs familles? Esclaves issus des butins de guerres entre tribus à l’époque?
Devenaient esclaves tout indivudu né de l’union de précédents esclaves. Ainsi ce perpétuait la tradition parmi les trois classes de citoyens (les nobles, issus des familles dirigeantes, les guerriers issus de la plèbe courante et les esclaves) du temps de la jeunesse de Sitting Bull et de Chief Seatle.
DeCléricy
J’en appelle à vous ô Muses
Où tant ma vie passe et s’use
Qu’encore et toujours j’aime
Mes soeurs Galère et Bohème
De toute façon, la fin du pétrole, c'est pas demain la veille - on a maintenant découvert le gas de schiste, nouvelle source abondante d'hydrocarbures. Ouf !
Et les gisements les plus importants sont dans des pays amis, tels les Etats-Unis - ce qui ne gâte rien ...
on a maintenant découvert le gas de schiste, nouvelle source abondante d'hydrocarbures. Ouf !
Sans vouloir être un acharné de l'écologie c'est quand même pas la panacée! les conséquences pour l'environnement font un peu peur!j'espère qu'on trouvera mieux , dans un avenir proche, comme source d'énergie.
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Les russes ont le sentiment d'etre russe, d'appartenir a la "Mere Russie " depuis au moins le 9 ieme siecle, le francais depuis quand a -t-il le sentiment…
Alors que la planete souffre de pollution, je me demandais comment des gens "reflechis" (ce qui reste encore à demontrer) pouvaient a un moment se donner…
Hi! It was totally by chance that I stumbled upon VoyageForum (an ad online and a story lol), and I’ve been reading some really old posts from 2011 about Thai massage schools—discussions on how to get by, accommodation, prices, etc. It reminded me of my own experience: I kept things simple by staying with a local family during my entire trip. I only shared all the expenses with them, which, I’ll admit, was super cheap… and I often traveled with them, which naturally opened a lot of doors for me. To start, at the school in Salaya, my Thai friend immediately connected me with Teacher Phong (the school’s mentor and teacher of teachers, a former monk). I was supposed to join a group session with other foreigners, but for some reason I don’t know, I got two days of private lessons for free with this expert… incredible! And on top of that, he loved France! It was an amazing experience. I "discovered" massage by chance—the Thai family just told me: "Try it, you’ll see!" (I’d had a pretty intense massage in the capital before 😅… but the next day, I felt unbelievably great!))
Every morning, I’d take a taxi (chosen by the Thai family at prices that beat all the competition) to this school—I’ve forgotten the name of the little village now… right in the heart of the countryside. Then, in the evenings, I’d keep practicing massage on all the family members… and they’d teach me Thai at the same time!))
Since then, I’ve practiced a bit, with lots of positive feedback. Following Teacher Phong’s advice—he thought my pressure was deep, firm, and precise—he strongly encouraged me to take this seriously.
I love Thailand so much. It’s a whole different way of living… and it’s a real blessing, even if I couldn’t live there full-time. Anyway, that was an unforgettable memory, and sometimes the Thai family and I still say hi—from 2011, 2013… right up to today!
Hi everyone,
I’m Loulou, a French expat who’s been living in Southeast Asia for about fifteen years, currently in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. A passionate walker at heart, I’ve trekked in Nepal (Thorung La, Mardi Himal), India, Vietnam, and I’m still planning new hikes (Char Dham, Langtang, Annapurna).
I’ve just published my first travel journal, recounting three months of walking and encounters across India. A portion of the sales goes to an educational center I support in Kep, for children whose parents work in the salt marshes.
I’m also working on a second book about Nepal with a musician friend, focusing on the Mardi Himal trek—two independent perspectives on the same journey.
Happy to swap stories with you about the Himalayas, India, Southeast Asia, or just the urge to hit the road and walk far from home.
Safe travels,
Loulou
Who’d like to share their best and worst travel memories in a few lines?
For me, it’s watching the TAJ MAHAL at sunrise and getting chased by dogs at the top of a mountain pass in GREECE on the way back from ISTANBUL.
THANKS GUYS
"It seems to me that poverty would be less painful in the sun" wrote Aznavour...
Not sure...😕 Who can prove that people in hot countries are happier than others?
What do you think?
Is it better to live in Montpellier than in Lille?
Are the Pygmies happier than the Inuit?
Are Canadians less happy than the people of Louisiana?
Are there more French expats in hot countries?
And your travels? Do you choose your destinations based on the climate?
Do you rejoice when a bit of sunshine appears?
Hi everyone, just this once I’m not posting for a travel story, but to share a thought for Venezuela.
If you didn’t know—since it’s not making headlines—the country was hit by two 7.5-magnitude earthquakes last week. Over 2,200 people have died, more than 50,000 are missing, and some coastal towns have been completely destroyed.
Maybe when the scale of the humanitarian crisis becomes clear, our media will cover it a bit more... especially since earthquakes with this many casualties usually make the front page, but there’s been nothing in France.
So here’s a thought for this country, which, whatever you think of its politics, is a true jewel of South America, both for its landscapes and its people.
hi there
I’d like to invite you to discover my coastal province in central Vietnam: Quang Ngai.
This year, my province has really improved its infrastructure—mountains, countryside, and sea are all authentic here.
No harassers or thieves, and no Russians either.
A local lunch costs around 1 €.
A *** hotel room is about 25 €, and you can find hotels right on My Khe Beach.
We have a specialty: *banh xeo*—10 crepes for just 1.5 €.
You can rent motorbikes to explore the province and maybe visit the many ethnic minorities.
I live here—I’m not selling anything, but I can help if needed (my father-in-law is a traditional Vietnamese doctor and he’s very skilled).
Hi everyone! 😉
I’m Typhaine, 35 years old. Five years ago, I left France for a solo round-the-world trip—no planes, just a van, hitchhiking, cycling, and even a canoe in the Amazon! Today, I work as a naturalist guide in Argentine Patagonia.
Wherever I go, my compass stays the same: observing and photographing wildlife, which I deeply admire and respect.
My project: I’d love to share this experience through a sustainable, authentic, and immersive nature tourism initiative. But to build something meaningful, I need to understand how other nature enthusiasts experience their own adventures.
If you:
Are over 20 years old
Have a true passion for Nature
Have already taken at least one trip lasting more than 3 nights (in your country or abroad) in your life
Promise: I’m not selling anything, this isn’t marketing. Your answers are 100% anonymous and will only help me shape this wild project.
A huge thank you to everyone for your help and kindness! Looking forward to chatting in this thread 😛
(Dear admins, this is purely a collaborative effort for my project study, with no commercial purpose. Thank you so much for your support!)
Photo: Grizzly Bear (Ursus arctos horribilis), female on the left and her cub on the right. Photo taken by me in Alaska, Denali National Park.
It’s something we often notice in this forum—and many others—this behavioral shift.
A long-time member, or even a new one, asks a question.
They get one or more answers, some brief, some detailed, and then... nothing???
Not even a simple thank you!!!
From what I’ve gathered, if the answers don’t align with what they wanted to hear, it seems natural for the asker to just disappear!! 😕
Unless—(and I fear this is the case)—basic politeness is no longer part of our society????
I spent 3 weeks in Bali last summer (+ 3 nights on Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java). So I wanted to see what ChatGPT could suggest for comparison...
Here’s the prompt I gave:
"You’re a local expert guide for Bali.
- Plan a 20-day itinerary for Bali with a side trip to Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java without staying overnight.
- I’m traveling with my wife, and I love visiting historical sites, hiking, relaxing at the beach, snorkeling, and exploring rice terraces...
- For the duration of the stay, I don’t want more than 8 places to sleep, and I’d like to stay at least 2 days at each stop to avoid unpacking too often. Except for the last night, where I’m okay with just one night near the airport.
- I prefer neighborhoods that are walkable and try to avoid typical tourist traps, though I don’t want to miss the must-see spots. So suggest a mix of iconic sites and hidden gems.
- Recommend hotels or guesthouses with a budget of 50 to 100 € per night, including breakfast. Make suggestions in areas popular with travelers, specifying the vibe (I prefer quiet), and consider safety and proximity to attractions.
- For lunch and dinner, suggest two to three restaurants that are well-rated by customers.
- Give me a day-by-day program with details on travel times, visiting times for each point of interest, and recommendations for transportation (taxi, train, bike, etc.).
Estimate the total cost of the trip, including accommodations, food, transportation, and activities, and suggest two tips for saving money in each category.
- Don’t make anything up—be realistic about travel times, take into account the opening dates and hours of sites, and give me the entry fees for places to visit.
- Ask me all the questions until you’re 95% sure you understand what’s being asked. Don’t generate your response until you’ve understood."
The AI asked for a few clarifications:
"Great request—I can build you a really optimized and enjoyable itinerary, but to be 95% sure I hit the mark, I need a few key clarifications (this will really influence the pace, areas, and accommodations)."
In the end, it proposed a program very close to what we actually did.
I’ll skip its accommodation and restaurant suggestions...
Its proposal:
"Ubud (4 nights) => we did 5 nights
Sidemen (2 nights)
Amed (3 nights) => we’d planned 2 nights
Gili Meno (3 nights) => we did Gili between Sidemen and Amed
Munduk (3 nights) => we did 2 nights before Pemuteran
Pemuteran (3 nights) with Ijen => we did 4 nights
Sanur (2 nights + 1 last night) => we chose Jatiluwih instead of Sanur
It suggested "activities" (and accommodations too):
IN UBUD:
- Walk around central Ubud (1–2h)
- Campuhan Ridge Walk
- Tegalalang Rice Terrace
- Tirta Empul
- Gunung Kawi
- Massage / market / slow café
IN SIDEMEN:
- Rice terrace hike (2–3h)
- Cooking class
IN AMED:
- Snorkeling
- Japanese Shipwreck
- Beach + relaxation
- Volcano sunset
ON GILI:
- Snorkeling at Gili Meno Turtle Point, Nest Underwater Statues
IN MUNDUK:
- Jungle & waterfall hike - Munduk Waterfall + Melanting Waterfall
- Loop: 3–4h (perfect for your level)
- Ulun Danu Bratan Temple
- Twin Lakes
IN PEMUTERAN
- Snorkeling: Menjangan Island
For Kawah Ijen, it detailed the day well:
👍 from Pemuteran = best possible option
12 PM: leave hotel (we left at 10 PM)
1 PM: ferry
3 PM: arrival in Java + transfer
11 PM: start ascent
2 AM–6 AM: volcano
Return to Bali around 11 AM–12 PM (we got back at 4 PM)
👍 still very intense, but doable with an agency
💰 ~80–120 €/person all-inclusive
IN SANUR:
- Relaxation
- Quiet beach
- Proximity to airport (30 min)"
I’ve kept the habit of blowing my nose in the sink and then washing my hands—a custom I picked up in India. Sometimes, non-travelers are shocked when they catch me in the act... 🤪
Also, when I run out of toilet paper, it doesn’t bother me—unless I’ve got company over... 🤪
Just got back from walking a friend’s dog (while they’re on vacation), wearing a djellaba and Tibetan boots... 😏😏😏 Oh, for sure, if I’d run into locals, I probably would’ve shocked them? 😏
Anyway, as long as I’m not spitting on the floor at a restaurant or squatting on the side of a highway with a water bottle in hand...
After taking a little trip around the world, I came back a few months ago with an idea in mind.
I mostly do diving, and I love observing animals in their natural habitat without disturbing them.
During the trip, I realized it was quite complicated to know where and when to see certain species.
For example:
where to dive with sharks or manta rays
where you might get a chance to swim with whales
I even discovered thresher sharks during my trip… I didn’t even know this species existed before, even though they’re incredible to see.
We spent a ton of time searching for info all over the place, especially on social media, without ever getting a clear picture.
So I started putting all this together on my own, in the form of a map, to make it easier to visualize where to go depending on the seasons.
I recently put a first version online (it’s called Fauneya).
There are probably mistakes, inconsistencies, or things to improve, and that’s partly why I’m posting here.
I’d really love to know how you all go about planning this kind of trip.
As part of my Master’s thesis, I’m currently conducting a public survey on a topic that concerns all of us when planning a trip: artificial intelligence and the role of human contact in travel planning.
These days, we’re using more and more digital tools to find ideas, compare options, and book trips... but is the role of human advisors still essential? At what moments? And for what types of trips?
The survey is anonymous and takes about 7 minutes.
It’s aimed at anyone who travels (or has traveled) for leisure, whether you plan everything yourself or go through an agency.
While browsing the forum to gather info for my upcoming trip to Thailand, I often see the terms "traveler," "great traveler," and also "tourist"—so what’s the nuance for you?
I've traveled quite a bit in Vietnam over the past few years—from the southern delta to bustling cities and even some small islands—but what really sticks with me is the north, the high mountains.
Up there, there's something different—maybe slower, more raw. The morning markets with ethnic groups, women in traditional clothes, the colors...
The stilt houses, kids following you and laughing for no reason, the terraced rice fields—it almost feels unreal at times, so vast and quiet, yet so human and simple.
You often hear that Sapa has become too touristy, and that's partly true, especially in the center. But as soon as you move a little farther away, everything changes quickly. The landscapes open up, encounters feel more natural, and you rediscover something truly authentic.
I think it's that contrast that struck me—the difference between what you imagine before going and what you actually discover when you take the time.
And you—what memory do you hold onto from Vietnam? A particular place that touched you more than others?
Hello,
We’re finalizing the plans for our upcoming trip to China in May 2025. The second-to-last stop will be in Zhangjiajie, where we’ve planned to stay for 2 full days before heading to Shanghai.
We’re traveling solo using local transport and have arranged to stay in the city of Zhangjiajie.
We’ve seen that there’s a lot to see:
Tianmen Mountain, the Grand Canyon and the glass bridge, Zhangjiajie National Park, and that the sites are quite far apart with fairly expensive entry fees.
We’re thinking of dedicating one day to the national park and the Grand Canyon (glass bridge) and one day to Tianmen Mountain.
But we’re not sure if this plan is realistic—any thoughts would be much appreciated!
I should be serving a warming drink to the participants in the discussion about gardens and parks that provide us with beautiful photos, I could mention the delicious buttery scent wafting from bakeries in the thread about returning to France, but my heart, its powerful pulse that nourishes my entire being, is elsewhere.
Dasht-e Lut, Yazd, Esfahan, Bam, Kerman, Qeshm, Hormuz—a melody, a prayer at the heart of desire.
A dream, an unattainable fantasy? No. Not anymore.
A very serious Italian travel agency is organizing this trip for 6 people this winter. I’m signed up, I’m going, I’m living. Maybe.
"But you’re completely crazy!!!!"
I know... I know that every civilization, every society has a vital need to create scapegoats to define and justify itself, pathetically. And Iran is one of them, top of the list. I laugh or sigh, and it doesn’t bother me.
But that unchanging red, deep red and garnet, so beautiful in itself, in all the Western chancelleries repeats, whispers, shouts: don’t go, don’t go, don’t go, you’re putting yourself in danger and we can’t do anything for you. You’ll be turned into mere bargaining chips, into arguments for endless negotiations. Fear must be instilled, its power absolutely preserved, no concessions made to the enemy. The information (how many French hostages, real or fake, compared to the number of travelers?) is always lacking.
Traveling becomes a merciless confrontation between desire, the vital pulse, and anxiety, its ghosts.
Hi everyone, here’s our itinerary. Arriving on the evening of December 13th. Departing on January 7th.
Thanks in advance for your tips and valuable feedback.
Manila – 1 night
Coron – 4 nights
Coron to El Nido cruise – 2 nights
El Nido – 4 nights
Port Barton – 5 nights
Flight from Puerto Princesa to Vigan
Vigan – 2 nights
Sagada – 2 nights
Banaue – 2 nights
Bagabag – 1 night
Manila – 1 night
I’ve only booked the flight to Manila and the Manila/Coron flight so far. Is it possible to book boat trips, accommodations, and the Puerto Princesa flight last-minute?
Really disappointed with Costa Rica! Pura vida? The scam of the century!
(Costa Rica pure emptiness).
The country where animals are free and people are in cages.
3 weeks in December in this country and never again. Imagine the trailer of a movie that seems interesting, and when you go see it, you realize it’s a flop and the best moments were in the trailer.
Well, that’s exactly how we felt with Costa Rica pure emptiness.
My wife and I have traveled quite a bit and didn’t expect to be so wrong about a place.
On the main routes, we visited:
San José
Alajuela
Limón, Cahuita, Puerto Viejo, Manzanillo (Caribbean side)
Jaco, Quepos, Manuel Antonio (Pacific side)
And a few short stops in intermediate towns.
Our dissatisfaction grew gradually like this:
When we arrived at the hotel, the taxi dropped us off on a small street in front of a white metal gate with ground-floor windows barred. We looked at it skeptically, but the sign matched.
He approached the gate, rang the bell, the buzzer sounded, and the door opened slightly. The hotel wasn’t bad for the price, a 10-minute walk from downtown, but with a "Fleury-Mérogis" vibe guaranteed.
So far, so good.
After showering and regaining our bearings, we headed downtown.
What started to unsettle us on the way was seeing houses with bars on the ground-floor windows and even on the second floor.
At first, we thought the hotel’s neighborhood wasn’t great.
Downtown San José:
It’s a generic city, not very exotic, with a pedestrian street and a small mercado where you can eat local food without frills. Very few tourists—if any—which let you blend in with the locals. We had lunch and struggled to make ourselves understood because, aside from one or two shops, English wasn’t spoken.
On the way back to the hotel, we took a different route, and while chatting and strolling, my wife pointed out a beautiful two-story white house completely barricaded like Fort Knox.
From that moment, we started noticing the facades of houses and buildings, and wow, it was creepy—most looked like prisons, some even with barbed wire.
Though put off, we told ourselves it was probably a big-city thing and the rest of the country couldn’t be like this.
So far, so good.
We relaxed at the hotel and had a drink at the bar. Night falls early, around 5:30 PM. By 7:30 PM, we headed back downtown for dinner. A bit unsettling for a capital—downtown was almost deserted, and aside from fast-food chains, very few restaurants were open, with hardly anyone on the streets.
Bars with security guards out front.
I won’t say we felt unsafe that night, but once it got dark, we realized the bars on the windows weren’t for nothing. First day in, and our impression was already mixed.
The next day, we explored the city and surroundings, and our feelings didn’t change.
So far, so good.
Off to Cahuita by bus—4 hours of travel.
The landscapes are very green but quickly become monotonous. The road runs alongside the forest and passes through a few towns and villages, and even in the countryside, there were just as many prison-like houses.
The bus dropped us off at Cahuita’s terminal station—only four of us got off. It’s a village, or rather, a small town. Cahuita is basically one straight road and a perpendicular one, and honestly, doubt started to creep in.
A few restaurants that add 13% tax and 10% service charge—so 23% extra. We dropped our stuff at the hotel and went to explore. In 20 minutes, we’d seen it all. We had lunch and planned to check out the famous park.
Entry is by donation—well, the "entry" is a joke. There’s a path along the forest by the sea, and that’s it.
Nothing’s going right anymore.
We thought it was a total scam, but since we hadn’t gone far, we decided to come back the next day to explore further.
We returned to the hotel, relaxed, and around 8:00 PM, we went out for dinner. Only two restaurants were open, and the streets were deserted.
Creepy!
The next day, we explored the so-called park more thoroughly and really got it.
A path along the forest by the sea—2 hours there and 2 hours back, where you see animals that feel like showing their faces.
A total joke—"all that for this?"
The beach was full of wood debris and coconut husks. We wondered if the photos online were edited because the sea, very rough, wasn’t the azure blue we’d seen in pictures.
But calling this a park is a joke—it’s like a new concept.
When we thought about the reviews online, we started to suspect that professionals with interests in the country were monitoring and countering any negative feedback that could harm their business.
Too bad we didn’t check the negative reviews beforehand—we did while we were there, and it helped. We wondered if we’d become too demanding after all our travels, but no—when something’s bad, it’s bad.
Manuel Antonio’s park is even more ridiculous—there’s a short path along the sea for about 500 meters, and then nothing. You have to climb through mud and hack your way through the forest. We ended up barefoot because the mud was up to our calves. All that to see a raccoon and a few parrots flying overhead.
We didn’t expect Noah’s Ark, but we’ve seen more animals in Bali, Mexico, and Thailand while visiting temples or just walking around than in these so-called parks!
Puerto Viejo, not far from Cahuita and supposedly livelier—well, it couldn’t be worse!
According to Lonely Planet, it had a Caribbean vibe and wild nights, but maybe that was a long time ago. The good reggae music playing everywhere isn’t enough.
In the evening, Puerto Viejo was a bit livelier than Cahuita, but that’s not saying much. Very few tourists—if any—no night market, just two or three shops open selling $20 T-shirts. Same vibe as San José.
No big deal—we enjoyed the beach and the sun, which was reliable.
Our itinerary was supposed to include Tortuguero Park, but after talking to other travelers who’d just been, we changed our minds, knowing we’d be visiting Manuel Antonio Park on the Pacific side.
To get back to the Pacific side, you have to take the bus and go through San José again—5 hours this time—then switch bus terminals and another 4.5 hours to Quepos.
A stopover town to get to Manuel Antonio’s beach and park!
A town just like the others we’d seen—deserted as soon as the sun sets, and not exactly bustling during the day either. (Where are all the tourists?)
Still as many bars on the windows and that feeling of being in the wrong place.
7 km later: Manuel Antonio beach and park.
The beach is very beautiful and quite large, but don’t expect turquoise blue water—the waves stir up the sand, giving the water a brownish color.
Along the beach, shops and restaurants for about 300 meters, and then nothing. At night, after sunset, the town shuts down too.
Manuel Antonio Park is highly praised for its wildlife, so we were eager to see it. When you express dissatisfaction with Cahuita or Manzanillo parks, the response is always, "But you should’ve gone to Monteverde or Manuel Antonio!" No matter what you do or say, they’ll tell you, "You should’ve gone there or here."
Back to our famous park—entry was about $16, and contrary to what we’d heard, it wasn’t crowded!
Guides at the entrance with spotting scopes offered their services for about $30.
The park: a mix of boardwalk and dirt paths through the forest, sometimes running alongside beautiful coves and beaches.
As soon as we entered, a crowd was taking photos of a deer eating leaves.
A little further on, a guide with a group of five stopped. The guide raised his arm and set up his spotting scope! He showed them, about 100 meters away, a hummingbird perched on a branch. Some, looking through the scope, exclaimed, "Oh my God! Amazing! Incredible!"
For a moment, we thought they’d discovered a unicorn or were in Jurassic Park and had just crossed paths with a T-Rex!
The concept is comical—looking at a bird or another animal through a spotting scope because it’s too far away. Isn’t that what TV is for?
For our part, we saw monkeys, ants, an armadillo, an iguana, and the backside of a sloth climbing a tree. Amazing, incredible!
We stayed a few days in Manuel Antonio to enjoy the beach, changing hotels often because prices varied wildly from one day to the next for shameful services. On top of that, they’d quote a price in dollars and convert it at their discretion—thieves!
Alajuela, a city near the airport, has a two-story mall and a local market downtown! No interest except its proximity to the airport.
What we liked:
The climate and, in hindsight, San José—the most authentic city we visited.
What we didn’t like, in addition to what we’ve already mentioned:
Costa Ricans aren’t very friendly or communicative. English is barely spoken, not even by doctors at Quepos Hospital, where my wife ended up with food poisoning (thanks, Google Translate). The widespread obesity among Costa Ricans, who eat like Americans. The insecurity. The eco-hipsters who leave their $150 lodges in minivans with guides to visit parks and other sites, then return to barricade themselves in their fortresses at nightfall (oh my God, amazing, incredible). The blue signs at the entrance of towns that accept this payment method: "We accept American Express." Parking lots that become paid just because a guy is watching your car. Prices displayed in dollars. The cost of living (hotels, restaurants, taxes). Landscapes that are too green and not flowery enough. Beaches—nothing exceptional. Pollution in cities where big American trucks rule. Sewage dumped directly into the sea. Aside from the jungle, there’s nothing to visit—no ruins, monuments, or anything worth seeing.
In short, my wife and I think the hype about this supposedly eco-friendly country is overrated. It’s just the trendy destination of the moment. There are much better, cheaper, and more authentic places.
In hindsight, we keep the good memories and our beautiful photos, but if we had to do it over...
Before signing off, a little message to those who don’t like hearing opinions different from theirs:
Well, some things aren’t up for debate. And to those who’d have us believe that in 3 weeks, we don’t have the right to criticize a country or express our feelings—how can you praise it in so little time? What a scam. Costa Rica is a money pit. Pura vida? Pure cosmic emptiness.
If you like spending your evenings barricaded in your cozy hotel after dark, this country is for you.
For everyone else: run!
Hello,
Since the war between Russia and Ukraine, nothing is simple anymore for traveling to Belarus due to sanctions.
No more direct flights from the EU to Minsk.
Driving is a huge hassle, especially crossing through Poland at the only open border in Brest—you can wait 2, 3, or even 4 days just to get through by car.
The least painful driving option is to come via Lithuania and cross at the only open border, with a minimum wait time of 8 hours, sometimes up to 20 hours or more!!
Controls are very strict and annoying on both the Lithuanian and Belarusian sides. Avoid bringing alcohol, food, or cigarettes—everything will end up in the trash, especially when leaving Belarus for Vilnius, where the Lithuanians are tough, even with EU citizens.
The joy I once knew when visiting my wife in Minsk is sadly over—it’s now a real ordeal.
The fastest solution is to fly. My wife travels to France by taking a bus to Kaunas in Lithuania, where you can catch a flight (though not daily) to Paris Beauvais or Charleroi in Belgium with Ryanair, for example.
For the return trip, it’s the same: a flight to Kaunas and then a direct bus from the airport to Minsk.
The bus crossing is quicker than driving—the 250 km journey, including border checks, takes about 6 to 8 hours for buses leaving Lithuania around midnight, but controls are still strict at the border.
The biggest challenge is finding flight schedules that align with the bus routes between the two countries, given the unpredictable border crossing times.
Now, my wife travels via Charleroi in Belgium (near Brussels), and you can take a train to Paris. Alternatively, you can fly into Beauvais and take a bus to Paris (Porte Maillot).
For those driving, note that EU insurance and assistance policies no longer work in Belarus or Russia. You’ll need to get local insurance, usually limited to third-party liability (I don’t think full coverage exists?), as well as mandatory medical insurance. This is available at the border.
You now have to pay highway tolls—no more BELTOLL boxes. Instead, you pay a flat fee for the duration of your stay. Stop at the first gas station after crossing from Lithuania to fill up on fuel and cigarettes.
From what I know, Lithuania bans carrying more than 60 € in cash, but there’s no limit for USD (though it’s capped at $10,000??).
With a Visa card, you can now withdraw 1,000 rubles per week (about 270 €)—two months ago, it was only 500 rubles!!
For now, you can still pay by card in shops and gas stations.
However, major retailers like KORONA (which may be Russian-owned??) no longer accept foreign Visa cards.
Unfortunately, the additional sanctions announced by the U.S. on August 5, 2025, against Russia—and possibly Belarus—aren’t promising for the future.
After 20 years of visiting Belarus, I’m truly saddened to see the joy of living in this country with my wonderful wife turn into such a bleak situation, all because of human folly.
Hi everyone!
I’m putting together our travel itinerary for Veneto at the end of April. And the more I look and research potential sites to visit, the more I find!
We’ll only be there for a week—my family and I—including 3 days in Venice. So we have to make some choices...
I plan to rent a car when we arrive in Venice and head straight to Bergamo, which would be our first stop. We’d leave the car at the airport when we return to Venice so we can explore the city at our leisure.
What do you think:
1 night in Bergamo (a 2h15 drive from Venice airport),
1 night in Garda,
1 night in Verona,
1 in Padua, and
3 in Venice—would that be doable?
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences! :)
Now that the curtain has fallen on the past year, it’s time to see what’s happening around here.
It seems pretty quiet, but I’ll read more in detail later.
First, I need to tell you all an anecdote.
My eldest little girl, in her third year of law school, was really scared she wouldn’t pass the year.
I told her:
“Trust yourself, you’ve worked so hard, and worst case, if you fail, you’ll just redo the year.”
“But I don’t think I’ll make it—they changed the rules, and if I mess up even one unit, I have to start all over.”
I knew her grades weren’t exactly stellar, and with what I was about to say, I wasn’t taking much of a risk.
“Here’s the deal, sweetheart: if you pass, I promise I’ll take you to India, just the two of us.”
I have to admit, India is a country I’ve talked about so much to all my grandchildren that in their minds, it’s become a magical, mythical place (hmm).
July had barely begun when my phone rang, her name flashing on the screen.
“Mamido, I did it!”
My promise came rushing back—oh no, oh no, oh no!
“Congratulations, sweetheart!”
A little shyly, she said:
“Is the India trip still on?”
And me, replying:
“Of course it is!”
And that’s that—a promise is a promise, or you risk losing that precious trust that keeps hearts warm and at peace.
We’re leaving in February. Only 8 days—yikes, the carbon footprint!
But we can’t miss her tutorials, or she’ll be kicked out.
Personally, that works just fine for me.
Going to India has become a challenge for me. It’s far, it’s exhausting, I sweat, I hate mosquitoes, the spices bother my mouth when I used to love them. There’s noise all the time—at night, the dogs bark nonstop, and we almost get run over. I’ll get lost in the streets because my sense of direction has vanished. I don’t like rice anymore. All that chaos and those cultural differences that once enchanted me now just overwhelm me.
But I promised.
The upside—and it’s a big one—Raman, the same driver I’ve had forever, will be at the airport with a sign with our names. We’ll stop at the same little shop for chai (or tea, plain and simple) with that aroma that intoxicates me, halfway through the trip.
It’ll be a tiny trip—staying with friends, I’ll show her a few places I love: Chidambaram, Mamallapuram, and the clinic where I worked. Then we’ll head back.
My little girl will go home to her parents.
As for me, I’ll leave right away for our Scottish island with Homme for our chilly winter.
How can you love a country so much you want to live there, then suddenly reject it, no longer able to appreciate what once made it special?
That’s the mystery of love, I guess.
I’ve visited the U.S. four times myself, including two long road trips. The last one was just this past August...
I won’t be going back. I already felt guilty last August, but recent policies have finally convinced me: the humiliation of Zelensky, authoritarian excesses, Gestapo-like methods for detaining people of foreign origin, the murder of innocent people (a mother shot dead), corruption, insane "tariffs," skyrocketing healthcare costs for Americans, the abduction of foreign figures to secure oil, the requirement to disclose social media accounts, and now... threats and blackmail to forcibly take Greenland—a region that belongs to Denmark and thus the European Union!
The reality is that simply posting this could get me denied entry to the U.S.!
In this context, I just can’t keep spending money there. I loved my trips, but there are so many other countries with stunning landscapes to explore.
So I get why you’d want to travel there. I did, and I loved it. But once a country no longer respects any of the values that made us love it, why go?
How can we even consider traveling to a country that threatens to take one of our territories by force?
Hello everyone,
Controversial topic? Not necessarily—maybe just a reflection on a world to come.
I spent the last 15 days of August on a cruise in Greenland, from Kangerlussuaq to Tasiilaq.
I was utterly amazed by this unique world of rock and ice, the little houses in every color, a simple life that’s also complicated by isolation and climate, among other things...
I carry in my heart the kindness of the people I met, the raw and gentle majesty of the icebergs, the colors of the sky...
So, I can’t even imagine a massive presence of raw material prospectors, heavy machinery requiring roads to be built—if that’s even possible—changing their way of life... putting sled dogs out to pasture!
Do fast food and Greenland’s northern lights really mix?
I wouldn’t trade my memories for an ESTA!
All opinions are respectable, which is why this isn’t a controversy—but I’m sorry, I have a soft spot for *my* Greenland.
We’re a couple aged 58 and 63. We’ve just returned from a wonderful trip to South India in Tamil Nadu and a few days in Kerala. We traveled with a local French-speaking guide and his friend, the driver. They both live in Pondicherry. We spent 3 weeks with them in the most authentic way!
We covered just over 2,500 km and visited not only temples but also archaeological sites, museums, and small artisanal businesses making tiles, tea, sculptures, bronze, and silk spinning. We were lucky enough to visit a public school, attend a wedding, and even a death announcement in a small countryside village. We were fully immersed in the culture, food, noise, and colors—it was incredible!
The hotels and guesthouses we chose were very clean and mostly quiet. We’re returning from India with amazing discoveries!
We’re happy to share more info if you’d like!
M-Claire and Jean
This catchy and somewhat mysterious title comes from several questions I’ve been asking myself.
VF has been back open for a reasonable number of weeks and months now.
The number of visitors overall matches past averages, but the number of members online in the last 24 hours seems relatively lower than what we used to see.
Yet, to my surprise, I’m seeing fewer travel journals, way fewer messages, and way fewer questions.
I don’t see many new registered users online, and I notice a number of members who are logged in but either aren’t participating or have stopped participating.
Something’s not adding up for me because, in my opinion, VF is still appealing, and I don’t see which other sites could really compete.
Was there a real break between pre- and post-Covid?
Does it just take more time for some people to discover the site or learn that it’s active again?
Do people now prefer quick consumption on sites like FB or others I’m not familiar with?
Where have the site’s old-timers gone, and what are they doing with their time now?
What’s really going on here?
This isn’t exactly a traveler’s question... I’d like to know who handles the technical side of this forum?
I run a similar forum on a different topic (unrecognized children), and we’re dealing with a few technical issues that are slowly killing our forum... so I’d have one or two questions to ask 😊.
Also, I was wondering who created this forum... who the administrators or moderators are, etc.
I think this forum is great. Much better than Facebook, which I’ve been using since it shut down (so I’m happy to see it’s working again...)
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