Yet Another Travel Journal in this (Too) Familiar Rajasthan, But with Family and Kids
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Prologue

This journal recounts a trip to Rajasthan that’s already over a year old and that I’ve only now found the chance to write about. The summer of 2024 marked my return to India—my tenth trip—after six long years away since my last solo wanderings in Tamil Nadu in 2018 (the journal of which is published on this site). That absence was partly (but not only) due to the long COVID and post-COVID period, which saw a complete halt and then a major slowdown in global tourism. To top it off, Voyage Forum announced its closure in an end-of-the-world atmosphere. A sad time for our favorite social activity…

A few weeks after returning from Rajasthan, I tried to motivate myself to start writing a journal to publish on a forum claiming to be VF’s successor, which I’d eventually signed up for out of desperation. But I kept hesitating and putting the project off because, for one, I no longer have the time I used to. For another, the vibe wasn’t really taking off on that forum—it was overrun with ads and not very active, contrary to what its host’s name suggested. Despite its good intentions and commendable role as a stopgap, it also turned out to be very impractical to use, especially when you don’t have much time like me. I’ll admit I’d occasionally check back on VF to see if anything was happening. But all the discussions remained frozen in time, stuck in that fateful year, 2020. Then, rumors swirled online about shady reasons behind its closure, leaving little room for hope.

And then, one fine morning, I got a message at work from Marien informing me that VF had reopened. What a huge surprise! Even though the forum’s “end” had played out in a somewhat apocalyptic atmosphere, the memories of passionate and heated discussions, the frank debates, and the useful exchanges that made this site a traveler’s goldmine and a unique hub of conviviality all came rushing back to me like a breath of fresh air. I finally saw a sign and tried to motivate myself to find the time to publish the journal of this tenth trip to India and fifth to Rajasthan. But in the end, I got bogged down in professional and family obligations and never managed to find the time to get started. That’s now fixed, though, because I had two reasons for wanting to do it: I find that looking back on a trip to tell others about it is a highly beneficial introspective exercise. Also, I thought this journal could be useful to other travelers on a few points.

Because, “do we really need yet another journal about Rajasthan?” you might rightly ask! Especially in a time when so many journals about the “Land of Kings” have been published since VF’s return, not to mention the countless stories you can already find online about this region, one of India’s most touristy. And I’d add, why go back to Rajasthan for a fifth time, where I’ve already dragged my feet more than enough—through its forts, deserts, temples, cities, villages, bumpy roads, train stations, tasty street food stalls, cheap guesthouses, and more? Where some might see just another overhyped tourist destination full of the same old *Arabian Nights* clichés, worn to a thread, that I mentioned earlier, when there’s so much else to see in India? Well, first because it’s a magnificent country I never tire of, where I started an academic study and made so many connections. It’s also packed with places where you won’t find a single tourist (right, Marie-Jo?), even in the heart of well-trodden paths and classic itineraries. And most importantly, as I said earlier, things have changed in recent years. First, after six years without traveling far, the urge to go back to India was getting stronger. But this time, no more solo trips (often) or duo adventures (sometimes)—now it’s a team of four that has to come along! And even if you can argue with that, what better place than Rajasthan to introduce India to people who’ve never seen it? To kids you want to amaze? Plus, traveling with your new little family to your favorite country isn’t the same as going solo in often spartan conditions that only affect you. It’s a different challenge, but ultimately probably much harder. So, is it really reasonable to take two kids to India, including a two-year-old baby? That’s one of the main goals of this journal (but not the only one)—to try to answer that question.

As you can tell, it’s not so much the destination but the slightly unusual setup of this trip that, in my opinion, will make this journal interesting. Despite my experience and expertise (yes, I dare say it) in India, there were plenty of questions before we finalized the plan and said, “Alright, let’s go!” The questions were flying for us parents. Is it wise to travel to India with a two-year-old? What would we do (it happened) if the kids got very sick? Would they be able to handle a road trip on Rajasthan’s bumpy, dusty roads using public transport? Could they handle the shock of such a different world—the dirt, poverty, pollution, noise (…and the smell, as they say), the spicy food, monkeys, mosquitoes, snakes, tigers, leopards, and so on? In short, all the clichés that I usually joke about suddenly became potential realities. Another concern: as a mixed Franco-African family (not me, but my partner and her oldest), wouldn’t we risk not always being well received, given what you sometimes hear about that in India? How would Indians react to seeing a mixed-race family, the ultimate taboo in a country of purity and social segregation, which would undoubtedly raise many questions for them? Of course, not everything went as expected… Because, as you know, with India—and what makes it charming for some—there are always complications: sometimes where you don’t expect them… and sometimes where you do. I’ll go into detail about that in the journal to come (not right away) and in the final review (even later). These experiences could be useful to travelers who find themselves in similar situations and have the same questions we did before embarking on such a journey. And maybe it’ll spark the curiosity of those who aren’t concerned and will read yet another Rajasthan journal, but with its own unique twists.

Despite my unchanged constraints, which mean I have little time to write this, I don’t want to rush the story, so I’ll take my time. There will probably be lulls. I hope that won’t stop people from coming to react, debate, share their impressions, or ask for information.
KO Kola Globetrotter ·
... in the heart of well-trodden paths and classic itineraries.

Maybe those well-trodden paths and classic itineraries feel like a first time when you explore them alongside two little people. Their tiny hands clutching yours, your adult eyes meeting their surprised, amazed, scared, or calm gazes... the unfamiliar takes on new perspectives.
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
Here’s a prologue that piques curiosity. We’ll be patient for the rest...
MA Marcomarco2 ·
Awesome! Hi there, and I really encourage you! I can’t wait to read your post. But traveling with family must be a little different, I imagine... No Gujarat, just a small part? ;-)

Cheers,

Mark
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
If I can also rope in Marco, I’ll be over the moon! 🙂 Hope you're doing well! Yes, there’ll be a tiny bit of Gujarat since we landed in Ahmedabad! I wanted to add it to the title, but it was too long for the character limit.
DI Did0764 Regular ·
Hello, I’m really looking forward to this journal—it’ll be different from many others because of the kids, including a very young one. I love diving into all travel journals, even those about Rajasthan, which I’ve explored countless times. Every now and then, I discover a spot I haven’t visited or hear anecdotes and personal storytelling styles that make the trip unique.

While waiting for the meet-up with the locals and mixed-race families, I’ll hijack your journal for a moment to share an anecdote from my first trip to India in 1991 (Gujarat and Rajasthan). I was traveling with a young couple—he was white, and she was Black from the Caribbean, with very long hair.

Her hair made the trip challenging at times. Women and girls all wanted to touch her gorgeous locks. For these Indian women, the mix of dark skin and long hair was a beautiful surprise—they were absolutely fascinated...

Best regards.
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Ah! You finally took the first step! Ever since we talked about it... I was starting to think it’d never happen... Safe travels! !
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
If I also rally Marco, I’ll be over the moon :) Hope you're doing well! Yes, there’ll be a tiny bit of Gujarat since we landed in Ahmedabad! I wanted to add it to the title, but it was too long for the character limit.

What a masterstroke! You actually got him out of his den—that’s no small feat. I’ve been waiting for him for ages… Really missed him! A brief reappearance when the forum reopened, and then poof… damp squib, no more fireworks…
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Every now and then, I checked your profile to see if you’d started that famous travel journal. At last, here it is! With a lovely cherry on top: Pagal and the little ones 🙂 I’m sure you’ll share some wonderful stories with us.
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
I’m more interested in personal impressions, feelings, raw emotions—what you *lived* with your gut—than travel anecdotes. But I know you’ve got this... Especially the kids’ reactions. I’d planned to bring one of my grandsons on my next trip, and a friend from VF did the same, but apparently, it wasn’t a success at all. The kid didn’t enjoy it. I asked mine what he was looking forward to about the trip. He always dodged my questions, never answering. I think he was fantasizing about India, just like so many people do...

Given my serious health issues, which you know about, I already struggle to take care of myself. I’m not even sure I’ll be able to go in October, so the project’s been put on hold—if not abandoned altogether... So I’m really looking forward to your journal and the kids’ reactions, especially the older one. What he liked, what he didn’t—with the hope that this trip with my grandson might still happen, if not this year, then at least next year. You see, I’m still keeping my spirits up... Because everywhere I go, people tell me India is no longer an option for me. After all, Alexandra David-Néel renewed her passport at 100 years old...
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Hi Didier,

I occasionally come across a spot I haven’t visited and some anecdotes—a very personal way of recounting the journey.

That’s exactly my mindset too.

Before we get to meeting locals with mixed backgrounds, I’ll share a little story from my first trip to India in 1991 (Gujarat and Rajasthan). I found myself in India with a young couple—he was white, she was Antillean and Black with very long hair. Her hair made the trip tough at times; the women and girls all wanted to touch her gorgeous locks. For these Indian women, the mix of dark skin and long hair was a beautiful surprise—they were amazed...

I’ll go into more detail in my travel journal, but without spoiling what’s next—it’s more about what happened to us, in a positive way, without the tough side, though.
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
I found myself in India with a young couple—he was white, she was Antillean and Black with very long hair.

Your description of the young woman really matches what we call "Indian hair" in Guadeloupe, descended from Malabar coolies... That explains it...
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Jojoone = I hope I won’t disappoint—neither your curiosity nor your patience.

Kate = Yes, there’ll be some great stories!

Marien = And no hard feelings, there’ll be personal reflections too—mine and the kids’. I’ll also wrap up with our hot takes and the perspective a year later. As for writing this journal, I didn’t think I’d ever get around to it either!
MA Marcomarco2 ·
we never saw the fireworks again...

Let’s just say I’m preparing something that might broaden your horizons a bit—I’m obviously talking about India... But not in this travel journal of Pagal’s! !
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
we never saw the fireworks again...

Let’s just say I’m preparing something that might broaden your horizons a bit—I’m obviously talking about India... But not in this Pagal travel journal!

But it’s wonderful if you’re sharing this surprise with us. A new travel journal, I assume... Thanks in advance...
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Perhaps well-trodden paths and classic itineraries feel like a first time when you walk them alongside two little people. Their small hands clutching yours, your adult gaze resting on their eyes—astonished, awestruck, fearful, or calm—the unfamiliar reshapes itself with new perspectives.

That’s exactly it. Even though our Rajasthan itinerary stayed largely classic, revisiting places I’d already seen up to four times was ultimately a completely different experience with the kids, especially with our 2-year-old, but also with our 10-year-old. I could say the same for my partner, who, despite knowing Africa and many other countries, was also experiencing India for the first time. So, I sometimes felt like I was rediscovering these familiar places with, as you so aptly put it, redrawn perspectives. Speaking of which, I was flipping through my photos and came across ones from Mount Abu, where I’d gone for the second time—I realized how different my perception of that place was between the two trips. The same goes for the other stops we made, of course, and I’ll sprinkle in some comparative reflections here and there in the journal.

Your comment gives me the perfect segue into the second part of my prologue (after this, I promise I’m done 😛).

Prologue (Part 2)

In the months leading up to our big departure, we took the time to prepare the kids for what they’d see by watching plenty of documentaries about India, consulting the few accounts of traveling in the country with children to reassure ourselves, and eating Indian food often (even more often than usual!). And, of course, by sharing my own wanderings, anecdotes, and knowledge by the fireside (or rather, in the comfort of our living room). I should mention that beyond my travels in India, I’ve studied Indian culture extensively and speak Hindi well. That’s obviously a huge advantage—it makes logistics, getting around, and connecting with locals (I don’t like that word, but it sounds better than "natives" or "savages") so much easier, and it opens a lot of doors.

After solidly pre-planning the trip, considering several possible destinations and ultimately seeing no reason not to go, we settled on Rajasthan. We’d initially considered Tamil Nadu—cooler, no monsoon in the summer, and a unique vibe—before thinking about Goa or Kerala for their beaches, but it was definitely the wrong time to go (especially knowing the devastating monsoons that hit during our trip). But once again, the unavoidable and majestic Rajasthan won out. It’s got some serious selling points that work almost every time. It’s a fantastic gateway for anyone who’s never set foot in India, offering everything the Western (and even global) imagination projects about "eternal India." Plus, it’s one of the few regions not too affected by the monsoon during that season. We also figured it’d be more fun and engaging for the kids with its fairytale forts and palaces in the middle of the desert, overlooking shimmering lakes or colorful cities, its legends of brave warrior princes and self-sacrificing princesses, its divine heroes, snake charmers, locals in vibrant clothing, wildlife reserves, and camel rides in the Thar Desert near the Pakistan border... All those stereotypes, but powerful ones that spark adventure and captivate kids’ imaginations.

Like my last journal, the goal here is to share my subjective impressions, even if I aim for as much objectivity as possible. It’s also a chance to provide practical info—or update it—since India changes quickly in some areas while other things never seem to. And to answer the questions and concerns that first-time India travelers or seasoned backpackers might have when planning their trip.

I won’t stifle debates about photos that might come up, but I’ll say this upfront: I’m not a good photographer, and even though I do my best, I’m more in the "Aunt Ginette" school of photography than anything else. I try to take interesting photos, but I have zero technical knowledge. The ones I’ve selected for this journal will at least help illustrate my long descriptions and reflections. So, I won’t be offended if someone says they’re too dark, too bright, or poorly framed—I’m fully aware!

Before we start, here’s some general info about this trip:

- **Period**: This journey took place from July 23 to August 14, 2024—22 days in total.

- **Flight**: Paris-Mumbai-Ahmedabad with the Indian airline Vistara (great airline!). 599 € for the base round-trip ticket per person in economy, and about 650 € including the now-mandatory seat selection for the four flights and extra baggage. Our initial plan was to arrive via Delhi, the classic gateway to Rajasthan, but we found this flight to Ahmedabad, which is just as interesting as the capital for entering Rajasthan, with a layover in Mumbai on Go Voyages at a price that was unbeatable, especially for summer vacation and the usual price hikes.

- **Itinerary**: Ahmedabad - Jaisalmer - Jodhpur - Jawai Bandh - Udaipur - Mount Abu - Ahmedabad. It’s a pretty classic route that covers the Rajasthan "must-sees." Still, there are a couple of little twists: arriving via Ahmedabad, the leopard sanctuary at Jawai Bandh (which I discovered while researching for this trip), and to a lesser extent, Mount Abu—though well-known, it’s not often recommended by travelers. With two kids, including a 2-year-old, we didn’t systematically visit all the "must-see" sites. And even when we did, we didn’t always explore them fully or in depth because it’s just not possible for a 2-year-old suddenly transported into a strange new world. Instead, we prioritized urban or rural walks to discover local life or connect with people. It was sometimes a bit frustrating for me as an Indian culture and history buff, but it’s another way to travel. And anyway, I’ve already visited all these places multiple times—might as well revisit them from this new perspective we talked about at the start of the post.

- **Travel style**: Comfortable backpacking—public transport (train, bus, rickshaw, camel, and once a driver) and mid-range or mid-range-plus hotels. We opted for a bit more comfort for the kids without giving up the "roots" and adventure side, which I’d struggle to let go of and which was undeniably a plus for them.

- **Total budget for 4 people (2 adults and 2 kids) over 22 days**: 4600 €, including 2600 € for flights and about 2000 € on the ground covering absolutely everything (hotels, restaurants, transport, tourist sites and activities, souvenirs, baby supplies...). That said, we could’ve easily reduced the budget to 1500 € by being more careful with purchases and accommodation categories. Despite recent inflation, India remains very affordable.

- **Guidebook**: We bought the latest Lonely Planet Rajasthan-Agra-Delhi (2020 edition). I find Lonely Planet gets worse and less useful over time, but while it’s not essential, it’s still a nice complement to the wealth of cultural and practical info you can now easily find online.

- **Bookings**: Unlike my usual style, and to avoid making the kids suffer in the heat by playing too much *Pékin Express* or *J’irai dormir chez vous*, we booked our accommodations in advance—either on Booking.com or directly with places we found via Lonely Planet or Google Maps. This sometimes required paying a deposit, and Western Union is by far the cheapest option for fees (if the hosts accept it). The commissions are tiny compared to bank fees (even online banks that advertise free foreign payment fees can’t avoid the high charges from the local partner bank). Another useful tip: staying in touch with hosts via WhatsApp before arrival made everything smoother, helped us bond a little beforehand, and made arrivals easier. Given the difficulties of doing this outside India, we even asked one of our hosts to book our first train for us, reimbursing them via Western Union along with the deposit we owed—no extra fees.

- **Visa**: 30-day e-tourist visa online for 26 € per person, all included. No major issues, and we got confirmation within 48 hours. But what a hassle to get a photo of our very wriggly 2-year-old that met India Visa Online’s requirements! We had to get a professional photo taken and then scan it...

- **Phone and internet**: We’re with Free, which offers 35 GB of data for a month in India (and many other countries). Super handy for looking up info and using WhatsApp almost anytime without extra charges. When we could, we used hotel or restaurant Wi-Fi to save data. In the end, we didn’t even use 15% of our data without really restricting ourselves. So, we didn’t get an Indian SIM card.

- **Currency exchange**: First withdrawal at Mumbai airport—just enough to get started, since the exchange rate is terrible, even with an online bank card (Indian banks still charge fees). Then, a big exchange in the back room of a trusted shop at the entrance to Jaisalmer Fort: 1 € = 90 rupees, while the official rate was 91 rupees that day—a great deal!

Alright, enough chatter—let’s get started with the adventures of Pagal/Michaël (that’s me), Magali (my partner), Kelyandre (her oldest), and Théo (the little one). Off into the unknown!

MA Marien33 Veteran ·
It already makes me want to... read... leave again...
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Hey Mark, Sorry, I can’t reply to your PM. It’s glitching! It’s spinning and spinning, and I just can’t write... So I sent you an email instead. Hope you haven’t changed your address... See you+
DI Did0764 Regular ·
Hi, I’m also waiting for Jawai Bandh—it’s been 10 years since I last visited the area...
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Hello, I’m also waiting for Jawai Bandh—it’s been 10 years since I last visited the area...

You shouldn’t be disappointed—it was a highlight of our trip! I’d never heard of this place despite my many visits to Rajasthan, and I only discovered it while browsing the Lonely Planet website under the Rajasthan section. Oddly enough, there’s no mention of Jawai Bandh in the print version.

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