Japan with the family
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We're a family of five: one dad, one mom, and three kids aged 10, 15, and 18.

Before diving into each stop in more detail, here are a few general thoughts:

We wanted to sample a bit of everything Japan has to offer in terms of landscapes, accommodation, and transport. We were after walks, temples, restaurants, shopping, and some downtime—but no "all-inclusive experiences" or museums for this first visit.

Three medium-sized (60x42x25) canvas suitcases, plus a duffel bag and a few small backpacks. 23 kg in the hold on the way out, 60 kg on the way back. 36 kg of shopping, without even trying. I think this is the maximum suitcase size if you don’t want to stress on the Shinkansen: they fit easily in the overhead racks.

Round-trip with Cathay Pacific, layover in Hong Kong: no need to collect luggage in Hong Kong—we checked it in at departure and picked it up in Tokyo, and the same on the way back (checked in Osaka, picked up at our final destination). This let us explore Hong Kong without worrying about our bags. Food and entertainment were pretty good—meals included a little Häagen-Dazs on each flight, and the entertainment had way more Asian cinema than you’d find on a Western airline, which was a nice way to see how much weight Western culture carries in Asia.

Initial itinerary: Tokyo (3 nights) Hakone (2 nights) Takayama (1 night) Kanazawa (2 nights) Kyoto (4 nights) Osaka (1 night) Ishigaki (3 nights)

The original plan was to fly directly from Ishigaki to Hong Kong, but due to Typhoon Dolphin, we had to cancel the Ishigaki leg. Cathay didn’t bat an eye about swapping the Ishigaki-HK flight for an Osaka-HK one, even though it was twice as long. We were a bit too attached to the idea of ending the trip with some beach time and replaced Ishigaki with Shirahama. It was a mistake—we should’ve visited Hiroshima or spent a little more time in Tokyo instead.
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TI Tiberivs ·
Tokyo

Day 1: On the plane, I bought an hour of internet for 10 bucks so I could book Kabuki tickets for the next evening. Seats go on sale at noon the day before the show, and I didn’t want to miss out. Arrived at Narita around 9 PM. I’d done my homework, so no time wasted: I’d filled out the online form to speed up entry formalities—it was super quick. Then I withdrew 400,000 yen in cash just to the left after exiting, bought Suica cards for the whole family, and took the monorail and subway. Both were packed—way more than on our other trips later in the week. When we got off the subway at Yurakucho, we stumbled upon our first station stamp, the first of many. Then we arrived at The Gate Hotel (Ginza), chosen for its central location (within walking distance of Tokyo Station and the Kabuki Theater), as well as its great value for the size of the rooms and the amenities. Small bonus: the hotel has the best toilets we had the whole trip—classic full anal-cleansing feature, plus the lid lifts automatically when you approach! Before bed, I filled out the online paperwork to get a translation of my driver’s license. A bit of a pain, but I get the logic, especially when you see what the French driver’s license looks like.

Day 2: Took the subway on an empty stomach to Asakusa to visit the shrine. We got there quickly and stopped at the 7-Eleven near Kaminarimon Gate for breakfast: the famous egg sandwich, smoothies you mix yourself in the machine, and a few other bits. The temple visit itself was quick. In my opinion, it’s not really worth visiting Tokyo’s temples if you’re heading to Kyoto later—it’s pretty meh. Still, I bought my travel journal and got my first Goshuin. We had two journals: one for secular stamps and another for Goshuin. Avoid putting station stamps and Goshuin in the same journal—it looks tacky. Then a quick trip near Kappabashi Dogugai to start shopping: a first knife, a kettle (not cast iron but a lightweight one that can turn into a tanuki), and some cat-shaped cookie cutters. For lunch, back to Ginza at Chikuyotei, a restaurant specializing in eel, which was in season. There was a 30-minute wait, so we took a ticket and browsed some nearby shops. When we returned, we were shown to the upstairs room with tatami mats—we had to take off our shoes. It was delicious. After the meal, we took the subway to Parco-ya Ueno shopping center to buy our Onitsuka Tigers—essential. We left with four pairs, dropped them off at the hotel, and then had some hearty pancakes at Happy Pancake. In the evening, I’d booked five seats the night before for the last act of the day’s Kabuki show at Kabuki-za Theater. If you only watch one act, you enter through a side door, but it only lasts 50 minutes, which is enough. More than an hour would be too much. After the show, we headed to Kura Sushi in Ginza. Reservations are easy and highly recommended. It’s a lot of fun for the whole family and a great way to try sushi without the pressure of embarrassing yourself if it doesn’t sit well (you’re in little booths away from prying eyes). You order on the tablet or your phone, and the plates arrive quickly on the conveyor belt. The selection is huge (not just sushi). Every X plates ordered, you can play a little game to win a small toy (like a gachapon).

Day 3: In the morning, we headed to Meiji Shrine. A little better than Senso-ji from the day before (the gates are very aesthetic in their simplicity, and the location in a small forest adds a bit of charm). Still, in my opinion, it’s pretty skippable if you’re going to Kyoto later. Then we took the subway to Gotoku-ji, the cat temple. It’s really cute: the neighborhood is different, very residential, with a winding little street, a cute train, and level crossings. The temple itself is charming, with a beautiful pagoda and thousands of adorable ceramic cats. Of course, we left with several of these kitties! We almost got caught in a big storm but made it back to the subway in time. We were starving, so we went to Afuri, a ramen place in Shinjuku Station. It was a bit spicy, but still pretty chill—we were all sitting at the counter, relaxed. Then a little tour around Shinjuku, between charming alleys and bars with “sexy ladies.” Shinjuku Station was a nightmare to navigate—lots of construction and few exits. We also stopped by Donki (with a few purchases—we’re only human) and Porter (overpriced canvas bags, but made in Japan, so I caved). In the evening, it was Shibuya Sky, the observation deck at the top of a tower. Mixed experience: not a disaster, but not super satisfying, for three reasons: it was raining, so the outdoor area was closed; there were lame “artistic” light projections on the wall that reflected badly on the windows; and there were tons of Chinese influencers posing in front of the windows—kind of funny, but also a bit annoying. We struggled to find an open restaurant that would take us, ending up at an all-you-can-eat shabu-shabu place that was pretty gross, but it kept us from starving on our last night in Tokyo.
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TI Tiberivs ·
Hakone

Day 4:

Our initial plan from Tokyo was to take the RomanceCar, but I missed the boat for snagging the best seats, so we ended up taking the Shinkansen from there to Odawara, then local trains.

We walked from the hotel to Tokyo Station, grabbed some ekiben to eat on the train (a heated one for me, a more traditional one for the rest of the crew), and some super cute little egg custards. From Tokyo, Odawara is only about thirty minutes by Shinkansen, so just enough time to eat and—boom!—we’re out. We dropped our bags in a locker to go see the castle, had a big multicolored shaved ice on the castle esplanade, and a slightly fancier ice cream at the temple tea salon. The castle is a recent reconstruction, but from the outside, it’s got real character! We didn’t visit the inside, but apparently, there’s a view all the way to the sea. There’s also a ninja activity center nearby that looks like a blast for the kids.

After that, we picked up our Hakone Pass at Odawara Station and took another train to Hakone Itabashi, then the little mountain train. It dropped us off at the charming little mountain station of Miyanoshita. We *could* have walked to the hotel, but nah—we took the bus.

We chose the Nazuna Hakone, a ryokan-style hotel with a modern twist. We didn’t want to leave Japan without experiencing an onsen, but the idea of communal naked baths with the kids? No way that was happening. And I wasn’t exactly thrilled about being naked around other guys either. So we booked two rooms with private baths on the terrace—our kids could chill in their swimsuits, and my wife and I could enjoy our own private soak. Dinner was the first gastronomic challenge for the family, with a succession of beautiful but sometimes surprising little dishes for the younger ones. They handled it pretty well, though!

Day 5:

A tough but interesting start with a hearty breakfast packed with umami but light on sweets. Whole fish and other delights. Then we took the bus and walked a bit to catch the funicular and cable cars up to the crater above Hakone. The cable car ride is spectacular, though the crater itself is less impressive than the Phlegraean Fields (near Naples) since you don’t walk close to the sulfur and fumaroles. The shop is great, and eating the black eggs is a fun experience. We completed the "Hakone Loop" by taking the cable car back down on the lake side to catch the boat. We splurged a little for first class on the boat—the crossing was really pleasant. On the other side of the lake, we grabbed some food at Bakery & Table Hakone, which has a foot bath with tables on the terrace so you can eat with your feet in hot water. Then we walked to the red torii in the lake. There was a huge line for *the* photo, so I opted for my phone’s magic eraser instead. We took the bus back without any issues, then enjoyed the onsen at the hotel and had dinner in our room like gypsies, feasting on 7-Eleven snacks from the corner.
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