Juste un petit post pour preciser certains points sur le continent americain et plus particulierement la partie latino americaine (bien que cela soit aussi valable pour le nord du continent).
L Eldorado n existe pas et le mythe du bon sauvage n est plus. Les tribus, groupes ethniques, chefferies et les cultures dites isolees en plein coeur de la foret amazonienne ont toutes eu des contacts avec le monde occidental. Je ne veux pas briser le reve de l authenticite, mais si celle ci existe encore (dans le sens propre du terme, c est a dire aux traditions authentiques donc originelles et de ce fait preservees), ce n est certainement pas sur le continent latino americain que l on pourra la rencontrer. Certes, certains elements culturels ont perdure au fil des siecles, mais ils ont assimile et integre des elements etrangers. Notamment dans la religion, d ou le fort synchretisme de ce continent (ce qui est d ailleurs une vrai richesse). On peut, bien sur, se retrouver a 4500m dans un tout petit hameau a aider les quechuas peruviens ou equatoriens a travailler la chacra de patate, de yuca ou, a plus faible altitude, le champ de mais. Mais on n aura pas ete pour autant avec des "incas". Juste avec des paysans travaillant avec des techniques rudimentaires. Je ne suis pas en train de dire qu il n y a pas une survivence dans les tecniques ou outils de travail, mais je dis justement qu il n y a qu une survivence et pas vraiment une authenticite. Ce sont juste des paysans, et ils n ont plus rien a voir avec leurs ancetres ; si ce n est une langue qui a cependant assimilee beaucoup d elements exterieurs (espagnol essentiellement). Un tres bel exemple reside dans celui des indiens Urus du Lac Titicaca (cote peruvien) : ces derniers partent aux aurores de Puno pour etre bien en place sur leurs iles flottantes a l arrivee des touristes, et tard le soir ils retournent a Puno. Ce n est finalement qu une attraction touristique, une vitrine de l authenticite. Et les vetements que portent les populations andines (par exemple dans la region de Cusco au Perou) n ont rien a voir avec ceux de leurs ancetres.
Ces exemples portent sur les peuplades andines mais sont aussi valable pour les peuplades forestieres : les lacandons (Mexique et Guatemala) roulent en 4*4 grace au tourisme (mais devant ce dernier portent leurs tuniques blanches), les shuars, yanomanis, ...utilisent de la vaisselle en alluminium et ont adopte les bottes en caoutchouc avec le short et le jooging. Ils ne se liment plus les dents, ne se baladent plus avec une coupe au bol et vetus d un pagne rouge (sauf cas tres exceptionnel au Bresil, mais les tenues dites traditionelles sont revetues pour la television, ou bien pour une ceremonie telle qu un rite de passage. Il ne faut pas croire que raoni se balade quotidiennement avec son plateau d argile dans la levre inferieure). Aussi difficile (peut etre) que cela puisse paraitre, un paysan andin ne connait rien aux incas et quand il parle des sites archeologiques, il les attribu a des "dieux" venus dans des temps anciens, en fait c est une facon de dire qu il ne sait pas. De meme pour les populations forestieres. Seul le chaman ou le chef de tribu connait l histoire de son peuple et il la rattache toujours a une vison cosmogonique, mythique, et non a une vision historique. Tous ces derniers ont finalement tres tres peu connaissance de leurs racines. Bien sur, il y a toujours une ou deux personnes connaissant plus ou moins l histoire de sa culture (maitre d ecole, maire de la communaute) mais cela represente une tres faible minorite.
De plus, ces populations sont les plus pauvres et vivent au quotidient le racisme des plus riches. Etre type indien (en opposition au type occidental qui est synonyme de reussite sociale) est quasi comme une tarre (par exemple, au Perou etre "traite" d indien est une insulte sur la cote). D ou un des problemes majeur de ce continent : il y a un racisme envers ses propres racines...
Je ne veux pas couper une part du reve, mais voyager dans ces pays ne consiste pas a s occulter la realite. Venir ici et s imaginer rencontrer, ou "rentrer en contact" (terme tres 19eme siecle, mais le temps du romantisme et des voyageurs-explorateurs n est plus) avec des mapuches, quechuas, quichuas, aymaras, jivarros, yanomanis, ....de "pure souche" et vivant encore a "l etat sauvage" comme si le temps et l histoire ne les avaient pas atteind est un erreur et est surtout tres loin de la realite. Alors, evidemment, on peut toujours rever et voir uniquement se dont on a envie, mais c est s occulter la realite.
Juste un dernier point, les gouvernements francais obligent les populations amerindiennes de Guyane Francaise a recevoir le RMI (depuis sa creation bien sur), alors que la majeure partie des chefs de tribu le refusent. Mais l argent est remis en main propre aux populations. Cela a une consequence toute simple, ils delaissent l autonomie pour l assistanat et se saoulent. En d autres termes, il s agit ni plus ni moins d un procede d acculturation.
Je ne peux entamer la discussion avec force persuasion, car j'ai besoin de faire quelques recherches, mais je m'éléve un peu contre ce que tu dis......même si quasiment les tribus vivants comme au premier matin du monde ont presque toutes disparues....
Mais on sait que certaines tribus du bassin amazonien n'ont pas été approchées par l'homme, et beaucoup d'ethnies d'Indonésie comme sur les îles de Siberut, de Nlle Irlande, et bien sur certaines peuplades de Sibérie et de Mongolie, ainsi qu'une tribu de Tanzanie en Afrique vivent encore comme du temps de leurs ancêtres.....et briser ainsi le mythe du bon sauvage comme tu le dis n'est pas trés réjouissant pour les pauvres voyageurs que nous sommes, et surtout relève de la fausse information.....
Mais, je reviendrais ici pour étayer ma thèse du bon sauvage existant toujours......😉
Salut, je confirme et maintient pour ce qui est du bassin amazonien, en revanche mon post ne portait que sur le continent americain donc je ne te contredirai pas en ce qui concerne les autres zones du globe car je n en sais rien.🤪😕
Les derniers contacts-decouvertes ont eu lieu avec les expeditions de Claude Levi Strauss et Alain Gebrhart (ortographe a verifier ; a lire d ailleurs son ouvrage Orenoque-Amazone) ; et avec la perce des grandes compagnies petrolieres et des entreprises d exploitation du bois (le dernier groupe preserve fut rencontre vers 1985 me semble t il, c est a dire il y a 20 ans).
Mais le bassin amazonien n est plus un territoire vierge (mais ca reste un territoire difficile d acces) et les differentes tribus sont connues et repertoriees suivant les groupes linguistiques. Cela c est fait au moyen d expeditions scientifiques, par l intermediaire des grands consursium, et par des informateurs. Car si l occidental ne connaissait pas la tribu X, les voisins de X eux les connaissaient ; ils en ont donc informe les chercheurs, ou les compagnies, qui se rendirent a leur rencontre. Et, de fil en aiguille (en ajoutant les informations des differentes compagnies d exploitation), les differents groupes amazoniens ont ete repertories et visites (visites ne veut pas dire etudier). De plus, il n y a plus de territoire vierge en amazonie (tout fut visite par les grandes compagnies petrolieres et d exploitation du bois), donc il n y a plus de havre de paix servant de cache aux "derniers bon sauvages".
A bientot
😉....On va avoir des problèmes de compréhension et c'est dommage......
1985.....derniers contacts découvertes....., et alors que faire du travail énorme qu'accomplit Sydney Posuelo, au sein de la FUNAL au Brésil, et qui est rentré en contact avec les indiens Korubos en .....1996...! il est retourné voir cette tribu au printemps 2003, et sur les indications de celle ci a trouvé des traces de campement de tribus n'ayant jamais eu de contacts avec des blancs ou des métis, et la politique actuelle de la FUNAL est désormais de laiser les groupes non contactés en paix et de justement n'établir aucun contact par la protection de leur zone de déambulation.......
Pour parler du Pérou, doit on passer par pertes et profits certaines tribus Arawaks, regroupant quand même quelques 50 à 60 000 individus, et qui fuit tout contact avec les blancs et les métis au plus profond de la Selva.......les Shipibos sur les rives du Rio Ucayali et les Cashibos qui se déplacent sur les rios Pachitea et Aguaytia en pirogues et n'ont pas non plus de contacts avec les blancs et les métis.....( ce qui ne veut pas dire qu'ils n'en ont pas eus.....)
Rappellez aussi que si la déforestation de la forêt amazonienne est quelquechose de vrai, 20% de la partie recouvrant le bassin amazonien n'a été pour le moment détruite et ceci explique que certaines tribus n'ont encore établies aucun contact avec les blancs.......mais si la déforestation continue au rythme actuel, il est vrai que d'ici une vingtaine d'années, celà risque de ne plus être vrai, mais il y a actuellement un gros effort de fait par certaines organisations gouvernementales brésiliennes et organisations étrangères pour préserver ce poumon vert.........
Toutes ces informations sont facilement vérifiables et je pourrais encore les étayer de manière plus approfondies, mais est ce vraiment nécéssaire, et ne peut on faire confiance à des personnes soucieuses du maintien de peuples dans leur environnement d'origine et qui se préoccupent d'avoir constamment un maximum d'informations sur l'évolution de leur conditions......
Non, non, pas de problemes de comprehension car ca tue la communication.
Les Korubos sont connus, rescences et en partie etudies depuis les annees 30 et 40 par Claude Levi Strauss.
"il est retourné voir cette tribu au printemps 2003, et sur les indications de celle ci a trouvé des traces de campement de tribus n'ayant jamais eu de contacts avec des blancs ou des métis". D accord, mais comment d apres de simple traces savoir si la tribu a eu des contacts ou non avec les blancs ou/et metisses? De plus, si il a obtenu l info d apres les Korubos, il faut etre conscient que ces derniers, etant connus depuis longtemps, l ont certainement transmise a d autres personnes.
Il faut etre conscient d un point en ce qui concerne les recherches ethnologiques : de nombreux scientifiques s attribuent l etude d un groupe ou la decouverte d un groupe alors que ce dernier est deja connu depuis longtemps. Cela pour plusieurs raison : un manque de connaissance de la literrature etrangere (tout simplement car ecrite dans une langue difficile a aprehender), mais aussi par desir de detenir ce fameux bon sauvage, piece maitresse a l edifice d une etude ethnologique unique. Cela se produit aussi dans d autres sciences humaines (comme l archeologie par exemple).
La deontologie et l ethique font aussi parfois pale figure dans les sciences humaines.
De plus, il y a un point tres important en Amazonie, c est que de nombreuses personnes font l amalgame entre groupe ethnique et groupe l inguistique. Decouvrir une nouvelle langue que l on peut rattacher a un groupe linguistique (comme guarani, jivarro, ...) d accord. Mais pas decouvrir une nouvelle ethnie.
Que des tribus fuient le contact avec les blancs a l heure actuelle je n ai jamais dit le contraire. C est justement parce qu elles ont eu trop de contacts avec les blancs qu elles les fuient maintenant.
"les Shipibos sur les rives du Rio Ucayali et les Cashibos qui se déplacent sur les rios Pachitea et Aguaytia en pirogues et n'ont pas non plus de contacts avec les blancs et les métis.....( ce qui ne veut pas dire qu'ils n'en ont pas eus.....) ". Je ne suis pas d accord avec toi, d autant plus qu en ce qui concerne les rios Ucayali, Huallaga, le Marañon, le Tigre, le Pachitea, ... (c est a dire les dpts de San Martin, Amazonas et Loreto a la frontiere de l Equateur), j ai matiere a alimenter car j etudie ces regions et j y part dans deux semaines pour deux mois de terrain. Je peux te dire qu ils s eloignent des blancs et des metis, mais si tu as l autorisation de l apu (chef de tribu) tu peux tres facilement les rencontrer. Meme sans l autorisation d ailleurs car nombreux sont ceux qui viennent en ville. Mais d une maniere generale, on peut effectivement dire que ces derniers se protegent plus ou moins bien des contacts (ce qui n etait pas le cas dans le passe). Mais si demain tu veux te rendre dans un village, il n y a aucun probleme, ils te vendront meme des arcs, des ceramiques ou des sarbacanes (ils savent que tout cela rapporte des sous....).
Quand je parle des grandes compagnies forestieres et petrolieres, je ne parle pas des exploitations, mais des prospections que ces dernieres ont fait dans tout le bassin amazonien, dont plus des trois quart et deja concessionne (concessiones n est pas synonyme d exploiter). Au cour de ces prospections, ils ont rescence et contacte de nombreux groupes.
"et ne peut on faire confiance à des personnes soucieuses du maintien de peuples dans leur environnement d'origine et qui se préoccupent d'avoir constamment un maximum d'informations sur l'évolution de leur conditions...... ". Je suis d accord, mais tout ce qui est organisme d etat ou ONG, n est quand meme pas un point de reference en ce qui concerne l etude des peuples et leur preservations. D ailleurs, rares sont ceux qui travaillent avec des ethnologues (il y en a bien sur mais ce n est pas une majorite). Et les ethnologues inclus dans ces organismes, par definition, n ont plus leur independance car ils sont voues a des pressions politiques et/ou financieres.
Un autre point, je ne cherchai pas a declencher une polemique. Et il n y avait aucune attaque dans le post d origine. Je me limitais juste a eclaircir certains points mal connues ou totalement inconnus qui engendrent de ce fait de fausses idees et des connaissances erronees. On pourra toujours citer une reference disant que oui existe encore la tribu inconnue, comme l on pourra citer une reference disant que les lignes de Nasca s adressent a des etres venant du ciel. Mais bon, il faut comparer et critiquer toutes ces references. Une ou deux isolees n ont pas de sens. Il faut toutes les prendre en compte, les lire et les comparer. Comme cela, on s apercoit, par exemple, que les Korubos sont connus depuis 50 a 60 ans deja.
A bientot
Bon, ceux qui me connaissent savent qu'en général j'évite de polémiquer et là encore je ne vais pas jouer au jeu de celui qui a les meilleures infos, celà ne sert à rien, mais il est dommage que tu ne cites pas Sydney Posuelo qui fait un travail remarquable en coordination avec le gouvernement brésilien, et je persiste à dire que tout ce que tu dis n'est pas totalement vrai concernant les tribus du bassin amazonien, même si ton pseudo et le fait que tu vives au Pérou aura bien sur tendance à donner plus de crédit à tes infos.......
Celà étant, j'ai été ravi de discuter avec toi sur ce problème des ethnies restant ou non à découvrir et je laisse peut être à tout un chacun le soin de mener sa propre enquête, ou de se faire sa propre opinion, et de nous amener un autre regard sur cette discussion intéréssante.
Il resterait donc des peuples - tribus ou ethnies n'ayant pas encore eu de contact avec la civilisation ?????
Si il y en avait, et c'est peut-être le cas, il serait bon de leur foutre la paix.. Malheureusement, ce ne sont pas les gens de ce forum qui décideront.
Merci à vous deux de soulever ce point. Même si au cours de 5 longs voyages au Chiapas/Peten je n, ai jamais rencontré le moindre lacandon au volant d, un 4 x 4...comme le dit Chacha......!
C'est une question que je me pose régulierement en lisant certains posts, à savoir: qui sont réellement les gens que je m'apprète à rencontrer?. On connait généralement bien leur situation polique-sociale et économique actuelle mais qui se préoccupe de leurs antécédents....de ce qui à fait que....etc...Au-delà des préoccupations matérielles pré-départs les réflexions de Chacha et Alan ajoutent un + au plaisir de la découverte sur place...Comme le mentionnent nos deux intervenants un lien ténu existe encore...
Je ne voudrais pas entrer dans des considérations socio-philosophiques trop "pointues" mais il demeure que cette connaissance vaut, à mes yeux, bien plus que n'importe "quelle plage de sable blanc/farine au bord d'une mer turquoise et transparente...."
Ouchhh....oubliez le dernier paragraphe...je n'ai pas la phraséologie d'un jeune intello genre Loopkin...
je voulais en savoir plus...merci
je ne connais pas du tout l'amérique du sud (oserai-je dire pas encore ;-)...) mais ce que tu exprimes je l'ai vu ailleurs, en Afrique...où en effet les locaux n'hésitent pas à revêtir et réinvestir leurs costumes et coutumes ponctuellement, au passage d'un car de touristes, pour l'abandonner dès qu'il est passé...ce que tu vois au Pérou, on le trouve partout dans le monde, même là où on s'attend plus à "l'exprience universelle" (je suis un peu penchée vers la philo..je sais) comme en Egypte, les Pyramides sont "des temples des millions d'années", mais on ne ressent pas vraiment la grandeur des pharaons au milieu de bancs de touristes, de guides et autres interprètes -alors on revient au lever du soleil-...pareil avec certains touaregs, porteurs d'eau berbères, guerriers Massaï...et des exemples comme ceux-là, il y en a partout j'imagine...
je crois pourtant que la part de rêve est le début du voyage, on voit bien quand on arrive que ce n'est pas "ça", que le monde en marche a fait son oeuvre même dans les coins les plus reculés qu'on imaginait encore sauvegardés de la modernité...
alors l'eldorado n'existe qu'en vidéo, d'accord, le bon sauvage dans les livres de l'époque coloniale, encore d'accord. c'est ainsi. mais je n'en démords pas, si je viens un jour au Pérou, il me faudra quand même mettre mes pas dans ceux des ancêtres et voir ce qu'il reste de leur grandeur. juste pour le mythe, juste pour moi.
@+, et ce que je trouve cool, c'est ton parcours
completion
Et si c'est une peur que vous voulez dissiper,
le siège de cette peur est en votre coeur et non
dans la main que vous redoutez KG
Une enquête méticuleuse, extrêmemen documenté, sur les travaux anthropologiques en Amazonie des années 50 à nos jours... Et derrière le récit pasionnant la révélation des motivations réelles des scientifiques américains et francais... Passionnant.
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Hello everyone on this forum!
I know in advance that what I'm about to say here won't please everyone, but honesty is a virtue, isn't it?
Here's the thing: for many years now, I've noticed a habit in French-speaking posts of using abbreviations left and right, as if to show that we're "in the know." Let me explain with a few examples:
- - In discussions about Peru, I see "Aguas" for "Aguas Calientes." And if it's Mexico, well, it'll be "Aguas" for "Aguascalientes"!
- - For Guatemala, "travelers" will say "Guaté." Come on, saying "Guatemalas" would maybe be the undeniable sign that you know nothing about the country???
- - Back from Indonesia, many will talk about how familiar they've become with the country's language: "bahasa." Of course, everyone will know what you're talking about, but it still gets on my nerves because the language (one of the many languages) of Indonesia is "bahasa Indonesia." "Bahasa" actually means "language," and you'll find this word of Indian origin ‘Bhāṣā’ (it's Sanskrit originally) outside Indonesia too: in Thailand, for example, any language will be "phasa" as in "phasa thai" (official Thai), "phasa isan" (what's spoken in northeastern Thailand), "phasa angkrit" = English, etc.
Am I an incorrigible nitpicker? Maybe. But I'd also find it ridiculous if a foreigner came and told me they visited "Monte" during their trip to France, when it was actually Monte Carlo.
I read a lot in English and don't think I've encountered such a habit among English speakers.
Who’d like to share their best and worst travel memories in a few lines?
For me, it’s watching the TAJ MAHAL at sunrise and getting chased by dogs at the top of a mountain pass in GREECE on the way back from ISTANBUL.
THANKS GUYS
This is my 15,000th post, and it's a message I would have preferred never to write.
Patrick—Yangguizi—won’t be returning from his trek in Uganda. His health betrayed him in the mountains.
Like many of you, I laughed until I couldn’t anymore at his travel stories. I met him in Shanghai, then in Istanbul... We scoured restaurants—he was an incredible expert on world cuisines. We relived Korea, China. Always brilliant, so sharp, so funny, so down-to-earth. Being even a little bit his friend was something to be proud of. I think I envied him.
Patrick is still out there, of course...
He found his happiness running across the world. He’s on his path. He never doubted that "the traveler doesn’t even know if he’ll return one day."
Not sure this would’ve suited him, but his departure devastates me.
Alright,
Farewell, you foreign devil. Safe travels.
hello to all travelers with their eyes wide open to the desert...
I’ve always wondered what I was "doing" on this earth. And why my father, who died a few months after I was born—a former youngest French resistance fighter—joined the First Saharan Motorized Company in Atar and spent the rest of his life repairing army engines in Algeria, Mauritania, Senegal, Mali (which didn’t exist under that name back then), Morocco, and finally Algeria, where my mother was born and raised. (Believe me, it’s not "cool" being the child of a soldier in a country occupied by France, and even less so the child of a "pied-noir.")
Of course, I never got an answer: the dead don’t talk, and the army doesn’t either.
But here’s the thing—I had photos...
So naturally, one day I hit the road. I wanted to see, to understand.
It’s thanks to VF that I was able to do a little research on crossing the Morocco-Mauritania border, and I’m grateful to its members, just as I’m grateful to all those who welcomed me on the road for 14 years.
For the past few weeks, I’ve been wondering if I should talk about this or not...
It turns out the Mauritanians changed my life by asking for my help... And that started as early as February 2012... (Did I owe them something? No answer to that question.)
Ah, the irony—they saw me coming. But when you’re handed sick children and begged to do something, what would you have done? I’d worked in a hospital, so I knew a bit about the rules to follow. I didn’t hesitate.
And well, over all these years, I met doctors, surgeons, and together we organized care, evacuations of children, training for surgeons—even trying to stop children from having to travel outside their country. It was never easy. I’d like to thank those who supported us, as well as *La Chaîne de l’Espoir*, *La Fondation Face au Monde*, and everyone who built bridges between our two countries.
Unfortunately, despite the constant efforts of Mauritanian doctors and surgeons, some children couldn’t be helped in time. Today, I want to talk about four siblings—orphans of their mother—suffering from congenital glaucoma causing irreversible blindness. Their case was entrusted to me in 2020, just weeks before the big lockdown. We couldn’t do anything for them then, but when their father asked me for a gift, I rushed to my computer and wrote a story.
Through a tale, the children take a great journey, explore their country, and fulfill a dream. I never thought this book would be published—it was, in 2023.
This book pays tribute to Mauritania. It’s a message for those who know nothing about the hardships of life there, carrying both the harshness and beauty of an immense desert where you can travel by 4x4, bike, on foot, or by camel in complete safety. It bears witness to the kindness of Mauritanians toward travelers.
As a woman traveling alone in my vehicle—a now-rusted old Mercedes that no longer runs—I had the most beautiful encounters of my life there (I’ve seen other parts of the world...). The blind children of Choum, Atar, Nouadhibou, and Nouakchott will forever be in my heart.
Volunteer readers transcribed the book into a free audio version for the visually impaired. It’s available in sound libraries in France, the *Fondation Valentin Haüy*, and the Swiss Romande library.
I made my last trip to Mauritania in my old 4x4 to distribute the book everywhere, especially to its heroes and the school for the visually impaired in Nouakchott.
After that, I thought it was time to close the chapter because I no longer have the means or the strength to travel.
My publishers chose this title for it: *The Blue Eyes of the Desert*.
This publication helped a mission of Swiss volunteer ophthalmologists come to operate on glaucomas in Mauritania. I’m thrilled because they come back every year!
This adventure is ending, yes—everything must come to an end—but ultimately, it was born here, on the VF site!! So yes, I had to say it: THANK YOU!!!!!
Hi everyone,
I’m Loulou, a French expat who’s been living in Southeast Asia for about fifteen years, currently in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. A passionate walker at heart, I’ve trekked in Nepal (Thorung La, Mardi Himal), India, Vietnam, and I’m still planning new hikes (Char Dham, Langtang, Annapurna).
I’ve just published my first travel journal, recounting three months of walking and encounters across India. A portion of the sales goes to an educational center I support in Kep, for children whose parents work in the salt marshes.
I’m also working on a second book about Nepal with a musician friend, focusing on the Mardi Himal trek—two independent perspectives on the same journey.
Happy to swap stories with you about the Himalayas, India, Southeast Asia, or just the urge to hit the road and walk far from home.
Safe travels,
Loulou
Hi! It was totally by chance that I stumbled upon VoyageForum (an ad online and a story lol), and I’ve been reading some really old posts from 2011 about Thai massage schools—discussions on how to get by, accommodation, prices, etc. It reminded me of my own experience: I kept things simple by staying with a local family during my entire trip. I only shared all the expenses with them, which, I’ll admit, was super cheap… and I often traveled with them, which naturally opened a lot of doors for me. To start, at the school in Salaya, my Thai friend immediately connected me with Teacher Phong (the school’s mentor and teacher of teachers, a former monk). I was supposed to join a group session with other foreigners, but for some reason I don’t know, I got two days of private lessons for free with this expert… incredible! And on top of that, he loved France! It was an amazing experience. I "discovered" massage by chance—the Thai family just told me: "Try it, you’ll see!" (I’d had a pretty intense massage in the capital before 😅… but the next day, I felt unbelievably great!))
Every morning, I’d take a taxi (chosen by the Thai family at prices that beat all the competition) to this school—I’ve forgotten the name of the little village now… right in the heart of the countryside. Then, in the evenings, I’d keep practicing massage on all the family members… and they’d teach me Thai at the same time!))
Since then, I’ve practiced a bit, with lots of positive feedback. Following Teacher Phong’s advice—he thought my pressure was deep, firm, and precise—he strongly encouraged me to take this seriously.
I love Thailand so much. It’s a whole different way of living… and it’s a real blessing, even if I couldn’t live there full-time. Anyway, that was an unforgettable memory, and sometimes the Thai family and I still say hi—from 2011, 2013… right up to today!
"It seems to me that poverty would be less painful in the sun" wrote Aznavour...
Not sure...😕 Who can prove that people in hot countries are happier than others?
What do you think?
Is it better to live in Montpellier than in Lille?
Are the Pygmies happier than the Inuit?
Are Canadians less happy than the people of Louisiana?
Are there more French expats in hot countries?
And your travels? Do you choose your destinations based on the climate?
Do you rejoice when a bit of sunshine appears?
Hi everyone, just this once I’m not posting for a travel story, but to share a thought for Venezuela.
If you didn’t know—since it’s not making headlines—the country was hit by two 7.5-magnitude earthquakes last week. Over 2,200 people have died, more than 50,000 are missing, and some coastal towns have been completely destroyed.
Maybe when the scale of the humanitarian crisis becomes clear, our media will cover it a bit more... especially since earthquakes with this many casualties usually make the front page, but there’s been nothing in France.
So here’s a thought for this country, which, whatever you think of its politics, is a true jewel of South America, both for its landscapes and its people.
hi there
I’d like to invite you to discover my coastal province in central Vietnam: Quang Ngai.
This year, my province has really improved its infrastructure—mountains, countryside, and sea are all authentic here.
No harassers or thieves, and no Russians either.
A local lunch costs around 1 €.
A *** hotel room is about 25 €, and you can find hotels right on My Khe Beach.
We have a specialty: *banh xeo*—10 crepes for just 1.5 €.
You can rent motorbikes to explore the province and maybe visit the many ethnic minorities.
I live here—I’m not selling anything, but I can help if needed (my father-in-law is a traditional Vietnamese doctor and he’s very skilled).
Hi everyone! 😉
I’m Typhaine, 35 years old. Five years ago, I left France for a solo round-the-world trip—no planes, just a van, hitchhiking, cycling, and even a canoe in the Amazon! Today, I work as a naturalist guide in Argentine Patagonia.
Wherever I go, my compass stays the same: observing and photographing wildlife, which I deeply admire and respect.
My project: I’d love to share this experience through a sustainable, authentic, and immersive nature tourism initiative. But to build something meaningful, I need to understand how other nature enthusiasts experience their own adventures.
If you:
Are over 20 years old
Have a true passion for Nature
Have already taken at least one trip lasting more than 3 nights (in your country or abroad) in your life
Promise: I’m not selling anything, this isn’t marketing. Your answers are 100% anonymous and will only help me shape this wild project.
A huge thank you to everyone for your help and kindness! Looking forward to chatting in this thread 😛
(Dear admins, this is purely a collaborative effort for my project study, with no commercial purpose. Thank you so much for your support!)
Photo: Grizzly Bear (Ursus arctos horribilis), female on the left and her cub on the right. Photo taken by me in Alaska, Denali National Park.
It’s something we often notice in this forum—and many others—this behavioral shift.
A long-time member, or even a new one, asks a question.
They get one or more answers, some brief, some detailed, and then... nothing???
Not even a simple thank you!!!
From what I’ve gathered, if the answers don’t align with what they wanted to hear, it seems natural for the asker to just disappear!! 😕
Unless—(and I fear this is the case)—basic politeness is no longer part of our society????
I spent 3 weeks in Bali last summer (+ 3 nights on Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java). So I wanted to see what ChatGPT could suggest for comparison...
Here’s the prompt I gave:
"You’re a local expert guide for Bali.
- Plan a 20-day itinerary for Bali with a side trip to Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java without staying overnight.
- I’m traveling with my wife, and I love visiting historical sites, hiking, relaxing at the beach, snorkeling, and exploring rice terraces...
- For the duration of the stay, I don’t want more than 8 places to sleep, and I’d like to stay at least 2 days at each stop to avoid unpacking too often. Except for the last night, where I’m okay with just one night near the airport.
- I prefer neighborhoods that are walkable and try to avoid typical tourist traps, though I don’t want to miss the must-see spots. So suggest a mix of iconic sites and hidden gems.
- Recommend hotels or guesthouses with a budget of 50 to 100 € per night, including breakfast. Make suggestions in areas popular with travelers, specifying the vibe (I prefer quiet), and consider safety and proximity to attractions.
- For lunch and dinner, suggest two to three restaurants that are well-rated by customers.
- Give me a day-by-day program with details on travel times, visiting times for each point of interest, and recommendations for transportation (taxi, train, bike, etc.).
Estimate the total cost of the trip, including accommodations, food, transportation, and activities, and suggest two tips for saving money in each category.
- Don’t make anything up—be realistic about travel times, take into account the opening dates and hours of sites, and give me the entry fees for places to visit.
- Ask me all the questions until you’re 95% sure you understand what’s being asked. Don’t generate your response until you’ve understood."
The AI asked for a few clarifications:
"Great request—I can build you a really optimized and enjoyable itinerary, but to be 95% sure I hit the mark, I need a few key clarifications (this will really influence the pace, areas, and accommodations)."
In the end, it proposed a program very close to what we actually did.
I’ll skip its accommodation and restaurant suggestions...
Its proposal:
"Ubud (4 nights) => we did 5 nights
Sidemen (2 nights)
Amed (3 nights) => we’d planned 2 nights
Gili Meno (3 nights) => we did Gili between Sidemen and Amed
Munduk (3 nights) => we did 2 nights before Pemuteran
Pemuteran (3 nights) with Ijen => we did 4 nights
Sanur (2 nights + 1 last night) => we chose Jatiluwih instead of Sanur
It suggested "activities" (and accommodations too):
IN UBUD:
- Walk around central Ubud (1–2h)
- Campuhan Ridge Walk
- Tegalalang Rice Terrace
- Tirta Empul
- Gunung Kawi
- Massage / market / slow café
IN SIDEMEN:
- Rice terrace hike (2–3h)
- Cooking class
IN AMED:
- Snorkeling
- Japanese Shipwreck
- Beach + relaxation
- Volcano sunset
ON GILI:
- Snorkeling at Gili Meno Turtle Point, Nest Underwater Statues
IN MUNDUK:
- Jungle & waterfall hike - Munduk Waterfall + Melanting Waterfall
- Loop: 3–4h (perfect for your level)
- Ulun Danu Bratan Temple
- Twin Lakes
IN PEMUTERAN
- Snorkeling: Menjangan Island
For Kawah Ijen, it detailed the day well:
👍 from Pemuteran = best possible option
12 PM: leave hotel (we left at 10 PM)
1 PM: ferry
3 PM: arrival in Java + transfer
11 PM: start ascent
2 AM–6 AM: volcano
Return to Bali around 11 AM–12 PM (we got back at 4 PM)
👍 still very intense, but doable with an agency
💰 ~80–120 €/person all-inclusive
IN SANUR:
- Relaxation
- Quiet beach
- Proximity to airport (30 min)"
I’ve kept the habit of blowing my nose in the sink and then washing my hands—a custom I picked up in India. Sometimes, non-travelers are shocked when they catch me in the act... 🤪
Also, when I run out of toilet paper, it doesn’t bother me—unless I’ve got company over... 🤪
Just got back from walking a friend’s dog (while they’re on vacation), wearing a djellaba and Tibetan boots... 😏😏😏 Oh, for sure, if I’d run into locals, I probably would’ve shocked them? 😏
Anyway, as long as I’m not spitting on the floor at a restaurant or squatting on the side of a highway with a water bottle in hand...
After taking a little trip around the world, I came back a few months ago with an idea in mind.
I mostly do diving, and I love observing animals in their natural habitat without disturbing them.
During the trip, I realized it was quite complicated to know where and when to see certain species.
For example:
where to dive with sharks or manta rays
where you might get a chance to swim with whales
I even discovered thresher sharks during my trip… I didn’t even know this species existed before, even though they’re incredible to see.
We spent a ton of time searching for info all over the place, especially on social media, without ever getting a clear picture.
So I started putting all this together on my own, in the form of a map, to make it easier to visualize where to go depending on the seasons.
I recently put a first version online (it’s called Fauneya).
There are probably mistakes, inconsistencies, or things to improve, and that’s partly why I’m posting here.
I’d really love to know how you all go about planning this kind of trip.
As part of my Master’s thesis, I’m currently conducting a public survey on a topic that concerns all of us when planning a trip: artificial intelligence and the role of human contact in travel planning.
These days, we’re using more and more digital tools to find ideas, compare options, and book trips... but is the role of human advisors still essential? At what moments? And for what types of trips?
The survey is anonymous and takes about 7 minutes.
It’s aimed at anyone who travels (or has traveled) for leisure, whether you plan everything yourself or go through an agency.
While browsing the forum to gather info for my upcoming trip to Thailand, I often see the terms "traveler," "great traveler," and also "tourist"—so what’s the nuance for you?
I've traveled quite a bit in Vietnam over the past few years—from the southern delta to bustling cities and even some small islands—but what really sticks with me is the north, the high mountains.
Up there, there's something different—maybe slower, more raw. The morning markets with ethnic groups, women in traditional clothes, the colors...
The stilt houses, kids following you and laughing for no reason, the terraced rice fields—it almost feels unreal at times, so vast and quiet, yet so human and simple.
You often hear that Sapa has become too touristy, and that's partly true, especially in the center. But as soon as you move a little farther away, everything changes quickly. The landscapes open up, encounters feel more natural, and you rediscover something truly authentic.
I think it's that contrast that struck me—the difference between what you imagine before going and what you actually discover when you take the time.
And you—what memory do you hold onto from Vietnam? A particular place that touched you more than others?
Hello,
We’re finalizing the plans for our upcoming trip to China in May 2025. The second-to-last stop will be in Zhangjiajie, where we’ve planned to stay for 2 full days before heading to Shanghai.
We’re traveling solo using local transport and have arranged to stay in the city of Zhangjiajie.
We’ve seen that there’s a lot to see:
Tianmen Mountain, the Grand Canyon and the glass bridge, Zhangjiajie National Park, and that the sites are quite far apart with fairly expensive entry fees.
We’re thinking of dedicating one day to the national park and the Grand Canyon (glass bridge) and one day to Tianmen Mountain.
But we’re not sure if this plan is realistic—any thoughts would be much appreciated!
I should be serving a warming drink to the participants in the discussion about gardens and parks that provide us with beautiful photos, I could mention the delicious buttery scent wafting from bakeries in the thread about returning to France, but my heart, its powerful pulse that nourishes my entire being, is elsewhere.
Dasht-e Lut, Yazd, Esfahan, Bam, Kerman, Qeshm, Hormuz—a melody, a prayer at the heart of desire.
A dream, an unattainable fantasy? No. Not anymore.
A very serious Italian travel agency is organizing this trip for 6 people this winter. I’m signed up, I’m going, I’m living. Maybe.
"But you’re completely crazy!!!!"
I know... I know that every civilization, every society has a vital need to create scapegoats to define and justify itself, pathetically. And Iran is one of them, top of the list. I laugh or sigh, and it doesn’t bother me.
But that unchanging red, deep red and garnet, so beautiful in itself, in all the Western chancelleries repeats, whispers, shouts: don’t go, don’t go, don’t go, you’re putting yourself in danger and we can’t do anything for you. You’ll be turned into mere bargaining chips, into arguments for endless negotiations. Fear must be instilled, its power absolutely preserved, no concessions made to the enemy. The information (how many French hostages, real or fake, compared to the number of travelers?) is always lacking.
Traveling becomes a merciless confrontation between desire, the vital pulse, and anxiety, its ghosts.
Hi everyone, here’s our itinerary. Arriving on the evening of December 13th. Departing on January 7th.
Thanks in advance for your tips and valuable feedback.
Manila – 1 night
Coron – 4 nights
Coron to El Nido cruise – 2 nights
El Nido – 4 nights
Port Barton – 5 nights
Flight from Puerto Princesa to Vigan
Vigan – 2 nights
Sagada – 2 nights
Banaue – 2 nights
Bagabag – 1 night
Manila – 1 night
I’ve only booked the flight to Manila and the Manila/Coron flight so far. Is it possible to book boat trips, accommodations, and the Puerto Princesa flight last-minute?
Really disappointed with Costa Rica! Pura vida? The scam of the century!
(Costa Rica pure emptiness).
The country where animals are free and people are in cages.
3 weeks in December in this country and never again. Imagine the trailer of a movie that seems interesting, and when you go see it, you realize it’s a flop and the best moments were in the trailer.
Well, that’s exactly how we felt with Costa Rica pure emptiness.
My wife and I have traveled quite a bit and didn’t expect to be so wrong about a place.
On the main routes, we visited:
San José
Alajuela
Limón, Cahuita, Puerto Viejo, Manzanillo (Caribbean side)
Jaco, Quepos, Manuel Antonio (Pacific side)
And a few short stops in intermediate towns.
Our dissatisfaction grew gradually like this:
When we arrived at the hotel, the taxi dropped us off on a small street in front of a white metal gate with ground-floor windows barred. We looked at it skeptically, but the sign matched.
He approached the gate, rang the bell, the buzzer sounded, and the door opened slightly. The hotel wasn’t bad for the price, a 10-minute walk from downtown, but with a "Fleury-Mérogis" vibe guaranteed.
So far, so good.
After showering and regaining our bearings, we headed downtown.
What started to unsettle us on the way was seeing houses with bars on the ground-floor windows and even on the second floor.
At first, we thought the hotel’s neighborhood wasn’t great.
Downtown San José:
It’s a generic city, not very exotic, with a pedestrian street and a small mercado where you can eat local food without frills. Very few tourists—if any—which let you blend in with the locals. We had lunch and struggled to make ourselves understood because, aside from one or two shops, English wasn’t spoken.
On the way back to the hotel, we took a different route, and while chatting and strolling, my wife pointed out a beautiful two-story white house completely barricaded like Fort Knox.
From that moment, we started noticing the facades of houses and buildings, and wow, it was creepy—most looked like prisons, some even with barbed wire.
Though put off, we told ourselves it was probably a big-city thing and the rest of the country couldn’t be like this.
So far, so good.
We relaxed at the hotel and had a drink at the bar. Night falls early, around 5:30 PM. By 7:30 PM, we headed back downtown for dinner. A bit unsettling for a capital—downtown was almost deserted, and aside from fast-food chains, very few restaurants were open, with hardly anyone on the streets.
Bars with security guards out front.
I won’t say we felt unsafe that night, but once it got dark, we realized the bars on the windows weren’t for nothing. First day in, and our impression was already mixed.
The next day, we explored the city and surroundings, and our feelings didn’t change.
So far, so good.
Off to Cahuita by bus—4 hours of travel.
The landscapes are very green but quickly become monotonous. The road runs alongside the forest and passes through a few towns and villages, and even in the countryside, there were just as many prison-like houses.
The bus dropped us off at Cahuita’s terminal station—only four of us got off. It’s a village, or rather, a small town. Cahuita is basically one straight road and a perpendicular one, and honestly, doubt started to creep in.
A few restaurants that add 13% tax and 10% service charge—so 23% extra. We dropped our stuff at the hotel and went to explore. In 20 minutes, we’d seen it all. We had lunch and planned to check out the famous park.
Entry is by donation—well, the "entry" is a joke. There’s a path along the forest by the sea, and that’s it.
Nothing’s going right anymore.
We thought it was a total scam, but since we hadn’t gone far, we decided to come back the next day to explore further.
We returned to the hotel, relaxed, and around 8:00 PM, we went out for dinner. Only two restaurants were open, and the streets were deserted.
Creepy!
The next day, we explored the so-called park more thoroughly and really got it.
A path along the forest by the sea—2 hours there and 2 hours back, where you see animals that feel like showing their faces.
A total joke—"all that for this?"
The beach was full of wood debris and coconut husks. We wondered if the photos online were edited because the sea, very rough, wasn’t the azure blue we’d seen in pictures.
But calling this a park is a joke—it’s like a new concept.
When we thought about the reviews online, we started to suspect that professionals with interests in the country were monitoring and countering any negative feedback that could harm their business.
Too bad we didn’t check the negative reviews beforehand—we did while we were there, and it helped. We wondered if we’d become too demanding after all our travels, but no—when something’s bad, it’s bad.
Manuel Antonio’s park is even more ridiculous—there’s a short path along the sea for about 500 meters, and then nothing. You have to climb through mud and hack your way through the forest. We ended up barefoot because the mud was up to our calves. All that to see a raccoon and a few parrots flying overhead.
We didn’t expect Noah’s Ark, but we’ve seen more animals in Bali, Mexico, and Thailand while visiting temples or just walking around than in these so-called parks!
Puerto Viejo, not far from Cahuita and supposedly livelier—well, it couldn’t be worse!
According to Lonely Planet, it had a Caribbean vibe and wild nights, but maybe that was a long time ago. The good reggae music playing everywhere isn’t enough.
In the evening, Puerto Viejo was a bit livelier than Cahuita, but that’s not saying much. Very few tourists—if any—no night market, just two or three shops open selling $20 T-shirts. Same vibe as San José.
No big deal—we enjoyed the beach and the sun, which was reliable.
Our itinerary was supposed to include Tortuguero Park, but after talking to other travelers who’d just been, we changed our minds, knowing we’d be visiting Manuel Antonio Park on the Pacific side.
To get back to the Pacific side, you have to take the bus and go through San José again—5 hours this time—then switch bus terminals and another 4.5 hours to Quepos.
A stopover town to get to Manuel Antonio’s beach and park!
A town just like the others we’d seen—deserted as soon as the sun sets, and not exactly bustling during the day either. (Where are all the tourists?)
Still as many bars on the windows and that feeling of being in the wrong place.
7 km later: Manuel Antonio beach and park.
The beach is very beautiful and quite large, but don’t expect turquoise blue water—the waves stir up the sand, giving the water a brownish color.
Along the beach, shops and restaurants for about 300 meters, and then nothing. At night, after sunset, the town shuts down too.
Manuel Antonio Park is highly praised for its wildlife, so we were eager to see it. When you express dissatisfaction with Cahuita or Manzanillo parks, the response is always, "But you should’ve gone to Monteverde or Manuel Antonio!" No matter what you do or say, they’ll tell you, "You should’ve gone there or here."
Back to our famous park—entry was about $16, and contrary to what we’d heard, it wasn’t crowded!
Guides at the entrance with spotting scopes offered their services for about $30.
The park: a mix of boardwalk and dirt paths through the forest, sometimes running alongside beautiful coves and beaches.
As soon as we entered, a crowd was taking photos of a deer eating leaves.
A little further on, a guide with a group of five stopped. The guide raised his arm and set up his spotting scope! He showed them, about 100 meters away, a hummingbird perched on a branch. Some, looking through the scope, exclaimed, "Oh my God! Amazing! Incredible!"
For a moment, we thought they’d discovered a unicorn or were in Jurassic Park and had just crossed paths with a T-Rex!
The concept is comical—looking at a bird or another animal through a spotting scope because it’s too far away. Isn’t that what TV is for?
For our part, we saw monkeys, ants, an armadillo, an iguana, and the backside of a sloth climbing a tree. Amazing, incredible!
We stayed a few days in Manuel Antonio to enjoy the beach, changing hotels often because prices varied wildly from one day to the next for shameful services. On top of that, they’d quote a price in dollars and convert it at their discretion—thieves!
Alajuela, a city near the airport, has a two-story mall and a local market downtown! No interest except its proximity to the airport.
What we liked:
The climate and, in hindsight, San José—the most authentic city we visited.
What we didn’t like, in addition to what we’ve already mentioned:
Costa Ricans aren’t very friendly or communicative. English is barely spoken, not even by doctors at Quepos Hospital, where my wife ended up with food poisoning (thanks, Google Translate). The widespread obesity among Costa Ricans, who eat like Americans. The insecurity. The eco-hipsters who leave their $150 lodges in minivans with guides to visit parks and other sites, then return to barricade themselves in their fortresses at nightfall (oh my God, amazing, incredible). The blue signs at the entrance of towns that accept this payment method: "We accept American Express." Parking lots that become paid just because a guy is watching your car. Prices displayed in dollars. The cost of living (hotels, restaurants, taxes). Landscapes that are too green and not flowery enough. Beaches—nothing exceptional. Pollution in cities where big American trucks rule. Sewage dumped directly into the sea. Aside from the jungle, there’s nothing to visit—no ruins, monuments, or anything worth seeing.
In short, my wife and I think the hype about this supposedly eco-friendly country is overrated. It’s just the trendy destination of the moment. There are much better, cheaper, and more authentic places.
In hindsight, we keep the good memories and our beautiful photos, but if we had to do it over...
Before signing off, a little message to those who don’t like hearing opinions different from theirs:
Well, some things aren’t up for debate. And to those who’d have us believe that in 3 weeks, we don’t have the right to criticize a country or express our feelings—how can you praise it in so little time? What a scam. Costa Rica is a money pit. Pura vida? Pure cosmic emptiness.
If you like spending your evenings barricaded in your cozy hotel after dark, this country is for you.
For everyone else: run!
Hello,
Since the war between Russia and Ukraine, nothing is simple anymore for traveling to Belarus due to sanctions.
No more direct flights from the EU to Minsk.
Driving is a huge hassle, especially crossing through Poland at the only open border in Brest—you can wait 2, 3, or even 4 days just to get through by car.
The least painful driving option is to come via Lithuania and cross at the only open border, with a minimum wait time of 8 hours, sometimes up to 20 hours or more!!
Controls are very strict and annoying on both the Lithuanian and Belarusian sides. Avoid bringing alcohol, food, or cigarettes—everything will end up in the trash, especially when leaving Belarus for Vilnius, where the Lithuanians are tough, even with EU citizens.
The joy I once knew when visiting my wife in Minsk is sadly over—it’s now a real ordeal.
The fastest solution is to fly. My wife travels to France by taking a bus to Kaunas in Lithuania, where you can catch a flight (though not daily) to Paris Beauvais or Charleroi in Belgium with Ryanair, for example.
For the return trip, it’s the same: a flight to Kaunas and then a direct bus from the airport to Minsk.
The bus crossing is quicker than driving—the 250 km journey, including border checks, takes about 6 to 8 hours for buses leaving Lithuania around midnight, but controls are still strict at the border.
The biggest challenge is finding flight schedules that align with the bus routes between the two countries, given the unpredictable border crossing times.
Now, my wife travels via Charleroi in Belgium (near Brussels), and you can take a train to Paris. Alternatively, you can fly into Beauvais and take a bus to Paris (Porte Maillot).
For those driving, note that EU insurance and assistance policies no longer work in Belarus or Russia. You’ll need to get local insurance, usually limited to third-party liability (I don’t think full coverage exists?), as well as mandatory medical insurance. This is available at the border.
You now have to pay highway tolls—no more BELTOLL boxes. Instead, you pay a flat fee for the duration of your stay. Stop at the first gas station after crossing from Lithuania to fill up on fuel and cigarettes.
From what I know, Lithuania bans carrying more than 60 € in cash, but there’s no limit for USD (though it’s capped at $10,000??).
With a Visa card, you can now withdraw 1,000 rubles per week (about 270 €)—two months ago, it was only 500 rubles!!
For now, you can still pay by card in shops and gas stations.
However, major retailers like KORONA (which may be Russian-owned??) no longer accept foreign Visa cards.
Unfortunately, the additional sanctions announced by the U.S. on August 5, 2025, against Russia—and possibly Belarus—aren’t promising for the future.
After 20 years of visiting Belarus, I’m truly saddened to see the joy of living in this country with my wonderful wife turn into such a bleak situation, all because of human folly.
Hi everyone!
I’m putting together our travel itinerary for Veneto at the end of April. And the more I look and research potential sites to visit, the more I find!
We’ll only be there for a week—my family and I—including 3 days in Venice. So we have to make some choices...
I plan to rent a car when we arrive in Venice and head straight to Bergamo, which would be our first stop. We’d leave the car at the airport when we return to Venice so we can explore the city at our leisure.
What do you think:
1 night in Bergamo (a 2h15 drive from Venice airport),
1 night in Garda,
1 night in Verona,
1 in Padua, and
3 in Venice—would that be doable?
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences! :)
Now that the curtain has fallen on the past year, it’s time to see what’s happening around here.
It seems pretty quiet, but I’ll read more in detail later.
First, I need to tell you all an anecdote.
My eldest little girl, in her third year of law school, was really scared she wouldn’t pass the year.
I told her:
“Trust yourself, you’ve worked so hard, and worst case, if you fail, you’ll just redo the year.”
“But I don’t think I’ll make it—they changed the rules, and if I mess up even one unit, I have to start all over.”
I knew her grades weren’t exactly stellar, and with what I was about to say, I wasn’t taking much of a risk.
“Here’s the deal, sweetheart: if you pass, I promise I’ll take you to India, just the two of us.”
I have to admit, India is a country I’ve talked about so much to all my grandchildren that in their minds, it’s become a magical, mythical place (hmm).
July had barely begun when my phone rang, her name flashing on the screen.
“Mamido, I did it!”
My promise came rushing back—oh no, oh no, oh no!
“Congratulations, sweetheart!”
A little shyly, she said:
“Is the India trip still on?”
And me, replying:
“Of course it is!”
And that’s that—a promise is a promise, or you risk losing that precious trust that keeps hearts warm and at peace.
We’re leaving in February. Only 8 days—yikes, the carbon footprint!
But we can’t miss her tutorials, or she’ll be kicked out.
Personally, that works just fine for me.
Going to India has become a challenge for me. It’s far, it’s exhausting, I sweat, I hate mosquitoes, the spices bother my mouth when I used to love them. There’s noise all the time—at night, the dogs bark nonstop, and we almost get run over. I’ll get lost in the streets because my sense of direction has vanished. I don’t like rice anymore. All that chaos and those cultural differences that once enchanted me now just overwhelm me.
But I promised.
The upside—and it’s a big one—Raman, the same driver I’ve had forever, will be at the airport with a sign with our names. We’ll stop at the same little shop for chai (or tea, plain and simple) with that aroma that intoxicates me, halfway through the trip.
It’ll be a tiny trip—staying with friends, I’ll show her a few places I love: Chidambaram, Mamallapuram, and the clinic where I worked. Then we’ll head back.
My little girl will go home to her parents.
As for me, I’ll leave right away for our Scottish island with Homme for our chilly winter.
How can you love a country so much you want to live there, then suddenly reject it, no longer able to appreciate what once made it special?
That’s the mystery of love, I guess.
I’ve visited the U.S. four times myself, including two long road trips. The last one was just this past August...
I won’t be going back. I already felt guilty last August, but recent policies have finally convinced me: the humiliation of Zelensky, authoritarian excesses, Gestapo-like methods for detaining people of foreign origin, the murder of innocent people (a mother shot dead), corruption, insane "tariffs," skyrocketing healthcare costs for Americans, the abduction of foreign figures to secure oil, the requirement to disclose social media accounts, and now... threats and blackmail to forcibly take Greenland—a region that belongs to Denmark and thus the European Union!
The reality is that simply posting this could get me denied entry to the U.S.!
In this context, I just can’t keep spending money there. I loved my trips, but there are so many other countries with stunning landscapes to explore.
So I get why you’d want to travel there. I did, and I loved it. But once a country no longer respects any of the values that made us love it, why go?
How can we even consider traveling to a country that threatens to take one of our territories by force?
Hello everyone,
Controversial topic? Not necessarily—maybe just a reflection on a world to come.
I spent the last 15 days of August on a cruise in Greenland, from Kangerlussuaq to Tasiilaq.
I was utterly amazed by this unique world of rock and ice, the little houses in every color, a simple life that’s also complicated by isolation and climate, among other things...
I carry in my heart the kindness of the people I met, the raw and gentle majesty of the icebergs, the colors of the sky...
So, I can’t even imagine a massive presence of raw material prospectors, heavy machinery requiring roads to be built—if that’s even possible—changing their way of life... putting sled dogs out to pasture!
Do fast food and Greenland’s northern lights really mix?
I wouldn’t trade my memories for an ESTA!
All opinions are respectable, which is why this isn’t a controversy—but I’m sorry, I have a soft spot for *my* Greenland.
, et alors que faire du travail énorme qu'accomplit Sydney Posuelo, au sein de la FUNAL au Brésil, et qui est rentré en contact avec les indiens Korubos en .....1996...! il est retourné voir cette tribu au printemps 2003, et sur les indications de celle ci a trouvé des traces de campement de tribus n'ayant jamais eu de contacts avec des blancs ou des métis, et la politique actuelle de la FUNAL est désormais de laiser les groupes non contactés en paix et de justement n'établir aucun contact par la protection de leur zone de déambulation.......
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