pour commencer, je dirai que je m'appelle martin et que je fais partie de ces gens qui pensent qu'il est important, voire nécessaire, d'aller voir ce qu'il se passe ailleurs. Nous vivons une époque où nous avons tout à gagner à ouvrir notre regard sur le monde. Un monde si vaste et si varié.
Une banalité en guise d'introduction mais qui a le mérite d'être sincère.
Cela étant dit et pour ma part, j'ai 29 ans et autant d'années passées en france. A plusieurs reprises j'ai été sur le point de partir seulement il y avait toujours quelque chose, ou quelqu'un, qui me retenait ici. Il faut croire que je n'étais pas encore prêt.
Aujourd'hui et à l'heure où j'écris ces quelques lignes, le moment est venu pour moi de vivre cette expérience.
Plus concrètement, j'ai décidé de vivre cette expérience en asie. Un continent que j'ai découvert à travers les livres, je suis libraire depuis maintenant 6 ans, notamment la littérature mais aussi à travers son cinéma, inégalable, sa cuisine et tant d'autres petites choses qui font que ce continent me fascine depuis de nombreuses années.
C'est un peu léger, me direz-vous peut-être, et je le comprendrais, je n'ai nullement la prétention de "connaître" ce continent, ni ses coutumes, ses modes de vie ni même d'affirmer qu'il y a une place pour moi là-bas. seulement à l'heure où j'ai décidé qu'il était temps pour moi de partir, c'est là-bas que va mon choix, ma curiosité, mon coeur, mon désir de rencontres, ma soif de découvertes...
Plus précisément, c'est en asie du sud-est que je souhaite partir et pour être tout à fait précis, le vietnam est le pays auquel je pense. ceci dit, et comme je l'ai dit précédemment, je n'ai pas la prétention de "connaître", au sens profond du terme, cette région du monde et n'exclue pas la possibilité qu'un autre pays de la région puisse répondre davantage à mes attentes. C'est là que j'ai besoin de vos conseils avisés.
En ce qui concerne mes motivations et la manière dont j'aimerais vivre cette expérience, voici quelques informations. Pour commencer, je ne pars pas "voyager" dans le sens où je n'aborde pas ce départ comme on part en vacances. Je pars un temps indéfini, seul, dans le but de m'imprégner de la culture et du mode de vie local. J'aimerais, bien entendu, travailler, sans aucune exigences ni attente salariale, juste (sur)vivre.
Mes centres d'intérêts principaux sont les livres (notamment la littérature et la bd) et la musique (auteur compositeur interprète, je joue de la guitare, m'accompagne à l'harmonica, chante mes chansons et en ai vécu quelques années). pourraient-ils avoir une utilité quelconque là-bas? (je démarre les questions... en vrac!)
est-il envisageable de trouver un travail d'enseignant de francais par exemple?
Je me dis qu'il serait peut-être judicieux de partir dans un premier temps au sein d'une association ou d'une mission humanitaire.
en ce qui concerne la langue, j'ai le niveau en anglais d'une personne qui a été scolarisé en france et qui depuis la terminale n'a jamais vraiment pratiqué à haut niveau... pensez-vous que cela puisse être une barrière? pour ma part je serais tenté de dire que non et surtout que ça ne saurait en aucun cas diminuer mes motivations.
et la question du visa?...
Je vais m'arrêter là pour l'instant dans l'espoir que ce ne soit pas déjà trop long...
je me permets de faire une copie de ce mail dans la rubrique "vietnam" afin de multiplier mes chances que l'un de vous ne soit pas rebuter par ces nombreuses lignes!
eh bien martin ... en voila une belle histoire 😉
je ne sais pas si tu trouvera les reponses dont tu as besoin tant les individus sont tous differents et les experiences (bonnes ou mauvaise) peuvent etre differentes pour chacun d'entre nous ..
les differents pays sont une mine d'inspiration et une richesse interieure que personne ne peut te prendre, mainetant, sans jamais etre parti et en ayant l'intention de tout lacher cote francais, c'est peut etre pas aussi evident que ce que tu pense (n'y voit la aucune critique, simplement une remarque et un avis personnel), les gesn, les cultures sont bien differentes et il n'est pas toujours facile de "comprendre" au sens ou tu sembles l'entendre les autres et leur moeurs, l'apprentissage est long, alors quand en plus tu decides de travailler sur place... sans aprler la langue et en parlant juste anglais pour pouvoir "survivre", les choses peuvent rapidement se compliquer ou plutot tourner a la galere...
a moins que tu es des "arrieres" en france qui te permettent de rentrer en cas de besoin, je pense qu'une petite experience et plongee dans ces "lieux" qui sont bien aussi "magique" (mais dans le mot magique ....il existe une signification dont je te laisse seul interprete !!) que tu le pretends ne sont pas inutiles avant de penser partir vivre par ici .
bien amicalement et bon courage ...😉
Il est important de percevoir combien votre propre bonheur est lié à celui des autres, il n'existe pas de bonheur individuel totalement indépendant d'autrui.....(Dalaï-Lama)
il faut savoir que je n'ai pas le sentiment de "tout lâcher" dans le sens où je ne lâche rien que je ne retrouverai à mon retour. les livres, la musique, les amis, la famille... autant de "choses" qui seront toujours là à mon retour. biensûr et pour être pragmatique, je démissionne de mon travail actuel seulement cela me semble insignifiant à côté de ce projet dans lequel j'ai décidé de me lancer.
je suis bien conscient qu'il doit être difficile d'arriver dans un pays où tout est si différent, que la communication ne doit pas être évidente et qu'il y a beaucoup de choses à prendre en compte... et c'est pour cela que je m'adresse à vous!
merci pour le lien, j'ai effectivement trouvé ça très intéressant, il y a de belles phrases qui ressortent de ce dialogue, des choses très justes.
ceci dit, j'en ai maintenant fini avec le "Tout quitter pour partir. Folie ou pas ?", la folie aujourd'hui serait de ne pas partir!
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My name is Deborah, I’m French. I’m married and have two children. I’m a clinical psychologist specializing in psychotraumatology, and I’m also pursuing medical studies.
For some time now, I’ve been seriously considering moving to the United States. My long-term goal is to practice medicine in the U.S., with a particular interest in forensic pathology. I know the journey is demanding (USMLE, residency, fellowship, etc.), but I’m ready to commit to several years of hard work.
For now, I’m focused on building this project thoughtfully. I want to improve my English, better understand the American system, and connect with people who’ve already gone through this process or are living in the U.S.
I have a few questions:
- Are there any doctors or international students here who’ve successfully matched into a U.S. residency?
- When did you start preparing for the USMLE?
- What advice would you give to someone still in medical school?
- Which states would you recommend for a future career in forensic pathology, with a good quality of life and good schools for kids?
- Is it better to do an observership or a research fellowship before applying for residency?
- What are, in your opinion, the pitfalls to avoid when planning such a project?
Thank you so much to everyone who takes the time to respond. I’d really appreciate any advice or experiences you can share!
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Hi, I was wondering if anyone has already had the experience of working abroad?
I don’t have a specific country in mind yet, so I’m open to hearing about your experiences on this topic—the pros and cons, etc.
Hi there!
I’m a young Malian looking to work in Morocco. Besides a passport, what other documents are required at the **Moroccan** border?
Thanks for your help!
Hi there. I’m planning to move to Luxembourg around December 2025 or January 2026. I’ll be looking for a job and settling in. My question is: is it too complicated to find housing? Is the job market more advantageous and easier than in France? I’m open to any information that could help me.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences about marrying a Cuban and moving to Cuba (not the other way around!). Yes, some of us actually *want* to stay on the island! Is it possible to work there without too much hassle, or is it really complicated?
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I found housing that costs me 7,000 baht (I know it’s a bit pricey, but it’s super convenient...), which works out to about 160 € all-inclusive. So, I was wondering if it’s realistic to live on 500 or 600 € per month, and if so, under what conditions? Is that enough, considering I’ll be working 40 hours a week?
Thanks in advance for your replies—I hope they’ll reassure me!
WEP offers loads of different projects, including one I really like: helping and volunteering on a farm, particularly in South America (Peru or Argentina).
I’d love to know if anyone has tried this project or knows someone who has... or has done something similar? I’d like to get some feedback before diving into the adventure.
If so, could you share your thoughts on the project, any tips, etc.?
Hi there,
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Are there any special requirements before leaving France (aside from taxes...)?
Thanks to everyone for your help—every bit of info is useful. We’re aiming for a departure around 06/2010 (just need to save up a little more...).
Thanks again!
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Thanks for your replies.
PS: Same question for my wife, a nurse, regarding her integration.
I’m looking for information about jobs in early childhood in New Caledonia. I’m currently a childminder in a MAM (multi-accueil) and I’ve also worked for about 6 years in several daycare centers as a childcare assistant.
In the summer of 2026, my husband is being transferred to New Caledonia. We’ll be living near Nouméa. Do you know if the early childhood sector is a good field for jobs there?
Can’t wait to discover this island! Right now, we’re in the middle of all the administrative paperwork for our 3 kids, finding housing, bringing our cat to the territory, and so on!
Thanks for your feedback!!
Hi there,
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You can send me a message.
Best regards,
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Hello everyone,
We’re a small family from the south of France, with a 2-year-old little boy, and we’re dreaming of starting a new adventure abroad by opening our own business. For now, we haven’t chosen a specific destination yet.
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Our idea is to travel to different countries to explore, compare, and refine our project. We’d be really happy to read your tips, experiences, or anecdotes if you’ve already undertaken a similar project or if you know key points to anticipate.
Thanks in advance for your shares and help—it would really help us move forward with our project! 😄
Hi everyone,
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