I’m going to take a break from talking about temples for a while, or I feel like I’ll end up getting the same remarks that were made to Joël—aka Jojoone1—in his travel journals a long time ago. Yet, not talking about temples in Thailand, or barely mentioning them without lingering, would be like describing a scuba dive without mentioning the fish. These sanctuaries are countless. All similar, yet each one different from its neighbor. The common denominator: a golden statue, often exaggeratedly large and with no charm except for a few exceptions. It makes us proud of all our European Madonnas and Christs, which compete in finesse, character, and artistic refinement. Sometimes even in modest Romanesque or Gothic churches that have preserved a sumptuous work of art through the centuries.
Fortunately, magnificent Buddha statues do exist! But I discovered and admired them in museums, sometimes piled up in such abundance, in a single display case, such an overflow, such a profusion, that our eyes have to do considerable work to separate and isolate them from one another in order to appreciate their delicacy, distinction, nobility, or magnificence—whether they’re made of bronze, silver, stone, or bronze again, rarely in pure gold (which, by the way, aren’t my favorites nor the most artistically successful).
But in temples, it’s all about "gaudy" and "flashy." It seems the motto is: giant and glittery. And in the end, I appreciated the kitsch and bright, shimmering colors of some sanctuaries more. But that fake gold eventually started to get on my nerves.
I have a beautiful large golden Buddha statue at home, which has a lot of style. It’s a very nice terracotta casting I bought over thirty years ago at a garden center, back when it wasn’t yet trendy to place Buddha statues all over your garden or living room as decoration.
Influenced by the simplicity of some very beautiful golden Buddhas in Ladakh with their blue hair, I completely repainted mine in a very sober "old gold" color and lacquered its hair blue. I even went so far as to lacquer its "eye of wisdom" in the middle of its forehead ruby-red. The result was so successful that instead of a cheap Buddha I bought for 25 € at the time, my reference lama mistook it for an expensive antique artwork.
Last year, while preparing my trip, I was vigorously confronted by a woman because I had the bad idea of writing:
I understand the frustration of Thais seeing Buddha statues used any which way, like a vulgar decoration without respect, without any religious or spiritual connotation...
This sparked a whole stormy and polemical discussion, as often happens on this forum, followed by a baseless personal attack.
At that time, I only knew Tibetan Buddhism from the Mahayana tradition (Great Vehicle) and knew nothing about the Hinayana tradition (Small Vehicle) represented by Theravada Buddhism found in Thailand. So I didn’t respond to this woman, especially since I didn’t want to open myself up to provocations and personal attacks that would have followed.
Tibetan Buddhism is very different from Theravada Buddhism.
You can’t just buy a Buddha and "charge" it like you say—it’s a scam for tourists
Yes, the statues that Tibetan Buddhists have on their home altars are "charged"—the expression isn’t "as I say." The statues are hollow and always have a plug at their base that allows them to be "charged" with highly revered sacred texts, prayers, fragments of coral and turquoise, and sometimes a relic. The lama—not just any lama—authorized to charge the statue does so according to a specific ritual. It’s not a "scam for tourists" at all. On the contrary, the lama will never agree to charge a statue without knowing who it belongs to, why it was bought, and what it will be used for.
Once "charged," it becomes sacred, truly representing the figure it depicts. It must absolutely not be opened once the plug is sealed and must be placed on an altar, where certain daily rites must be performed. It cannot be transferred, sold, or transported just any way (especially not in a suitcase or package). If its owner passes away or no longer practices Buddhism and wishes to part with it, give it away, or sell it, they must perform the reverse process and bring it to a lama to be "discharged" and returned to its status as a simple object.
It was therefore completely inappropriate and untimely to talk about intolerance because I had written that monks don’t like statues being used as decoration. We must respect their beliefs and not judge them as intolerant. And if this judgment of intolerance was aimed at me, the author of that remark is way off—my tolerance is well-proven. Besides, my Tibetan name is Tsultrim Tartchin, a very beautiful name admired and envied by Tibetans themselves, which could be translated as "The Perfection of Ethics." The name isn’t given just any way by the old lama who performs the "Taking Refuge" ceremony, but after laying hands and deep concentration, at the end of which he decides on the name suited to the person based on what he perceives by connecting to their "Spirit."
I devoted my first days in Chiang Mai to visiting temples, almost like "getting a chore out of the way," because my long stay in Chiang Mai was actually planned to discover natural sites in the area: national parks, mountains, waterfalls, jungle, wildlife…
This morning, I meet the driver I had contacted after finding his card at the hotel. To avoid any later discussions about schedules, mileage, etc., I sent him my outing plans yesterday so he could give me a quote.
It was completely useless because either he didn’t look at it, didn’t take it into account, or didn’t know the destinations. He takes my plan and… adapts it to his liking. Immediately, I feel myself boiling inside. I’ll have to be firm and negotiate hard to impose what I want to do and not what HE wants to do.
Even though I had written everything down with all the details and instructions Joël had given me to ensure there was no confusion and he wouldn’t have to figure out the itinerary at the last minute, he didn’t bring my program. He goes to get some paper from reception and completely redoes my outing plan.
What I like when I rent a car with a driver is that he just drives and takes me where I want, and then I manage on my own to walk, explore, and take photos. I also like the driver to stop whenever possible so I can take photos.
I explain to him that I want to do these outings every other day and rest or do other things on my own in between, without a car, on foot or by songthaew around Chiang Mai.
I really enjoy not having a set "program" every day during my trips. I like having free time, free days where I have nothing specific to do, where I can wander around, go shopping, or even rest in my room reading or looking at the previous day’s photos…
Of course, he agrees with plenty of smiles and flattering comments: Oh! Good, good idea to go there. And I see him taking notes on his piece of paper.
- But I already wrote everything down for you, even the itinerary details…
- I accidentally deleted the message…
And he adds:
- But why take a day off each time? We can do everything in 5 days.
I’m not Asian at all—I don’t know how to operate with smiles and falsely kind words with someone who’s trying to manipulate me and do things their own way. I don’t feel like arguing for hours. I cut it short:
- Look, I prepared everything for you on paper yesterday so you could study the plan quietly at home and give me a quote. And I see you didn’t even look at it, and on top of that, you didn’t bring my program. We’re not going to argue for hours—I planned to go take photos at the flower exhibition today. So tell me if my program is doable for you and what your price is.
In the end, he rewrites in his own way what I told him I wanted to do, but I can see he’s not noting the precise details for the waterfall itineraries or the hikes I want to do once there.
I feel myself getting annoyed. I’m ready to tell him I’m dropping it if he’s not more precise. But at the same time, it was such a hassle to find a driver who agreed to do my personal program instead of the pre-set excursions he usually does with the average tourist.
Again, I explain:
- I need you for 5 outings, one every other day. I need you to tell me how much you charge per day, how many hours per day, what the kilometer package is, and the cost of extra kilometers if we exceed the daily kilometer limit…
- Yes, yes, I understand, but I can’t tell you just like that… The distances are different depending on the day…
Finally, he takes a new sheet of paper and notes where I want to go and what I want to do for each outing to give me a price for each one. He’s completely unable to function the way I just asked him to.
- OK, OK, do it your way, and we’ll see the total cost at the end…
He announces a huge price for the first day, the waterfalls in Doi Inthanon Park: 5,000 baht. After much discussion to justify—and impose—his price, I get him to lower it to 4,000 baht.
Then he sets a price for each of the following outings. I hate this way of doing things because it’s not clear—it’s an open door to more negotiations and discussions for each outing.
He ends with a total of 16,000 baht for the 5 outings, which I get him to lower to 14,000. That’s 2,800 baht per day… He asks for half upfront: 7,000 baht, claiming he needs to plan his own schedule and that my system of 5 outings over 10 days instead of 5 blocks him from taking other tours with other clients… I completely understand, but I won’t give in.
- If it doesn’t work for you, I get it, but I won’t do my outings in 5 days because then I’d have too many days left in Chiang Mai without outings, and I plan to do a lot of walking during these trips, so I need a break between excursions to rest. But if it doesn’t work for you, you can say no, and I’ll find another driver…
We set the first day for Monday, the day after the flower festival.
I’m satisfied with my negotiation—I think I handled it well, but Joël suddenly cools my enthusiasm. For him, I definitely got ripped off. And to make matters worse, he adds: - You should never have agreed to pay an advance. You pay the full amount at the end.
Joël’s demands seem excessive to me—I retort:
- I’ve never had a boss mentality when I’ve needed paid services from someone. If I’m not satisfied, I don’t make a fuss, but I stop. If I’m not happy with his services, I’ll stick to the 7,000 baht I’ve already given and won’t go beyond the first three outings.
I’m disgusted. I log back onto VF to hear pretty much the same thing…
I’ve wasted too much time on this—I don’t want to ruin my day. I want to go to the flower exhibition…
But I’ll still ask around during the day and the next day, and it turns out these are the current rates in Chiang Mai for a day’s car rental with a driver.
I manage to leave for the Suan Buak Haad public garden, the reference spot for celebrating the flower festival.
First, I come across all sorts of plant and flower stalls, especially orchids and bonsai.

It’s gorgeous—it makes you want to buy some, but they’re impossible to transport, either way.
I take my time wandering through all these stalls.

They turn out to be a preview of the park, which doesn’t open until 1 PM. I was in such a hurry to finish the discussions with the driver so I wouldn’t face too big a crowd…

Despite a huge crowd, the space is vast enough that you can move around and take photos without getting in each other’s way too much.

What surprises me again is how people are so eager to take selfies in front of the flowers but don’t photograph the flowers themselves.

I notice that European tourists handle the flowers roughly despite all the "DO NOT TOUCH" signs. Meanwhile, Thais remain very respectful. Besides, there are very few Western tourists.

The visitors are mostly Thais or at least Asians, and very few of those young people you see wandering around the city.

It turns out to be much easier to take photos without people in front of the flowers than during temple visits… But much harder to choose just ten to post here out of the hundreds, all as beautiful as each other.



This riot of colors will be my best memory of Chiang Mai—even more than the parade of floats.