Discovering South India: Tamil Nadu and Kerala
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Actually, it's the opposite—people say chai in the north and masala tea in the south, even though chai or chaya are increasingly used there too.

Oh really? Yet several times in Kerala, I remember we couldn’t find masala tea, and they’d offer us just "tea" or ginger tea. But honestly, it was always delicious! I bought some powdered version but haven’t tried it yet. I have my doubts
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PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
That’s exactly what I was saying, Catherine, in response to Richard who was saying the opposite. In the south, we use the term tea (masala, ginger, or whatever you like). Whereas in the north, they say chai.
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Actually, it's the opposite—people say chai in the north and masala tea in the south, even though chai or chaya are increasingly used there too. And yes, they’re slightly different because in the north, water, tea, spices, and milk are boiled together on high heat in a pot. In the south, black tea steeps first in water with ground spices, and it’s often mixed with sweetened condensed milk using two jugs to make it a bit frothy, like filter coffee.

I’d happily add my two cents to this tea discussion, but it might look like I’m saying you’re wrong… Though, yes, you’re right—people say *tea* in the south and *chai* in the north. And despite the north-south rivalry and the boycott of all things northern, *chaya* is becoming more common in restaurants and even on trains. Probably because of the influence of all the Indian tourists from the north who love vacationing in the south and brought their term with them.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
I bought some in powder form but haven’t tried it yet. I have my doubts

Hi Kate, What did you buy in powder form? Tea or masala chai? Neither is great! Actually, a good masala chai takes a while to prepare... When I make it, I brew a big pot—one and a half liters or more—and after drinking my fill, I strain it and refrigerate the rest for later. Even the next day. And cold (iced) it’s absolutely delicious, especially in summer. I also discovered that here in Thailand, where I am right now, tea is served iced everywhere. Thai tea is a close cousin to masala chai but less spicy. A good masala chai *must* be well-spiced. Mine is so good that my Indian friends often ask me to make it for them because they don’t know how...
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PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
I’d gladly add my two cents to this tea, but it might sound like I’m saying you’re wrong...

But there’s absolutely no harm in that—quite the opposite! In any case, I’ve always seen it done the way I described in the north, whether on the street or at home. For the south, I’ve also seen it done that way on the streets of Tamil Nadu, in Tamil eateries in Paris, and at friends’ places in Karnataka. But I don’t doubt others do things differently at home. Do let me know where I went wrong!

Anyway, I’m off to make myself some chai (from the north)
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
What did you buy in powder? Tea or masala chai?

I brought back this:

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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Just tea for two And two for tea Just me for you And you for me alone ...
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 12. On the way to Munroe Island and the backwaters

Sickles and hammers painted on walls, posters, portraits of Marx and Lenin. Kerala is red, and we had plenty of time to notice it during our long journey to the coast. It’s actually the only state in India (and probably in the world) governed by a freely elected communist government. This political setup partly explains—and I say this without any propaganda intent—the excellent results the region achieves in education, women’s rights, and human development in general. For those interested, here’s a short France Info article on the topic here.



We arrived in Munroe Island around midday, a small peninsula in the southern part of the backwaters. It was thanks to reading a fantastic blog called « Mi-figue, mi-raison » that we decided against basing ourselves in Alleppey, a city that’s more central and ideal for exploring the area but very touristy. Our guesthouse, the Coconut Homestay, is nestled in the heart of a palm grove—a coconut plantation, really—far from the urban hustle in an environment where human activities and natural spaces seem to coexist in harmony.

View from our room

Rahul, the young head of the family, welcomes us warmly. But before we settle in, we have to say goodbye to Vijay. As planned, the rest of the trip will be without him. There’s always a bit of emotion in parting with someone you’ve spent every day with, built trust and mutual respect. We settle the bill. A firm, warm handshake. « Bye, Vijay, take care! » After quickly explaining how his homestay works, Rahul offers us a backwater boat ride for tomorrow morning at dawn.

What’s known as the backwaters is a series of lagoons formed behind the coastal barrier, hence the name. They make up a unique ecosystem of lakes, mangroves, and islets where wildlife and flora are particularly abundant and diverse. But this natural space is also shaped by a network of small canals, bridges, and paths that allow people to move through a world that’s half-land, half-water.



KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Our guesthouse, the Coconut Homestay, is nestled in the heart of a palm grove—actually a coconut plantation—far from the urban hustle and bustle, in an environment where human activities and natural spaces seem to live in harmony.

If you're reading this post, it's your lucky day! An absolutely fantastic spot! Not listed in any guidebooks, this place was one of the most delightful of our trip. The enchanting setting amid the coconut trees, Rahul’s warm welcome—he kindly met all our requests—the comfort of the rooms, and its unbeatable value for money at 1400 INR including breakfast.

Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
RI RichardXI Regular ·
13/J14/J15. The backwaters by boat, on foot, by tuk-tuk, by car... (1)

5:30 AM, the day hasn’t broken yet. By the light of his flashlight, Rahul leads the small group to the foot of the jetty. We’re off for three hours of discovery along the water. The boat glides silently through the narrow channels. The low bridges force us to lie flat in the boat each time. It’s almost chilly. The gentle lapping of the oars, the light breeze brushing our faces, the darkness of the night shifting to pale gray then tinged with pink, the yelps, trills, and hoots of nocturnal birds... We’re having a pretty intense sensory experience. Dawn gives way to sunrise as we emerge onto a vast expanse of water, Lake Ashtamudi, the second largest in Kerala. Fishermen are already busy at work. As they pull up their nets, they attract a whole flock of birds. These aren’t seagulls like back home, but Kerala eagles. They’re magnificent. From their boats, the fishermen chat in a language we obviously don’t understand—Malayalam.













The three hours flew by, like a dream. On our return, breakfast prepared by Rahul’s family awaits us.

In the afternoon, after a quick nap, we take a tuk-tuk to visit a small fishing port on the peninsula. We arrive under a huge hall that serves as both a landing dock and a fish auction. The atmosphere—both auditory and visual—is very local. But I feel at ease in this setting, which reminds me of the sensations I had when visiting the fish market in Sète, my hometown, with my dad.









We share a meal with the other guests in the evening—all French! At the table, we meet Élisabeth, a warm and smiling woman traveling solo in India. We send her a friendly hello if she reads this post.
DJ Djalma Globetrotter ·
Hi, I’m noting down the coconut homestay in case we head that way. I already followed one of your tips for accommodation in Bali, and we weren’t disappointed.
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AL Aleph240758 Veteran ·
That sounds amazing. I never go to Kerala, but you never know!
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SO Solene40 Globetrotter ·
Our guesthouse, the Coconut Homestay, is nestled in the heart of a palm grove—actually a coconut plantation—far from the urban hustle and bustle, in an environment where human activities and natural spaces seem to live in harmony.

If you're reading this post, it's your lucky day! An absolutely fantastic spot! Listed nowhere in the guidebooks, this place was one of the most delightful of our trip. The enchanting setting amid the coconut trees, Rahul’s warm welcome as he kindly met all our requests, the comfort of the rooms, and its unbeatable value for money at 1400 INR including breakfast.



How did you find this gem, Kate 😊?
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
And how did you find this gem, Kate 😄?

On the Mi-fugue, mi-raison blog 🙂
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
You’ll tell me my mistake anyway!

Actually, you didn’t make any mistake—I just didn’t express myself clearly. What I meant was that, outside of tourist spots (where people ask for it in restaurants and tea stalls), *chai*—the *real* chai—is simply unknown to Malayalees. What they now call *chaya* is just a basic milk tea, usually made with 80% milk and 20% water. But masala chai? Not only do they not know how to make it, but most restaurants and dhabas don’t even know what it is ;).

All my friends—and even more so—ask me to make it for them when they come over or when I visit them. Some have asked for the recipe but find it a bit too complicated. They claim they can’t get it right. It’s true that the spice blend is pretty unique...

Malayalees themselves admit to being "lazy." It’s actually really hard to find employees or workers in Kerala. They rely on labor from other, poorer Indian states—people who are... well, more hardworking.

It’s especially surprising because the term *Malabar*—aside from the chewing gum—used to (and still does) refer to strong, sturdy, and brave men. After slavery was abolished, French colonists hired them to work on plantations because former slaves refused to work there, even for pay. These Indians, mostly from the Malabar Coast, turned out to be incredibly hardworking, strong, and resilient. The colonists soon realized they made *way* more profit—higher production—by paying these Malabars than they ever did under slavery.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
What did you buy in powder? Tea or masala chai?

I brought back this:



I tried it too. But honestly, it’s not great. Nothing like a good homemade masala chai. It’s like canned couscous or sauerkraut 😉
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Our guesthouse, the Coconut Homestay, is nestled in the heart of a palm grove—actually a coconut plantation—far from the urban hustle and bustle, in an environment where human activities and natural spaces seem to live in harmony.

If you're reading this post, it's your lucky day! An absolutely fantastic spot! Not listed in any guidebooks, this place was one of the most delightful of our trip. The enchanting setting amid the coconut trees, Rahul’s warm welcome as he tended to all our requests with kindness, the comfort of the rooms, and its unbeatable value for money at 1400 INR including breakfast.

There you go! Well done! Sorry 😠 Shall we revisit this in a year or two?
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
There you go! Well done! Sorry 😠 Let’s talk about it again in a year or two?

If I get your underlying message right, I should’ve never shared that great tip. If travelers on the forum thought that way, I’d sadly never have discovered this spot 😛[;]
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
If forum travelers thought that way, I sadly would never have discovered this great spot 😛😉

No, not at all—you would’ve found it the same way, since you heard about it not on a travel forum but on the blog *mi-fugue mi-raison*, which is totally different. Gifts like this—because that’s what they are—are for those who earn them, not for thousands of people who don’t. Some places, like certain objects, are meant to be earned. I actually had plenty of examples about Munnar, which I’ve mentioned elsewhere. I almost left a comment on this thread. You can’t imagine what Munnar was like 15 or 20 years ago, before it became one of the top destinations for tourists from northern India. And just a quick anecdote from here in Thailand, as recently as yesterday—maybe why I reacted so fast. There was a hidden temple where I am now, tucked away in the jungle on a mountain, where the millions of tourists visiting the region’s "Mont Saint-Michel" never went. A gem, a diamond! I’ll spare you the details—I’ll expand if I write a travel journal about my Thailand trip. After raving about the place everywhere in comments, well-meaning but overenthusiastic travelers revealed this magical spot. And I found it overrun by thousands of people who respected neither the nature, the stones, the silence, nor the peaceful, spiritual atmosphere... I exchanged a few words with a monk who was heartbroken about it. Of course, it’s great to share our hidden gems—I’ve done it and still do—but not with just anyone. Often, it’s tour operators and agencies that exploit this info for commercial gain, bringing in millions who ruin these preserved places.
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DJ Djalma Globetrotter ·
This kind of "gift", because that's what it is, is given to those who deserve it and not to thousands of people who don't. There are places, like objects, that you have to earn.

Oh, but those who deserve it are first and foremost the ones who read Kate's travel journals! ;) And not everyone looks for the same thing in their reading... For my part, I'm mainly after the great tips—for the rest, I can manage on my own...
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
We totally get what you mean (Richard is writing the next part of the trip, I’m just filling in 😉). At this guesthouse, there were only French travelers, all tipped off by the same blog. Otherwise, Rahul could’ve shut up shop—this place was so remote there was no risk of attracting tour operators! At a push, maybe the *Routard*, but even that’s changed a lot!

Anyway, I refrained from giving them the address to get the next edition for free. And besides, the thousands of travelers who’ll read this post haven’t even been born yet! You’ve got to find the right balance between helping out a hotel owner and keeping the best spots under wraps.
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
The address is listed on Booking as well as TripAdvisor. It’s well-rated. A lot of guests probably find it through these sites since they’re so well-known. (Much more than the blog mentioned!)😉
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Tomorrow, I have to visit a temple that’s even more remote than the one I mentioned before—barely visited by European tourists. I found out about it through a friend who told me about it. And just on a whim, I did a quick Google search, and I was super surprised to see it featured in ads on TripAdvisor and that at least a dozen local agencies have made YouTube videos about it. Normally, you’d have to hike 10 km on a rough trail, impossible by car. And that’s what appealed to me too... But now I’ve learned there’s a parking lot with a 4x4 service straight to the temple—for a ridiculously high price for a solo traveler. But I’ve got this feeling I won’t be alone... 😉
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
And besides, the thousands of travelers who’ll read this post haven’t even been born yet!

I don’t think I said that thousands of potential travelers would end up in this dream spot because of this thread...😉
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
The only off-the-beaten-path places left today are those that resist Google searches: a handful of results and that’s it...
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 14 / Day 15. Munroe Island and the backwaters (2)

We didn’t do much yesterday, just a trip to Kollam, an old Portuguese trading post at the southern end of Ashtamudi Lake. We did some shopping in the city, especially in the Muslim quarter, then headed to the pretty deserted seafront in a strange off-season vibe. And it was in a little shack, slightly set back from the beach, that we enjoyed what were probably the best milkshakes of our trip to India.





Today, we decided to experience the backwaters differently by walking along the many paths. We also wanted to visit the coir factory Rahul told us about. A beautiful and long day of walking around the peninsula under a tropical sun. While trying to find the factory, we quickly got lost in the maze of paths through the coconut grove—and we loved it. We embraced wandering around. A metallic-sounding creak caught our attention. Let’s check it out! In a small courtyard between the coconut trees, two women were busy. They were spinning coir fibers using a pretty basic winding tool. We watched this strange dance of back-and-forth movements as the raw material was fed into the spinner. Their movements were precise, quick, and even elegant. The two women were completely absorbed in their work, but they gave us a little smile and let us take their picture. A little further on, some men were collecting coconuts. One of them climbed to the top of a tree without any safety harness. He seemed to find his footing using notches cut into the trunk. Impressive!

I realized just how much this area we were strolling through as tourists—coconut groves, canals, lagoon—forms a coherent ecosystem, blending nature and human activities, likely for centuries. But I also know this human-shaped space is now threatened by soil erosion and rising sea levels. We often saw abandoned homes being swallowed by water. Venice isn’t the only place that needs saving…









The sun was getting higher in the sky, and despite a few checks on Google Maps, we still couldn’t find the factory. At the end of a path, we asked a passerby. “Coconut factory?” He seemed unsure how to answer. “Ah yes, two hundred meters!” After walking the two hundred meters, we came across a little shack by a canal that seemed to serve drinks. We ordered four very hot, frothy, and sweet chai. The man and woman seemed delighted to welcome us into their tiny establishment. We exchanged a few words, then asked again for directions to the factory. Apparently, it was still a bit further. We walked along a road under the scorching sun—still no factory. Then, a tuk-tuk conveniently passed by. “Coconut factory? OK.” And the driver dropped us off… in front of a temple. The Bible says God, worried about human ambition, mixed up all languages so people wouldn’t understand each other anymore. Well, here’s the result!!! Disappointed, hungry, and thirsty, we finally found a nice restaurant by the river. At the end of the meal, the waiter, who spoke much better English, understood what we were looking for and called a tuk-tuk for us.



We finally arrived at the factory. Maybe “factory” wasn’t the right word—it was actually a small workshop set up under a shed. A group of women were busy, doing work similar to what we’d seen in the coconut grove. They seemed used to the few tourists who manage to find the place and welcomed us with smiles. I could tell it was still pretty exhausting work, and I got the feeling our visit was a little break for them. After letting us take some photos, they mischievously invited us to try replicating their expert movements under their guidance. Winding, spinning, guiding the fiber with our fingers—we were extremely clumsy, almost ridiculous. The women laughed, but kindly. I watched them. There were all ages—some quite frail, others more robust—but all full of an energy that impressed me. It was time to leave. We discreetly gave each of them a small tip, out of sight of a man who had just appeared—probably the foreman or the boss.

Tomorrow, we’re heading up the Malabar Coast toward Cochin.





KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Brief encounters in the coconut grove...









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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
The address is on Booking as well as on TripAdvisor. It’s well-rated. A lot of guests must arrive that way since both sites are really popular.

Sure, but you still need to do the right searches by specifying Munroe Island! Most backwaters tourists head straight to Alleppey or Kumarakom, the cities Booking suggests first, which are a 2-hour drive from Munroe. I stumbled upon the address while browsing blogs.
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
I don’t know if I would’ve ended up there, but if I had chosen this place, there’s very little chance it would’ve been through a blog.

I do my research using maps and booking sites. 😉
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AL Aleph240758 Veteran ·
What beautiful photos. Stunning.
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MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
There we go! Well done! Sorry \nShall we talk about it again in a year or two?\n\nIf I understand your underlying message correctly, I should never have shared this great spot.\nIf travelers on the forum thought that way, I would sadly never have discovered this place 😛[;]\n\nA controversy over 2 rupees...

Fortunately, we can share our great tips with each other...\nFirst, because it can help the owner grow, which is still the foundation of a business, and it lets us discover magical places...\nAnd if the places are no longer magical because they’ve been developed haphazardly, we’ll find others! That gives us a reason to come back, right? [;]
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
SO Solene40 Globetrotter ·
" Controversy for 2 rupees"

Totally agree with you, Bruno. It’s not like VF has the audience of TF1’s evening news 😄. And the casual readers won’t be many to dig up the "hidden gem" in the middle of this travel journal. So thanks for the gift, Kate and Richard 😊
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CH Chantal11 Regular ·
And how did you find this gem, Kate 😄?

On the blog Mi-fugue, mi-raison 🙂

Hey Kate, I loved their blog but for Mexico. I also bought this powdered chai and meh 😅😅😅
AL Aleph240758 Veteran ·
Totally agree with you. What’s the point of our travel journals if we don’t share our amazing discoveries—and here, it might even help a family by bringing them a few new customers.
Qui a l'habitude de voyager sait qu'il vient toujours un moment où il faut partir... Paulo Coelho
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Hi Marie-Chantal from Villemoustaussou (I was from Montreal!)

I agree with you. I brought back this chai during my first trip to India, and I’d even go further than "meh" 😄

Kate, nothing beats making it yourself, and it’s not very complicated either!
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Hi Chantal and Pagal

So you’re (or were) neighbors 😉 I’ll try that tea, but for now, I’m savoring the flavor and memory of the real thing! !
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Totally agree with you. What would be the point of our travel journals if we didn’t share our amazing discoveries?

Down with the donkey! Thanks, Marie Jo. I never said we shouldn’t share great tips among travelers. I just advise being selective, and the best way to do that is to share good deals and addresses in private messages with those who are genuinely interested and in the spirit of the place. Besides, I’m not the only one who thinks this—it’s often been written here on VF over the years. Sorry, I was just hammering home the point about this advice. As I keep saying—incidentally—don’t get emotional and give money to beggars or candy to kids. One piece of advice is as good as another. There’s never been any controversy here. It’s just a different tip. No need to make a big deal out of it. You seem to forget that everything we write here can end up online in minutes, read by thousands of people via Google’s search function—and thus by anyone, including people who have nothing to do with VF. I wasn’t talking about individual travelers—thanks for not twisting my words. I was talking about all the professionals who, contrary to what you think, are on the lookout for the great tips we share out of friendship, only to claim them for themselves—not out of friendship, but for commercial purposes—just like our photos, by the way. And yes, a place or a good address can change completely within a few months from what we recommended.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
I’ve fallen for this kind of well-meaning advertising myself. Back in the 80s, I was running a table d’hôtes—kind of upscale—in a touristy area. One day, a group of campers signed up. They were so happy with their evening that they plastered the campsite with glowing reviews and posters. It brought me loads of customers. I was thrilled. But little by little, my "fame" started attracting all sorts of "Bidochons"—rude, poorly behaved folks who acted like pigs in my home. I eventually had to get all the reviews taken down from the campsite to stop that kind of crowd from showing up.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
What would be the point of our travel journals if we didn't share our wonderful discoveries

Thanks again, Marie Jo. That implies that all the beautiful travel journals we read here—where addresses for restaurants, hotels, drivers, etc., aren’t shared—are pointless...
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CH Chantal11 Regular ·
Hi Kate, I’m from Aude and live 7 km from Carcassonne. I visited southern India in 2011 for 5 weeks and drank chai throughout the trip—I really enjoyed it! I just wanted to congratulate you on the quality of your lovely photos 🤗👍 Chantal
CH Chantal11 Regular ·
Hi there! Yep, we were neighbors, and Kate’s right—it’s best to keep the real flavor, especially when traveling 🤗. And you’re spot-on, it’s not just meh, it’s bleh 😂😂😂. Chantal
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 16. On the way to Kochi and the Red Lady

Five hours on the road heading north before reaching Cochin. But we were craving the beach, so we asked the taxi driver to stop halfway at Marari Beach. According to the guides, it’s one of Kerala’s beautiful beaches. Well, let’s just say it’s an Indian beach. Not unpleasant, but not very clean either. The place is pretty well set up, though, with a series of small wooden establishments lined up at the edge of the coconut trees. We pick one at random for lunch. The service is incredibly slow despite the few people around, and to keep us patient, the young waiter brings over a wooden board with holes on the sides and some tokens. It’s carrom, a very popular game in India that’s a bit like billiards but played with your fingers.









The drive to Cochin feels endless—we’re slowed down a lot by the massive construction of an elevated highway that’s supposed to run along the entire east coast up to Goa. We finally arrive in the mid-afternoon at Cherai on Vypin Island, about 20 km from central Cochin.

La Dame Rouge is the name of this lovely family-run guesthouse, all blue and nestled in the middle of a lush park, run by Marc, a Frenchman who’s been living in Kerala for 30 years. The welcome is very warm. He shows us around the beautiful house, built in traditional Kerala style and tastefully decorated. He also introduces us to the Tamil family who’s been living and working with him all these years—the father, mother, and their three sons... We’re charmed, but we still need to get our bearings so we can, as Marc put it so naturally, “feel at home.” A quick tuk-tuk ride to the beach, just 10 minutes away, before dinner. Kate and I decide to take a dip. It’s my first swim in the Indian Ocean…



KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Ah, the Red Lady, such a beautiful house... Ah, Marco, such a wonderful person...

But you’ll talk about it better than I can ;)

Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Ah, the Red Lady, such a beautiful house... Ah, Marco, such a wonderful person...

But you’ll talk about it better than I can ;)



This interior is gorgeous 👍 You’ve found some real gems for accommodations 🤩
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 17. First day in Kochi

Indians, Chinese, Portuguese, Dutch, English—merchants from all over the world wanted to take advantage of this remarkable site at some point, so precious for maritime trade. Cochin/Kochi was this opulent transit port on the spice and tea route during the first wave of globalization in the 15th and 16th centuries. I love maritime atmospheres, old trading cities. Is the city still steeped in the spirit of the high seas? Probably a romanticized vision from a history buff, but I’m pretty excited to explore the historic neighborhoods of Fort Cochin and Mattancherry.

In reality, we’re quite far from the center—an hour’s drive before a ferry finally drops us off on the peninsula. The long promenade along the port’s entrance channel presents a curious mix of traditional activities, like those of the fishermen, and tourist stalls. I’ve read on many blogs that people were disappointed by Cochin’s overly touristy vibe and the relentless pitches from vendors selling “anything and everything.” It’s a bit true. But nothing like what we endured last year in cities like Jaipur or Agra, for example. I sense my companions are a little let down by the overall atmosphere. That’s not quite how I feel. I enjoy the sight of the Chinese fishing nets—those large nets stretched along the shore—as well as the cargo ships entering the port like elephants, heavy and slow.







After the somewhat disappointing visit to St. Francis Church, billed as the first European church built in India, we decide to do a little shopping along the neat, colorful, and flower-lined streets of the “European” quarter. Marco, the guesthouse owner, had warned us with amused kindness about the formidable Kashmiri merchants, capable of “selling you anything that’s for sale.” Apparently, these immigrants from northern India have been softened by the languor of the South, because we found them less pushy than last year in Rajasthan. And we got some great deals... or at least, that’s what we *thought*...

A welcome break at the « Kashi Art Cafe », a trendy little eatery that also exhibits contemporary paintings. The place is really nice, stimulating. But I (we?) have a slight feeling that the India we love discovering—the one in Tamil Nadu, especially—is slipping away. Faced with this modernity, my feelings are mixed, though. After all, India isn’t just about cows wandering the streets, magnificent temples steeped in piety, or the chaos of dusty roads littered with trash. I imagine a traveler coming to France and forming an idea of the country based solely on Paris and the arrondissements of the Île de la Cité. Every trip should be an opportunity, I think, for necessary self-reflection and questioning our own representations of the world. All while keeping the precious joy of discovery, exchange, wonder, questioning—or even accepting disappointment or rejection.







The sun is beating down harder and harder in the early afternoon. We decide to hop in a tuk-tuk to visit the Mattancherry Palace, also known as the Dutch Palace. In the 16th century, the Portuguese cleverly offered this beautiful princely residence to the Raja of Cochin in exchange for lucrative trade concessions. Later, the Dutch, temporary masters of the place, renovated and embellished it. The visit is fairly quick, but the glimpse of the royal chamber and its 17th-century murals is captivating. Frescoes depicting scenes from the Ramayana, dominated by blue, which we don’t understand without the right cultural codes, of course. But what strikes me the most are the ever-present, deeply expressive smiles of the gods and goddesses. No inverted value judgment here, but I’m impressed by the Indian artists’ desire to always portray their gods with smiles, unlike ours, so often depicted in suffering.







We head back home. At the ferry dock, hardly anyone’s around. No tuk-tuks in sight. A little panic while we find a larger vehicle, a hybrid between a rickshaw and a taxi. “You know la Dame Rouge? Cherai Beach? Marco?” The magic word—Marco—he knows. Still, it’s 20 km away! A peaceful return to the guesthouse for a Franco-Indian dinner of prawns marinated in lemon and spices, prepared by Thanga. As of today, Nathalie, Bruno, and Kate can attest—these are the best we’ve ever had in our lives!!!

Tomorrow, back to Kochi, which still has more to show us...
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Love this interior! 👍 You found some real gems for accommodations! 🤩

My friend Nathalie and I spent *so* much time searching for our places to stay. For both of us, it’s really important—the comfort and price, of course, but especially the location because that can make a big difference. We had one little mishap in Chennai, though. That was the only one. I can recommend all the other places we stayed without hesitation. For the guys, it’s easy—anything works for them! Richard could sleep on a wooden plank and pee in the river across the street.

At La Dame Rouge, we met an exceptional host. Without him, the trip would’ve been totally different...
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
No tuk-tuk. A little anxiety while finding a larger vehicle, a hybrid between a rickshaw and a taxi.

I think they called it a Tata...
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
RA Ragamuffin Globetrotter ·
Good evening,

When will people stop confusing/comparing Thailand (Hey! But it's not like back home in France here – 1985... already ruined) with India?

In Thailand, it's packed with Western tourists, and you can see/hear it.

In India, it's (recently) packed with... Indian tourists, and you don’t really notice (well, maybe a little) since they’re at home... but you can definitely hear it.

tuk-tuk = Thailand

In India, they’re called rickshaws: cycle-rickshaws or auto-rickshaws, commonly just called "autos" ("auto" Sir? "auto?").





I think they called it a Tata...

Indians call it a tempo.



PS

Thanks to Pagaljabav for giving credit where it’s due...

Members like Marien, Marco, and Ragga (I think) encouraged me to keep exploring Chettinad

Check out their post: Upcoming trip to Tamil Nadu

Keep enjoying this travel journal—it’s almost a carbon copy of my very first trip to (South) India back in... 1986/1987 (Bombay, Madras, Mahabalipuram, Madurai, Kovalam, Backwaters, Cochin, Bombay).
"Nous ne sommes plus une communauté d'être humains qui se parlent mais un conglomérat de grappes de consommateurs en niches, séparés les uns des autres par des obsessions diverses et innombrables. Nous sommes de l'ère de la désintégration." Marc Moulin (1942-2008) in Humoeurs
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Hi Raga,

Doesn’t seem like I’ve run into you since VF reopened—great to see you back here!

I think they called it a Tata... Indians call it a tempo

Spot on, that’s exactly what I was going to say.

thanks to Pagaljabav for giving back to the Caesars...

You’re welcome! Those tips really helped me and continue to help others. I could’ve also mentioned Fabgreg and Yann55, who’ve probably put down roots elsewhere by now.

check out their post Imminent trip to Tamil Nadu

And the travel journal I kept live right after that.
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Hey folks

Thanks for stopping by! 🙂 Actually, Indians themselves often say tuk-tuk, which is probably where the confusion comes from. No doubt because of Western tourists who, like us, must mix up the names of these little modes of transport.
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".

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