Au risque de relancer un vieux debat...je vous refait part, ici, ds un forum plus approprié, de ma déception sur le peu de reponses que mon post a susciter ds cette "belle et digne" rubrique humanitaire........
A ceux qui ne l'ont pas lu, je propose d'aller le relire..... (post "cherche bonne volonté")afin de se rendre compte de ma demarche dont l'objectif est de "sauver" une clinique népalaise ....en solicitant un peu de temps de la part des membres du forum....sur 10000 membres, dont de tres nombreux aspirants à "l'humanitaire", j'esperais qu'un bon nombre se mobiliseraient.....🙂 Et quelle surprise de m'apercevoir que seule une dizaine de personnes au total ont aceptées de me suivrent ( parmis lesquels 3 ami(e)s et ma propres soeur...c'est dire !!)... 0.1% des membres....ca fait pas bcp ..............🤪🤪
Oui pas beaucoup....et tiens...dailleur....??
Où sont donc passés tous les soit-disants humanistes prets a changer la monde qui dhabitude font crouler toutes les rubriques du forum sous les messages moralisateurs, pronnant l'amour de leur prochain, la tolerance, et que sais je encore ????????
Où sont passé tous les "phylosophes d'un jour" qui, eux aussi, sont d'habitude hypers actifs dans cette rubrique "réflexion"....n'y a t'il pas un jour, justement, ou il faut s'arreter de penser pour agir enfin ????????
Et ... Où sont donc tous les jeunes gens qui sont soit-disant pret à donner de leur temps pour que la misère dans le monde progresse moins vite... et qui innondent le forum humanitaire de demandes de missions pour des destinations lointaines et exotiques ???????????
Toutes ces questions pour vous dire mon ecoeurement devant tantde"lacheté"
Il est facile de donner des "lecons de vie" à une communauté dont on sait pertinamment qu'elle ne peut croire que ce qu'on lui dit juste pour "faire bien" ; comme Il est apparemment "a la mode" de pratiquer l'autosatisfaction en se transformant pour 1 mois d'été en "sauveur de l'humanité" parcequ'on est partit a l'autre bout du monde donner des cours dans des ecoles ....
Ils sont beaucoup plus rares les gens qui ...eux... vont accepter de passer des nuits d'hiver aupres des SDF, de frapper aux portes pour recolter qqs euros, de passer des heures a trier du linge sal ou encore a faire soner les clochettes de l'Armée du salut .... quitte a passer eux meme pour des misereux ou des mendiants.....
"la lacheté"... vous savez....ce moment precis où l'Amour Propre devient plus fort que les convictions qu'on defendait peu de temps avant....OUI cette "lacheté" qui fait que notre monde patine sans cesse et qu'on laisse sombrer dans la misère la moitié de l'humanité.........
Oui l'HOMME est lache....et je suis revolté de ne pas pouvoir changer ca.......
c'est malheureusement vrai et les exemples sont fréquents dans la vie de tous les jours. Je me rappelle avoir écrit qu' avant de demander des missions dans des pays lointains et exotiques, certains demandeurs feraient mieux de vivre l'humanitaire dans leur propre région pour voir la réelle portée de leur vraie soif d'engagement. Il suffit de regarder dans son village, ce sont toujours les mêmes que l'on voit participer, les mêmes qui s'engagent dans les associations, les mêmes qui donnent bénévolement de leur temps ( souvent au détriment de leur vie de famille ) et enfin les mêmes qui n'hésitent pas à intervenir au risque d'y laisser des plumes.
LACHETE OU INDIFFERENCE, les deux sont indissociables et sont profondément inscrits dans les valeurs de la société actuelle et si tout cela venait tout simplement de la perte de l'éducatif depuis une vingtaine d'années, éducatif de l'école, des parents, de la nation, de tous ces composants qui sont les garants des valeurs humaines fondamentales telles, le respect, la tolerance, le courage, la participation, l'aide .....
Le pire, c'est que je ne suis pas sur du tout que ce probléme soit propre à la FRANCE. Que faire ? Si ce n'est continuer à y croire, à se battre et à s'engager. Ne serait ce que pour ceux qui ont besoin de cette aide et ils sont de plus en plus nombreux dans toutes les régions du monde.
faites que le réve dévore votre vie avant que la vie dévore votre réve, alors vous voyagerez tous les jours ..
Une action de un mois, bon ils ont fait une action, meme si les 90% on ne les revoit plus (plus de suivi dans l'assoc), car ils ont la conscience tranquille en se disant qu'ils ont changé le quotidien.
Mais ce qui me chagrine le plus c'est de voir des gens qui demandent a rendre service pour soi-disant sauver le monde et qui veulent en contre partie etre logés-nourris-et presque qu'on leur paye le transport, c'est une HONTE...😠, deja que l'action en elle meme demande des mois et des mois d'attente en financement et les gens qui participent a l'action "tapent dans la caisse"😠!!! c'est désolant😕
julien
un grand voyage commence toujours par un petit pas.
Association NE POUR VIVRE
Oui Julien, mais si on se penche trop la dessus, tu sais on finit par être dégouté de tout.....
Combien de fois j'ai la rage au ventre lorsque par exemple je me ballade au Mozambique et que je vois les ONG garés avec leurs gros 4 x 4 devant les meilleurs hôtels de la ville, là tu peux me croire que oui on se demande ce qu'on fait dans ce putain de monde.
Non Thib, le monde ne sera pas pas sauvé, mais si on peut contribuer parfois à rendre la vie de certaines personnes moins dramatique, ou à essayer comme tu le fais de sauver un hôpital afin que des enfants puissent se faire soigner, alors ma foi on aura quand même apporté un peu d'humanité ici bas....
Maintenant j'espère que les voyageurs vont un peu se bouger sur le forum et contribuer à ton action, mais je réitére ma demande auprés de François afin de voir si on peut créer en parralèle une asso qui permettrait de financer des projets comme celui d'Inextremis....
Bon, allez courage, il y a quand même quelques personnes qui osent regarder la détresse en face.....
Merci a toi alan, 🙂 c'est bien ce qui me semblait...le monde sera pas sauvé😕
En tt cas merci a vous trois pour vos reponses...qui, je m'y attendais, vont dans le meme sens que moi.....je savais tres bien qui allait reagir à mon post.... et je pourrais prédire qui va continuer a y repondre....
J'aimerais seulement que les personnes qui se seraient sentis "visé" par mon premier message repondent en live plutot que de m'envoyer des pv pour me donner toutes les excuses du monde .... mais qui ne bougent pas plus pour autant....
Oui ...j'aimerais comprendre pourquoi, ces personnes, qui si on s'en tient a leur messages postés sur ce forum, semblent extremement genereuses, ouvertes, et pour certaines meme Altruistes.... ne mettent pas en action leur paroles en mettant la main a la pate (ou a la poche)........ je comprendrais si certain me disaient " je suis fauché en ce moment ..jpeu pas...avec 3 euros je mange 1 semaine..." ou " je suis deja investi a fond ds une asso..." etc.... Mais j'ai deja beaucoup plus de mal a comprendre que des personnes me contactent pour s'excuser de ne pas m'aider .....car " je part en voyage dans 3 semaines.... je suis a fond dans les preparatifs... desole ! pas le temps"
Bref je n'attend pas une MEA CULPA de la part de ts les membres....mais au moins qu'on me dise pourquoi, si peu de personnes ont repondu presente .... a une demande qui etait pourtant la plus simple du monde...sortir son carnet de cheque...moi il me faut pas 10 secondes...alors en 3 semaines 🤪
Je précise egalement que je ne post pas dans l'objectif de vous "forcer la main" pour mon action..... non je pense seulement poser des questions importantes ... d'une manière vraiment generale... pour que peut etre, tout ca change un peu...
Moi aussi j'ai la rage quand je vois ça, dis toi que l'UNICEF a fait une pub dans l'établissement ou je suis et ils se plaignaient de n'avoir qu'un budget de 500 millions d'euros par an, en sachant les salaires de ministre qu'ils se versent, je suis degouté.
Et va s'y les gros 4x4, les hotels, et les primes de deplacements et de risques, attend si on a peur de partir on reste en france a la croix rouge il demande bcp de benevol aussi, ou a l'armée du salut qui ne demande que ça.
On ne refera jamais le monde, il est telqu'il est et c'est bien malheureux😕
bonne journee a tous
un grand voyage commence toujours par un petit pas.
Association NE POUR VIVRE
Je découvre ton message sur "humanitaire" grâce à celui-ci .... faut pas s'énerver Inextremis .... on ne va pas tous tous les jours visiter toutes les rubriques !!!
Je prépare moi même un long voyage (et j'économise pour cela), je parraine déjà un enfant en Inde (que j'ai eu la chance de connaître lorsque je me suis rendue dans ce pays) .... mais ça ne m'empêche pas de t'acheter des ponchos pour en faire cadeaux à des amis.
Tout cela non pas pour m'excuser (pas besoin, quand on ne veut pas voir certaines choses on change de rubrique et puis on est transquillement tranquil) pour te dire qu'il ne faut pas croire que tout le monde est lâche parce qu'on ne te répond pas rapidement, et je suis certaine que d'autres personnes ne t'ont pas répondu rapidement pour des bonnes raisons !
Tu sais, le bénévolat à l'étranger, j'en ai fait (Inde principalement et Bénin), en France aussi (pendant plusieurs années). On ne change pas le monde et, une chose est bien vrai, en Afrique (Inde, Papouasie, où tu veux) c'est plus facile de faire du bénévolat parce qu'on ne travaille (ou étudie pas) alors quand on a du temps libre on se laisse éblouir par la découverte du pays. A Paris, après le boulot, le vendredi soir, faire les restos du coeur .... parfois c'est dur. Surtout quand on s'aperçoit que des fois il faut prendre sur soi, souvent les "humanitaires" du premier poil se confrontent à la réalité d'indigence, de rage, de solitude, de misère morale des "oubliés" de la capitale. Il faut prendre sur soi quand par exemple on se fait traiter de "pouf ...." ou de "co ...sse" parce qu'on ne sert les plats assez rapidement, ou quand la personne en face de toi vit sa condition mal au point qu'elle déteste le monde, que la vie est une saloperie pour elle .... et alors là, à Paris, il faut rentrer chez soi et le vendredi soir à 23h se retrouver avec tout ça à digérer ....
Brèf, j'attends ton message perso pour qu'on se mette d'accord pour les ponchos .... et puis, un peut comme si toi aussi tu faisais du bénévolat en France, prends sur toi et ne prends pas les choses mal. Une fois, lors de mon premier voyage (j'étais extrêmement jeune dans ma tête) quelqu'un m'a dit "tu apprendras à jauger les gens, pas à les juger". Voyageur ne veut pas dire "personne au bon coeur", c'est loin d'être vrai, un voyageur est une personne comme une autre, elle n'a pas plus ou moins de qualités que les autres juste parce qu'elle se déplace (encore une fois, voyager en solo ou un groupe n'est pas non plus gage de générosité).
Je te fais la bise, jeun homme plein de fougue et de bonne volonté
je sais aussi que l'humanitaire ici chez nous....est plus dur et plus "cassant" moralement parce qu'on rencontre des gens qui pourraient être nous.....et pr eux, le fait d'être en permanence en face de gens qui "réussissent leur vie" ne peut qu'être frustrant et provoquer cette rage et ce desespoir parfois exprimé comme tu le décris...par de la violence. Et il est bien vrai que d'arriver ds un pays etranger face à des gens qui eux vont profiter pleinement de tt ce que tu leur offres....et qui vont te montrer leur reconnaissance....est bcp plus gratifiant !🙂
Pour ce qui est de mon post initial, que bcp ont perçu comme "agressif" je dirai juste que je l'ai voulu un peu provocateur, pour faire réagir.... mais en aucun je ne visais qqun en particulier... non, je faisais juste un constat général...
maintenant...qd tu dis..que ts les voyageurs ne sont pas forcement généreux.....je suis d'accord...mais bon...c'est justement ça le probleme... peut- être aussi que les gens sont trop solicités de nos jours....et en ont marre de se voir demander des $$ pour telle ou telle cause... oui je le conçois très bien
c'est vrai, on est souvent sollicité, mais chacun souscrits à la cause qui sens la plus proche de sa sensibilité (comme l'a dit Marsu) mais bon, s'il n'y a pas de "solliciteurs" il n'y a pas de donneurs non plus!
eh bien puisqu il faut repondre en live plutot qu en pv!
"mais en aucun cas je ne visais qq un en particulier...je fesais un constat general.".
soit.cela dit je reagis puisque je me sens visee parce que je t ai ecrit un message hier pour t encourager, et non m'excuser d ailleurs, et que je t ai parle un peu de moi en te disant que je partais dans trois semaines...
ben tu vois si j avais su je me serai abstenue!franchement!oui je suis en plein preparatifs mais tu ne sais meme pas de quoi!!!je ne suis pas en train de faire les soldes!!!
tu sais tu accuses un peu vite je trouve.
tu n es pas le seul a vouloir changer les choses et a agir.et ce n est pas parce que les gens ne justifient pas leur manque a ton appel qu ils ne font "rien" quotidiennement et a leur echelle.
voila....!!
bon courage quand meme.
Ainsi....même si certaines personnes ont pu trouver mes propos "agressifs" ou "provoquateurs", ce qu'ils étaient sans doute un peu, je le reconnais, .... même si ce "coup de gueule" a été mal "digéré" par d'autres.....et j'en suis desolé....il y a tout de meme une UNE chose dont je reste persuadé et qui m a ete confirmée : l'Homme est de plus en plus indifferent et lâche devant la misère du monde.
Tu précises à juste titre, que je ne suis pas le seul a vouloir changer le monde...et tu as raison, les 10 messages qui precedent le tiens en attestent (j'aurais voulu qu'il y en ai plus).....
Oui, il y a encore des gens qui ont vu ou connu la misère et qui vont faire tout ce qu'ils peuvent "à leur echelle" pour aider les autres, en sacrifiant parfois meme leur confort personnel....il y en a aussi, qui eux n'ont pas connu la misere et qui justement ont conscience d'avoir eu cette chance que d'autres n'ont pas eu, de pouvoir manger à leur faim, dormir au chaud ou partir en voyage...et eux aussi, meme si leurs journées sont "bien remplies" et leurs esprits "occupés"...vont tenter d'apporter leur pierre à l'édifice... souvent juste en faisant un chèque.... certain diront "facile de faire un chéque quand on est riche pour se soulager la conscience"...oui mais EUX ils le font..même si leurs motivations sont discutables....
Voila, je constate juste que malheureusement tous ceux là sont de moins en moins nombreux alors qu'à l'inverse la misère augmente.....et je n'ose pas imaginer ce que sera le monde dans 10, 50, 100 ans.......non vraiment je ne prefere pas...
" La plus grande violence que les Hommes s'infligent entre eux est la misère qui, au delà de la pauvreté, plonge une partie de l'humanité dans l'inexistance....."
je viens de lire les post du forum humanitaire et je te sens un brin désespéré.
MEUH NON!!!
Evidemment c'est décevant (plus que ça) de voir si peu de réponses à ton appel, mais dis-toi bien que tu as quand même des contacts positifs, des gens qui vont participer à ton action! Et c'est ça le plus important, pas ceux qui n'y participent pas.......dont je fais partie (ben ouais faut bien le dire). Tu sais, j'ai hésité à répondre parce que ce n'est pas toujours évident d'exprimer par écrit des choses aussi délicates, mais je voulais juste de te dire que ce n'est pas parce qu'on ne répond pas en masse à TON appel, qu'on est forcément tous totalement indifférent à la misère dans le monde.
On a pu voir dans les réponses que certains d'entre nous sont déjà actifs dans d'autres assos, d'autres actions.
Alors force est d'avouer qu'on ne peut pas porter toute la misère du monde et s'engager dans chaque action proposée.
Alors ne te vexes pas, ne le prends pas pour toi, ou pour ton action en particulier et surtout ne perds pas courage! Ce que tu fais est exemplaire et l'aide que tu pourras apportée à cette action n'est forcément pas vaine.
Tiens nous au courant du devenir de cette clinique.
Non rassure toi, même si je suis un peu déçu du peu de retombées réelles que cette tentative aura eu... je reste positif sur l'avenir de l'asso et de la clinique...j'ai des idées plein la tête et il ne me manque que du temps pour les mettre en action....car évidemment je ne peux pas passer 100% de mon temps sur l'asso....et c'est là que je te rejoins parfaitement quand tu me dis que l'on ne peut s'investir partout...oui je le comprends car là, maintenant, tu me demanderais de m'investir ailleurs...meme pour la plus belle cause du monde...je pourrais pas....car mes journées sont déjà pleines, et ma tête aussi....... et crois moi je n'en veux pas à des personnes en particulier, mais au systeme en général et à la façon dont ce même systeme fait que les gens perdent plus vite espoir, ou ne se sentent plus concernés par rien....le système, la politique, la morosité générale font que...
tiens par exemple, la personne dont je suis le plus proche est Russe...et elle me disait récemment que là-bas...personne ne donne ou ne s'investit ds ce genre de chose, l'humanitaire, ils ne connaissent pas....les gens travaillent pour eux et l'argent qu'il gagnent..ils le gardent....pourtant la plupart ont un coeur enorme...et peut-t-on leur reprocher après temps d'années de communisme et de privations de vivre enfin pour eux ??? non evidemment ...... je me sentirais même idiot et mal avenant de leur demander qqchose...si il l'ont, ca ne fait aucun doute il te l'offriront d'eux mêmes ....
🙂tenez je vous remets les paroles d'une chanson écrite par quelqu'un qui il y a deja quelques années voulait changer le monde...et il le chantaitr drolement bien.... c'etait Michel BERGER..."plus de sentiments"🙂
ca resume bien tt !!🙂
Quelque chose de beau doit nous arriver
Quelque chose de fort doit nous emporter
Quelque chose qui nous ferait vivre du jour au lendemain
Quelque chose pour quoi tendre les mains
Quelque chose de beau doit nous transporter
Quelque chose de fort doit nous faire changer
Quelque chose qui nous ferait suivre un tout autre chemin
Commençons ce rêve demain
Moins de haine, moins de guerre
Moins de larmes et moins de sang
Moins d'espoir d'être puissant
Moins de pouvoir et moins d'argent
Et plus de sentiments
Moins de phrases, moins de serments
Moins de rage d'être devant
Moins de courses avec le temps
Moins de mots intransigeants
Et plus de sentiments
Moins de larmes, moins de sang
Et plus de sentiments
Quelque chose d'étrange qui viendrait de nous
Quelque chose de fort, ferait changer tout
Quelque chose qui nous ferait dire
Des mots bizarres et beaux
Commençons ce rêve bientôt
Moins de haine, moins de guerre
Moins de larmes et moins de sang
Moins d'espoir d'être puissant
Moins de pouvoir et moins d'argent
Et plus de sentiments
Moins de phrases, moins de serments
Moins de rage d'être devant
Moins de courses avec le temps
Moins de mots intolérants
Et plus de sentiments
Moins de larmes, moins de sang
Et plus de sentiments
Et plus de sentiments
Seulement
Plus de sentiments
Eh bien l'ami je suis au Canada, plus précisément au Québec, si je peux faire qque chose pour t'aider écris-moi, j'ai entendu ton appel, je suis parmi celle qui veux aider le monde peut importe ou il se trouve. Ginette.
Je dois dire que je comprend te réaction et je suis d'accord à 100% avec toi!Moi aussi je voudrais changer le monde et en finir avec la misère, les guerres etc....mais par où commencer et que faire?
Malheureusement n'ayant que 15 ans, à part te soutenir moralement, que voudrais tu que je fasse?
Désolée de voir que tes grands éspoirs de tout changer, s'effondre devant l'impuissance face à la situation...
Bon courage à toi😉
Souriez et la vie vous semblera bien plus belle ;)
Enchanté de faire ta connaissance ! merci pr tes encouragements.... que peux- tu faire a 15 ans... ?🤪 benhhhhhhh parler de tt ca autour de toi a des gens qui ont qqs années de plus et qui ont plus de moyens pour agir.... rassures- toi mes grands espoirs ne se sont pas effondrés.... il m'en reste un peu... et de te lire m'en redonne bcp... alors merci à toi !
Il n'y a pas de problème, je parlerai à un maximum de personne et si je trouve quelqu'un d'un peu plus âgé et qui veut sauver le monde je te l'envoie!!!
Bisous
Souriez et la vie vous semblera bien plus belle ;)
Allez inextremis, ne panique pas... tu as eu quelques réponses quand même... quand j'ai posté moi même une petite demande de partenariat associatif, je pensais aussi avoir au moins des conseils... mais walou de walou!
je me suis juste dit que les gens ne peuvent pas non plus vivre connectés à la misere du monde et qu'ils font en fonction des causes qu'ils sentent...
je suis désolée mais ton post je ne l'avais pas lu, et même si tel avait été le cas, j'ai la tete trop prise par d'autres problemes en ce moment... et c'est peut etre le cas de beaucoup ici après tout!
Ceci étant ta réaction et ton émotion sont légitimes... Il est difficile de savoir certains dans de grandes difficultés et de ne pouvoir partager cela avec la majorité.
Rassure toi ca fait bien longtemps que je panique plus... 😏😏.... mais bon un ti coup de gueule en live pour se defouler... et faire passer les idées qu'on defend... ca fait pas de mal.... tiens dailleurs ca fait longtemps que...🤪
Non le post initial pr les ponchos n'a pas eu enormement de retombés pour l'asso, mais bon j'aurais au moins essayé....ca m'a qd meme permis de rencontrer des personnes formidables sur ce forum que je remercie une nvlle fois au passage !🙂
J'en profite pr vous rajouter qq photos prises a la clinique il y aqq semaines... si ca donne pas envie de se bouger ces petites bouilles.... benh la...
oui oui je reste optimiste.... as tu regardé les photos que j'ai rajoutées.... tu peux pas etre pessimiste... c'est eux qui sont dans la merde et ils sourient plus que nous ! encore une bonne lecon !🙂
C’est vrai que l’on est parfois découragé devant certains problèmes mais vu les messages précédents tu vois tu n’es pas seul à réagir à cela. J’ai travaillé dans un home pour enfants handicapés physiques et mentaux profonds. Je peux te dire qu’une fois mis dans cette maison, la plupart des enfants, n’avaient plus que nous (le personnel) comme famille. Maintenant quelques personnes et moi, allons régulièrement dans une résidence pour personnes âgées. Certaines reçoivent la visite de leur famille régulièrement mais la plupart attendent avec impatience notre présence…. Tu vois même là il existe un problème or ….. C’est leur famille !
Alors voilà suite à une erreur mon post qui s'intitulait "on peut sauver le monde" a été effacé. Mais comme l'erreur est humaine je relance la discussion!!!…
Suite à quelques voyages, quelques rencontres surprenantes dans des coins dit reculés et des lectures d'articles et de bouquins, je me pose bien des questions…
Nous sommes bien sûr tous des voyageurs et c'est ce qui nous rassemble ici. Mais nous avons tous une vision différente du voyage et n'y accordons pas la même…
La France (j'allais dire notre pays, c'était oublier que le site VF est canadien, enfin c'est pas loin concernant les francophones, il s'agit de nos cousins),…
Je voudrais avoir votre avis sur une question existentielle qui dirige ma vie depuis plusieurs annees. J'ai vecu 20 ans au meme endroit et j'ai perdu les 3…
Who’d like to share their best and worst travel memories in a few lines?
For me, it’s watching the TAJ MAHAL at sunrise and getting chased by dogs at the top of a mountain pass in GREECE on the way back from ISTANBUL.
THANKS GUYS
This is my 15,000th post, and it's a message I would have preferred never to write.
Patrick—Yangguizi—won’t be returning from his trek in Uganda. His health betrayed him in the mountains.
Like many of you, I laughed until I couldn’t anymore at his travel stories. I met him in Shanghai, then in Istanbul... We scoured restaurants—he was an incredible expert on world cuisines. We relived Korea, China. Always brilliant, so sharp, so funny, so down-to-earth. Being even a little bit his friend was something to be proud of. I think I envied him.
Patrick is still out there, of course...
He found his happiness running across the world. He’s on his path. He never doubted that "the traveler doesn’t even know if he’ll return one day."
Not sure this would’ve suited him, but his departure devastates me.
Alright,
Farewell, you foreign devil. Safe travels.
hello to all travelers with their eyes wide open to the desert...
I’ve always wondered what I was "doing" on this earth. And why my father, who died a few months after I was born—a former youngest French resistance fighter—joined the First Saharan Motorized Company in Atar and spent the rest of his life repairing army engines in Algeria, Mauritania, Senegal, Mali (which didn’t exist under that name back then), Morocco, and finally Algeria, where my mother was born and raised. (Believe me, it’s not "cool" being the child of a soldier in a country occupied by France, and even less so the child of a "pied-noir.")
Of course, I never got an answer: the dead don’t talk, and the army doesn’t either.
But here’s the thing—I had photos...
So naturally, one day I hit the road. I wanted to see, to understand.
It’s thanks to VF that I was able to do a little research on crossing the Morocco-Mauritania border, and I’m grateful to its members, just as I’m grateful to all those who welcomed me on the road for 14 years.
For the past few weeks, I’ve been wondering if I should talk about this or not...
It turns out the Mauritanians changed my life by asking for my help... And that started as early as February 2012... (Did I owe them something? No answer to that question.)
Ah, the irony—they saw me coming. But when you’re handed sick children and begged to do something, what would you have done? I’d worked in a hospital, so I knew a bit about the rules to follow. I didn’t hesitate.
And well, over all these years, I met doctors, surgeons, and together we organized care, evacuations of children, training for surgeons—even trying to stop children from having to travel outside their country. It was never easy. I’d like to thank those who supported us, as well as *La Chaîne de l’Espoir*, *La Fondation Face au Monde*, and everyone who built bridges between our two countries.
Unfortunately, despite the constant efforts of Mauritanian doctors and surgeons, some children couldn’t be helped in time. Today, I want to talk about four siblings—orphans of their mother—suffering from congenital glaucoma causing irreversible blindness. Their case was entrusted to me in 2020, just weeks before the big lockdown. We couldn’t do anything for them then, but when their father asked me for a gift, I rushed to my computer and wrote a story.
Through a tale, the children take a great journey, explore their country, and fulfill a dream. I never thought this book would be published—it was, in 2023.
This book pays tribute to Mauritania. It’s a message for those who know nothing about the hardships of life there, carrying both the harshness and beauty of an immense desert where you can travel by 4x4, bike, on foot, or by camel in complete safety. It bears witness to the kindness of Mauritanians toward travelers.
As a woman traveling alone in my vehicle—a now-rusted old Mercedes that no longer runs—I had the most beautiful encounters of my life there (I’ve seen other parts of the world...). The blind children of Choum, Atar, Nouadhibou, and Nouakchott will forever be in my heart.
Volunteer readers transcribed the book into a free audio version for the visually impaired. It’s available in sound libraries in France, the *Fondation Valentin Haüy*, and the Swiss Romande library.
I made my last trip to Mauritania in my old 4x4 to distribute the book everywhere, especially to its heroes and the school for the visually impaired in Nouakchott.
After that, I thought it was time to close the chapter because I no longer have the means or the strength to travel.
My publishers chose this title for it: *The Blue Eyes of the Desert*.
This publication helped a mission of Swiss volunteer ophthalmologists come to operate on glaucomas in Mauritania. I’m thrilled because they come back every year!
This adventure is ending, yes—everything must come to an end—but ultimately, it was born here, on the VF site!! So yes, I had to say it: THANK YOU!!!!!
Hi everyone,
I’m Loulou, a French expat who’s been living in Southeast Asia for about fifteen years, currently in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. A passionate walker at heart, I’ve trekked in Nepal (Thorung La, Mardi Himal), India, Vietnam, and I’m still planning new hikes (Char Dham, Langtang, Annapurna).
I’ve just published my first travel journal, recounting three months of walking and encounters across India. A portion of the sales goes to an educational center I support in Kep, for children whose parents work in the salt marshes.
I’m also working on a second book about Nepal with a musician friend, focusing on the Mardi Himal trek—two independent perspectives on the same journey.
Happy to swap stories with you about the Himalayas, India, Southeast Asia, or just the urge to hit the road and walk far from home.
Safe travels,
Loulou
Hi! It was totally by chance that I stumbled upon VoyageForum (an ad online and a story lol), and I’ve been reading some really old posts from 2011 about Thai massage schools—discussions on how to get by, accommodation, prices, etc. It reminded me of my own experience: I kept things simple by staying with a local family during my entire trip. I only shared all the expenses with them, which, I’ll admit, was super cheap… and I often traveled with them, which naturally opened a lot of doors for me. To start, at the school in Salaya, my Thai friend immediately connected me with Teacher Phong (the school’s mentor and teacher of teachers, a former monk). I was supposed to join a group session with other foreigners, but for some reason I don’t know, I got two days of private lessons for free with this expert… incredible! And on top of that, he loved France! It was an amazing experience. I "discovered" massage by chance—the Thai family just told me: "Try it, you’ll see!" (I’d had a pretty intense massage in the capital before 😅… but the next day, I felt unbelievably great!))
Every morning, I’d take a taxi (chosen by the Thai family at prices that beat all the competition) to this school—I’ve forgotten the name of the little village now… right in the heart of the countryside. Then, in the evenings, I’d keep practicing massage on all the family members… and they’d teach me Thai at the same time!))
Since then, I’ve practiced a bit, with lots of positive feedback. Following Teacher Phong’s advice—he thought my pressure was deep, firm, and precise—he strongly encouraged me to take this seriously.
I love Thailand so much. It’s a whole different way of living… and it’s a real blessing, even if I couldn’t live there full-time. Anyway, that was an unforgettable memory, and sometimes the Thai family and I still say hi—from 2011, 2013… right up to today!
"It seems to me that poverty would be less painful in the sun" wrote Aznavour...
Not sure...😕 Who can prove that people in hot countries are happier than others?
What do you think?
Is it better to live in Montpellier than in Lille?
Are the Pygmies happier than the Inuit?
Are Canadians less happy than the people of Louisiana?
Are there more French expats in hot countries?
And your travels? Do you choose your destinations based on the climate?
Do you rejoice when a bit of sunshine appears?
Hi everyone, just this once I’m not posting for a travel story, but to share a thought for Venezuela.
If you didn’t know—since it’s not making headlines—the country was hit by two 7.5-magnitude earthquakes last week. Over 2,200 people have died, more than 50,000 are missing, and some coastal towns have been completely destroyed.
Maybe when the scale of the humanitarian crisis becomes clear, our media will cover it a bit more... especially since earthquakes with this many casualties usually make the front page, but there’s been nothing in France.
So here’s a thought for this country, which, whatever you think of its politics, is a true jewel of South America, both for its landscapes and its people.
hi there
I’d like to invite you to discover my coastal province in central Vietnam: Quang Ngai.
This year, my province has really improved its infrastructure—mountains, countryside, and sea are all authentic here.
No harassers or thieves, and no Russians either.
A local lunch costs around 1 €.
A *** hotel room is about 25 €, and you can find hotels right on My Khe Beach.
We have a specialty: *banh xeo*—10 crepes for just 1.5 €.
You can rent motorbikes to explore the province and maybe visit the many ethnic minorities.
I live here—I’m not selling anything, but I can help if needed (my father-in-law is a traditional Vietnamese doctor and he’s very skilled).
Hi everyone! 😉
I’m Typhaine, 35 years old. Five years ago, I left France for a solo round-the-world trip—no planes, just a van, hitchhiking, cycling, and even a canoe in the Amazon! Today, I work as a naturalist guide in Argentine Patagonia.
Wherever I go, my compass stays the same: observing and photographing wildlife, which I deeply admire and respect.
My project: I’d love to share this experience through a sustainable, authentic, and immersive nature tourism initiative. But to build something meaningful, I need to understand how other nature enthusiasts experience their own adventures.
If you:
Are over 20 years old
Have a true passion for Nature
Have already taken at least one trip lasting more than 3 nights (in your country or abroad) in your life
Promise: I’m not selling anything, this isn’t marketing. Your answers are 100% anonymous and will only help me shape this wild project.
A huge thank you to everyone for your help and kindness! Looking forward to chatting in this thread 😛
(Dear admins, this is purely a collaborative effort for my project study, with no commercial purpose. Thank you so much for your support!)
Photo: Grizzly Bear (Ursus arctos horribilis), female on the left and her cub on the right. Photo taken by me in Alaska, Denali National Park.
It’s something we often notice in this forum—and many others—this behavioral shift.
A long-time member, or even a new one, asks a question.
They get one or more answers, some brief, some detailed, and then... nothing???
Not even a simple thank you!!!
From what I’ve gathered, if the answers don’t align with what they wanted to hear, it seems natural for the asker to just disappear!! 😕
Unless—(and I fear this is the case)—basic politeness is no longer part of our society????
I spent 3 weeks in Bali last summer (+ 3 nights on Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java). So I wanted to see what ChatGPT could suggest for comparison...
Here’s the prompt I gave:
"You’re a local expert guide for Bali.
- Plan a 20-day itinerary for Bali with a side trip to Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java without staying overnight.
- I’m traveling with my wife, and I love visiting historical sites, hiking, relaxing at the beach, snorkeling, and exploring rice terraces...
- For the duration of the stay, I don’t want more than 8 places to sleep, and I’d like to stay at least 2 days at each stop to avoid unpacking too often. Except for the last night, where I’m okay with just one night near the airport.
- I prefer neighborhoods that are walkable and try to avoid typical tourist traps, though I don’t want to miss the must-see spots. So suggest a mix of iconic sites and hidden gems.
- Recommend hotels or guesthouses with a budget of 50 to 100 € per night, including breakfast. Make suggestions in areas popular with travelers, specifying the vibe (I prefer quiet), and consider safety and proximity to attractions.
- For lunch and dinner, suggest two to three restaurants that are well-rated by customers.
- Give me a day-by-day program with details on travel times, visiting times for each point of interest, and recommendations for transportation (taxi, train, bike, etc.).
Estimate the total cost of the trip, including accommodations, food, transportation, and activities, and suggest two tips for saving money in each category.
- Don’t make anything up—be realistic about travel times, take into account the opening dates and hours of sites, and give me the entry fees for places to visit.
- Ask me all the questions until you’re 95% sure you understand what’s being asked. Don’t generate your response until you’ve understood."
The AI asked for a few clarifications:
"Great request—I can build you a really optimized and enjoyable itinerary, but to be 95% sure I hit the mark, I need a few key clarifications (this will really influence the pace, areas, and accommodations)."
In the end, it proposed a program very close to what we actually did.
I’ll skip its accommodation and restaurant suggestions...
Its proposal:
"Ubud (4 nights) => we did 5 nights
Sidemen (2 nights)
Amed (3 nights) => we’d planned 2 nights
Gili Meno (3 nights) => we did Gili between Sidemen and Amed
Munduk (3 nights) => we did 2 nights before Pemuteran
Pemuteran (3 nights) with Ijen => we did 4 nights
Sanur (2 nights + 1 last night) => we chose Jatiluwih instead of Sanur
It suggested "activities" (and accommodations too):
IN UBUD:
- Walk around central Ubud (1–2h)
- Campuhan Ridge Walk
- Tegalalang Rice Terrace
- Tirta Empul
- Gunung Kawi
- Massage / market / slow café
IN SIDEMEN:
- Rice terrace hike (2–3h)
- Cooking class
IN AMED:
- Snorkeling
- Japanese Shipwreck
- Beach + relaxation
- Volcano sunset
ON GILI:
- Snorkeling at Gili Meno Turtle Point, Nest Underwater Statues
IN MUNDUK:
- Jungle & waterfall hike - Munduk Waterfall + Melanting Waterfall
- Loop: 3–4h (perfect for your level)
- Ulun Danu Bratan Temple
- Twin Lakes
IN PEMUTERAN
- Snorkeling: Menjangan Island
For Kawah Ijen, it detailed the day well:
👍 from Pemuteran = best possible option
12 PM: leave hotel (we left at 10 PM)
1 PM: ferry
3 PM: arrival in Java + transfer
11 PM: start ascent
2 AM–6 AM: volcano
Return to Bali around 11 AM–12 PM (we got back at 4 PM)
👍 still very intense, but doable with an agency
💰 ~80–120 €/person all-inclusive
IN SANUR:
- Relaxation
- Quiet beach
- Proximity to airport (30 min)"
I’ve kept the habit of blowing my nose in the sink and then washing my hands—a custom I picked up in India. Sometimes, non-travelers are shocked when they catch me in the act... 🤪
Also, when I run out of toilet paper, it doesn’t bother me—unless I’ve got company over... 🤪
Just got back from walking a friend’s dog (while they’re on vacation), wearing a djellaba and Tibetan boots... 😏😏😏 Oh, for sure, if I’d run into locals, I probably would’ve shocked them? 😏
Anyway, as long as I’m not spitting on the floor at a restaurant or squatting on the side of a highway with a water bottle in hand...
After taking a little trip around the world, I came back a few months ago with an idea in mind.
I mostly do diving, and I love observing animals in their natural habitat without disturbing them.
During the trip, I realized it was quite complicated to know where and when to see certain species.
For example:
where to dive with sharks or manta rays
where you might get a chance to swim with whales
I even discovered thresher sharks during my trip… I didn’t even know this species existed before, even though they’re incredible to see.
We spent a ton of time searching for info all over the place, especially on social media, without ever getting a clear picture.
So I started putting all this together on my own, in the form of a map, to make it easier to visualize where to go depending on the seasons.
I recently put a first version online (it’s called Fauneya).
There are probably mistakes, inconsistencies, or things to improve, and that’s partly why I’m posting here.
I’d really love to know how you all go about planning this kind of trip.
As part of my Master’s thesis, I’m currently conducting a public survey on a topic that concerns all of us when planning a trip: artificial intelligence and the role of human contact in travel planning.
These days, we’re using more and more digital tools to find ideas, compare options, and book trips... but is the role of human advisors still essential? At what moments? And for what types of trips?
The survey is anonymous and takes about 7 minutes.
It’s aimed at anyone who travels (or has traveled) for leisure, whether you plan everything yourself or go through an agency.
While browsing the forum to gather info for my upcoming trip to Thailand, I often see the terms "traveler," "great traveler," and also "tourist"—so what’s the nuance for you?
I've traveled quite a bit in Vietnam over the past few years—from the southern delta to bustling cities and even some small islands—but what really sticks with me is the north, the high mountains.
Up there, there's something different—maybe slower, more raw. The morning markets with ethnic groups, women in traditional clothes, the colors...
The stilt houses, kids following you and laughing for no reason, the terraced rice fields—it almost feels unreal at times, so vast and quiet, yet so human and simple.
You often hear that Sapa has become too touristy, and that's partly true, especially in the center. But as soon as you move a little farther away, everything changes quickly. The landscapes open up, encounters feel more natural, and you rediscover something truly authentic.
I think it's that contrast that struck me—the difference between what you imagine before going and what you actually discover when you take the time.
And you—what memory do you hold onto from Vietnam? A particular place that touched you more than others?
Hello,
We’re finalizing the plans for our upcoming trip to China in May 2025. The second-to-last stop will be in Zhangjiajie, where we’ve planned to stay for 2 full days before heading to Shanghai.
We’re traveling solo using local transport and have arranged to stay in the city of Zhangjiajie.
We’ve seen that there’s a lot to see:
Tianmen Mountain, the Grand Canyon and the glass bridge, Zhangjiajie National Park, and that the sites are quite far apart with fairly expensive entry fees.
We’re thinking of dedicating one day to the national park and the Grand Canyon (glass bridge) and one day to Tianmen Mountain.
But we’re not sure if this plan is realistic—any thoughts would be much appreciated!
I should be serving a warming drink to the participants in the discussion about gardens and parks that provide us with beautiful photos, I could mention the delicious buttery scent wafting from bakeries in the thread about returning to France, but my heart, its powerful pulse that nourishes my entire being, is elsewhere.
Dasht-e Lut, Yazd, Esfahan, Bam, Kerman, Qeshm, Hormuz—a melody, a prayer at the heart of desire.
A dream, an unattainable fantasy? No. Not anymore.
A very serious Italian travel agency is organizing this trip for 6 people this winter. I’m signed up, I’m going, I’m living. Maybe.
"But you’re completely crazy!!!!"
I know... I know that every civilization, every society has a vital need to create scapegoats to define and justify itself, pathetically. And Iran is one of them, top of the list. I laugh or sigh, and it doesn’t bother me.
But that unchanging red, deep red and garnet, so beautiful in itself, in all the Western chancelleries repeats, whispers, shouts: don’t go, don’t go, don’t go, you’re putting yourself in danger and we can’t do anything for you. You’ll be turned into mere bargaining chips, into arguments for endless negotiations. Fear must be instilled, its power absolutely preserved, no concessions made to the enemy. The information (how many French hostages, real or fake, compared to the number of travelers?) is always lacking.
Traveling becomes a merciless confrontation between desire, the vital pulse, and anxiety, its ghosts.
Hi everyone, here’s our itinerary. Arriving on the evening of December 13th. Departing on January 7th.
Thanks in advance for your tips and valuable feedback.
Manila – 1 night
Coron – 4 nights
Coron to El Nido cruise – 2 nights
El Nido – 4 nights
Port Barton – 5 nights
Flight from Puerto Princesa to Vigan
Vigan – 2 nights
Sagada – 2 nights
Banaue – 2 nights
Bagabag – 1 night
Manila – 1 night
I’ve only booked the flight to Manila and the Manila/Coron flight so far. Is it possible to book boat trips, accommodations, and the Puerto Princesa flight last-minute?
Really disappointed with Costa Rica! Pura vida? The scam of the century!
(Costa Rica pure emptiness).
The country where animals are free and people are in cages.
3 weeks in December in this country and never again. Imagine the trailer of a movie that seems interesting, and when you go see it, you realize it’s a flop and the best moments were in the trailer.
Well, that’s exactly how we felt with Costa Rica pure emptiness.
My wife and I have traveled quite a bit and didn’t expect to be so wrong about a place.
On the main routes, we visited:
San José
Alajuela
Limón, Cahuita, Puerto Viejo, Manzanillo (Caribbean side)
Jaco, Quepos, Manuel Antonio (Pacific side)
And a few short stops in intermediate towns.
Our dissatisfaction grew gradually like this:
When we arrived at the hotel, the taxi dropped us off on a small street in front of a white metal gate with ground-floor windows barred. We looked at it skeptically, but the sign matched.
He approached the gate, rang the bell, the buzzer sounded, and the door opened slightly. The hotel wasn’t bad for the price, a 10-minute walk from downtown, but with a "Fleury-Mérogis" vibe guaranteed.
So far, so good.
After showering and regaining our bearings, we headed downtown.
What started to unsettle us on the way was seeing houses with bars on the ground-floor windows and even on the second floor.
At first, we thought the hotel’s neighborhood wasn’t great.
Downtown San José:
It’s a generic city, not very exotic, with a pedestrian street and a small mercado where you can eat local food without frills. Very few tourists—if any—which let you blend in with the locals. We had lunch and struggled to make ourselves understood because, aside from one or two shops, English wasn’t spoken.
On the way back to the hotel, we took a different route, and while chatting and strolling, my wife pointed out a beautiful two-story white house completely barricaded like Fort Knox.
From that moment, we started noticing the facades of houses and buildings, and wow, it was creepy—most looked like prisons, some even with barbed wire.
Though put off, we told ourselves it was probably a big-city thing and the rest of the country couldn’t be like this.
So far, so good.
We relaxed at the hotel and had a drink at the bar. Night falls early, around 5:30 PM. By 7:30 PM, we headed back downtown for dinner. A bit unsettling for a capital—downtown was almost deserted, and aside from fast-food chains, very few restaurants were open, with hardly anyone on the streets.
Bars with security guards out front.
I won’t say we felt unsafe that night, but once it got dark, we realized the bars on the windows weren’t for nothing. First day in, and our impression was already mixed.
The next day, we explored the city and surroundings, and our feelings didn’t change.
So far, so good.
Off to Cahuita by bus—4 hours of travel.
The landscapes are very green but quickly become monotonous. The road runs alongside the forest and passes through a few towns and villages, and even in the countryside, there were just as many prison-like houses.
The bus dropped us off at Cahuita’s terminal station—only four of us got off. It’s a village, or rather, a small town. Cahuita is basically one straight road and a perpendicular one, and honestly, doubt started to creep in.
A few restaurants that add 13% tax and 10% service charge—so 23% extra. We dropped our stuff at the hotel and went to explore. In 20 minutes, we’d seen it all. We had lunch and planned to check out the famous park.
Entry is by donation—well, the "entry" is a joke. There’s a path along the forest by the sea, and that’s it.
Nothing’s going right anymore.
We thought it was a total scam, but since we hadn’t gone far, we decided to come back the next day to explore further.
We returned to the hotel, relaxed, and around 8:00 PM, we went out for dinner. Only two restaurants were open, and the streets were deserted.
Creepy!
The next day, we explored the so-called park more thoroughly and really got it.
A path along the forest by the sea—2 hours there and 2 hours back, where you see animals that feel like showing their faces.
A total joke—"all that for this?"
The beach was full of wood debris and coconut husks. We wondered if the photos online were edited because the sea, very rough, wasn’t the azure blue we’d seen in pictures.
But calling this a park is a joke—it’s like a new concept.
When we thought about the reviews online, we started to suspect that professionals with interests in the country were monitoring and countering any negative feedback that could harm their business.
Too bad we didn’t check the negative reviews beforehand—we did while we were there, and it helped. We wondered if we’d become too demanding after all our travels, but no—when something’s bad, it’s bad.
Manuel Antonio’s park is even more ridiculous—there’s a short path along the sea for about 500 meters, and then nothing. You have to climb through mud and hack your way through the forest. We ended up barefoot because the mud was up to our calves. All that to see a raccoon and a few parrots flying overhead.
We didn’t expect Noah’s Ark, but we’ve seen more animals in Bali, Mexico, and Thailand while visiting temples or just walking around than in these so-called parks!
Puerto Viejo, not far from Cahuita and supposedly livelier—well, it couldn’t be worse!
According to Lonely Planet, it had a Caribbean vibe and wild nights, but maybe that was a long time ago. The good reggae music playing everywhere isn’t enough.
In the evening, Puerto Viejo was a bit livelier than Cahuita, but that’s not saying much. Very few tourists—if any—no night market, just two or three shops open selling $20 T-shirts. Same vibe as San José.
No big deal—we enjoyed the beach and the sun, which was reliable.
Our itinerary was supposed to include Tortuguero Park, but after talking to other travelers who’d just been, we changed our minds, knowing we’d be visiting Manuel Antonio Park on the Pacific side.
To get back to the Pacific side, you have to take the bus and go through San José again—5 hours this time—then switch bus terminals and another 4.5 hours to Quepos.
A stopover town to get to Manuel Antonio’s beach and park!
A town just like the others we’d seen—deserted as soon as the sun sets, and not exactly bustling during the day either. (Where are all the tourists?)
Still as many bars on the windows and that feeling of being in the wrong place.
7 km later: Manuel Antonio beach and park.
The beach is very beautiful and quite large, but don’t expect turquoise blue water—the waves stir up the sand, giving the water a brownish color.
Along the beach, shops and restaurants for about 300 meters, and then nothing. At night, after sunset, the town shuts down too.
Manuel Antonio Park is highly praised for its wildlife, so we were eager to see it. When you express dissatisfaction with Cahuita or Manzanillo parks, the response is always, "But you should’ve gone to Monteverde or Manuel Antonio!" No matter what you do or say, they’ll tell you, "You should’ve gone there or here."
Back to our famous park—entry was about $16, and contrary to what we’d heard, it wasn’t crowded!
Guides at the entrance with spotting scopes offered their services for about $30.
The park: a mix of boardwalk and dirt paths through the forest, sometimes running alongside beautiful coves and beaches.
As soon as we entered, a crowd was taking photos of a deer eating leaves.
A little further on, a guide with a group of five stopped. The guide raised his arm and set up his spotting scope! He showed them, about 100 meters away, a hummingbird perched on a branch. Some, looking through the scope, exclaimed, "Oh my God! Amazing! Incredible!"
For a moment, we thought they’d discovered a unicorn or were in Jurassic Park and had just crossed paths with a T-Rex!
The concept is comical—looking at a bird or another animal through a spotting scope because it’s too far away. Isn’t that what TV is for?
For our part, we saw monkeys, ants, an armadillo, an iguana, and the backside of a sloth climbing a tree. Amazing, incredible!
We stayed a few days in Manuel Antonio to enjoy the beach, changing hotels often because prices varied wildly from one day to the next for shameful services. On top of that, they’d quote a price in dollars and convert it at their discretion—thieves!
Alajuela, a city near the airport, has a two-story mall and a local market downtown! No interest except its proximity to the airport.
What we liked:
The climate and, in hindsight, San José—the most authentic city we visited.
What we didn’t like, in addition to what we’ve already mentioned:
Costa Ricans aren’t very friendly or communicative. English is barely spoken, not even by doctors at Quepos Hospital, where my wife ended up with food poisoning (thanks, Google Translate). The widespread obesity among Costa Ricans, who eat like Americans. The insecurity. The eco-hipsters who leave their $150 lodges in minivans with guides to visit parks and other sites, then return to barricade themselves in their fortresses at nightfall (oh my God, amazing, incredible). The blue signs at the entrance of towns that accept this payment method: "We accept American Express." Parking lots that become paid just because a guy is watching your car. Prices displayed in dollars. The cost of living (hotels, restaurants, taxes). Landscapes that are too green and not flowery enough. Beaches—nothing exceptional. Pollution in cities where big American trucks rule. Sewage dumped directly into the sea. Aside from the jungle, there’s nothing to visit—no ruins, monuments, or anything worth seeing.
In short, my wife and I think the hype about this supposedly eco-friendly country is overrated. It’s just the trendy destination of the moment. There are much better, cheaper, and more authentic places.
In hindsight, we keep the good memories and our beautiful photos, but if we had to do it over...
Before signing off, a little message to those who don’t like hearing opinions different from theirs:
Well, some things aren’t up for debate. And to those who’d have us believe that in 3 weeks, we don’t have the right to criticize a country or express our feelings—how can you praise it in so little time? What a scam. Costa Rica is a money pit. Pura vida? Pure cosmic emptiness.
If you like spending your evenings barricaded in your cozy hotel after dark, this country is for you.
For everyone else: run!
Hello,
Since the war between Russia and Ukraine, nothing is simple anymore for traveling to Belarus due to sanctions.
No more direct flights from the EU to Minsk.
Driving is a huge hassle, especially crossing through Poland at the only open border in Brest—you can wait 2, 3, or even 4 days just to get through by car.
The least painful driving option is to come via Lithuania and cross at the only open border, with a minimum wait time of 8 hours, sometimes up to 20 hours or more!!
Controls are very strict and annoying on both the Lithuanian and Belarusian sides. Avoid bringing alcohol, food, or cigarettes—everything will end up in the trash, especially when leaving Belarus for Vilnius, where the Lithuanians are tough, even with EU citizens.
The joy I once knew when visiting my wife in Minsk is sadly over—it’s now a real ordeal.
The fastest solution is to fly. My wife travels to France by taking a bus to Kaunas in Lithuania, where you can catch a flight (though not daily) to Paris Beauvais or Charleroi in Belgium with Ryanair, for example.
For the return trip, it’s the same: a flight to Kaunas and then a direct bus from the airport to Minsk.
The bus crossing is quicker than driving—the 250 km journey, including border checks, takes about 6 to 8 hours for buses leaving Lithuania around midnight, but controls are still strict at the border.
The biggest challenge is finding flight schedules that align with the bus routes between the two countries, given the unpredictable border crossing times.
Now, my wife travels via Charleroi in Belgium (near Brussels), and you can take a train to Paris. Alternatively, you can fly into Beauvais and take a bus to Paris (Porte Maillot).
For those driving, note that EU insurance and assistance policies no longer work in Belarus or Russia. You’ll need to get local insurance, usually limited to third-party liability (I don’t think full coverage exists?), as well as mandatory medical insurance. This is available at the border.
You now have to pay highway tolls—no more BELTOLL boxes. Instead, you pay a flat fee for the duration of your stay. Stop at the first gas station after crossing from Lithuania to fill up on fuel and cigarettes.
From what I know, Lithuania bans carrying more than 60 € in cash, but there’s no limit for USD (though it’s capped at $10,000??).
With a Visa card, you can now withdraw 1,000 rubles per week (about 270 €)—two months ago, it was only 500 rubles!!
For now, you can still pay by card in shops and gas stations.
However, major retailers like KORONA (which may be Russian-owned??) no longer accept foreign Visa cards.
Unfortunately, the additional sanctions announced by the U.S. on August 5, 2025, against Russia—and possibly Belarus—aren’t promising for the future.
After 20 years of visiting Belarus, I’m truly saddened to see the joy of living in this country with my wonderful wife turn into such a bleak situation, all because of human folly.
Hi everyone!
I’m putting together our travel itinerary for Veneto at the end of April. And the more I look and research potential sites to visit, the more I find!
We’ll only be there for a week—my family and I—including 3 days in Venice. So we have to make some choices...
I plan to rent a car when we arrive in Venice and head straight to Bergamo, which would be our first stop. We’d leave the car at the airport when we return to Venice so we can explore the city at our leisure.
What do you think:
1 night in Bergamo (a 2h15 drive from Venice airport),
1 night in Garda,
1 night in Verona,
1 in Padua, and
3 in Venice—would that be doable?
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences! :)
Now that the curtain has fallen on the past year, it’s time to see what’s happening around here.
It seems pretty quiet, but I’ll read more in detail later.
First, I need to tell you all an anecdote.
My eldest little girl, in her third year of law school, was really scared she wouldn’t pass the year.
I told her:
“Trust yourself, you’ve worked so hard, and worst case, if you fail, you’ll just redo the year.”
“But I don’t think I’ll make it—they changed the rules, and if I mess up even one unit, I have to start all over.”
I knew her grades weren’t exactly stellar, and with what I was about to say, I wasn’t taking much of a risk.
“Here’s the deal, sweetheart: if you pass, I promise I’ll take you to India, just the two of us.”
I have to admit, India is a country I’ve talked about so much to all my grandchildren that in their minds, it’s become a magical, mythical place (hmm).
July had barely begun when my phone rang, her name flashing on the screen.
“Mamido, I did it!”
My promise came rushing back—oh no, oh no, oh no!
“Congratulations, sweetheart!”
A little shyly, she said:
“Is the India trip still on?”
And me, replying:
“Of course it is!”
And that’s that—a promise is a promise, or you risk losing that precious trust that keeps hearts warm and at peace.
We’re leaving in February. Only 8 days—yikes, the carbon footprint!
But we can’t miss her tutorials, or she’ll be kicked out.
Personally, that works just fine for me.
Going to India has become a challenge for me. It’s far, it’s exhausting, I sweat, I hate mosquitoes, the spices bother my mouth when I used to love them. There’s noise all the time—at night, the dogs bark nonstop, and we almost get run over. I’ll get lost in the streets because my sense of direction has vanished. I don’t like rice anymore. All that chaos and those cultural differences that once enchanted me now just overwhelm me.
But I promised.
The upside—and it’s a big one—Raman, the same driver I’ve had forever, will be at the airport with a sign with our names. We’ll stop at the same little shop for chai (or tea, plain and simple) with that aroma that intoxicates me, halfway through the trip.
It’ll be a tiny trip—staying with friends, I’ll show her a few places I love: Chidambaram, Mamallapuram, and the clinic where I worked. Then we’ll head back.
My little girl will go home to her parents.
As for me, I’ll leave right away for our Scottish island with Homme for our chilly winter.
How can you love a country so much you want to live there, then suddenly reject it, no longer able to appreciate what once made it special?
That’s the mystery of love, I guess.
I’ve visited the U.S. four times myself, including two long road trips. The last one was just this past August...
I won’t be going back. I already felt guilty last August, but recent policies have finally convinced me: the humiliation of Zelensky, authoritarian excesses, Gestapo-like methods for detaining people of foreign origin, the murder of innocent people (a mother shot dead), corruption, insane "tariffs," skyrocketing healthcare costs for Americans, the abduction of foreign figures to secure oil, the requirement to disclose social media accounts, and now... threats and blackmail to forcibly take Greenland—a region that belongs to Denmark and thus the European Union!
The reality is that simply posting this could get me denied entry to the U.S.!
In this context, I just can’t keep spending money there. I loved my trips, but there are so many other countries with stunning landscapes to explore.
So I get why you’d want to travel there. I did, and I loved it. But once a country no longer respects any of the values that made us love it, why go?
How can we even consider traveling to a country that threatens to take one of our territories by force?
Hello everyone,
Controversial topic? Not necessarily—maybe just a reflection on a world to come.
I spent the last 15 days of August on a cruise in Greenland, from Kangerlussuaq to Tasiilaq.
I was utterly amazed by this unique world of rock and ice, the little houses in every color, a simple life that’s also complicated by isolation and climate, among other things...
I carry in my heart the kindness of the people I met, the raw and gentle majesty of the icebergs, the colors of the sky...
So, I can’t even imagine a massive presence of raw material prospectors, heavy machinery requiring roads to be built—if that’s even possible—changing their way of life... putting sled dogs out to pasture!
Do fast food and Greenland’s northern lights really mix?
I wouldn’t trade my memories for an ESTA!
All opinions are respectable, which is why this isn’t a controversy—but I’m sorry, I have a soft spot for *my* Greenland.
We’re a couple aged 58 and 63. We’ve just returned from a wonderful trip to South India in Tamil Nadu and a few days in Kerala. We traveled with a local French-speaking guide and his friend, the driver. They both live in Pondicherry. We spent 3 weeks with them in the most authentic way!
We covered just over 2,500 km and visited not only temples but also archaeological sites, museums, and small artisanal businesses making tiles, tea, sculptures, bronze, and silk spinning. We were lucky enough to visit a public school, attend a wedding, and even a death announcement in a small countryside village. We were fully immersed in the culture, food, noise, and colors—it was incredible!
The hotels and guesthouses we chose were very clean and mostly quiet. We’re returning from India with amazing discoveries!
We’re happy to share more info if you’d like!
M-Claire and Jean