Discovering South India: Tamil Nadu and Kerala
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 18. Second day in Kochi

Today we decided to explore Mattancherry, the old spice-trading district, with its centerpiece "Jew Town" and the ancient Pardesi synagogue. But first, the morning was dedicated to visiting a temple in the modern city. A temple... of consumerism! The famous "Seematti" stores, spread over six floors in a rather luxurious contemporary-style building. The kingdom of clothing and fashion, shopping paradise. Our reactions were very gendered. The girls were all excited, in their element. Busy as bees, they explored, dug through, sorted, evaluated, felt the fabrics, asked to try things on. Bruno and I, more awkward, needed some time to adapt. We moved cautiously through the aisles. Okay, I still bought four shirts... Nearly three hours later, we finally stepped back into the fresh air, a bit dazed.



We took the ferry to leave Ernakulam (that’s the name of modern Kochi) and head to the historic center of Mattancherry. The neighborhood is very touristy, but the atmosphere is peaceful, and the shopkeepers are only moderately pushy. We went inside to visit the lovely 17th-century wooden synagogue. The Jews of Kochi contributed greatly to the city’s prosperity, but the community has now dwindled to just a few dozen people, even though the synagogue is still active as a place of worship.





We had planned to attend a Kathakali performance, that ancient theatrical art of mime, masks, and dance, but the hour was already late, and we were far from our accommodation. A bit tired too. With regret, we decided to skip it.
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
The girls are in their element, buzzing with excitement. They explore, dig through, sort, evaluate, feel the fabrics, and ask to try things on. Bruno and I, feeling a bit out of place, need some time to adjust. We move cautiously through the aisles.

Six floors of dresses, shirts, blouses, jewelry, saris, and fabrics! Nathalie and I suffered a brain overload that could’ve ended in a frustration-induced trip to Kochi Hospital if the shop assistants hadn’t patiently waited for 2.5 hours outside the fitting rooms. Yes, Richard, we scored some great deals! And you didn’t miss out either with those shirts. Just a reminder—you bought 6 for 22 €. Tempting, right?

Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
KO Kola Globetrotter ·
... if the guys hadn’t waited 2h30

2h30 of standing still really thickens a person up. 😛
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 19. A day with the Red Lady and Marco. Small pleasures of everyday life on vacation.

We’re still based quite far from Cochin, more than a two-hour round trip. Why not make the most of today with the Red Lady, her host, and the surroundings?

The morning is dedicated to buying spices in the village. Marco will be our guide and advisor. We set off with him—Bruno on the back of his motorcycle, and us in a tuk-tuk… rickshaw? We arrive at a small square surrounded by shops in a very local atmosphere. Marco seems well-known; he speaks to the shopkeepers in fluent Malayalam—at least, that’s how it sounds to me. The different spices are stored in bulk in canvas sacks. Star anise, cardamom, ginger, turmeric, cinnamon, pepper… A visual and olfactory feast. At the next shop, we buy raw sugar in the form of balls, which you have to grate to sprinkle on a dish.



On the way back, Marco offers me a ride on the back of his bike. It’s fine—he’s careful and drives slowly. Over the noise of the engine, I start a little conversation with him. He seems very concerned about whether we’re happy with his accommodation and hospitality. Despite his experience, he seems unsure. Four people with such different personalities and maybe conflicting expectations… I reassure him—everything’s great. “You know, we’re pretty easy to read…” He agrees.

The morning’s barely started, and we’ve got time to head to the beach, just ten minutes away. It’s really nice to dip into water this warm without any effort. In the Mediterranean—at least on the Aude coast—the water’s often cold when the north wind blows. And it blows often.







The afternoon is reserved for Ayurvedic massages. Marco had suggested the day before that we take advantage of the skills of one of his acquaintances, who, according to him, had mastered the art of massage. Kate, Nathalie, and Bruno accept enthusiastically. I decline, taught by last year’s experience in Jaipur, where the masseur had tortured my body more than relaxed it. Judging by my friends’ body language, their blissful smiles, and dilated pupils after the session, I must say I regret my skepticism.

Late afternoon. We go for a walk by the lagoon, just a few steps from the house. Here too, we’re in the backwaters. A beautiful moment shared by the four of us on a small dock, in front of these calm waters changing colors in the fading light. A heron lands gracefully on a rope, a fisherman’s boat glides silently. We joke—I don’t remember what about—but I feel we’re in harmony, in a peaceful and shared moment. I know then, despite the little tensions inherent in any shared adventure, that our trip has been a success. Perfect, it’s apéro time!





I’ve read on forums that some travelers avoid staying with French hosts. Too easy, too far from Indian realities, not immersive enough. I get that, but staying with someone who’s lived in India for 30 years can be really interesting for learning more about the people who live here. Marc tells us about his life, his relationship with the Tamil family living with him, his perception of India and Indians. It’s his story, his feelings—necessarily subjective—but valuable for grasping even a little of the country’s complexity. One last word about the explanation of the name “the Red Lady.” Marc didn’t tell us directly, but I found the answer on the site lepetitjournal.com. It’s actually a Tamil expression referring to the sunburned skin of European women who’ve spent too much time in the sun.

Tomorrow, the countdown to our return begins. Domestic flight to Chennai/Madras before taking the long-haul flight back to France.



SO Solene40 Globetrotter ·


I wonder, Kate: isn’t this the kind of thing you find stunning in person but ends up staying in the closet at home because you never find the right occasion to wear it? Yeah, yeah, experience talking here 😄.

And thanks for these gorgeous portraits 😊
Le monde est comme un miroir, si tu lui souris, il te sourit aussi!
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 20. Chennai, waiting for the overnight flight

We arrived in Chennai in the early afternoon. We have a day and a half ahead of us before catching the Lufthansa flight in the middle of the following night. The taxi from the airport takes us through areas of extreme poverty. Slums littered with trash and misery. We’d almost forgotten—India holds within it vast territories of immense precarity that are, of course, inaccessible to us, and which we have no desire to explore. We’re staying at a guesthouse, Friendlystay an Home Stay and Elite, in a neighborhood that’s certainly quiet but *very* far from the city center. How to wrap up the trip? A little more of India?

Nathalie, ever the go-getter, suggests visiting the "Kapaleeshwarar" temple dedicated to Shiva, right in the heart of the city. An hour’s taxi ride… I’m just not feeling it. Yet, as soon as we arrive in the space around the sanctuary, the energy of the place reawakens me. Going to the ticket counter, taking off our shoes… The contact with the ground… In the fading light, I feel at ease among my friends and all these people coming to perform their devotions. In this vast temple with its magnificent colors and delicate sculptures, I feel at home in a world that’s completely foreign to me—one I don’t actually understand. Of course, I’m not naive. It’s the magic of India, and I let it take hold of me…







An interminable (!) return trip to our accommodation. It’s rush hour—workers migrating home. A sea of people in traffic, all heading back. Classic in big cities. But from the depths of our taxi, I watch how everyone manages their impatience—understandable as it is—with detachment. It’s not the gaze of a well-meaning tourist who thinks everything’s better elsewhere. It’s a lived reality. Sure, horns blare from every direction, but somehow, the bloodstream of traffic, which should clot and cause accidents, manages to stay fluid. It’s baffling to us, yet it’s the reality. At one point, our taxi, diverted for who-knows-why, ends up stuck in a narrow street. A tricky standoff looms with another large taxi coming the opposite way. The Parisian way? Shouting, fury—will it pass? No, it won’t. But then, it *does* pass, smoothly no less. Honestly, given how narrow the street was, I’ve no idea how they pulled it off. We clap like fools…

Off to bed. Tomorrow’s our last day in India…
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
I wonder, Kate: isn’t this the kind of thing you fall in love with on the spot but then ends up in the closet at home because you never find the right occasion to wear it?

Uh... Yeah, yeah, like costume parties or an Indian wedding... I mean, 80% of my purchases are gifts (that’ll probably end up in other people’s closets 😉).
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
J18. Second day in Kochi

The girls are all excited in their element.

A bit late, but can we still write this in 2025? 😄 🤪 Okay, Ms. Rousseau will be thrilled, and I’m heading back to my barbecue... 🏴‍☠️
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
RI RichardXI Regular ·
I’m a bit late, but can we still write this in 2025?

Don’t care ‘cause I’m sure Sandrine doesn’t read VF
KO Kola Globetrotter ·
how to put it, the blood flow of traffic that should clot and cause vascular accidents manages to stay fluid.

how to put it... sometimes things just work out? 🙂 And by the end of the trip, you can relax and play with the metaphor.
RI RichardXI Regular ·
And at the end of the trip, release the pressure and tease the metaphor.

😉😄

Day 20. Final emotions?

Ending a trip... We often want a grand finale, but it’s not always possible. Chennai must surely be an interesting city to discover, but time is short and the call of the airport—especially when you know the story is coming to an end—grows more insistent. We still have a long day ahead, though, before surrendering, in the dead of night, to the wings of Lufthansa.

A lovely 17th-century Armenian church, streets bustling with cows and artisans at work, a trip to Marina Beach, a bit of shopping to wrap things up...









No point insisting. Chennai eludes us. It’s time to go home.

Our final emotions, though, will come from the young taxi driver who takes us to the airport. He’s the same one who drove us to our guesthouse when we arrived from Kochi. He drops us off for dinner in a rather sterile place along a big avenue heading toward the airport. The room is empty, but it’s early—barely 7 p.m. We eat dishes delicately and deliciously spiced, served on banana leaves. The young man chats with us, explaining precisely what each dish contains and how to enjoy it. He’s warm, eager to connect with us, sincere, yet also focused on making his business a success. Nothing unusual about that. He shakes our hands warmly as he unloads our suitcases. That will be our last Indian smile.
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 21. Bye bye India!

February 2, 2025... With our suitcases barely put away, I start writing this travel journal, which is both a travelogue and a personal diary. It’s important for me and for the group to do this. We need to anchor the memories of our recent past in the present and near future. To give meaning to the experience of a trip, I believe this necessary time for reflection is essential—almost, I’d say, using a metaphor that suits India, like rumination. It’s also important for Kate, who enjoys sharing her photos and working with me on this stimulating four-handed exercise.

This was our second trip to India as a group of four. Which one did we prefer? The one in Rajasthan, with its architectural splendors, its exuberant population, its pushy merchants, and its urban chaos? Or the more peaceful journey through Tamil Nadu and Kerala, with their colorful temples filled with devotion, their tropical softness, and their lush green landscapes? Each of us has our own feelings about it. The debate we had in the car on the way back to Béziers remained unresolved. For my part, I preferred the south, especially Tamil Nadu, where I felt more like a traveler than a tourist.

Rereading my last sentences, I realize I’ve strung together clichés like beads! But as I said in the conclusion of my first travel journal, we’ve only scratched the surface of the elephant. Even if this time the caress was deeper, the pachyderm’s hide is thick, and there are so many other Indias left to discover... Will we come back again? Nathalie, the eternal student, would happily triple her "India class." Kate is dreaming of Laos and Cambodia. Bruno and I are tempted by both options. Like Du Bellay’s Ulysses, who was happy to return home after his beautiful journey, we’re probably glad to be back—but our only desire is to leave again.

KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Small informative guide... (domestic flight with Indigo between Cochin and Chennai)
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
KO Kola Globetrotter ·
but we only have one desire: to leave again.

... and not leave without looking back on the promise of a return.

Beautiful stories never truly end. They continue elsewhere, unfolding in new ways...
AL Aleph240758 Veteran ·
There’s still so much left to discover in India or elsewhere. But India will always remain an extraordinary country. I’ve been wandering around there for many years, and every time I’m amazed and keep discovering wonderful places.
Qui a l'habitude de voyager sait qu'il vient toujours un moment où il faut partir... Paulo Coelho
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
It was once again a real pleasure following your travel journal. Thanks to all four of you, and looking forward to the next one!
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Thanks so much, Richard, for this beautiful, emotion-filled post, and Kate for these stunning photos... I can’t get enough of travel journals like this one! 😊
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Love those photos of the families by the water, Kate! It’s true that with those brightly colored saris, they’re so photogenic ;)
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Go back again? Nathalie, the good bad student, would happily triple her India class. Kate is dreaming of Laos and Cambodia. Bruno and I are tempted by both options.

Let’s meet up in a few months to see which country finally won us over! 😉
Ponts du monde : concours de photos amical de juillet 2026 Rubrique Jeux Voyages C'est le moment de poster vos meilleurs clichés !
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Go back again? Nathalie, the perennial overachiever, would happily triple her India class. Kate’s got her heart set on Laos and Cambodia. Bruno and I are torn between both options.

So, let’s catch up in a few months to see which country ultimately won us over! 😉

Agnès, think we can vote on this?
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Why not! 😏
Ponts du monde : concours de photos amical de juillet 2026 Rubrique Jeux Voyages C'est le moment de poster vos meilleurs clichés !
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Thanks and kudos to both of you—these are the kind of travel journals we love, perfectly illustrated by Kate’s talent!

For the next destination, I’ve got a few clues… 😉 But if there’s a vote, I know where my 3 points will go! !
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
VO Voyajou Globetrotter ·
If following along is still this enjoyable, I’m afraid you might settle into a bit of a routine. For your next trip, why not step out of your comfort zone—Kate on the keyboard, Richard with the Kodak? Or how about hitting the Pan-American Highway on a Harley or a Mustang?

Don’t care ‘cause I’m sure Sandrine doesn’t read VF

Watch out, though—there’s a Sandrine registered here under the username Sardineverte. Even if her prolonged silence suggests it’s just a coincidence.
SO Solene40 Globetrotter ·
I’m not going to be very original, but thank you both so much for sharing this! I really enjoyed it, with a special shout-out for the backwaters photos—just stunning 🤩 Looking forward to reading about your next adventures! Christelle
Le monde est comme un miroir, si tu lui souris, il te sourit aussi!
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Thanks to everyone (using inclusive writing just in case...) for your always-welcome comments and for patiently following us. Ben, actually Kate and I had talked about swapping roles. The problem with her Nikon is that I don’t even know where to press! 😏

Apparently, for the next trip with the four of us, Laos and Cambodia are leading the way. Have a great evening, everyone! 😉
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Apparently, for the next trip with 4 people, Laos and Cambodia are the top choices.

Great destinations! I’m all for it 😊
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
AL Aleph240758 Veteran ·
Maybe we’ll cross paths there—I’m heading to Laos in November. Thanks for this lovely travel journal.
Qui a l'habitude de voyager sait qu'il vient toujours un moment où il faut partir... Paulo Coelho
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Hi Kate and Richard, With the avalanche of VF messages informing me of new replies on this travel journal, I realized it must be finished and we’re moving on to thank-yous. Unfortunately, I haven’t finished reading it yet because, as you can guess, my days traveling in Thailand right now are pretty packed, and I don’t get much time to read here... But I promise, I’ll finish reading it in March once I’m back in Kerala. And I’ll add my final comment. I can already say that I really love when you share your raw emotions—joys, disappointments, etc. In short, it’s a personal and moving journal at times. Sometimes naive and innocent too, when discovering a country for the first time. I’ll also take this opportunity to tell Christelle, since she’s following this journal, that I’ll read hers when I get back...
Je rencontrai sur mon chemin tant de difficultés Qu’elles furent toutes surmontées MIRZA GHALIB poète urdu (1796 -1869) https://www.telling-india-pictures.com https://youpic.com/marien
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Thanks Marien for your feedback. Keep enjoying Thailand! 🙂
SO Solene40 Globetrotter ·
Jen takes the opportunity to tell Christelle, since she’s following this travel journal, that I’ll read hers too when I get back...

Oh, that’s so cool, Marien! I thought you’d blacklisted my journals for being a bit too "everyone’s beautiful and kind" for your taste 😄 Have a great trip!
Le monde est comme un miroir, si tu lui souris, il te sourit aussi!
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
Marien is just like me, not at all as mean as he looks 😉
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
SO Solene40 Globetrotter ·
Oh, I never thought Joel was mean! Just that I had to inflate him with my angelic tourist perspective and my laughing emojis everywhere 😂 (and one more!)
Le monde est comme un miroir, si tu lui souris, il te sourit aussi!
AL Alexval2 Veteran ·
I’m hanging onto your travel journal for a future trip (fingers crossed...). Thanks for this moment 😉
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Thanks Valérie, we really enjoyed writing this travel journal! 😉
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
@Max68

I was actually thinking of asking you about your impressions of the north vs. the south, since you’ve done both in travel conditions similar to ours? 🙂

Different vibes. It was in Rajasthan that I discovered India. I let go of my bearings, pushed myself far out of my comfort zone, and once the initial shock wore off, I savored every minute of that incredible trip—soaking in its wonders while reflecting on a friend’s spot-on remark: "There’s India, and then there’s the rest of the world." The south was different. We’re still in the same country, but the surprise was more subtle. I loved the calm of Chettinad and the serenity of the backwaters, even as I relished—with a touch of masochistic pleasure—the chaos of the big cities. That contrast suited me perfectly. If I had to go back and could only choose between these two regions, it’d be the south. But I’d return elsewhere too—the country’s vast... As Richard wrote, India hasn’t told us everything yet.

How about you? What were your impressions?
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Especially since this usual north/south divide of India is really oversimplified. There are actually multiple norths, souths, easts, wests, and even centers, plus all combinations of these cardinal points. Ladakh has nothing in common with Rajasthan, Odisha is strikingly different from Kerala, and there are so many other contrasts to note.
MA Max68 Globetrotter ·
Hello Kate,

Thanks for your reply. I have to admit that in South India, we weren’t really pushed out of our comfort zone... though we weren’t exactly looking for that either 😉. That doesn’t mean we didn’t enjoy it—proof being we’re thinking of going back!

I loved the monuments (even if we saw a few too many), the people, and the history of these states, plus the food. On the other hand, I didn’t find the landscapes *wow*.

The areas I’ve looked into for a potential trip: Gujarat, Madhya Pradesh, Chhattisgarh, Seven Sisters.
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PR Provence04 Regular ·
Small informative document... (domestic flight with Indigo between Cochin and Chennai)

Hello and thank you so much for this travel journal. We’re planning our second trip to Kerala for November 2026 and have scheduled almost the same route as you, extending to Pondicherry. It’s going to be incredibly helpful, especially since I’ve noted some places in Kerala we didn’t visit last time. Thanks again, and let’s stay positive and tolerant—this site has very few controversies, which is what makes it so great, unlike other travel sites. Thanks again for the interest in your journal and the time you’ve put into it.
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Hi there,

Richard and I are thrilled this travel journal could inspire you. We hope you have as wonderful a trip as we did in India 🙂 One of our hosts told us that November is a great time for travelers.
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
BA Barbarabal ·
I’m just finishing up your travel journal... a thousand thanks... it’s a goldmine for the South India trip we’ve got planned for next January. Our itinerary looks a lot like yours.... and like you, I wander around with my Nikon around my neck ;-).
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Thanks Barbara! This year, a Canon replaced the Nikon, which had become too heavy and cumbersome ;)
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Took you long enough to get on the right path! #teamCanon 🙂
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
I'm someone who sticks with what I know—I've kept my Nikon, which I take out from time to time ;)
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".

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