N° 2 .
Cette idée est choquante au possible . Vivre dans ce type de société ne m’enchantes pas , alors vieille pour vieille je me battrais jusqu’au bout contre cette forme d’eugénisme .
Tu es tellement cramponnée à ce qui fait ton fond de commerce ici (cf tes réponses juste ci-dessus qui poursuivent sur le même ton) que tu ne prends même pas le temps de comprendre... 😕
Circulez maintenant...
Circulez, allez et venez comme bon vous semble, puisque vous ne serez plus ostracisés...
N° 2 .
Cette idée est choquante au possible . Vivre dans ce type de société ne m’enchantes pas , alors vieille pour vieille je me battrais jusqu’au bout contre cette forme d’eugénisme .
Bon courage 🙂
Je serais même prête à parier que mon n° 1 est en fait subordonné à mon numéro 2 (le vrai problème de la disparition des fragiles est que des rentables leur sont affectivement liés et que cette disparition entraine un choc affectif qui se traduit par une altération de la docile performance du rentable).
Mais je vis dans un monde de 20 ans plus jeune que le tien 😉
Catherine
By this, and this only, we have existed. Which is not to be found in our obituaries. (T.S. Eliot)
... Je ne te savais pas si marxiste. 🙂
C'est très éloigné de ma culture personnelle, je dois dire - et je m'en aperçois de plus en plus.
Faut croire : je me suis entendu dire ici que j'étais une "guerrière marxiste", à mon grand étonnement, parce que je n'ai jamais lu Marx. On en déduira que le marxisme se chope comme le corona, à partir d'asymptomatiques. 😄
Je ne sais pas ce qu'est ce "c'" qui est très éloigné de ta culture personnelle.
Je ne sais pas si cet aparté fait avancer le schmilblick des confinés d'un certain âge (supérieur au nôtre).
Catherine
By this, and this only, we have existed. Which is not to be found in our obituaries. (T.S. Eliot)
C’est sur que si on confine les vieux les autres pourront s’éclater bêtement comme ils l’ont fait avant n’est ce pas, ils exerceront leur libre arbitre .
Ce que je demande c’est pouvoir exercer mon libre arbitre comme une personne deconfinee , quel que soit son âge , j’enlève le mot idée 😉
Ces jugements nous renvoient à notre inutilité dans la société , en plus on ne serait pas responsable n’est ce pas , c’est encore plus discriminatoire pour toute une partie de la population .
😕
La réponse que te fais Unamilanaise me convient très bien. Penser aux personnes fragiles et aux lits d'hôpitaux.
Faut croire : je me suis entendu dire ici que j'étais une "guerrière marxiste", à mon grand étonnement, parce que je n'ai jamais lu Marx. On en déduira que le marxisme se chope comme le corona, à partir d'asymptomatiques. 😄
Je ne sais pas ce qu'est ce "c'" qui est très éloigné de ta culture personnelle.
Je ne sais pas si cet aparté fait avancer le schmilblick des confinés d'un certain âge (supérieur au nôtre)
Tu as bien été formée quelque part et par quelqu'un... Le marxisme, dans ta jeunesse qui fut aussi la mienne, était dans tous les discours.
Sans lien direct avec le marxisme, l'idée de protéger des gens contre leur volonté me pose un vrai problème. Si je t'ai choquée l'autre jour avec le terme de totalitarisme, j'y mettais cette acception : intervention autoritaire et étatique dans la vie privée. Le truc, chez moi, ne passe pas.
2. Que dans une perspective d'efficacité économique, il faut que des places d'hosto soient réservées aux productifs.
Comme ça oui d'accord ... (des , et pas les...nuance)
Parce que le fait est aussi que depuis plusieurs années des lits avaient déjà commencé à disparaître... Et qu'aujourd'hui l'on doit faire avec ce qu'il en est, l'état de fait; (ou l'Etat de fait) .
Super ardoise au final !
Moi aussi, je demande juste ça être auto responsable et ne pas être considérée comme une mineure.
On as tellement tendance à infantiliser les personnes âgées que certains discours m’ont fait bondir.
1) OK.
2) :Mon message initial auquel tu a répondu ne visait pas spécialement les personnes âgées. Nous sommes une société et il y a de fait de tous les âges que je sache !
Tiens, certains autoproclamés universalistes auraient bien fait de s'aventurer dans les festoù noz ils auraient ainsi pu s'en rendre compte de que c'est que de vivre en société: jeunes et moins jeunes et personnes âgées mélangées, par exemple. Et ceci avant .
Tu as bien été formée quelque part et par quelqu'un... Le marxisme, dans ta jeunesse qui fut aussi la mienne, était dans tous les discours.
Sans lien direct avec le marxisme, l'idée de protéger des gens contre leur volonté me pose un vrai problème. Si je t'ai choquée l'autre jour avec le terme de totalitarisme, j'y mettais cette acception : intervention autoritaire et étatique dans la vie privée. Le truc, chez moi, ne passe pas.
La Fontaine était marxiste ? 😉 Ma formation et les personnes à qui je la dois n'ont pas d’intérêt public.
Sur ton deuxième paragraphe, c'est un peu, disons ambigu... Ou s’arrête la vie privée ?
Le drame est que nous sommes pris en étau entre deux maux : des égoïsmes particuliers et une puissance étatique. Je ne sais pas quel est le pire.
Catherine
By this, and this only, we have existed. Which is not to be found in our obituaries. (T.S. Eliot)
La tradition latine/romaine donne selon moi beaucoup trop de pouvoir à l'État.
Je ne sais te dire en Italie ou en Espagne, mais en France je trouve ça flagrant.
Je ne te dis pas non plus qu'il n'y a pas d'autres traditions du même type, et la Chine doit en être.
Je suis beaucoup plus libéral que ça.
Michel
Tu as bien été formée quelque part et par quelqu'un... Le marxisme, dans ta jeunesse qui fut aussi la mienne, était dans tous les discours.
Sans lien direct avec le marxisme, l'idée de protéger des gens contre leur volonté me pose un vrai problème. Si je t'ai choquée l'autre jour avec le terme de totalitarisme, j'y mettais cette acception : intervention autoritaire et étala vie privée. Le truc, chez moi, ne passe pas.
La Fontaine était marxiste ? 😉 Ma formation et les personnes à qui je la dois n'ont pas d’intérêt public.
Sur ton deuxième paragraphe, c'est un peu, disons ambigu... Ou s’arrête la vie privée ?
Le drame est que nous sommes pris en étau entre deux maux : des égoïsmes particuliers et une puissance étatique. Je ne sais pas quel est le pire.
C'est difficile pour de nombreuses personnes âgées mais pas que.
Je ne vois pas en quoi ce serait plus simple pour des plus jeunes.
Je pense que ce n'est pas une question d'âge mais de situation personnelle que ce soit par sa propre histoire son logement sa solitude ou au contraire sa compagnie sa situation économique sa santé physique ou mentale etc
Quant à dire que les plus jeunes pourront re voyager personne n'est futurologue. Oui en théorie c'est logique en pratique entre les faillites la crise du milieu touristique son propre chômage éventuel ou la possibilité de rester avec ce virus dans nos vies pendant des années on n'en sait rien.
Sinon j'avais hâte de revoir ma mère et mon beau père qui vivent à Nice. Il a 80 ans alors je ne sais pas trop comment faire.
Je pense en effet qu'il n'a pas envie de rester enfermé jusqu'à la fin de l'année.
En plus ma mère a 61 ans elle sortira dès que possible et comme ils vivent ensemble elle sera contagieuse le cas échéant.
Pas simple.
Tu as raison Miranda, c'est difficile pour tout le monde.
Personnellement, la perspective d'un retour au boulot avec des masques, des "gestes barrières" qui vont nous bouffer le quotidien, l'impossibilité de la convivialité d'avant le 17 mars.....tout ça va durer des mois et je crains que le confinement soit notre pain blanc, quelque soit l'âge.
Évidemment Miranda que c'est difficile en fonction de la situation de chacun et non pas de leur âge 😛
Mon message date du moment où il était question de déconfiner tout le monde le 11 mai sauf les personnes âgées !
Le monde est comme un miroir, si tu lui souris, il te sourit aussi!
Et alors ?
Pas ce message bien sûr . Juste histoire d’en rire au regard de la charte et de la politesse demandée .
Mais les écrits nauséabonds et racistes de certains oui je signale et plutôt deux fois qu’une .
Bonjour,
Il y a parfois un problème avec la délation quand ce que l'on sait ou ce que l'on croit avoir compris est faux : les erreurs judiciaires sont là pour nous montrer les conséquences dramatiques qu'elles ont sur les innocents.
Je préfère un coupable en liberté à un innocent accusé à tort.
« Celui qui voyage sans rencontrer l’autre ne voyage pas, il se déplace »
Alexandra David-Neel
Les règles d'internet sont quand même assez bien faites, le bouton "signaler" sert à dénoncer ce qui est répréhensible par la loi (racisme, diffamation etc...), et puis les attaques sur la personne.
On peut choisir ou pas de s'en servir, mais je ne vois pas pourquoi on se permettrai de culpabiluser ceux qui s'en servent.
PS : Je trouve qu'ici la modération est très honnête, contrairement à d'autres sites internet.
Et pendant ce temps, TRUMP appelle à la rébellion CONTRE le confinement
J'ai vu cette info sur les journaux.
Je ne sais pas pourquoi mais ça m'a aussi immédiatement fait penser à quelques vfistes.
Comme quoi, on peut s'afficher anti-Trump et être lui dans les faits.
En ce qui me concerne aucun rapport avec la position de Trump.
D'abord je n'appelle pas à la rébellion mais à faire un choix personnel ( pas collectif) en pleine conscience et en prenant toutes les précautions pour ne pas nuire à ses semblables.
Secondo ce choix n'est pas gouverné par des objectifs économiques.
Je constate ici que les gens sont avant tout gouvernés par la peur et le matérialisme et que dans notre société on veuille soi-disant protéger les personnes vulnérables mais en faisant totalement abstraction des facteurs psychologiques; or ceux-ci tueront autant, sinon plus ces personnes dites vulnérables...
Quand un voisin tabasse sa femme , les voisins se font discrets.
Quand elle meurt ils viennent pleurer .
Dommage ...s’ils avaient eu le courage d.appeler les flics en dénonçant le voisin on aurait parfois évité des mortes .
Le procès qu’ont me fait sur ce post est indigne .
que dans notre société on veuille soi-disant protéger les personnes vulnérables mais en faisant totalement abstraction des facteurs psychologiques; or ceux-ci tueront autant, sinon plus ces personnes dites vulnérables...
Notre société réfléchit et propose.... pour l'instant le confinement prolongé des "séniors" n'est pas retenu, et le facteur psychologique est bien pris en compte.
Je préfère ne plus dialoguer avec des personnes qui pourraient me dénoncer parce que mes propos leur déplaisent.
C'est inéquitable comme conversation.
Vu ton job, tu devrais savoir ce que sont les lois.
C'est dans les dictatures qu'on fait taire les gens pour "propos déplaisants".
En ce qui te concerne, je n'ai jamais appuyé sur "signaler", car "étouffement de ses interlocuteurs" et "mauvaise foi stupéfiante " ne sont pas notés dans la charte.
Je pense que ce n'est pas une question d'âge mais de situation personnelle que ce soit par sa propre histoire son logement sa solitude ou au contraire sa compagnie sa situation économique sa santé physique ou mentale etc
Mis à part les malheureux et malheureuses enfermés avec des pervers(es) ou des violent(e)s, il n'y a que le mental qui compte (santé est complètement facultatif).
Catherine
By this, and this only, we have existed. Which is not to be found in our obituaries. (T.S. Eliot)
Je pense que ce n'est pas une question d'âge mais de situation personnelle que ce soit par sa propre histoire son logement sa solitude ou au contraire sa compagnie sa situation économique sa santé physique ou mentale etc
Mis à part les malheureux et malheureuses enfermés avec des pervers(es) ou des violent(e)s, il n'y a que le mental qui compte (santé est complètement facultatif).
Catherine
Je ne suis pas d'accord.
Et de toute façon nous n'avons pas tous la même santé mentale
Si nous parlons santé mentale, il faut noter la parfaite inconséquence du Conseil scientifique, qui outre qu'il se prend pour ce qu'il n'est pas, ne comporte pas le moindre psychiatre, à ma connaissance.
Les choses s'expliquent assez bien et assez clairement quand on situe E. Macron dans sa filiation idéologique, qui est de mon point de vue son point le plus faible, saint-simonisme technocratique et positivisme, mais tout de même, au bout du compte il y aura de très graves et durables préjudices.
A termes un nombre de morts et de préjudices sociaux et de santé qui pourrait même excéder le nombre de victimes du Covid-19.
Michel
Bonjour,
Je pense que ce n'est pas une question d'âge mais de situation personnelle que ce soit par sa propre histoire son logement sa solitude ou au contraire sa compagnie sa situation économique sa santé physique ou mentale etc
Mis à part les malheureux et malheureuses enfermés avec des pervers(es) ou des violent(e)s, il n'y a que le mental qui compte (santé est complètement facultatif).
Catherine
Je ne suis pas d'accord.
Et de toute façon nous n'avons pas tous la même santé mentale
Je ne suis pas d'accord.Et de toute façon nous n'avons pas tous la même santé mentale
Et tous les psychopathes ne sont pas interchangeables. Certains s'accommodent mieux du confinement que des personnes considérées comme "saines" mentalement. Ce qui compte à l'heure actuelle est donc le mental, pas la santé. Que vous soyez d'accord ou pas ne change rien.
Et pour moi rien à voir avec l'âge
D'après ce que j'ai entendu, les seuls qui avaient en France la perspective de devoir affronter des mois de confinement étaient les personnes agées.
Catherine
By this, and this only, we have existed. Which is not to be found in our obituaries. (T.S. Eliot)
D'après ce que j'ai entendu, les seuls qui avaient en France la perspective de devoir affronter des mois de confinement étaient les personnes agées.
Non, pas plus les personnes âgées que les autres, cette folie anticonstitutionnelle ayant heureusement été écartée.
Mais même avec deux mois, il y aura de graves et durables préjudices de santé, mentale ou pas.
La vérité et le point sur ce choix, on le fera en temps utile, dans quelques années.
Pour le moment, il est trop tôt.
Non, pas plus les personnes âgées que les autres, cette folie anticonstitutionnelle ayant heureusement été écartée.
J'ai écrit "avaient" pas "ont", donc je tiens compte de cette heureuse évolution.
Mais même avec deux mois, il y aura de graves et durables préjudices de santé, mentale ou pas.
La vérité et le point sur ce choix, on le fera en temps utile, dans quelques années.
Pour le moment, il est trop tôt.
Rendez-vous dans quelques années pour faire le bilan alors. Ce qui serait passionnant ce serait de faire un bilan comparatif avec d'autres politiques par exemple laisser l'épidémie se répandre à son gré. Mais comme nous ne pouvons pas mener de front des réalités parallèles, nous n'aurons qu'un unique bilan, isolé.
Tu vois, je suis en train de songer que si je n'avais pas été confinée, j'aurais passé 15 jours ou 3 semaines à assister à des funérailles matin et après-midi. Je ne sais pas si finalement le confinement, avec la dose d'abstraction qu'il engendre, n'a pas plutot préservé mon équilibre mental.
Catherine
By this, and this only, we have existed. Which is not to be found in our obituaries. (T.S. Eliot)
Rendez-vous dans quelques années pour faire le bilan alors. Ce qui serait passionnant ce serait de faire un bilan comparatif avec d'autres politiques par exemple laisser l'épidémie se répandre à son gré. Mais comme nous ne pouvons pas mener de front des réalités parallèles, nous n'aurons qu'un unique bilan, isolé.
La mise en parallèle avec le recul aura ses limites, mais elle aura quand même un réel intérêt.
Pour le moment, les premières tendances semblent mettre en doute le choix du confinement carcéral, mais c'est à la fin du match...
Ce qui serait passionnant ce serait de faire un bilan comparatif avec d'autres politiques par exemple laisser l'épidémie se répandre à son gré. Mais comme nous ne pouvons pas mener de front des réalités parallèles, nous n'aurons qu'un unique bilan, isolé.
On aura probablement des bribes, quand même , d'idées là dessus, avec des biais aussi:
par exemple les pays européens qui ont commencé par laisser filer la situation comme la GB, la Suède et les Pays Bas, qui on dû assez vite rétropédaler.
Et il y aura l'Afrique, où pratiquement aucun pays n'est en mesure d'appliquer un confinement et d'offrir des soins intensifs, mais où des chiffres plus ou moins précis seront difficiles à obtenir.
Ah il va y en avoir des sujets de thèse.
Surtout, je suppose, que puisque le virus a des effets différents suivant les individus, il a surement des effets différents selon les populations, alors pour faire des mises en parralèlle ça va surement être compliqué.
D'après ce que j'ai entendu, les seuls qui avaient en France la perspective de devoir affronter des mois de confinement étaient les personnes agées.
En France, confiner toute la population est constitutionnel.
Bloquer l'arrêt de toutes les activités autres qu'essentielles est constitutionnel.
Faire reprendre toute le monde sauf les restaurateurs est constitutionnel.
Mais curieusement, déconfiner seulement les jeunes aurait été anticonstitutionnel. Ça fait un peu rigoler, non ?
Bon, le principal, c'est que la question ne se pose pas. Parce qu'il y en a qui auraient eu des surprises...
On verra ça en temps utile, mais les Pays-Bas, par exemple, ont réagi plus tard mais voient déjà depuis plusieurs semaines une baisse des contaminations et des décès.
Même les Etats-Unis semblent être - déjà ? - sur la pente favorable...
A moins que je lise mal, ce qui se peut, j'admets.
Je suis aussi surpris du peu de morts répertoriés en Turquie.
Michel
Ce qui serait passionnant ce serait de faire un bilan comparatif avec d'autres politiques par exemple laisser l'épidémie se répandre à son gré. Mais comme nous ne pouvons pas mener de front des réalités parallèles, nous n'aurons qu'un unique bilan, isolé.
On aura probablement des bribes, quand même , d'idées là dessus, avec des biais aussi:
par exemple les pays européens qui ont commencé par laisser filer la situation comme la GB, la Suède et les Pays Bas, qui on dû assez vite rétropédaler.
Et il y aura l'Afrique, où pratiquement aucun pays n'est en mesure d'appliquer un confinement et d'offrir des soins intensifs, mais où des chiffres plus ou moins précis seront difficiles à obtenir.
Oui ça va fournir matière à noircir beaucoup de papier.
Et les effets différents sur les populations ont déjà commencé à être étudiés en UK, ils ont remarqué une surmortalité selon les origines ethniques:
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-oxfordshire-52292569
The Intensive Care National Audit and Research Centre (ICNARC) found last week that 34% of critically ill coronavirus patients in England, Wales and Northern Ireland were from black or minority ethnic backgrounds.
According to the 2011 Census, just 14% of the UK population is from those backgrounds.
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Patrick—Yangguizi—won’t be returning from his trek in Uganda. His health betrayed him in the mountains.
Like many of you, I laughed until I couldn’t anymore at his travel stories. I met him in Shanghai, then in Istanbul... We scoured restaurants—he was an incredible expert on world cuisines. We relived Korea, China. Always brilliant, so sharp, so funny, so down-to-earth. Being even a little bit his friend was something to be proud of. I think I envied him.
Patrick is still out there, of course...
He found his happiness running across the world. He’s on his path. He never doubted that "the traveler doesn’t even know if he’ll return one day."
Not sure this would’ve suited him, but his departure devastates me.
Alright,
Farewell, you foreign devil. Safe travels.
hello to all travelers with their eyes wide open to the desert...
I’ve always wondered what I was "doing" on this earth. And why my father, who died a few months after I was born—a former youngest French resistance fighter—joined the First Saharan Motorized Company in Atar and spent the rest of his life repairing army engines in Algeria, Mauritania, Senegal, Mali (which didn’t exist under that name back then), Morocco, and finally Algeria, where my mother was born and raised. (Believe me, it’s not "cool" being the child of a soldier in a country occupied by France, and even less so the child of a "pied-noir.")
Of course, I never got an answer: the dead don’t talk, and the army doesn’t either.
But here’s the thing—I had photos...
So naturally, one day I hit the road. I wanted to see, to understand.
It’s thanks to VF that I was able to do a little research on crossing the Morocco-Mauritania border, and I’m grateful to its members, just as I’m grateful to all those who welcomed me on the road for 14 years.
For the past few weeks, I’ve been wondering if I should talk about this or not...
It turns out the Mauritanians changed my life by asking for my help... And that started as early as February 2012... (Did I owe them something? No answer to that question.)
Ah, the irony—they saw me coming. But when you’re handed sick children and begged to do something, what would you have done? I’d worked in a hospital, so I knew a bit about the rules to follow. I didn’t hesitate.
And well, over all these years, I met doctors, surgeons, and together we organized care, evacuations of children, training for surgeons—even trying to stop children from having to travel outside their country. It was never easy. I’d like to thank those who supported us, as well as *La Chaîne de l’Espoir*, *La Fondation Face au Monde*, and everyone who built bridges between our two countries.
Unfortunately, despite the constant efforts of Mauritanian doctors and surgeons, some children couldn’t be helped in time. Today, I want to talk about four siblings—orphans of their mother—suffering from congenital glaucoma causing irreversible blindness. Their case was entrusted to me in 2020, just weeks before the big lockdown. We couldn’t do anything for them then, but when their father asked me for a gift, I rushed to my computer and wrote a story.
Through a tale, the children take a great journey, explore their country, and fulfill a dream. I never thought this book would be published—it was, in 2023.
This book pays tribute to Mauritania. It’s a message for those who know nothing about the hardships of life there, carrying both the harshness and beauty of an immense desert where you can travel by 4x4, bike, on foot, or by camel in complete safety. It bears witness to the kindness of Mauritanians toward travelers.
As a woman traveling alone in my vehicle—a now-rusted old Mercedes that no longer runs—I had the most beautiful encounters of my life there (I’ve seen other parts of the world...). The blind children of Choum, Atar, Nouadhibou, and Nouakchott will forever be in my heart.
Volunteer readers transcribed the book into a free audio version for the visually impaired. It’s available in sound libraries in France, the *Fondation Valentin Haüy*, and the Swiss Romande library.
I made my last trip to Mauritania in my old 4x4 to distribute the book everywhere, especially to its heroes and the school for the visually impaired in Nouakchott.
After that, I thought it was time to close the chapter because I no longer have the means or the strength to travel.
My publishers chose this title for it: *The Blue Eyes of the Desert*.
This publication helped a mission of Swiss volunteer ophthalmologists come to operate on glaucomas in Mauritania. I’m thrilled because they come back every year!
This adventure is ending, yes—everything must come to an end—but ultimately, it was born here, on the VF site!! So yes, I had to say it: THANK YOU!!!!!
Hi everyone,
I’m Loulou, a French expat who’s been living in Southeast Asia for about fifteen years, currently in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. A passionate walker at heart, I’ve trekked in Nepal (Thorung La, Mardi Himal), India, Vietnam, and I’m still planning new hikes (Char Dham, Langtang, Annapurna).
I’ve just published my first travel journal, recounting three months of walking and encounters across India. A portion of the sales goes to an educational center I support in Kep, for children whose parents work in the salt marshes.
I’m also working on a second book about Nepal with a musician friend, focusing on the Mardi Himal trek—two independent perspectives on the same journey.
Happy to swap stories with you about the Himalayas, India, Southeast Asia, or just the urge to hit the road and walk far from home.
Safe travels,
Loulou
Hi! It was totally by chance that I stumbled upon VoyageForum (an ad online and a story lol), and I’ve been reading some really old posts from 2011 about Thai massage schools—discussions on how to get by, accommodation, prices, etc. It reminded me of my own experience: I kept things simple by staying with a local family during my entire trip. I only shared all the expenses with them, which, I’ll admit, was super cheap… and I often traveled with them, which naturally opened a lot of doors for me. To start, at the school in Salaya, my Thai friend immediately connected me with Teacher Phong (the school’s mentor and teacher of teachers, a former monk). I was supposed to join a group session with other foreigners, but for some reason I don’t know, I got two days of private lessons for free with this expert… incredible! And on top of that, he loved France! It was an amazing experience. I "discovered" massage by chance—the Thai family just told me: "Try it, you’ll see!" (I’d had a pretty intense massage in the capital before 😅… but the next day, I felt unbelievably great!))
Every morning, I’d take a taxi (chosen by the Thai family at prices that beat all the competition) to this school—I’ve forgotten the name of the little village now… right in the heart of the countryside. Then, in the evenings, I’d keep practicing massage on all the family members… and they’d teach me Thai at the same time!))
Since then, I’ve practiced a bit, with lots of positive feedback. Following Teacher Phong’s advice—he thought my pressure was deep, firm, and precise—he strongly encouraged me to take this seriously.
I love Thailand so much. It’s a whole different way of living… and it’s a real blessing, even if I couldn’t live there full-time. Anyway, that was an unforgettable memory, and sometimes the Thai family and I still say hi—from 2011, 2013… right up to today!
"It seems to me that poverty would be less painful in the sun" wrote Aznavour...
Not sure...😕 Who can prove that people in hot countries are happier than others?
What do you think?
Is it better to live in Montpellier than in Lille?
Are the Pygmies happier than the Inuit?
Are Canadians less happy than the people of Louisiana?
Are there more French expats in hot countries?
And your travels? Do you choose your destinations based on the climate?
Do you rejoice when a bit of sunshine appears?
Hi everyone, just this once I’m not posting for a travel story, but to share a thought for Venezuela.
If you didn’t know—since it’s not making headlines—the country was hit by two 7.5-magnitude earthquakes last week. Over 2,200 people have died, more than 50,000 are missing, and some coastal towns have been completely destroyed.
Maybe when the scale of the humanitarian crisis becomes clear, our media will cover it a bit more... especially since earthquakes with this many casualties usually make the front page, but there’s been nothing in France.
So here’s a thought for this country, which, whatever you think of its politics, is a true jewel of South America, both for its landscapes and its people.
hi there
I’d like to invite you to discover my coastal province in central Vietnam: Quang Ngai.
This year, my province has really improved its infrastructure—mountains, countryside, and sea are all authentic here.
No harassers or thieves, and no Russians either.
A local lunch costs around 1 €.
A *** hotel room is about 25 €, and you can find hotels right on My Khe Beach.
We have a specialty: *banh xeo*—10 crepes for just 1.5 €.
You can rent motorbikes to explore the province and maybe visit the many ethnic minorities.
I live here—I’m not selling anything, but I can help if needed (my father-in-law is a traditional Vietnamese doctor and he’s very skilled).
Hi everyone! 😉
I’m Typhaine, 35 years old. Five years ago, I left France for a solo round-the-world trip—no planes, just a van, hitchhiking, cycling, and even a canoe in the Amazon! Today, I work as a naturalist guide in Argentine Patagonia.
Wherever I go, my compass stays the same: observing and photographing wildlife, which I deeply admire and respect.
My project: I’d love to share this experience through a sustainable, authentic, and immersive nature tourism initiative. But to build something meaningful, I need to understand how other nature enthusiasts experience their own adventures.
If you:
Are over 20 years old
Have a true passion for Nature
Have already taken at least one trip lasting more than 3 nights (in your country or abroad) in your life
Promise: I’m not selling anything, this isn’t marketing. Your answers are 100% anonymous and will only help me shape this wild project.
A huge thank you to everyone for your help and kindness! Looking forward to chatting in this thread 😛
(Dear admins, this is purely a collaborative effort for my project study, with no commercial purpose. Thank you so much for your support!)
Photo: Grizzly Bear (Ursus arctos horribilis), female on the left and her cub on the right. Photo taken by me in Alaska, Denali National Park.
It’s something we often notice in this forum—and many others—this behavioral shift.
A long-time member, or even a new one, asks a question.
They get one or more answers, some brief, some detailed, and then... nothing???
Not even a simple thank you!!!
From what I’ve gathered, if the answers don’t align with what they wanted to hear, it seems natural for the asker to just disappear!! 😕
Unless—(and I fear this is the case)—basic politeness is no longer part of our society????
I spent 3 weeks in Bali last summer (+ 3 nights on Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java). So I wanted to see what ChatGPT could suggest for comparison...
Here’s the prompt I gave:
"You’re a local expert guide for Bali.
- Plan a 20-day itinerary for Bali with a side trip to Gili Meno and a day trip to Kawah Ijen in Java without staying overnight.
- I’m traveling with my wife, and I love visiting historical sites, hiking, relaxing at the beach, snorkeling, and exploring rice terraces...
- For the duration of the stay, I don’t want more than 8 places to sleep, and I’d like to stay at least 2 days at each stop to avoid unpacking too often. Except for the last night, where I’m okay with just one night near the airport.
- I prefer neighborhoods that are walkable and try to avoid typical tourist traps, though I don’t want to miss the must-see spots. So suggest a mix of iconic sites and hidden gems.
- Recommend hotels or guesthouses with a budget of 50 to 100 € per night, including breakfast. Make suggestions in areas popular with travelers, specifying the vibe (I prefer quiet), and consider safety and proximity to attractions.
- For lunch and dinner, suggest two to three restaurants that are well-rated by customers.
- Give me a day-by-day program with details on travel times, visiting times for each point of interest, and recommendations for transportation (taxi, train, bike, etc.).
Estimate the total cost of the trip, including accommodations, food, transportation, and activities, and suggest two tips for saving money in each category.
- Don’t make anything up—be realistic about travel times, take into account the opening dates and hours of sites, and give me the entry fees for places to visit.
- Ask me all the questions until you’re 95% sure you understand what’s being asked. Don’t generate your response until you’ve understood."
The AI asked for a few clarifications:
"Great request—I can build you a really optimized and enjoyable itinerary, but to be 95% sure I hit the mark, I need a few key clarifications (this will really influence the pace, areas, and accommodations)."
In the end, it proposed a program very close to what we actually did.
I’ll skip its accommodation and restaurant suggestions...
Its proposal:
"Ubud (4 nights) => we did 5 nights
Sidemen (2 nights)
Amed (3 nights) => we’d planned 2 nights
Gili Meno (3 nights) => we did Gili between Sidemen and Amed
Munduk (3 nights) => we did 2 nights before Pemuteran
Pemuteran (3 nights) with Ijen => we did 4 nights
Sanur (2 nights + 1 last night) => we chose Jatiluwih instead of Sanur
It suggested "activities" (and accommodations too):
IN UBUD:
- Walk around central Ubud (1–2h)
- Campuhan Ridge Walk
- Tegalalang Rice Terrace
- Tirta Empul
- Gunung Kawi
- Massage / market / slow café
IN SIDEMEN:
- Rice terrace hike (2–3h)
- Cooking class
IN AMED:
- Snorkeling
- Japanese Shipwreck
- Beach + relaxation
- Volcano sunset
ON GILI:
- Snorkeling at Gili Meno Turtle Point, Nest Underwater Statues
IN MUNDUK:
- Jungle & waterfall hike - Munduk Waterfall + Melanting Waterfall
- Loop: 3–4h (perfect for your level)
- Ulun Danu Bratan Temple
- Twin Lakes
IN PEMUTERAN
- Snorkeling: Menjangan Island
For Kawah Ijen, it detailed the day well:
👍 from Pemuteran = best possible option
12 PM: leave hotel (we left at 10 PM)
1 PM: ferry
3 PM: arrival in Java + transfer
11 PM: start ascent
2 AM–6 AM: volcano
Return to Bali around 11 AM–12 PM (we got back at 4 PM)
👍 still very intense, but doable with an agency
💰 ~80–120 €/person all-inclusive
IN SANUR:
- Relaxation
- Quiet beach
- Proximity to airport (30 min)"
I’ve kept the habit of blowing my nose in the sink and then washing my hands—a custom I picked up in India. Sometimes, non-travelers are shocked when they catch me in the act... 🤪
Also, when I run out of toilet paper, it doesn’t bother me—unless I’ve got company over... 🤪
Just got back from walking a friend’s dog (while they’re on vacation), wearing a djellaba and Tibetan boots... 😏😏😏 Oh, for sure, if I’d run into locals, I probably would’ve shocked them? 😏
Anyway, as long as I’m not spitting on the floor at a restaurant or squatting on the side of a highway with a water bottle in hand...
After taking a little trip around the world, I came back a few months ago with an idea in mind.
I mostly do diving, and I love observing animals in their natural habitat without disturbing them.
During the trip, I realized it was quite complicated to know where and when to see certain species.
For example:
where to dive with sharks or manta rays
where you might get a chance to swim with whales
I even discovered thresher sharks during my trip… I didn’t even know this species existed before, even though they’re incredible to see.
We spent a ton of time searching for info all over the place, especially on social media, without ever getting a clear picture.
So I started putting all this together on my own, in the form of a map, to make it easier to visualize where to go depending on the seasons.
I recently put a first version online (it’s called Fauneya).
There are probably mistakes, inconsistencies, or things to improve, and that’s partly why I’m posting here.
I’d really love to know how you all go about planning this kind of trip.
As part of my Master’s thesis, I’m currently conducting a public survey on a topic that concerns all of us when planning a trip: artificial intelligence and the role of human contact in travel planning.
These days, we’re using more and more digital tools to find ideas, compare options, and book trips... but is the role of human advisors still essential? At what moments? And for what types of trips?
The survey is anonymous and takes about 7 minutes.
It’s aimed at anyone who travels (or has traveled) for leisure, whether you plan everything yourself or go through an agency.
While browsing the forum to gather info for my upcoming trip to Thailand, I often see the terms "traveler," "great traveler," and also "tourist"—so what’s the nuance for you?
I've traveled quite a bit in Vietnam over the past few years—from the southern delta to bustling cities and even some small islands—but what really sticks with me is the north, the high mountains.
Up there, there's something different—maybe slower, more raw. The morning markets with ethnic groups, women in traditional clothes, the colors...
The stilt houses, kids following you and laughing for no reason, the terraced rice fields—it almost feels unreal at times, so vast and quiet, yet so human and simple.
You often hear that Sapa has become too touristy, and that's partly true, especially in the center. But as soon as you move a little farther away, everything changes quickly. The landscapes open up, encounters feel more natural, and you rediscover something truly authentic.
I think it's that contrast that struck me—the difference between what you imagine before going and what you actually discover when you take the time.
And you—what memory do you hold onto from Vietnam? A particular place that touched you more than others?
Hello,
We’re finalizing the plans for our upcoming trip to China in May 2025. The second-to-last stop will be in Zhangjiajie, where we’ve planned to stay for 2 full days before heading to Shanghai.
We’re traveling solo using local transport and have arranged to stay in the city of Zhangjiajie.
We’ve seen that there’s a lot to see:
Tianmen Mountain, the Grand Canyon and the glass bridge, Zhangjiajie National Park, and that the sites are quite far apart with fairly expensive entry fees.
We’re thinking of dedicating one day to the national park and the Grand Canyon (glass bridge) and one day to Tianmen Mountain.
But we’re not sure if this plan is realistic—any thoughts would be much appreciated!
I should be serving a warming drink to the participants in the discussion about gardens and parks that provide us with beautiful photos, I could mention the delicious buttery scent wafting from bakeries in the thread about returning to France, but my heart, its powerful pulse that nourishes my entire being, is elsewhere.
Dasht-e Lut, Yazd, Esfahan, Bam, Kerman, Qeshm, Hormuz—a melody, a prayer at the heart of desire.
A dream, an unattainable fantasy? No. Not anymore.
A very serious Italian travel agency is organizing this trip for 6 people this winter. I’m signed up, I’m going, I’m living. Maybe.
"But you’re completely crazy!!!!"
I know... I know that every civilization, every society has a vital need to create scapegoats to define and justify itself, pathetically. And Iran is one of them, top of the list. I laugh or sigh, and it doesn’t bother me.
But that unchanging red, deep red and garnet, so beautiful in itself, in all the Western chancelleries repeats, whispers, shouts: don’t go, don’t go, don’t go, you’re putting yourself in danger and we can’t do anything for you. You’ll be turned into mere bargaining chips, into arguments for endless negotiations. Fear must be instilled, its power absolutely preserved, no concessions made to the enemy. The information (how many French hostages, real or fake, compared to the number of travelers?) is always lacking.
Traveling becomes a merciless confrontation between desire, the vital pulse, and anxiety, its ghosts.
Hi everyone, here’s our itinerary. Arriving on the evening of December 13th. Departing on January 7th.
Thanks in advance for your tips and valuable feedback.
Manila – 1 night
Coron – 4 nights
Coron to El Nido cruise – 2 nights
El Nido – 4 nights
Port Barton – 5 nights
Flight from Puerto Princesa to Vigan
Vigan – 2 nights
Sagada – 2 nights
Banaue – 2 nights
Bagabag – 1 night
Manila – 1 night
I’ve only booked the flight to Manila and the Manila/Coron flight so far. Is it possible to book boat trips, accommodations, and the Puerto Princesa flight last-minute?
Really disappointed with Costa Rica! Pura vida? The scam of the century!
(Costa Rica pure emptiness).
The country where animals are free and people are in cages.
3 weeks in December in this country and never again. Imagine the trailer of a movie that seems interesting, and when you go see it, you realize it’s a flop and the best moments were in the trailer.
Well, that’s exactly how we felt with Costa Rica pure emptiness.
My wife and I have traveled quite a bit and didn’t expect to be so wrong about a place.
On the main routes, we visited:
San José
Alajuela
Limón, Cahuita, Puerto Viejo, Manzanillo (Caribbean side)
Jaco, Quepos, Manuel Antonio (Pacific side)
And a few short stops in intermediate towns.
Our dissatisfaction grew gradually like this:
When we arrived at the hotel, the taxi dropped us off on a small street in front of a white metal gate with ground-floor windows barred. We looked at it skeptically, but the sign matched.
He approached the gate, rang the bell, the buzzer sounded, and the door opened slightly. The hotel wasn’t bad for the price, a 10-minute walk from downtown, but with a "Fleury-Mérogis" vibe guaranteed.
So far, so good.
After showering and regaining our bearings, we headed downtown.
What started to unsettle us on the way was seeing houses with bars on the ground-floor windows and even on the second floor.
At first, we thought the hotel’s neighborhood wasn’t great.
Downtown San José:
It’s a generic city, not very exotic, with a pedestrian street and a small mercado where you can eat local food without frills. Very few tourists—if any—which let you blend in with the locals. We had lunch and struggled to make ourselves understood because, aside from one or two shops, English wasn’t spoken.
On the way back to the hotel, we took a different route, and while chatting and strolling, my wife pointed out a beautiful two-story white house completely barricaded like Fort Knox.
From that moment, we started noticing the facades of houses and buildings, and wow, it was creepy—most looked like prisons, some even with barbed wire.
Though put off, we told ourselves it was probably a big-city thing and the rest of the country couldn’t be like this.
So far, so good.
We relaxed at the hotel and had a drink at the bar. Night falls early, around 5:30 PM. By 7:30 PM, we headed back downtown for dinner. A bit unsettling for a capital—downtown was almost deserted, and aside from fast-food chains, very few restaurants were open, with hardly anyone on the streets.
Bars with security guards out front.
I won’t say we felt unsafe that night, but once it got dark, we realized the bars on the windows weren’t for nothing. First day in, and our impression was already mixed.
The next day, we explored the city and surroundings, and our feelings didn’t change.
So far, so good.
Off to Cahuita by bus—4 hours of travel.
The landscapes are very green but quickly become monotonous. The road runs alongside the forest and passes through a few towns and villages, and even in the countryside, there were just as many prison-like houses.
The bus dropped us off at Cahuita’s terminal station—only four of us got off. It’s a village, or rather, a small town. Cahuita is basically one straight road and a perpendicular one, and honestly, doubt started to creep in.
A few restaurants that add 13% tax and 10% service charge—so 23% extra. We dropped our stuff at the hotel and went to explore. In 20 minutes, we’d seen it all. We had lunch and planned to check out the famous park.
Entry is by donation—well, the "entry" is a joke. There’s a path along the forest by the sea, and that’s it.
Nothing’s going right anymore.
We thought it was a total scam, but since we hadn’t gone far, we decided to come back the next day to explore further.
We returned to the hotel, relaxed, and around 8:00 PM, we went out for dinner. Only two restaurants were open, and the streets were deserted.
Creepy!
The next day, we explored the so-called park more thoroughly and really got it.
A path along the forest by the sea—2 hours there and 2 hours back, where you see animals that feel like showing their faces.
A total joke—"all that for this?"
The beach was full of wood debris and coconut husks. We wondered if the photos online were edited because the sea, very rough, wasn’t the azure blue we’d seen in pictures.
But calling this a park is a joke—it’s like a new concept.
When we thought about the reviews online, we started to suspect that professionals with interests in the country were monitoring and countering any negative feedback that could harm their business.
Too bad we didn’t check the negative reviews beforehand—we did while we were there, and it helped. We wondered if we’d become too demanding after all our travels, but no—when something’s bad, it’s bad.
Manuel Antonio’s park is even more ridiculous—there’s a short path along the sea for about 500 meters, and then nothing. You have to climb through mud and hack your way through the forest. We ended up barefoot because the mud was up to our calves. All that to see a raccoon and a few parrots flying overhead.
We didn’t expect Noah’s Ark, but we’ve seen more animals in Bali, Mexico, and Thailand while visiting temples or just walking around than in these so-called parks!
Puerto Viejo, not far from Cahuita and supposedly livelier—well, it couldn’t be worse!
According to Lonely Planet, it had a Caribbean vibe and wild nights, but maybe that was a long time ago. The good reggae music playing everywhere isn’t enough.
In the evening, Puerto Viejo was a bit livelier than Cahuita, but that’s not saying much. Very few tourists—if any—no night market, just two or three shops open selling $20 T-shirts. Same vibe as San José.
No big deal—we enjoyed the beach and the sun, which was reliable.
Our itinerary was supposed to include Tortuguero Park, but after talking to other travelers who’d just been, we changed our minds, knowing we’d be visiting Manuel Antonio Park on the Pacific side.
To get back to the Pacific side, you have to take the bus and go through San José again—5 hours this time—then switch bus terminals and another 4.5 hours to Quepos.
A stopover town to get to Manuel Antonio’s beach and park!
A town just like the others we’d seen—deserted as soon as the sun sets, and not exactly bustling during the day either. (Where are all the tourists?)
Still as many bars on the windows and that feeling of being in the wrong place.
7 km later: Manuel Antonio beach and park.
The beach is very beautiful and quite large, but don’t expect turquoise blue water—the waves stir up the sand, giving the water a brownish color.
Along the beach, shops and restaurants for about 300 meters, and then nothing. At night, after sunset, the town shuts down too.
Manuel Antonio Park is highly praised for its wildlife, so we were eager to see it. When you express dissatisfaction with Cahuita or Manzanillo parks, the response is always, "But you should’ve gone to Monteverde or Manuel Antonio!" No matter what you do or say, they’ll tell you, "You should’ve gone there or here."
Back to our famous park—entry was about $16, and contrary to what we’d heard, it wasn’t crowded!
Guides at the entrance with spotting scopes offered their services for about $30.
The park: a mix of boardwalk and dirt paths through the forest, sometimes running alongside beautiful coves and beaches.
As soon as we entered, a crowd was taking photos of a deer eating leaves.
A little further on, a guide with a group of five stopped. The guide raised his arm and set up his spotting scope! He showed them, about 100 meters away, a hummingbird perched on a branch. Some, looking through the scope, exclaimed, "Oh my God! Amazing! Incredible!"
For a moment, we thought they’d discovered a unicorn or were in Jurassic Park and had just crossed paths with a T-Rex!
The concept is comical—looking at a bird or another animal through a spotting scope because it’s too far away. Isn’t that what TV is for?
For our part, we saw monkeys, ants, an armadillo, an iguana, and the backside of a sloth climbing a tree. Amazing, incredible!
We stayed a few days in Manuel Antonio to enjoy the beach, changing hotels often because prices varied wildly from one day to the next for shameful services. On top of that, they’d quote a price in dollars and convert it at their discretion—thieves!
Alajuela, a city near the airport, has a two-story mall and a local market downtown! No interest except its proximity to the airport.
What we liked:
The climate and, in hindsight, San José—the most authentic city we visited.
What we didn’t like, in addition to what we’ve already mentioned:
Costa Ricans aren’t very friendly or communicative. English is barely spoken, not even by doctors at Quepos Hospital, where my wife ended up with food poisoning (thanks, Google Translate). The widespread obesity among Costa Ricans, who eat like Americans. The insecurity. The eco-hipsters who leave their $150 lodges in minivans with guides to visit parks and other sites, then return to barricade themselves in their fortresses at nightfall (oh my God, amazing, incredible). The blue signs at the entrance of towns that accept this payment method: "We accept American Express." Parking lots that become paid just because a guy is watching your car. Prices displayed in dollars. The cost of living (hotels, restaurants, taxes). Landscapes that are too green and not flowery enough. Beaches—nothing exceptional. Pollution in cities where big American trucks rule. Sewage dumped directly into the sea. Aside from the jungle, there’s nothing to visit—no ruins, monuments, or anything worth seeing.
In short, my wife and I think the hype about this supposedly eco-friendly country is overrated. It’s just the trendy destination of the moment. There are much better, cheaper, and more authentic places.
In hindsight, we keep the good memories and our beautiful photos, but if we had to do it over...
Before signing off, a little message to those who don’t like hearing opinions different from theirs:
Well, some things aren’t up for debate. And to those who’d have us believe that in 3 weeks, we don’t have the right to criticize a country or express our feelings—how can you praise it in so little time? What a scam. Costa Rica is a money pit. Pura vida? Pure cosmic emptiness.
If you like spending your evenings barricaded in your cozy hotel after dark, this country is for you.
For everyone else: run!
Hello,
Since the war between Russia and Ukraine, nothing is simple anymore for traveling to Belarus due to sanctions.
No more direct flights from the EU to Minsk.
Driving is a huge hassle, especially crossing through Poland at the only open border in Brest—you can wait 2, 3, or even 4 days just to get through by car.
The least painful driving option is to come via Lithuania and cross at the only open border, with a minimum wait time of 8 hours, sometimes up to 20 hours or more!!
Controls are very strict and annoying on both the Lithuanian and Belarusian sides. Avoid bringing alcohol, food, or cigarettes—everything will end up in the trash, especially when leaving Belarus for Vilnius, where the Lithuanians are tough, even with EU citizens.
The joy I once knew when visiting my wife in Minsk is sadly over—it’s now a real ordeal.
The fastest solution is to fly. My wife travels to France by taking a bus to Kaunas in Lithuania, where you can catch a flight (though not daily) to Paris Beauvais or Charleroi in Belgium with Ryanair, for example.
For the return trip, it’s the same: a flight to Kaunas and then a direct bus from the airport to Minsk.
The bus crossing is quicker than driving—the 250 km journey, including border checks, takes about 6 to 8 hours for buses leaving Lithuania around midnight, but controls are still strict at the border.
The biggest challenge is finding flight schedules that align with the bus routes between the two countries, given the unpredictable border crossing times.
Now, my wife travels via Charleroi in Belgium (near Brussels), and you can take a train to Paris. Alternatively, you can fly into Beauvais and take a bus to Paris (Porte Maillot).
For those driving, note that EU insurance and assistance policies no longer work in Belarus or Russia. You’ll need to get local insurance, usually limited to third-party liability (I don’t think full coverage exists?), as well as mandatory medical insurance. This is available at the border.
You now have to pay highway tolls—no more BELTOLL boxes. Instead, you pay a flat fee for the duration of your stay. Stop at the first gas station after crossing from Lithuania to fill up on fuel and cigarettes.
From what I know, Lithuania bans carrying more than 60 € in cash, but there’s no limit for USD (though it’s capped at $10,000??).
With a Visa card, you can now withdraw 1,000 rubles per week (about 270 €)—two months ago, it was only 500 rubles!!
For now, you can still pay by card in shops and gas stations.
However, major retailers like KORONA (which may be Russian-owned??) no longer accept foreign Visa cards.
Unfortunately, the additional sanctions announced by the U.S. on August 5, 2025, against Russia—and possibly Belarus—aren’t promising for the future.
After 20 years of visiting Belarus, I’m truly saddened to see the joy of living in this country with my wonderful wife turn into such a bleak situation, all because of human folly.
Hi everyone!
I’m putting together our travel itinerary for Veneto at the end of April. And the more I look and research potential sites to visit, the more I find!
We’ll only be there for a week—my family and I—including 3 days in Venice. So we have to make some choices...
I plan to rent a car when we arrive in Venice and head straight to Bergamo, which would be our first stop. We’d leave the car at the airport when we return to Venice so we can explore the city at our leisure.
What do you think:
1 night in Bergamo (a 2h15 drive from Venice airport),
1 night in Garda,
1 night in Verona,
1 in Padua, and
3 in Venice—would that be doable?
Thanks in advance for your tips and experiences! :)
Now that the curtain has fallen on the past year, it’s time to see what’s happening around here.
It seems pretty quiet, but I’ll read more in detail later.
First, I need to tell you all an anecdote.
My eldest little girl, in her third year of law school, was really scared she wouldn’t pass the year.
I told her:
“Trust yourself, you’ve worked so hard, and worst case, if you fail, you’ll just redo the year.”
“But I don’t think I’ll make it—they changed the rules, and if I mess up even one unit, I have to start all over.”
I knew her grades weren’t exactly stellar, and with what I was about to say, I wasn’t taking much of a risk.
“Here’s the deal, sweetheart: if you pass, I promise I’ll take you to India, just the two of us.”
I have to admit, India is a country I’ve talked about so much to all my grandchildren that in their minds, it’s become a magical, mythical place (hmm).
July had barely begun when my phone rang, her name flashing on the screen.
“Mamido, I did it!”
My promise came rushing back—oh no, oh no, oh no!
“Congratulations, sweetheart!”
A little shyly, she said:
“Is the India trip still on?”
And me, replying:
“Of course it is!”
And that’s that—a promise is a promise, or you risk losing that precious trust that keeps hearts warm and at peace.
We’re leaving in February. Only 8 days—yikes, the carbon footprint!
But we can’t miss her tutorials, or she’ll be kicked out.
Personally, that works just fine for me.
Going to India has become a challenge for me. It’s far, it’s exhausting, I sweat, I hate mosquitoes, the spices bother my mouth when I used to love them. There’s noise all the time—at night, the dogs bark nonstop, and we almost get run over. I’ll get lost in the streets because my sense of direction has vanished. I don’t like rice anymore. All that chaos and those cultural differences that once enchanted me now just overwhelm me.
But I promised.
The upside—and it’s a big one—Raman, the same driver I’ve had forever, will be at the airport with a sign with our names. We’ll stop at the same little shop for chai (or tea, plain and simple) with that aroma that intoxicates me, halfway through the trip.
It’ll be a tiny trip—staying with friends, I’ll show her a few places I love: Chidambaram, Mamallapuram, and the clinic where I worked. Then we’ll head back.
My little girl will go home to her parents.
As for me, I’ll leave right away for our Scottish island with Homme for our chilly winter.
How can you love a country so much you want to live there, then suddenly reject it, no longer able to appreciate what once made it special?
That’s the mystery of love, I guess.
I’ve visited the U.S. four times myself, including two long road trips. The last one was just this past August...
I won’t be going back. I already felt guilty last August, but recent policies have finally convinced me: the humiliation of Zelensky, authoritarian excesses, Gestapo-like methods for detaining people of foreign origin, the murder of innocent people (a mother shot dead), corruption, insane "tariffs," skyrocketing healthcare costs for Americans, the abduction of foreign figures to secure oil, the requirement to disclose social media accounts, and now... threats and blackmail to forcibly take Greenland—a region that belongs to Denmark and thus the European Union!
The reality is that simply posting this could get me denied entry to the U.S.!
In this context, I just can’t keep spending money there. I loved my trips, but there are so many other countries with stunning landscapes to explore.
So I get why you’d want to travel there. I did, and I loved it. But once a country no longer respects any of the values that made us love it, why go?
How can we even consider traveling to a country that threatens to take one of our territories by force?
Hello everyone,
Controversial topic? Not necessarily—maybe just a reflection on a world to come.
I spent the last 15 days of August on a cruise in Greenland, from Kangerlussuaq to Tasiilaq.
I was utterly amazed by this unique world of rock and ice, the little houses in every color, a simple life that’s also complicated by isolation and climate, among other things...
I carry in my heart the kindness of the people I met, the raw and gentle majesty of the icebergs, the colors of the sky...
So, I can’t even imagine a massive presence of raw material prospectors, heavy machinery requiring roads to be built—if that’s even possible—changing their way of life... putting sled dogs out to pasture!
Do fast food and Greenland’s northern lights really mix?
I wouldn’t trade my memories for an ESTA!
All opinions are respectable, which is why this isn’t a controversy—but I’m sorry, I have a soft spot for *my* Greenland.
We’re a couple aged 58 and 63. We’ve just returned from a wonderful trip to South India in Tamil Nadu and a few days in Kerala. We traveled with a local French-speaking guide and his friend, the driver. They both live in Pondicherry. We spent 3 weeks with them in the most authentic way!
We covered just over 2,500 km and visited not only temples but also archaeological sites, museums, and small artisanal businesses making tiles, tea, sculptures, bronze, and silk spinning. We were lucky enough to visit a public school, attend a wedding, and even a death announcement in a small countryside village. We were fully immersed in the culture, food, noise, and colors—it was incredible!
The hotels and guesthouses we chose were very clean and mostly quiet. We’re returning from India with amazing discoveries!
We’re happy to share more info if you’d like!
M-Claire and Jean
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